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Don't hurt me
/r/seduction23/09/16 06:02 PM
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Nice job man. Your FR is short, but definitely to the point. By writing down what you did and the techniques you used, you instantly made this FR way more helpful. The more Outer Game and actions in a FR, the more helpful it is I believe.
/r/seduction14/04/13 11:06 PM
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I know you don't do this, but from my first reading I'm imagining you wearing all of these things at once, and you sir, are ridiculous. In all seriousness, it's a good idea. Jewelry doesn't go to well with my natural style, but I still like wearing it every now and then. I feel like this has the potential to come of kind of douchey, but hey, fuck it if it does. There is another, better girl just around the corner who will dig that shit.
/r/seduction17/02/13 09:06 PM
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Fuck, WHY did I read this just before going out tonight. Anyway, sorry man, that sucks.
/r/seduction15/02/13 03:24 AM
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I would focus on inner game and self-confidence. A good book to read would be How to Win Friends & Influence People. It's not necessarily considered the best book for pickup and seduction, but I like it and found it valuable. From what you are describing in your situation, it sounds like the perfect book for you.
/r/seduction27/01/13 02:27 AM
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I first learned about Hashing when I went to the Tonga Room in San Francisco with my dad and friend, and all of a sudden a bunch of older people in black dresses came running into the bar. Both men and women were wearing black dresses, and they instantly were the highlight of the place. EVERYONE was talking to them and I would definitely describe them all acting in state. Had an old man in a black dress tell me and my dad all about it, and got some great photos. Thanks for reminding me about thi…
/r/seduction22/01/13 09:10 PM
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Nice job on your success. I like that trick you used with the handshake. I feel that it would require pre-selection to work properly, but it's funny. I also like the way you broke up the FR into specific points often highlighting different techniques. However, your writing style could use work. It doesn't have to be an essay, but try writing like you are writing a news article. I like to make it as fun to read as it is informative.
/r/seduction12/01/13 07:36 AM
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I would describe myself as a mixture of Tom Brady and a caricature of Price Valiant, so I would say yes. People have suggested that I try modeling, but trust me, I am not on male model level. My body sure as shit isn't.
/r/seduction10/01/13 08:16 PM
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HOW DARE THEE SIR! Questioning my honor so? JEEVES! Bring me the slapping glove so I may slap him!
/r/seduction10/01/13 08:09 PM
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I'm gonna post a full list of my recommendations within the next few days.
/r/seduction09/01/13 11:55 PM
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Oh believe me, I have some awkward and forced ones.
/r/seduction09/01/13 05:43 PM
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Your FRs are some of the best I have read on seddit. You always put lots of information in them, and I like that.
/r/seduction09/01/13 05:41 PM
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The second point. I haven't taken any courses in it, but from what I learned using the power of google, imagine that your spine is a pole, and your head is a ball balancing on top of the pole. Your head is heavy, and most of us let it fall forward of our spine and use our neck muscles to support it. By balancing your head on your spine, the weight of the head is effectively removed from your body, so you feel lighter, taller, and more confident.
/r/seduction09/01/13 05:27 PM
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When I first saw it used in a FR I thought the EXACT same thing. You can go two ways with it after you use it: Keep it serious, or make it into a little joke. Just make sure she is the first to laugh. I personally am a very funny guy, so when I have used this it tends to be followed by a little bit of laughter. I laugh with it too, BUT I keep my laughter short. Enough to entertain her and keep the vibe fun and playful, but short enough that she's not sure if I was joking or not.
/r/seduction09/01/13 05:20 PM
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I completely understand. The problem was that this actually occurred about a month ago, so I am surprised that I remember this much. I keep a journal where I keep track of my kino and seduction (almost) daily, but I don't have much in terms of conversation details written down. With her, I'm not even sure if we discussed anything that was exactly attractive. Mostly school, how we were both from the same part of Cali, etc. Good job on that mentality for AA, by the way.
/r/seduction09/01/13 05:14 PM
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It certainly wasn't one of my best ideas, I admit that.
/r/seduction09/01/13 05:07 PM
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It's actually a psychology term. I had never heard of it until her.
/r/seduction09/01/13 05:06 PM
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I agree that at first it is overwhelming. What I did is when I was going through seddit, I would save all the posts that I thought were valuable and well-written, and then studied those in further detail. I also can't recommend books on seduction and self-improvement enough. They are much more focused than some of the posts on seddit are, and definitely go into more detail.
/r/seduction09/01/13 05:05 PM
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I know. Just felt like discussing seddit's policies. BECAUSE I'M BORED. But I do like compliments.
