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Why do so many men here want casual sex? This is going to sound extremely sexist but here goes. I just don't think the average woman can provide anything to me worthwhile other than her body. Tell me other than sex and children what can a woman provide or do that a male simply cannot provide or do a better job at? If I need to discuss finances, careers, health, sports, video games, working out, politics, even women generally a man is going to offer me better advice. Likewise if I need help to mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:01 AM
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Most women are average in looks by definition, and don't look any better than average men. This is so unbelievably incorrect you've no idea my friend. While it's true make up does enhance a woman's beauty and theoretically would take a "5" to a "6" or maybe even a "7", taking make up away is never going to fix men's biological disadvantage in the sexual market. This is because as far as male and female physical attraction goes the average woman is objectively more attractive than the average man…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:21 PM
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..while women do so far less frequently. Therefore, any sex for a man is a guaranteed orgasm at minimum...whereas it's far more of a crap shoot for women. Ironically I was JUST talking about this on my very on thread over at: Most women cannot Orgasm through PIV
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:11 PM
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Not my problem. I completely agree. Women's neuroticism is their problem to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:16 AM
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Yeah wtf is this "emotional labor" they're always bitching about? Basically women tend to be more prone to Nuerotsicm compared to men. Essentially meaning emotionally they're more "needy" and prone to depression and feeling down. Several studies have also shown women cry up to 4 times at the rate that men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:25 PM
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Women are physically attracted to the TOP percentage of men it's not as easy as just trying to "act more masculine". Men can ONLY overcome this innate biological disadvantage by earning resources and providing a woman with the promise of security and children. Even then this is usually not enough as the majority of divorces are initiated by women as their hypergamy never shuts down ie: seeking a better mate/deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:39 PM
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I agree with you there but if you've noticed women tend not to take accountability for themselves like we as men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 02:20 PM
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I think women should be more aware that their biological attraction puts pressure on men. Men get shamed for being 50 and chasing 20 yo women - women should be shamed for saying that men who are below 6ft aren't real men. Women getting an ick when a guy shows emotional vulnerability should be shamed etc. I completely disagree with this assessment again it's not women's problem that we find them so attractive that OUR problem. Furthermore while I agree saying that men who aren't 6ft aren't "real …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 12:37 PM
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Being a good person is not sexually attractive. Bingo unless you look like the absolute top percentage of men of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 11:47 PM
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It's not about morals champ it's about what works. For example Hypergamy for example could be called "morally wrong" especially since it excludes such a high percentage of men but whether it's morally wrong is of no interest to nature. Likewise TRP simply figures out and accepts female nature and details a plan which benefits the average man. Much like a hot woman who takes advantage of lonely man by luring them over to her Onlyfans page or a woman who uses a man for dates and free males with no…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 11:46 PM
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This isn’t truthful It is truthful because that's how women operate.....please don't deny Hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:21 PM
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I learned this shit myself when I was 17 or 18 if I recall. That's why I said for younger audiences. How many times do I gotta keep saying that? What's wrong with teaching younger boys about female nature? We teach young children about the slave trade and racism (I learnt about it at 13 or 14) why not female nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:20 PM
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What is the message of these stories? I The message would essentially be a woman would rather be with a tall handsome guy who abuses her daily compared to a more unattractive/shorter guy who treats her with respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:16 PM
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If ANYONE is just using you, you're at least partially to blame/fault I agree the hypothetical suggestions I put forward would lead to the guy questioning himself as well as female nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:07 PM
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The divorce rate would soar and women wouldn't get married. We don't need young boys brainwashed by a evolutionary psychology pseudoscience cult Isn't the divorce rate pretty high anyway? and wouldn't such information make young men more cautious to marry in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:04 PM
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Bro let kids be kids, no need to fill their heads with this bullshit, boys or girls, does not matter. It's not bullshit though. I'd rather have media show accurate female nature to young boys. I don't think anything is wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:22 PM
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You could ask the same question why should a 10 year old know anything about romantic love. But tv shows and cartoons regularly show couples "in love" even ones intended for younger audiences like Disney for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:12 PM
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For younger audiences I'm talking 10-16 lets say...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:04 PM
