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Entitlement lends one they can do foolish and imprudent things without consequences. She comes across as super entitled, and got herself a trophy boyfriend who is a cuck. Sad.
/r/MensRights17/12/19 10:04 PM
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I'm sick to my stomach reading this story :(
/r/MensRights03/12/19 08:06 PM
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this happened to me a few years back. Ex was dealing with her own issues, and went cold. It was an LDR. I let it go and kept it moving. I would accept it and move on. Do not let the castles you have built in the sky in the future with her ruin your day to day.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 06:23 PM
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Sorry that you are going through this situation. Try and be stronger mentally. Have an abundance mindset. Pull back like other poster have suggested would be a good place to start. Actions speak louder than words. So watch her actions, not her words.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 05:58 PM
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I'm really empathetic to your situation and I'm sorry that this happened to you. Like a lot of the other comments said, you should leave this girl and move on. I know it is hard. Or you could forgive her and make up. However, do you want to deal with the anxiety of always thinking she might cheat? Anytime she has a friends thing going on you will be anxious, and always check in etc. This issue will always come up in future arguments as well. It is going to be a sticking point in your relationshi…
/r/askTRP21/10/19 05:38 PM
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You are not a priority. That is all you have to say. I have been busy.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 05:32 PM
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Many men have been here before. The best thing to do is to find alternative ways for you to be satisfied. Don't do this ever again.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 02:19 PM
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When a woman doesn't have a hobby, you become the hobby. Find a girl who has a hobby, passion, and this will never come up. Don't become a woman's hobby. She should fit into your lifestyle, frame, and not the other way around.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 05:09 PM
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I'd escalate. If she doesn't want to get with you like real soon, ghost her for good.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 07:40 PM
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Translation: This is probably an ex, who she had a thing with and was going to this wedding as an excuse to have a fling with him. That is not okay, but a lot of women do this. What is really bad is the lies and the distraction from the issue at hand (changing the topic and making plans while you press her on her lies). She might have a lot going for her, but she has no integrity. In any sort of relationship, even between siblings, relatives, boss/employee etc, there has to be integrity, which m…
/r/askTRP03/09/19 07:12 PM
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great answer.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 06:14 PM
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She has better prospects. Find other plates.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 04:55 AM
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I'll give you that lol
/r/askTRP15/08/19 06:22 PM
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You had a gf long distance? lol
/r/askTRP15/08/19 02:16 PM
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Good question.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 02:16 PM
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You're thinking about getting your hoodies? Come'on man. Don't look back. You should never be disrespected. Ever. Ghost her.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 02:15 PM
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Thank you!
/r/askTRP15/08/19 02:09 PM
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I think that is sort of a messy situation. But if you like her, go for it.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 10:43 PM
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Call her and tell her you'd like to meet up for coffee or lunch. Face to face interaction beats hiding behind texts and DMs.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 10:35 PM
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In today's social media world, attention is currency. Most women have been intoxicated by the dopamine of likes and DMs they get from social media. How do you stop your girl from being on social media, or reducing her addiction? You don't. You can inform her on the ills of addiction, but you can't do anything about it. If it is affecting the attention she gives you e.g. you're at dinner and she's using her phone, or when you plan to spend quality time and she's on her phone, tell her that you wo…
/r/askTRP06/08/19 10:32 PM
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To be fulfilled you have to be virtuous and do good to others. This doesn't mean that you shouldn't be red pilled. Understand women, and know how to deal with them and as a man, protect yourself. Spin plates, do what you have to do; but your purpose, your mission in life, your goals, have to come first. That is when you will start to get fulfilled. Being redpilled isn't an end, its a means to an end.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 04:57 PM
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It isn't a big deal to say it. It is, after all, just words. Actions speak louder than words. You can say it, but you have to act it as well. For women, however, I put very little stock to their words in a relationship....I always listen to her actions, not words.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 06:26 PM
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That's what she said.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 06:21 PM
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Sorry for the emotional turmoil you are going through right now. It will get better. Time heals. Focus on you, your goals and ambition and your life. The only advice I can give you is Never Ever take her back or give her another chance. If you do, she’ll do it again.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 11:40 AM
