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2

No joke. My girlfriend said she learned from the podcast ‘Call her daddy’
/r/TheRedPill11/07/21 08:31 PM
3

That’s epic. Thanks for posting the reply
/r/askTRP15/06/21 07:57 AM
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Yes. Even worse when they around 26+ , rode the CC for a decade, and think they are a prized poosay cat
/r/askTRP12/06/21 03:53 PM
1

Great book. Need to pick that up again
/r/askTRP10/06/21 04:23 PM
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Thanks man. Appreciate the response. I strongly believe she is doing her best to lock me down as most of her friends are getting engaged
/r/askTRP17/05/21 09:00 PM
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What are your thoughts on them love bombing but then it doesn't stop? Say, the devalue stage doesn't arrive in the first 6months to a year.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 05:56 PM
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found out mine was addicted to coke and she thinks it’s a normal behavior everyone in thier young 20’s does
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:13 AM
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How old are you. Sounds like you were into here but not being focused on your mission was eating at you. I’m on the same boat but probably much older
/r/askTRP09/05/21 12:46 AM
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Says he didn’t hit her up. But then again I’m having a hard time believing anything she says
/r/askTRP06/05/21 12:07 PM
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thanks. needed to hear that
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:19 AM
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I'll be real with you in case someone reads this comment and needs a wake up. I'm 36 and honestly wanted to start a family and have kids before I turn 40. She's 26 and a hot as fuck. Smart, caring, and really into me. I was coming off a down year in 2020. I lost some money on some investments, and was overall down on myself. I've been red pilled for the better par of the past 5 years and had some great success with women, life, and my career. Fact is, I got caught man. I fell for the love-bombin…
/r/askTRP06/05/21 03:02 AM
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When in doubt, there is no doubt. Damn right man and everything my gut has flared up about had been right so far. It's insane. throw in the fact that I've been cheated on and been down this road before and I've turned pro to it. Next step it taking a long break from LTR's and going monk mode again. plates when I'm ready
/r/askTRP06/05/21 02:53 AM
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Has to be the case right? I mean she was the only one in the sorority house banging him. Said she paid for her rent with her own money but now that I think back she said she only worked part time for Victoria's secret
/r/askTRP06/05/21 02:51 AM
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How did it play out for you? Did you spot the red flags and ignore them only to get burned later on?
/r/askTRP06/05/21 02:48 AM
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I moved across the country. Like a fucking idiot
/r/askTRP06/05/21 02:26 AM
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Didnt vet well enough. all the signs were there
/r/askTRP05/05/21 10:39 PM
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learned the hard way. Moved in without properly vetting
/r/askTRP05/05/21 09:59 PM
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You're right on the moving in. There is some good info out there but it's hard to find on why NOT to do it. Too many reasons to count. So hard to keep your edge when you are not the king of your domain.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 08:49 PM
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Yeah no rush to settle down anymore after this shit show I put myself in. Honestly wanted to start a family and kids and then the red flags starting popping up all over the map.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 07:59 PM
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haha that is another perspective I have not heard. Good shit
/r/askTRP05/05/21 07:57 PM
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yes
/r/askTRP05/05/21 07:48 PM
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work and other commitments. it would be 10x more stressful if I packed up and left. had to be more strategic about it. The landord thing was the nail in the coffin
/r/askTRP05/05/21 07:38 PM
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she didn't tell me up front. It wasn't until a few months later I put 2-2 together and asked her. She said it was embarrassing but she did sleep with him.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 07:32 PM
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went back and started reading this again and coming to terms why his book was so well received. So many men had lived through the lessons learned/taught in it and could relate.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 07:18 PM
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emotionally and investment wise demoted awhile ago. Now looking to make as clean a break as possible
/r/askTRP05/05/21 07:17 PM
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that is where we are at. epiphany phase and trying to shed the ho phase/CC phase past but she didn't really think it through. She is the epitome of party and do whatever I want and someday some guy will come along and marry me. ALMOST had me. Thanks to TRP I'm here and spotted the signs.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 06:36 PM
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her dad paid for her college so no pass there. Only brought up since we saw the guy in person
/r/askTRP05/05/21 06:34 PM
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she fucked her landlord yes, but denies she ever did it for rent.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 06:23 PM
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She's in the epiphany stage through and through. Most of her friends have been married for a couple years or getting married. Her best friend is a single mom.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 05:12 PM