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You're just offering a convoluted way of saying that men should respond to gender policing by molding their personalities toward a masculine personality that's not their genuine self. That's a pretty big component of toxic masculinity. No what I'm saying is if you WANT women you've to be attractive to them. If you don't want to do this then you can't attract them sorry. Whether women can change it or not is debatable, but it doesn't change the central point that female preferences enforce mascul…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:31 PM
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Most women's gendered expectations of men are toxic I've read through your entire post and though it was very difficult to understand, (you were waffling a bit in your message) I'm not sure I agree with you. Correct me if I'm wrong but it sounds like you're saying women need to ignore what they find biologically attractive. What women find attractive is not THEIR issue but it's men. Remember MEN are the ones who want and desire women more then the reverse. Furthermore the majority of people comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:35 PM
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Hmm, could it possibly be unfairness ? It could be but I'm not sure.....I remember as a teem like whenever my male friends would start talking about women I would find myself annoyed and would always look to quickly change the subject to anime or video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:19 PM
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Lots of dudes are jealous of the sexual attention women are getting, Very true this is even true of myself especially when I was younger. However it was more that I felt women didn't deserve the attention, gifts, free dinner dates, rides they were getting as opposed to actually just wanting to get the same things for myself. Is this the same as jealousy or is it something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:04 PM
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Woman find it flattering when men point out a good trait about their character I think this is the major issue most men have. I think most men are unable to point out good female character traits because most women have little desirable character traits that men actually like. Think about men throughout history men have adored female beauty but not female character. Everywhere from male writers of philosophy to religion talk about how BAD female character is. This is going to sound slightly sext…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:00 PM
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Because for every one asexual or anti-marriage man, there's a hundred men waiting in line that would kill for a woman to even give them a second thought. I think you're mistaking sexual attention/desire with men wanting to commit to a woman. I just don't see a lot of men gawking over the idea of marriage like women do. I do see however consistently cry about lack of sex though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 10:47 PM
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That’s because men have put women on a pedestal. I completely agree but the problem is this only explains just a small part of the issue. Hypergamy you see and the way it expresses itself in male-female sexual relations. is the real culprit here....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:55 PM
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An average guy could get hundreds. Just post "looking for random strange man to degrade me" and you could be flooded with messages too. I'm obviously talking about heterosexual men trying to attract women I shouldn't even need to clarify/point this out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:53 PM
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I (22F) am currently searching for a FWB in my area. I have had hundreds of messages and you want to know how many I replied to? Three. This gets to the heart of the issue as this is the real reason why it's hard for men to find casual sex. Their "rudeness" or "vulgarity" has nothing to with it. You as a woman put out an ad that u were looking to "hook up" and men replied in the HUNDREDS. Now...if the average man put out an ad that he was looking to hook up he'd be lucky to get 2 replies from wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:39 PM
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Ok then I hope someone unalives you, after all, violence is perfectly acceptable, let’s see if you’re actually bout it after it’s your turn Of course I accept it both ways but here's the difference unlike a lot of women I'm respectful and I have manners. Which is why I've been able to avoid getting my ass whooped for most of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:55 AM
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Boohoo they were hurting my feefees so I should be able to assault them! Get help Not everywhere is like the sissy West. In places like the Caribbean, Latin America and Eastern Europe people get smoked for disrespecting people ALL the time. You think a person can talk crazy and disrespectful people without getting their heads bashed in? I swear most of you westerners are sheltered as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 09:41 PM
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He should be able to. Women aren't special that they don't deserve an ass whooping if they deserve it. I'm tired of these pussy whipped men giving women free passes to act crazy and disrespect them. If a man can get his ass kicked for disrespect then so can a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 08:50 PM
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It is not fair you betas are confusing our radars. Your role is to be our backup when we are in our 30s" Yeah. We knew Bingo!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:51 PM
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Men are certainly shaming women for being fat. I think you've misunderstood me. What I'm saying is there is a general acceptance by society when women state their preference for a tall men. By contrast when men state their preference for in shape women ie: not fat or overweight there is a general pushback (body-shaming) by society, women in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 09:10 PM
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Do you think calling someone out for their mate choice is going to change anything? This was more to call out the double standards of the media (as well as women) being fine with body shaming men for Height but not body shaming women for Fatness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:36 PM
