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10

You failed the shit test plain and simple
/r/TheRedPill21/07/26 04:23 PM
5

Thanks boss No dating apps for you?
/r/TheRedPill01/07/26 10:59 PM
14

What’s your method for filling the top of the funnel aka how are you actually meeting these girls?
/r/TheRedPill01/07/26 07:13 PM
319

To a man there’s no shame in losing a fight To a woman it’s a visceral turn off
/r/TheRedPill15/04/26 05:41 AM
6

They are validation seeking
/r/TheRedPill18/01/26 07:57 PM
27

Fuck what people think I’d rather be single than bang obese chicks
/r/TheRedPill18/01/26 07:32 PM
1

Why can’t you have both?
/r/TheRedPill06/10/25 02:37 PM
15

I love how people come here looking for advice and then when they get advice they rejected. Have you even read the sidebar?
/r/TheRedPill06/10/25 02:34 PM
8

Foh with this black pill shit
/r/TheRedPill24/07/25 02:47 PM
1

Horniest bitches on the planet
/r/TheRedPill12/09/24 10:22 PM
7

No i dont think so. Ive dated women 30+ who show no signs of it imo. Some who have never been fucked right
/r/TheRedPill10/09/24 04:21 PM
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If you think rp is bunk then why are you here? Ultimately rp gives you a perspective and frame through which you can develop your own sexual strategy. Take whatever is useful for you, you don’t have to subscribe to everything. I haven’t given up but i also don’t have any illusions about finding a perfect virgin tradwife. It’s ultimately up to you - if you find a girl who treats you well and doesn’t have a thousand cock stare you ll probably be fine
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/24 01:00 AM
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You’re trying to achieve bp goals using rp methods There is no guarantee of arranged marriage working in your favor. Plenty of ran through hoes get arranged marriages too. Trad girls are experts at hiding their past. And even if she doesn’t divorce you she could cheat or stop fking you. What are you gonna do then? Start banging prostitutes? Cheat? Rp opened your eyes to the true nature of women and what can happen. You cant escape that reality by looking for unicorns
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/24 12:40 AM
68

Man this sub has really gone downhill. Where’s the banhammer when you need it Girls with promiscuous pasts make terrible LTRs. It’s that simple. For a plate I couldn’t care less.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/23 05:27 PM
4

Dude what it's not the same at all
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/22 11:44 PM
7

And you're ok with your wife getting railed by other dudes??
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/22 11:25 PM
58

If you're not going to have kids there's no reason to get married.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/22 02:58 PM
1

Fair enough... I saw you said it's fine to stretch the truth which i agree with.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 08:18 PM
3

"Ppl are individuals" Yea obviously. You're missing the point. Read the sidebar
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 08:04 PM
4

Yeah the ones who are riding the cc. Even those catch feelings eventually But females in relationships- don't think so
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 07:57 PM
2

I don't think women are generally capable of separating sex and feelings/ love/respect
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 07:54 PM
3

Generally yes but depends on context. If a man is providing resources to take care of a woman then her cheating is a heinous crime. The guy cheating just to bust a nut isn't. Guys are capable of loving one woman while fucking others. Women are not
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 07:44 PM
2

What's wrong with lying to get laid. Not saying that's what I would do but from a sexual strategy standpoint it works. Most of these lines create cognitive dissonance which makes the hamster spin faster
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 07:42 PM
4

Glad an EC showed up to set these sanctimonious idiots straight
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 07:40 PM
1

Male cheating is different
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 07:38 PM
7

Real blue pill moralizing energy here. Foh with this bs Red pill is about sexual strategy. If lying and cheating get you laid more then it's red pill. Up to each man to decide if that's something they want to do or not.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 07:38 PM
5

Trm is fine but it seems you haven't actually taken the lessons from it
/r/TheRedPill20/06/22 12:24 AM
3

Dude awalt The fact that you are obsessed over one woman shows you have no Redpill knowledge whatsoever Start reading and lifting. And start hitting on new girls.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/22 12:23 AM
4

Wtf is this shit Bhai go read the sidebar again 6 times. Clearly you haven't learned shit about redpill
/r/TheRedPill20/06/22 12:14 AM
11

Why tf are you attending fitness classes Ever heard of a barbell
/r/TheRedPill08/06/22 03:10 AM
1

Interesting that hasn't been working for me maybe I need to improve my profile
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 09:57 PM
4

How do u usually meet them?
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 03:39 PM
6

Yeah that guy sounds blue pill af and will probably come after op to kill him
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 03:32 PM
6

Latinas definitely have tight pussies ime
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 03:32 PM
16

Damn id like to know how yall are meeting and fucking these younger girls. I seem to keep matching with girls in their 30s... rarely if ever match with a girl in her 20s
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 03:30 PM
51

Using the Socratic method to get laid lmao
/r/TheRedPill17/03/22 03:26 PM
2

If those are the only two options then #1 Both are bad options though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:44 AM
1

You have to be more specific as red pill stuff is super broad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:43 AM
5

Hell yes Being the guy who is uninhibited and forward is how you win vs better looking guys who stand in the corner and have no game
/r/TheRedPill15/01/22 11:02 PM
3

It's mainly obese girls who take the high angle shots so yeah I swipe left on those
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 10:58 PM
1

It's a damn good reason to not get married
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 10:34 PM
1

How many attractive girls can you even date with a population of 900? Like 5?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:11 PM
5

What about criminals and drug dealers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:49 AM
39

I hear what you're saying but I think younger inexperienced men would be better served by trying to fuck more women initially rather than dating one girl exclusively for years. Build abundance, and confidence that he can always get a new girl if needed
/r/TheRedPill18/12/21 06:14 AM
5

The characteristics you've listed are pretty vague and non specific. I'd be surprised if most women didn't want most of the traits and features you listed. It also doesn't give any clues to guys as to what they can do to be more attractive. This is exactly why we have the 'don't ask the fish' mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:51 AM
4

I think you're proving op's point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:37 AM
0

Entertaining channel
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:25 AM
4

Lol I know... so frustrating to see good discussions get derailed by women talking about how "im not like those other gurrrrls!"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:20 PM
4

You should stop assuming that your particular preferences are shared by women in general
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:15 PM
5

The real question for me is how many of those guys are even trying? A lot of guys just give up and let themselves go after a certain point As a guy it is possible to transform yourself through diet, exercise, and learning social skills/ game and move to a different country where competition is less intense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:59 PM
6

So you actually agree wit the red pill lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:01 AM
3

It's fine but I think you'll get better answers in subs specifically focused on pickup
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:15 PM
2

Why are u asking this here instead of seduction or trp?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:11 PM
1

Yes it's supposed to be used playfully like everything in the pua world. A lot of dudes misinterpret this stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:57 AM
0

Nagging isn't about insulting... it's about disqualification with a cocky/ teasing attitude And yes of course it works. Like many of the techniques puas employ that women say don't, mainly as a cope
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:13 AM
-1

Cold approaching doesn't work? Oooook then good job dismissing the best way to create new opportunities
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 07:27 AM
13

Maybe they care about the collective future of society?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:38 AM
0

Gotcha all fair points Fwiw trp doesn't put moral judgments on hypergamy. It is simply reality
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:49 AM
1

I think this is trp 101 Hypergamy is the behavioral tendency, while what you talk about is the underlying reason why it makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:07 AM
1

Yeah I hear you. Life was pretty shitty for most ppl historically.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 06:43 AM
2

Reality simply is No moral judgments here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 06:30 AM
1

Remarkably astute comment I suppose it's possible that women step up to fill those roles
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 06:29 AM
1

You're not getting it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 02:07 AM
1

You don't sound pleasant to be around You're supposed to be a partner, not an adversary. Check your own ego
/r/TheRedPill21/11/21 03:07 PM
2

Maybe but times when I moved faster things generally went better
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 01:09 PM
1

Wow what an amazing girl However, my relationships keep failing due to my partners eventual insecurities. Ah there it is
/r/TheRedPill21/11/21 12:47 PM
-1

Nope ime waiting for sex ended up with girls getting bored and leaving
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 10:59 AM
20

Nah in the past even locally powerful men had de facto soft harems. Think big landowners, locally rich guys, local politicians, local nobility, etc. When mobility was much more limited, it was easier to maintain such arrangements. Nowadays you have Saudis sheikhs flying in models on private jets for a weekend of debauchery
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:11 PM
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It benefits the top men who can get laid easily with minimal effort The rest have to fight over scraps It wasn't necessarily better in the past though. Powerful men have kept harems historically or taken multiple wives where allowed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 09:24 AM
2

You have to be a woman worth committing to
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 06:24 PM
2

So edgy so cool. Do us all a favor and read trp for 3 months before making another post about it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:08 AM
4

Thanks for demonstrating that you know nothing about trp
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:44 AM
3

Trp is about sexual strategy. It's not about blaming your problems on lack of sex ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:40 AM
9

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 04:51 AM
28

You sound like a wonderful and well adjusted person
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:00 PM
17

Trp helped me with dating and seduction, not this place lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 09:36 AM
3

Definitely a minority of girls... I think I saw somewhere that 10-15% of as American girls are in such relationships with a significant age gap In other countries the % is higher
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:59 PM
3

Absolutely. There are concrete actions you can take to improve your Situation, even if others don't understand it or approve of it. If you're not hurting anyone then I don't see a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:33 AM
4

Yes men need to level up their game
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 03:50 PM
9

Normal? No But successful people rarely do 'normal' things
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 06:37 AM
3

Men have to be more confident or we know we'll never make it in life. Drummed in to every male from a young age
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 06:08 AM
-2

That's pretty funny stuff As a brown skinned bald man who looks fucking good and has no problem getting laid i find these arguments a perfect example of women saying one thing and doing another
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 05:55 AM
11

Some guys are just attractive to the vast majority of women. I think we know which guys those are It's the guys who are struggling who should really try to be attractive to a niche
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 03:18 PM
5

This is what female privilege looks like. You don't even realize how af/bb helps you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 04:17 AM
-1

Its like they cant believe its possible to successfully date women without being red pilled. Also incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 05:36 PM
1

that's correct
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 05:35 PM
-3

I'd fuck but definitely not ltr or wife up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 12:01 AM
-1

Nice job creating a Strawman just so you can appear to not be redpill lol Examples: Trp doesn't say not to date feminist or tatted up chicks, just to be aware that those types of girls don't make for great wives and ltrs Also why do you think that trp tells you debate girls? In fact it's the opposite... trp tells you to lead, not debate or argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 12:01 AM
6

It's not bad advice but yeah not on par with the quality we should expect
/r/TheRedPill25/10/21 08:52 PM
2

From a purely animalistic perspective I want to fuck as many attractive women as I can But from an intellectual and emotional perspective I also want to reduce my chances of catching an std and also build deeper relationships with people So I try to find a balance
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:01 AM
1

Wow bro so alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:02 AM
1

Hmmm except in the case of hypergamy that is something that women always have as a core tendency. You can never 'prevent' it . Or do you mean preventing cheating or divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:06 PM
2

What do you mean by prevention?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:57 PM
2

The thing is that even if the reasons are wrong Often times the Actions can end up being helpful
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:52 PM
3

More important is what actions I should take from those 'women do this' observations'
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:47 PM
1

Bruce Wayne is imaginary that's the point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 01:54 PM
9

Eh you don't have to be Bruce Wayne to get laid lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 01:13 AM
3

Hell yes except women don't really work that way unless drunk
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 04:18 AM
3

Straight facts. This is how many successful bluepill relationships work. If both sides can keep up their end of the bargain
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:31 PM
2

Yep keep the illusion going and both sides are happy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:28 PM
2

Not judging but plenty of women just want a dude who will pay the bills and give her a nice non working lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:27 PM
8

Women who do this are either idiots or with a guy so desperate he won't care
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:34 PM
12

Do women care about being a man's second option if he provides for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:32 PM
1

