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You'll have to decide if you want to tell him, or not. I was the wrong kind of Chad once. I appreciate every person that told me the truth of my situation. I couldn't understand, absorb, or appreciate what they were telling me then, but I do now. The pill doesn't go down easily, and some of us never learn. Speaking from experience, In the name of open communication, love, etc, he'll likely share whatever he hears with his wife. He'll tell her what he heard, who he heard it from, how he heard it.…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 03:08 PM
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When my wife was pregnant I went full retard trying to keep her happy. Went to every Dr Appt, Opened every door, carried every bag (I'm sure I carried her purse at least once), and waited on her hand and foot. In the midst of this, we saw an old school marriage counselor. I was in tears as my wife proceeded to tell him how I wasn't doing enough. The therapist looked me dead in the eye and said, "No matter how much you do, it'll never be enough." Best advice I've ever received. We should lead, bu…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/17 02:22 PM
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My wife is like a sitcom. Everything resets when the sun rises. Nothing is learned, and the same mistakes are repeated. Your wife will not remember the details from yesterday's bitch session, and you should do your best to forget them too... unless you love trivia. If it's nothing of consequence, don't entertain it much. She's just releasing emotional pressure.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/17 02:08 PM
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Brother. You're in a hole, and it'll take a while to dig your way out. While you're on your journey, you'll make mistakes. It will be a shitshow until you figure things out. Here's your 6 month prescription: Lift STFU about Red Pill ... seriously. Do not say a word. STFU about being alpha. You need to internalize the material. Lurk. Don't post stupid shit or you'll get shitty flair like me. Don't be a KingGray. Read This shit is real, and your life will get better, but it takes time and hard wor…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/17 05:38 AM
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marriage is ... complicated
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 02:48 AM
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I don't get why you can't look at a new package in your own house. I would have hit her with A&A immediately, and squashed the entire thing. It's ridiculous.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/15 03:03 AM
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Understood. Get the tests anyway.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/15 01:07 AM
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How about the feminists and girls that don't like being called sluts, gold diggers and hoes. Songs like this are their guilty pleasures.
/r/askTRP06/12/15 04:36 PM
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I disagree with posters who say this is not a shit test. If she didn't want to talk about it, she wouldn't have brought it up. She wants you placate to her and validate her feelings. Don't do it. Don't become her emotional tampon. Personally, I end the conversation there and then and go on with my day. Perfect.
/r/askTRP06/12/15 02:50 PM
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I've been on the opposite end of this scenario a few times. It's usually not that the other person is sharing too much, it's just that their not truly interested in friendship - they want validation. I don't like that in women, and it's unacceptable in men. If the other person is treating you as you say, the bottom line is that his person doesn't enjoy your company. You'll need to dissect your interactions and figure out why. I suggest learning more about building rapport with simple NLP techniq…
/r/askTRP06/12/15 02:42 PM
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when ever I tried to escalate she stopped me a bit... Did you have sex with her? What signs (other than her crying) make you think she's going to say you raped her? You might be worried for nothing. She might be crying to her friends because she really likes you. You were right to punish for, but I think you did it the wrong way. Simply remove your attention for a few minutes. Turn away, look at your phone, get up and do something, or talk to some other people (preferably girls). Return after a …
/r/askTRP06/12/15 02:24 PM
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this ^
/r/askTRP06/12/15 02:07 PM
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Because truth resonates. full lyrics: http://genius.com/Chris-brown-loyal-lyrics
/r/askTRP06/12/15 02:01 PM
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Leave it alone... You have nothing to gain and everything to lose by meddling in your wife's parents' life.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 12:07 AM
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Next her. For the love of God, next her. Things that bother you now will become 100x worse after marriage. Mark my words. Most suckers are head-over-heels in love with their precious unicorn, and it still only works out half of the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/15 03:19 AM
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Women are like children - they'll use whatever tactic gets them the most attention. Don't feed into her bullshit. If conversation with my wife isn't constructive, informative or entertaining, I'm doing something else. I'm not punishing her; I'm protecting my time. My time is limited, valuable, and it will not be wasted. Treat your time, and your wife, accordingly.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/15 11:49 PM