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Because women are beauty symbols. It's eye catching to see 2 beauty symbols going at it. I think it depends on the culture. Such acts between 2 women would not be tolerated in Middle East for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 05:24 PM
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lesbians tend to have the opposite view of bi women- kinda like how some men prefer virgins, some lesbians also prefer women who have never taken a dick. Sorry but this part really stood out to me interesting.....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:50 PM
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Lady I don't know if you just were just born yesterday but men are not hypergamous like women are. By nature most men are attracted to most women. Most men will literally just get with anything that's how sad and desperate most of us are. It's women who need to lower their standards since it's them who only desire a small percentage of men at the top (again here you women are projecting what your attracted to and how you perceive the world onto men) However this will not happen not because women…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:42 PM
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Why not? her being bisexual means a higher rate/chance of cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:30 PM
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Cuz women dont typically go out prowling for glory hole adventures, piss drinking or gas station toilet sex with other women. Men doing stuff with men gets way rowdier which allows much more chaos into the personal bubble of decadence / hedonic exploration. So it's homophobia then? If the bisexual man is clean and free from any diseases/infections what's the problem? As for the hedonic exploration point you've got to be kidding me....Bisexual women are just as hedonistic as bisexual men what do …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:20 PM
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I saw this video and it got me to thinking about that theater shooting years ago. The guys used themselves as bullet shields for their girlfriends. I'll never understand it. Maybe back in the 1940's when the relationship between men and women was different and women had no rights but in THIS modern feminist world especially? Not a chance in hell in a matter of fact I'd probably be using her ass as a shield. Only woman I'm sacrificing myself for is my mother.....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:29 AM
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Men are far more accepting of women, period. Neurodivergence is just one of many, many examples. This, people forget Hypergamy can express itself in many different ways in the interpersonal relations between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:12 AM
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Women have a problem with men liking receiving anal Why though? If he likes girls too, just like a bisexual woman likes both dick and pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:03 AM
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If anything, you have to consider that any perceived homosexuality is more stigmatized in the black community than the white one. Yeah that's what I meant sorry. Bisexuality is attacked more as a consequence/by-product of anything homosexual being attacked,
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:50 PM
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Cuz women are HOT lmao 🔥🔥🔥 Wouldn't you be you worried about losing your bisexual woman to another woman just like many women would be worried about losing their bisexual man to another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:00 PM
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Access to sex is the main bargining tool women have for men to commit. I literally said this exact same thing in another topic and I got absolutely slated for it. I said men get in LTR with women primarily for readily available sex/pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:33 PM
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You know what the craziest thing to me is as a straight guy? When a Bisexual woman rejects a Bisexual guy for being Bi.......
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:06 PM
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It's not just that women are biologically wired to not like bisexual men, or that they spontaneously developed some double standard. How do you think men, in general, view male sexuality? If two straight women kiss at a bar, it's fun--if two straight men kiss, it's "gay. Hmmm you might be onto something there. I say this because in contrasting the black community against the white community I've noticed black women are far less likely to identify as bisexual compared to white women (for example …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:53 PM
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but it's very telling to hear how many women have an aversion to bi men. It's a great insight into female nature This was essentially the whole purpose of why I created this entire post in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:45 PM
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Men naturally think they are superior and the end game. They don’t see women as competition, and often believe bi women are bi to please or entice men. They just aren’t threatened from the start. I agree with this....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:42 PM
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It’s my sexuality and I don’t need to explain it. It just is and has every right to exist I agree but generalities do exist. And in general men are more accepting of bi women than the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:40 PM
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Your insecurity is showing! Sounds like it honestly.....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:32 PM
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Yea he’s attracted to both but being sexually attracted to males in that capacity is a no from me. OK well why do you think men seem not to mind bisexual women who are attracted to both women and men by comparison?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:31 PM
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The guy below me said hes married to a woman who is okay with bisexual men and they have MMF threesomes. Yes but most women seem not to like bisexual men.....why do so many women (including bi women) dislike or turned off by bisexual men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:27 PM
