TheHandymanCan- Archive

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–	Male sexuality just seems borderline antisocial to me We crave novelty, sexual variety and younger women but I think few men would leave their marriage for those things. Pursuing that would be like the short term gratification of eating a donut. You might crave it but you know it’s not good for you. The pride you feel being faithful to one woman throughout trials and tribulations is like the pride you feel doing a difficult workout. It’s kinda hard, staying committed isn’t easy, but when you do it you’re better off and you can be proud of yourself …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/26 12:37 PM
3	Trying to pretend like you can vet someones character on a first date is very ignorant If they’re an ass you can filter them out. If they seem like a good person, suspend judgment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/26 07:12 AM
1	The Redpill’s sex obsession at the expense of social competence leads to failure in men. The thing about the redpill is that it was made for people that aren’t any good with women, so that’s who it attracts. I do think it helps people get the right idea but as they’re progressing inevitably there are going to be some socially awkward white belt red pillers still trying to figure things out. And they do stupid/funny things sometimes. They’ll probably be laughing about it in 5-10 years as they’re telling stories about all the times they botched an interaction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/26 05:13 PM
2	Why Woman lie/dont lie on the Question how many partners they had? What? You don’t like it when people post like they’re writing an essay? lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/26 07:02 PM
0	Why Woman lie/dont lie on the Question how many partners they had? I’m a cunt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/26 06:59 PM
1	Men of Reddit, do you think a man should have an opinion of how his wife is dressed? You articulated your point very well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/26 02:35 PM
3	Ladies, "Formal connection" is just code for using sex as a bargaining chip, and it's a total passion killer. I wouldn’t want my wife to have a high body count so if I saw that on someone’s profile it’d be a huge green flag if I’m looking for a long term relationship. I’d of course have to make sure their body count wasn’t high though. She could implement that rule and still have a triple digit body count. With the right person it could be kind of fun. I really enjoy having a strong desire for someone but having to wait… as long as it’s mutual of course.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 03:30 AM
1	The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not women Why would anyone want women to sign up for the draft?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 07:27 AM
2	What do you think of women who ask men out, propose to men and pay for men in the first dates or in all dates? I don’t mind women who pay or who ask men out. Don’t propose though that’s taking it too far. That being said I like traditional gender roles but I treat them more like guidelines than rules.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 08:26 PM
1	I need a trad husband Yeah okay fair enough. In exchange you must take care of the finances and provide a lifestyle befitting a man like him. He wants to feel taken care of and appreciated for his efforts. If you lose your job, even if it’s not your fault you should feel like a failure as a woman and contemplate suicide. Maintain the yards and be capable of working a grill. Service his vehicle regularly and be able to fix any issues if you break down on the side of the road. If you can’t fix it you should be embarras…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/24 12:04 PM
1	Asking for Paternity Verification Should Be Done Before Marriage and/or a Baby. One is a financial issue and one is a social issue. It’s notoriously difficult to get someone to pay you. And yes, I’ll concede that genetic testing would be a “difficult” conversation. But if you think the answer is for the government (aka the community) to spend hundreds of dollars per birth so that you can avoid having a difficult conversation with your wife then you’re being silly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/24 02:02 PM
3	What do you think of the study showing 71% of men have been sexually victimized by a woman? In your situation I think she should be treated just like we’d treat a male rapist. 1000% Edited typo I’m to In	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/23 02:34 PM
2	What do you think of the study showing 71% of men have been sexually victimized by a woman? No I wouldn’t ask a woman if she enjoyed it, never. But that’s because I know how traumatic it is for them, or can be. It affects them differently. For years, decades even. I’d need more information but if all guys are like us I’d be okay with the double standard. I mean if it affects us differently then it’s okay if it’s treated differently. I will definitely concede that the female supremacists get old fast. I’m not sure how much of that is real though and how much is internet entertainment. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/23 02:32 PM
