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There is no war in basing-se
/r/AntiFeminists27/10/19 11:23 AM
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I like you little dude, you're going places. Be safe and try not to poke too many bears okay? This is an excellent response that sadly falls on deaf ears.
/r/AntiFeminists02/09/19 02:34 PM
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Women can't be abusers, they were historically oppressed! /S
/r/MensRights01/09/19 03:38 PM
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They make fun of fat people too, just not overweight women. Overweight men get shit on by everyone.
/r/MensRights01/09/19 03:15 PM
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God bless you sir, I'd gild you if I could
/r/MensRights01/09/19 09:56 AM
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tit for tat, if women have unilateral power on abortion decisions, men should have an equivalent. Being made to pay for a child you would have aborted is no different that having to birth a child you'd have rather aborted. Except of course that the former lasts 18 years of hard labour, whereas the latter is 9 months with some paid leave at the end.
/r/MensRights01/09/19 12:12 AM
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Non of these are true... like, I literally advise men to get help all the damn time, and I've never seen anyone bash nonconformity. There is the odd hyper conservative dude on here, but the attitude generally seems to be live and let live. As for encouraging violence... when and where? I've never seen incitement to violence here or on mgtow... I don't like trp so idk what it's like over there, but I imagine it's the same. Also like... these subs exist to encouragement emotional and social fulfil…
/r/AntiFeminists01/09/19 12:02 AM
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Been a while, I'll dig out my history of literary criticism text. Tbh i wasn't that attentive of a reader myself, but we spent a month reading excepts from feminist literary criticism in that class, and it came up in every other class too. I read a lot of feminist theory in my theatre classes, since theatre was my degree I couldn't escape it. That and a couple years of mandatory philosophy class had me reading a lot of major feminist stuff... just don't remember titles offhand. Check in in like,…
/r/MensRights31/08/19 10:05 PM
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Mostly that it's bullshit. It isn't a minority, first off. If we look at Reddit as a crossection of the population, there are at least as many "radfems" as "mainstream", and many are active on both. Secondly, it doesn't matter how many there are in total that are destructive. The squeaky wheel gets the oil, the loudest and most hateful get their way because moderates just don't think to stop them. See the rise of American facism, for instance, enabled primarily by the normal, inoffensive "mainst…
/r/MensRights31/08/19 09:37 PM
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Should sue the theatre for all their worth imo
/r/MensRights31/08/19 03:26 PM
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As someone whose read a lot of smut, professional and amateur, I can state without a doubt that the author of this article is wrong. Women are terrible at writing smut. Be it amateur or professional, it all reads exactly the same. Some shy woman who doesn't know how beautiful she is takes an interest in some rapey dude (which is okay cause she's interested in the end) or some dude who doesn't have any interest at all. He's flawless and hard and ripped, and teaches her to love herself. Cue the mo…
/r/MensRights30/08/19 03:22 PM
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What is this feminist enabling opinion doing on here?
/r/MensRights28/08/19 05:06 PM
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Holy crap there is nothing positive in there... Like at all. I scrolled through at least three months of posts and not one nice thing was said in any of it. Like... That's beyond incel sub levels of hopelessness. How do they live like that?
/r/MensRights28/08/19 04:05 AM
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Andy signore is a huge one, the second one taken out by #metoo warriors
/r/MensRights28/08/19 12:10 AM
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Yeah the last half of 23 and most of 24 was pretty awful lol. But I graduated now, for what good it'll do me.
/r/MensRights28/08/19 12:09 AM
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I had it pretty easy too by comparison, the student life director at the university at the time was a decent person and actually listened to my side. I still got more or less banned from going to class and failed the semester because of it... But she knew my ex was full of shit and tormented me to the place where I was, so I didn't actually face criminal charges. Just social ostracizing and the loss of my scholarships and distinction (I had a gpa of 11 before that year). I lost all my school fri…
/r/MensRights27/08/19 11:54 PM
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Thanks for this comment, didn't even occur to me that there actually wasn't much direct metoo involvement. The mess was definitely worsened by the whole "believe the victims unquestionably" climate, but it wasn't part of the "movement" for sure. And here's hoping something good comes out of it, even just a lesson to check before you judge.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/08/19 11:49 PM
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Can you... Are you even reading? Are you a troll or stupid? Cause it's hard to tell at this point. Bye dude. Have uh... Fun, with all this.