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If it don’t make dollars, it don’t make sense. Only on LinkedIn for networking, and reddit to understand how other people think.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 01:14 PM
1

You should have told him to lose some weight. That would've solved it.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 10:26 PM
1

That is true
/r/askTRP15/07/19 03:25 PM
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Facts
/r/askTRP05/06/19 03:53 PM
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Great addition to a good comment 👍🏾
/r/askTRP05/06/19 03:52 PM
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Interesting discussions on Rollo, and generally TRP. Here are the only guidelines I used when I discovered TRP: Think for yourself. Never take what any of these authors/speakers say for the gospel truth without a pragmatic and philosophical breakdown and analysis of their thoughts. Learn about yourself and what you want out of life, your values, and principles. Do what works, to meet your goals and your objectives in life. Never pay (except say...$10 for the cost of a book) anything for someone …
/r/askTRP03/06/19 07:24 PM
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Couldn't have been said better.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 03:56 PM
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Spot on
/r/askTRP28/05/19 03:56 PM
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Go with you gut feelings. It is obvious she cheated. Cut her off and move on. Don't let the scarcity mentality cripple you. Go out and spin plates.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 08:33 PM
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All women are like that. You didn't do anything wrong from the information you have presented. I know it hurts, but better to know now, than to know 10 years into marriage, where you'll have a lot more to lose financially and emotionally.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 08:31 PM
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I'm sure there are a lot of people in your shoes right now. Don't worry, everybody goes through problems in life. It is part of growth, and if you overcome, you become stronger. Lots of the comments have given you solid advice. My advice to you is for you to develop real friendships, people you can talk to face to face, people who you can share your ups and downs with. That will make a big difference. Good luck.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 01:21 PM
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You maintained Frame.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 04:27 PM
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Nothing blows seeing her face without makeup the morning after. Make up will never cover up flaws like overeating and not taking care of oneself.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 04:11 PM
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wow. what a great response.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 07:04 PM
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I wish I was darker. I am black, and very proud. Love yourself.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 07:55 PM
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This will always be in the back of her mind for the rest of her life. He is dead, and resting, but she will never rest, even in death.
/r/MensRights13/05/19 02:35 PM
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I'm dying LOL
/r/askTRP08/05/19 01:59 PM
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I would suggest meeting parents sooner than 6 months. Hear me out. You're not in an LTR, because you don't plan to marry or have kids with her. Meeting her parents would give you more reasons to break up with her in the future, especially if you don't get along with her parents, or she doesn't get along with them. You could use the "dysfunctional family" excuse to your advantage.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 04:22 PM
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Hypergamy doesn’t care my friend. Dust yourself off and move on. Don’t focus your energy or emotions on her.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 03:51 AM
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pump and dump
/r/askTRP24/04/19 02:54 PM
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No comment on the subject matter, but the comments. I have to say that some of the comments I have read are really awesome. Keep up the work on helping us learn how to deal with women.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 02:43 PM
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facts!
/r/askTRP28/03/19 05:49 PM
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You should tell him bro. Do unto him what you’d like done unto you.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 03:32 AM
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The key to life is balance/moderation; do what you enjoy, but don't let one activity make other things you need to do suffer.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 05:43 PM
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Fair points and thanks for the response. Was just looking out :)
/r/askTRP14/02/19 11:24 PM
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I will not be a debbie downer with my response, but I'll be firm. Going forward, if you have unprotected sex with a woman, you should be ready for her to get pregnant. So only have unprotected sex with a woman you would want to get pregnant. (Ideally your wife really) About the to be child: There is nothing you can do, if she refuses to abort. So what next? Here are a few facts and things you should do: ​ Accept that you are going to be a father. It is not the end of the world. It is actually a …
/r/askTRP14/02/19 08:59 PM
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The risks outweigh the potential reward. Advantages: Quick thrill if you smash because its like the forbidden fruit. That is really it. Disadvantages: Have to deal with her ups and downs at work because of her cycle. You'll be her emotional cushion for issues in her home life. Emotional ups and downs between you and her can affect your work negatively. Husband finds out, and he's a psycho...comes up to work and waits for you in the parking lot with a gun. Her marriage fails, and you bear some bl…
/r/askTRP14/02/19 08:44 PM
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Awesome response!