3	What do you think of the study showing 71% of men have been sexually victimized by a woman? Yeah man I won’t sugar coat it, you have some rough times ahead. If you’re awkward talking to women they’re not gonna wanna take a chance. Awkward men are inexperienced men. They can’t always read social cues that the woman isn’t feeling comfortable with a situation. That’s dangerous for a woman. We’re big and strong and can’t always control our emotions well. Couple that with not being able to read the situation and it’s a recipe for disaster. If I had daughters I wouldn’t want them taking a ch…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/23 06:38 AM
4	What do you think of the study showing 71% of men have been sexually victimized by a woman? It is, but I still think it’s an important question. I think rapists are scum. They should get a slow painful death. But when I think about my experiences I feel much differently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/23 06:25 AM
3	What do you think of the study showing 71% of men have been sexually victimized by a woman? I’d be against the genital mutilation no matter what but yes I’d still be curious what they thought about it. I guess the difference in my mind is that I can’t conceive of a world where the majority of the mutilated women enjoyed the process and would choose to have it done again. There’s nothing enjoyable about getting mutilated. Sex can be enjoyable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/23 06:19 AM
5	What do you think of the study showing 71% of men have been sexually victimized by a woman? I’d be curious to see what men would say to the added question: did you care? There was a girl in high school that used to grab my dick in passing. She wasn’t attractive and it made me a little uncomfortable but honestly I didn’t really care. On a scale of 1-10 how much I was bothered by it it was about a 2 right down there with mosquito bites. One girl initiated sex while I was asleep. That’s technically rape but I thought it was really hot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/23 04:39 AM
0	Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for women I mean, that’s not as outrageous as you think it is. If a guy is wanking in public, nobody wants to see that. Not men, not children, not women. If a woman is masturbating in public, women and children might not want to see it but I bet some men would. And it sounds like the general consensus is she was still arrested so ….	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/23 11:33 PM
1	CMV: women’s high standards are pushing men into homosexual behavior I got close once. “She” hit me up on a regular dating app like “when can I taste you”. I looked at the pictures, they were HOT. Blurry, but hot. She was slim, asian. She had a tight short dress on. Miniskirts. I loved her style and she was just my type. I didn’t respond but as the dry spell continued I’d find myself searching up her profile and mulling it over. Especially on unsuccessful drunken nights at the bar. I messaged her once to meet up but she didn’t respond fast enough and the moment o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 03:21 PM
1	CMV: women’s high standards are pushing men into homosexual behavior Ehhh I get it. Some of those trans girls actually do a really good job of looking like women in their photos. Especially the Asians. I think if you saw one in person though you’d change your mind. Definitely not speaking from experience but I’m just imagining the deep voice, the stubble, the facial expressions that just don’t quite look naturally feminine. And if you can get past all that they more than likely still have a stick.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 02:43 PM
3	CMV: if you feel it’s fine to ask your wife for a paternity test without cause, you should also be fine with a wife choosing to live outside the home for fear you might kill her. So, first of all, my wife choosing to live outside the home would wildly change the mechanics of our day to day life whereas a paternity test wouldn’t. So it’s more like your wife asking you to take a polygraph test to make sure you’re not planning to kill her. And even though I’d be a little caught off guard if my wife asked about that I don’t think I’d end the relationship over it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 06:02 AM
–	Asking for Paternity Verification Should Be Done Before Marriage and/or a Baby. Nah man, the point of government is to keep the populace safe and they’re already overstepping their bounds. What you’re asking for is good intentioned but it has consequences that you can’t foresee. You’re allowing an entity too much control over your life. You know the student loans that everybody hates so much? Those were originally intended so that everyone could afford to go to school. It was going to break down the opportunity barriers that the poor face. That’s why they’re so easy to get …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 05:44 AM
16	Asking for Paternity Verification Should Be Done Before Marriage and/or a Baby. Why is people’s first instinct to get the government involved? Seriously?? Like can’t you handle your own issues? This is the adult equivalent of running to mommy and daddy to fix things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 01:55 PM