/r/MensRights27/08/19 11:38 PM
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You're the one that used the term beta-male unironically? And not in the proper context? And by proven I mean how the three accusers that came forward are all riddled with inconsistencies and back tracking, like someone who is lying. And again you've yet to provide any reasons to not believe Jared other than "his ex"? Which seems like a pretty beta-male type of reasoning, if you want to apply that worldview to it
/r/MensRights27/08/19 11:28 PM
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Ah gotcha now, sorry. Thought you were calling me his ex.... Very confused Edit: y'all were replying at the same type and I got my streams crossed, I lost the thread of the conversation lol
/r/MensRights27/08/19 11:24 PM
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What? I do believe you've lost the thread of this conversation buddy.
/r/MensRights27/08/19 11:16 PM
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... okay. You've no reason to doubt the accused here, and his accusers are proven to be untrustworthy but, keep your dismissive labels, I guess
/r/MensRights27/08/19 11:14 PM
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And I'm not narrow-minded enough to just blindly believe the word of two anonymous sources and a woman with a clear ulterior motive? What Jared is doing here is laying out credibility, because there isn't any evidence to the accusations. It's his accusers word vs his, and there is no reason to believe the accusers as they've only been proven untrustworthy, and provided no evidence to back their claims, vs Jared who doesn't have a history of this sort of thing and that we have no reason to suspec…
/r/MensRights27/08/19 11:05 PM
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You mean Heidi? Who was caught lying and backtracking several times, in addition to obviously poisoning the well by stirring up these allegations in the middle of divorce hearings, breaking good faith to try and get sympathy? The one that is clearly unstable on social media and has a cult of white knights on her side simply because she isn't ugly? That ex?
/r/MensRights27/08/19 10:53 PM
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What reason do you have to doubt him? And get help for what, exactly?
/r/MensRights27/08/19 10:31 PM
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I heard the news from his sub first, and I bought it for a good week. But I mean... I was falsely accused too and as the mess went on it felt eerily similar so I fact checked and man... It was obviously false from the beginning. Just, too few people checked.
/r/MensRights27/08/19 09:05 PM
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Same. He handles it with surprising grace, and his ending statements about not going anywhere made me tear up. I love this dude even more now
/r/MensRights27/08/19 09:01 PM
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Honestly this is one of the best comeback videos I've seen. Jared knows his shit and it is so good to hear his voice again.
/r/MensRights27/08/19 08:38 PM
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Yes, I'm sure they struggled mightily with whether to come forward, with all these accusations cost them /s
/r/MensRights27/08/19 01:27 PM
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Get clap women clap on clap the clap moon For reals though that sucks. Someone had to be the first asshole in space, I guess.
/r/MensRights24/08/19 05:08 PM
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As if rich people actually pay their taxes...
/r/MGTOW21/08/19 02:24 PM
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Grass is always greener. While they certainly have a lot of priveleges I don't think it's inherently better to be a woman, or a man for that matter. It just is. It's pretty normal to want to be someone else, especially when life is difficult. Idk what you're going through but if this is a cyclical thing it could just be a daydream way you deal with stress. I used sexual fantasies that way for a long time, stuff I'd never do irl. If it is something deeper and a cognitive break or dissatisfaction …
/r/MensRights20/08/19 04:12 AM
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Op is an antifeminist so I'm upvoting
/r/AntiFeminists19/08/19 09:40 PM
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Ah. Gotcha :)
/r/MensRights18/08/19 11:32 AM
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Totally agree :)
/r/MensRights18/08/19 11:31 AM
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This ^
/r/MensRights18/08/19 04:21 AM
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Meh, it's alright. I think the MRA is better because of how open it is. Sure there's the weirder side of redpill ideology, the angry parts of mgtow, and an overall association with the "right" (conflated or not, I have encountered racists, fascists, and etc on here), but that's okay? Cause like, the extremes help us see ourselves better. Makes us capable of growing and goes a ways to keeping the darker corners of antifeminism in the light where we can see it, ideally keeping it civil. It's how w…
/r/MensRights18/08/19 04:05 AM
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Tweet with you? Edit: I never got twitter so am very in the dark on how this works lol
/r/MensRights18/08/19 03:55 AM
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Oh yeah, it was shitty. I got berated and downvoted and then as I was trying to defend myself, the mods arrived and muted me. So I never got to come back and challenge or clarify anything. It's anti-discussion
/r/MensRights18/08/19 12:28 AM
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Glad to hear it :) I am far more of an emotionally lead person. I mean, I get logic, it just doesn't really come easily. It's like speaking in a second language, almost. I am a much more emotion, empathy lead person. For me I could overlook the glaring inconsistencies in feminism, the same way I do in religion, because I believed it over all had a net positive empathetic impact. I was wrong for believing this, and it took learning to love myself to realize that. It's sacrilege to a lot of the mo…
/r/MensRights18/08/19 12:27 AM
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Yeah, it's basically a pray away the gay camp for straight men.