If you have more than 1 or 2 dealbreakers you may want to reassess your attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 05:51 PM
1

So many things wrong with this post... For one, trp doesn't say that women are only attracted to a very narrow look. Second is that these are pop stars. They have attractive traits like height and good hair and leanness + high status = killer combo. It's mostly young girls who obsess over them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 05:50 PM
18

Yet another post attacking rp theories without even understanding what the rp theories say Next
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 06:02 PM
1

Exactly what u/Apo_1011 said Some guys do very well at bars, other do better with day game. But day game is harder because you can't rely on alcohol to loosen up your inhibitions. So it's harder to approach, but there are times when I've met a girl at a club who rejected me hard, but was totally open to dating when I later met her during the day (she obv didn't remember meeting earlier lol). My point is that no one should write off day game before trying it. Nowadays since I'm older and don't ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 06:14 PM
4

The dude probably has a huge dick
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:24 PM
2

Oh please cut the sanctimonious crap
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:23 PM
5

This is basically trp advice - don't put the pussy on a pedestal
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 08:38 PM
3

Everyone takes different lessons away from trp depending on their life situation. So i don't think you can really say the entire thing is toxic. For some guys, they needed to be told that women are human, not perfect angels. Others needed to be told to hit the gym. Some guys needed to learn what frame is and how to have more success in social interactions. And so on
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 06:29 AM
3

Interesting. You don't have to be married to be lifelong partners though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 03:39 AM
5

This is what trp calls 'the tingles'
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 11:32 PM
1

Sounds pretty good for average men. However This would lead to men not hitting the gym or caring about appearance much. Also men would complain about fat chicks aggressively hitting on them when they're just trying to dance /s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 09:40 PM
2

Power imbalances are the norm, not the exception Comes in many forms
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 06:27 AM
2

Which is fine as long as they aren't extrapolated to everyone as I said
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 05:38 AM
5

Dude the risk of getting the police called on you is extremely small, to the point of being negligible. Unless of course you do creepy shit like grabbing physically, following, trapping in an enclosed space, approaching at night, not taking no for an answer. I've done plenty of daygame and never came close to the risk you're describing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 05:16 AM
2

It works well for some guys... how about we stop acting like our own personal experiences can be extrapolated to all humans on earth? Online works, night game works, day game, social circle, etc they all work to some extent but it depends on the guy and his situation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 05:11 AM
1

Yep sc game is definitely the ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 05:09 AM
6

Biggest crock of shit I've ever heard Daygame works great as long as you don't look like a criminal and are confident and respectful Since when is following on social media equivalent to approaching irl? Vast majority of guys do not have the skills, confidence, charisma, and balls to day game
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 05:08 AM
3

Way to miss the entire point of the post
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 05:05 AM
3

Partially yes of course. Most men are motivated to do things that make them more attractive. Unless a man has given up and just wants to play video games and some weed all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 02:41 AM
3

It's possible. I've never considered ppd as representative of the general female population. My irl personal experiences and conversations have diverged quite a bit from what women on here say.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 12:18 AM
1

You ARE doing it partially to meet a higher class of man at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 12:14 AM
2

Meeting parental expectations and wanting to have a career/ make money
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 12:13 AM
0

We're talking about female beliefs here. I agree there's a range of what women may consider to be lots of partners. A conservative girl may think 1 lifelong partner is acceptable. While the tatted up goth chick likely thinks that no number is too high. The latter is far more bluepill than the former
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 12:12 AM
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More than 50%easily I'll add that it's not the sole motivation of course. But it is in the top 3, even if not publicly admitted to. Women know that they'll be stuck with bums and dropouts if they don't level up
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 12:09 AM
3

Nah most women are doing it to meet a higher class of men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 12:03 AM
15

That having lots of sexual partners doesn't matter to a high quality man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:18 PM
8

Agreed but I don't think the advice was ever intended to mean "go monk mode until you're rich/ famous then talk to a girl" Just that your primary focus should be on building status and wealth. Allocate a couple of hours a week to approaching women
/r/TheRedPill05/09/21 11:42 PM
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Lol ikr?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 09:02 PM
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This story is TEXTBOOK alpha widow + af/bb Seriously it couldn't be more perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:32 PM
14

many people on here dont know anything about the "redpill", Lol this is true of 90% of posts on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 03:34 PM
1

Be attractive is completely useless advice
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 03:32 PM
0

Far too common unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 12:27 PM
1

Lol no but I can see how it would work Even if considered an unhealthy relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 05:02 AM
0

Narcissistic control freak + low self esteem girl with an eating disorder = best combination
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 05:00 AM
9

Learn the technique called conversation threading
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 06:52 PM
0

Isn't there always some sort of power imbalance? One partner may make more money, have more connections/authority, physical strength, etc. Generallt Hetero women seem to prefer men who are 'better'than them in some way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 02:48 PM
71

This is basically what Dale Carnegie wrote in his classic book. Being interested in other ppl also helps if you're introverted and hate talking about yourself. Gives you an easy way to start conversations with girls
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 02:35 PM
1

Impossible to know before you approach
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 12:17 PM
2

Hmmm possible .... there are a lot of whacko pua out there and a few good ones too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 10:01 PM
3

Yep exactly Not saying to stalk and follow girls like a psycho lol Gotta learn how to take rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 10:00 PM
1

Yeah I know and I disagree with that advice. I'm saying it should be ok to talk to a girl in a supermarket or at the bookstore. Basically during the course of normal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 09:42 PM
1

Idk I've never had much luck making friends online and then converting that to dating irl. Maybe you could share some tips
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 09:41 PM
19

That's unfortunate. These stalkers and psychos are ruining the game for normal guys who just want to meet a nice girl
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 09:40 PM
1

Yeah but you could meet a great girl in almost any situation during regular life activities
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 09:38 PM
1

You could
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 09:36 PM
1

Agreed. IME the keys are to approach quickly (don't stand and stare THAT'S CREEPY) and end the interaction if she's not interested
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 08:33 PM
2

lol you can have whatever preferences you want just be honest about it hot girls rarely if ever swipe right on me in OLD, but i'm able to strike up a conversation through day game easily and sometimes get numbers and lays.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 08:09 PM
3

Lol... acceptable if you're bottom 10% in terms of looks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:32 PM
4

Money is cool but will attract gold diggers
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:22 PM
3

Ok fair enough but I would add that confidence, body language, voice/ tonality, and charisma are huge as well and very underappreciated You just have to be good looking enough to pass the initial screen
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:22 PM
4

How does that translate into actions an average man can take? If it's things like get in shape, lift, groom, dress well, have direction in life, build social skills, etc then I will agree But if you're saying that only naturally good looking guys should ever approach girls then I completely disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:17 PM
4

Those are good tips but.... I also didn't judge women by their looks. So you basically lowered your standards lol. No shit it's easy to match unattractive girls on tinder What guys want to know is how to fuck good looking girls with the good qualities you mentioned
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 04:31 PM
0

Wrong framing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 04:28 PM
2

Tell me what strategies you changed to get better results on OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 04:16 PM
4

Ok say more about what strategies you changed on old In my experience as an average looking dude, daygame gives me much better options because I can use my other good qualities not just looks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 04:13 PM
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I'm not arguing with the fact that most couples meet through old these days What I'm saying is that old is best for top tier dudes. If a dude isn't getting good results through old then daygame could be a better option
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 04:07 PM
1

What's your advice then
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 04:05 PM
3

Hahahaha full dunning Kruger effect on display here Please continue with your comedy show
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 04:01 PM
6

Wtf are you on about Never been metood or anything thru irl dating. Is called having social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:57 PM
2

Then why do most guys complain they can't meet anyone through OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:56 PM
3

You can use both and see which works better for YOU
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:55 PM
5

Stop using terms you don't understand If OLD isn't working for a guy I guarantee irl will work better
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:54 PM
3

You are just talking nonsense now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:53 PM
6

And that's exactly why it works better
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:52 PM
10

This is like saying potato chips are better for you than vegetables because more people eat them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:52 PM
4

Human nature hasn't changed in thousands of years. Old is just bells and whistles
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:50 PM
11

Given how much guys complain about old it seems that doesn't work well at all unless you are top 10% in looks I've done it both ways and with irl game it is MUCH more possible for average looking dudes to have success
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:49 PM
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No it's because it's harder and takes social skills and effort vs just jerking off while swiping right all day Daygame and social circle game can yield much better results for average dudes but requires more work
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:45 PM
5

Lol indeed... ppl spending too much time online
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:43 PM
17

Or just stop giving a fuck about being labeled creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:42 PM
13

Old doesn't work well for everyone. For average guys, doing daygame or social circle game yields better results
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:26 PM
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Also, this advice is really just to filter out the beta males who are stupid enough to listen to it Guarantee you the guys who are getting laid aren't concerned about looking creepy or when and where it is acceptable to approach The only rule is to approach in a place where a girl can feel safe rejecting you (she can leave easily, there are other people around, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:22 PM
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This is the big con - if you listen to female advice you'll come away with 95% of situations being disallowed for approaching The answer is that you have to become thick skinned and comfortable with being called creepy. You're doing something that is not entirely socially acceptable. That is just the cost of doing business
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:20 PM
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The fact that you're asking this means you don't know anything about the red pill Of course it's possible, but men and women love differently
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:57 PM
2

You have excellent self awareness particularly in terms of first world vs developing country dating standards
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 12:21 PM
1

This is poetry
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 12:20 PM
2

Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:00 PM
27

They did not put up any resistance because they are okay with the Taliban. They only reason they are 'ok' with The taliban is that resisting would result in their kids being executed and dragged around town behind a Toyota hilux for a day before being dumped in a pit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 03:28 AM
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Again - pareto distributions are well understood in many fields. But in mainstream society the idea that 20% of men get sex easily while the other 80% have to struggle is not generally accepted. That's what op is saying. Not that people are just discovering it now
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 03:18 AM
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Yeah but it's not commonly understood to apply in the sexual marketplace
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 02:28 AM
5

Hunting implies the girl is an unwilling participant
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:08 AM
8

Exactly which is why your analogy doesn't work lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:03 AM
8

Except in this case the prey wants to be eaten
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:01 AM
2

Maybe it's just me. I've turned down decent looking girls in the past due to 'standards' It was a bad decision
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:21 AM
1

Did u just watch beautiful mind
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:40 PM
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Imo 'standards ' have always been an excuse by guys with egos bigger than the list of girls they've fucked The only 'standard' that matters is whether she gets my dick hard or not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:39 PM
1

Beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:38 PM
2

I've done that myself on occasion
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:21 PM
3

I know I'm agreeing with u lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:20 PM
10

Sure. If you're trying to get laid keep being uninhibited and shameless and eventually a tipsy/horny girl will fuck u
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:01 PM
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OK what i meant is that there used to be certain expectations between men and women beyond just what matters for sexual attraction. Like as a man you were expected to be chivalrous, provide resources and security, and lead the household. As a woman, you were expected to do domestic duties, bear children, and save your virginity for your husband. And of course both parties are expected to not cheat on each other. This places restrictions and pressures on both parties in different ways, but overal…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 06:55 PM
1

Plant dominant diet ftw
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 06:12 AM
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I've never seen such fragile displays of masculinity as bragging about buying meat in a supermarket, it literally defining if you have a worthy cock or not. Nothing manlier Than packaged dead animal in a supermarket lol Consensus seems to be that a plant dominant diet is best.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 06:05 AM
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What's wrong with high protein? I'm defining high as 1 g/lb bodyweight. In most studies, high protein diets allow for building more muscle mass and lower fat (isocaloric)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 05:55 AM
2

Layne Norton is legit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 05:54 AM
2

Are u being sarcastic or asking seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 08:51 PM
10

That's what happens when the social/religious contract is broken. Everyone just satisfying their own hedonic needs with no guiding principles beyond getting what's theirs fuck everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 04:20 PM
1

