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| 1 | Fellas, is it discriminatory for women to experience attraction? DiscussThe problem as most men perceive it is that men find all kinds of women attractive physically, like a wide range. Women on the other hand do not when it comes to what is considered physically attractive in a conventional sense. Preferences also change for women as they age, but when they are young they don’t settle unless it’s the best they can get. Then that can get ugly because the best guy physically that will have sex with them is very different than the best guy physically that will commit … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.Why are they lonely? That depends on your definition. Is lonely a relationship status or a mental state? I think you are assuming marriage is important to all men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.I don’t really listen to anyone but Orion Taraban anymore cause he’s spot on about pretty much everything, to the point that you have to be careful cause it can make you cynical about relationships at all. Nobody is 100% right and I think he for sure focuses on helping young men figure out young women but he covers so many things. And he’s not married. He claims he has no interest in being married either or needs the government involved in a contract between him and a woman. He also claims he’s … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.You certainly don’t know all of that. Yeah there are definitely redpill loser influencers but there are also prominent psychologists and successful happy men that many women like yourself would consider redpill too. Yeah men should be careful who they are listening to and if it’s just a bitter man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.That’s not just what you said. You insinuated that men who listen to redpill content creators in this case “can’t think for themselves”. Ironically the reason men consume redpill content is because they actually are thinking for themselves and are trying to seek answers for why the things they’ve been told by their grandmas and mothers don’t seem to matter to women they are interested in dating and getting in relationships with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.😂 Your parents, your teachers, your preachers, your cousins, your aunt, your friends, your internet connection, your social media, your cosmopolitan magazines, your tv commercials you watch…all of this has taught you how to think and has influenced you in countless ways consciously and unconsciously and you would be foolish to think otherwise. Yes you have to think for yourself and guard yourself against accepting everything you hear, but it’s comical that you think a large portion of your life … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.You are correct that my dad didn’t have a clue. That’s why a dad or male mentor who does is invaluable to a young man. That’s why redpill content is so popular today. Redpill is not 100% correct. For anyone reading this that wants good advice, look up “Orion Taraban” on YouTube. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 06:27 PM |
| 6 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.That’s actually extremely unfortunate. Less about sex and more about how to date women and be attractive to the opposite sex, which is a huge issue for many teens who struggle with their identities. I wish I was better with women and understood more than I did cause you truly learn so much about yourself through relationships and it would have done wonders for my self esteem as a teen and young adult if I could have known how to attract women and had a high enough self-esteem to withstand reject… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 06:05 PM |
| 4 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.What? I’m talking about men trying to date women and getting (at best) trivial advice and suppositions about how they are perfect just the way they are and how it is well meaning but not very helpful in a practical sense. I’m not sure what you are commenting about but I was not talking about advice given to daughters at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 06:01 PM |
| 5 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.Given to them by their grandmothers and mothers ironically. Turns out fish don’t know how to fish for fish only fishermen do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.Yes porn is a harmful coping mechanism for believing a lie beforehand that told the guy he’s special because his parents and grandma said so. This is one of the things redpill does 90% correct in saying that no guy is special. The wrong 10% is that redpill doesn’t do a good enough job of teaching both men and women are both UNIQUE and REPLACEABLE no matter how rich or beautiful you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 03:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most guys don’t fail in dating because of looks or status.. They fail because they don’t understand banter.It’s not that deep it’s just an important reminder. I do think banter can make you look better though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 09:24 PM |
| – | Sex robots are imminentLike that hasn’t already happened with porn, social media, and dating apps lol. I don’t know if I agree with OP, but I do agree that women highly value attention from men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Sex robots are imminentIs this why Alexander The Great had sex with women only for procreation and men for pleasure? lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 09:10 PM |
