TheIronPolak Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Is there a place you can take girls that will be easier to k-close? As an addiction researcher merely passing through /r/seduction, let me just say that you're very wrong. For some, sure, it's a self-control issue, but for others, difficulties with cutting back/moderation has more to do with genetics, brain chemistry, and too much/difficulty coping with stress. It is, put simply, a disease. And you wouldn't go around telling people with asthma "It's all in your head! Just forget about your inhaler and allergy meds. Get out there and go for a long run." And while…	/r/seduction	09/05/16 08:18 PM
1	[FR] First attempts at day game. F-Close with LMR. My bad... I thought you were referring to how quickly he was able to get in her pants. While I'd probably choose different words myself, I definitely agree with your general sentiment.	/r/seduction	18/01/14 05:27 AM
3	[FR] First attempts at day game. F-Close with LMR. That too... In the PUA community, we believe that more experience makes us better at what we do and the way we think about what we do. Therefore, we should assume the same for women, and not give them shit for it	/r/seduction	17/01/14 05:13 PM
2	[FR] First attempts at day game. F-Close with LMR. Regardless of whether it's DHV or not, it's wrong. If a guy were in her position, he'd be praised. I don't understand why having a sexual history is a negative trait for women. Better that than having to deal with the "dead fish" and a toothy blowie	/r/seduction	17/01/14 04:30 PM
1	Tip for Talking to Girls in Loud Venues Woah... That's neat! I'm going to try it on a friend or family member to see how it works with voice	/r/seduction	03/01/14 04:30 AM
5	Tip for Talking to Girls in Loud Venues I'm still really confused. You're plugging her ear and talking into it? Wouldn't that make it harder to hear? Can you post a diagram or something?	/r/seduction	03/01/14 02:37 AM
13	[Serious question] What's the main reason you believe you don't have a girlfriend/boyfriend? I would strongly advise against this. Imagine you find the perfect girl for you. She's gorgeous and has all the same qualities your look for in a girl. You date for a while, propose, get married. Great. Now let's have sex! You get down, and it's awesome. You feel on top of the world and closer to her than ever before. Now, a few months later, she says she's not into having sex most days, and only wants to get down once a week. You, on the other hand, are an every-night kind of guy. In addition, …	/r/seduction	07/12/13 09:17 PM
1	How to pick up casual acquaintances? Pretty much. Preferably during a good conversation that you can tell she's enjoying. Remember to smile, maintain eye contact, stand with good posture, and focus on the situation. Don't get in your head.	/r/seduction	01/12/13 11:03 PM
3	How to pick up casual acquaintances? Ask her out on a date. It's harder to be thrown into the friendzone when you're going out to dinner/an event/for drinks on a Friday night (yes, just you two.) Also, it's a relatively low-risk indicator of your interest in her, because you are neither directly showing nor directly stating that you like her. Once on the date, make incidental physical contact, get to know her better by asking questions mere acquaintances don't normally ask (her dreams, desires, family life, her favorite part/thing …	/r/seduction	01/12/13 07:37 PM
4	Need help getting my sh*t together It seems like you need a confidence boost. Do you happen to lift/workout? After a break up several months ago, I found my source of confidence had been my girlfriend, and realize that I needed to find my own source. I started going to the gym a lot, and now I am not only more athletic and better-looking, but I also found my own confidence again. At the same time, I started talking to more people and practicing my social skills, and now I'm at a place I am happy with, socially. If you're interest…	/r/seduction	30/11/13 09:23 PM
2	Constantly cold hands inhibiting my kino attempts. Take cold showers. Use cold water for washing of any kind. Cold showers are good for your skin, hair, circulation, metabolism, hormone levels, immune system, and more. Do a quick google search if you need convincing and give it a try. My hands did not get unreasonably cold or numb at all last winter	/r/seduction	25/09/13 08:59 PM
2	FR: Solo at the bar I have the same question regarding favorite authors!	/r/seduction	19/09/13 08:58 PM
2	A note on being interesting... Sure thing man. Mine's not great either... if only theory translated directly to practice.	/r/seduction	15/09/13 10:30 PM
4	A note on being interesting... "Do you go on Youtube much? I think it's one of the best sites on the internet today. I love that people can share their ideas and art, or teach skills and hobbies with such ease. And some videos can be freaking hilarious... have you seen XYZ? No? Well it was basically this guy doing ABC and the way this happened made it impossible not to laugh." Or you can also branch off and explain one of the skills or songs or whatever that you learned on the site, which could either be used in a story or as…	/r/seduction	15/09/13 07:41 PM
2	What Cold Showers & Approaching Have In Common Excellent analogy. Taking a cold shower is kind of like a mini willpower exercise. Not only that, but cold showers are great for your skin, hair, metabolism, immune system, circulation, hormone levels (including testosterone), and more...	/r/seduction	07/09/13 04:21 PM
