TheHouseSomalian Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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–	Being laid back and uninvested is not what makes men attractive, women are attracted to men who act like that because those men are already attractive Every man can afford to not care about rejection. It’s all in your own head. You always have the option of remaining single UNLESS you are so afraid of being alone that you HAVE TO HAVE A woman. Which is what makes you weak.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 12:08 PM
–	What advice would you give to your struggling son? So your dad the Chad didn’t teach you anything about getting pussy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 11:48 AM
–	Luck plays a much larger role in dating success than most people like to admit That’s why you should only take advice from kissless, touchless virgins. They definitely know what they are talking about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 10:28 AM
–	Luck plays a much larger role in dating success than most people like to admit Luck has almost nothing to do with it. Your friend who gets ghosted and stood up is subconsciously causing those reactions in women for several reasons. He gives of needy, desperate vibes. He is overly nice and accommodating to women who give him the runaround. He has no self respect/esteem. All of these are comorbidities of course. Stop spewing crap you have no idea about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 10:26 AM
–	Being laid back and uninvested is not what makes men attractive, women are attracted to men who act like that because those men are already attractive It’s spelled LATTER	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 10:20 AM
–	Being laid back and uninvested is not what makes men attractive, women are attracted to men who act like that because those men are already attractive I love kissless virgins giving me dating advice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 10:19 AM
–	What advice would you give to your struggling son? And Chad would impregnate her why when he could have the worlds top women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 10:13 AM
–	The fear of being used for sex is really about insecurity and validation. How much do you enjoy it when you take out a girl to a nice dinner and a show, treat her like a gentleman the entire night, drive her home and when you try to make a move to kiss her at the end the night, she says: “oh hey, thank you the wonderful date, but I only like you as a friend”?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 10:29 PM
–	What advice would you give to your struggling son? Trick question. A woman’s son can never be short and average because women only fuck the tallest, handsomest, chadliest Chads.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 10:27 PM
–	Our knowledge of dating is limited to our self experience This is just retarded. It’s like a person who grew up with dogs and likes dogs and dogs love him, he is all of a sudden biased and doesn’t know shit? But the guy who was bit by a dog as a kid and now has a terrible phobia of dogs and avoids them actually knows more about dogs than the person who spend this entire life with them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 10:09 PM
–	Our knowledge of dating is limited to our self experience Don’t you love it when kissless, hugless virgins tells that they know women better than any guy who has actually dated a ton?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 08:30 PM
–	In progressive worldview, women cannot "use" men so their entire worldview of "lying" in dating is skewed. While there are crummy people out there, most of the complainers admit that they get ghosted all the time. At one point; you have to look in the mirror and figure out what you are doing to cause that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 04:51 PM
–	If most men followed the "look for implicit attraction signals / read the room / make sure there is some interest" advice that is given, most men would have minimal opportunities Don’t look at u/MrAnonPoster posts! Oh, you already did? Take all the time you need in the bathroom honey.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 03:10 PM
-5	Why do (some) women monopolize being pampered as something only women are entitled to in a relationship? I’m a simple man. As long as she swallows and doesn’t spit it out, I consider that being pampered. If she is open to anal as well or bringing her friend to the bedroom, I count my lucky stars. Plus, girl in video is hot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 11:21 AM
1	women have an aundance of BOTH casual and romantic options What you guys never get through your thick skulls is that this validation and approval seeking and intense neediness is actually what causes women to reject you all the time. You are speaking about desperation as if it is some inevitable law of the universe, like gravity or the speed of light. It’s not! It’s self inflicted suffering and the sooner you let good the idea that you need sex and love, the sooner they will come to you without much effort.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 10:48 AM
3	Q4 Average looking dudes who are struggling romantically? Do you party? Do you host social gatherings and invite others? Do you get invited to social gatherings? No but that’s because I’m ugly and autistic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 10:52 PM
-3	Similar to mainstream dating advice, mainstream sex advice for men should be ignored if they want to be the most successful. You sound so defensive and oppositional. Look into that chip on your shoulder. It’s off putting to others and if you wonder why people don’t like you, it’s probably because of that attitude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 12:01 PM