Confidence? No Good social skills and personality help though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 12:49 PM
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So all I need to do is become a billionaire or elite athlete or top 10 music star got it Justplaying man... truth is you don't have to be that elite to get laid regularly. Top 20% is still not that hard to enter
/r/TheRedPill11/08/21 09:22 PM
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Pre selection just means that women want men that other women want. Not that they necessarily want men who have slept with 500 chicks. Humans are, by and large, monogamous creatures Joke of the week lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:01 AM
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How is that possible? Doesn't it just mean that her tdee is actually lower?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 08:05 PM
2

Toxic masculinity is upheld by women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 08:22 PM
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You sir are in for a lifetime of disappointment and resentment and frustration Let me guess: you were both virgins when u got married and you have 0 experience with handling and leading women. You are not only trapped by the kid, but also by family expectations and culture. Getting a divorce would make you a social pariah wouldn't it? You need to READ THE FUCKING SIDEBAR because you are making every mistake in the book. Don't even think about posting again until you have. Then this community can…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/21 01:06 PM
0

If you read the trp sidebar all of these questions would be answered (and you'd also gain a more nuanced understanding of what the wall is in the first plsce)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:05 PM
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True, the game never really ends
/r/TheRedPill01/08/21 05:27 PM
10

They are probably talking about the girls who get married at 21/22 no?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/21 05:03 PM
10

Sounds like a good plan
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 10:07 PM
6

looks deteriorate over time due to aging. No one thinks about that when they're young
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:12 PM
1

Female competitiveness is brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 12:28 PM
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true, but imagine if all girls stopped wearing makeup tomorrow. expectations would reset
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:39 PM
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Ask women about any physical characteristics and you'll probably get similar distributions Height Facial features Abs Muscles Actually these results are not bad at all - over 50% of women either find bald men attractive or neutral Keep in mind that attraction is multidimensional. What a guy lacks in one area can be made up in another. This also highlights why In person game is superior to old
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:02 AM
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I don't know about that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:00 PM
2

Beautiful women seem to love criminals and misfits at younger ages it's true Go hang around a courtroom and see how many pretty girls are there during hearings
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:58 PM
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For example, hypergamy, solipsism, Machiavellianism and immaturity are principles which make up the AWALT umbrella. Behaviours resulting from those principles would be branch swinging, blame shifting and emotional impulsiveness, among others. As a general statement this is pretty good. Women do exhibit these behaviors by and large to differing extents depending on the individual. And yes there are some women who don't branch swing for example. Nature doesn't translate to behavior the same way fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:39 PM
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so how does one define AWALT then? There have been a few posts by endorsed TRP contributors that explain is clearly and they say it's about female tendencies. Obviously not all women behave exactly the same
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:24 PM
0

what specifically does AWALT get wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:22 PM
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do you understand what specific concepts AWALT encompasses? just making sure
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:21 PM
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some weird attempt to have 'non misogynistic' advice for men on how to get better results with girls Ended up going to 0 because... surprise, they didn't have any useful advice that was actually different from TRP you can look up the original post here: https://www.reddit.com/r/everymanshouldknow/comments/29hbtj/emsk_why_the_red_pill_will_kill_you_inside/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:19 PM
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BTW awalt doesn't put any moral judgements on female behavior so don't know where you're getting asshole from You probably don't know anything about the concept... just read about it second hand
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 10:03 PM
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No, awalt describes female tendencies. Doesn't say that all women behave exactly the same. Sets expectations at the right level for men who don't have experience with women and learn what to look out for. Some male tendencies probably could be summed up by amalt, but that isn't relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 10:01 PM
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awalt is a principle, not a literal statement That's exactly what the trp definition of awalt is Cherrypicking what noobs on trp interpret awalt as is a dumb approach
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:37 PM
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This is what that punching morpheus sub tried to do and it failed miserably Why? Because most of trp advice actually works (not all tho)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:34 PM
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Heels were originally worn by men. So yeah I say go for it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:54 AM
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The idea that a man "got what he wanted" and disappeared isn't how men think. True. If the first time was good, why not smash again
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:57 PM
2

Definitely stop porn You can still jerk off, but no death grip and take it slow Take some zinc and vitamin d if you're deficient
/r/seduction16/07/21 03:40 AM
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I agree but /thathappened
/r/seduction16/07/21 02:07 AM
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Good job! There's a time to eject and a time to plow. There are no hard rules in this game
/r/seduction14/07/21 11:07 PM
2

Because persistence is rewarded is every other aspect of life, just not dating
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:34 PM
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why the hell they thought they had a chance Because they do, just not with you Why do women have such a hard time with probabilistic thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:14 PM
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This is such an American post
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:24 AM
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This is already happening in Japan to a limited extent wit virtual girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:09 AM
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Down voted and reported
/r/seduction14/07/21 03:45 AM
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Good work!
/r/seduction14/07/21 03:43 AM
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Lol plenty of men do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:52 PM
2

Impress her with your ability to lead and to connect emotionally, not by going to the fanciest place that you can't afford
/r/seduction12/07/21 05:20 AM
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Go to a cheaper place, or even better a free date
/r/seduction12/07/21 03:52 AM
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Seems pretty expensive You'll definitely get girls to hang out with you as long as you have alcohol flowing though lol
/r/seduction12/07/21 03:51 AM
2

Awesome dude Do an fr write up if you want feedback
/r/seduction12/07/21 01:22 AM
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You have too many limiting beliefs and are closed minded I'm 30+ and regularly fuck girls in their 20s Meet them in bars, bookstore, grocery stores, etc Don't overcomplicate this shit
/r/seduction10/07/21 06:43 AM
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How do you know he hasn't changed and realized that non staceys are better than staceys? (Yes I'm mirroring what women say when their preferences change)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 08:50 PM
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Dude in this game you're going to be called creepy no matter how old or young you are. Cold approach is not the norm. You gotta have a thick skin and be able to deal with 90% rejection rates
/r/seduction07/07/21 10:16 PM
6

Retinol might be the exception
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 01:17 PM
1

He's actually a humanitarian - saving girls from dead bedrooms and abusive boyfriends lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:27 PM
1

Yeah a lot of moralizing on this sub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:25 PM
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Agree and amplify
/r/seduction04/07/21 05:15 PM
3

Yes I'm similar to you in physical stats and do fine There are many other factors at play - do you lift? Do you have any personality and game? Interesting lifestyle or interesting stories and thoughts to share? You say you're an exec at Google. That's fantastic, you're probably in the top 1% if not top 0.5% of income in the country. The key is to not end up becoming a gold digger target or atm What's been your experience on old so far? Have you read any basic materials on game?
/r/seduction03/07/21 11:02 AM
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THIS IS WITHOUT MAKEUP. Besides, despite what some men think, makeup is not witch magic that will make bad skin look flawless. Clearly you haven't seen some of the transformation videos Anyway I agree with skin care... moisturizer, sunscreen, and water go a long way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 10:40 AM
2

Which country?
/r/seduction03/07/21 01:47 AM
3

Good on you then
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:21 AM
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I would not leave my husband for a celebrity. I'm guessing you've never had the opportunity anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:32 AM
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Don't say shit just grab her hand and lead
/r/seduction02/07/21 05:55 PM
2

Women are at the club early. It turns into a sausage fest after midnight or so
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 12:00 AM
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Depends where u live, cost of living, etc I traveled quite a bit on a 35k usd salary
/r/seduction01/07/21 04:51 AM
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Be irrationally self-confident Love this one. Absolutely true. So many of the best seducers I've known have zero shame and delusional self confidence It short circuits ppl into thinking you're a lot higher value than you are. Many of the greatest leaders in history have this trait
/r/seduction01/07/21 04:32 AM
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Agreed Having high expectations in the first place is a bad idea Work on yourself and take what you can get (within reason, not saying to fuck fat girls all the time)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 02:54 AM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 02:42 AM
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Any developing country, not just Asia
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 08:57 PM
3

That person will quit much more easily once they don't like the working conditions or find something slightly better
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 01:34 PM
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I agree up to a point The person who wants to do something may have a limit... ask them to work too late, or do things they find boring and they may quit on you because you need them more than they need you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 01:33 PM
4

you have the option to marry a male provider who will pay for your lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 01:32 PM
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The woman still has the option to marry a provider man and stop working if she wants to
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 01:31 PM
1

That's fucking weird
/r/seduction30/06/21 12:08 PM
1

There’s no rule saying that a high value man can’t emotionally bond with a woman before having sex with her. Sure... there are plenty of rich beta males in technical fields who have zero ability with women and don't recognize their own worth
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:50 PM
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The prototypical Red Pilled man is no going to compromise, Popular but wrong take Leverage in negotiations is what dictates compromise. A sexually successful man who knows he's high value is going to compromise less than a lower value man, regardless of his 'pill status' Ultimately trp teaches you to put your own needs first. Every man has to decide for himself what he's willing to compromise on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:01 PM
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Damn that's impressive logistics lol I can't handle more than 2 dates in a day myself so kudos!
/r/seduction29/06/21 04:52 PM
2

It gets easier with practice
/r/seduction27/06/21 04:20 AM
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8/14 is pretty damn good
/r/seduction26/06/21 09:39 PM
1

Eh honestly I can see younger girls going crazy over the pretty boys but that's because they're famous. Which type of dude is fucking her at the end of the day though?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 04:18 AM
2

Are younger girls no longer fucking the masculine jocks?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 01:55 AM
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This is a question for trp or seduction
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 03:42 AM
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External environment is always overlooked in self improvement discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:56 PM
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Hot take: The problem for most guys is volume. Vast majority ask out maybe 5-8 women in their lifetime. Imagine if guys learned a bit of game, went out for 30 minutes a day, and approached 3 women each time. I guarantee all but the most fucked up individuals would be getting laid a lot more. But rejection is fucking hard. So most guys don't do it and sate themselves on a diet of fast food, porn, and video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:55 PM
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Do u date shorter guys? I've never had tall women Express interest in me... personally I'd love to date a taller women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:26 AM
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“Husband material” men are rare and most of the time the juice isn’t worth the squeeze. Lol... guess I shouldn't be surprised to read this here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 02:36 AM
1

Agreed Smith machine Is good if you know what you're doing
/r/seduction18/06/21 02:00 AM
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That's Baller lol. Nice
/r/seduction18/06/21 01:59 AM
5

Yeah social proof and pre selection are powerful
/r/seduction15/06/21 02:28 AM
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That's why we're here I would like to learn
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 02:49 AM
1

YES 100% honest truth here
/r/seduction10/06/21 12:36 PM
1

Thanks I appreciate your concern
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:00 PM
1

You betray your lack of life experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:04 AM
1

Haha keep believing that if u like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:02 AM
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More important question: among the men who are having sex, how many girls have they fucked? I'd bet the average number is going up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 07:36 PM
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you have a savvy twenty-something woman, dating an older man who has accepted his lower SMV All this post tells me is that you don't know what SMV is
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 06:42 PM
1

Logic isn't one of your strong suits is it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 10:08 PM
1

What's the point of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 03:56 AM
1

You've shown yourself to be quite the misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 12:52 AM
3

Men and women love differently, regardless of age Why is it impossible for the older man to genuinely care for her and not just use her for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 12:50 AM
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Women don't have the need for men as "protectors" here. And yet women still go for taller, bigger men even in feminist countries. The desire for protection and security is pretty deeply ingrained, even if economically women can make their own money
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 11:25 PM
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I still disagree. Women value security because the world is a chaotic and unpredictable place and older men have the experience and skills to survive and thrive in it. This is especially true in developing countries, maybe less so in western countries. Experience is definitely not a detriment, particularly from a sexual perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 11:08 PM
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Ok that's possible, but not the only explanation. It's common knowledge that men may seek out women that resemble their mothers while girls may seek out men that resemble their fathers. This is simply because the opposite gender parent imprints on your love map and represents your first experience with the opposite gender. As I said before, some women may place more value on the security, wealth, and experience of an older man. Daddy issues not required to think that way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 10:33 PM
1

