TheKillable Archive

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1	separated but not divorced yet When I separated from my ex-wife, we split all co-pay stuff. Insurance, phone bill, any bills really. Stuff in my bank account was mine and to hers as well. I was lucky in the state of California there is a trail period that allowed us to file for a desolation of marriage. We didn't own property, have kids, or been married for over 5 years. We filed our own document that said it's split 50/50 on bills and we are to keep our own shit. This was then signed by us both. I always had a lawyer take a …	/r/Divorce_Men	20/04/26 11:28 PM
6	What new hobbies did you guys pick up? Gunpla, crafting model kits allowed me to focus on something I can control. You get a cool robot out of it too.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/12/25 04:54 PM
8	Did any of you guys get cheated on by a wife who genuinely, truly seemed to regret it? I did when I found out	/r/Divorce_Men	09/09/25 10:18 PM
2	Did any of you guys get cheated on by a wife who genuinely, truly seemed to regret it? Mine is still fresh it's been bout 5 months. In my case, my STBXW regrets getting caught and regretted doing it. I know I deserve better but knowing she regrets doing it even when she was currently doing it. Kinda makes me feel a little less shitty but she shouldn't have done that in the first place.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/09/25 08:30 PM
7	I’m Finally Divorced You got it bro! I am in the same boat. We got to stay strong and just move on with our new person is will probably be better for us. The new girl I am dating is everything my EX-wife isn't. It was a overwhelming at first but it has gotten better because I was so starved of attention that once I got just a little bit of it was a lot. I love what is happening and just want to move forward with my life. We got this bro!	/r/Divorce_Men	21/05/25 08:26 PM
8	The best revenge is to be happy I needed this today.... It's been 3 months since we have separated and filed for divorce. I want to continue living my life but a part of me wants to turn back even though I know it's not something that I should be doing because of how I was treated. I want to be happy and I owe it to myself to BE happy. I don't want to move on with my life in sadness. Thank you for your post, its helping me take a step forward	/r/Divorce_Men	09/05/25 05:07 PM
3	Did you ever find out the truth later? my advice for that, is dont let the past relationship bleed into your new one. I have been honest with this new person I am dating, She believes that what we have is real and I do feel it, and I think that is what kind of scares me a little bit because what I had with my Ex-Wife was real too but I was betrayed. I am seeing a therapist to work on that feeling and fully move on, with or with-out someone new.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/05/25 08:46 PM
6	Did you ever find out the truth later? Be Strong, we go through it. My wife cheated on me twice and was keen on telling everyone it was a mutual decision for getting a divorce. My inner circle knows the truth and she is out there saying it was my fault and I was the problem. I started dating shortly after the separation and she is weaponizing that too against me. Believe in yourself and don't let this hard time define your future potential.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/05/25 06:44 PM
2	Should I block her number after all this is done? I feel your pain bro, we give all we can to make our partner happy just for them to take it for granted. It's going to be hard but it's best to take the L and move on. I'm struggling with the move on part but it's for the best.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/05/25 06:06 PM