TheIrishBAMF Archive

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1	how bad are guys typically at not being themselves and trying to show the girl a fake life they don't really live? Why are you not able to succeed with a woman without lying? That's the underlying point here. You aren't seducing anyone if you lie to them, you are simply lying to them. If your pool to draw from is so small without lying that you have to lie to expand your pool, then you aren't attractive enough on your own merit. So why aren't you working to improve yourself? Because you are afraid of scarcity, so you capitalize on your perceived "one time chance" by deception. Everything you have said thus f…	/r/seduction	17/05/20 06:50 PM
1	how bad are guys typically at not being themselves and trying to show the girl a fake life they don't really live? You are making a wild generalization, plus "she's a fucking bitch" and "women who don't sleep with you" is hardly a strict correlation. That's some incel thought process there.	/r/seduction	17/05/20 06:11 PM
-1	how bad are guys typically at not being themselves and trying to show the girl a fake life they don't really live? Men need to be aware that what u/Azoz5643 is suggesting, lying to get laid, can potentially lead to lawsuits including sexual harassment, assault, and rape. The degree and objectivity of the lie and the use of manipulation and coercion are also factors, so do what you want, but be aware that there are new consequences to this sort of deception year after year.	/r/seduction	17/05/20 05:44 PM
6	how bad are guys typically at not being themselves and trying to show the girl a fake life they don't really live? It's common in poor quality relationships. Fake guys get women susceptible to falling for fake guys. These women tend to value appearances over substance, much like the guys they end up with. With toxic relationships like this there is the constant battle with staying with someone you have similarities with to objectively knowing it's a relationship with poor foundations. The scale usually tips when people favor beening seen as right and not having made a mistake by being with whoever they are w…	/r/seduction	17/05/20 05:35 PM
4	How does Craig Ferguson flirt? I was a huge fan of his stand up and what Craig excells at is his ability to be completely honest, in a way it's who the guy is. A second factor would be that the man has been through a number of crazy experiences and talks about them constantly, without altering details and often expanding on his top level thoughts on whatever he's talking about. He is simply straightforward and worldly, without being over the top. A third factor in the video is his security, he's in the main chair, he's the ho…	/r/seduction	09/05/20 06:18 PM
1	Are You Willing To Walk Away From The Women You're Attracted To? What on earth do you think the difference is between what you and I are saying? You're saying exactly what I did with different phrasing. We are in total agreement. I wasn't even talking about your post, I was commenting about how people misinterpret posts similar to yours by misinterpreting causality. I don't know if I somehow offended you but now I'm just annoyed that you barely read my comment before making your own.	/r/seduction	08/04/20 10:03 PM
1	Are You Willing To Walk Away From The Women You're Attracted To? It's not, the fact that it's just another instance of someone, me, repeating the universal goal of this whole sub. "Just be confident" is such a generalized piece of advice and its essentially like telling a blind person what sight is like. Until you experience true confidence, you probably just won't understand it. It's crappy advice in quote format, but it's irrefutably accurate. These posts offer a good look into what can be done with confidence and should be understood as that. When reading …	/r/seduction	08/04/20 08:07 PM
29	Are You Willing To Walk Away From The Women You're Attracted To? Before anyone gets too into this verbiage, this article has a deeper layer. The idea is not "do this because", the idea is that you find the confidence in yourself which allows you to basically do what is outlined in the post and be unequivocally unaffected by the result. Once again, and it is truly so fucking corny I want to barf, success comes from your interpretation of yourself. Don't read this as do this (walk away), get that (quality women), rather read this as do this thing (be confident …	/r/seduction	08/04/20 02:55 AM