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I did consider that. But if she lived there for over 2.5 years only banging him for a couple months seems like a stretch
/r/askTRP05/05/21 04:55 PM
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simple answer but you are right. watched my boundaries and lines I said wouldn't be cross slowly erode. Mostly due to some serious trickle truth and gaslighting
/r/askTRP05/05/21 03:14 PM
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Gotta be honest. Based on some other things I've found out it seems like something she would do. She has sent guys photos of herself for money in the past
/r/askTRP05/05/21 03:09 PM
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damn where can I find that one and other examples you mentioned. Good stuff
/r/TheRedPill30/04/21 06:29 PM
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Great reply. It has to come from a place of higher ground. Also, check in and beware of the BDP/Narcissist - they latch on to the white night/captain save a hoe while he's slowly losing his soul looking for the best in her.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/21 02:33 PM
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Statements like this show me how clueless you are to the nature of men and women. You probably haven't really dated much if you think women just need to show up. The amount of work they put into looking the way they do to make you salivate over them is enormous. The hotter they are, the more work they put in it. I just pictured an HB9 with irritable bowel syndrome about to leave spin class. She opens to the door to her BMW her sugar daddy bought her, as her Adderall falls out of the car door on …
/r/askTRP26/04/21 10:02 PM
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nice one.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 08:51 PM
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Not looking for a virgin. Just a better response to girls who think society judges them unfairly if they sleep around.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 08:50 PM
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What I'm getting at is explaining(or not) that guys actually have to work and create value to get laid. A woman only has to show up. Not expecting too many virgins with that math.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 08:45 PM
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When average guys starts to work on himself and become a top tier man, you may start to have your first success with thots you previously did not have access to. It's a nice validation drip but it's imperative not to LTR and go back to BP ways. Most common is become noticeable when they are ready to settle down after riding the CC
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 08:03 PM
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whatever you do. Do NOt take their advice
/r/askTRP01/04/21 07:28 PM
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Its the scapegoating the friend that is almost a dead give away. They have know each other since the 4th grade and have instgram posts together all the way up until the fall of last year as "best friends". I always thought it was the friend that was trouble. But later came to found out it was my girlfriend that "popped her cherry" (her words) into threesomes. It was also my girlfriend who suggested they set up a dual profile on Seeking arrangements, in addition to having her own. Once I found ou…
/r/askTRP30/03/21 06:42 PM
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Sent you a DM
/r/askTRP30/03/21 04:31 PM
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When is started to turn and the mask came off, was it subtle or sudden? We live together and I am working on getting out, but she is trying to make long term plans, make vision boards of our future, and has no quit. Since then she's used her friend as the scapegoat for being the bad one in the mix of her friends. The most common trait seems to be pathological lying. And they are very good at it
/r/askTRP29/03/21 09:13 PM
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how did you get out? have experience with this?
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:55 PM
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Knows what’s he’s talking about. You slowly start to break down physiologically
/r/askTRP28/03/21 06:30 PM
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I've read all of the comments. I'm 36 and in the same boat. Major underachiever and lost money and time in projects/start-ups with the wrong people. next I hit a cycle of depression and slowly started to crawl out of it and entered myself into an endurance Mtn bike race and couple months out Next I hit the reset button and moved to different state with great weather, opportunity, and a huge community of health and wellness options. As soon as I was getting the best sleep of my life, getting back…
/r/askTRP25/03/21 09:09 PM
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gaslighting You're dead right. Working on getting out now
/r/askTRP12/03/21 01:40 PM
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Thanks man. Look forward to your post at some point.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 01:30 PM
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sounds about right!
/r/askTRP12/03/21 12:35 AM
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I fucked up not gathering all the evidence I needed although I have some pretty damming screenshots.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 10:36 PM
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You're right about that
/r/askTRP11/03/21 10:34 PM
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This is what it feels like yes
/r/askTRP11/03/21 10:34 PM
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Unfortunitly I moved to her state where opportunities slim and I'm isolated from starting any type of network or tribe. I'm not in a good place mentally with my foundation to be in an LTR right now.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 10:33 PM
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She told me she could “show me what that’s like sometime” but then denies it saying she meant she the other way around. like i haven’t eatin ass
