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| 25 | How to deal with an asshole "alpha" encroaching on my girl? | Ask Red Pill | TheLoudThoughts | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/13 09:36 PM |
| 13 | Is It Possible Have Female Friends and Avoid Being an Orbiter? Furthermore, If a Female Friend Is a Self-identified Feminist, Should She Be Avoided? | Ask Red Pill | TheLoudThoughts | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/13 11:46 PM |
| 8 | Came across this from my white knight days. | Blue Pill Example | TheLoudThoughts | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/13 09:39 PM |
| 8 | The Red Pill is tying knots in my stomach. Apparently one of the side-affects is undue stress. | Rant/Venting | TheLoudThoughts | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/13 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Is It Possible Have Female Friends and Avoid Being an Orbiter? Furthermore, If a Female Friend Is a Self-identified Feminist, Should She Be Avoided? | TheLoudThoughts | /r/askTRP | 15/10/13 11:30 PM |
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| -1 | Cam GirlHow can you say she's "low quality?" You don't know fucking shit about her other than her being a cam girl. So what? If people are willing to buy, and there are shit tons out there, why not profit? A person is typically deeper than one dimension. To answer OP's question: I don't see how this would be any different than the strippers you have dated. She's embraced the 21st century's technology. Fewer go to "gentlemen's" clubs and more turn to the World Wide Web. Don't make it harder than it is. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/14 05:24 AM |
| 0 | Need advice, I cured my oneitis by leaving cold turkey, now she 'misses me' and wants to 'catch up'.Ask yourself this question: did I enjoy my time with her? If yes, reengage. A friendship's a friendship. Those really can't be over estimated. Maybe she is dating someone else, and that's okay. Be happy for her, just like you would want if you were dating someone else. Maybe she isn't and she's realized what she missed. Maybe she has a cute friend. Men and women can be friends and that's totally normal. Don't be a dick. No one wants to be around a self-centered prick who thinks he's entitled to … | /r/askTRP | 17/07/14 05:16 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with an asshole "alpha" encroaching on my girl?Fortunately, I don't think she's that kind of girl who would want to pit me against this guy. (Besides, it's not like it'd be a surprise who would win if we duked it out). I think it's an awkward situation, stemming from their past friendship/history (if there is any) and then the addition of me. I need to take care of it, because it does have the possibility of wrecking what I've put together here, but I mean, ultimately, I started sleeping with her in two weeks; he's seemingly been orbiting fo… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/13 09:26 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with an asshole "alpha" encroaching on my girl?relevant how? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/13 09:19 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with an asshole "alpha" encroaching on my girl?I'm not an orbiter. I'm the one she goes back with at night to have sex. The one she spends most of her free time with (aside from her roommate, but those two girls are best friends, so it's not that big a deal). I see the writing on the wall that my days are numbered, though, if I don't deal with this guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/13 09:04 PM |
| 0 | How to deal with an asshole "alpha" encroaching on my girl?He treats just about everyone that way. I suppose that's pertinent. Interestingly enough, all I hear about him from others is that he's an asshole and that no one particularly likes him. I don't perceive him as competition, per se, other than that he's lowering my desirableness in the way he acts, and it doesn't sit right with me the flagrantly disrespectful way he function towards my girlfriend and ultimately me. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/13 03:22 AM |
| 4 | How to deal with an asshole "alpha" encroaching on my girl?They seem to spend less and less time together now, especially since I've entered the picture. Of course, he can't be totally avoided, we have a class together with him on Tuesdays and Thursdays (and will next semester as well, it's a four semester series). I really need to make it clear I don't want her around him while I'm not there (if he's this bold in front of me, I can only imagine what he'd be like without me around). I also need to do some more solid mate guarding while around him, as ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/13 01:33 AM |