0	Similar to mainstream dating advice, mainstream sex advice for men should be ignored if they want to be the most successful. Why would stupid men focus on their sexual organ that is the only thing that can give them an orgasm? Are they stupid?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 11:32 AM
2	women have an aundance of BOTH casual and romantic options You do know that the majority of PPD males are virgins? If they NEEDED sex that badly, how come they haven’t dropped dead yet?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 11:25 AM
–	Body count always has and always will matter Of course it matters! My first girlfriend was so inexperienced, she left tooth marks on my dick when she sucked me off. Eventually she learned. Her next bf must have been happier. I’ve had the best sex with women who’ve been around the block and know how to take a dick.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 01:46 AM
1	What exactly does a ‘Chad’ look like? If you are having sex you are a Chad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 01:26 AM
2	What exactly does a ‘Chad’ look like? That’s the thing. Incels can’t really make up their minds on what constitutes a desirable man, because they themselves have never even interacted with women properly. For every tall guy that is popular with women, you can find a tall lanky guy who is struggling. For every good looking guy slaying it, there is a good looking guy who can barely get a date. For every GymBro there is a GymCel. And so on and so forth. Sure. Looks matter. But I urge you take a look at subs like r/Bumble or r/HingeApp …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 06:21 PM
0	What exactly does a ‘Chad’ look like? Playing the acoustic guitar is a cheat code. Almost as good as being a coke dealer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 06:16 PM
2	In experience, how do women act in the presence of an "Alpha" male? I never saw them together outside of class. I don’t think they even talked. He probably had a girlfriend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 01:49 PM
2	In experience, how do women act in the presence of an "Alpha" male? I used to have a class in college with this super hot red head. She’d never smile or interact with anyone, totally unfriendly ice queen. But then the class Chad would come in, huge muscular guy with a very outgoing personality. The second he’d walk in, her face would light up and she’d start grinning and playing with her pen or hair.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 12:40 PM
8	Men afraid of approaching women need to get over themselves Let me tell you something. While well meaning, your advice will never really work. You need to read between the lines of all the comments here. Let me clue you in. If you look close enough, you will see a pattern. The pattern has to do with how the male sees himself, how he sees women and the unspoken rules he subconsciously plays by. Again look closer to see patterns. Here is what I see: women, in their minds, always play a certain role. If we used adjectives to describe this role, it will be s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 10:54 AM
0	Men afraid of approaching women need to get over themselves You live in India and you think the guy simply “approached” a woman? Sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 10:34 AM
1	CMV: What a woman decides to wear has no effect on the amount of unwanted attention she receives This reminds of a sad story from 20 years ago or so. A young girl in NYC was out with her friends, gets black out drunk so they load her in a cab. Cabbie drops her off literally on the sidewalk where she passes out totally drunk. Eventually she gets sexually assaulted. A day or two after this assault, a woman authors a op-ed in one of the major newspapers concluding that “women should be able to get blackout drunk, pass out on the sidewalk and expect that no one will sexually assault them”. Of c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 02:46 AM
-1	A lot of men who are chronically single get immediately rejected, not ghosted after they showed their character No character transformation needed. You don’t need to fake anything. Thats what you got wrong. Wanna get rid of your anxiety? You know what the secret is? Lean into it. Don’t try to suppress it or pretend you are some cool James Bond character. Whatever makes you anxious, don’t avoid it, do it. Lean into it. Even over do it. Then you will find out that fear monster has no teeth and it’s has been stopping you from living your life to the fullest your entire life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 12:31 AM
1	A lot of men who are chronically single get immediately rejected, not ghosted after they showed their character I’m sure they feel anxious and shy. But that’s not who they are. That’s not their real identity. Most people create a veneer to present to the outside world. Beneath it they try really hard to be someone else and to desperately hide all the things they think will get them rejected. Ironically; the more you try to suppress your shyness, the worse it gets.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 12:29 AM
-1	A lot of men who are chronically single get immediately rejected, not ghosted after they showed their character It’s not something you are born with, I guarantee you and it is something that is totally normal. Many celebrities and beautiful people feel shy and socially conscious. Shyness, at its core, is fear of other people, that you will be negatively judged, that you will embarrass yourself, etc. Shy people believe they are in some kind of danger in social situation (as mentioned the danger is judgment, potential ostracism, etc) so their shyness is just the manifestation of the fear. It is all curable …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 07:28 PM
-2	A lot of men who are chronically single get immediately rejected, not ghosted after they showed their character Being shy or introverted is not being “yourself”. Who people are is often more powerful and attractive than they give themselves credit for. The correct advice is “women won’t necessary be attracted to you the way you are right now”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 06:39 PM