/r/askTRP11/03/21 05:31 PM
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Would you say all if not most girls on there have a private photo collection of lingerie and nudes? I've since learned she had a Seeking arrangement profile up for 2-3 years ago while she was in Scottsdale Arizona. The fact that she got back on there this summer tells me she knew exactly what she was doing. If she said she didn't have any pics in lingerie or swimsuits up that has to be a bold face lie
/r/askTRP11/03/21 04:25 PM
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she has had many in her life at only 25 years old
/r/askTRP11/03/21 04:19 AM
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She said that she did not get paid and only entertained the idea, actually never following through with it. Had the right guy come along they would have deffinitly done that.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 08:57 PM
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Or do what I did.... Move across the country to start an LTR with a girl you've been dating for 3 months. The place you moved to has terrible weather and it's grey and rainy the first 2 months were her. Start to feel depressed and down because your workouts are slipping and you are not sleeping well. Realize you are isolated and don't know anyone in the area. Find out the girl you moved for was had multiple sugar daddy profiles right before you started dating. Realize you chose to ignore all the…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/21 08:56 PM
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-college sorority. party school -fake ID at 15 years old. Got into bars at 16 -Lived in city with huge nightlife club scene and lived in the middle of it -dated 2 black guys that were rappers/athletes -listens to the 'guys we fuck' podcast and 'call her daddy' -last relationship was with a guy that was still married(working on divorce) and had 2 kids -was in sales in the construction industry(mostly men in that industry) -was on a sugar daddy website
/r/askTRP10/03/21 07:45 PM
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Seeking Arrangement. Do you know if girls on the website use pics in lingerie and swimsuits? She denies ever using photos of her body
/r/askTRP10/03/21 07:42 PM
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Also, can you tell me if girls post pictures of themselves in lingerie on that website? She denies doing that
/r/askTRP10/03/21 07:40 PM
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yeah she denies it all. I have screenshots of all the conversations but missed a screenshot that had a text "I should get tested" I'm trying to save my memories for our conversation on Voice memo but my memory was shot from losing sleep
/r/askTRP10/03/21 07:39 PM
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I appreciate the insight from a different point of view. She's really been nothing but great to me. What scares me is the too good to be true mode, love bombing, and always telling me I'm hot, perfect, the best, etc. I've had friends get into these types of relationships only do down a weird road and then find out she is batshit crazy. The challenge is I moved out to be with her, and feel my world getting smaller. That is causing me to lose sight of myself a little bit. I feel my foundation crum…
/r/askTRP10/03/21 07:37 PM
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seeking arrangement
/r/askTRP10/03/21 06:40 PM
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The first month with her was almost too good to be true and reminded me of what I have read about experiences with Cluster B and Borderline stuff. Something has never been right about the look in her eye
/r/askTRP10/03/21 03:53 PM
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she acts just as needy around me. to the point I feel like she’s trying to isolate me
/r/askTRP10/03/21 03:25 PM
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true
/r/askTRP10/03/21 02:58 PM
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but doesn’t won’t to share me or have a threesome. Then she rubbed my arm and asked if that disappointed me
/r/askTRP10/03/21 02:58 PM
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Yeah. She’s been invited in by another couple. Been with a guy and invited another girl in. and had her best friend join in on one of her other fuck buddies
/r/askTRP10/03/21 02:57 PM
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She’s now trying everything to make me stay and make it work. Says she would never do anything to jeopardize our relationship, and that it was a mistake and does not represent her morals. said it is not a reflection of who she actually is
/r/askTRP10/03/21 02:35 PM
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She fired up her profile again this summer she says. And got her married friend on there so they could share and do it together(threesomes) sold as a packaged deal. that, and she had the profile while she “was single in her to young 20’s” but insists she never acted on it
/r/askTRP10/03/21 02:31 PM
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LTR’d and moved in with her. Had I found out while we were just dating casually I would have just had some fun and a soft next now, since I live with her I realize I fucked up
/r/askTRP10/03/21 02:27 PM
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she doesn’t want to have a threesome with me. Says she doesn’t want to share me, or see another girl looking at me
/r/askTRP10/03/21 02:25 PM
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She was doing it just before. Meeting her friend in hotels wearing lingerie and messaging/facetime guys was as far as she said she took it. she also had a sugar daddy profile years ago
/r/askTRP10/03/21 02:24 PM
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this was before we started dating. Right before and she said she had the profile up 2-3 years ago in AZ
/r/askTRP10/03/21 02:22 PM
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This happened just before we started dating. So as far as I know she hasn’t cheated physically. She had a sugar daddy profile living in Scottsdale 2 years but denies ever using it. The fact that she fired it up again this summer, and got her married friend on board for a packaged deal says she likes the thrill. I don’t know how any chick like this does an LtR if they’ve this type of lifestyle and very recently engaged in it