And what exactly is he doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 10:28 PM
-2

You could also go out with the intention of talking to girls and having fun and be outcome independent
/r/seduction03/06/21 08:39 PM
2

What are daddy issues
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 07:28 PM
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pretending to be into who she is as a person while really only being interested in who she is sexually. Lol right... because 18 year old dudes are really interested in a girls personality and not her tits. Older guys are just better at pushing the right buttons due to trial and error in the past. Also let's be honest here, plenty of girls find the experience, independence, and solidity of an older man attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:30 PM
8

Ok reverend nofapps
/r/seduction01/06/21 12:04 PM
17

That's great However, i've fucked women who initially showed zero interest or even hostility Assumed attraction until proven otherwise
/r/seduction01/06/21 02:30 AM
9

most women think their special and think stats/facts are irrelevant to their lives . Haha straight facts
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:10 AM
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Pretty much every female reply to me on this sub is some variant of 'all my friends do X' or 'I always do Y' Even better is when someone starts with 'We always/ never do X' lmao like she's been elected representative of women everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:09 AM
1

No, men have lower standards and women can use makeup, hair treatment, heels, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 12:56 PM
2

Cool thanks I know retinol is widely available and does have some evidence of benefit but it also gets way overstated at times
/r/seduction30/05/21 04:53 AM
2

Got any clinical evidence?
/r/seduction30/05/21 03:44 AM
1

Obviously I'm not talking about medical issues and prescription medication
/r/seduction30/05/21 02:11 AM
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In terms of skin the most important things are 1) drink water, 2) don't smoke, 3) moisturize, and 4) use sunscreen / limit sun exposure Everything else is mostly marketing gimmicks
/r/seduction29/05/21 04:26 PM
3

In many countries having a mistress is assumed for powerful men
/r/TheRedPill29/05/21 02:24 PM
5

A lot of ppl think you can 'pop some roids' and become a 300 lb 5% bf bodybuilder in a few months
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 07:30 PM
3

Yes I know but many are not aware of how much pain, discipline, and hard work (and roids) goes into the 'bodybuilder look' It's not something that any guy can just choose and then achieve overnight
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 06:04 PM
4

Good thing bodybuilders aren't doing it for you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:08 PM
2

Why would I approach a girl I don't find attractive?
/r/seduction28/05/21 01:58 AM
1

Most of this sub is keyboards jockeys who downvote real advice
/r/seduction28/05/21 01:58 AM
3

I'm saying I know both types of guys so I don't think you can generalize that much
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 12:58 AM
3

Too much of a generalization. I know plenty of dudes who only dated and married one girl. They were not looking for a fun chick before settling down
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 11:57 PM
3

Don't disqualify yourself - girls have plenty of their own reasons to reject a guy lol
/r/seduction23/05/21 08:59 PM
0

This is an advice post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 08:51 PM
6

Yeah same question
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 08:50 PM
4

What? There are plenty of more conservative and religious dudes who will date and wife up that type of girl
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 08:50 PM
4

I'm very sympathetic to the risks women face. I'm sorry some men are violent psychos who can't handle rejection. In addition to being scumbags they are ruining it for the rest of us. Most of us who are average dudes would not encourage or allow other men to act this way and would act to protect women who are in a dangerous situation. Unfortunately though , we don't have much choice in terms of dating. Either we take a risk and approach, or risk dying alone.
/r/seduction23/05/21 04:51 PM
3

try to think of it from a woman's perspective. Most guys do all the time - and then make excuses for why they can't approach.
/r/seduction23/05/21 04:43 PM
2

you’re showing us that you think your wants are more important that ours and that we owe you our time. .... or I thought you were cute and wanted to get to know you better? Not everything is a fucking business transaction
/r/seduction23/05/21 04:41 PM
2

I don't think men and women will ever see eye to eye on this because seduction is primarily a male led and male driven approach to improve sexual success. And women don't like the idea that men can have any power or influence in dating because it runs counter to women controlling the whole dating narrative. Ultimately for average guys it comes down to taking the risk, or dying alone. Not a hard choice to make.
/r/seduction23/05/21 04:36 PM
2

Please provide a decent alternative to what OP is proposing then. Women constantly invade male seduction groups to tone police and tell us what not to do and how we are creepy for wanting sex and relationships. But y'all NEVER provide a framework or approach that the average man can use to improve his attractiveness and get more dates. Your advice boils down to "just sit around and wait and hope one of us ladies chooses you somehow somewhere" Sorry but you'll have to do better than that if you w…
/r/seduction23/05/21 04:33 PM
3

You have some good points but the unfortunate reality is that for most guys, the list of places and situations where girls say they don't want to be approached encompasses like 95% of their average day. As an average guy, if I want to find a decent girl to get into a relationship with I simply have to overcome my fears and approach girls even in situations which are not ideal. The alternative is dying alone. Also I suspect the issue most girls have is that most guys are terrible at approaching. …
/r/seduction23/05/21 04:28 PM
1

Great post - daygame is definitely harder because you're not in state, but much less shields to deal with as well
/r/seduction23/05/21 04:21 PM
3

That's great!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 01:41 AM
1

I'm not though...read it again and think carefully
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 01:37 AM
2

In other words, fathers want their daughters to be everything simultaneously. It's not realistic at all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 12:43 AM
3

Yes they want their daughters to simultaneously be successful and produce 10 kids and take care of them and be model wives and mothers and take care of their parents as well
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 12:31 AM
2

all dads ive ever met There's your problem. Since you appear to speak English you're probably upper middle class or higher. Most of the lower and middle class folks I know definitely encourage their daughters to study and get good grades, but then to become good wives and mothers. Seems to be a recurring problem on this sub that women think their limited experiences can extrapolate to everyone globally
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 11:45 PM
3

Irecommend reading the sidebar Indicators of interest
/r/seduction21/05/21 10:16 PM
18

Why are you starting personal attacks? I didn't say anything bad about you. You should take a look in the mirror if you want to start criticizing
/r/seduction21/05/21 06:47 PM
4

It sounds like you are in the 'fun' stage of dating rather than the settle down stage. Once you reach 30+ may be difficult to find a younger man who would want to settle down with you (unless you are exceptionally good looking/ young looking or he's looking for an ATM lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 06:36 PM
6

Eh not a big deal if a guy just wants a hookup
/r/seduction21/05/21 06:08 PM
2

Or just move to a country with shorter guys. Asia and latam are easy af to get laid as a shorter guy
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 05:23 PM
41

You just proved OPs point tho... dude didn't say shit but still fucked you.
/r/seduction21/05/21 05:20 PM
19

There is some truth to this. Too many guys try to be clever and end up saying something stupid that killsthe mood. Once you have her interest and IOIs, STFU and let body language and tonality take over
/r/seduction21/05/21 05:19 PM
9

This would work if you didn't have 50+ n count chicks hitting the wall and then suddenly making guys wait because they want 'something serious' now (but of course claim they only slept with 3 guys) True virgins who are looking for something serious? Sure I'm willing to wait if I'm looking for something long term
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:21 PM
2

Great post
/r/seduction14/05/21 01:43 PM
3

There is some overlap but trp is much bigger
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 12:29 AM
-1

I have been a member of both and understand both far better than you, as evidenced by the ridiculous caricature you've drawn
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 12:28 AM
7

There is overlap They are not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 12:27 AM
0

No this Is also wrong Pua is a subset of trp
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 09:54 PM
0

Wrong - you don't know what PUA is and you don't know what trp is
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 09:53 PM
19

Good job exemplifying what op just said about inaccurate portrayals
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 09:53 PM
1

True enough you definitely don't want to pull a gun unless you're ready to use deadly force
/r/TheRedPill13/05/21 06:53 PM
38

Nothing against training in martial arts but from what ive seen, life or death fights rarely end without serious lifelong consequences to both parties involved. Better imo to carry and train in a using a firearm and to prefer running when possible. Again this only applies to serious life or death situations, not bar brawls
/r/TheRedPill13/05/21 02:33 AM
1

Yes but girls also try to use you to get in all the time
/r/seduction12/05/21 03:20 AM
1

Read dicarlo escalation ladder It'll explain how there are levels to it. Eg. Upper arm is a non sexual area. On the other hand, lower back, thigh, or hands are much more intimate. You always start from low sexual areas and work your way up
/r/seduction10/05/21 04:09 AM
1

lol good to know
/r/seduction10/05/21 12:27 AM
1

sure - 2) conversation threading - this was a famous reddit comment from years ago. basically the idea is that every time you or she says something, it can be used as the jumping off point for a new 'sub conversation' or 'sub thread' in a sense. say for example she says something about how her family is from italy. Key word: Italy. Now you can branch off from there in several directions like A) you visited Italy before and love the country, B) your family is italian too, C) you love italian food…
/r/seduction10/05/21 12:26 AM
1

Better to open up to both sexes andthen just reject the guys lmao
/r/seduction09/05/21 10:12 PM
1

Lol hardcore Bet this post gets removed Edit: called it
/r/seduction09/05/21 09:48 PM
2

I'm similar. Here's what I do: 1) more statements, less questions 2) conversation threading 3) display my knowledge/ depth sparingly 4) playful sarcasm and 'negging' (not insulting as is commonly understood but rather disqualifying for some ridiculous reason like elbows too pointy or she talks like some nerdy chick on a tv show) 5) physical push pull
/r/seduction09/05/21 09:45 PM
1

Clearly you have no interest in learning how to improve
/r/seduction06/05/21 11:48 PM
3

You'd be surprised how easy it is if u talk to the wrong girl and she's in a bad mood or something...
/r/seduction06/05/21 03:10 PM
5

On aggregate what I said is true. Individual cases are not relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 02:28 AM
36

Yep this is it Most men overestimate their value and leverage
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 08:11 PM
128

Because women are sexual selectors... if one man isn't happy with the arrangement there are another 5-10 ready to take his place It's a pussy sellers market
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 07:40 PM
-4

This is why you shouldn't give up on a girl with a bf
/r/seduction25/04/21 05:56 PM
4

Congratulations, you've discovered the principle behind arranged marriages, the way upper class people have done things for centuries
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 02:05 PM
4

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 04:03 AM
10

Yes, men don't get much compliments on a regular basis
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 01:34 AM
32

No fucking way I'm going to sabotage my career success for the sake of meeting more women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 01:34 AM
34

Truck drivers do pretty well tbh... it's a tough job tho
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 11:03 PM
1

Sounds reasonable to me honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 08:49 PM
12

Meant to say I have NO arguments
/r/TheRedPill24/04/21 07:52 PM
31

Nice alpha fantasy novel bro That said I have argument against deadlifts and rows Edit: meant to say NO arguments against
/r/TheRedPill24/04/21 07:41 PM
-2

... which Is why trp says don't get married If u get married and have kids just remember what you're giving up in order to do that (all your power and freedom)
/r/TheRedPill24/04/21 01:39 AM
2

Now I'm imagining Derek Morgan giving me this life advice lmao
/r/TheRedPill24/04/21 01:38 AM
3

Sounds like she views sex as a generally dirty act and therefore is uncomfortable with oral. Is she religious?
/r/seduction23/04/21 10:14 PM
2

It's a compliment- just say thanks and move on like a normal human being lol
/r/seduction23/04/21 08:18 PM
1

Very possible
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 03:52 AM
1

Yes
/r/seduction23/04/21 01:42 AM
5

He posts this shit everywhere
/r/seduction22/04/21 11:38 PM
4

Bald dude clean shaven here Get laid pretty easily... other factors are easily able to compensate Just don't stay balding... either shave it or do a treatment. No in between
/r/seduction22/04/21 11:23 PM
1

