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1	Letting Go of Attachment -- From A to Zen No, I have no good way. Like you, though, I try to trust.	/r/seduction	26/07/12 03:11 AM
1	Letting Go of Attachment -- From A to Zen Well I guess it's good advice, but from my experience it's not enough. one's ego is too strong and seems too real so even when you "know" it is wrong and fallacious you will listen to it and follow it's will, because it is working on the deeper emotional level, while the argument against it are intellectual. So you need something more. I agree. That's also what I'm getting at in my post in this same thread.	/r/seduction	25/07/12 01:12 PM
2	Letting Go of Attachment -- From A to Zen You may find Tolle's A New Earth better organized and more accessible. For a taste of zen in its simplicity and profundity, Shunryu Suzuki's Beginner's Mind is wonderful. For an entry into the actual source scriptures of Buddhism, The Dhammapada is a simple, doctrine-free read that just highlights the cause-and-effect of how you live your life. In many ways it is similar to the article posted by the OP, only in the rhythm of the original ancient verses. I recommend the translation by the Venerab…	/r/seduction	25/07/12 01:10 PM
2	Letting Go of Attachment -- From A to Zen There are a lot of good encouragements in this piece, but perhaps so many that it becomes daunting. We should also be aware that reforming one's habits is only part of the picture: the essence of zen is awakening to the nature of one's own mind. No lifestyle change or psychological strategy can substitute for that. Simply put, the more profound transformation happens from the inside, out. Although this particular article is in line with Buddhist teachings, I want to urge people to take care in r…	/r/seduction	25/07/12 12:57 PM
1	Peacocking: am I doin' it right? Most of those pieces are fantastic; but the whole deal is clearly more wrapped up in fantasy than a true expression of who you are. It's as if you want to be bold, but haven't quite found it in yourself yet, so you're clinging to a story instead of letting boldness radiate from within you. It's not that far off from little boys running around with towels around their necks, playing superman. When it comes to peacocking, I'd opt for sophisticated, celebratory, and authentic any time over pretenti…	/r/seduction	30/04/12 01:44 PM

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