/r/askTRP10/03/21 02:21 PM
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this was all done before we stayed dating, but it was one month before. I wouldn’t be surprised if there was some crossover
/r/askTRP10/03/21 02:17 PM
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Thank you. Might have to do that. I moved to a different state and definitely feel isolated where I don’t know anyone
/r/askTRP10/03/21 02:17 PM
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we were not dating at the time
/r/askTRP10/03/21 02:14 PM
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what does that mean
/r/askTRP10/03/21 02:13 PM
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yeah I fucked up
/r/askTRP10/03/21 02:03 PM
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She said she doesn’t want to share me with another girl. and asked if that disappoints me
/r/askTRP10/03/21 02:00 PM
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She’s written me a letter and a long text saying how much she loves me. She said it was just a fun thing to do. that and if she wanted to have a threesome all her and her friend have to do is walk into a bar
/r/askTRP10/03/21 01:48 PM
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She’s said she doesn’t want threesomes in our relationship
/r/askTRP10/03/21 01:40 PM
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She’s said she does not want to share me with anyone. And doesn’t want another girl to look at me
/r/askTRP10/03/21 01:39 PM
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36
/r/askTRP10/03/21 12:42 PM
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You’re spot on about the other red flags
/r/askTRP10/03/21 12:34 PM
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It was before. The issue i have with it is she said she never met any of the guys. But had a profile up back in 2017. then fired it up again the summer we started dating. Girls serious about an LTR usually aren’t on sugar daddy profiles as far as I’m concerned
/r/askTRP10/03/21 12:34 PM
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Just that she was a sorority girl in college and lived in a dowtown in a city with plenty of coke and partying and she took part. says it’s in the past. That, and her best friend cheats on her husband regularly and she was the one who helped her set up the sugar daddy profile
/r/askTRP10/03/21 12:31 PM
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she’s a pro. I was hooked instantly and work remotely so I thought I’d give it a chance
/r/askTRP09/03/21 11:10 PM
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You're right. and I'm isolated away from Family and friends. She's already pushing hard to forget about it and move past it
/r/askTRP09/03/21 09:40 PM
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Thanks man
/r/askTRP09/03/21 09:19 PM
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I missed that boat. She's already had that good time with guys that didn't catch feelings. Back in her party ass cocaine Scottsdale AZ days
/r/askTRP09/03/21 09:18 PM
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She's turned pro at this point. She's basically been running a escort profile for 4 years so you know she has telling guys what they want to hear down pat. I came out of the bedroom after a few work calls and she already had a love letter on the counter for me. Saying the image you have in your head right now isn't me. Then I went back to imagining her running two profiles and messaging old dudes for her servies
/r/askTRP09/03/21 09:17 PM
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Thanks man. Ignored a lot of red flags
/r/askTRP09/03/21 08:17 PM
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She is very good about telling me what I want to hear. Were I always thought it was manipulative and non-authentic.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 08:16 PM
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I've heard of this type of scenario as a right or passage. Never been in this situation
/r/askTRP09/03/21 08:13 PM
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That said, would you believe a word she said about never acting on it? Just messaging guys all over the place just for fun
/r/askTRP09/03/21 07:47 PM
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We are month to month. And I have 4 days off work coming up that I could use to move out since the writing is on the wall
/r/askTRP09/03/21 07:35 PM
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I should have done that but I was in shock, and then she asked me what was wrong. I sat and listened to her beg and plead for me to forgive her and that it was in the past Even though she was messaging guys on there around 4 months ago.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 07:12 PM
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I don't know how she can look at me with a straight face and say she was just having some fun .
/r/askTRP09/03/21 07:10 PM
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I fucked up and got in an LTR with her. The anxiety and sick to my stomach never went away and I feel like I’ve already moved on, but here i am stuck
/r/askTRP09/03/21 08:31 AM
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Where are you reading up on it? I’m interested to know more
/r/askTRP06/03/21 08:09 PM
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I chose but made a big move to across the country to make it happen. At the time I had other options
/r/askTRP26/02/21 03:15 PM
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First is your mental health. Having these concerns in your LTR while dealing with personal mental health issues is just a bad feedback loop. Exactly. I'm good for a couple days and then it always circles back I appreciate the reply and will read it through again
/r/askTRP26/02/21 03:09 PM
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Helps a lot. Starting to figure that out slowly. but it's been a lot of trial and error
/r/askTRP25/02/21 10:29 PM
