TheIncelInQuestion Archive

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1	Every woman beater I've ever met was almost constantly in relationships What gets me is how people will say that women can't magically tell if a guy will be abusive or not, then the moment a guy feels insecure about his height every single woman alive has a sixth sense for shitty people. It's so dumb how extreme and black and white these arguments are. Lots of people are really fucking bad at reading red flags for various reasons that usually aren't their fault. Or they just miss the one or two that the abuser can't hide. Or ignore them. Or whatever. It's not all on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 04:49 AM
2	Thoughts on this more nuanced definition of patriarchy? The problem with patriarchy as a theory is tries to assign victim status based on some sort of overall, abstract level of oppression. Like if we use simplistic models and total all the numbers up and compare them free of nuance or context, it's not hard to prove that what we have is a system of men oppressing women. But reality has a about a thousand and one exceptions for that. Case in point, women in child care. You can't conceivably have more power over another able bodied, able minded indivi…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/06/25 08:52 AM
3	Why are these two such huge trends online? Tired of this "Misandry doesn't harm men" BS It's the algorithm. The algorithm shows you content you click on and engage with, whether that's something you're hate watching or something you like to see. You're seeing a small population of extremely hateful people, and/or grifters that are ragebaiting. These are not especially common sentiments online, just very specific circles. Don't get me wrong, it's still a problem, it's just the very specific problem you've identified is not a problem on on the scale you seem to think it is. As for en…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/05/25 12:31 PM
2	This is just dumb You've also got this current trend of trying to find a way to say "no boys allowed, except trans men" without sounding like they don't think trans men are "real" men. Which, a lot of trans men point out is inherently transphobic. Honestly, trans men are kind of the ones getting front seats to progressive misandry. But their voices get completely ignored by basically everyone.	/r/EverydayMisandry	02/04/25 05:27 PM
2	This is just dumb Your experience is horrible, I'm sorry you had to go through that. It's rough out here for us guys. However I will say, that experiences don't cancel out. Women can also have it rough, just in a way you don't see because you aren't a woman, same as they can't see how we suffer because they aren't men. "misogyny is punching up" is the same attitude as "Misandry is self defense". Prejudice is unjust and unreasonable by definition. Being angry that you were mistreated, and that your experience was …	/r/EverydayMisandry	02/04/25 05:24 PM
1	Mandatory feminist book reading at my school I don't think this is appropriate for High School, no. IMO, there's a place for discussion on rape in school, and that's Sex Ed. Teenagers have sex, and it's important they know the rules. But you still wouldn't want that conversation to be happening through literary analysis of a fictionalized account. That's just asking for trouble. To really understand a novel like The Colour Purple you need an adult mindset at a base, as well as a healthier context to compare it too- which is something a lot…	/r/EverydayMisandry	02/04/25 05:14 PM
1	The "Men need women more than women need men" trope is a strange one Some lesbians call themselves dykes for the same reason black people call themselves the n-word. It's reappropriation. It was originally a homophobic slur though, and you were using it as a homophobic slur. Which is not cool. And accepting there are differences between people is all fine and dandy, but you can't just go "oh yeah, women would be helpless without men, accept it" and expect that to fly. Anyway, I'm not particularly interested in taking this further, but... Actually there's no but. …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/02/24 10:06 PM
0	The "Men need women more than women need men" trope is a strange one I mean, dismissing women as being incapable of building infrastructure without the assistance of men is pretty misogynistic friend. Like, maybe it takes them two or three more trips to pour the same amount of concrete, but that's not "they can't build houses" levels of disparity. That's a pretty ridiculous claim. Also you seriously called lesbians "dykes" which is... Yeah. Not cool.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/02/24 06:50 PM
1	Tired Of The "Men Do It More" BS Black on black violence is supposedly due to racism, but male on male violence is supposedly due to men being inherently violent and dangerous. I dislike the whole "men vs women" narrative in general. It seems to me society just has a problem with violence at large and the effects are somewhat disproportionate. That is to say, men are far more likely to be victims of violence than women.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/01/24 11:03 PM
2	The "Men need women more than women need men" trope is a strange one The response to misandry isn't to engage in misogyny and vice versa. Obviously both are needed, and competing over who needs who more is toxic men vs women bullshit. We're all human, we're all in this together. Let's not forget why history is dominated by the names of men, that statistics aren't the silver bullets people think they are, and that IQ is notoriously inaccurate- unless you want to argue that black people are inherently mentally inferior.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/01/24 11:00 PM
5	Even when men don't interact with women. Men are still considered bad guys for not interacting with women. But this shouldn't be a bad thing though. A lot of fundamentalist Islamic men straight up will not be alone in a room with a woman who is not their relative or wife. Why? Because it presents a temptation and opportunity for sexual violence. People who say this kind of shit, like "don't get into an elevator alone with a woman it will make her feel unsafe" are literally just using the same kind of logic as patriarchal religions. It's just instead of saying women should wear burkas about it, they insist men should be the ones to isolate. S…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/01/24 10:38 PM
1	Gen Z men are leaning more conservative while Gen Z women are much more liberal I like how the lines tend to converge as you go back in time, to the point there was apparently a point when men were actually slightly more left leaning than women in the past. Of course they cut the graph off before it could show prior trends, and I sincerely doubt they're interested in studying why that was the case.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/01/24 10:01 PM
4	Gen Z men are leaning more conservative while Gen Z women are much more liberal The scary thing is I've seen this graph in other subs, and it's filled with them making bio-essentialist arguments about how conservatism appeals to men more because they are less empathetic. Like it's just straight up misandry playing into the patriarchal narrative of men as dehumanized violence machines.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/01/24 09:59 PM
2	Whataboutism is a justified and logical response in certain contexts, such as the dominance of women's issues over men's issues in terms of public attention I've noticed that Whataboutism is the go to defense against criticisms of hypocrisy in general. The primary way you expose hypocrisy is by demonstrating that someone consistently holds people to different standards, so by calling every argument "whataboutism" it makes you immune to accountability. Whataboutism is a fallacy because it boils down to either arguing a thing can't be wrong because other people do it/have done it, or it functions as an ad hominem meant to distract from the argument by…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/01/24 09:53 PM