| 4 | How to deal with an asshole "alpha" encroaching on my girl?She told me she was a virgin after we first had sex. Now, I realize that could have been a bold-faced lie, but I trust her. That being said, there are sorts of things short of sex that one could do, and there's nothing to say there wasn't any other prior involvement. I wish I had seen this all earlier. I spent some time with her this evening, but won't be seeing her until after her shift tomorrow, since she's going to the movies with her roommate this evening. I would have fixed the issue with h… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/13 01:28 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill is tying knots in my stomach. Apparently one of the side-affects is undue stress.I've given (both of) your responses some thought this morning. You're one about my being an emotional man was certainly something I didn't want to hear. I've never considered myself an emotional man outwardly, since most of my emotions go on in my internal monologue; that being said, I think outloud to other people, whether best left unsaid or not. I didn't put that together until reading what you had to say. I was raised primarily by my mother, since my father wasn't "there," so I supposed I le… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/13 07:09 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill is tying knots in my stomach. Apparently one of the side-affects is undue stress.I do appreciate the insight. I just want to make sure they understand it's not all falling on deaf ears. I asked for input, ya know? So, I appreciate it when someone give me input. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/13 08:34 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill is tying knots in my stomach. Apparently one of the side-affects is undue stress.I have a rudimentary understanding of plate theory; my issue was, about a week and a half ago I had three other plates spinning, so to say, but as this option became more viable than the rest, I let those crash. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/13 08:31 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill is tying knots in my stomach. Apparently one of the side-affects is undue stress.Would you think so? I'm not even 20 yet; I was under the impression that my testosterone levels would never be higher in my late teens/early twenties. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/13 02:02 AM |
| 2 | The Red Pill is tying knots in my stomach. Apparently one of the side-affects is undue stress.Thank you. By the way, I appreciate your name, Hedgehog5; gave me a little smile. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/13 11:20 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill is tying knots in my stomach. Apparently one of the side-affects is undue stress.You would think I would understand the verb "to love" by now that I have learned in in three other languages (it's like lesson one). Thank you. I have something to meditate over and meditate with. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/13 10:51 PM |
| 0 | The Red Pill is tying knots in my stomach. Apparently one of the side-affects is undue stress.Why am I going for her? The emotional connection, perhaps? If you consider sexualness a spectrum like sexuality, I'd fall some where to the asexual side of middle. Urges yes, but they're not exactly strong often. Yeah, I know, she's not exactly stunning lookswise, but we have very similar interests (for example, linguistics and language) and ideologies (which can be hard to find in the biblebelt, college town or not). Her personality drew me in (dorky and animated might be a way to describe it).… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/13 10:48 PM |
| 0 | The Red Pill is tying knots in my stomach. Apparently one of the side-affects is undue stress.Sobering truths. It's a young relationship; I've not fucked up quite yet. Though, you're right, if I can't figure out being a man, I will. Thank you. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/13 10:39 PM |
| 0 | The Red Pill is tying knots in my stomach. Apparently one of the side-affects is undue stress.To answer 1., I do have both parents and was not adopted; though, my father was a military man, and despite being there, often he wasn't "there." Thanks for letting me down softly before hitting me in the face. I do need to get out of my dorm room. I've become a shut in for no particular reason. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/13 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Is It Possible Have Female Friends and Avoid Being an Orbiter? Furthermore, If a Female Friend Is a Self-identified Feminist, Should She Be Avoided?I took your advice to heart on the omegas bit (that is not change the way I behave for them), 'cause I shouldn't change myself for anyone (especially whilst I'm still trying to find who I am). I recently have gotten involved to a degree with one of the girls I would have early called an omega, and must I say, I was wrong. Seemingly, they are playing the game just as much, but more like a redpiller plays the social game compared to a bluepiller (at least at cursory glance). (This is to say, they'… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/13 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Came across this from my white knight days.It certainly does. Though, I am still a teenager (I'm just 19). It doesn't just make me cringe, it frighten me a bit actually that people around me don't mature much past being a teenager. . . | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/13 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Came across this from my white knight days.Ah, I see. I stumbled upon this writing this afternoon and read through it. When I started reading some of the buzz words, I tried to put myself back into that frame