/r/MensRights17/08/19 09:00 PM
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Eh. I'm better off for it now, I needed the time away to grow as a person and I'm better every day now that most of the abusers in my life are gone. Reddit is small beans, and it is sad to see how broken all these people are. But we can't unmake the mess. It isn't ours but we still have to clean it up, still have to make things better. That's why I settled on the MRA, it both acknowledges that there's a problem, and encourages us to make it better going forward. Menslib is such... Navel gazing, …
/r/MensRights17/08/19 08:52 PM
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I actually quit menslib and Reddit in total thanks to a thread just like this. If you go back through my history you can probably find it. It was a post about the incredible bias against male students by female teachers, and I shared how a particularly aggressive feminist abused the boys in my class, myself included. I ended up being muted and was so pissed I quit Reddit for a few months. I wasn't even that angry at the time, I was just pointing out how that very common application of feminism h…
/r/MensRights17/08/19 08:43 PM
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That's a relic
/r/MensRights14/08/19 09:09 PM
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Internalized misogeny /s
/r/MensRights14/08/19 08:15 PM
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Collective action. Get every boy to use the women's bathroom instead. Don't go alone, it isn't safe, start going in groups.
/r/MensRights14/08/19 01:09 PM
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Honestly I think what we're seeing now is feminism eating it's own tail, along with capitalism and imperialism. I'm Canadian so not quite the same experience as the States, but we're pretty closely related. We're headed to collapse, and I have the feeling it's gonna be climate change that finally causes it. When the ice caps collapse and a huge chunk of our coasts just vanish, and the death tolls that come with that, I imagine we're gonna hit bottom and bounce back up. It's unfortunate but with …
/r/MensRights14/08/19 12:54 PM
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Sorry to hear. Honestly though, if they believed her then they're enablers of the worst kind. You're better off without them, even if it hurts. Peace and love brother.
/r/PussyPass13/08/19 05:40 PM
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Go check out r/thefairersex lol, it's even worse
/r/PussyPass13/08/19 05:35 PM
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You don't really hang out on this sub a lot do you? We've got plenty of women, trans folk, and other "degenerates" around. You can have a men's only space and not be an asshole about it. If not a troll, shame on ya. If a troll... Good luck buddy. MRA gets false flagged all the time and you won't even be noticed.
/r/MensRights13/08/19 05:26 PM
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Saving for ammo when feminists point to the nastier corners of the MRA as evidence of the whole being nasty. Ironically, the MRA isn't a monolith doesn't seem to register with such people.
/r/MensRights13/08/19 05:06 PM
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Hey no need, but thanks for the sympathy dude :) I'm not too worried. My abusive partner pulled the false accusations angle and I nearly got kicked out of school, but I came back and finished. I was really lucky in that all I really lost were aquantenances (and graduatinf with distinction, was a straight A student till she made me fail that semester) She's gone now, fuck her. The ptsd is going away too, took a year. As for the other women... I feel sorry for then more than anything. I mean I was…
/r/MensRights05/08/19 04:38 PM
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Well, my abusive partner was somewhere on the ace spectrum and really just used me to get off while not reciprocating anything (she was disgusted by my body in general and hated touching me). I've had some rendezvous with women since, but nothing that really ended well for me. I've also got ed thanks to good ol' circumcision, as well as depression meds, so I can't really do my part without coaxing. Which again, no one I've been with is interested in cause they're just using me. So, more or less …
/r/MensRights05/08/19 04:26 PM
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Funny, I'm also more or less a virgin because if women's irrational fear of men. The enabling of this delusional fear is just... The worst. It empowers toxic women and removes any accountability for their actions, while making the rest of us miserable. Real life has become dating apps. Thanks feminism
/r/MensRights05/08/19 03:45 PM
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Honestly I think it's an all or nothing, because infants don't get to choose. Either you're cool with all infant genital mutilation, or none. Trying to sit in the middle is having your cake and eating it too, it's extremely hypocritical, especially when modern feminist theory doesn't consider gender innate, yet supports different treatment of differently sexed children. But then again having our cake and eating it too is THE feminist mode of being. There are plenty of non feminists who support M…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/19 12:18 PM
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The sex offender list is actually a really great idea. I've seen people calling out for the same kind of penalty for those posting nudes without the subject's permission. It IS a sex related crime and future partners should be aware of it for sure.
/r/MensRights27/07/19 03:26 AM
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Mostly twitter.
/r/MensRights27/07/19 03:21 AM
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Fair
/r/MensRights26/07/19 12:26 PM
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Agreed. One of the strengths of the sub
/r/MensRights26/07/19 12:11 PM
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That's not remotely representative of the MRA, not that we're necessarily homogenous. Sounds like a tradcon asshole, regardless of their affiliation, but hey, pick the one voice out of thousands and make that the talking point. Classic.
