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TheLongAndWindingRd/r/seduction21/11/12 09:44 PM
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I always used to open with something fun. "My friends and I are taking a poll. Are you a cat person or a dog person?" That can lead to some gentle ribbing about their choice, or possibly some sort of pseudo-psychology about what their choice means about them. It doesn't matter what you say really. Your only goal is to come off as confident and interesting. There are of course other openers. Also, open everyone, groups of people, men or women. Your confidence is your most attractive feature and w…
/r/seduction28/10/16 03:17 PM
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Don't ever go for the interview style date. Super boring, almost guaranteed to never see her again. The key to conversation is to be interested, genuinely, in what the other person is saying. Asking relevant questions. And listening. You got the date in the first place because of something in common, start with that "how did you get into gaming?" "Have you been into football your whole life?" And then after listening to her response "you used to game with your dad? That's pretty awesome, me too.…
/r/seduction28/10/16 12:42 PM
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Being short isn't unattractive in and of itself, it's short combined with insecure that turn women off. I'm 5'6", my first GF was 6'1". Still struggle with insecurity but if you let it get to you and it shows then you're shooting yourself in the foot. You said it best with "some will not date you because of your height, and some will not date you because of your hair colour." Others won't date you because of your race, or religion, or that you have freckles. You won't be attractive to all people…
/r/seduction31/07/16 01:53 PM
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This has more to do with overcoming approach anxiety than outcome independence.
/r/seduction20/01/16 08:09 PM
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It won't. It's outcome independence out of the context of your issue.
/r/seduction20/01/16 07:19 PM
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Just go for it. The more you think about it, the worse it will be. Sometimes it'll be great. Sometimes weird stuff will happen. You'll get cramped muscles, things will make weird noises, things'll get messy, you'll laugh, maybe a fart will squeak out despite your best efforts to keep that sucker bottled up. Roll with it. Honestly, it's like pizza. It might leave you or your partner dissatisfied and wanting more but it's still pizza. Don't over think it.
/r/seduction20/01/16 07:18 PM
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Not true at all. I agree with RowingCox 100%. Dance by yourself and don't give a flying fuck what people think of you. If you are legitimately having fun people will be drawn to you. Every time I go to the club with my buddy we start off dancing by ourselves on opposite sides of the dance floor. By the end of the night we have both been approached multiple times. By women alone, in groups of other women or in mixed groups. I don't think I've ever gone to the club with him and not been approached…
/r/seduction04/06/15 04:07 PM
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I don't think I can talk about favourite or not favourite. I didn't really like it and found that the stories were dated and as I said, trite. I can think of a few stories that make my point though. He talks about making people like you instantly and one of the best ways to do that is to show genuine interest in them and say something nice. I think he reinforces it by talking about a mail room worker and how the worker looks bored. He says something along the lines of "I like your hair" or "I wi…
/r/seduction22/05/15 04:59 PM
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This is what I didn't like about the book. I read it twice just to make sure that I wasn't missing something. I came away from every example thinking "Isn't this what everyone does?" It came across as being an overly complex way of saying "Be nice to people. Offer value. Don't be selfish. Do things for other people not because you want them to do something for you but because it's right." Maybe I just didn't get it.
/r/seduction22/05/15 02:13 PM
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I think this is represents a huge misunderstanding about what the game is about. Is it partially about picking up women? Yeah. Is there a camp that is all about this and nothing else? Of course. But the game, taken as a whole, is about self improvement, confidence, being the best you. It's not about taking another person's personality, it's about applying techniques to become a better version of yourself. If you think you're unattractive: dress better, groom yourself properly, lose weight etc. I…
/r/seduction04/06/13 09:47 AM
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3 of my long term girlfriends were at least an inch taller than me, and one was 6'. Like the old addage says 'start small' build your confidence with girls that are shorter than you and if you don't find someone that fits move up to girls that are taller. The thing is that if they can't look past your height then they're not worth your time.
/r/seduction22/03/13 05:22 PM
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Dude, you're 5'6", almost 5'7", only 2 inches shorter than the average. That's not exactly ridiculously short and at 150lbs you can't be that skinny. I'm 5'5" and 150lbs and I wouldn't describe myself as skinny, that extra inch can't make that much of a difference. Stop thinking that you're being automatically disregarded and just let your personality and confidence show. If you're struggling that badly date shorter women.
/r/seduction22/03/13 02:31 PM
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I dated a girl who was an HB9, almost blew it on the first date by complimenting her. She went on to tell me that it is her biggest pet peeve. As sedditpadawan said, if they know it, and hear it every day, it becomes tedious. It loses it's meaning as a compliment and moves you into the same territory as every other guy she's ever met. Don't tell her you're attracted to her, show her you're attracted to her. I was going to say that with beautiful women actions speak much louder than words but I r…
/r/seduction21/02/13 11:27 AM
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I did, I chased a girl who had no interest and felt fulfilled emotionally (bad case of oneitis too), she finally came around and fell for me but moved away so we never pursued it. Now I'm with a girl that is crazy about me, and I'm crazy about her. Can't picture myself with anyone else at the moment!