–	Why is asking for a paternity test a relationship ender? Guys you don’t need the woman’s consent to get a paternity test. You can just do it on the sly and not be offensive. All you need is a swab from the baby and a swab from you. Sure it’s more accurate with a swab from the mom too but it’s not required. When I have kids I’m getting one, 1000%.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 05:49 PM
1	That video of the clerk being hit on by clueless guy Yeah I don’t disagree with that. I was just trying to explain why I think it’s justifiable to have different responses to the same interaction if the genders are flipped. Hitting on a girl is a subtle endeavor and he asked like 3-4 clarifying questions about where her school was. It’s just not the vibe. It begs the question “why do you want to know?” It would still beg the question if a girl did it but the consequences are less severe if she’s planning on stalking you and cornering you in a dark…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 02:19 AM
3	That video of the clerk being hit on by clueless guy Different but that’s apples and oranges. If a guy and a girl find themselves in a dark alley alone with no witnesses the girl would be scared and the guy would be fine. A guy stalking a girl is potentially dangerous a girl stalking a guy is an inconvenience. That’s why it can be mildly creepy when a guy meets a girl and asks so persistently about where she spends her time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 01:00 AM
-1	That video of the clerk being hit on by clueless guy Yeah there were plenty of signs to let it go, especially because she’s at work. In his defense though, she was smiling a little bit throughout their conversation. It was more her laughing at him because she knew she was getting it all on video and he was about to look like an ass. She was like, laughing a little bit because she kinda tricked him. But since he didn’t know that I can see how someone inexperienced might have thought “oh she’s just awkward but she thinks I’m funny”. 3/10 on the cree…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 11:53 PM
10	Guy approaches young woman in a viral video, gets rejected with news headlines calling him a "creep" I’ve seen the full video. Yours starts in the middle. I’m actually a firm supporter of cold approaches but if you can watch that interaction and think everything is cool then I was wrong terribly wrong. You can walk up to a girl intending to get to know her better and bail out if you can tell she’s not receptive to it. Some people are just not going to be into it. You don’t know what’s going on in a person’s mind. It might not even be your fault, something could be going on with her. I would hav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 02:07 PM
1	If a female physically assaults a male, should the male react differently than he would if a male assaulted him? Well, I think young boys should be taught not to hit girls too. Though I’d find it a little more acceptable if they slipped up. For men that are sick disabled and old the same rule applies. If they fear for their life go for it. Now if it’s a small, weak man it’s a little different. I mean it’s not their fault it’s just the way the genetics played out. But obviously they know they’re small and weak. Especially if it’s to the point where some women could easily overpower them. So if they have don…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 03:21 PM
1	If a female physically assaults a male, should the male react differently than he would if a male assaulted him? I can’t believe this even has to be asked. No! You should never hit a woman! The one caveat is if you fear for your life then go for it. But you, as a man, should be so strong and capable that it shouldn’t be necessary. Even if you’re stuck in a corner and a woman was coming at you full force, you should be able to maneuver yourself out of that situation without hurting her or yourself. And not only that but you should be confident enough in your abilities that you don’t even feel threatened in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 01:54 PM
9	If you as a 30 year old man can’t be friends with 18 year old guys you have no business dating 18 year old women This! And if an 18 year old woman is dating a 30 year old man, she probably thinks the guys her age are immature too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 01:47 PM
1	For redpilled men, what does consent mean to you? I didn’t see the thread but if it was said I’m sure they meant that she’s responsible for it as in “the rape could have been prevented if she had made better decisions”. That being said it doesn’t matter if she passes out naked with her legs spread, anyone that has sex with an unconscious woman is still clearly a rapist and should be convicted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 12:23 AM
4	I feel a large part of the problem with dating is extroverts and a lack of social unity and connection. So, the thing about girls is they want to have fun. And your hobbies are boring. Video games, movies/tv and hanging out aren’t real hobbies. I’m sure there are other things that interest you or things you’ve always wanted to do. Things you’ve wanted to learn. Explore that and you’ll be a more interesting person. Can you tell us a little more about yourself? Do you live with your parents? What do you do for work?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/23 02:00 PM
