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TheHonPhilipBanks/r/MensRights08/04/13 05:37 AM
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They are soldiers without a war. The skills they had are not longer appreciated. And the current environment suggests they be weak. Worry not. The pendulum swings.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 09:29 PM
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The best way to meet people has always been through mutuals. I say bring back the old friend of a friend. I have no data, but actual social network based dating seems to require a high trust society. That was probably a good thing. Bring back the matchmakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 06:38 AM
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You'd be right if it weren't for their tone. And yeah its not an effective means of changing minds, especially not on the internet. I do imagine though an understanding of people's issues does occasionally lead to reevaluating how they reject and interact with people at least. Presumably women have brothers and male friends. I don't see a lot of direct appeals for pity fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:20 AM
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Well damn. Why feel bad for anyone ever? Fuck em, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:06 AM
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Others hinted at the fertility gap. But also trends don't hold forever. Younger generations avoid situations of their predecessors. I bet gen z/a won't act like millennials.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 06:31 AM
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Maybe they don't actively buck all symbols of traditionalism. Also culturally seem more family oriented and less individual. In America money keeps score. That should cause downstream issues. I assume in Europe they have other values.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:21 AM
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They don't recruit. Being ignored by other groups creates a vacuum and the red pill is the net for being spit out on the other end.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:57 PM
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Have you considered that it's a power play that has little to do with the man and a lot to do with taking from the woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 12:49 AM
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Ummm. I mean men used to hang out during and after work. And then women joined them. Its not their fault per se. But that was a result and everyone is ignoring how men used to form friendships. We blended everything, school, work, and social.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 12:03 AM
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People want attraction to be absolute. But its relative. Each individual operates to their advantage and each collective does too. With sides change tack depending on the situation. And the pendulum swings. And the next generation does something new.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:01 PM
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They aren't common. Probably for the reason you cite. But are equally funny. Like have you not read the Monkey's Paw?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:09 PM
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Don't forget the female version, which is I opened my to get some D and my husband fell in love and left... Honestly I could read open marriage regrets all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:36 PM
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I knew this was Lillith just from the title.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:12 PM
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Just because they don't ask doesn't mean they don't assess for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:37 PM
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Some women. Some men. End thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:03 AM
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If you mean not caring so much about image then sure. Metrosexuals seemed to do ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:56 AM
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Do you advise C students to apply to ivy league schools?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:29 AM
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If its so tranquil why do they complain about not finding a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:27 AM
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Do what you want. You state this like the advice giver is trying to fuck them personally. As though only single men give that advice. But it is the same advice, friends, siblings, parents, and coworkers give. When someone is blathering on about something they don't have, lower your expectations is an answer. That or keep waiting and potentiallygo without. You'd advise the same if they were looking for a house or a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:28 PM
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As though people's work makes them interesting.... I think you focus too much on what they do and are, than on what they are not. They are less aggressive, and the things that need doing are already done, minimizes tension over home duties. Some say its a a control thing, but it goes both ways. They want the man, and need him. And the man gets to feel like a provider. Having a sahm/w is a mark for status for the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 10:28 AM
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On the flip side, indecent proposals, foodie calls, pumps and dumps, secret fostering, cheating, lying etc have no consequences with strangers. They still happen with people you know, but its disincentized. If people dated friends of friends instead of Hinge matches, I think people would be happier. Also, I think people would filter less superficially.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:24 PM
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She's described all of psychology. Like abandonment and daddy issues do t exist. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:04 PM
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People dont like being used. More at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 11:43 PM
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You're comparing 18 to 30. What you conveniently miss is the 30 year old concurrently doing both.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:03 PM
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Sounds like you got hurt by a specific person. I wouldn't universality that experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:45 AM
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Naw. There is a female version of this too. And that is career women who later learn they want a family and can't turn back time. Its a rough game for anyone doing what the are told and it not being useful for their goals later. See also coding.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 12:30 AM
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Seems to me when women ask about a new man their friend is dating the first question is what does he do. Is that for no reason? That doesn't make it the most important. If they are going out she probably thinks hes attractive. But I'm sure some good looking broke guy can opine on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 09:11 PM
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I think people conflate liking sex with having lots of partners. They aren't mutually exclusive. Also could it be that the count is it a marker for something else. Despite comments here, many partners is high risk behavior and in most cases not decisional. We never talk about that. Just the moralizing. Seems mostly what the women are reacting to is that men dont get judged for it too. They probably should. But if men and women were the same or treated the same we wouldn't have this sub...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:30 PM
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Well that's probably because people treat femininity like a spectrum and masculinity like a toggle. Just think what evidence we use to imply a man is gay. It is a full scale accusation and not oh he likes this one girly thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 04:26 PM
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I thought this. But doesn't it kind if self correct? Some small group out there is having 3 kids per woman every 20 years is going to catch up to a majority having 1.3 or whatever every 35. I think like that 10% becomes 75% after 100 years while 90% becomes 25%. Granted people economize, westernize, liberalize, citify so the effect isnt compounded. But the point is cultures with the higher rates will make up ground. I just kind of assumed we all become Mormon or Muslim while everyone else disapp…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 07:12 AM