1	I was hoping you guys and gals could help me out a bit. Sounds pretty good man. Her going out with her friends is not an indicator of disinterest. She most likely just wanted to hang out with her friends. Her father is likely the reason for her not meeting up with you those few times—don't sweat it. Just continue talking to a bunch of people, with a little bit of focus on this girl until you figure out where she stands. In the meantime, continue working on improving yourself... that should never stop. You mentioned fixing your thinness. Check out www…	/r/seduction	06/09/13 05:02 PM
2	How should I get her away from the party? I can't even imagine the fire that line will stir up inside her if she's already interested in you. That's awesome man	/r/seduction	01/09/13 12:30 PM
2	Hey r/Seduction, I'm on crutches (broken ankle/leg). Am i more appealing? Approachable? Wimpy/Pathetic? How does this pan out in the eyes of a girl? Also, advice for body language while using three legs. As soon as I read the title, I recognized an opportunity for making jokes at your own expense. This can accomplish two goals: 1) it shows that you don't take yourself too seriously and shows you're confident enough to let others laugh at you and 2) it lessens the need others feel to sympathize with you. Once that need to feel bad for you disappears, it's just a few people chatting. EDIT: Oh, and feel better man!	/r/seduction	28/08/13 08:34 PM
1	What are some good hobbies? Excellent point! One round guys vs. girls, the next one you can switch up teams to build attraction with the girl you're interested in	/r/seduction	21/08/13 12:43 AM
1	What are some good hobbies? Pool's a ton of fun, challenging to get good at, and an excellent opportunity for kino if you're teaching a girl	/r/seduction	20/08/13 02:24 PM
4	Going clubbing tonight. I'm pretty new to this and have some club-specific questions on how to approach Where can we see/learn popping?	/r/seduction	17/08/13 08:30 PM
1	Dealing with racist girls? One of my best friends is Filipino and he's pretty great with the ladies. He's on the shorter side and very thin too. Don't let anything get you down, just be the best "you" you can be and have fun	/r/seduction	16/08/13 12:16 AM
1	More thoughts/techniques for the "insta-girlfriend"... Suggestions?	/r/seduction	14/08/13 01:05 PM
1	How to make a girl choose you over another good-looking, funny and accomplished guy? Brilliant idea! I should start going out with my gay friends back at school	/r/seduction	13/08/13 11:21 PM
5	How do you deal with AMOG when you're not intentionally seducing? Welcome! An HB is a Hot Babe, rated on a scale from 1-10. While 5 should, theoretically, be the average, it seems to be closer to a 7. AMOG is the Alpha Male Of the Group. The big shot, or super friendly guy, or decision maker, or leader. There are a bunch of great links you should check out in the sidebar to get started, two of which comprise a glossary of the terms you'll see here on Seddit!	/r/seduction	13/08/13 11:13 PM
2	More thoughts/techniques for the "insta-girlfriend"... That's excellent! "Woah... you like mint chocolate chip? That just happens to be my favorite flavor. I think I'll make you my girlfriend... just for the rest of the night."	/r/seduction	13/08/13 02:42 PM
1	Commandments of Poon I agree wholeheartedly, and I try to employ this type of kino throughout my social interactions.	/r/seduction	11/08/13 04:59 AM
0	Commandments of Poon You're skewing what I said to make it look like I'm against any physical contact... If you're going to tell me what I think, at least make sure it's correct. The commandments didn't list anything about touching someone's lower back. I believe it suggested "touching her inappropriately." I don't subscribe to modern feminist theory. I just don't like assaulting people.	/r/seduction	11/08/13 04:58 AM
2	Commandments of Poon No worries. I'm sorry to hear you've had a bad day, and I genuinely hope it gets better. Right, the translation was a good touch. And I agree, a lot of the basic principles of these commandments are present throughout this sub. I think the tongue and cheek nature of the writing somehow got lost in being taken out of the larger article or website it was originally found in. The important thing is that discussion is happening. It's good for people to think "well yeah I should definitely be aggress…	/r/seduction	10/08/13 09:52 PM
-1	Commandments of Poon It's one thing to be unorthodox, and another to be disrespectful. Richard La Ruina does a good job of discussing escalating with kino without crossing into the territory of sexual assault. Whoever wrote these commandments does not. (See XIII)	/r/seduction	10/08/13 09:39 PM
2	Commandments of Poon I actually refrained from downvoting, because it is technically a constructive post. That's why I voiced my opinion in the form of a comment. While there is some value in the advice, I think it may also lead some beginners or PUAs-in-a-rut to adopt a more misogynistic attitude, which would actually be COUNTER-productive, should there be another alpha in the group with a strong, but respectful frame. There was a post sometime this past week about such an instance, when OP won the girl over becaus…	/r/seduction	10/08/13 09:33 PM
4	Commandments of Poon He's defending himself pretty hard under the top comment. I think he's serious...	/r/seduction	10/08/13 08:25 PM
13	Commandments of Poon Why not give good advice in a way that is respectful to all? This sub is about attracting and seducing women, not "owning" them like dogs.	/r/seduction	10/08/13 08:24 PM
1	Need help with party game Thanks man!	/r/seduction	07/08/13 01:11 PM
2	Need help with party game Could you please explain the push/pull from across the room?	/r/seduction	07/08/13 01:21 AM
2	The closing stage Watch this starting at around 26:00	/r/seduction	23/07/13 07:01 PM