3	A lot of men who are chronically single get immediately rejected, not ghosted after they showed their character Because it’s all about your social status.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 05:33 PM
6	A lot of men who are chronically single get immediately rejected, not ghosted after they showed their character You actually don’t need to be a criminals. It’s just about having the balls to go against the grain sometimes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 05:02 PM
3	A lot of men who are chronically single get immediately rejected, not ghosted after they showed their character Because it’s all about money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 05:01 PM
5	Promiscuity and hookup culture is ruining our society. If you can’t handle the heat, get out of the kitchen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 05:00 PM
9	A lot of men who are chronically single get immediately rejected, not ghosted after they showed their character They are not tall enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 04:56 PM
2	A lot of men who are chronically single get immediately rejected, not ghosted after they showed their character Take a guess?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 03:11 PM
–	It is unethical for men to be romantically successful with women I’ve gotten girlfriends before I ever had a job. My best friend had sex with more women in HS and college then most men their entire lives, when he was poor as a church mouse and had his struggling family support him through school. Many time the girls he was banging would take him out for dinners and drinks (with their rich official boyfriend’s money most likely). The ability to make money is an indicator of mate fitness. Men who make things happen in the world, who make the tide rather than ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 01:19 PM
8	A lot of men who are chronically single get immediately rejected, not ghosted after they showed their character Wow, you are just finding out that many women have a thing for bad boys? And that introverted, square, boring autists are not that sought after? Damn bro. You deserve a Nobel Prize for that discovery!!! I’m not surprised criminals get poontang. It takes balls to commit crime desperate all the social pressure against it. It doesn’t take much balls to be a wallflower and hide in the shadows.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 01:16 PM
4	Being the safe and secure option isn't worth it most of the time What do you think is more likely to change? 3.5b women and millions of years of evolution that shaped their mate selection criteria or YOU?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 10:49 AM
3	Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would. Well look at that - people wanting different things at different stages in life, who knew!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 02:01 AM
0	Every woman is a gold digger… So men take no responsibility for being dumb asses? Mmmmkay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 01:50 AM
-1	Every woman is a gold digger… Only suckers settle for being a provider. Why don’t you just stop playing the provider role? When you play provider, women play gold diggers. The guy is causing the behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 12:07 AM
1	Every woman is a gold digger… You are wrong. Money and career are just a symbol of something very important to women. Safety and security. If you as a man are unable to make a woman feel safe, then you need to use your money. That solves the problem. Until it doesn’t. In everything, women are always seeking security. When they go to the club, they are not looking for the shy, nice guys who blends in with the environment, because to them, this is not someone they would feel safe with. That’s someone they would need to protect…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 09:54 PM
3	Being a woman in your late thirties or forties is not the handicap it used to be. I’ve noticed they’re dating more and more young attractive men Yep! Now it’s GILF time! 👵	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 08:42 PM
1	women have an aundance of BOTH casual and romantic options I’m not disparaging women at all. It’s natural that in a relationship there is a dominant and there is a submissive. In a sexual relationship, for the most part, the woman sucks the dick and the man gets his dick sucked. Even in gay male relationships there is a top and a bottom. Heck, even lesbians always have one that’s the butch. I’m saying this for the benefit of the men who think women are ABOVE them. No woman will suck your dick if she thinks you think she’s above you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 07:43 PM
3	Women resent men by default, so they shouldn't act so shocked about men having negative views on them too. This reminds of a story that Dr David Burns tells at his seminars/talks about interpersonal relationship problems. He asks his audience: “Do any of you know someone who is constantly negative and complains all the time and who thinks to themselves: nobody loves me?” Everyone raises their hands so he ask them: “How many of you like hanging out with this person?” And everyone replies: “We don’t, we try to stay as far as possible from them because they are so annoying and draining”. This is an exam…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 04:22 PM
–	Dating is hardest for straight men Oh poor victim you, poor powerless you, poor baby…..I just want to give you a hug.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 04:18 PM
–	"There are plenty of fish in the sea" yet men are told to date within their social circle Jessi’s fucking Christ. Don’t you ever get tired of this old trope of “men are told this and men are told that”. You can do whatever the fuck you want buddy. Women are not your mom. Get over yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 03:58 PM