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I had some anxiety and slight depression kick in for the first time in my life sometime last year. Then we started dating. The amount of things she does for me is something I have never experienced but it does start to remind me of posts I've seen about BPD girls. It's always almost too good to be true at first and the sex is amazing. That being said. I feel like its forced me to look deep into my own self and past validation seeking behavior. I'm starting to truly feel what not being authentic …
/r/askTRP25/02/21 10:28 PM
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yeah - works 50% of the time
/r/askTRP18/02/21 04:53 PM
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thanks for the great reply. I came into this thinking and wanting to move towards one with her. I don't know if her feelings and how she acts are out of neediness or true love and admiration. Sometimes it feels like she is doing to gauge my reaction. She is a very affectionate, touchy person. I haven't slept well since we started seeing each other and that is starting to eat way at my personal health. Without that I have no leg to stand on and can't make clear decisions. I've slept fine my entir…
/r/askTRP18/02/21 04:47 PM
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200mg a week. I split that up into 1/2 an ml twice a week. E2 levels are solid. I use several markers and monitor that closely. Almost come full circle to it not being a Testosterone issue
/r/askTRP18/02/21 12:07 AM
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Similar post. But this about the conversation with her directly vs the one in my head
/r/askTRP17/02/21 11:40 PM
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I don't know if my brain is producing enough dopamine or serotonin. Or if the balance of that is off. My highs aren't very high anymore and the lows are more low if that makes sense. Morning wood and sex drive is almost non-existent although I eat clean, drink alcohol maybe 1-2 times a month, and hit the gym 4-5 times a week. A nurse I dated thought it might be something to do with damage to the nerves or tissues.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 07:12 PM
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Mostly 8's.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 07:09 PM
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almost zero in the past 6 months
/r/askTRP10/02/21 06:41 PM
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Thanks. I've heard they can cause further ED sometimes. But, I'll look into it further. I think there is link between the Dopamine and Seratonin = Libido going on
/r/askTRP10/02/21 03:36 PM
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Been going to Dr.'s for 5 years. Now I'm having a hard time keeping my head in the game when I want to build a life and start a family
/r/askTRP10/02/21 03:02 PM
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Either sever psychological distress or biological function. Either way get that fixed before thinking about relationships. I've been trying to a while. I though TRT would help but that only lasted a couple years before the benefits plateaued. Currently trying to work that out and started from scratch with my bloodwork etc. You want an LTR? Have you vetted the female? Look at her actions, if she's still around even though you can't put in her, there's other ways of giving pleasure to females. Tyi…
/r/askTRP10/02/21 03:01 PM
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Man, she must be running this on level 1000. the mindfuck is she is DOING all the right actions. Like putting an insane amount of time and energy into making this work. She leaves me notes around the house, is always telling me how great I am, cooks and cleans, and puts out for sex all the time. At least 2-3 times a day she tells me how grateful she is for me. It's a mindfuck ​ ​ ​ Thjere
/r/askTRP08/02/21 07:17 PM
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Appreciate the reply Can you elaborate on running game on me?
/r/askTRP06/02/21 07:31 PM
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all good on the diet
/r/askTRP24/12/20 01:50 AM
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36 and had ED on and off most of my life. it’s derailed some relationships.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 10:09 PM
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all great feedback. I’ve had some anxiety and mild depression going on but keep it locked away. I might need more than cialas as i’ve read so much of it is related to dopamine and seratonin
/r/askTRP23/12/20 09:26 PM
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26 years old
/r/askTRP02/12/20 06:17 PM
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Might take a year or more. In that time she will fuck other dudes, try another relationship, fail.... the question is what will you be doing for yourself in that time?
/r/askTRP02/12/20 03:14 PM
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26
/r/askTRP02/12/20 02:20 PM
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? Nope
/r/askTRP02/12/20 02:29 AM
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Because she is ready to settle down? Wants the "feeling" of being in a loving relationship? What fucks me up is I know she is going to get bored. It's in her eyes
/r/askTRP02/12/20 02:07 AM
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She seems to be. Says she’s had anxiety attacks in public before so she can relate. The next 24 hours we banged it out, watched a movie, and seemed it hit it back in stride.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 08:33 PM
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I’m glad I know as well. Now that she has caught feelings and invested she gets super squirmy getting close to the subject of her past exploits but previously talked open about it
/r/askTRP22/11/20 06:07 AM
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She is getting better and stronger at this all while giving me everything I want sexually. She even sent me a care package
/r/askTRP22/11/20 06:04 AM
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Circling back on my post and some of the comments. Since this post she’s sent me a giant care package, wants to facetime all the time, and checks in with me all the time. She’ll strip down and masterbate for me over facetime and do anything I want She’s the one with feelings for me while I’m doing my best to keep my head above water
/r/askTRP22/11/20 06:02 AM
1