This applies strongly to American women. Many are either vapid thots or self centered career women. I've found women to be much more well rounded in other countries particularly latin America and Asia. Not uncommon to find girls who are highly educated, professionally successful, fit/ attractive, interesting to talk to, and feminine and pleasant at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 09:07 PM
56

I would say no. Most women are shocked the first time they try wrestling with a smaller man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 11:56 AM
21

Agree 100%. Love the simple and straightforward approach. That's all you really need
/r/seduction18/04/21 03:10 AM
1

red pill they mean the manipulative tactics. Red pill teaches men to lift, have better frame, and become the most attractive man they can be. If anything learning trp ways made me less manipulative than the 'nice guy' I was before. Unless you think learning game and how to flirt with a playful teasing vibe is manipulation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 11:10 AM
1

Sure it is, but the sexual marketplace doesn't care. Women have the upper hand in dating and can choose whomever theywant
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 06:10 PM
16

All of the rights and privileges, none of the responsibilities.
/r/seduction11/04/21 06:01 PM
1

If she's not fat that immediately puts her in fuckable territory
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 02:00 AM
2

Sometimes things just never worked out for the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 03:18 AM
1

80/20 is nature's way of prioritizing the top genes to be passed down to the next generation while 2nd best are ruthlessly weeded out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 03:22 AM
1

For men the best dating advice is on trp quite frankly. Not here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:20 AM
1

There's a lot more to this community than the guru / influencers types lol Plenty of anonymous dudes giving great advice for free
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 07:29 PM
1

Yeah mostly women will say they have a boyfriend or busy or whatever
/r/seduction04/04/21 12:08 PM
1

Lol k
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 01:40 AM
1

It shows that 20% of the men got 80% of women pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 01:30 AM
5

Look for the paper about 17% of ancestors seeing 90+% of our lineages
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 12:51 AM
1

Sure they can... after lowering their standards down to low value levels
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 12:49 AM
0

Men and women bring different value to the table and prioritize different things from their partners. Commitment is a man's most valuable thing to give to a woman. The same is not true for women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 10:35 PM
0

Plastic surgery and makeup lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:26 PM
0

I got laid more (and looked better) after shaving my head lol It has more to do with weight Also the wall is about commitment for women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:25 PM
2

Absolutely... pretty much every guy who approaches gets called creepy once in a while
/r/seduction03/04/21 07:24 PM
2

Eh I expect to get hard rejected or blown out a few times when I approach. Some women love older guys, others don't. You won't know till you try
/r/seduction03/04/21 04:00 AM
1

That's why what
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 03:37 AM
2

Yep so what's your point
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 03:15 AM
3

Thanks for confirmation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 03:13 AM
2

No idea... probably skews towards 30s and older but some younger guys in late 20s as well
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 03:10 AM
5

I want to learn to weed out/detect Red Pilled men. I find this hilarious... women seem to think that RedPilled(TM) men are all walking around with giant flashing signs saying 'alpha'. Or that redpilled men are all hate filled mouth breathing Neanderthals just waiting to enslave the next virgin he encounters. You'll be able to identify those men in the anger phase, who have just discovered trp and are pissed at all the lies they've been told. What you don't realize is that there are plenty of suc…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 03:00 AM
1

1 way monogamy sounds pretty sweet You basically have to be a warlord type to have that though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 01:29 AM
2

Yeah agreed some dudes can't pull off the bald look, but honestly it's not as big a deal as op is making it out to be as long as you stay in shape and dress well. Girls will reject dudes for tonnes of reasons other than hair
/r/TheRedPill31/03/21 11:00 PM
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This is nonsense. Been clean shaven for years and noproblem smashing chicks Honestly girls can reject you for any number of reasons, hair is just one of them Just like any other deficiency like height, weight, etc you can compensate by lifting, making more money, dressing well etc. If you're so insecure and desperate that you spend so much money on hair treatment then you've got deeper problems I guarantee you The women on FDS are seriously fucked in the head and not representative of women in g…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/21 08:54 PM
6

Yes noticing details is the key. Saying how herc earrings complement her eyes, or dress and shoes complement each other is guaranteed to be better than wow you're hot
/r/seduction30/03/21 02:29 PM
13

Right women will always be able to find a dude to plow her pussy But a hvm to commit? Nope This is why revenge fantasies are stupid
/r/TheRedPill29/03/21 02:41 PM
1

That's exactly what red pill teaches lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 02:08 PM
1

Sounds like a strawman to me. Isn't it the ambitious career women complaining they can't find a high value man who'll stick around? Or maybe dating is just fucked in general and everyone is complaining Plenty of dudes from the west find attractive and pleasant girls in developing countries anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 02:37 PM
2

A friend told me one time: you can do anything to a girl except bore her Very true ime (obv within reason/ legal). You shouldn't be afraid to make fun of a girl, or push/pull her emotionally. Girls love the experience
/r/seduction27/03/21 02:31 AM
3

Yes - but you have to understand that AWALT means all women have similar drives/ tendencies/ motivations, to varying degrees. Certainly not the exact same behaviors however. AWALT is a tool for guys to set expectations when they are coming from the blue pill world of thinking girls are pure angels with no faults or evil and impure thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 08:23 PM
20

The blue pill way is simply an illusion. If the illusion can be maintained for his whole life then Brian will probably die a happy man. But that's exactly the problem... there is no guarantee he won't get absolutely fucked later, and then maybe he'll think back to the opportunity he had to embrace the red pill way and realize how his whole life trajectory could've been totally different. We all understand the appeal of the blue pill... the idea that you can get laid because of your nice personal…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/21 02:17 AM
2

Online yes. In the real world, your gym efforts, personality, charisma etc can shine through. Focus on that
/r/seduction20/03/21 08:56 PM
1

Lol they're just drunk/ on molly Still street night game is good because you typically get less attitude when the girl is outside vs inside and you save money and your eardrums A good compliance test is to grab her hand and start dancing in the street. Then pull them to a food spot after midnight.
/r/seduction20/03/21 08:21 PM
2

Solitary activities are not ideal
/r/seduction20/03/21 08:18 PM
5

Dancing, cooking, painting, wine tasting, yoga, possibly crossfit . Depends what type of girls tho... most girls seem to have Netflix and brunch as their top interests
/r/seduction20/03/21 08:17 PM
3

Dude someone starting at OP's position is going to have a lot more failures than successes initially
/r/seduction20/03/21 02:39 AM
9

Nothing beats actually approaching, failing, and learning
/r/seduction19/03/21 10:43 PM
2

Great advice
/r/seduction19/03/21 10:43 PM
1

You need to get out there, trying, failing, learning, and trying again. Nothing beats real life experience
/r/seduction19/03/21 10:42 PM
6

The questions you're asking make no sense to me. If we lived in a world where girls didn't allow for casual sex and only in committed relationships/ marriage then I'd adapt to that world and have sex with one girl after marrying her. But since we live in a world where girls are having casual sex then I'll have sex but no way am I committing. Women set the terms of sex, and men are (in the language of economics) 'sex takers'. We adapt our sexual strategy to whatever works in the environment that …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 03:27 AM
14

I see beautiful women with ugly and unimpressive guys quite frequently in non western cultures. Asia and latam in particular
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 02:41 AM
–

Thought it's just criminal records?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 03:28 PM
48

Funny how the dark side creed is so much better as a guide in real life
/r/TheRedPill03/03/21 02:29 AM
1

Great forward looking advice. Learn from the past, but live in the present
/r/TheRedPill27/02/21 10:44 PM
6

There is no causality here, only correlation and a tonne of confounders. a man can choose to be a bachelor and keep himself in shape and be healthier and better looking than 95% of dudes, married or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 10:42 PM
3

Great job you're doing better than 95%ofthe dudes on here (keyboard jockeys)
/r/seduction21/02/21 04:24 PM
31

Nice gaming of the system lol I wouldn't be surprised if paying also boosts your elo score a lot too
/r/seduction12/02/21 08:28 PM
2

For a wife? Yes For a mistress? Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 12:11 AM
17

Testing your frame. How did u react?
/r/seduction19/01/21 07:03 AM
1

Nope not at all Always compare yourself to yourself in the past, not to others
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 04:14 AM
0

Not bad Any opener is good as long as you're having fun with it
/r/seduction17/01/21 05:55 AM
7

Sprezzatura
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 10:53 PM
1

I agree it's simple but most people don't know about macros and calories deficit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 03:26 PM
1

Serious question: if tomorrow you decided to lose weight, would you know what to do next? What to eat, when to eat, how much, the role of training and type of training, etc. Losing weight and becoming fit requires quite a bit of knowledge. And if you don't have that knowledge, and understand how to make a plan, it can seem daunting. So while I agree with you to an extent, I suspect knowledge plays a big role too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 06:50 AM
-1

Dude move to another country and lift you can absolutely find someone who wants you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 10:10 PM
7

Get on tinder for daily validation
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 01:15 AM
1

Wealthy men absolutely do care but more becausethey don't want to get divorce stripped by a woman who is much less wealthy than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 03:05 AM
5

Most men do want to fulfill the provider role, but thanks to supply side economics and globalization and massive increase in cost of living and education, are no longer able to do so as easily as in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 09:57 PM
1

5 times more likely to contact .. . As if women make the first move for most guys anyway. Guys need to take the initiative 90%of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 06:13 PM
1

Midwest usa is like this also the south
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 08:42 AM
2

That's not what awalt means
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 11:44 PM
2

It's tough Ngl. My main issue is energy. If I take shots Ican be super energetic and outgoing but without them I want to sleep pretty quick. My solution is to either take caffeine pills and order club soda, or a 5 hour energy drink
/r/seduction04/01/21 08:08 AM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:16 AM
3

Yes but honestly your dating success rate likely won't change if that's the only difference. Men like boobs of all sizes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 01:40 AM
0

You have zero idea what this is all about
/r/seduction03/01/21 05:56 PM
1

Don't really give a shit... it's all part of the game
/r/seduction02/01/21 07:28 PM
5

since everybody has the same potential to build muscle. Absolutely not. Look up the myostatin gene... it, along with other genetic factors, strongly affects muscle building ability. Some guys barely lift and can be lean and muscular. Depends on many intrinsic factors
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 06:38 AM
2

Women have more to lose if they vet incorrectly
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 05:46 AM
1

Fair enough I would actually blame the cat callers and stalkers for female paranoia
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 03:42 AM
3

You don't think it's attractive for a man to be able to approach a woman with confidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 03:28 AM
3

Fantasy is not a good guidepost to what people actually want in their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 08:44 PM
13

Why would any woman want a man who cares deeply about her from day 1? That has to build over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 08:59 PM
1

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 06:38 PM
1

This is a question you'll want to ask on trp
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 02:39 AM
6

Do whatever u want just remember actions have consequences Wouldn't take much effort to bang her but the moral shit is on you
/r/seduction26/12/20 08:07 AM
10

There's a theory that women find less masculine men attractive in times of peace and plenty, and more masculine men attractive in times of war and famine
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 02:37 AM
1

What If the dude is not overweight but has them anyway due to past hormonal imbalance?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 12:06 AM
1

Have puffy nipples myself but otherwise quite fit. I don't like em and may get surgery to correct it Hasn't stopped me getting laid though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 12:05 AM
9

You're not making any coherent arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 05:13 AM
3

Exactly right
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 04:33 AM
26

This is just wrong. Most men do not get laid much at all. Stop trying to impose a false equivalence Further the issue is that men and women tend to have differing sexual preferences with regard to prior history.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 04:32 AM
1

There's a difference between being 'emotional' as a man and being able to do the push/ pull type of playfulness that women live
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 03:46 AM
4

Yeah I think so too... humans seem to be happier with fewer choices and lower expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 10:35 PM
1