–	In democracies, there are no laws that discriminate against women, only laws that discriminate against men Gate keeping pregnancy now? I see how it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 12:43 PM
-2	In democracies, there are no laws that discriminate against women, only laws that discriminate against men I will trade you my propensity for developing hemorrhoids?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 12:24 PM
0	In democracies, there are no laws that discriminate against women, only laws that discriminate against men See, that’s already discrimination against men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 12:20 PM
–	I think women aren't really attracted to guys in their league Do this experiment. Go to a sub like r/Hingeapp or r/Bumble and filter out by any post that mentions “Profile review: haven’t had a match in X months”. Pick at least 10 profiles and compare them all with each other. See if you can spot the similarities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 12:16 PM
3	In democracies, there are no laws that discriminate against women, only laws that discriminate against men Men can’t get an abortion either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 12:14 PM
–	Question for Asian males: how does it feel to be fetishized by some women? Asian guys are grateful for any pussy they may get.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 11:45 AM
0	women have an aundance of BOTH casual and romantic options I sure as hell ain’t t taking advice from a guy playing with pokemons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 11:42 AM
-1	women have an aundance of BOTH casual and romantic options You are wrong. A girl gets down on her knees and sucks your dick and swallows your jizz and you think she’s the “prize”? Can’t be more stupid than this. There are two kinds of people in this world. This who suck dick and those who don’t. Just because you see yourself as a worthless worm, don’t extrapolate this to all men, please. Thank you very much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 11:33 AM
1	Metrics in dating are biased against men How would you know a lot of men stay invisible even after liking and respecting themselves? It’s quite obvious you don’t like yourself so how would YOU, specifically know that?	/r/MensRights	04/09/24 10:44 AM
2	women have an aundance of BOTH casual and romantic options Women don’t have more power in the mating game. Thats something you are telling yourself because you like seeing yourself as the victim, the powerless, the inferior, and them as the choosers, the rejecting, the superior goddesses. You create that dynamic in the real world by catering submissively to women. Flip the dynamic and they no longer have any power.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 10:43 AM
10	Being a woman in your late thirties or forties is not the handicap it used to be. I’ve noticed they’re dating more and more young attractive men When I was younger I had a MILF thing so you bet I fucked a bunch of MILFS. Now I’m at the age where I preferred my MILFS at so it’s not nearly as enticing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 10:41 AM
0	Blue pillers just don't want "unworthy" people to date or have relationships. I’m speaking in generalities, but more or less we have many predator traits. Other predators forage as well. But that’s the reason we have bullies, serial killers, war criminals, common criminals, etc. Predators who prey on those they see as weaker.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 10:29 AM
–	How have your dating experiences been? Before I truly liked myself without having female permission to do so, pretty bad. Lots of rejection compared to who I ended up with in bed. After I started approving of myself without waiting for women to approve of me, more pussy than I knew what to do with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 12:06 AM
1	Men have saved more lives than taken. Now wanna do who has created more life on the planet? Right.	/r/MensRights	04/09/24 12:04 AM
1	Have you suffered disrespect for your boundaries, physical, emotional and/or verbal abuse from your partner? No. But I suffered when I didn’t have boundaries.	/r/MensRights	04/09/24 12:02 AM
7	Metrics in dating are biased against men Because the whole idea is just another “man down here, worthless like a worm, woman up there, a Literal goddess” paradigm just in different words. You guys need to pull your heads out of your asses and realize that you don’t need women to give you permission to like and respect yourself. The second you start liking and respecting yourself without female permission and approval, you can have all the women in the world.	/r/MensRights	04/09/24 12:01 AM
-2	Metrics in dating are biased against men You do understand that speaks more about men than women right? Right?	/r/MensRights	03/09/24 11:59 PM
4	Metrics in dating are biased against men How did our caveman and cavewoman ancestors manage to fuck for a million years when they didn’t even have TikTok to make videos about sub 6’ men being worthless?	/r/MensRights	03/09/24 11:59 PM
6	Why do many men lack self worth so much? Self worth and self confidence are two very different things.	/r/MensRights	03/09/24 09:53 PM
11	Why do many men lack self worth so much? The problem is that society teaches us that self worth is conditional - oh you are athlete, great! Society values that! Self esteem points for you. Oh, you have a rich daddy and ride around his Ferrari! Society values that so more self esteem points for you! Oh, you have a job in finance….blah blah blah The problem with making yourself worth conditional on external achievements or even physical qualities (height, hair, muscle build) is that any of these things can change thus making you vulnerab…	/r/MensRights	03/09/24 08:33 PM