/r/MensRights26/07/19 06:30 AM
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For real though, we should have toiletries in men's bathrooms. Not only is there the occasional transman in there, but we get nose bleeds too.
/r/MensRights26/07/19 05:46 AM
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You know what I like to say to this kind of sentiment... Not all women. It's equally unfair to use women as a prejorative for the actions of a religious movement among them, as to use men as a prejorative for the misdeeds of a few. Your sympathy and support is appreciated as far as I'm concerned! And it's hardly your fault, personally. These stones were laid way before any of us were born; we just get to choose whether we fight the next ones being laid on top. Peace my dude, and good fortune to …
/r/MensRights26/07/19 05:33 AM
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His original statement
/r/MensRights25/07/19 03:57 PM
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Feminism is an ideology one chooses to subscribe to, being male is something you don't get to choose... See the difference? Hating men for being born a certain way is not the same as hating an ideology proven to be built on hatred
/r/MensRights25/07/19 03:03 PM
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Looks like Sasha Grey
/r/MensRights25/07/19 02:57 PM
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Two unsubstantiated accusations from two trans girls, with clearly doctored screen shots, coming out suspiciously close to Heidi and Jared's divorce proceedings, around the same time she threatened to ruin his career with scandal. Nothing came of it, Jared even sent them emails trying to address the matter but they never responded, if I recall. He was horny af on tumblr, and as anyone who ever used tumblr knows, it is ridiculously easy to lie about your age, and his was a massive page with liter…
/r/MensRights23/07/19 07:45 PM
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She sounds like a genuinely decent person. I've definitely had those struggles learning to listen to my "enemies" too (raised by very racist, insular right wing family, changed when I actually started listening to history and the Muslims in my life). Glad she's still working, and learning. This I think is what should all ideally be... Genuine listeners. Thanks for posting op, that was a really good ted talk Imo.
/r/MensRights23/07/19 02:27 PM
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Yes. I miss Jared a lot, and it's really clear Heidi was being a piece of shit now that a lot has come out. My hope is after the divorce and trials or whatever they're going through, Jared will be back with a breakdown or at least a verdict. I'm genuinely disgusted with how his subreddit behaved... I just hope he doesn't end up with a gag order.
/r/MensRights23/07/19 02:03 PM
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Feminism needs a scapegoat to function. It's a snake eating it's own tail. The more successful they are, the more they'll start targetting each other.
/r/MensRights23/07/19 01:44 PM
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Yeah I always felt this one felt very reactionary and fake. I'm still upset with how... Fake screen junkies was about it. They just utterly turned on him, and then the channel just became a circle jerk of feminism. I still like a lot of the content and Dan and Spencer are great.... But yeah, it isn't the same, and amidst all the other shit, this is just another thing they utterly failed at trying to be appeasing.
/r/MensRights23/07/19 04:30 AM
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Another thing they miss is that rights are, maybe not by all definitions, but by practical sense and use, universal. A right is kind of pointless if it isn't universally applicable; it's more of a privilege over people who don't have it. A right should be universally applicable to all human beings. Access to free tampons isn't a right, that's a privilege. The right to be argued here is access to routine hygiene. That encompasses all human beings and therefore can rightly be argued as something w…
/r/MensRights23/07/19 04:25 AM
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Ich. Imagine the reverse happening and the outrage over it
/r/MensRights22/07/19 08:58 PM
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About time. I tried to be one in college to understand where they were coming from and eventually gave up. The ideology is iredeemable, and I've been in the inside. Well, the male inside. No man has ever been willingly considered an equal by them.
/r/MensRights22/07/19 05:28 PM
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Honestly I don't have anything on hand but the suffragettes were around in the 1800s. I'm just remembering from my lit classes. I'm not actually that great of a scholar :/ google? So earliest suffragettes are counted as being active in 1845, though they weren't really effective until the 20th century. So, up for debate. Either way, it's been more than one generation of brainwashing.
/r/MensRights21/07/19 05:03 AM
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Hey dude. First off, it's okay to be depressed, whatever the reason. It's not your fault, and this kinda shit happens. You still have to clean up the mess though, and you gotta love to see the other side, so I'll walk you through how I manage (bipolar 2, among other things) First off... Give time to your passions. It'll feel like pulling teeth, and you'll want to just turn everything off and stare into space, but take little steps. Journal out memories of stuff you liked if you can't think of an…
/r/MensRights21/07/19 04:31 AM
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They do that man. Feminists may not all be terrible people, but the ideology is one of the most insular and aggressive against genuine discussion there currently is. As for your original post, I agree. But we're not at that point. The way I see MRA is that it's necessarily gendered to combat the deeply ingrained hatred and false narratives that feminism has been pushing for approaching two centuries now (edit with citations, open for debate tbh; https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women's_suffrage h…
/r/MensRights21/07/19 03:57 AM
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Lol it's been removed. Did you get banned?