Nope I'm fine without a partner. Have enough friends and hobbies that I can keep myself occupied and entertained
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 08:35 AM
1

absolutely... it's not worth the risk. real fights are very unpredictable.
/r/seduction21/12/20 09:07 PM
3

The simpler the better Just get used to opening cute girls first... then you can graduate to asking them out
/r/seduction20/12/20 08:29 AM
3

Ask em for a good store recommendation for your female cousin's birthday
/r/seduction20/12/20 08:12 AM
3

Well sex from males is always in nearly unlimited supply so yeah....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 06:52 PM
2

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 03:45 AM
1

Carving out a niche for yourself is absolutely the easiest way to massively impact your dating life. I always advise men who have the means to move to a location where girls will look at them more favorably. Where you play has a bigger impact than how you play
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 03:28 AM
1

What's dumb??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 03:26 AM
1

right on
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 02:53 AM
2

that's right... sex is part of the full experience of being with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 02:53 AM
5

well that's another issue altogether... if she's not putting any effort at all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 02:52 AM
2

sure every girl is different so you have to calibrate but my point is clear i think
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 02:52 AM
45

Honestly most guys are pretty bad at sex so simply caring about whether the girls gets off or not will elevate you to top tier. Making her cum twice or more will put you in the top 1%
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 08:10 PM
2

I agree, but that's not the message girls hear everyday. In fact the message is the opposite: more sex = empowerment, and if anyone disagrees and even hints that they prefer low to no n-count girls they're misogynistic shitlords (aka you're not responsible for anything)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 04:33 PM
7

then why do women even have so many sexual partners? Because sex is fun and if it's perceived to be consequence free thanks to birth control and liberal attitudes then why not have as much as you want? Of course it's not really consequence free which is what we're talking about here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 04:08 PM
1

Lol that's sf for you. You can leave out the tapping part
/r/seduction15/12/20 05:35 PM
3

A modification: make eye contact when you walk past from the front. Slight smile. Then turn around and tap the arm to make contact
/r/seduction15/12/20 04:50 AM
0

Yeah because they're perceived to be easier not more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 02:24 AM
2

Disagree... I got laid significantly more in my late 20s and 30s than teens or early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 02:23 AM
4

All this means Is that more women are getting pumped and dumped by a smaller % of men but can't keep him around
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 02:22 AM
1

Yeah it's always hard to predict these things but we need to remember that, historically, China has always been a major power for most of recorded history. So becoming the next superpower is not surprising at all
/r/TheRedPill13/12/20 05:31 PM
0

You lead she follows
/r/seduction13/12/20 07:16 AM
0

Imo this will be the Asian century so start learning Chinese
/r/TheRedPill13/12/20 04:11 AM
8

Yep no country wants to admit they are throwing military assets into space but that's what's happening
/r/TheRedPill08/12/20 10:11 PM
22

Good insights here and well written. This increasing concentration of power goes hand in hand with the concentration of wealth and inequality. Also don't forget about space power - conventional warfare will be useless when you have orbital strike and delivery systems and mechanized units that can reach any point on the globe in under 2 hrs
/r/TheRedPill08/12/20 08:44 PM
1

Lol 2 disgruntled former employees talking trash? Big deal Tyler has beenin the game since Neil Strauss wrote the game. Dude is fearless and hard working. Look at his infield vids.
/r/seduction05/12/20 11:45 PM
6

Is it not obvious?
/r/seduction05/12/20 04:58 AM
153

Yes it's fine.
/r/seduction05/12/20 03:50 AM
3

Also it doesn't matter how big you are. A child could drop a 300 lb MMA fighter with the right weapon. So never get into a street fight even if the guy is smaller than you. You have no idea how crazy he might be and what weapons he might be carrying. Not very exciting I know but de escalation and running are usually the best options
/r/seduction02/12/20 10:09 PM
4

I think it's more important to learn how to de escalate and run. Experienced martial artists will tell you that there's no winning a serious street fight... all you can do is lose less than the other guy. Even if u knock the other guy out you may be permanently crippled or injured. If u live in a high crime area though you should invest in self defense tools and training.
/r/seduction02/12/20 10:06 PM
1

Haha I've seen nana plaza
/r/seduction01/12/20 11:48 PM
1

Thai girls are definitely better culturally speaking
/r/seduction01/12/20 10:29 PM
1

Lol unique issue! You can't find anyone in Msia? If you're in kl or penang should be easy
/r/seduction01/12/20 04:20 PM
12

Or how about just forgetting the whole number system? If she's fuckable then fuck her. If not then don't
/r/seduction01/12/20 04:15 AM
3

Love the practice session... I think a lot of guys can benefit from that because the way you need to approach is not a mode most guys are in on a regular basis 6 hours tho?! Too busy for that shit
/r/seduction26/11/20 03:05 AM
11

Simply by approaching in person you are cucking every thirsty simp trying to slide in her dms with corny and unoriginal messages.
/r/seduction24/11/20 06:44 PM
1

Depends on why she rejected me before. Was it because I was a fat neckbeard who couldn't hold a conversation or anything heavier than 10 lbs? In that case she was totally justified.
/r/seduction24/11/20 05:40 PM
1

Nice
/r/seduction24/11/20 08:20 AM
1

Nah man a lot of guys think attraction is binary when a girl sees a guy
/r/seduction24/11/20 06:25 AM
9

Shhhhh don't tell everyone The more men are willing to sit and complain about how bad women are the more opportunities there are for guys who are willing to approach!
/r/seduction24/11/20 03:22 AM
5

Lol this is bullshit Source: personal experience
/r/seduction21/11/20 06:19 PM
4

Yeah you gotta make her work for it a bit... increases her investment
/r/seduction20/11/20 06:06 PM
1

Lot of truth here I would add that actions lead to thoughts and mindsets, not only the other way around When you're feeling not confident, going out and talking to a few attractive women anyway will raise your testosterone and confidence creating a virtuous cycle. Mark Manson wrote a great piece on this effect When you act in a certain way your brain naturally rewires itself to rebuild your self image and mindset to be congruent with those actions
/r/TheRedPill15/11/20 11:18 AM
2

Yep great points!
/r/seduction13/11/20 02:39 PM
31

Give men you're interested in an excuse to talk to you without fear of rejection. Situate yourself in his vicinity and ask an innocent question like where the bathroom is or if he knows any good restaurants nearby. From there you can mention something that you notice about him... a simple compliment will knock him over because most men don't get complimented by attractive women often. By that point he should sense you're interested and be able to take the lead confidently I didn't say anything a…
/r/seduction13/11/20 07:58 AM
5

Yeah pussy is mostly all the same. You realize that even hot girls aren't a million times better than an average girl
/r/seduction13/11/20 07:10 AM
4

No this strongly depends on lifestyle. It's correlated with men getting married and settling down Men who stay single, lift, eat well etc have very little if any decline
/r/seduction13/11/20 07:09 AM
9

By itself no. But it will improve all other aspects like confidence and masculinity. Girls love muscles and abs, don't believe the dad bods are sexy crowd
/r/seduction10/11/20 06:33 AM
0

Kino escalate and push pull that's it mainly
/r/seduction09/11/20 08:31 AM
1

Reported for being completely irrelevant
/r/seduction08/11/20 01:57 AM
6

There is some truth to this but it shouldn't become an excuse to not approach and improve your social skills. You can do both
/r/seduction07/11/20 04:20 AM
68

Gotta love medical advice without a single peer reviewed citation Most of it is in line with conventional advice anyway
/r/TheRedPill06/11/20 08:23 PM
26

Life is too short to be in such an unfulfilling marriage. Cut your losses, hit the gym, and get some enthusiastic 25 yo pussy
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 10:55 PM
2

Of course the two are different. But being unabashedly masculine, such that you're not always fighting your core instincts, allows you more freedom to be confident. Why? Because using masculinity as your 'frame' allows you to direct your thoughts, actions, and words in a congruent and consistent way. Now masculinity is somewhat open to interpretation. Some core aspects to me are values like strength, decisiveness, and leadership. Masculine traits generally include a deep voice, broad shoulders, …
/r/seduction03/11/20 05:30 AM
2

Use push pull it's way better. Negging is just disqualification, not intended to insult or demean
/r/seduction03/11/20 04:28 AM
1

https://youtu.be/RuXkEJzmp50
/r/seduction02/11/20 12:16 AM
1

https://youtu.be/kFgJCPzkuy8
/r/seduction02/11/20 12:09 AM
7

Kino is the key. Look up kino escalation ladder Beyond that look into push pull as well. Works great for creating sexual tension Lastly make sure your grooming and deep voice + falling inflection is on point. Creates a more masculine vibe
/r/seduction01/11/20 11:29 PM
4

You really don't need coaches they're mostly scam artists
/r/seduction31/10/20 11:20 PM
6

There was no such thing as pickup and fucking 50 women if you go back decades ago. Most people just met in high school or college, maybe awkwardly fucked around a bit and got married by 25. There were no dating apps that turned the sexual marketplace into a low commitment high volume meat market. There was no social media turning girls into attention whores. And men were more in touch with their masculine side without fear of being labeled toxic or misogynistic. The rise of PUA is linked to the …
/r/seduction31/10/20 11:19 PM
1

I'm saying inner game is most useful for guys that already approach and have their basics down like fitness, nutrition, etc. If inner game becomes an excuse not to approach or endlessly debate on reddit then it is harmful, not helpful
/r/seduction31/10/20 07:27 AM
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Dude people on this sub waste too much time as it is being keyboard jockeys and arguing over whether you should text a girl 3 days or 4.5 days after meeting her. Guys here need concrete actionable Advice to get them infield, lifting in the gym, and fixing their skin, hair, and clothes. Strong actions drive improved mindset, improved thoughts, higher self esteem, and create a virtuous cycle of accomplishment that leads to more success. Furthermore, guys only learn what works for them by trying an…
/r/seduction31/10/20 07:12 AM
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Be yourself, create your own inner natural game, and cleanse your brain of PUA. Awesome advice... vague, not action oriented, and won't get anyone laid. 10/10. Thanks for your service to mankind.
/r/seduction31/10/20 03:18 AM
1

Lol nope you'll be fine
/r/seduction27/10/20 04:01 AM
1

It never goes away... you just learn to act fast in spite of it.
/r/seduction27/10/20 03:53 AM
1

Look up kino escalation ladder for some tips but dont try to implement everything at the same time.
/r/seduction26/10/20 08:12 PM
1

Totally agree with importance of kino escalation. It's one of the main reasons why guys go for the kiss and get rejected. Girls are very touch sensitive much more than men. You have to warm her up throughout the date from the very beginning. If you suddenly go from no touch to kiss it's very jarring. Once you get comfortable with this it's almost like a cheat code to dating
/r/seduction26/10/20 08:11 PM
2

Just get a beer and keep it simple Don't be focused on getting laid the desperation will come through Focus on having a good time, connecting with her, and practicing your kino escalation. Treat it as a practice as you'll fell less pressure
/r/seduction26/10/20 06:25 PM
8

Sounds like some m'lady shit
/r/seduction26/10/20 03:58 PM
1

Learn seduction so you can have sex and form good relationships Not to get revenge on girls for rejecting you Even advanced puas get rejected a lot
/r/seduction25/10/20 04:37 AM
5

Revenge motivation is not good Fix your issues first
/r/seduction25/10/20 04:23 AM
1

What the actual fuck??? This guy did everything wrong from the get go. He framed her as the prize and over invested. He had no boundaries, no leadership. No self respect. Man needs a slap in the head to set him straight
/r/seduction25/10/20 01:33 AM
5

Also make sure you have a small trash can with a lid in your bathroom and good quality toilet paper
/r/seduction24/10/20 08:14 PM
6