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Completely. Let's agree to disagree on that point.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/15 11:23 PM
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:|
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/15 04:50 PM
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Was
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/15 04:47 PM
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I can relate...my previous posts are evidence. I had very similar feelings for a co-worker. I don't think I fully acknowledged my oneitis for her in my previous posts, but I had it. I didn't have a problem holding frame, but my inner confidence was shit and I sought female validation that she provided. As I continue to swallow the pill, raise my SMV, and improve my confidence it gets easier. Once you truly believe that you're the prize, it gets easier. It'll be difficult in the mean time, there'…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/15 02:56 PM
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It's gotten to the point of me eating my nut out of her and pretending I don't like it while she tells me to ear her last boyfriends cum. TMI bro. Maybe try redpillnonmonogamy
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 02:14 PM
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Hmmm. I wear tall, slim fit shirts. They fit me perfect, but would likely be a little too short for you. If you wear button ups, your best bet is tailor made. I get mine from tailorstore.com The cheap ones use shitty fabric, so you'd want to get something higher quality - but overall I think it's a great value.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 05:35 PM
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How tall are you? I'm 6'4". I can't find "tall" versions of cloths in stores, but if you have some idea of what you want you can usually find great fitting "tall" versions of cloths online. It takes a little longer as you can't try things on immediately, but it's well worth it. Proper fit makes a world of difference.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 09:01 AM
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No. Anyone who says yes ITT is FAR from taking the red pill. With all due respect, fuck what you're saying... I agree that we should measure our progress against ourselves. Every man's journey is his own, but to say that you never compare yourself to others is delusional. Perhaps you don't know the definition of "compare". It's not inherently a bad thing. We compare Blue Pill vs Red Pill behavior. We compare ourselves to Chad, other Alphas, etc. Competition is comparison, and it's what drives ci…
/r/askTRP05/11/15 10:02 PM
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Yeah. I'm just a total pussy. You're TRP Endorsed, much respect. I don't mean to offend, but what's up with the self deprecating humor? Is that your A&A? I envy the guy in the squat rack who looks really cut Envy is the "desire to have a quality, possession, or other desirable attribute belonging to someone else". Envy is a result of comparison. You not only compare yourself to others, you envy them for what they have that you don't. That said, I understand you point. You stay focused on yoursel…
/r/askTRP05/11/15 09:34 PM
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Nah...you're probably a special unicorn.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 09:28 PM
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lol. Given the context, I can't tell if you're for or against the Boy Scouts and their "Be Prepared" motto.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/15 07:04 PM
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There are plenty of guys buying drinks and not getting laid. I've been one of them. There are also plenty of broke motherfuckers out there that are swimming in pussy. I grew up with a few. You didn't get tooled because he bought drinks. If you feel like a tool, it's simply because everybody played into his frame. You have to take responsibility for how you feel and what happened.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 06:18 PM
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We all compare ourselves to others. It's natural and anybody who says that they don't is full of shit. The trick is to not get carried away. Some lessons I've learned: There will always be somebody taller, richer, better-looking or with a bigger johnson. What matters most is your progress and journey. Just because you're better then somebody at X, doesn't mean that you can't learn from them in Y. If you're the top of your pack, consider finding a new pack. This is how you'll keep growing. The eg…
/r/askTRP05/11/15 06:10 PM
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Pretty good analogy. In reality, and metaphorically, I'm somewhere in between. I reality, I do not have a bomb shelter, but I am prepared. I have quality flashlights in every room, all of my smoke detectors work, and I have a bug-out bag in the house, and in each of my cars. I don't expect a disaster to happen, but I've lived through several fairly bad earthquakes and have witnessed all kinds of things. Same thing with marriage; I don't expect divorce, but I've seen enough trouble to know that i…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/15 05:55 PM
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I suggest thinking outside the box to consider ways of finding happiness without divorce. It really depends on what divorce will cost you.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/15 04:42 PM
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I wont spend a second more thinking about worst case scenarios than I have to as it doesn't please me to and I find it affects my outlook negatively. I can dig it. Planning the worst case scenarios comes from feelings of fear. That said, I think it's good to consider these scenarios. Life, heath and car insurance are all good things to think about. Figuring out a solid marriage exit strategy is like divorce insurance.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/15 04:37 PM
