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Nothing. Move on to other girls. If she later texts me something, I might try again, but if she doesn't, next. I never double text (except on Tinder, where sometimes I try to reignite once).
/r/askTRP18/04/17 09:22 PM
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I generally only text logistics and ask girls out within 1-2 texts.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 09:05 PM
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Thanks for feedback. That's actually my approach, I generally ask girls out within 1-2 texts.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 09:02 PM
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Good stuff, thanks. You mean insurance for the house?
/r/askTRP23/01/17 12:40 AM
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Good stuff. Any idea on how to find (4)? I've used Trunk Club in the past but it's not that great. Wouldn't (5) having a photographer at college parties look try-hard? I've never seen one at a house party. (1) is a good idea; not ready for (2) yet; we pretty much have (3).
/r/askTRP23/01/17 12:39 AM
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I don't do that.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 10:29 AM
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Exactly. I'm in college and it seems to me that girls actually care about that stuff.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 05:37 PM
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Thanks for input! What kind of effects have you seen on people?
/r/askTRP03/01/17 05:34 PM
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I use a bot on Instagram and other networks that redirects women to my Instagram profile and some of them like it. It doesn't seem like it's a bot though.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 05:31 PM
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I agree. My idea wasn't to find dates on Instagram, but show high SMV when girls I meet elsewhere (college, Tinder, etc.) check my profile.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 04:37 AM
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It takes 5min to maintain the system that gets me followers. Posting pictures is independent from it. The goal is post interesting pics, then have 100+ girls (that now follow me from the system) like it to show pre-selection. I agree that followers by themselves won't mean much. Thanks for input.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 03:51 AM
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That's actually my case. I've had 100s of matches over the past two years, which led to ~10 dates and sex with ~5 girls. Any tips/resources on closing via Tinder?
/r/askTRP03/01/17 02:04 AM
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It takes me <5min per day now, so it's not really wasting time if it actually raises my SMV. That said, if it has zero to marginal effect, then I'd not do it. Thanks for input.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 11:23 PM
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I've used and liked Trunk Club. Their stylists pick out clothes, send a box with >10 items, you try them all out, and only pay for what you keep.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 07:25 AM
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Just treat it as a shit test. I once went on a Tinder date and the first thing the girl says is "Are you really 6'2? You look way shorter." I'm actually 6'2. She was probably as tall as my shoulders.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 11:08 PM
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Absolutely lose the smiley face like /u/redrider_ said. I'd also be more concise: "I'm going to go for a walk around Lake X on Friday arvo, you're welcome to join me :)" /u/MrTrueKillah also pointed out it might not work depending on your SMV. I'd recommend something that's more adventure/fun, but best choice depends on both of your personalities.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 01:17 PM
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It's not the same as the real thing, as you mentioned, but it helps you build confidence and learn some social skills. I've done it. I spent a summer using Tinder heavily when I moved to a different city (didn't know anyone) and met quite a few girls. The number of girls I've slept with more than doubled that summer (to >10). I was way more confident after that.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 10:48 PM
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I used to be very introverted (and shy). But I wanted to change and kept pushing myself to talk to people. In middle school I barely had any friends. In high school I had one or another, plus girlfriends. In college I got a really solid social circle - guys and girls. I'm not a natural, but it's a lot easier for me now. It's a skill you have to develop.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 10:45 PM
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Same as quitting a bad habit such as smoking. Going back to your beta self is the same as relapsing. Apply the same techniques you can find elsewhere about quitting such habits.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 10:42 PM
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Just tell her you didn't get the photo. Stop overthinking it.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 10:40 PM
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Check out /r/marriedredpill then. I still personally advise against marrying (why? check all the stories in the main sub), but that's up to you.
/r/askTRP10/03/16 03:15 AM
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You can meet women at supermarkets, coffee shops, malls, parks, gyms, classes, etc. Day game is also an option.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 02:01 PM
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My mentality is that you shouldn't need women, but could benefit from having them in your life. But again, learn about the topic, experiment a bit, protect yourself (e.g. prenups if you get married - which I don't advise), and choose for yourself. Don't worry too much about it now. You can easily marry another 25 years from now if you think it's the right thing to do then.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 09:31 PM
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Invite her over for a movie and escalate. If she rejects you, tell her to leave after the movie and stop talking to her. Alternatively, escalate via text first (e.g. get her to send nudes). People here say "texting is for logistics," but don't take it 100% literally. They mean that you shouldn't chat with her like her beta friends would, but you can use it to give her tingles if done properly.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 09:26 PM
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Don't LTR her. If it's true, it's not her fault but she likely has a lot of emotional baggage. If she's otherwise fun to hang out with, stay as FWB.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 09:20 PM
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You don't lie about not seeing other women. Instead, make it clear (explicitly or implicitly) that you're not exclusive.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 09:17 PM
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what is the end game of a RP unattached man? TRP doesn't dictate your end game. You choose for yourself. TRP is just a framework.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 09:14 PM
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Get her naked and find out.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 09:12 PM
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the problem is I may have only 25 girls I come across in a year How do you only come across 25 girls a year? Do you live in the woods? Go out more, find a hobby-related community, etc. Other than that, work on your frame and body language. Body language is as important as being fit.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 07:01 PM
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I'd suggest less aggressive comebacks, e.g. A&A. If done properly, it'll make you sound funny instead of a being a dick to the guy.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 06:44 PM
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I'm trying to accelerate my personal growth and understanding of the world. Read Principles by Ray Dalio (billionaire hedge fund manager) instead. You can do LSD for fun, but it'll be the opposite of personal growth.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 06:34 PM
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If you're looking for someone to marry, dump her. Who knows what else she's hiding. (I'd even argue you shouldn't marry at all.) If you're with her just for fun (i.e. fun while it lasts, but definitely not marrying her), then just forget about it. Either case, don't bring it up. She didn't lie and it'd show insecurity.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 06:24 PM
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It's happened to me in the past. Here are a few common causes for young people: Too much porn/masturbation (daily is too much). Cutting down has helped me a lot. Check /r/nofap. You're nervous. Relax and practice breathing deeply + kegels. The condom doesn't fit you properly. Try different models and sizes (particularly if your dick is thicker) and see if it helps. If nothing helps, go visit a doctor.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 06:11 PM
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"What would you think of me if I told you I'm married?" Whatever fits your personality and context, e.g. "Poor guy" smirk "Are you married?" (pressure flip) shrug "Even better, he [or she] can join us" smirk (jokingly) ignore & change subject "What would you think if I were?" (pressure flip)
/r/askTRP08/03/16 06:01 PM
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OP: "Just when I was kinda bummed out that spring break was ending, tinder matches me with a pretty looking girl, but I'm always skeptical of pictures, so tell me: are you as interesting as you look?" Overall pretty good opener. Forces her to qualify herself. I'd shorten it though: "I'm always skeptical of pictures, so tell me: are you as interesting as you look?" Shorter is always better. Girl: "I'm more interesting [emoji]" Good, she's starting to qualify herself. You should build on that. OP:…
/r/askTRP08/03/16 05:50 PM
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