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Because it isn't earned. Princess treatment is entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:49 PM
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Was she in limerence for the boss? Very common in bipolar. Is he married? Does his wife know... The best way to deal with a bipolar human who makes no effort to manage it, it's to live your own life and find your own success and happiness. No is a full sentence. Turn and walk away. She's trying to be the aggressor and victim. It will backfire at some point, but she's a narc. She'll just keep on keeping on. Family day. Divorced for her boss. Any reason HR wasn't notified? Start planning your own …
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/25 07:05 PM
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You may have a share in the debt of those loans she took out to transfer assets to extended family. She sounds..not great. Any sense she's been unfaithful? It seems like she's being proactive.
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/25 03:37 AM
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What state do you live in?
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/25 05:09 PM
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I mean that is compassion. He's saying get out of your own way, you're sabotaging yourself. You don't earn brownie points for it, it doesn't serve you in any way - it creates shame and regret. Just take a shot next time. If you miss, you're in the same place you are now, but you know you at least tried and there's minimal self doubt.
/r/seduction13/05/25 12:38 PM
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She should've figured that out 2 years ago too..no excuse to cheat, but everyone has a part in an affair, absent a sociopath/or mentally ill/limerent prone partner.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/25 02:04 AM
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They can't: they're working 5 jobs.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/25 04:16 PM
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Ask for spousal support. Not sure why hiding money isn't a guarantee of more than 50/50 in your favor, as well as family contributions exceeding hers. Get a second opinion with another attorney.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/25 04:14 PM
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She's hit you. It will only get worse if you stay.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/25 11:16 AM
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Yep. It's letting them know you've given them enough of your life. Cutting that hook, and carrying on with the scars, will be so much more beneficial in the long term.
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/25 03:16 PM
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Did she marry her affair partner? 26 years is heartless. Sorry man.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/25 11:40 PM
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Learned a lot. I was 27 ish to her 55. She was a patient teacher. She also introduced me to the wonders of breast implants.
/r/seduction07/05/25 09:20 PM
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It's both imo. Sometimes the women I meet have set expectations - I usually meet most of them by default (homeowner, no kids, never married, attorney etc.) - but many seem to want to start at month 6. I've had more than a few women tell me on the first date if I couldn't see myself having kids with her I needed to let her know at that moment. First date. There's no way to answer that question such that she'd appreciate any nuance beyond "yes" and still stick around. Many other expectations are s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 11:27 AM
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Can you afford this haunting your future career? It WILL lock you out of better paid jobs. Start collecting cans. Start taking metal to the scrap yard.
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/25 10:37 PM
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Keep fighting. Appeal. Men give up too easily. That conviction will follow you forever and impact your career. Appeal.
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/25 01:26 PM
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Man, she got a taste of a life without obligation and jumped head first. I'm so sorry you're going through this. Stay strong for your kids. Find a lawyer. Follow every word of their guidance. Do not stray from it. I know it sounds impossible right now but you will get through this. You will meet a kind woman who appreciates your contributions to her life and loves and respects you.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/25 02:43 AM
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Why? He's probably married. 3/7 days is half the week together.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/25 01:25 AM
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Also, DARVO tactics, creating a false narrative to justify her actions. I mean she has to fly with the same captain every week if not the same few a month. There's been an awakening of her earlier desire to gobble down 🐓. Let her eat. Protect yourself and your kids.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/25 12:52 AM
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Hyper vigilant? Are you in London with her 3 days of the week? Sorry to sound callous but why are you lying to yourself? It wouldn't take an expert in espionage to have a full blown fiancé and separate life over there.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/25 12:50 AM
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The threatening and false accusations - the country needs to start prosecuting these. They're literally trying to ruin lives and keep men from their children. Getting convicted or pleading like so many men feel they HAVE to do can have big implications for maintaining and finding certain employment too. It's a heinous act. I'm an attorney, only one of my friends has had to deal with this. Fortunately his ex's parents intervened. Had they not, who knows what would have happened? Just deplorable b…
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/25 09:44 PM
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That's what she's feeling.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/25 03:51 AM
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Limerence is a bitch.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/25 03:32 AM
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