22	The argument of ‘superficiality’ contradicts our biological makeup What is your fucking point dude?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/24 03:11 PM
3	Blue pillers just don't want "unworthy" people to date or have relationships. I think it’s easy to say why people mistreat you. You view your role in relationships as the victim, the whipping boy, the desperate guy who has to settle for scraps, the inferior guy, the submissive guy who has to do things to please women although he doesn’t like doing them. Human beings are inherently predators. We have eyes in the form of our head to focus on prey. And when we sense weakness and neediness in someone we tend online on them and rip them to shreds. Is it any surprise that not o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/24 02:42 PM
-1	This Platform Coddles Women and Shames Men I haven’t seen a man able to grow a set of balls via comments from Reddit. That’s something he chooses to do for himself. Or he can choose to continue being treated like shit by women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/24 02:29 PM
–	Ladies what are you doing if this man asks for your number 🌞😏 Sounds like the perfect man?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/24 10:29 AM
1	An average person is a slave to their instincts, that is the case for all spheres of their life and dating is not an exception. Try not jerking your meat off for a couple of weeks bro.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 11:01 PM
–	Why aren't males attending singles events anymore? This appears to a meeting of Men Shooting Themselves in the Dick Anonymous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 11:00 PM
1	Men don’t love romantically either, they’re just coming from a place of scarcity Correct. I gave up romance long time ago when I realized that I help on to these stupid and unrealistic ideas because sex was so scarce for me. Not only did I start getting sex much easier, but I never looked at a woman romantically again. The one who loves the least, has all the power.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 10:59 PM
3	Men are shamed for basically having sexual desires You are violating rule #1. Who cares what women are thinking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 10:58 PM
–	Why doesn’t the mainstream talk about how unbelievably brutal dating is for men? You were saying as you continue to victimize yourself. Again, your self view is of the victim, with childhood trauma and PTSD, broken by others and they oppression. Unable to be your own person because someone else abused you. All of this is you playing the insecure reject, victim role. And those others, parents, kids in middle school who bullied you, etc., they are the oppressors, aggressors, the evil people, keeping you down - the poor, powerless victim. It’s a role you choose to play. You wri…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 10:52 PM
–	Why doesn’t the mainstream talk about how unbelievably brutal dating is for men? Men who are getting laid and having gfs don’t give a fuck about dudes who struggle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 10:47 PM
–	Why doesn’t the mainstream talk about how unbelievably brutal dating is for men? Actually that statement, that he would have killed himself if he wasn’t getting laid as much as he is now tells you everything you need to know about why these men struggle. They are so pathetically dependent on female validation, which happens to be one of the most unattractive traits a man can posses. And then they are Pickachu face!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 10:01 PM
–	Why doesn’t the mainstream talk about how unbelievably brutal dating is for men? Victimizing yourself is not going to get you laid. It’s not going to solve any problems for you because the solution to the problem is to shed the victim persona, which you guys seem completely unable to do. As long as you see yourselves as the victim and women as the oppressor, you will continue to create your own relationship problems. To me it’s clear as day. To women it’s clear as day. The only thick skulls it hasn’t gotten through is yours.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 09:59 PM
–	Why aren't males attending singles events anymore? DONT YOU TALK BAD ABOUT METH!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 10:46 AM
0	What advice would you give to a man looking meet/date people while avoiding dating apps? Really the only advice I have is to stop trying to avoid things that make you anxious and actually lean into them. If going to a night club makes you anxious, then go and do it. Spend the night at a club and leave only when they close it and kick you out. If you are terrified at the prospect of talking to a woman at a bar, go and do it until you no like get feel the fear. Understand, there is no cavalry coming to save the day. There is no manic pixie girl who will rescue you from your boring, sa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 02:17 AM
1	Dating would be easier if most men stoped being thirsty. It’s not shit from women’s perspective. Humans have to decide in a split second if the person is a potential mate. Men look at a woman’s physical appearance because that informs us if she is physically fit for making a healthy baby. Women don’t look at us like that exactly because men don’t carry the baby in their bodies, so our body isn’t as important. Sure; they look at stuff like muscle and shoulder width, but much more important than that is how much is that man is in demand by other women. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 01:30 PM
3	This is all you need. Oh, Gunwitch! You mean the guy shot a woman in the face at a party?	/r/seduction	01/09/24 03:23 AM
1	What are your favorite openers Kill your self already	/r/seduction	01/09/24 03:22 AM
1	Seduction in Philadelphia So stop going out to seduce women and go out to get rejected.	/r/seduction	01/09/24 03:22 AM