of mind (as unhealthy as that practice can be over the long haul) to understand why exactly I wrote what I did. I then reflected upon the relationship/friendship as a whole to try to remember the points I should I have seen the red flags arisen (even if TRP was unheard of by me at that point, it's still useful to learn from it). Als… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/13 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Came across this from my white knight days.What do you mean? I'd like to think seven months later that I'm utterly over her. She hardly crosses my mind anymore, if at all. I used to think we could go back to a friendship, but gave up on that back in May, since then I don't even spend time thinking about her, unless one of our mutual friends says something about her. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/13 03:23 AM |
| 3 | Came across this from my white knight days.Yeah, exactly. Basically anytime there was a decision that affected the two of us, I let her make them. I was under the impression that was the proper "enlightened" male thing to do, let the "all-superior," feminist female make all the decisions, "like nature meant." | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/13 01:56 AM |
| 7 | Came across this from my white knight days.Once I wanted to be more than just friends with benefits (mind you, I was still in the mindset that a feminist was the ideal thinking woman), she hated me for want to end her hypergamous lifestyle (we were exclusive at the time, but I was clearly not her intended last). Furthermore, I let her make a lot of our group decisions, which she clearly would have rather that I, that male, had made. She expected me to be a passive, feminine man but also the alpha leader (I assume she saw some alpha quali… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/13 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Everything I Learned in College Was a Lie - by Gavin McInnesThere is a ridiculous trend for the government to stick its hands in everything and everyone's business: usually for the sake of safety and effectiveness (though, that is more than questionable). The problem with what you're suggesting, despite the inherent problems existing within the system as a whole and its tendency to be a giant circlejerk, there are really not many visible options without school (that appeal to me at least; for example, I don't particularly want to own my own business). I … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/13 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Everything I Learned in College Was a Lie - by Gavin McInnesI noticed that when I lived with a family over there for a couple months back in 2011; though, the americanization is less pronounced in the East than in the West. Many want to look and act American. Even the more traditional German shopping experience (and the similar European model, boutiques and such) is giving way to the American-style supermarket. I think most of these changes we both have seen stem from the cultural monopoly America has: American blockbusters are seen worldwide now, and in… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/13 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Everything I Learned in College Was a Lie - by Gavin McInnesDesigned around THEIR employment needs, not YOUR intellectual needs or interests Thinking about it, core requirements make much more sense (I mean, as a Foreign Language Literature Major why do I have to take a physical science if I don't and won't want to be, nor will ever be, qualified to teach it?). So, I want to be an ESL instructor in Germany or Russia and then come back and hopefully teach at a high school that is willing to allow me to set up a sisterhood with a secondary school in either… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/13 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Everything I Learned in College Was a Lie - by Gavin McInnesWell, that's disappointing. I've heard they're Americanizing much of their university system. I imagine England isn't much better, since our system is an out growth of theirs. In my quest for greener and better pastures, I tend to just find similar mottled, dying grasses. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/13 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Everything I Learned in College Was a Lie - by Gavin McInnesI would say brainwashing-esque, there are certainly a handful of fantastic professors who want their students to be individual thinkers (being in the World Literature, Languages, and Cultures department, I am inclined to say it is that group of professors since there is a multitude of ethnicities and nationalities). You're quite right, though; I have met too many people on this campus who can talk and talk and talk but not actually convey an individual thought. They 'know' things, but they don't… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/13 12:55 AM |
| 6 | Everything I Learned in College Was a Lie - by Gavin McInnesYou do raise a very good point. I see plenty of people who come here solely because they've been told since forever that this is the only natural order of things. I personally came because I want to be an educator of some sort (I am thinking I want to teach foreign language at the secondary level with the hope of inspiring kids and giving them an abroad experience, to open the world to them, but alas, I digress) and doing so means I need to become an expert on my topic of choice. The university … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/13 10:55 PM |