| 4 | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?Beautiful comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 01:47 AM |
| 2 | Nightclubs are never coming backI went to clubs in my 20’s and none of us ever did any drugs besides drinking lol. I’m not sure if most people are doing drugs at these places but it’s been over 10 years now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 11:49 PM |
| 35 | Nightclubs are never coming backIf you are able to travel around the world going to music festivals you likely are not the average person the law of averages applies too. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Most men should stay away from pursuing/going after Older women.In some ways probably. In other ways I’m not though. I have 7 inch hands (only 3-4% of men worldwide have as small of hands as I do) and am 5’7 inches tall. I am white so a lot of people think that automatically makes me attractive which really isn’t true. I never thought I was bad looking just ha I was always less than ideal due to the above and having some negative comments about my penis size by a mad ex and not changing my baseball cup in 8th grade to a size that better fit me and a jealous … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Most men should stay away from pursuing/going after Older women.This is such a weird post, however I’m not longer 20 something and just turned 36. When I was in my late 20’s I was pretty much with women 40-60 lol. But it was never serious despite most wanting more with me when it came down to it. It sucks cause although my attraction was high to older women due to some good and bad reasons I did want a family and for my woman to be socially accepted by my family and friends. The only thing I agree with OP is your stance on many love to older women, it is rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 10:03 PM |
| – | What is your advice for hypergamous men?To add to this, you would need to convince other rich women in a social setting where all of you repeatedly visit that you are desirable to the women there as many times as needed till one takes a chance on locking you down to get praise from the other women there. Call it “Sexual Renown”. Doesn’t mean you have to sleep with any of them before you get voluntarily “locked down” btw. In fact sleeping around too much might get you a bad rap as a non-serious playboy and hurt your chances of a rich w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 02:19 AM |
| – | What is your advice for hypergamous men?Did your sister come out of an asteroid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Dating for Women is Not Like Looking for Clean Water in a Swamp; Rather, it is Like Looking for Healthy Food in a Grocery StoreWomen are just trying to catch rare pokemon. And if rarity isn’t enough now it’s shiny pokemon too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 08:08 PM |
| 1 | "Males with a larger penis were rated as being relatively more attractive."Bro if you are frequenting bathhouses or strip clubs and such then obviously the women (and men apparently) are quite the different target audience than the average woman. You live in a different world. And I’m not saying you can’t or don’t bag normal women who happen to come across you, but your opinion isn’t an opinion that can be taken seriously for most people because you live on the fringes. | /r/BlackPillScience | 09/03/26 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Women rate their affair partners as significantly more attractive than their affair partners, while drastically rating them lower as parents.I would wager (and I’m a straight guy) that MORE often than not the affair partner is more sexually attractive in the moment however it is not a necessary condition. I hear about some asshole guys cheating on their pregnant wives for example. That’s pretty sad. It is hard being a guy wanting new partners all the time but it’s no excuse either. Unfortunately we all are slaves to society and our social networks and programming that we need to be married by 30 or whatever. | /r/BlackPillScience | 09/03/26 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Women rate their affair partners as significantly more attractive than their affair partners, while drastically rating them lower as parents.Sex with a new partner is always exciting I think is what the title should read. | /r/BlackPillScience | 09/03/26 02:16 PM |
| 5 | "Males with a larger penis were rated as being relatively more attractive."😂 ok man. You a male stripper or something? Your comment begs context. | /r/BlackPillScience | 04/03/26 10:28 PM |
| 13 | "Males with a larger penis were rated as being relatively more attractive."I think women find large penises erotic, but when it comes down to the act I believe them when they say that there is a thing such as too big where it can hurt. Some women don’t mind that too though. I also think that most women wouldn’t mind trying a large penis at least once just to see how it feels and whether they like it or not, and just to say they’ve tried it. Women definitely different than men but I also think some things are just human nature too. Women have a lot of BS they believe an… | /r/BlackPillScience | 03/03/26 04:42 PM |