4	How Do I Dance With/Potentially Pick Up A Woman At A Concert Without Seeming Creepy? What has society come to when the most normal thing in the world, a boy meeting a girl, has been labeled as creepy and unnatural.	/r/seduction	01/09/24 03:21 AM
1	Dating would be easier if most men stoped being thirsty. It’s so fucking easy. Women never want what they can get and only want what they can’t get. A thirsty guy is very easy to get. No effort required because he does it all for you. It’s like those restaurants that you pass by and the waiters try to get you to come in because the restaurant is empty. Why the fuck would anyone want to eat in an empty restaurant? Men who are not thirsty and don’t need female approval and validation are immediately perceived as hard to get. They don’t NEED a woman and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 02:36 AM
0	Dating would be easier if most men stoped being thirsty. You are wrong and you will never know you are wrong because you are not willing to give up your neediness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 02:20 AM
2	Dating would be easier if most men stoped being thirsty. Man, you almost had it and then you just HAD TO go and find some excuse about men not being able to fucking control their dick. You can very much control your dick. If you learn to control yourself you will be in control of your sex life. If you let your dick control you, you will lose control over everything. Learning to control your dick is part of becoming a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 02:19 AM
1	Banning "low effort dates" are just another way that women hurt themselves. That for me usually results in “don’t let the door hit ya where the good lord split ya”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 02:15 AM
-2	Do you call out your “friend” who hits on a girl you are interested in? Like what? If you were making moves why weren’t you out on a date with her? Stop making excuses.	/r/seduction	31/08/24 11:55 PM
-1	Do you call out your “friend” who hits on a girl you are interested in? He did you a favor. Next time you won’t hesitate to make a move on a girl instead of chatting with her for weeks and relying on a friend to set you up.	/r/seduction	31/08/24 11:40 PM
1	The truth about S*x APPEAL See above.	/r/seduction	31/08/24 11:39 PM
11	The truth about S*x APPEAL Sex appeal is believing you are hot and you know it. Thats all there is to it really.	/r/seduction	31/08/24 10:02 PM
2	In a girl's room right now but she's doing a lot of I wanna/I don't wanna So I wrote that before the guy commented that he didn’t even make a move. So I don’t even know what to think anymore.	/r/seduction	31/08/24 07:40 PM
2	Howto know what a girl actually want . Why use many word when few do trick.	/r/seduction	31/08/24 06:58 PM
4	I fucked up. Advice? You couldn’t get it up?	/r/seduction	31/08/24 06:58 PM
-1	Older men have no incentive to improve themselves for older women who are "tired of their bullshit".. Contrary to what you hear on this sub, the world is full of men who have plenty of choice with women. After all, pussy is the world’s most abundant resource.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 06:55 PM
1	The eye-contact game.. I look at a woman briefly (longer than if I had made eye contact by accident and shorter than if establishing im interested) to acknowledge that I see her, but then go back to whatever I’m doing immediately. I don’t hold eye contact until she looks away.	/r/seduction	31/08/24 04:11 PM
2	Flirty smile when girls walk past you Turn around and say “hey” a bit louder. If she turns around, smile and beckon her with your finger to come back. Then say “I gotta tell you something. I admire a woman who has such excellent taste in men. I’m Bob by the way, what’s your name?”	/r/seduction	31/08/24 04:09 PM
7	Quick question: Does being placed in the “Close Friends” list mean anything? These young generations are fucking doomed.	/r/seduction	31/08/24 04:06 PM
0	Woman willing to help Do men have to bring their own strapons to a session with you?	/r/seduction	31/08/24 04:06 PM
2	"Learning to read the room" is a way for women to retain plausible deniability on their part You did it for your male friends? Sure thing. I believe her!	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 04:04 PM
4	For women, how does it feel when your dating a guy who's statistically is also dating/sleeping other women. Having been on the man side, I would say women don’t necessarily love it but they greatly prefer to being with a man who has zero options with women. And they greatly prefer it to being alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 03:21 PM
0	Need advice: I'm a great funny intelligent good-looking guy that is actually really great at having fun funny conversations with women - but I rarely think about asking them out and rarely when I do they lose interest. Let get this straight. You either don’t do anything or you overchase? And then you think women are the problem?	/r/seduction	31/08/24 03:20 PM
4	Older men have no incentive to improve themselves for older women who are "tired of their bullshit".. “Not putting up with his bullshit” is just code for being bitter and jaded.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 02:36 PM
4	"Learning to read the room" is a way for women to retain plausible deniability on their part I don’t have any other use for a woman than to fuck her. What are you even talking about here? What does be friends with her mean? I will get up at 3AM in the morning to drive my friend from the bar. If I knew single women, I’d hook up my friends. Do you think a woman friend will do any of that for her male friends?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 02:35 PM
1	Banning "low effort dates" are just another way that women hurt themselves. The problem is that when I ask a woman out, she is the one going out with me. If the bitch wants to call the shots and where we go on a date, she’s free to ask me out and pay. Otherwise stfu.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 02:29 PM