/r/askTRP13/02/19 04:06 PM
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She was looking for validation and reassurance. Women never want the truth if it doesn't fit their frame.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 04:24 PM
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Did you file to get joint-custody for your child? I think apart from all the important lessons to learn from this tragic story, you do need to see your child on a regular basis.
/r/MGTOW11/02/19 11:26 PM
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The problem is that you're going to have a constant fight positioning yourself on a spectrum between addiction and discipline. That is so true. Good response.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 03:55 PM
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Lose my number
/r/askTRP07/02/19 07:22 PM
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Sad story :( Hopefully she can find happiness. Now let's be honest; Her SMV is on free fall. This can cause a lot of women to behave in a less than ideal way in relationships, especially when they realize they are about to hit "the wall" or have already hit it. She's in a toxic relationship with that man and the stress is probably why she hasn't been successful with her pregnancies. At 40, she have should already cashed in her chips, and settled down; She hasn't and this is why she may be desper…
/r/askTRP07/02/19 07:18 PM
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You don't need to ask. Observation is key. If you only are meeting her on Monday and Tuesday, and she's "busy" on the weekend, that can tell you something. If she doesn't answer her calls at certain times, that can tell you something. However, like other commentors have said, 2 months is too short to determine if she's LTR material.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 08:01 PM
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Be stoic.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 04:20 PM
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You took the words right out of my mouth (pause). Balance is key.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 06:35 PM
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Make hay while the sun shines my friend. You are being perceived as alpha at the moment. Don't let that opportunity pass you by. Shit where I eat doesn't apply to college as other noteworthy comments have suggested.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 06:33 PM
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First time, give her the benefit of doubt and let it go. If it is repeated, reduce your attention, slow text her, and give her only Monday/Tuesday dates. All these actions should be subtle, and not overt. For an LTR, it depends on if you are living together (which you should not unless you are married). If not living together, treat her like a plate (as above). If living together, address the problem with and talk about it. If things don't change, escalate by reducing attention, slow communicati…
/r/askTRP28/01/19 06:30 PM
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Sounds like what my ex does. She doesn't realize children are smart and when they grow up, they will know the truth.
/r/MensRights24/01/19 09:31 PM
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I/m buying Netflix puts!
/r/MensRights24/01/19 07:04 PM
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You should stop working on the project asap. Let her out of your life. You should not let her disrespect you like that.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 05:00 PM
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You are beginning to realize your value and are comparing it to the value of women you meet. Once you know yourself, and work on yourself and improve yourself, you will experience this. This is not a problem, because it will save you from wasting valuable time (a finite resource), with people who you do not derive value from. It will save you from countless meaningless texts, calls, coffee dates, happy hours; you could be doing something more productive with that time saved, and only spending it…
/r/askTRP23/01/19 04:56 PM
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You will not be disappointed with any good traditional safety razor.
/r/MensRights17/01/19 04:32 PM
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The best thing for you to do is to go out of your comfort zone and date other women. This will help you not focus on this one girl.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 06:07 PM
2

The Vulcan Safety Razor.
/r/MensRights16/01/19 06:01 PM
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Very good answer!
/r/askTRP16/01/19 04:55 PM
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5 months is not an LTR. You should be spinning plates still. When she flakes, give her the early week (Monday and Tuesday) dates, and block off your weekend for "other more important activities". When she shit tests you by mentioning a previous boyfriend, you could mention casually running into your ex and having coffee with her. Never argue with a SO about social media. Ask her if her parents ever argued about social media. Tell her to focus on the friends you have in real life, and not social …
/r/askTRP14/01/19 11:40 PM
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I definitely empathize with what you're going through. Now lets get to the shits...you shouldn't be going through any of this, because you need her to pay the bills. That is a terrible reason. I suggest that you break up with her asap, and find your own space, where you can afford to live by yourself. Tell her why you are breaking up with her, and do not look back. Don't consider her feelings, because she's already hinted to you that she might cheat when she goes on vaca. You should never ever e…
/r/askTRP14/01/19 11:30 PM
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Kudos. It couldn't have been said better.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 11:18 PM
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You did what you were supposed to do.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 04:41 PM
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I couldn't finish reading this post. Sorry
/r/askTRP10/01/19 04:24 PM
2

Bruh, date other women. LDR do not work. I've been there.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 05:08 PM
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