/r/MensRights21/07/19 03:41 AM
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Eh... Unless it severely diverges from the comics I'll take a pass. Jane's Thor was pretty bad imo
/r/MensRights21/07/19 03:34 AM
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Other than the texting first one, this is literally the tactic of every woman I've met who is actively dating. Someone is in quite the little glass house.
/r/MensRights21/07/19 03:30 AM
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Seriously though, post this on r/feminism and see what's up dude. For the lols and the ban
/r/MensRights21/07/19 03:28 AM
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I don't think you read the post, I didn't write the thing. I just shared it here.
/r/MensRights21/07/19 01:15 AM
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I am too dude don't worry :P
/r/MensRights21/07/19 01:08 AM
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Lysistrata... But in that case they were actually doing something good with their sex strike and ending war. This is just sad.
/r/MensRights20/07/19 07:04 PM
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The character saying this is a parody, they're not real. It's a mockery of how people believe feminists act. It's intended to dismantle criticism of feminism by making it look like it's just strawmen and no one actually thinks this way... But it wouldn't be a parody if people didn't think that way, nor would there be an unironic following of the character. This comedian is trying to dismantle critics of feminism by pointing out how ridiculous of a strawman this is, not realizing that it isn't a …
/r/MensRights20/07/19 06:54 PM
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And according to the many women I've talked to, they're (even straight women) only fans of lesbian porn. Male gaze, my ass.
/r/MensRights20/07/19 04:25 PM
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People in the comments missing the fact that for this to be sarcasm, it has to be mocking something real. You can't parody something your audience doesn't know about or that doesn't exist.
/r/MensRights20/07/19 04:20 PM
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Yeah. It's shit. I'm sorry the world is shit, man. We deserve better. Wishing you safety and peace, dude.
/r/MensRights20/07/19 03:15 AM
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I personally have a zero tolerance on Feminism, and an acceptance that feminists are not Feminism. To clarify, Feminism is an ideology, worldview, religion, etc. Just like any ideology there are going to be decent and not so decent adherents. We don't necessarily choose the worldview that's thrust on us, and being told you're the victim all your life warps the way you think. Feminism is a toxic, cancerous, hateful ideology intent on creating a sex based oligarchy. But... feminists are people who…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/19 03:09 AM
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I'm so sorry :(
/r/MensRights20/07/19 01:02 AM
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That's fucking disgusting. I'm sorry op. Have you considered reporting it? I've never had to but I imagine taking this shit to the authorities will help visibility for people down the line of targets. Though the double whammy of being a male target and out of the closet probably means you wouldn't be taken seriously :/
/r/MensRights20/07/19 01:02 AM
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It's funny how often that is the case eh? For both sides
/r/MensRights19/07/19 08:03 PM
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Same realization here
/r/MensRights19/07/19 08:01 PM
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It's not a grudge match, this kind of stuff is said everywhere and goes unchallenged. Having responses to antimale arguments (though granted these ones are pretty weak) is part of men's rights, as in standing up for the dignity of the sex. The point IS one sex isn't better than the other, and we need to fight that when we see it. Why would someone believe one sex is better than the other? Literally a billion reasons, that's why we should be armed to dismantle such beliefs where we find them Also…
/r/MensRights19/07/19 03:42 PM
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Thanks goodmod, this is helpful :)
/r/MensRights19/07/19 03:33 PM
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That's my thinking too. Even trolls sometimes produce fertile ground for truth.
/r/MensRights19/07/19 03:25 PM
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Thanks man. On the mental health front I also know that the prevalence of mood disorders like bipolar, borderline, and etc are much more prevalent in women. It seems to be, like everything else, that these points are nonsense. Pretty sure this person is a troll of fetishist tbh.
/r/MensRights19/07/19 03:18 PM
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That's a good point lol
/r/MensRights19/07/19 03:11 PM
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that's why I opened it up to the sub lol, I could sit here obsessively googling and reading into the night... or I could post and see what people think. Idk, probably just get buried under everything. These are super common claims and it'd be nice to have sources to refute them. I know for instance that the women are less violent one is bs, since the relationships with the highest amount of domestic abuse are lesbians, so the least amount of testosterone involved of the relationship types. Edit:…
/r/MensRights19/07/19 04:38 AM
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Not looking to see the guy harassed, it's just a lot of claims and I don't have a readily available list of sources to counter with, besides just how incredibly shallow this is. Would love to crowd source thoughts. Honestly it just made me sigh more than angry, it's just kinda sad. This is honestly so over the top it may just be a troll account, idk
/r/MensRights19/07/19 04:20 AM
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I've enjoyed Gabriel Iglesias over the years but he's always been weird about this kinda thing. A lot of his stories about his son make me super uncomfortable, having been abused myself, a lot of the stuff he jokes about doing is right on the line.