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"But I've put 15 years into this marriage". Yep, and they are gone. Agreed. Time, energy, and money already spent should not factor into the decision. I know exactly what the divorce option entails. A loss of roughly 50% of my gross income (6 figure base) for the next 10 years, trickling off to zero at 14 years. The house would be gone, and I'd never get split custody (likely 30%) because of my travel and job. Divorce will cost you over $600k. Why not use that money to get a crash pad and have f…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/15 04:22 PM
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I love lazy people. They make it easier for me to reach the top. Also, somebody has to flip those burgers for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/15 03:31 AM
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I'm curious if you're adopting the principles your posting is all. TL;DR: Yup, I'm adopting the principals, but I realize this is a lifelong journey. I'm adopting the principals, but I'm very cautious. I typically adopt too soon vs. too late. I'm that uses the word-of-the-day in a sentence...or reads "The Game" and changes all of his habits. It's in my nature. I try my best to apply and learn fast. It's served me fairly well in business, but this is something else all together. I've done the fol…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/15 01:40 AM
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I'm working on my plan now. Out of curiosity, what percentage of your net worth would be lost through divorce? Would you expect full custody, joint custody, or some other arrangement?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/15 11:47 PM
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I take it this anti nuke carries over to psycho coworkers too? What do you mean? EDIT: Those posts about the psycho coworker are downright embarrassing. I wanted to delete them, but instead chose to keep them as a reminder of how foolish I can be sometimes.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/15 10:41 PM
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Yah. I wasn't always this smart :P
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/15 09:14 PM
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I agree with this, especially when it comes to senior management. Unless your a founder, or working at a startup, it'll be harder to make it to Director level or above as a single guy.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/15 09:03 PM
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lol... Even when I'm the stoic cat, her constant yapping is still distracting.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 08:52 PM
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In reality honesty is not on the table I agree completely, but there are ways to coax the truth out. She will not say it to get it off of her chest, but there are ways to word things such that her confession is a test of your loyalty and commitment to her. It's ill advised and anti-alpha.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/15 08:50 PM
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The point wasn't that he will actually forgive her, he's just trying to make her comfortable enough to tell the truth. As long as she's afraid, the truth will stay hidden.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/15 08:46 PM
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WARNING: Be 100% sure you want to know the truth before doing this. You are a different person now, and likely in a different relationship. I personally would like to forget half of the fucked up shit I now know. Also, what I will advise will get you the truth, but you'll take a step backwards in SMV. It's very BB. You can go home and make love to her using my advice; however, it's just a BB reward and is not sustainable IMO. To get her version of the truth create an air of openness, non-judgeme…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/15 08:43 PM
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I don't think laundry is too feminine, and I think every couple has to define their own rules. My wife and I have reached and understanding that there are some things that I'll do (Take out the trash, kill spiders, etc), and other things that she'll do (Laundry, Dishes, etc). Our chores are divided by more traditional gender roles, and it works beautifully. Knowing our roles and responsibilities creates clarity, I would advise it.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 07:29 PM
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I agree with this. I do the typical man stuff around the house. "Honey!! There's a spider!!", I'm on it. "Honey!! There's a problem with the sink!", I'm on it. "Honey!! I don't have time to do the laundry!", No. I do not stew in my own shit. The laundry will get done - but if it gets to the point where I have to do it, that means I'm doing something else wrong in my relationship.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 07:25 PM
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Your time would be better spent upping your SMV than creating spreadsheets. What's the purpose of the spreadsheet? You show it to your LTR, and rationalize your way into good ol' starfish sex? Good luck!
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 07:15 PM
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I have never in my life dealt with any of this shit. I'm genuinely happy for you. There's the door...
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 06:38 PM
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Would like to hear more about your vetting process. Can you post here or provide a link?