| 2 | The Orgasm Gap is real... but it has NOTHING to do with male selfishness.Yeah this isn’t correct at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 03:57 AM |
| 1 | The Orgasm Gap is real... but it has NOTHING to do with male selfishness.I’m a guy that was in my head for most of my 20’s and teens. Had some good experiences with older women and some bad ones, but was able to make women orgasm even when I didn’t really know what I was doing and having intermittent ED issues just because I made them feel comfortable with the way I interacted with them. I’m married for 2 years now and REALLY know what I’m doing. Just a lot of touching and being vocal with your pleasure helps a TON. Women like to hear and feel it. Most guys take a lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 03:55 AM |
| 19 | Women find other women’s faces even more attractive than men doThey are in love with themselves! | /r/BlackPillScience | 28/12/25 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Men are lonely because women are changed.This is regarded. If women started cutting off men’s dicks in their sleep then all the men would throw them in cages once this trend started being noticed. Women will never have the advantage when it comes to physical domination. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Ironically, progressive women are still obsessed with status in menPartner means 50/50. I’m assuming you’re ready to split all bills and casual dining? A special date the man wants to take you on to be romantic is an exception but technically you also should take him out too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 05:14 PM |
| 17 | Ironically, progressive women are still obsessed with status in menWomen value safety, security, and novel experiences so much that they can’t understand that just because they graduated with a college degree and got a decent job that they still might need to struggle to get more of what they claim to want, which is a good strong relationship with a top 10% conventionally and viscerally attractive man who has plenty of options but only wants her and is willing to put in the work to make her feel “special” and forego other more easily achievable sexual opportuni… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Study finds out body count truly matters in both gendersI definitely think a woman having sex with a lot of people in short term or one night stands shows inability to delay pleasure seeking and bad impulse control. A guy who does it likely also has these issues however is also skillful and dominant socially, which doesn’t really mean anything morally different but at least the guy had to somewhat struggle to have what the woman in this scenario just does when she wants without struggle. | /r/BlackPillScience | 01/08/25 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Just Be A White Cat TheoryJust want to say that there are 4 categorizations of truth. I learned this from watching Orion Taraban’s channel Pychhacks on YouTube (highly recommend). 1) truth that is useful 2) truth that is not useful 3) non-truth that is useful 4) non-truth that is not useful I think black pill falls under #2 for this reason. What you’ve identified in this article is absolutely true, and it translates to humans as well in dating. But this truth is not useful to you guys. You can’t live a better life believ… | /r/BlackPillScience | 01/08/25 09:40 PM |
| 1 | For most men, sex is better outside of a relationshipThe man totally has to bring it out in their woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 10:20 PM |
| 9 | Those of you 30+ and are/were single at this age: did you start getting "flooded with attention" the moment you turned 30?Getting a house for yourself is a huge accomplishment and confidence booster. At the very least you are managing house payments and utilities and likely keeping up with your property. Most of all you don’t have to invite a girl over to your parents or a thin-walled apartment. Girls will think that since you’re older you’ll have more shit together by default so it’s a combination of things, but truly having your OWN place (not just being a roommate) is a status symbol especially these days. If yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 05:02 PM |
| 3 | Men obsess over achieving a variety of women, to their own detrimentThis is interesting and honestly the first time I’ve ever heard that empathy is the main reason women don’t cheat in response to that finding. It would certainly seem that women don’t have a lot of empathy when they are younger and single and childless for men they don’t deem attractive however. This likely is the same with men however men find more women attractive than women find men attractive so it’s all very complex! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 01:22 PM |
| 3 | Men obsess over achieving a variety of women, to their own detrimentMOST women won’t cheat if they are happy in a relationship. But relationship happiness is not a factor for men, as men who both cheat and do not cheat report similar levels of marital satisfaction. This is not the case for the majority of women who cheat. This is factual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 12:14 AM |
| 3 | Men obsess over achieving a variety of women, to their own detrimentBe honest, I’m a guy and can acknowledge that a lot of guys cheat just to experience variety too. Familiarity can cause a loss of libido for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 11:15 PM |
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