| 10 | Everything I Learned in College Was a Lie - by Gavin McInnesHonestly to me, this sounds like our natural growth as people. We grow up holding our parents points of view (and usually these tend to be some brand of conservative). We then go to college and because we're still feeling that twinge of adolescent rebellion we start to adjust our ideological leanings from our parents. Slowly, then, as we grow older and we start to see reality through a different lens, we begin again to shift our thoughts: discarding some of what we picked up in college and repla… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/13 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Is It Possible Have Female Friends and Avoid Being an Orbiter? Furthermore, If a Female Friend Is a Self-identified Feminist, Should She Be Avoided?Perhaps, my problem then is that I don't know what my boundaries are, so in that case, I can be traipsed all over. I was a doormat for my high school years, and then continued that last year in my first year of college. It's all uncomfortable, but that probably means I'm doing the right thing, right? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/13 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Is It Possible Have Female Friends and Avoid Being an Orbiter? Furthermore, If a Female Friend Is a Self-identified Feminist, Should She Be Avoided?Sometimes that's certainly the hardest bit is being honest with myself. In that case there are a few women I need to stop associating with. There are a few girls, though, I don't really have any sexual desire for. For example, one girl and I have a few classes together, so we study together; otherwise, I wouldn't study, because I forget and need someone to remind me. She's been helping me keep myself accountable and actually prepare for classes. I've just been under the impression to maintain se… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/13 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Is It Possible Have Female Friends and Avoid Being an Orbiter? Furthermore, If a Female Friend Is a Self-identified Feminist, Should She Be Avoided?Fair point, it's just become hard to avoid her because the rest of my male friends have kind of begun orbiting her. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/13 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Is It Possible Have Female Friends and Avoid Being an Orbiter? Furthermore, If a Female Friend Is a Self-identified Feminist, Should She Be Avoided?What if they're girls who abstain from sex? I know few REALLY devote girls. I guess that means I'm being used for attention or school contact? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/13 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Is It Possible Have Female Friends and Avoid Being an Orbiter? Furthermore, If a Female Friend Is a Self-identified Feminist, Should She Be Avoided?Well, I've been called worse. I mean, in a hierarchy, a girl I do fuck would come before a girl I don't fuck, but since there are no girls currently with which I'm involved with, she's who've I've been hanging out with on the female side of things. But, when you put it that way, I should be instead using my time to meet girls with whom I have actual sexual potential. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/13 04:12 AM |
| -5 | Is It Possible Have Female Friends and Avoid Being an Orbiter? Furthermore, If a Female Friend Is a Self-identified Feminist, Should She Be Avoided?I need to go to the gym. I've been telling myself that for the last year now; especially since as a student, I basically have a "free" gym membership. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/13 04:10 AM |
| 5 | Is It Possible Have Female Friends and Avoid Being an Orbiter? Furthermore, If a Female Friend Is a Self-identified Feminist, Should She Be Avoided?She ended up being incorporated into the friend group because the other guys in the group like her. I tried to defend myself; that is, explained to her she looked like she needed the jacket more than I did, which got me the enabling violence against women because they need protecting. Not letting women/girls talk to me like that is still something I'm getting over. Probably since I was 14, I've been white-knighting around. I mean, five years isn't a lifetime to overcome, but it's still a bad hab… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/13 04:07 AM |
| 3 | How to DESTROY your comfort zonePeptalks' have their place. You know you have all the tools, you just gotta be reminded sometimes. | /r/seduction | 15/10/13 10:30 PM |
| 3 | Finally swallowed the redpillI'm in exactly the same boat as you. Nineteen-year-old, sophomore in College and after being hurt hard by a feminist and becoming increasingly frustrated with the "you'll be a good boyfriend someday to somebody else" bullshit, I did some digging and fortunately a friend of mind found the TRP and pointed me there. I can't believe that I was a white knight. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/13 06:15 PM |
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