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Wait your example is influencers? Idle consumption is not the same as commitment. Hence the game FMK. The standards are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:51 PM
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Do you want a relationship or a good relationship. People who meet through mutual friends geta better chance at the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:00 AM
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The issue this poster is skipping is that women worked for financial freedom, but still insist on finding providers... That by itself yields the vast majority of the issues we see today in the relationship market. If women working did not yield that attitude, I dont think this sub would even exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:13 PM
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Why? We tell women to forgo all of that to get money, often times for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 02:21 AM
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They haven't seen a beautiful mind. They think you are explaining to pick a 4. Chasing 10s to get 6s later because they never got chosen is -ev when they could have had 9s no problem if they were more strategic....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:21 PM
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Is there not a difference between choosing to not settle down and not having the resources to?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:19 PM
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You need an apples to apples comparison. Not single to married. But could be married and are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:57 PM
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You are either comparing all of the benefits on one side to all of the responsibilities of the other, which is unfair analysis. Or this is a terribly unbalanced relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:48 PM
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It is obvious to everyone except op. If everyone does as they suggest, all the women are in soft harems and there are no relationships.... This is just bad hedonism. Also, hot take, there is more to life than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:42 PM
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This person above is trolling you. And this you might not like women rhetoric sounds an imawful lot like they like being women and won't any difference for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:45 AM
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I expect attractive anyone to get attention. Im mostly surprised tgat average and above average men dont make the cut in many categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:34 AM
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Op acting like feminsm didn't create a market encouraging high pay for office jobs that create little.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:58 AM
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This would make sense if they carried around pictures of people they fucked. But they dont. So....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:59 AM
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How is it positive if this is the effect?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:45 PM
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Yall keep treating this static. If either side continues to hold out there will be people no in relationships or folks settle. If either saide starts doing what the other wants the price will change. That's basic economics. Also dating like real estate is local. I think people in big cities have more issues because of the paralysis of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:27 PM
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I normally see people saying men don't care what she does because successful women complain assuming it makes them more desirable...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 04:33 AM
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Doesn't have to be everyone doing it for it to be a problem for some. People are not a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 11:48 PM
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No fault let's people get paid out when the other person did nothing wrong. That incentivizes divorce over working it out. It encourages willy nilly proposals instead of being certain.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 12:41 AM
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This is what I was thinking. For each unilateral obsessive being talked about here, there are 50 implied agreements where the other person let's this happen. The adjunct to the nice guy, is the friend zone, who knows exactly what's happening. Women literally keep backups, and backups to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:20 AM
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Having more access and ignoring the fact that this is still a market is delusional. There is more competition than ever. It's like saying small business is easier because you can sell on the internet. Sure. So can everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:19 AM
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Seinfeld s8e3 https://youtu.be/CyLcvPzGkFQ
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:23 PM
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It's called civil contempt of court. They can hold you until you comply with any order of the court. It's not considered undue punishment because the person in custody holds the keys to their own jail cell and can end their incarceration at any time.
/r/MensRights23/05/15 05:43 PM
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It may not be logical to you, but anyone well-versed with American criminal procedure would agree with me. Go ask over in /r/law. Delays help the defense prepare for their case or may even lead to a case getting dismissed. It is better to waive time and have your client get acquitted after a year in jail than it is to force the issue of a speedy trial and have him sit in prison for decades because you failed to prepare.
/r/MensRights09/04/15 01:16 AM
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Yes. If you know you will be going to trial instead of taking a plea deal, which is 3-5% of the cases in the US, the defense will normally ask their client to waive this right to speedy hearing and trial. "As it happens, defendants can and often do “waive time”—that is, give up their right to a speedy trial—which allows the preliminary hearing to be delayed to a time convenient for all the major players in the case. Delays usually benefit the defense, which is why it’s very common for defendants…
/r/MensRights08/04/15 03:26 PM
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I really don't know the details. I don't have the court docket. What I do know is that to survive the arraignment and preliminary hearing stages, the prosecution only needs to establish probable cause (defendants do not win at this stage for this very reason). In this case, assuming collusion of the girls, they definitely met that burden even though it was all made up. With regard to the speedy trial, you normally waive that in order to give yourself time to prepare a better defense.
/r/MensRights08/04/15 06:24 AM
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Sure, but that is a right that he and his attorneys almost certainly waived. Look, I am not saying it is right; I am saying that this is how American criminal procedure operates.
/r/MensRights08/04/15 06:16 AM
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I know it is weird, but everyone is held in jail pre-trial unless they can post bail (when available); it has nothing to do with guilt. It has everything to due with the likelihood of flight or a danger posed to the community given the allegations, which are presumed to be true for the purposes of the bail hearing.
/r/MensRights08/04/15 03:34 AM
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I'm very bothered by the presumption that thinking two parents are more effective than one makes someone a sexist. Over half surveyed take the alternate stance. Believing that the rise in single mothers is not a good thing for society is not an attack on women. It is common sense. Boys and girls are affected. People should not feel bad for taking that view.
/r/MensRights06/06/13 02:01 PM
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I truly wonder whether adding more males to the profession of psychotherapy would help. I think this very closely mirrors the issues in education. The two are likely related.
/r/MensRights25/03/13 05:02 AM
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