Highly recommend readying "Stop Doing That Shit" - Gary John Bishop It's a deep dive into the subconscious and the bullshit stories you tell about yourself, others, and what's "holding" you back.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/20 02:31 PM
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On point. That was the kind of feedback I needed to dive further into and get some objective input. I don't know how it got to this point but she's not too shy about sharing with me and conversation have kind of ended up there. She's asking me a lot about my personal life so eventually it comes back to her. I've made her feel secure in telling me but damn...giving me two completely different stories hurts her more because it gets me thinking how often shes already done that. I need to go back an…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 01:45 AM
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That's a good point on us being marketing machines and doing the same thing. I know we all have dark times and things to move on from but why give an answer that is so far off, that if they truth came out later it could derail what trust you built. I failed in small business endeavor this year and flat told her straight up that 2020 has been a challenge because X and I'm rebuilding. Just seems like a strategy that will go against you to not tell the truth unless that is a road you are used to go…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 12:24 AM
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It's already started. Earlier than I expected. She made the move to get me in her back pocket already, she's been pretty needy in her language, and she tried to secure that I don't want to date anyone else. She's gone from being kind, respectful and charming to those traits starting to feel it's to manipulate what she wants. And I see it and it's turning me off. Someone said that where she lived and the party life she engaged in breaks people because they're just wilder from there. I'm starting …
/r/TheRedPill07/11/20 03:50 PM
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Thanks man. Exactly what I needed to hear. You said in too deep that’s exactly how I feal. Like some sort of vortex is sucking me in and she’s at the end of it smiling, ready to bang. What could be the issue? I’ll keep my head above water.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/20 11:26 PM
2