/r/MensRights18/07/19 04:15 PM
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Yeah that's... pretty gross the way you describe it. Sorry you had to sit through that dude
/r/MensRights18/07/19 04:05 PM
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It's cool man, you're doing fine :) And I get where you're coming from. Communism has very different connotations and associations outside the west.
/r/MensRights18/07/19 01:55 PM
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I was nearly expelled over false accusations. It's just greed, about keeping up the appearance of being progressive so the college/university keeps getting the big donations and high tuition from their mostly female students. Like everywhere... Men are disposable, less desirable class.
/r/MensRights18/07/19 12:51 PM
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Also throwing communism out there and under the bus is pretty random and raving...
/r/MensRights18/07/19 04:27 AM
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More or less same thing happened to me, but it was a temporary ban. I said fuck it and left Reddit for a month before coming back. It's not a reflection on you, it's a reflection of how insular subreddits are. These are echo chambers for our own gratification, not for actual debate, you just gotta keep pruning the ones you don't fit in till you find where you're satisfied and entertained. Menslib is a mess of idiocincrasies and hypocrisy. It's people trying to fit a square peg in a round hole. I…
/r/MensRights18/07/19 04:25 AM
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Agree. Glad to be here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/07/19 03:55 AM
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Got called an incel earlier today, as well as a whole bunch of other association based insults. It's gross and uniformed... Not the least because I'm not, but also it's such a double standard to treat all incels as monsters for the actions of the fringe, while never taking responsibly for any so called "radical" feminists. It's also just pathetic and gross bullying, those people are already abused by everyone, that's why they're incels, and using the sub as a prejorative is pretty mean, one migh…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/07/19 03:22 AM
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Totally agree tbh. I might add... I find it laughable that people consider Feminism a left movement. Whatever it's flaws and benefits, it's goal is to create a sex based oligarchy. It is as much a right wing ideology as any of the others, and it depends on the wheels of capitalism to hold up the all privilege, no responsibility lifestyle. It's just... Wrong. As social beings we should be fighting to make life better universally, not doubling down on gynocentrism. Also, and it's just a pet theory…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/07/19 03:17 AM
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Another point is that just because men HAVE spoken doesn't mean no more men need to speak. We always need more male voices for the same reason we always need more female voices; there's always more people. Men don't stop needing to see themselves fairly reflected just because their parents did, assuming they even did. Identity politics is a cancer in literature and intellectual thought, used as a tool to silence people you don't like. Every single mind and perspective is unique, and therefore va…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/07/19 12:38 AM
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Ironically it's created the perfect environment for facism to thrive. Feminism is the left that facism is building itself off of, this time.
/r/AntiFeminists17/07/19 10:17 PM
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Have a look through her comment history, she just makes fun of people and is a generally a racist, heterophobic dick. That's what I said wow about. Cause she appears to be a total piece of shit. Also I do have empathy... For the man this woman murdered. He doesn't get to get better, because of her.
/r/MensRights17/07/19 02:38 AM
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Wow you're a piece of shit.
/r/MensRights17/07/19 02:22 AM
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We should tank his karma, they seem to really care about that
/r/MensRights16/07/19 05:30 PM
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Ideally to be negotiated between the partners and what they're individually good at or picky about. Feminists are the only ones forcing roles on people, in my experience at least. Gendered quotas and this fetishization of the household chore warrior are as ridiculous as they are unhelpful.
/r/MensRights16/07/19 04:43 AM
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You mean like... being polite and decent?
/r/MensRights14/07/19 03:00 AM
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That's fair, I missed your point. She definitely isn't evil, I don't think anyone really is when it comes down to it, and there is definitely something to be said about rehabilitation over punishment. I was/am probably conflating the too and letting it be personal... I'm mostly offended by the way I see people jump on the insanity defence any time women do something terrible (anecdotal I know). You're still capable of doing evil and acting maliciously when you're sick, and you are responsible fo…
/r/MensRights13/07/19 12:59 PM
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Yup. I'm mentally ill as well. Doesn't excuse abuse regardless of gender.