2	The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality? I think “the bar” is something approximating this. If you’re a 6 and up (above average) Don’t live with your parents Don’t have children from a previous relationship Don’t be a slob Don’t be fat Do have a job If you’re a 4-6 (about average) The same as above but also Be in good shape Make good money Smell good Be tidy Don’t expect to get with 10s	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/23 01:26 PM
–	Pick-up artistry is faking emotional connection to get casual sex It’s more like techniques for making the conversation fun(for both of you btw). And also emotional connection and casual sex aren’t mutually exclusive. You can have a legitimate emotional connection with a girl and still decide to keep it casual. You might really like them but you know it wouldn’t work out long term. Or you just got out of a long term relationship and you’re curious about what’s out there. You’re just not ready to settle down. A lot of pick up artistry (or redpill I’m not sure w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/23 01:17 PM
1	Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive? Would you really want that though?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 03:04 PM
3	If only men with no options wife promiscuous women then why do we see celebrity men doing it all the time? Logan Paul, Will Smith, Russell Wilson a few examples So this doesn’t apply to certain celebrities like George Clooney but I get the sense that celebrities are really inexperienced with dating. When they do date the whole world is watching so the stakes are high. It makes sense that they would be hesitant to put themselves out there. Either that or they’re used to getting groupies so easily that they never actually needed game. I’m not sure what it is but from what little celebrity gossip I’ve heard it sounds like the average person has more experi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 03:25 AM
3	CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careers Yes men do care about their spouse’s career. Shout out to the gymnastics coaches	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 01:52 AM
2	Most men simply want women at or even slightly below their level of attractiveness, or just one who isn’t overweight. Most women feel entitled to men way more attractive than them and meet a whole laundry list of criteria. The whole “neckbeard wants supermodel” narrative is fictional projection. Yes! This! Hit it with a drumstick!	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/23 07:50 PM
0	Do men or women love more intensely? I think it matters more how he handles losing his job vs the actual job itself	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/23 05:09 PM
1	I don't blame Deadbeat fathers as much as women, because women control almost 100% of the sexual market and still choose those men I get what you’re saying man. Women do have more reproductive rights than men as far as choosing whether or not to get an abortion. HOWEVER it’s not like the deadbeat nutted in a girl and then found out after that he has no say over what happens in her body. He goes into the situation armed with all that information. If you know that you have no say in the abortion process and that some women use a kid to trap you and that you could be on the hook for child support for 18 years and you still dec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/23 03:32 PM
2	Can empowerment exist with empathy? Yes I agree. I think man hating is socially acceptable right now because men are seen as the privileged gender. Woman hating is like kicking someone when they’re already down. It works the same way with Caucasians and minorities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/23 04:34 AM
1	What is more important than sex, relationships, and family? I’m a guy but I’m with the misandrist. If you want to feel sexy get sexy. You can’t control what your face looks like or your height but you can control your physique and your style. You can have enough conversations with people that you can get through a date and come off at least a little bit charming.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 03:24 PM
3	I will never get the whole “younger woman, older man” dynamic as a younger woman myself. Yeah idk about teaching necessarily. That’s not the part I like. But I love introducing girls to new things. Like if she’s never been on a boat before and I take her on my boat. Or if she’s never been on a motorcycle before and I put her on the back of mine. And sure I might have to teach her what to do when we’re launching or how to lean with me on turns but it’s worth it because I get to be the one to introduce her to new things she’s gonna love. It’s like that Aladdin song “I can show you the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 10:44 PM
1	How much money/status do you think it takes for men to compensate for looks? If I had to put a number to it I’d guess 100k is +1 500k is +2 5mil is +3 Notice the diminishing returns and that it caps off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 04:27 AM