That's a good list. Get some moisturizing soap and face lotion as well. A clean white towel and a few basic hand towels. Slippers. Don't be too obvious tho. You don't want to seem like you're TOO well prepared for a girl sleeping over
/r/seduction24/10/20 07:46 PM
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1) get closer by showing her pics on your phone. That way you can touch her arm or leg when making points or jokes. Look up kino escalation ladder. 2) go to a park to go for the k close
/r/seduction24/10/20 07:42 PM
1

It is a shit test Agree and amplify
/r/seduction24/10/20 04:15 AM
1

This is a problem with apps, not approaching irl
/r/seduction23/10/20 07:41 PM
1

Ever heard of this revolutionary idea called talking to them?
/r/seduction23/10/20 06:21 PM
5

Fuck out of here with your low key trolling.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/20 02:07 AM
14

Damn this is insightful and explains exactly why so women turn to personal attacks when you try to convince them with logic.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/20 02:06 AM
2

Lol we men are simpler but even women do things to seduce men that we aren't aware of behind the scenes
/r/seduction22/10/20 02:50 PM
1

Just a confirmation 1 day before
/r/seduction22/10/20 06:55 AM
1

Psa: just because you're a girl doesn't mean you're an expert on what guys should do to get laid more
/r/seduction22/10/20 06:52 AM
2

This advice is too vague.
/r/seduction22/10/20 06:51 AM
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Nah it's just not being over invested
/r/seduction22/10/20 06:50 AM
1

That may apply to you specifically but I've set up plenty of dates with minimal texting. Helps to preserve some mystery and excitement
/r/seduction22/10/20 06:49 AM
2

This is why you don't ask a fish how it likes to be caught. It's unaware of most of the process behind the scenes.
/r/seduction22/10/20 06:48 AM
2

NOT approaching Not going for the kiss Not kino escalating
/r/seduction22/10/20 06:45 AM
2

Lol
/r/seduction22/10/20 06:44 AM
3

Check out game global
/r/seduction22/10/20 06:03 AM
0

Lol what is this nonsense Lots of younger girls want sex
/r/seduction22/10/20 06:03 AM
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There's a revolutionary idea called taking to them and kino escalating to assess receptiveness
/r/seduction22/10/20 06:02 AM
1

Baby steps. Read rules of the game or models for more info
/r/seduction21/10/20 03:07 PM
53

The blue pill fantasy is working for them so they assume it'll work for you.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 04:10 AM
1

Nah it's cool if she wanted it
/r/seduction20/10/20 05:05 AM
6

Wtf u sent her dick pics?
/r/seduction20/10/20 05:02 AM
1

Hell yes. Scorched earth all the way.
/r/seduction19/10/20 09:40 PM
1

At that age yeah it's unfortunate but most girls do want to see you have a social media presence to make sure you're not some outcast murderer. you don't have to use it often just upload some nice pics periodically to keep it fresh
/r/seduction19/10/20 09:11 PM
3

Exactly you got it. It's hard to internalize that ridiculous level of confidence but the mindset is key. You have to approach as if her life is boring and pointless and you're going to make it 100 times better
/r/seduction19/10/20 07:16 AM
2

Always remember you're the prize, she is privileged that she gets to talk to you. Fuck the phone. Most girls are bored af on their phones anyway
/r/seduction19/10/20 06:53 AM
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Phones do make it harder but as a 6'5" guy you won't have many issues. Get her attention and run normal game.
/r/seduction19/10/20 06:36 AM
8

By remembering The girl didn't reject YOU. Shec rejected the version of you that was presented to her. Big difference.
/r/seduction19/10/20 02:26 AM
6

Absolutely. The path to success is littered with rejections
/r/seduction19/10/20 01:10 AM
2

Yes. That's the best part Haha Girls cum fast when they're a few days out from ovulation
/r/seduction18/10/20 01:19 AM
2

Best time is when she's in her ovulation window. Use your fingers and tongue to get her closer to orgasm. Don't forget to massage and lick her ass and tits too. Then put your dick in and pound away. Doggy style or cowgirl is better to avoid cumming earlier. Girls can have continuous orgasms so don't overthink this
/r/seduction18/10/20 12:08 AM
3

How does useless bullshit like this get upvoted??? Man this sub has fallen so far... used to be all field reports. Now just a bunch of generic self help crap
/r/seduction17/10/20 05:29 AM
2

Wrong. Not everyone has skill with women or even social skills without learning and improving.
/r/seduction17/10/20 05:28 AM
6

Sure she does. She also has a guy who doesn't do that and bangs her daily
/r/seduction17/10/20 05:16 AM
12

Straight facts here. Don't listen to what girls say, watch what they do
/r/seduction17/10/20 02:19 AM
1

Well I never kept chasing a girl so much that she threatened to call the police or block me. More like if she was cold and didn't respond I'd keep talking to her for a few for minutes then bounce if things didn't improve. A couple of times a girl was cold initially but opened up after a while so it's hard to tell sometimes.
/r/seduction16/10/20 01:02 AM
3

Totally agree. Especially RPG players have this mindset lol.... I know from experience Actually pickup can be learned relatively fast.
/r/seduction15/10/20 04:23 PM
1

Gotcha Yeah a lot of guys in pickup can't tell the difference between a girl just being indifferent vs. Actively wants you to go away so they keep plowing I've done that before too
/r/seduction15/10/20 04:22 PM
6

This is a good reminder that pickup isn't like a video game where if u grind long enough you'll become superhuman. Pickup skills will help you get with higher quality women and have better relationships but it will only take you to the maximum potential that other factors like your social circle will allow
/r/seduction15/10/20 05:02 AM
2

Wait is this over text or in real life
/r/seduction15/10/20 04:54 AM
4

Threaten to call the cops or report him for sexual harassment
/r/seduction15/10/20 01:44 AM
3

If you're concerned about how you might be perceived during an initial approach, this might not be for you. 100% agree
/r/seduction13/10/20 11:58 PM
3

Being in the game of seduction and pickup itself requires you to go against societal conditioning and social pressure in order to succeed at any age. If you can't handle social pressure you won't be successful in the game period.
/r/seduction13/10/20 11:58 PM
1

good start. not sure you really need plastic surgery though
/r/seduction13/10/20 05:52 AM
2

Dude listen to yourself. You are completely fucked in the head. You are convincing yourself that life sucks when you could improve your life. So u missed out on college big deal. Do u want to miss out on the rest of your life too?
/r/seduction13/10/20 04:29 AM
1

Where do u get that statistic?? I think you are just looking for excuses to feel bad You could completely turn your life around and fuck multiple women if you're willing to put in the work
/r/seduction13/10/20 04:08 AM
1

Don't worry this is actually normal. Mark Manson suggested baby stepping it. Start by asking 20 girls for the time. That's it Then ask 20 girls for a good Congolese food recommendation (the more ridiculous the better) Then ask 20 girls for a clothing recommendation for your female cousin and make a conversation out of it By acclimating yourself to cold approaching you will eventually have a much lower barrier to cross to talk to a girl in a flirtatious way
/r/seduction13/10/20 01:29 AM
1

Downvoted for low quality and meaningless post
/r/seduction12/10/20 06:47 AM
1

Look for Mumbai game on telegram
/r/seduction12/10/20 06:38 AM
1

You might wanna join game Mumbai group for this question
/r/seduction12/10/20 06:11 AM
1

haha that's a good signal that you've pushed her out of her comfort zone
/r/seduction11/10/20 07:00 PM
4

Strippers are tough because they are masters of deception and emotional manipulation in order to get your money.
/r/seduction10/10/20 09:10 PM
1

Depends on the context In the club with drunk chicks? Yeah definitely go direct In the park? No
/r/seduction10/10/20 05:48 AM
1

Lmao
/r/seduction08/10/20 02:10 PM
2

Then kick her out lol
/r/seduction08/10/20 06:14 AM
11

You're doing better than 95% of the keyboard jockeys in this sub who just criticize all day Keep doing what you're doing and reflect and adjust after each encounter
/r/seduction08/10/20 04:22 AM
2

How important is this job to you? All it takes is for you to mis read signals one time, leading to one complaint about sexual harassment and your ass is canned. If you're getting clear signals then just put your number on the receipt or something and see if they message you
/r/seduction06/10/20 04:13 AM
33

This is some dark triad shit but yeah it'll work
/r/TheRedPill05/10/20 09:41 PM
2

Lol yep.... the window of opportunity for hooking up with a particular girl is short. Strike while the iron is hot and move on if it doesn't happen
/r/seduction05/10/20 06:49 PM
8

She was in the mood to hook up then. She isn't now.
/r/seduction05/10/20 05:50 PM
1

Yeah but ime dates go better when you let the girl talk more than you. People love to talk about themselves
/r/seduction05/10/20 01:04 AM
0

Advice for guys: focus on her, not on yourself
/r/seduction05/10/20 12:56 AM
5

I agree with this. It doesn't take much to get canned for sexual harassment
/r/seduction01/10/20 04:14 AM
2

Yep our lizard brains often respond to things our higher intellect thinks don't matter. An unpleasant truth
/r/seduction01/10/20 04:11 AM
10

Not recommending this but.... there's a reason men with dark triad qualities do surprisingly well with women. Not all of them of course but a high enough number to make you sit up and notice.
/r/seduction01/10/20 12:07 AM
3

You think women like a shitty attitude like yours? I think I see what the problem is now
/r/seduction29/09/20 02:27 PM
1

Try a few more things then... there a thousands of things you can do in life
/r/seduction29/09/20 05:19 AM
1

Sales can be a great career for sure
/r/seduction29/09/20 04:48 AM
1

You're very young and at the perfect age to try a bunch of different things to find out what you like. Don't worry about it you'll be fine
/r/seduction29/09/20 04:48 AM
1

Money helps but that's not what I'm talking about. It's more about having goals and a purpose in life and knowing what you want. You should not be playing video games 12 h a day and smoking weed everyday
/r/seduction29/09/20 04:06 AM
2

Ok bud keep that negative attitude and see how far it gets you in life
/r/seduction28/09/20 09:30 PM
3

Physical attractiveness always matters. There are other factors too. Without more info I can't tell what your situation is Are you just here to bitch and moan?
/r/seduction28/09/20 08:19 PM
2

You're gonna get banned for these harsh truths
/r/seduction28/09/20 06:51 PM
1

Do you lift? Can't tell what's not working for you without more info
/r/seduction28/09/20 06:51 PM
37

For men it's easier. Way easier. As long as you're in shape and have a direction in life you'll have no trouble getting laid or finding a girlfriend. I got laid far more in my 30s than my 20s
/r/seduction28/09/20 04:11 AM
2

Great stuff Definitely gets harder after college and after 30 though
/r/seduction26/09/20 02:29 AM
0

Yes it's fine but keep it light and playful and If she says no don't push it any further
/r/seduction24/09/20 09:31 PM
1

when in doubt, approach
/r/seduction24/09/20 07:33 AM
1

Go to the gym and lift heavy. Get jacked. Play a contact sport. This will build your confidence and testosterone
/r/seduction24/09/20 06:25 AM
1

Generally yes women start to get more serious about relationships in their late 20s and early 30s. Obviously there are plenty of exceptions but as a general rule it's true often enough to be useful. In more rural and conservative areas women tend to settle down earlier in life while in big cities, later.
/r/seduction24/09/20 06:23 AM
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Good job dodging the question
/r/seduction24/09/20 06:22 AM
1

Hitting the gym is a great idea to build confidence and attractiveness
/r/seduction24/09/20 05:13 AM
0

Please post questions like this to askseddit
/r/seduction24/09/20 04:44 AM
5

If you are actually from a small village in Iraq.... it's gonna be tough to get culturally calibrated advice from this sub. Most people here are from western countries. From what you said, it seems like you are in a scarcity mindset. So you become a total simp around any girl because you have no other options. Unfortunately you actually have no options but to succeed you have to fake it... you have to act like you have 10 girls lined up so you don't come off as thirsty and desperate. Is there an…
/r/seduction24/09/20 04:42 AM
1

