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| 9 | How do you separate a girl from her friend or sibling? | TheKeMaster | /r/seduction | 08/07/19 05:39 PM | |
| 2 | In your opinion, what are 3 things a good wing man does? | TheKeMaster | /r/seduction | 06/11/19 07:33 PM | |
| 1 | Girl wants a relationship but then breaks it off | TheKeMaster | /r/seduction | 01/08/19 03:19 PM |
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| 1 | Me (M 21) made out with a future roommate (F 20) on the first night...Great until you see someone else lol. | /r/seduction | 29/12/20 10:22 PM |
| 2 | How do I find the right time to ask out a girl?Talk to her and find out what kind of hobbies or interests she has. You might have to do a cold read which means guess on a topic and work the conversation after she engages. Sometimes something simple like, "Alright, I gotta know. Are you a cat person or a dog person?" That's just an example, but it could be anything you think that will get her to engage you. As the conversation progresses, don't forget to include little bits about you so she starts to learn about you. Don't tell her too much t… | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 04:35 PM |
| 4 | How do I find the right time to ask out a girl?The biggest mistake I see is asking without creating interest. You have to generate interest if it's not already there. If the interest was already there, you could ask her to watch paint dry with you and she'd say yes. Instead of focusing just on asking her out, focus on what you want to do with her. Go see a concert? Go to a brewery? Go bowling? Paint that picture in her head first, tell her you're going and then invite her along. You'll have far better luck than just asking "Hey, wanna go out… | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 03:59 PM |
| 1 | This rejection really felt like a punch to the gutYes, take her out with the sole intention of getting laid. I'm of the opinion that if the attraction from her to you is not natural or built over time, it's very tough to have a long term relationship with her. Girls will sleep with guys they don't intend to settle down with and vice versa. | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 12:35 PM |
| 1 | This rejection really felt like a punch to the gutIf you're trying to game her, the proper response to "just friends" is "haha yeah, I already friend zoned you." to flip the script and change the frame on her but if you want a LTR, then doing as you did is the proper response. The rejection sucks but it's easier than long term pain of hooking up and her not wanting more. | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 02:15 AM |
| 1 | How douchey is it to give a business card as a way of giving a girl your number? It made me feel weird but I felt like I had no alternativeGirls like mystery. It's part of the fun. By asking them if they are single, you take all of the mystery (fun) away. I'm not saying it won't work, I'm just saying it's better and more powerful to assume but it requires more confidence on your part to accept the rejection passively. | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Is she as awkward as me?Nah, if she didn't get off the phone you did the right thing by not interrupting her call. | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 03:13 PM |
| 3 | I need tips and strategies on approaching a cute girl after classI'm going to add to this. The goal should be more than just her number. It should be a meetup of some kind. A phone full of numbers from girls that won't meet up with you or even one that you are really interested in does you no good. Have an idea of why you are getting her number and make getting the number just a logistic to meet up. Always remember this. | /r/seduction | 26/09/19 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Approached a girl and it worked but...I would find something fun you can do and invite her along. If she bites, you're making progress. If not maybe try again a week later. Still no bite, then put her in the list of people to invite when you host a party with your buddies. Looking from the outside in, it was easier for her to give you her number than say no thanks since she has to see you in math class and it might be awkward. Good response on the boyfriend comment though. | /r/seduction | 18/09/19 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Approached a girl and it worked but...Need more background. How'd you meet? What was said? What intention was provided when you got her number? Without knowing any of this, I would guess she gave it to you to make you go away instead of rejecting you. Ghosting is the new rejection these days. | /r/seduction | 18/09/19 06:05 PM |
| 1 | What happened here? Should I ask again?Wait a while. If she doesn't hit you back, find a clever way for her to engage you. Funny meme, picture she might find interesting, something to put you in her head...etc. | /r/seduction | 18/09/19 04:42 PM |
| 1 | What happened here? Should I ask again?You left no context and asked for the number. Should have approached with an idea of why she should give you her number and when you'd be getting together. Also, don't double text... bundle them together. You'll come across as less needy. " I'm really into surfing and lifting, although after talking with you maybe I just haven't discovered my hidden talent for salsa dancing. How about giving me my first lesson tomorrow night? Let's meet for drinks at 7 and then hit the dance floor after! What's … | /r/seduction | 18/09/19 04:28 PM |
| 1 | What is the first thing you do when you meet your date?Hello and handshake, I think location matters. This is in the Midwest (US). This is assuming its a first date. | /r/seduction | 17/09/19 01:25 PM |
| 1 | What do I reply to this?Is this a shit testWhat makes you think that? | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 07:07 PM |
| 5 | "Wanting to wait with sex" - one big shit test?Yep. The trick with women is not that they don't want to have sex, but they don't want to feel guilty doing it. Ease the guilt and it's smooth sailing. | /r/seduction | 03/09/19 01:11 PM |
| 4 | So I approached this 9/10 yesterdaySo... the real question here is WHY you're not interested. I see this, "Say your name, compliment and ask them out" all the time and in my opinion, it's not enough to justify a girl handing out her number and meeting up with you. At that point, she's judging you solely on looks and your voice, which let's be honest, if you're frequently getting the "I have a boyfriend" you're really not that good looking. So, you have to build at least a small connection so she feels like you're a normal person … | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 05:03 PM |
| 7 | Daygame Made SimpleYou're not wrong but assumptions help with this. Nobody feels comfortable answering questions from a stranger, but they love correcting you and will do it and engage in the conversation without a second thought. | /r/seduction | 02/08/19 05:46 PM |
| 1 | What to do when texting?Text to setup meets, not for having conversation. | /r/seduction | 01/08/19 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Girl wants a relationship but then breaks it offThat doesn't answer the question or make you any better with Women. | /r/seduction | 01/08/19 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Girl wants a relationship but then breaks it offWhat's the best way to respond then? I was kind of caught off guard. | /r/seduction | 01/08/19 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Why are women obsessed with dogs?I've actually wondered this myself. I don't understand it myself.... I don't have any pets right now because my schedule is too chaotic to properly care for a pet alone but I thought about putting a picture with my mothers dog in my profile just to see how it affects matches. | /r/seduction | 24/07/19 05:55 PM |
| 3 | She’s definitely interested - gym pickupI disagree. I think social behaviors and social media have a lot more to play at that than how quickly you go on a first date, second date..etc. I think a lot of marriages are rushed but that's another topic. It's much easier to create a romantic connection at first meet then convert a friendship into a romantic relationship in my opinion. | /r/seduction | 23/07/19 02:49 PM |
| 2 | She’s definitely interested - gym pickupIn my opinion, slow game doesn't create a high value appeal. | /r/seduction | 23/07/19 02:45 PM |
| 2 | How to text open without any prior interaction?A little trick I use is to just text her name to her. So if her name is "Sarah" Just send her a text that says " Sarah!! " and let her respond. It won't seem like a cliche and you'll interrupt her thought process by not putting any content in the message. | /r/seduction | 17/06/19 07:15 PM |
| 5 | How did you get better at sex?This is really solid advice. | /r/seduction | 15/06/19 04:10 PM |
| 25 | A nice girl told me I am attractive and funny, but I have “no girl game”. I think she was upset that I didn’t kiss her after our date. So how can I complete the final stage and learn to escalate like a pro?The power of small touch is huge. Shoulders, arms, elbows, hands. Find a reason to touch her and you will be amazed at how much easier moving to the next step becomes. Don't try and rush it though. If it doesn't happen naturally, her guard will go up. | /r/seduction | 06/06/19 03:55 PM |
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