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I've dated (casually and seriously) quite a few "bi" women and almost all of them have told me they think bi-sexual men are gross Again this seems to be a common complaint against Bi men. My question is why aren't men in general as disgusted at the idea of bi-women liking and potentially losing her to other women (Just for the record I wouldn't date a Bi women myself if I was not aromantic)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:25 PM
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I used to think that bi men were just on the way to gay, and I was scared I as a woman would be inevitably dumpe This is a common theme I see in a lot of women that dislike or are turned off by Bi men. However I hardly see men rejecting Bi women due to a fear of losing their bisexual woman to another woman. Why do you think this is?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:20 PM
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Two guys is all the worst of sex imo in terms of like portrayal. There's almost no sensuality to speak of, it's mechanical, often degrading, impersonal, and so forth. Also, it doesn't feature genuine female pleasure at all. Interesting so women cannot enjoy viewing sex unless it they're involved in it somehow? Also by contrast why do you think men enjoy seeing two women when a man isn't involved?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:18 PM
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Men think bisexual women inherently translates to them betting a mff threesome or at least them getting to watch their girl make out with other women and this is hot. I can understand this but aren't there women who wouldn't want two hot guys making out with them and doing "double time" on them if you know what I mean? Women tend to think bi guys (especially if young) are gay Why though if he's Bi and by that same token why don't men think bi women especially if young are just lesbians, A man ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:06 PM
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having your woman with another woman it doesn't kick in that same feeling as if it was another guy, I don't know the term for it but yeah I remember seeing a poster in here a while back that had a non-monogamous relationship with his girlfriend to where she could fuck other girls but not other guys I never understood this. Not saying you're wrong but if I was a guy who was interested in women for long term relationships I wouldn't want a woman to get with other men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:58 PM
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Cause like 2 chicks, it’s hot,duh Ok fair enough but why aren't women interested in having two hot guys that are Bi?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:57 PM
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I’m a hetro female and wouldn’t entertain dating a bisexual male because they’re sexually attracted to males Isn't he attracted to both though men AND women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:50 PM
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since they're Slavic and typically have large breasts, Wait what proof is there that Slavic women are larger then their western European counterparts bust wise?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:22 PM
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This is why: The average man simply doesn't have as much sexual access compared to the average woman. This is why most men will disqualify a promiscuous woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:06 PM
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Such a system would inevitably lead to much higher homicide rates for pregnant women. Why would knowing the child's father would lead to homicide? You've confused me on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 09:55 PM
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100% yes!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 09:52 PM
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is learning how to separate love from sex I'm very surprised you need to "learn" this a man....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:50 PM
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Hi twin.....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:53 PM
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Bachelor for life having sex with whomever I want EASILY.....Why? I don't really like women other than having sex with them and have little no romantic feeling for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:27 PM
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When men look for LTR they are just as selective if not more selective. Again not true looks-wise the average man is still more attracted to the average woman than the reverse. Remember attraction is still a major component within LTR and while it does become less important compared to it's importance for just casual sex, many other factors start to come in for LTR potential outside of looks. As long as a woman is agreeable/submissive, has a somewhat chaste sexual past and is at least decent/ave…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:00 PM
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but not when it comes to having a relationship That's 100% true but remember when a man looks for a committed relationship he 's much more likely to look for qualities outside of looks. Example a decent looking woman that is chaste and agreeable will always get more attention for relationships than a loudmouth, argumentative ,slutty but beautiful woman. However when it goes for just sex the beautiful slut will always win.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:45 PM
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and in the same breath complain that she made you wait for sex as a vetting strategy to see if you’re the “right guy”. The issue is that women only vet certain guys. If women were vetting all guys I'd be agreeing with you all the way. Women however consistently give certain men free reign over their bodies (usually bad-boy types) while applying strict demands on others. I can definitely see why some men feel jaded about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:26 PM
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What your missing is that the majority of single men regardless of age, looks or status go after the top 10ish% of women in the looks department This simply isn't true. You're projecting what you find attractive as a woman onto men. It's sort of like when women whine on Tik Tok about men not wanting to commit to them and then cite how great of a woman they're because they've a great "career." Again women projecting qualities they find attractive onto men. Multiple data consistently show women ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:21 PM