/r/seduction17/02/13 04:15 AM
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This is going to sounds a little mean, but it sounds like you only want what you can't have. If you maintain this attitude you'll never be happy in a relationship. Source: Me, making myself miserable for the last 6 years.
/r/seduction16/02/13 09:39 PM
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I(f you can ice skate or roller blade/skate do that. They often have dance nights/events with live djs and some good tunes and it's a great way to break the touch barrier. Went on Saturday for the first time (I'm a Canadian in the UK) and we had a blast, she would fall, I'd catch her, showed her how to skate backwards (hands must be one her lower hips for this of course...for science). You get to show off a little, distinguish yourself as a gentleman/knight in shining armour, escalate a little, …
/r/seduction11/02/13 11:12 AM
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I've found that a common thread in PUA in general is to 'be the best version of yourself'. That will have an effect on every aspect of your life. If that's what you want to take from it then take that, but don't bash someone else because their goals or world view differ from your own.
/r/seduction03/02/13 04:17 PM
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Arguably the goal of some PU artists is just that, great sex with beautiful women. Your goals may be to find someone to fall in love with, that doesn't make his experience any less valuable than yours. You just have different goals. So get off your high horse!
/r/seduction03/02/13 03:53 PM
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You can know all the laws in the world and still be dumb as shit. I've seen people I worked with get lured out of the store only to be jumped the second they were off the property. Guys that I thought had their shit together.
/r/seduction03/01/13 05:03 AM
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To be fair that kid is a tool beyond reason. I worked loss prevention downtown Edmonton within a one block radius the police station, the court house, the remand centre and the greyhound station, lot's of people down there down on their luck trying to make a quick dollar by stealing what they could from my store. I would never do any of the shit that that guy pulled. I don't care where you work rough neighbourhood or nice, you don't act like a douchenozzle the second you have any form of power. …
/r/seduction03/01/13 01:00 AM
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There are women everywhere in Canada. The one's in Toronto are no better than anywhere else. It really depends on the OPs proximity to the country of maple syrup and toques. I would avoid Edmonton like the plague, I have lived here for 16 years and I can't wait to get out! Jobs there may be, there is also a stabbing per day, insane gang problems, 2 serial killers in the last 5 years, crippling cold, poor road maintenance, shitty bars and only a few good micro breweries. You're better off 'gettin…
/r/seduction02/01/13 07:55 PM
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Canada
/r/seduction02/01/13 06:19 AM
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I am pretty much in the same situation as you right now, out of 4 year relationship, one-itis, AA, good to see people taking steps to move forward. Friday is my first night of truly applying my learning, posts like this make me think that things are going to go well!
/r/seduction05/12/12 11:08 PM
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Good man
/r/seduction02/12/12 11:30 AM
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Dude...break up with your girlfriend...if the goal is to close/get numbers you are betraying her trust. I realize that not everyone shares that opinion but for your best interest and hers (if she makes you as insecure as you say). Also congrats on the good feels that doesn't come easy to most people so you're a step ahead of the game. Keep it up and the confidence and more good feels will follow!
/r/seduction01/12/12 07:08 PM
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Duly noted, time to give that 'no fucks given' attitude a try and try out this 3 second rule...today is the day...well tomorrow...it's kind of late
/r/seduction21/11/12 10:29 PM
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Seems easier said than done I'm afraid...but seems like the best way I suppose. It's strange, with some people it's not problem at all and I strike up great conversations, for others it's like pulling teeth. Perhaps my biggest problem is that if the conversation goes on too long I stop caring about what they're saying for the most part. Any way to change that?
/r/seduction21/11/12 10:16 PM
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I think the point to take away though is that these are girls who will approach anyone, often they don't need to be skilled to get money they just need to show up. The ones that are good at being charming, and engaging are the ones that make the most money because in a world where everyone you are competing with is good looking and naked you have to bring something else to the table. edit: So the skill set is similar.
/r/seduction21/11/12 07:22 PM
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I didn't even think that was tough love at all! Just providing my insights. Apologies to OP if it came off as 'tough love' just trying to motivate the only way I know how.
/r/seduction12/11/12 11:11 PM
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Ok so I'm no expert and I've never posted on this subreddit before but here's my take. It sounds like you're socially awkward just a little, it also sounds like these nervous habits of yours are having a negative effect on your confidence. Work on not doing them anymore, I got rid of my bad habits and got in shape by doing some sort of physical activity every time I caught myself doing one. Push ups, squats, calf raises etc. For me it was eliminating filler words like umm from my vocabulary. Sec…
/r/seduction12/11/12 05:58 PM
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