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 06:27 PM
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the way I was raised and the place I grew up in, if you didn't stand up for yourself, you got walked on, that simple. Don't use your upbringing as an excuse. Improve yourself. Improve your circumstances. $500 shouldn't send you on a vigilante mission with a baseball bat. What other situations would set you off? As you are now "working for one of the largest Healthcare companies on the planet", I'm sure you've progressed in many ways to land that awesome job. Perhaps you can progress in other way…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 08:48 PM
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Alpha doesn't mean uncivilized, gangsta, or anything else you've proposed. "You can steal $500 from me with no repercussions except that we cannot associate with one another any more." That's beta. I disagree. OP should have never leant the money to someone with questionable ability or motivation to pay him back without at least demanding a written agreement. Also, as with women, OP is the prize. Losing the opportunity to associate with the badass OP's becoming is a loss of more than $500 for hi…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 08:31 PM
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recommended TRP to three of my friends who have gladly started seeing red. Be careful here. The pill doesn't always go down smooth, and if they reject it they might have similar feelings towards you that you have towards your grandfather. So, RPers, what do you recommend I do? Should I simply cut contact or confront him? Neither. Your grandfather's relationship with his wife is his business, not yours. Marriage is a long, complicated dance, and people go through many phases as the decades pass. …
/r/askTRP24/10/15 08:08 AM
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The government can reject your request to treat an LLC as an S-Corp, meaning that sometimes they are mutually exclusive. You didn't address the fact that professional investors will typically prefer a C-Corp over an LLC or S-Corp. I think it's critical that people not get too hung up on the structure of the business. The focus should be on executing on your ideas; however, when the business finds some success the corporate structure will matter.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 10:47 PM
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All due respect to /u/whinemoreplease , but I think you should ignore what she says. Her words are irrelevant. Continue to increase your SMV and see how the dread fucks with her when another bitch actually wants you.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/15 04:09 AM
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This got downvoted, but it probably shouldn't have... I work in Silicon Valley, as place where a MENSA qualifying IQ is the norm. Everybody has good ideas, and the rule of thumb is that its the perspiration that makes the business, not the inspiration (idea). You have no idea how many times people hear about my businesses and say to me "I had that idea I year ago.". I chose to act on the idea, while they chose to watch TV and drink beer, and I'm the one who makes the all of the money from it. If…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 03:50 AM
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This is true, but most will NOT reject a deal because of the corporate structure. If they believe in the business enough to throw down serious cash, they'll also help convert / reform the business in the preferred structure. I've seen this happen more than once, and have heard of it several times.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 03:38 AM
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You are a fucking idiot. Why blame your lack of success on your inability to secure a government handout? I've built several successful businesses without free money. Try coming up with a good idea, a solid business plan, and working for what you want. Winners win, period. Don't blame your circumstances. Additionally, there's funding available for people with sound business plans. If you're failing to get funded then you're probably just not doing it right.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 03:32 AM
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If you don't have much cash, or don't plan to raise money in the next 12 months I would start an LLC. If you do plan to raise funds in the next 12 months, or are seeking a more elaborate ownership structure I would suggest a C corp. I'm not a lawyer and this is not professional legal advice, but I am someone who has started, raised capital for, and sold a couple of tech startups.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 03:20 AM
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The OP assumes the person seeking advice has a worthwhile venture. If you do, it's worth setting up properly, etc.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 03:16 AM
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Paradox? AWALT. Sidebar --->>
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 06:51 AM
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I would advise against a daily PMO (Porn, Masturbation, Orgasm). It can lower your testosterone, ambition, attraction to real life events and women, cause ED, and make you a beta bitch. I speak from experience. Check out /r/NoFap and http://www.yourbrainonporn.com I'm not against an occasional release, but if it's part of your daily hygiene you might be teaching your body the wrong things and you might end up enjoying your hand more than your wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/15 12:05 AM
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I've been in your shoes. I realized that I was the problem. Divorce will not fix the problem. Cheating will not fix the problem. Once you realize that you're the problem, you'll understand that you need to fix yourself first and foremost. My advice; STFU, lift, read, and apply what you've learned. Give it time to soak in, and only post here if you need specific advice, have a field report, or feel you can help someone. Once you become the man a woman needs, you can take an objective look at your…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/15 03:18 PM
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I will. Thank you!
