| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 88 | Great boyfriend, not-so-great husband? | DISCUSSION | TheKarenFromHell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 04:11 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 105 | Does anybody else get tired of fake women's posts undoubtedly written by men?Exactly. She can have ANY standards she wants. She is also not entitled to a date. Men can’t stand this because they know how goddamn consistently we apply it and they know their neckbeard-looking asses are out there listing preferences on Tinder as if they’re choosers, and they think being denied sex is a human rights violation. It’s not our fault you guys are ugly and will never be choosers. The rules are applied equally. Level up or GTFO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 02:40 PM |
| 186 | PSA: Tinder will stop showing your account to people nearby if you're inactive for several days, so don't fall for "I deleted this app ages ago but didn't know I need to deactivate my profile separately!"Men covering for other men. Liars all around. Tale as old as time. I don’t even listen anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 02:37 PM |
| 19 | This poor woman thinks this is funny 😳This made me so sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 08:23 PM |
| 6 | Man who used woman for sex is mad that she used him for sex. There is no such thing as casual sex. They will always want to keep it casual but do not like it when you treat them the same wayLiterally this. I do “act like a man” in that I treat men sort of the way they treat women (not escalating to violence or screaming slurs at them obviously because I’m still female and can’t even sink to that level mentally). They HATE it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 11:16 PM |
| 154 | Man who used woman for sex is mad that she used him for sex. There is no such thing as casual sex. They will always want to keep it casual but do not like it when you treat them the same wayThey sell automatic starters for less than $200 anyway that work great. Men can afford to mooch off other people; for women asking for help on the side of the road is liable to be a death sentence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 11:15 PM |
| 466 | Man who used woman for sex is mad that she used him for sex. There is no such thing as casual sex. They will always want to keep it casual but do not like it when you treat them the same wayHis experience? Women aren’t Amazon products and men’s opinion on women is LESS than worthless. If a man gives me an opinion on a woman I just disregard it because they are too erratic to even always say the opposite of the truth about women. Sometimes they just make unrelated stuff up. MEN ARE NOT CHOOSERS. WE ARE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 11:13 PM |
| 36 | Only a scrote takes it personallyIt’s because they still think they’re choosers. They’re suffering under the delusion that either they’re doing the interview or it at least goes both ways. It doesn’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 05:40 PM |
| 16 | Only a scrote takes it personallyYes. This is what frustrates me so much having these conversations with males. They have no logic at all. Just immediate overreaction with their feelings. Even in hypotheticals. Like even if I take my feelings out of it, if we assume NO ONE DYING is the desired outcome, safety precautions are BASIC logic. It takes a huge amount of entitlement to get you distracted from that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 05:39 PM |
| 62 | Bizarre pickme post in another subreddit: woman so excited that the office "hot guy" flirts with her that she goes out to celebrateWe’re just trophies to them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 05:55 PM |
| 12 | If you found yourself starting to NAG your man - LEAVE.Boymoms are a plague. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 12:39 AM |
| 130 | Tell the world you abuse women without telling the world you abuse women 🤫🤭Also they will break them. This always happens with sex dolls and current sex bots. Men get too into their violent pornsick fantasies and mangle them beyond repair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 10:45 PM |
| 10 | I'm shocked that I'm not alone in this. (TW, sexual coercion)Yeah my mom does that. I put basically all my Christmas energy into her and my brother who somewhat participates. Anything I do for my dad is more for their enjoyment than his. I’m prepared to either majorly tone down Christmas or be ready for new traditions when I get married. My bf didn’t grow up with much Christmas and recently started getting really into it. If he wants to be a participant then yay! If he doesn’t I have loads of fun and stress-free activities to keep the holidays special for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 06:58 PM |
| 144 | Anyone else sick and tired of every single top post on the art subreddits images of nude women?Yep. Even my boyfriend noticed this on his own with no prompting from me. He’s a decent guy who tries to stay on top of feminist crap but he’s still a guy. If he’s noticing something is seriously jacked. Reddit is a lost cause. I hope FDS can transition to the website soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 02:47 AM |
| 13 | (long) fascinating Buzzfeed story about stalking and harassmenthard lesson learned No. It is not our job to learn hard lessons. Yes she should lock her door, but the point of the story is some scrote is roving around who needs to be locked up forever. Not that she needs to learn a lesson. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 11:10 PM |
| 6 | This is why venting is a must! And also, it’s hard to leave an abusive relationship because we can straight up get murdered. Some men can’t take No. Rip to these poor souls.It happened to me. Abusive and escalating ex got bored of trying to subjugate me and moved on. At the time it was devastating—“That piece of shit thought HE was too good for ME?!”—but now I am so glad that’s how it went down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 04:33 PM |
