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MALE DEPRAVITYTheHayleStorm204/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 03:21 PM
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I approached him and asked for a spot and we started a conversation. It was then clear we were both interested. I clearly said in this comment that it’s different if the female initiates conversation and the man indicates interest.
/r/seduction18/02/22 12:25 AM
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Yes! I met my HVM bf at the gym and he very much matched everything you described. It was obvious he took care of himself and was a very hard worker. Initially I approached him and he later shared that I had caught his eye but he didn’t want to be disrespectful if I was simply there to work and be left alone. As soon as I showed interest he went out of his way to make sure I knew how he felt about me and take me on a quality high effort date. It’s also a bonus that we have shared interests and v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 08:50 PM
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As a female who spends a lot of time at the gym, please leave her alone. It’s not the place to flirt or try to get dates. We’re there to work. If she was really interested in you she would have made it very clear. There’s a good chance she used the machine next to you because it’s her favourite or for some other arbitrary reason. If she started a convo with you or asked you to spot her then I would feel differently.
/r/seduction17/02/22 07:34 PM
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I can pretty much promise you they’re not actually sisters. This only happens in porn. Use that money to work on yourself.
/r/seduction11/10/21 01:12 AM
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I mean all of those things have done way more for me than any man ever has. I think we’ll be alright.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 09:17 PM
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So I’m not saying you should settle whatsoever but maybe try reconsidering different things you find attractive. I was always attracted to tall, large muscular men with dark complexions. It’s just what I like. Awhile ago I met a guy through my cousin who had a handsome face but was shorter and had more of a runners build than a bodybuilder which is usually my thing. However I was very attracted to his style including how he dressed, wore his hair, and his tattoos. Sometimes being open to explori…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:57 PM
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So I’m a social worker and I will say that most male social workers I’ve met are quite lovely and HVM. There just aren’t many and in my experience most are older or gay. In my experience they tend to be very respectful, empathetic and stable. On the flip side I do not date men in finance. They tend to be self absorbed, narcissistic, and disrespectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 04:08 PM
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My LVM ex was a military cop and at one point I was considering enlisting to get my masters degree paid for. He straight up told me not to as the chances were extremely high that I would get raped/coerced/blackmailed by fellow soldiers. It’s a thing and they all know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 04:03 PM
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So when my ex and I got married I had owned my condo for several years already. I had a prenup drawn up that stated he had no claim to the property. This paid off for me in the divorce and made things so much easier. I would not recommend getting involved with someone financially beneath you to begin with; but if you do, please protect yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 03:38 PM
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I’m 30. My bf of a year is 27. He’s far more mature than my ex who was 38 and he’s better looking. Age doesn’t mean shit when it comes to maturity. I prefer my younger man who is both pretty and eager to please, thank you very much. Edit: misspelled a word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 10:00 PM
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Ew no. Just no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 02:42 PM
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I dumped a guy once who insisted I fold his laundry while I was at his place and he wasn’t joking. I am no ones mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 06:16 PM
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She says her kid is 6 years old. I think he’s using this to manipulate her into anal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 03:49 PM
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Literally my ex. Him: “I feel unsafe in this relationship because you always make me the bad guy”. Me: “I just call you out when you do really bad shit to me…”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:25 PM
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This is what I mean when I tell men that they love the idea of me but don’t actually love me. They love that I’m pretty, smart, educated, and successful and how that reflects on them but they don’t actually love me for me. I’m not a pretty shiny medal to show your friends and colleagues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 02:34 PM
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Ya it’s uncomfortable. My ex lied to me about his age and when we met I was under the impression he was only three older than me but I later found out he was almost ten years older than me. Obviously the lying was a big problem but the age gap made me uncomfortable. It seemed like a red flag to me that a man who was almost 40 would prefer to date women in their 20’s. Turns out he definitely did that because he felt we were easier to manipulate. My current partner is 2 years younger than me and i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 04:19 PM
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Something similar happened to me. I was 27 and had perfect credit, sizeable savings, my own home and paid off car and a good job. I helped my ex husband get his green card (I know this was stupid) and he absolutely bled me dry and I actually went into fairly high debt paying for his immigration lawyers. He did not contribute whatsoever aside from cooking which was something he enjoyed. I came home from my stressful social work job every day to a filthy home and he had been sleeping all day and p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:56 PM
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He thinks he’s a lord. Just doesn’t realize he’s a slumlord.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:51 AM