0	Banning "low effort dates" are just another way that women hurt themselves. Do you ever sit and wonder why these women are on a subreddit called Datingoverforty and not on a subreddit called HappilyMarriedOrInaRelationshipOverForty?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 02:24 PM
1	best way to improve my game? Interact with people? What are we? Fucking Superman here?	/r/seduction	31/08/24 02:10 PM
1	How do I overcome seeking validation Well, begin by completing an Interpersonal Downward Arrow sheet. Look the term up on the internet. You want to commit to paper how you see your role in relationships with women, how you see women, and what unspoken rules you apply to those relationships. Do this first to get clarity on the exact problem.	/r/seduction	31/08/24 11:27 AM
1	Indirect game I mean you can seduce a woman without words. Language is a relatively recent human invention.	/r/seduction	31/08/24 11:25 AM
121	In a girl's room right now but she's doing a lot of I wanna/I don't wanna Get up and go home.	/r/seduction	31/08/24 11:24 AM
1	How long to do a takeaway/ fear of loss on a girl for? Once she starts reaching out to you, just match her pace and do a little less. This is not really a technique. You just have to internalize this and get over your fear of losing a woman and then you won’t have to think about all these silly games. Just lock yourself in your bedroom and imagine for 30 mins the horrible scenario of every single woman in the world ghosting you or wanting nothing to do with you. What will you do then? Do you kill your self or do you find something else to occupy you…	/r/seduction	30/08/24 09:03 PM
-1	Is going soft momentarily that big of a deal? Stop jerking it to porn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 07:30 PM
1	Is it Beta/Weak for a Woman to ‘change’ a Man? At one point in life, if you are not getting to where you want to be; you have to let the ego die so you can ask for some help and accept that you are the problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 05:52 PM
15	What questions can I ask girls when approaching? Don’t ask questions. Learn to speak what’s on your mind, but filtered so that it’s socially acceptable and not crass. Don’t tell a woman “I’m so fucking horny from all the hot chicks here and I wanna fuck you in particular”. But do say “I have to tell you something. I look around and there are all these attractive women here, but I just couldn’t take my eyes off of you from the minute you walked in and lit up the entire place”. Then keep making statements that come from who you are. Instead of s…	/r/seduction	30/08/24 05:49 PM
1	Rescheduling meetups Ok I see. I mean if it works for you, it works for you. But at the end of the day, whether they agree to a date or not is really decided by how your approach was and there could be a million things that are going wrong there.	/r/seduction	30/08/24 05:20 PM
3	First date help Please update us on your total failure of a first date. I will make some popcorn.	/r/seduction	30/08/24 04:37 PM
2	Rescheduling meetups Stop using stand up as a crutch. Approach women expressing interest in them. Be direct. Tell them, hey it looks like we are connecting so let’s continue this another time. Give me your number and I will call you tomorrow to arrange a date. It seems that you are trying way too hard to get them to come to your shows, which is very ambiguous and kind of a high investment for them (have to go the venue, pay entry fee, buy minimum number of drinks and most importantly, they don’t get to actually inte…	/r/seduction	30/08/24 04:36 PM
2	How to keep women after sex? No, it’s not about not desiring. It’s about not needing. Decide what you want and what type of woman you want. List all her qualities, values, what you will tolerate and what you will not. Then when you meet women, use that criteria to screen them. This will make you the “chooser”. Even if a woman appears to meet your criteria, don’t be quick to fall for her. It may take many months before her true nature comes out. So don’t get emotionally attached.	/r/seduction	30/08/24 03:32 PM
13	Losing confidence after a bad night out Self esteem is the decision you make to like yourself and be good to yourself even when you are down and out and losing. Everyone can feel amazing when they are winning and everything is going well.	/r/seduction	30/08/24 01:22 PM
3	How to keep women after sex? Not sure I understand what apps have anything to do with your original question.	/r/seduction	30/08/24 11:25 AM
8	Any tips on how to Become the Confident, Social Guy Everyone Wants to Be Around at School? This can lead to seduction Begin by liking yourself.	/r/seduction	30/08/24 11:02 AM
-6	I approached 100's of women, here's what I learned The usual losers show up shitting on people trying to help. Good job, loser.	/r/seduction	30/08/24 10:37 AM
14	Why would a woman be mean to the guy they like? lol, all the replies here are so retarded. No, she’s not testing you, no she’s not really mean. Women act that way, the same reason why men might act nervous around a woman or pretend to be super cool around her or sometimes totally ignore her. They are attracted and that makes them act not like themselves. They can’t even help it most of the times. You know how women always tell you “just be yourself”? Well, you can tell them that too. Tell her “hey, just drop the act, let me get to know the re…	/r/seduction	30/08/24 10:34 AM
4	How to keep women after sex? I know everyone hates hearing this, but neediness is the number 1 attraction killer there is. If you are wanting something out of them, like sex or for them to be your girlfriend, you will telegraph that need which forces women to reject you. It’s not clear exactly why this is but the bottom line is that women always want what they can’t get. So think about it. Someone who wants them so badly is someone who is very easy to get. He’s literally throwing himself at them. Think about why you are get…	/r/seduction	30/08/24 10:31 AM