really needed to read that today.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 11:21 PM
1

Thanks man
/r/askTRP05/11/20 10:11 PM
1

You're not wrong.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 10:10 PM
1

They go hand and hand right?
/r/askTRP05/11/20 08:18 PM
2

Every get to a point though were you look around and start to see everything is sex. It's all a dance. We as guys are fucking programmed to become attract a mate and pass on our genes. You know that scene in 300 where King Leonidas is having sex with his wife before we goes off to do battle. That wasn't just sex. That was the culmination of man who had conquered himself, his enemies and his woman.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 08:00 PM
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Well before that even comes into the equation, the desire isn't a wife and go off and live life happily ever after... It's more about fucking the woman you desire most in a way that you're doing it from your most primal source. You're fucking core. Fucking her as the king of yourself and your adversaries and she knows it.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 07:41 PM
1

Thanks man. A little more backstory. She just moved from vibrant party life city(that she took part in) for the better part of 4 years. And now she's moved across the country, back in with her parents before she starts nursing school. I visited her for the first time this past weekend after I just moved myself so we are both at a crossroads/new path to life. Both of the journeys we are embarking on are very similar. Do what you are most passionate about, find a life partner, and start a family. …
/r/TheRedPill05/11/20 05:07 PM
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u/Pimpjuice2 - great post and great reminder. What would your advise be to someone who had good tension goin on but, the "giving it away" made her more engaged, and she responded wanting more communication. She literally said "blow my phone up day and night, whenever you want. You make my day. This, after our second date was a 3 day weekend with vacation level sex, fun, and laughter. The giving it away seemed mutual. We both had a moment where we shared this is going better than expected and we …
/r/TheRedPill05/11/20 03:26 PM
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Thanks for the reply. Good to see some dudes who can relate and get it
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:43 PM
1

My concern is she won't be able to put her past behind her, and will spend time dreaming about her past experiences, then do something about them. Same man. My thoughts are every guys has his rough patches and even the strongest framed men have their tough times. It's those moments when it hits you the hardest...sleeping next to her wondering if she senses you are off your game and starting to drift, or just having thoughts one of her wild threesomes.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:42 PM
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I can be honest wit her and tell her how the threesome makes me feel. I would approach it in a way that lets her know that if she wants she is still on communication with the couple that invited her in no monogamous relationship is going to work for her
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:31 PM
2

Was a weekend full of good sex. We live in different states so 1/2 of the texts are logistics about the trip we planned, the other are dirty texts. I agree on not having lived it before. FOMO
/r/askTRP03/11/20 02:20 PM
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appreciate it man. the she’ll see me as a commodity for now struck home. although she sure is doing/saying the right things to make me think she’s super into me.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 04:10 AM
1

needed that. Thanks dude
/r/askTRP03/11/20 03:35 AM
1

I did a few years ago and it made me pretty sour about relationships and women might revisit it
/r/askTRP03/11/20 02:40 AM
2

Great listener, funny and smart, and very attentive and seems to be dialed in. She was genuinely pumped to show me where she grew up and the town she lived in. It’s a mindfuck man. I thought I could always separate the good ones from the wild ones that can’t be trusted.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 02:32 AM
1

Appreciate it man. I'll save your reply and post an update in a few weeks. I got home today and she is texting how much she misses me, wants to keep talking everyday, and wants to be part of my life. I'll let it ride for a bit while I stick to my mission. But I haven't had a girl this interested in my in awhile and that might be why I'm posting.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 01:48 AM
2

Damn. I hadn't considered it. To BPD chicks hang in packs because I know one of her friends is crazy
/r/askTRP03/11/20 01:39 AM
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Whisper, Long time reader of your posts. Thanks for chiming in. It's actually the opposite and I glossed over most of what she DID. I flew out to her part of the world but she booked a the first few nights, bought a bunch of sexy lingerie, held my hand and grabbed my arm everywhere we went, and did anything I wanted in bed. I was started to get a little invested after she starting showing more and more investment in me with action and no drama, games, aloofness.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 01:38 AM
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I let her open up and talk about it. She trusted me so I'm not going back on saying oh now don't tell me that shit. Now I know, was calm about it, non judgmental. Going to continue on that route until I move on or we lose touch
/r/askTRP03/11/20 01:31 AM
1

It's called "The little red pill that works" ironic isn't it
/r/askTRP03/11/20 01:30 AM
1

Thank you. Will do
/r/askTRP03/11/20 01:29 AM
1

The good news, you hold the cards, just don't be stupid. Amen. I am sticking to my mission but I did catch some feels. 2020 was a down year and I ended up in a small mountain town with zero options and a failed work project. I'm dug out of it, moved, and started over and boom she shows up in my life. I will be smart about it
/r/askTRP03/11/20 01:29 AM
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You would be right about that.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 01:25 AM
1

there is some truth to that. I didn't have the same experiences for sure and was pretty beta
/r/askTRP02/11/20 11:25 PM
1

Great. Appreciate it. I got on this cycle for 30 days before I saw her. But I think it will take at least 3 months, stepping it up another level at the gym, and shutting out porn. In addition to a dopamine reset.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 11:23 PM
1