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 01:28 AM
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TRP has really opened my eyes to a few very harsh realities. I just hope that I can grow and eventually teach my son many of the things that my father wasn't able to teach me. Thank you all for helping me understand. Sitting down, Shutting up and Owning my shit. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 11:30 PM
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Understood
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 07:57 PM
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She's willing to share... I'm struggling to hold frame and not nuke my life just because some women want me. If this lame shit is causing me to meltdown, a threesome or open relationship would explode my brain. I've opened the wife to the idea of an open relationship and/or threesomes, but I know this is a shit storm that I'm not strong enough to weather. I know either of these options will cause my wife stress, and will send shit tests the likes of which I've never seen. I would either nuke, or…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 02:33 PM
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I cant wait for the next "sensitivity" training class /u/TheKingGray sits down and STFU.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 01:22 PM
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You've confused mother nature's interests with your own I was confused about the male imperative, and didn't understand why we would knowingly deny ourselves of something that's in our nature. It's also in my nature to eat mountains of sugary stuff, but I deny myself of it because it's not good for me. The same logic applies to the male imperative.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 01:19 PM
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It sounds like you might be addicted to porn. I was. It's an easy escape. A lot of people do not believe in porn addiction, but please, please, please do your research. Here are a few sites you can checkout: http://www.YourBrainOnPorn.com http://www.NoFap.com and of course /r/NoFap Excessive porn will lower your T levels, cause depression, ED and severe beta-bitch behavior. Even if you feel you're not addicted, please stop Porn, Masturbation and Orgasm for 14 days. The changes will be astounding…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 01:07 AM
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Read your other post. (link for others: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3l3yvg/the_abundance_of_self_ownership/) I generally agree with it, but I fail to see how it fully addresses the deeper issue I'm dealing with. I think /u/alphabeta49 hit the nail on the head. I laid out what I believe the real issue is in my reply. You other guys must deal with the same thing, right?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 12:43 AM
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Thanks. /u/alphabeta49 really struck a cord. Would you mind reading my reply to him and providing some insight? https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3l33o7/advice_wanted_on_oneitis_and_marriage/cv2yjls ** EDIT ** Thanks for expanding your post. So, you want to bang other chicks, but you just don't because it's too much drama? Isn't part of TRP inoculating yourself from drama, i.e. other people's shit? Isn't the male imperative to spread our seed / bang many broads, etc? Am I over doi…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 12:38 AM
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It sounds like you need to calm the fuck down and just be patient while you work on yourself. Noted. Like you make covert contracts to yourself in classic "nice guy" fashion. Covert contracts with myself? Do you mind elaborating?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 12:35 AM
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I've studied Seneca, and am well versed in stoic philosophy. I also meditate daily, and am doing NoFap. Those things are fine and can help with self-control (which I'm clearly lacking at present), but how and why do we fight against our nature? Is MRP just about getting our wives to fuck us, but not giving a fuck if they don't? That doesn't sound right. I'm thrashing a bit because I'm struggling. TRP/MRP has transformed my life for the better in short order, but I feel there might be some incong…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 12:24 AM
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Oneitis in marriage? People do all kinds of stupid shit for their wives that they shouldn't. Maybe "Oneitis" isn't the right word, but hopefully you catch my drift. I do have kids. I'm trying to figure this shit out so that I can teach them to not be retarded like me ... or at least point them in the right direction :)
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 12:12 AM
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Read your OYS comment. You definitely know where I'm coming from. I'm bored as shit and enjoy the validation/rush I get. In other words, why are you actively looking/pursuing anyone outside of your marriage? It's the male imperative to spread his seed, right? Bullshit. Its not just practice. You're actively seeking the thrill of the chase. You're right. Fuck. I need to own it. Tell me if I'm wrong, but this is a bigger deal than you say. You're just telling us the outward "problem," but there's …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 12:06 AM
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You're absolutely right!! My logical brain knows she's bad news, but I am attracted to her and "we can't control who we're attracted to." (Is that a beta-bitch cop out?) I can and will muscle through this, and ditch that broad, but if there are any techniques that would lessen the need for sheer willpower and determination would be great. I believe spin more plates would be the TRP / PUA answer (correct me if I'm wrong), but I don't want to do that. Any tricks on ways to create an abundance mind…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 09:23 PM
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Great stuff. I looked up Dante Nero, listened to the podcast on this thread, and then subscribed to his podcast. Thanks for the recommendation
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/15 04:57 AM
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Screwing up the way you did is unusual, but not inconceivable. lol. Thanks... I'm owning it, calming the fuck down, monk mode-ing and will report back when I have something worth saying.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/15 04:08 PM
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Yeah, I'm going monk mode for a while. I need to read a hell of a lot more. I'll still apply what I learn, but I'll take things slower, and really analyze the results. Thanks for the advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/15 04:24 PM
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Nope.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/15 04:21 PM