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as i have small boobs and hip dips, however i’m not fat. Look I'll be completely honest with you. I just don't like small breasts as I don't find them very feminine looking. A woman's breasts are easily one of her most feminine qualities (physically) and while they don't need to be monster H or K cups they do need to be something on the bigger side at least DD cups IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:37 AM
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I lost interest in the topic once I got married. It was quite a journey So in other words you were crying and whining on the internet about women until you finally got one? Confirming my suspicions that most RPillers, MRA's MGTOWers and other assortment of male "advocates" simply only exist because they're salty they cannot get women. Congrats on the marriage though.....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:48 AM
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If you did not find her attractive, what's up because you were intimidated perhaps? I've run into this type of woman online regularly and once in a blue moon offline. In both instances I am turned off because I find these women too masculine myself and I am sexually attracted to more feminine women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:40 AM
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We loved to play sports and engage in other physically demanding activities, but girls couldn't do those things. I'm glad you mentioned this I distinctly remember as a child being disappointed with how bad the girls were at sports and how they either just couldn't keep up or had no interest. It was the same when I joined the Chess team in high school not a woman in sight. Without the sex drive, men and women would have no reason at all to seek out each other's company, and would probably live ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:38 PM
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No, that means the guy is pathetically sex-crazed. No one wants to be around a creep like that. Oh really? Then explain why rich/famous men such as entertainers, sport athletes, musicians etc etc are able to have sex with so much women? Furthermore these women seem not to mind. There are literally stories of multiple rockstars and rappers having orgies with women half their ages and women continue to throw themselves at those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:24 PM
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young men are collectively withering away for lack of sexual access. Oh no I'm not downplaying sex and reproduction at all. I completely agree with you on this point. A woman's vagina has always been the great equalizer in the battle of the sexes between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:11 AM
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Why do heterosexual men bother socializing with other men Because men get on better with other men that's why. There's a reason why the "boys" get together to shoot pool, watch some boxing/mma, play dice, play 5 aside football/soccer, play some competitive video games (if you're into them)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:49 AM
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Yes because women are only interested in gossip, drama and everything related to attention-seeking behaviour. You've to admit these qualities DO tend to tend to be more common in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:40 AM
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That is true, but statistically a small percentage of men work in jobs related to critical infrastructure. The majority of men work in tertiary sectors which are usually office based. Unless you yourself work in critical infrastructure, you're not entitled to anything. Again I'm speaking about men as a conglomerate and the fact is men are the ones who create maintain and advance the world you and I both live in. Btw tell me do women offer the world (that a man can't do better at) outside of sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:28 AM
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Why do modern men insist on trying to take credit for the achievements of men in the past? It's not just the past though. It's largely men who care responsible for maintaining most if not all of the infrastructure in society. (Roads, streetlights, cars, bridges, toilets, sewer systems, buildings, tarmac construction.) all of those are practically maintained mostly by men today. The only similarity you have with those men who 'contributed to the advancement of the world' is that you share genital…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:16 AM
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Yeah, most men I know are heterosexual, but profoundly homo-everything else. Their love, friendship, respect, admiration... All directed at other men True but can you blame them? Men basically made around 90% of advancements in society. Men tend to be more rational, more interesting, gossip less, better at sports, are stronger and braver so they can have your back more in a fight. Also practically all the people who have fixed my computer over the years have also been men so there's that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:35 AM
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It because he doesnt have any romantic feelings towards women- thus hes probably gay No this isn't correct at all. The OP would need to have sexual feelings towards men in order for him to be gay. He has sexual feelings towards women but does appear to lack romantic feelings towards them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:26 AM
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You should argue your own opinions rather than just trying to echo what you deem as the opposing side. Alright fair enough but I do honestly believe that. When I was speaking on men I'm speaking about them as a conglomerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:23 AM
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men built everything: firstly, they did not, google female inventors, scientists, philosophers, artists and educate yourself. Men didn't build everything but they built the overwhelming majority of stuff. Female inventors only account for around 6% of the total inventors. Even today in post-feminist countries like Sweden, Norway and Denmark women aren't going into the fields which are the most important for sustaining civilization like infrastructure building, STEM fields etc etc anywhere near t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:14 AM