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I’m proud of you for facing your fears. I’m a social worker and project manager of my non-profit program. When you need to explain your employment gap just say you were caring for a sick parent/grandparent or dealing with health issues yourself and are ready to enter the workforce now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 12:06 AM
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My ex was “traditional” and religious and appreciated that I was religious too and wanted me to be a stay at home mom while he was the provider. He also enjoyed calling me awful names in bed and choking me until I blacked out. “Traditional” was just code for misogynistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 10:18 PM
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I own a 2 bedroom 2 bathroom home for myself and my animals and the amount of people who comment “that’s a lot of space for a single lady” piss me the fuck off. No one says that to men who live in the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:51 PM
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My mom definitely practiced FDS way before it was a thing. She held out for my dad who is a HVM and contributes equally to the household and does extra when mom needs a break. Growing up I saw my dad do as much if not more housework than my mom. It made sense to me and I was so confused when I went to friends homes and saw their mom doing everything and their dad did jack shit aside from working. That is no way to live. I’d rather be alone than not have a true teammate in my partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:30 PM
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So I make quite a bit of money at a somewhat young age. My partner is not on my level financially and that’s fine with me. He still contributes equally to the household both in terms of bills and chores. Occasionally I may want a nice meal I know he can’t afford and I don’t mind paying for it. He doesn’t love this but he’s working on getting his money up. It would be a cold day in hell before he would ever pay for a meal with my money for the sake of appearances. Just own it for what it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:43 PM
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So many dudes I met there were shocked that I did extensive checks beforehand of their social media. I met my bf in hinge and he thought it was funny I checked him out first. I told him that old quote “a mans worst fear of a woman is being laughed at. A woman’s worst fear of a man is being killed”. He understood after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 05:09 PM
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My ex promised me for weeks that he would make my birthday special. Promised me a nice dinner and such. He even told my mom this. I came home to hamburger helper and absolutely nothing else. No gifts, no cake, nothing. “But hamburger helper is special because I never tried it until I met you”. Hamburger helper was one of his favourite meals. I don’t even really like ground beef which he knew. Fuck outta here with these bums.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:55 PM
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Dating/marrying a man for money just means control to me. “If you give a man the power to feed you then you also give him the power to starve you”. I’d rather feed myself and date/marry for actual enjoyment and love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:54 PM
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I needed to see this. I’ve done really well for myself and I’m currently holding down my partner who barely works because of immigration issues and I take care of most everything. I’m honestly getting sick of it and often wish I could be with someone who can take care of me too. I feel guilty for feeling that way tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 01:29 AM
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Also most male rape victims are raped by other men. So there’s that. Yes there are female rapists but it’s a pretty small pool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:39 PM
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That nonfatal strangulation stat had me shook considering my ex enjoyed choking me until I passed out and he was a military cop with regular access to firearms. I’m just glad I got out when I did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 03:25 AM
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I’ll take my man who’s younger than me, built like a Greek god and enthusiastic thank you very much. Why the hell would I want a guy the same age as my dad?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 01:14 AM
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I’ve heard that line before. It’s bullshit. He’s just trying to make you feel guilty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:32 PM
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Best advice my mama ever gave me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:31 PM
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I broke up with my ex for that reason. He did absolutely nothing for my birthday. He knew birthdays were important to me. How does it matter that birthdays aren’t important to him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:29 PM
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Yup! My ex husband and I didn’t work for a lot of reasons but even when he was broke on Valentines Day he made sure to cook my favourite meal for dinner and packed me a lunch for work which he slipped a beautiful love note into by surprise. It can be done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:28 PM
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They only date size 4 and smaller but apparently I’m the shallow one for only dating 6”0 and up. Ok then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:13 AM
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Even if he’s sure she wants to marry him she may not like that kind of public attention. I made it very clear to my husband when we were discussing marriage that I would not appreciate a public proposal. This is selfish as hell. He’s not doing it because it’s what she wants. He’s doing it so he can receive praise and attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 06:39 PM
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Tbh this is why I date gym bros. They’re the closest us straight ladies have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 12:24 PM
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