/r/seduction09/01/13 06:47 AM
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I wrote this FR so that, in addition to being able to legitimately brag about how awesome I was, I could help everyone who read it. I want to provide people with the exact tools I used to achieve my success and prove that all of these things we are reading about actually work. I'm not sure if I would make it mandatory, because I wouldn't want people to be discouraged from submitting, but it definitely should be strongly suggested. Links at the end of the FR rather than at the specific points whe…
/r/seduction09/01/13 06:22 AM
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batman of seduction God damnit I want that on a business card.
/r/seduction09/01/13 06:11 AM
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You can. I'll admit that I probably progressed quickly because I COMPLETELY devoted myself to it (much to the detriment of my grades), but fast progress is completely possible. There are courses that can turn you around over a weekend, so self-motivated progress is definitely doable in 2 weeks. And if you aren't instantly a pimp, so what? Does that make you a lesser person? Hell no.
/r/seduction09/01/13 06:10 AM
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You need to check out the sidebar. I'll admit that RSD isn't on there because it stands for a company, and LTR is a rather rarely used one, but still.
/r/seduction09/01/13 06:04 AM
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whoops, editing mistake. meant to be an 8. When I first saw her, I wasn't sure whether she was a 7 or an 8. After hooking up with her a few times, learning she is bisexual, and discovering she is a HSP (so sex with her sounds like I am trying to slay a horny banshee), she is definitely an 8.
/r/seduction09/01/13 05:47 AM
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Done and done. The Alexander Technique video is meant to be watched in whole, in order to provide you with your daily dose of awkward William Hurt and old lady.
/r/seduction09/01/13 01:50 AM
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If only one? Definitely No More Mr. Nice Guy, because it tore me down so I could build myself back up the way I wanted. The book has changed me more than anything I have read or seen in my life. It can be pretty intense to read. While it applies to any man, it's more focused on guys in LTRs. However, How to Win Friends is a great book to. Not necessarily for seduction, but for learning how to be social with anyone. If seduction is one half of being social, then How to Win Friends teaches the oth…
/r/seduction09/01/13 01:42 AM
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Oh completely. At the party, I also had the two beers and some of the flask. I'm a rather large guy (6'0", 215, more muscle than fat), so by the end I was fine. I'd like to think that without the alcohol the night would have gone the same, but I know that it helped.
/r/seduction08/01/13 10:55 PM
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I agree, just remember that what you have to say and offer is more important than whatever they are talking about. The conversation they could have with you is better than any they could have without you.
/r/seduction08/01/13 07:19 PM
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If you are talking strictly about books, I would try and start with improving yourself first, and then focusing on seduction. This is the order I would go in. 1: No More Mr. Nice Guy. This book has entirely changed my life. I'm in a similar position to you (I'm 22) and this book made me look at my entire self and change. Reading this first breaks you down and makes it easier to "reassemble" yourself with the next few books. 2: Rules of the Game. Go through the Stylelife challenge while you read …
/r/seduction03/01/13 04:12 AM
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Nice job man. When she reached out her hand to shake yours you could have asked her for her number, just in case you weren't able to see her again (not too sure exactly if you could have talked to her again, based on the details of your FR, but whatever). Still, nice job on the kino. Kino and confidence are the two magic ingredients for being the best you can be (Kinofidence? Kinfidence?), and you displayed both in this FR.
/r/seduction28/12/12 07:00 AM
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Oh definitely. If it stands out at all in my mind, then I put it in. I basically do a post-game analysis of any social interactions where I initiate kino, use basic patterns or techniques that help me have a conversation, etc. Of course, it being finals for the past week, I haven't gotten much done lately. In addition, after a certain point I've stopped noticing when I do some of the things that I learned, which can make it hard sometimes to remember to write down an interaction.
/r/seduction18/12/12 03:11 AM
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THIS THIS THIS A MILLION TIMES THIS! When I started reading Seddit and a bunch of great confidence books a few weeks ago, I decided to try the 100 set challenge over on the sidebar. I was too scared to post it on Seddit, so I kept it for myself. Initially, I made it just to kino everyone I talked to, just to get used to doing it. Now? Now it's just a journal of how I am changing. Every time I write in it after a good day I can instantly see the whole scene again. Everything I did, everything I d…
/r/seduction17/12/12 07:54 PM
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(1,3) What books have you read that are related to inner game? If you haven't read any yet, I would wholeheartedly recommend No More Mr. Nice Guy. It's short, I read it all in one sitting I was so excited by it. It changed my life for the better. I recently saw my ex girlfriend 2 months after we broke up and about a week after I had read the book, and she was just stunned at how much I had changed. I saw a look on her face that she was attracted to me again and it made me feel like a BOSS. (4) A…
/r/seduction17/12/12 12:28 AM
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Yeah, but I think saying California (From a American's perspective), is more effective because it's actually in your country, so you are more connected to it. Makes it feel a little more local. Plus, 37 girls are much easier to visualize than 3000.