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Your friends, my friends, and most people’s friends have probably not contributed that significantly if at all to the advancement of civilization. I'm talking about men as an entire group you know since women always contextualize men as an entire group when they speak about female oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:07 AM
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I’ve been with my partner longer than that without sex or bj. I don’t know how I kept him except he wanted to be kept. I don't believe you for a second.....lol. Either that or bf doesn't have a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:44 AM
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women offer them love and nurture. 'Why would a grown man want love and nurture what for he's not a child.....lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:41 AM
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Dude, if you gay just say so. We don’t mind/care. How is he gay if he wants and desires sex with women? Your statement makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:39 AM
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Certainly not for you, but for actual adults it generally does. You can't just say it's not true you've to prove it ie: rebuke his argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:38 AM
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Healthy romantic relationships are not based solely on sex. Healthy romantic relationships involve people who enjoy spending time with one anothe Of course in order for two people to have a relationship they've to like being around each other. But you're missing the OP's original point. He's saying men would NOT bother with women anywhere near the amount they do now (if at all) if sex was NOT the main factor. All of the other stuff like the love, respect, fun etc etc comes AFTER the sex. Do you …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:34 AM
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But most men actually like women. Not just for fucking, but to be in a romantic relationship with, or even gasp, as friends only I'd beg to differ If men like women why did they oppress them so much throughout history and even to this day (in non-western countries. guys like these dudes are the reason why every woman in my family lifts and and has learned self-defense. And if we were in America, they'd probably get a gun license and buy their own arsenal. That's genuinely a good thing you did th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:28 AM
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- guys objectifying women because many men view them as lesser It's not that women are inherently completely lesser they're just lesser via certain metrics. Example, Infrastructure buildings, Engineering, Mathematics, Technological innovations.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:23 AM
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They’re emotional about losing that specific woman. They are emotional about the loss of that relationship. I'm sorry but I don't agree. There's no logical reason as to why a man would feel more emotional distress over a breakup compared to a woman if the prospect of losing resources or female scarcity isn't at the forefront of his mind. Men are literally biologically hardwired to like multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:16 AM
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Nah disagree. Lots of women are really cool, and they provide a different perspective on life The OP is not insinuating women cannot be decent or cool people. However he is insinuating if it wasn't for sex men simply would not bother with women at anywhere near the rate they currently do. Think about it outside of sex, reproduction and physical attraction would do women really offer the world that men simply cannot do better job at? Also with all due respect most men don't value women's opinions…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:04 AM
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There are plenty of interesting women out there. Gay men, for example, tend to have lots of female friends This is objectively untrue at least for heterosexual relationships and I'll explain why. You see in order for men to attract women we've to become interesting to women both physically and personality wise. Women do not need to develop interesting or charming personalities in order to attract men. They just need to be physically attractive and men will approach them. This natural dichotomy l…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:49 AM
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Nah. Research has repeatedly shown that, generally, men report higher levels of emotional distress after a relationship break up than women do That's because men have a harder time replacing women since it's harder for men to "get women" than women "getting a man." (Even if it's just for a one night stand) Furthermore men lose much more in divorce, house kids, money, assets etc etc. Of course men are going show more distress during breakups especially divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:37 AM
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So you're arguing for hypergamy? Because if the average woman interacts with men more than the average man, that must mean that some men are interacting with multiple women. Women are going to do what's in their own biological interest....I'll leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:43 PM
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If this one doesn't work out, I'd like to be single for a very long time That, or I'd date women strictly from that time forward. Thank you for the reply but this doesn't apply to you because you're already in a relationship and as you mentioned would turn to girls if your current relationship didn't work out. I was more interested in responses from women who have zero desires for relationships full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:19 PM
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Once the sexual has reached its max, then sure, the romantic is definitely nice. But most men would rather have lots of sex Bingo and keep in mind the only reason why the sexual desire reaches it's "max" is because of age and hormonal decline. It's not because the man suddenly wakes up and has some sort of deep spiritual awakening.....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:16 PM
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The only reason why the average man wants relationships romantic or otherwise is because it's the easiest way for them to have a steady supply of sex/intimacy. It is women who enjoy the bachelorette life, I actually agree with this women simply don't need marriage or dating because women have access to men much more regularly (casual sex, hookups, dinner dates, FWB) than the average man has access to women. Trust me these women are not "alone" in the same way men are. So in closing it's not so m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:05 PM