/r/MensRights13/07/19 10:26 AM
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Omfg look, a no true Scotsman in the wild Edit for why I am not talking about "radical" heads, but of the whole hydra that is Feminism
/r/MensRights12/07/19 10:19 PM
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Definitely read that as wank a mile in her shoes...
/r/MensRights12/07/19 06:31 PM
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The movement is, the individuals may not be. Not every stormtrooper is a racist murderer, but they all work for one. Feminism is a gynocentric, anti-male religion, though proponents of it vary. It's ridiculous to assert every feminist thinks this way, but the movement itself does, and has from the beginning. Hating feminism isn't the same as hating feminists... or uninformed idiots, for that matter.
/r/MensRights12/07/19 03:17 AM
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That last line in your comment is essential. Don't strawman or extrapolate yourself into being a conservative... they're so much worse imo Besides when you break it down, this (op's conversationalist) is really more of an authoritarian right point of view, just with a different group on top than is traditionally associated with.
/r/MensRights12/07/19 03:10 AM
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Honestly, I'd recommend you don't. You're brave and would be in the right, but as someone who was abused for teachers for this very kind of thing throughout school, I'd save you that pain. I'd recommend you toe the line and then try to change it once you're out and have voting power (such as it is). But if you want to, this is a great spot to find links. Good luck my dude, and much love to you in the face of the coming backlash
/r/MensRights10/07/19 05:14 PM
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Hmm... stranger things is a great example of this. The characters are generally pretty fairly drawn in season 1, male and female characters having flaws and redeeming traits. Now that we're on season 3, it has swung so far the other way to be farcical, with male characters being irredeemably corrupt or stupid, and women being flawless to the point of boring. Or you know, just compare the empire strikes back to the last Jedi, for the exact same conclusion. Any long running series eventually will …
/r/MensRights10/07/19 05:07 PM
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My ex did this exact same fucking thing to me, and to this day still thinks I'm the one who hated her and wanted her to die. It's fucking ridiculous. My ex was deeply mentally unwell, borderline and probably schizophrenic, but refused to take meds or follow through with any help. She just went on about how men had it better and she was just a victim. She used it all to dismiss her abuse of me as actually her trying to handle my alleged abuse of her. The shit she made me do, made me watch... two …
/r/MensRights10/07/19 04:53 PM
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Lol this is great, wonder how many people missed the satire and took actual offence?
/r/MensRights10/07/19 04:42 PM
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But dark souls really should have an easy mode
/r/MensRights10/07/19 02:59 PM
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I mean... Elon musk is kind of a shitty person, but that's got nothing to do with his products. Mark Zuckerberg is another piece of human garbage and women are all over facebook. Regardless of the utter baseless conjecture of this "article", it's just smoke screen for another man hater trying to burn down what she identifies as male.
/r/MensRights10/07/19 02:57 PM
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They also have total say in abortions regardless of the father's desires
/r/MensRights08/07/19 02:29 AM
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Goddamn you're a fucking idiot.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/01/19 05:56 AM
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I never said I was a feminist, only that feminism and misandry aren't the same thing, and it's disingenuous to say so; but sure, ad hominum away. I can't make you not a dumb fucking cunt, you can crawl around your little perception bubble and bawl about how unfairly you've been treated, while refusing to look in the mirror all you want. It doesn't change anything, let alone how many alleged "rights" women have over you. How do you define that anyways? Is there a list? Do you have a cork board wi…
/r/PussyPassDenied19/01/19 05:40 AM
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... I ignored your question because it's irrelevant. Toxic masculinity has nothing to do with legality. Men and women are legally identical in most cases. Do you just have low reading comprehension or is tribalism so ingrained you just can't hear?
/r/PussyPassDenied19/01/19 04:07 AM
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Jeeze this comment section is full of the exact kinds of people the ad was talking about... I guess it worked if they felt so attacked
/r/PussyPassDenied19/01/19 12:50 AM
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It's not about legal rights, it's about attitude and behaviour. Manness and womanness both imply certain entitlements and negative connotations that should be addressed. Hyper competitiveness and stoicism aren't healthy ways of being, and unfortunately are linked to manness in the cultural unconscious, and that should be called out as shitty. Toxic masculinity refers to these unhealthy associations between manness and maladaptive behaviours... It's not a legal thing, it's a wellness/thriving thi…
/r/PussyPassDenied19/01/19 12:43 AM
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Are they? Feminism is hardly homogenous, but the core intention isn't to brow beat or abuse men for their manness. It's about calling out legitimate and systematic issues that our current understanding of manness cause. Hating men for being men is wrong, calling out men for being assholes (in ways specific to men) is kinda just the responsible thing to do?