/r/seduction14/12/12 02:02 AM
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"If she's one in a million, then there's 37 of her in California." It's the best quote I know for dealing with one-itis and promoting an abundance mentality.
/r/seduction14/12/12 12:01 AM
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This book has changed my life too. If I'm ever not feeling 100% before I go out, I reread a few chapters and it brings me back to the happiest mentality I have ever felt. This book makes me love every minute of being me. I cannot recommend it more for anyone reading this subreddit, or any man. As for the approval part, it does take a while. Just be aware of it and ask yourself if you are doing things for other people out of a desire for approval or just a desire to be nice. For example, I really…
/r/seduction13/12/12 04:07 AM
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This is EXACTLY where I feel I need more help. The only way I know how to do this is the question game, and while promising, I don't want just one tool in my toolbag that helps me get my tool into her toolbag.
/r/seduction11/12/12 08:56 PM
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So YOU were the person who first posted it. I just keep copying the link from my bookmarks and I didn't remember exactly where I found it. Thank you. I've posted it practically every day for the past few days.
/r/seduction11/12/12 04:04 AM
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There's the How To Kino guide that's somewhere in the top posts of seddit I think. But here it is: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Edh2GQHZmtI Also, there's the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder, which I definitely need to go over and internalize more: http://infothread.org/Pick%20Up%20Artist/Escalation%20Ladder.pdf
/r/seduction11/12/12 12:58 AM
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I'm definitely gonna take a look at this over winter break. Sounds like a fun challenge. I don't have the biggest issue with AA anymore, but practice when I'm bored will help. Nowhere to go but up. Also, what is the proportion of dudes masturbating on this site? As bad as ChatRoulette?
/r/seduction10/12/12 08:43 AM
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Also, using her as a pivot can ultimately make her more into you. I forget who wrote it, but there's a great FR on here about turning a friend into a hookup by having her be your wing. I'll try and find the link. Edit: It's in the top seddit posts of all time, #5: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/vc108/how_i_unfriend_zoned_myself_fr/
/r/seduction10/12/12 01:05 AM
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I feel you man, this happened to me last night and it sucks. Some things I suggest are going to a quiet place, bathroom, somewhere you can be alone. Do some basic breathing exercises to get rid of negativity. Do some jumping jacks or something physical to amp yourself up. Would not recommend yelling to amp yourself up. Especially if you are in the bathroom. Might scare some people.
/r/seduction10/12/12 01:02 AM
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GREAT job man. You did everything by the book, and set the frame strong and early. Your FR is a great example of what happens when everything goes right. Lots of details, and I can see where you used different concepts and ideas well. Even if this was a fake, I would still suggest everyone here read it.
/r/seduction09/12/12 11:14 PM
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Nice job man, you handled yourself well. This is a good FR to read for starting out and giving yourself confidence.
/r/seduction09/12/12 11:07 PM
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I agree completely. I'm 22 and I just got into seduction hard over thanksgiving. I think this is a great post and should definitely be read by all beginners. Pick-up is not a way of life, it's a facet.
/r/seduction08/12/12 11:05 PM
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Like everyone says here, don't give a fuck. You can also frame it in a way that the dog actually increases your masculinity. Imagine that the dog is so non-masculine that he makes you more masculine by comparison. You need the small dog, because if you had a big dog you would just be too damn manly.
/r/seduction08/12/12 11:01 PM
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When I read this, I thought you were giving him tips on how to talk and flirt with girls. When I was 17, I just shoved my finger up girl's asses to say hello. works like a charm.
/r/seduction08/12/12 10:58 PM
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Buy him a massage. It makes me way more relaxed and improves confidence overall. Or a gift card to nordstrom, gives him the options of clothes from different designers and they have a good cologne selection.
/r/seduction08/12/12 10:56 PM
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Nice job with the post. You should work on trying to recall more details and specifics, but its still good that you posted something. Just like in the field, its better to try and do something than do nothing.
/r/seduction08/12/12 10:47 PM
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As for number 2, I personally feel that opening kino in the day game is not as big as it is normally, but it can still be used. Hi-Fives, handshakes with greeting, etc. Look up a 10 part series on youtube called How to Kino. Its the best video I know for learning not just how to apply kino, but the concepts behind it. Then again, I did just learn about/join this community about 3 weeks ago, but hey, fuck it.
/r/seduction06/12/12 06:46 AM
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I'm in the same boat you are. Spent a week or two combing seddit, read The Game and How to Win Friends & Influence People, and thought my first approach would be a cakewalk. It was horrible, I barely even spoke proper sentences. But after I felt amazing. Everything you see and read here and in books is like a multiplier for what you get out of actually approaching. 0 x 100 is still 0, so get out there more! Joke and talk to EVERYONE. Go to Subway and chat with the guy making your sandwich. Inste…
/r/seduction04/12/12 06:12 AM
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