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Not sure whether you're joking or experienced similar things Oh no I was being dead serious my friend women and accountability mix together like water and oil. In other words they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 04:31 PM
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You think an ugly incel would become more desirable if he could approach and display narcissism and arrogance? I do but that doesn't mean he's EVER going to be able to compete with a top-tier male or even a mid-tier male. He will however improve his chances from where he use to be when he was being a "nice guy" and/or not approaching women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 04:27 PM
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She's a good person who apologises whenever she's in the wrong WTF a woman who apologises? HOLD onto this woman and NEVER let go!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:54 PM
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Are you saying that if men had regular sex from a non-romantic source (could be FWB or ONS), that they'll be satisfied enough to not want a relationship? I believe so yes, not every single man of course but the majority. Again simply ask yourself when have you ever heard of a man who has sexual access to beautiful young women complain that he's greatly saddened that he's getting no romance in his life? However there are plenty of married men who complain that their wives are not putting out enou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:23 AM
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Taking one for the team and sleeping with other guys would greatly help these people. I just feel a lot of great guys out there are good but not great and get kicked to the curb and become sexually frustrated. And it doesn't help that women sleep with the top 25% presenting a cruel world and making people bitter. So basically you want pity/sympathy sex from them lol? Look but seriously though here's the thing it's not women's responsibility to give men self esteem by fucking them. We as men have…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:28 AM
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An ugly incel isn’t going to change his sex life by now acting narcissistic and arrogant. This is a poor analogy because the thing is most Incels are actually afraid to approach women or they are exceedingly ugly/short. If the Incel approached women and began to display traits such as narcissism, arrogance, unavailability, etc his desirability would increase more than if he approached women and displayed traits such a sweetness, kindness, understanding, availability. It’s really no different tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 07:59 AM
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Men say all the time in this sub that men stay in shitty relationships because at least it’s consistent sex and they think they can’t swing that single The truth is a lot of men are only with women for consistent sex and children. all the other stuff like emotional support and general companionship comes after. Think about it why do you think men are always trying to get out of the house to hang with the lads/bros or go down to the pub (if you live in the UK) Of course not every man is like this…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:58 PM
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So considering western men are the richest and highest status in the world (outside of a few other countries in Asia), western men should expect to get with a female who is hotter than them looks wise since on a global level dating pool, western men are at the top %. The problem is you're expecting women to respond in a vacuum. Yes western men are the richest and highest status in the world but so are western women. The real issue comes from the fact western women now have far more of a means to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:40 PM
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What if a woman manipulates you makes you fall in love Women play men all the time for resources, money, dinner dates etc etc. That's not the womans fault it's the mans fault for doing the same thing with her over and over again. I always say there's no such thing as a gold-digger without a gold-giver.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:53 PM
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Women date who they want. Men date who they can. Women fuck who they want. Men fuck who they can. Fixed it for you...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:05 AM
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Yeah men are definitely more likely to be loners......I agree with you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:33 PM
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Honestly based on the marriages I’ve seen, the men need their wives more than their wives need them Why would you say this is? Why do the men in your experience need their wives more?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:05 PM
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when he can have a younger, better looking woman who'll suck his dick Sir you're severely overestimating the ability of the average older washed up man and his ability to actually get a younger good looking girl to even look his away let alone suck his dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:40 PM
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. All women want a committed relationship. Even if they say they're preoccupied with other things Do you think it's the same for men? Wanting a committed relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:15 PM
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I didn't want a relationship before 25 Would you be fine with never having a relationship for the rest of your life? (If men "left you alone" of course)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:39 PM
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For what? Who u are doing it for? Who are you trying to impress It would just be for us....just simply for our enjoyment think video games or shooting pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:20 PM