/r/PussyPassDenied18/01/19 05:29 PM
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That's... misandry, not feminism, right? Probably gonna get downvoted to hell by they're not the same thing.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/01/19 03:37 PM
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Especially since Stephen hawking is dead
/r/PussyPassDenied14/01/19 11:48 AM
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She's got some solid points and I'm honestly in the same boat. Tumblr burned me out of feminism too. Not sure where I stand now, I definitely think women ought to have their interests looked after. I also think men do too, which is why I'm here. Idk, everywhere I've seen this linked it's just been people talking about how bs this girl is, and it's honestly gross. Ironically, they prove her point.
/r/MensRights07/01/19 08:21 AM
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Attack it where it's relevant, feminism is hardly cohesive or universal in application. Mostly it completely ignores male problems. Anti-men is not synonymous with feminism and more than mens rights are anti women... we should be mens rights and not anti other interest groups. It's almost as hominem, the way feminism is used around here. Let's attack the actual issues and not the labels people identify as
/r/MensRights03/01/19 11:27 AM
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I think everyone has privileges relative to every one else, and everyone has disadvantages relative to everyone else. Of course there's unique benefits to be a woman, just as there are for being a man, or for identifying as other genders. Each also have major detractors unique to each group. I think the goal should be recognizing where the disadvantages are and addressing them, rather than comparing relative privilege in a sympathy contest. Ie, women have privileges, but they don't outweigh thei…
/r/MensRights03/01/19 08:38 AM
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This. I wish this sub was more pro men and less anti-feminist, for instance. Seems to miss the point most of the time, imo.
/r/MensRights03/01/19 08:18 AM
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Seconded. This doesn't belong here and is kinda gross.
/r/MensRights03/01/19 07:39 AM
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This really doesn't belong on this sub, and is kinda grossly prejudiced.
/r/MensRights03/01/19 07:38 AM
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Like the united states of America, for instance?
/r/MensRights03/01/19 07:04 AM
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Wow those are some gross comments at the bottom of that article. Straw man army.
/r/MensRights29/12/18 03:43 AM
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Without the forethought and for the sake of hatred, this woman would become Thanos
/r/MensRights26/12/18 02:51 PM
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Short answer, no, cause I care about human rights, not exclusively women's rights. Long answer; I'd say feminism is a bloated and diverse group of very differing ideologies ranging from genuine care to outright bigotry, and I'd rather not be known under that label. But, in a perfect world where feminism is consistently about fighting systemic oppression of and discriminstion against women? Sure, I'm on board with that. The thing is... feminism and mra shouldn't be mutually exclusive. We all go t…
/r/MensRights26/12/18 05:06 AM
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No worries dude. We're all learning.
/r/MensRights24/12/18 06:51 PM
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Faire enough. Idk either
/r/MensRights24/12/18 06:10 PM
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Hey, far as I'm concerned you're welcome here. Caring about men's welfare is (or should be) a universal thing. Others have covered suggesting identity crisis subs... so I'll just wish you peace and extend a pleasant "you are not alone"... cause you're not, and you're gonna be okay.
/r/MensRights24/12/18 08:25 AM
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fair, shoulda scrolled. It's annoying when the sauce isn't in the post, but that's my bad.
/r/MensRights24/12/18 05:36 AM
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I try to boost this story whenever I hear it. Regardless on the ideological camp you're in, you should know the truth and not try to wash out the past with modern lenses.
/r/MensRights24/12/18 04:01 AM
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r/toxicfeminity should totally be a thing. While we're at it, we could also use an r/heterosexuality, cause while we have all that "societal privilege", we are severely lacking in safe, supportive spaces that cater to our unique needs and struggles.
/r/MensRights24/12/18 03:44 AM
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define what a feminist perspective is and who is and isn't one, and maybe they'll actually get somewhere.
/r/MensRights24/12/18 03:39 AM
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are feminists left? I kinda consider them apolitical tbh. They seem to side enmass with whoever says the right buzzwords
/r/MensRights24/12/18 03:38 AM
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I have hope for Gen Z, those colourful little bastards are really quite decent human beings
/r/MensRights24/12/18 03:32 AM
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agreed that from a business, pragmatic pov this makes total sense. Sets a gross precedent though. Like selling, idk, carrots by saying they contain no meat. Enabling sexism is socially bad, even if it makes business sense.
/r/MensRights24/12/18 03:25 AM
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seconded
/r/MensRights24/12/18 03:22 AM
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you wanna give a sauce there? This seems really suspect. We should be above falsifying evidence to promote our own dignity... I mean what is this, congress?
/r/MensRights24/12/18 03:01 AM
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God bless your compassion for us :)
/r/MensRights18/12/18 07:53 AM
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