| 78 | Do you think you would have an easier time finding a HV partner if you were attracted to women instead of men?Hate to say it, but as an ex-porn user (bi), I can say that for me I just really wanted to see naked women in sexual situations. Like, desperately. Once I found out how exploitative it was I stopped, but before that, even religious guilt couldn’t prevent me from searching up porn. I was very motivated lol. I imagine it might not be as bad if you are out of the closet and dating, but I’m not sure because I haven’t been in that situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 01:23 PM |
| 146 | Do you think you would have an easier time finding a HV partner if you were attracted to women instead of men?I’ve noticed this as a fellow bi but if you bring it up you’re a lesbophobe. Never mind I also criticize stereotypically toxic bi behaviors such as being libfemmy af, faking same-sex attraction for male attention, experimenting with lesbians with no intention of being serious or being with a woman long term, going unicorn hunting under false pretenses, and being into gross poly/kink bullshit. It seems like the criticism is only allowed to go one way. Having said that, I’m not going to sit here a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 01:20 PM |
| 60 | Great to see more young men speak out against porn !! 👌Yes. It really concerns me that boys are seeing the damage porn does to them without examining the damage it does to women. If they still carry the same pornsick entitlement mentality around despite not using porn, they’ll still view women as sex objects and in fact probably feel extra entitled to take their sexual perversions out on women because they aren’t getting the “release” they “need” from porn. They’re also going to blame women in porn for all their problems. That kind of mentality got … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 07:58 PM |
| 33 | Is the bar actually this low? That we are just so happy to find a guy who isn’t r*pey that we think they’re the one? 😐Just want to add to all the amazing replies to this comment: this also implies that if Pornhub didn’t exist (e. g. If feminists finally got it banned which is not that implausible), then she WOULD be obligated to fulfill his sexual “needs.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 05:09 PM |
| 3 | If a man is this obsessed with slimness, he doesn’t deserve to have someone carry his child. He is also probably repulsed by pregnant women.I love how the comments are like “it’s better to be honest about dealbreakers.” Men can have dealbreakers if they want, but let’s be honest—they don’t/can’t really, because they aren’t choosers and at this point even Chris Hemsworth is lucky to have a woman willing to tolerate him. Men talking about “dealbreakers” and “incompatibilities” instead of admitting that they are horrible disgusting animals on relationship subreddits is one of the main things that “woke me up” to how awful most men real… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 04:41 PM |
| 5 | behaviors that connote power, control, dominance: what to avoidGuys usually try to train me off the bat because I tend to style myself in ways guys hate. I know they are socialized to do this so I make sure to do whatever the fuck I want. If they realize they’re out of line and shut the fuck up, I chalk it up to them improving themselves and learning a lesson on respect. If they continue they’re done. This may not be FDS approved since they get a chance, but male socialization is so innate and insidious and instilled from before birth that I think giving a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 08:12 PM |
| 8 | behaviors that connote power, control, dominance: what to avoidYou should write a full post sometime. I learned SO MUCH from just these two comments. Brilliant. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 08:07 PM |
| 8 | Ugly men have been engaging with this trend and the comments are even worse... yeah, I'm content being single the rest of my lifeLet them LARP. What harm does it do? They’ll never get near a woman in real life. They’re so miserable I almost pity them. Almost. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 07:57 PM |
| 60 | On subreddits outside of FDS women are coming to understand that being “independent” 50/50 women will only attract losersYep. My go-to analogy is black-hat and white-hat hackers. They find an exploit, we patch. By then they’ve found another one. Why are they so evil? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 05:19 PM |
| 110 | What are your thoughts on changing your name after marriage?One indicator among many that sexism is alive and well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 10:33 PM |
| 1 | I'm going to sound ridiculous...I don’t think they’re actually weak. We have no way of knowing how much “harder” it is for them other than their own self-report. And we know how much men lie and exaggerate and victimize themselves. I think they’re just used to being enabled by handmaidens who take everything they say at face value. If I can control myself, so can they, and if they don’t, there should be consequences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 04:27 PM |
| 4 | If any of you have made an account on ThePinkPill.co I highly suggest you reconsider itThat whole site is pretty toxic IMO. And very inactive as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 11:35 PM |
| 2 | The FDS Podcast is doing a 2021 wrap-up. Nominate your favorite Queen, Roastable Scrote, Pickme, or HVM!I can’t believe I’ve never seen this before. Brilliant. Saving it forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 06:49 PM |
| 5 | The FDS Podcast is doing a 2021 wrap-up. Nominate your favorite Queen, Roastable Scrote, Pickme, or HVM!Yes! Seconded | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 06:49 PM |