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What else could a man possibly take away from your post? Feminists' only intention is to gain advantages and privileges for themselves at the expense of men Honestly I don't blame women for this. Women are biologically hardwired to desire the top few percentage of men. More feminists would love to do what this woman is suggesting the problem is they cannot because they do not have the same innovative quality or propensity for force and domination that men have.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:49 PM
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Life without women would be boring... Women bring peace... And relaxation. I still think we as men would be innovative enough to create an alternative. I mean we created automobiles, planes, ships, ovens/microwaves, computers, internet, video games, television. While life without women would certainly take some time getting use to I have no doubt that men would eventually build something to replace them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:19 PM
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Then I dated a few, was assaulted by one, and found out that I was even wiser to think that than I could have known. Thus a few more years went by with me happily uninterested in men before another one broke through that. And I was four years into thinking like that when I did meet the love of my life. ​ Interesting life story. But my question wouldn't apply to you since you've actually had many relationships but just seem to go on long "breaks" between them. I'm specifically talking/asking abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:31 AM
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but I dislike not being sexually active. Why? can't you just result to taking matters into "your own hands" if you know what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:54 PM
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Lmao female pretending to be busy with work like a man 🤣 You do know there are high earning women who dedicate themselves to their careers right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:01 PM
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Me, for right now I meant pretty much until the day you die....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:38 PM
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because you've been told just showing up is enough Facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:54 AM
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How do they have numbers on their side if 100% of women and 15% of men are against 85% of men?? I was speaking in terms of men I should've clarified sorry. Yes women can pull a trigger that's true but women are generally poor at combat and fighting in general. Men aren't just physically stronger they've more balls/courage and "stomach" for battle. More men will always be willing to fight and die in battle compared to women. Think about it why do you think feminists rarely engage in combat or ext…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:28 PM
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At the end of the day, jumping from one Chad to another won't make a woman happy. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:00 PM
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But I think it’s a change that’s actually already started and will happen. I actually agree with you it's already starting to happen for sure and look just how violent men are becoming. I won't name the people but you know who they're. If such a practice became the norm men aren't just going to "go along with it" and work their entire lives while allowing "Chads" to just breed all the women while not having to work themselves. The 80-85% of men are either going leave the society or they're going…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:04 PM
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. One in which we literally use the “chads” for breeding and ignore all other men. Ok my question is what makes you think if the majority of men become aware of such a scenario they aren't going to rebel and violently fight both the "Chads" (whom are only 10-15% of the male population mind you) as well as the women who lust after them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 02:50 PM
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I will agree that men tend to “need” women on a personal / individual level more than in reverse. But on a societal / infrastructural level men are indispensable. It would be extremely difficult if not impossible to enjoy the comforts of modern life without men I couldn't agree more with you on BOTH counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 02:45 PM
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Oh lots of women maintain airplanes. They don't......less than 10% of women make up Mechanical Engineers that simply isn't enough to maintain the systems of civil society. If women ran society it would quickly regress to the level below a third country. ​ Bridges in America are inspected approx every 2 years. That's what I mean. Come on lets be honest how often do you see women building and maintaining bridges?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:31 PM
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It's very unlikely a 42 year old single mother unless she is crazy beautiful is going to be able to breed with the top 10% of men. Yeah they might fuck her but are they going to breed with her? Absolutely not people tend to forget those men have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:06 PM
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It was largely men who allowed the change in the workplace power dynamics ie: giving women much more ability to work and earn. Many men assumed this would also equalize social interactions with men and women overall. (ie: just dating and marriage)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:57 PM
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Men are still largely responsible for the infrastructure and the general running of civil society. Remember despite feminism and the equalization of men and women in the workforce men are still MUCH more likely to go into jobs that society needs to run and function ie: the STEM fields, policing, construction, financial sector, commerce etc etc. If western society declines I can almost guarantee you it WON'T be the women who will "build" it back up. Furthermore such collapse or decline leaves it …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 08:36 AM
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Couldn't agree more I've stated this numerous times. If I as a man have no problem bringing myself to an orgasm by myself or with a woman then a woman should have no issues doing the same. IF she cannot bring herself to orgasm during sex then the issue is with her.....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:08 AM
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