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I started improving myself and gaming my wife and co-worker at the same time. I didn't know if it would have an affect on either of them at the time, but it had an effect on both. For my wife I think it was more the improvements in my inner game that attracted her. Fixing my posture, passing shit-tests, etc. Her friends noticed too, and commented to her, which was a big plus. For my co-worker I think my SMV was already high due to my position at work. That, combined with increased confidence, an…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/15 11:09 AM
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If a woman gets overly aggressive, I just let my wife deal with it. Lol. Never looked at it that way. Society and your wife will put all the blame on the woman anyways. I disagree. I think men usually take the blame, especially in the workplace.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 08:18 PM
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Good analogy.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 03:46 PM
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Thank you for the direct and thorough responses: I'll stop talking so much. Makes perfect sense. I need to let this soak in. I'll try soft-nexting. Brilliant. Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 03:41 PM
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It was a mistake. I'll make many more before I'm done.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 03:32 PM
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In 3 months, you went from a nobody to a man that makes your wife wet in a single look? Bull. She's my wife. She's attracted to me. That's why we got married. It shouldn't be that hard to believe. Regardless of what you believe, it's true. If not a troll, you are a dumbass. I've been a dumbass, but I'm not afraid to fail to become better. I'm not a natural, I'm hear to learn, and all constructive criticism and feedback is appreciated.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 01:59 PM
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Read the sidebar books and lurk here, and work hard on yourself. Will do. Tnx.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 01:51 PM
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Thanks for expanding... You, along with a few of the other newbs here have this thing all wrong. You think that the is that you are too beta and not enough alpha. Generally, you nailed it. I started with The Rational Male, but for the most part you nailed it. I'll continue my journey.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 01:49 PM
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Thanks. Just bought for my Kindle and will read. Are you suggesting that I don't provide food and shelter for my family, you take offense with me saying I'm a beta-provider, or both. I enjoy providing for my family. I am not doubting your wisdom or underestimating my ignorance. I will read the book and hopefully have a greater understanding afterwards, but can you provide a little insight?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 01:39 PM
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Well played. Thanks for the post. I learned a few things. Mouth on tip of my dick. And says "Will you put your wedding ring back on after this?" you: "If you fuck me good enough I'll think about it."
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 01:18 PM
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Great vid. Thanks for the advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 12:57 PM
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Getting her riled up and shitting where you eat was a pretty dumb idea too. Hindsight is 20/20. Agreed. Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 12:56 PM
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I think you can realize that most of the guys here jump into MRP without realizing how powerful this stuff is. This rings true for me. This is powerful stuff, and I honestly feel like I'm headed for trouble. I'm AMOGing my male co-workers and gaming the females. I'm learning to be more subtle, but the affect is pretty incredible. I feel I need to practice game outside of my marriage. Not for the purpose of getting laid, but more for improving my ability to communicate and influence those around …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 12:53 PM
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My natural inclination is towards beta. I'm a great provider, a loving husband and father. The beta-provider is ever present, and that will continue. I think I need to up the alpha and fuck my wife. Hard. Talk dirty, etc. She likes it more than I ever thought she would.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 12:46 PM
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So ... what about a threesome? Wife is open to the idea in general. She doesn't like this particular girl, and doing that with a co-worker could jeopardize my career.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 12:40 PM
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Thank you
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 12:37 PM
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you didn't do anything to legitimately improve your SMV What do you suggest I do? I have money, looks, health, etc. I'm focused on improving my inner-game and removing my beta mindset in order to take my life to the next level. PUA is just one aspect, and I'm hoping it'll help me understand gender dynamics, and people in general, a lot better. I'm new and I'm a sponge. All advice is appreciated. don't say much more than "this is ridiculous." If the admirer seems particularly unhinged, then they …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 12:36 PM
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Presumably she knows you're running game and practicing right? She knows now, but didn't at first. I'm about three months in, and didn't reveal these things to her until about a month ago. By then I had already made several major mistakes; including hiding/lying about the time I spent with and text messages that I sent to my co-worker. Wife found out, I went full-beta. I'm regaining frame. I'm learning. Don't DEER. "DEER"? I couldn't find this term. Save this text. This is the talk of a crazy de…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 12:22 PM
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Wow! I am impressed. 3 months! You are cured. Was just providing context. I'm admittedly a rAFC, and I plan on studying, absorbing and applying what I learn in ernest for at least three years. My goal isn't to get laid more, that's just a side affect of what I'm learning. I'm looking to take life to the next level; a topic for another thread :) Either make practicing self restraint the top of your to do list or divorce your wife and go be the PUA you seem to think you are. I value self restraint…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 11:37 AM
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I introduced my wife to RPW. She's curious about what I'm studying and I don't see harm in sharing it with her. I want to apply TRP to my marriage, my parenting, etc. I'm embracing positive masculinity, and it's done nothing except help my marriage. I've even opened her to being my wing. (Honestly, I'm not sure if I'm ready for that yet)
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 11:18 AM
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