| 6 | Beware of men who engage in avoidance, intimidation, infantilisation, or emotionally abusive manipulations when you bring up a concern. The very moment he displays any of the following (& more), DROP him! Do not let men damage your health.I honestly think it’s beneficial to us how dumb they think we are. My bf is high value and even he slips up and underestimates me fairly frequently. It’s really easy for us to take over and run the show when they think we’re that dumb. I know so many couples like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 06:29 PM |
| 90 | Which one of you is this aboutMen can research and memorize hundreds of Pokémon but can’t be bothered to research how to be good in bed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 04:10 PM |
| 437 | Which one of you is this aboutLol they musta been lurking and saw that other post and decided to write some ragebait. Embarrassing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 04:09 PM |
| 147 | Words and ActionsThey’re not detached. A lot of them have lost capacity for true love and connection, probably due mostly to porn. They are getting an emotional high out of it the way good people (mostly women) get an emotional high out of falling in love. Theirs is from a one-sided ego trip instead, though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 02:07 PM |
| 14 | Religion is by men, for menNone of this makes the remotest bit of sense if you’ve ever cracked a Bible, either. Christianity has become men using the Bible as a tool for their own selfish destructive goals. Which the Bible explicitly warns about. About men, specifically. God knows what’s up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 04:51 AM |
| 59 | "Hyosung (Korean idol/celebrity) targeted at anti-feminist protests after participating in campaign against dating violence"This is a bit unrelated, but does anyone know why American men seem to have missed the memo on looking remotely attractive? I know men from these other countries are often even worse than American men, but they seem interested in attracting women to some extent. They cut their hair, wear nice clothes, smell nice, and even wear male jewelry. There’s an element of female gaze to some of them. American men are so gross overall. Obviously I’m generalizing. But why don’t American men ever try to attr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 12:35 AM |
| 27 | "Hyosung (Korean idol/celebrity) targeted at anti-feminist protests after participating in campaign against dating violence"If it was actually controversial and unpopular to say what she said, you can guarantee her label wouldn’t have let her say it. These labels are not feminist in the least. They promote starvation diet bodies, forcing such bodies onto women, and these idols are often fodder for sick men to jerk off to. If there’s one thing we can take comfort in, it’s that the incels in Korea haven’t taken over yet if she was able to say that without immediately being fired after. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 12:30 AM |
| 38 | I feel like there are no good menOne of the green flags of my boyfriend who I met pre-FDS and pre-feminism is he stopped resisting feminism once I got into it VERY quickly. He immediately looked into it (we were both pretty uninvolved and uninformed) and said yeah, most men are awful. I see why you care and I’m going to try to help. That’s the response you need. Yeah, he could be lying, but the vast majority of even “good men” will pitch a fit if you say anything remotely feminist. I am vehemently feminist, like actual women’s … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 11:08 PM |
| 11 | In case you're tempted to dip your toe back into OLD...Any guy worth his salt will need the bin for things like used cotton pads and q tips and other disposable grooming accoutrements. If he doesn’t have a bin in the bathroom he isn’t grooming properly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 08:10 PM |
| 9 | Please don’t idealise men from other culturesIt is. They named it that so it would sound cold and the unwashed masses would stay away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 04:40 PM |
| 6 | JFC. Men: she cares more about material things more than me. Also men: I had to buy a bed frame to get laid.This isn’t using sex as a weapon. Weaponizing sex does exist, it’s called rape, and it’s something men do. As always, this is projection. Men are not entitled to sex. Refusing them sex is nothing malicious or even wrong. That’s right. You can be married and refuse sex forever and you haven’t done ANYTHING wrong. We as women need to internalize this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 10:15 PM |
| 25 | FDS IS OFFICIALLY 200K STRONG!! 🥳🥳🥳🥳Yes!! I’m not even approved yet and my comments that do get through for my probationary period get mad upvotes. The upvote numbers are WAY high compared to the rest of reddit. When I used to use other subreddits, 20 upvotes was high. Here I easily clear 50 or 70 for just an inane comment not at the top level at all. It’s a locked down sub and I think a lot of women lurk for fear of saying the wrong thing. Also, there isn’t always a lot to say or a lot of new posts each day. But the upvotes speak… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 10:23 PM |
| 93 | Future of social relationships between men and womenI think this is the most likely outcome. Most of these men are lazy cowards. They don’t have the guts to enact actual violence. A few incels do each year, but percentage wise of men, that’s very few. It’s easier to just game and wank your life away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 07:44 PM |
| 75 | Do not take me to a horror movie as a date 🚩That’s not just red pillers. That is very common dating advice even among non-redditor men. This is why I always say the red pill is beside the point. Most guys are redpilling even if they have never heard of the movement/subreddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 07:40 PM |
| 13 | Why We Should Study The Lives Of Men... Even Men That We Hate.In my experience, most older women encourage us to be smaller and quieter. I am not saying all of them. But I don’t trust older women much more than men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 08:46 PM |
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