-4	Making a girl invest over text Wow what a winner! You got a nude photo! Wohoo	/r/seduction	30/08/24 03:28 AM
-1	Making a girl invest over text Useless advice. I have texted women. Hey, it’s Bob. Let’s go out. Then they reply and I tell them time and place. I usually give them a choice of two different dates just in case. But no more than that. The harder I tried to joke and tease and build rapport, the deeper hole I dug for myself. Understand that whenever you feel the need to do any of this, to build attraction, etc., it’s actually a symptom of you not having any confidence in yourself and that the woman is interested. So you are tryi…	/r/seduction	30/08/24 02:30 AM
2	Making a girl invest over text You don’t. Whether a woman agrees to go out on a date with you or not is solely determined by your approach. You can always fuck it up by overcommunicating via text though.	/r/seduction	30/08/24 02:21 AM
–	Why do you think we like people that come off as a-holes/sluts? We want what we can’t have. Nice guys and nice girls are a plenty, but there is nothing exciting about them. Nobody appreciates pigeons, but if they see an eagle, they marvel at it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 12:07 AM
2	Woman who act entitled and stuck up lol thinking super hot girls have high self esteem.	/r/seduction	29/08/24 11:57 PM
1	What Was the Best Pickup You Ever Had? Yep, the less important you make getting laid and getting women, the easier these things come to you.	/r/seduction	29/08/24 09:56 PM
1	What techniques one can use to help a girl be more interested in the conversation at the beginning of it? Super needy and desperate	/r/seduction	29/08/24 09:10 PM
2	Approaching someone who seems interested So I would caution you against going up to someone with the intention of getting their phone number/asking them out. Why? Think about what this type of approach implies. It implies that: You have made a decision to date her solely on her looks You don’t know anything about her yet are already interested in dating her You have a desired outcome that you MUST achieve - getting a number/date, etc. and admittedly you are desperate to get together with someone because you don’t have time. All in all,…	/r/seduction	29/08/24 08:50 PM
2	What Was the Best Pickup You Ever Had? I went to a lounge/club place because I just wanted to chill and people watch. Went alone. Sat down on a couch facing the bar and spreading like I owned the place. Pretty soon I noticed that the hottest girl I had seen there was burning holes in me with her intense staring. She was at the bar with a couple of her friends, in a cute little black dress, obviously a Latina with a dumper to match. I knew she was into me from that very second so I waited for my drink, took a sip, went to the bathroom…	/r/seduction	29/08/24 07:31 PM
1	Men living in NYC or other big cities I did settle down but it was completely my decision and 100% driven by me. I put a ring on that finger because I wanted to not because I was pressured or afraid of competing in the dating market.	/r/seduction	29/08/24 07:23 PM
1	How did you get her to chase you? Just keep moving. Stop waiting around for women to give you some crumbs of attention, affection and sex. Don’t get me wrong. If you are coming at this from a needy perspective of HAVING TO GET her, then you will lose consistently.	/r/seduction	29/08/24 07:22 PM
5	It's not a low effort meme, it's a low talent meme Funny	/r/seduction	29/08/24 07:04 PM
1	How did you get her to chase you? Well, when you change into the pursued, you have all the power. So you have to maintain your power. Of course, you can commit to a woman, but for example in the beginning stages of dating, you don’t want to get too serious. You want to give her an opportunity to earn your interest instead of throwing yourself at her. Get it? The way you accomplish this is by withholding your excitement and eagerness and keeping reminding yourself that you may not want her after you get to know her. The mistake g…	/r/seduction	29/08/24 06:25 PM
1	Dating is so draining. Never get second dates. As I said, I gave you the solution but you resist implementing it and instead talking about your bald spot. Oy vey	/r/seduction	29/08/24 05:40 PM
1	How did you get her to chase you? So there are two roles that exist in male female relationships. One is the chaser/pursuer. The other one is the chased/pursued. 99% of men assume the role of pursuer. Women naturally assume the role of the pursued. If you show up as a pursuer, she will assume a pursued role. But if you show up as the pursued, the guy who gets chased, she will assume the pursuer/chaser role. You just have to believe in your reality more. Again, commit to paper the way you see things now. Use an interaction or a d…	/r/seduction	29/08/24 05:40 PM
0	How did you get her to chase you? To be the pursued, it’s not about what you do or say, but about who you are. If you see your role in a relationship as the pursuer who has to win a woman over, because she is inherently uninterested, then no matter what you do, you will not make her chase you. If you see her role as the chooser, the selector, the rejector, the prize, etc., your entire behavior will be governed by those beliefs and you will subconsciously chase one way or the other. The only way to fix this is to write down using…	/r/seduction	29/08/24 03:21 PM
1	Dating is so draining. Never get second dates. I know exactly what the problem is, but you may resist implementing the solution, sadly, believing that you can’t help yourself and you don’t want to play games, etc. Let me break it down for you. I believe you may be coming at dating from the frame of “I must get her interested, build attraction and achieve some outcome I desire (get her in bed, get a second date, make her my gf, etc.). While this may sound good in a business situation or a sales negotiation, it doesn’t work like this in man to…	/r/seduction	29/08/24 03:09 PM