After reading a lot of the responses and taking note, my response is to continue to build frame. 2020 has been a down year but I'm coming back with a vengeance. Id rather become a guy that can handle it than keep running from it.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 09:02 PM
13

We already talked about it. She's into it. I pulled out all this shit I wanted to do and she was about it
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:46 PM
2

Easy Peasy Method Thank you. I found a PFD and bookmarked
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:25 PM
4

I do recognize it's a problem. I'm quitting cold turkey after this weekend. I try to manage it as best I can but it's time to run the numbers again after I inject. I think my e2 is off (low or high)
/r/askTRP02/11/20 06:48 PM
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thanks man.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 06:43 PM
1

just some shit on amazon that works. Cialas and Viagra only work sometimes. I don't know what MT II is...
/r/askTRP02/11/20 06:43 PM
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36
/r/askTRP02/11/20 06:42 PM
1

Thanks wolf ​ Its your turn. Figure out a way to lead Please check your DMs
/r/askTRP02/11/20 06:34 PM
5

Thanks for the reply man.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 05:46 PM
3

I'm attached to the idea of her being a great life partner but knowing deep down it's probably not true. She is pretty fucking rad and complements me well. Brings a lot to the table. But...her party years were right up there with some of the wildest I've heard. You honestly would not think it if you saw her and spoke to her for 10 min
/r/askTRP02/11/20 05:41 PM
3

Thats next for me. Honestly when I was laying next to her I made the decision to give up all porn.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 05:38 PM
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The reason you feel sick is because you WANT her to be an LTR but deep down inside know that she can’t be. Listen to your gut. ​ I think you hit the nail on the head and thanks for taking the time to reply. She in honest to god what I envisioned in a woman when it comes to starting a family. On top of all that she is great with kids as she babysits on the side. Deep down inside I know what kind of life she has lived what she will seek out when things get monotonous. You made a lot of great point…
/r/askTRP02/11/20 05:36 PM
3

Not on any anti depressants. Just some supplements and TRT
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:59 PM
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Yes. They were low so I started TRT 5 years ago. I had some great libido enhancing effects the first couple years but that has kind of tapered off. Seems like I'm always at the drawing board with this. And when I need to have sex I rely on some shit that makes me sick, irritable, and anxious all in the name of getting a boner
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:58 PM
2

This is what I told myself I need to focus in on. Being out there with her for the weekend honestly gave me a jolt to make myself even more high value. And more attractive to girls like her...but maybe minus the crazy past
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:55 PM
2

fair enough. Was going to give it a couple weeks unless it eats at me, or I get slapped by and answer on here. hence why I posted in the first place
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:50 PM
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Thanks for the reply. Good to see a relatable response. That is exactly like what this situation is like. I'm home and it's eating away at my soul after 24 hours.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:46 PM
1

I know man. I get that. What I am saying is that the way she submits, is all over me, and had all the qualities of someone you'd even want to get to the 6 month point make it a mind fuck.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:44 PM
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I think you skipped over the part where we had a long road trip together with some great sex. In terms of LTR and adding to my life...I woun't have gone on the trip if she wasn't adding to my life
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:30 PM
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I got back in touch after I knew I'd be in her town. I was supposed to go out there for a college football game but it was cancelled due to Covid. Never obsessive on stalking her social media. I dated another girl for a year in that time.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:05 PM
2

I'd say on the outside it looks like it's all together. but the go fix my dick has been a battle for years, while the years go by. Doing the best with what I can
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:53 PM
4

Its not that easy to just go fuck other girls. I have an issue with ED and it takes weeks of buildup and supplements for me to have the confidence to pull off a weekend like I just did. I have to take dick pills that give me a headache and anxiety to get hard. One of the reasons I built it up in my head so much only to learn - even when I'm at my best right now and able to fuck, it's not going to match up to the highlight real this girl has
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:48 PM
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We did every day. Had a lot of things on the menu for the weekend and plenty of that. Its the realization that her highlight tape in her 20's is kinkier that whatever i could do to her that weekend
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:45 PM
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Is there a sidebar on red-flags?
/r/askTRP02/11/20 02:44 PM
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