Please ask this in askseddit
/r/seduction23/09/20 11:36 PM
3

It's fine... guys who are more horny/ desperate will jump for it, while guys with abundance may question what's up with you Same goes for guys who initiate casual sex with girls
/r/seduction21/09/20 10:47 PM
0

The advice you stated is mostly useless for the majority of guys. Seriously do you think those points will get anyone laid? They're so vague and non actionable they may as well come from a shitty magazine Guys need concrete ways to both take action and to modify their mindset. Not this generic crap
/r/seduction20/09/20 08:01 AM
4

It never goes away completely A little stress makes you operate at your best
/r/seduction20/09/20 07:49 AM
1

Go find a dancing monkey to entertain you then
/r/seduction20/09/20 07:14 AM
0

Go back and read yours Who said fucktard?
/r/seduction20/09/20 07:14 AM
0

Bad advice that is
/r/seduction20/09/20 07:13 AM
1

That's nice Post advice for other women then
/r/seduction20/09/20 07:12 AM
-1

I know what works because I've been in the game for a long time and tried and failed more times than most guys have even tried. THAT'S what counts - competence and experience
/r/seduction20/09/20 07:10 AM
-3

You're the one who sounds hateful and maladjusted
/r/seduction20/09/20 07:08 AM
1

I'm fine being called a dickhead if I'm speaking the truth. This sub has become overrun with keyboards warriors and offended women
/r/seduction20/09/20 06:58 AM
-4

Not the purpose of this sub
/r/seduction20/09/20 06:56 AM
-1

Sometimes, but in most cases if they're lesbian. Straight women have mostly shitty advice
/r/seduction20/09/20 06:56 AM
-1

There is a lot of truth to this
/r/seduction20/09/20 06:26 AM
1

Downvoted for incorrect information.
/r/seduction20/09/20 06:00 AM
2

Don't listen to this type of advice from women - most of them have no idea what works for men. They only know what works on them specifically.
/r/seduction20/09/20 06:00 AM
2

Because I want to get laid and I don't care what advantages other men are born with - I'm gonna go hard and do what I need to do to achieve what I want, no excuses
/r/seduction20/09/20 05:55 AM
33

You can get a date anywhere. Bookstores, libraries, gyms, on the street, Grocery store, you name it. However that said, night game is the best place to practice because 1) girls are in a social mood, 2) mistakes are forgiven because alcohol, 3) high volume so you can get blown out and move on, and 4) a little bit of alcohol can lower your inhibitions and get you past AA
/r/seduction20/09/20 05:12 AM
3

Gtfo with your tone policing bullshit. It's not needed or wanted here
/r/seduction19/09/20 10:52 PM
15

Fuck. Yes. Action beats looks. You gotta take more shots and doing so grows a thicker skin. Eventually you'll be so non reactive it's incredible
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 04:42 AM
5

In general men prefer younger girls Some dudes have milf/older woman fantasies but more the exception than the rule There was a study done by okcupid on this: generally as women got older they found men about 5 years older more attractive. However nearly all men found women age 21-22 most attractive
/r/seduction17/09/20 01:01 AM
1

Go to the gym to lift, not socialize. If you have the time and energy to flirt you're not lifting hard enough
/r/seduction15/09/20 05:39 AM
10

There's a hierarchy of sexual value for both males and females
/r/seduction14/09/20 08:28 AM
4

Good for you Most girls love it in my experience, but you have to do it right
/r/seduction10/09/20 09:48 PM
17

Grinding and grabbing are both good. Dicks are not that delicate so don't worry too much about hurting him Balls are a different story....
/r/seduction10/09/20 08:13 AM
2

First off I have seen some ugly AF guys get laid so I don't entirely buy your argument Second how much effort have you actually made to meet girls? Do you sarge everyday to open at least 3 girls?
/r/seduction08/09/20 06:58 AM
1

As a fellow shaved head bald dude honestly I would recommend a hair transplant and minoxidil or finasteride. You're too young to do the shaved head thing. Shave after the age of 25
/r/seduction08/09/20 06:53 AM
1

This is the kind of useless advice that fills generic self help books and ironically enough sparked the whole PUA community in the first place
/r/seduction06/09/20 10:52 PM
2

Eh saying things she doesn't like isn't the issue... it's how you handle it afterwards that matters
/r/seduction06/09/20 10:51 PM
2

It's all about reading the signs. A girl will signal when she's ready to be kissed. It's your job to escalate slowly and be aware of any resistance to back off
/r/seduction06/09/20 03:38 PM
1

Well said
/r/seduction06/09/20 03:36 PM
4

If men listened to this advice they would never get laid
/r/seduction06/09/20 03:36 PM
11

This is bullshit and exactly why men shouldn't take dating advice from women
/r/seduction06/09/20 03:35 PM
26

Fair enough just my experience but if it works for you that's great
/r/seduction06/09/20 04:06 AM
133

I agree but you're missing the most important part: you have to get physical from the start and escalate up the ladder . If you suddenly go from no touching to making out you WILL get rejected unless you're very attractive. Touch turns a woman on more than words. Take it from a veteran.
/r/seduction06/09/20 03:19 AM
1

Or just lower body fat
/r/seduction05/09/20 08:38 PM
15

Downvoted for being useless for 99%of guys on here
/r/seduction05/09/20 03:16 PM
0

There's a concept called amused mastery you should look up. In essence you treat girls like kids particularly when they shit test you or misbehave. You should definitely apply positive and negative reinforcement to clearly let her know what behavior is acceptable vs unacceptable to you. Men must lead in relationships. Never abdicate that responsibility
/r/seduction04/09/20 01:37 AM
5

Yeah go for it but don't expect anything much hot girls get a fuckton of thirsty dms daily
/r/seduction03/09/20 05:56 PM
1

One itis will kill you. One of the central tenets of this sub is that you should never obsess over one girl. Once u fuck another girl you'll forget about this one
/r/seduction03/09/20 08:01 AM
33

Seems pretty pointless to me unless your social media is rockstar level
/r/seduction03/09/20 06:59 AM
2

Yes if she was interested she'd suggest an alternative
/r/seduction03/09/20 03:31 AM
3

I tend to agree. Don't know the exact circumstances of this chick's past but if she really was sexually and mentally abused from day 1 I can't blame her too much for the latter shit. Of course I wouldn't go near her other than for sex
/r/TheRedPill03/09/20 03:00 AM
61

The 'making assumptions' bit is gold - I've been using it for years and it totally changes the conversation from interview mode to fun and playful.
/r/seduction02/09/20 04:29 PM
1

First date
/r/seduction02/09/20 12:14 AM
-12

Don't we have a daily noob thread for questions like this? If not we should
/r/seduction31/08/20 05:25 AM
2

Great examples Kino is the most important part of getting laid. Women are highly touch sensitive far more than men. Focus on nonverbal communication it's the key
/r/seduction31/08/20 12:38 AM
6

Kinda makes sense but it doesn't change what guys need to do to get laid
/r/seduction30/08/20 11:46 PM
5

Gothenburg has beautiful women but unfortunately I'm not there now. Gd luck!
/r/seduction30/08/20 06:15 AM
5

Exactly.... outer game can take u surprisingly far but inner game is important for your own happiness and fulfillment so you don't become a pua robot who just fucks chicks but can't fill the void inside
/r/seduction30/08/20 06:12 AM
7

Its important but honestly it's partly a marketing tactic as well. I've been in the game for a long time and seen the whole evolution from canned routines to inner game to natural game. Outer game still has its place to get you out there and approaching which is super important
/r/seduction30/08/20 04:50 AM
2

Yes agreed I purposely made my comment a bit more black and white to get the point across
/r/seduction30/08/20 04:28 AM
1

Agreed but if you're coming from a 'soft' mindset it helps to assume that first then modify over time
/r/seduction30/08/20 04:27 AM
10

The basics are still the same. I used to be like you but you have to realise that your fantasy is just: a fantasy. Women are dirty as fuck and plenty of them love hooking up with a sexually aggressive guy. While you're fantasizing about your dream girl, she's sucking another guy's dick - a guy who was in tune with his own sexual desire and with reality. Frankly I found that I had more meaningful relationships that evolved from a same day lay vs. trying to play the boyfriend from day 1 and ending…
/r/seduction30/08/20 02:48 AM
1

Aight fair enough but frankly I find most media depictions are of excessively sensitive beta chumps
/r/seduction27/08/20 10:57 PM
-2

Watch live infield pickup by legit coaches not fucking Hollywood bro
/r/seduction27/08/20 10:26 PM
7

Fucking gold thanks for reposting
/r/TheRedPill24/08/20 08:52 AM
32

Solid work and good advice.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/20 04:08 PM
-1

No it's not. If you've been a pussy for 2 dates and haven't even tried to make out then you're fucked
/r/seduction21/08/20 07:56 AM
9

Trial and error is unavoidable.... accept the suck and push through
/r/seduction20/08/20 04:50 AM
0

I say go for it but keep it short and sweet and don't interrupt if she's in the middle of a set or running etc. If she's not interested just walk away don't make it awkward or you could end up getting kicked out of the gym for harassment. Btw one thing I highly recommend is to make friends with all the gym staff and regulars. It will raise your social status A LOT and protect you from potentially getting kicked out in case a girl gets pissed off for some reason
/r/seduction12/08/20 02:10 AM
10

It'll take most guys a few trial and errors to get ot right. Don't expect to read this and suddenly be don Juan
/r/seduction09/08/20 06:27 PM
1

Women don't fuck the best guy. They fuck the guy who is there in front of them, and who can connect with them and give them tingles. Trust me on this one
/r/seduction09/08/20 08:19 AM
43

Good advice generally... any tips on opening groups of girls? I've heard both that you should focus on your target and that you should talk to everyone in the group One more point: most groups are mixed guys and girls. In this situation you want to focus attention on the guys first to build rapport and show that you're not a threat. Once the guys accept you the girls will too. Ask early on how they know each other. People are getting too hung up on the 20 min thing. The point is that you need to…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/20 05:21 PM
1

Great reminder!
/r/seduction30/07/20 06:22 PM
1

A good cologne is a worthy investment. It gives girls an excuse to get closer to you. Can't tell you the number of times girls have commented on a good cologne. For me personally I like bleu by chanel
/r/seduction29/07/20 10:53 PM
0

Oh really? And who decides that it shouldn't exist? And who enforces it? Freedom and liberty motherfucker. Accept the red pill, start lifting, fix your psychology, and start fucking The women on that shitty site
/r/TheRedPill21/07/20 04:49 AM
3

Only do this if she shows some interest. And even then be chill about it... ask if she'd like to go out for coffee or something. If she says no just leave dont make things awkward. Girls on service jobs get hit on a lot
/r/seduction19/07/20 07:11 AM
1

Night game is mostly dead now tbh thanks to social media and online dating
/r/seduction17/07/20 08:00 AM
1

The pit of chaos... embrace it and thrive
/r/seduction17/07/20 07:59 AM
1

Is he talking to you in a social setting? If yes: >75%chance he's flirting Does he seem a little nervous or awkward? Does he touch your arm or back lightly and maintain strong eye contact? If yes to 2 and 3 then > 95% chance he's flirting
/r/seduction17/07/20 05:47 AM
15

Nah they exist but you have to go to traditional developing countries And speak the local language to have access to them. If you go to Asia and only speak English you're gonna get the foreigner worshipping sluts not the top shelf pussy
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 03:58 PM
56

Status is king. Plenty of guys who are out of shape, don't lift, etc. Can get laid on the basis of perceived status alone.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/20 05:25 AM
1

It's important that you invite yourself to her place and not the other way around. Holy shit. I've banged my fair share of tinder hoes but never even thought of this since the standard pua advice has been to get her to your place (less distractions, you control the situation, etc.) This makes total sense definitely gonna try it
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 07:34 AM
1

Nothing different really. Just don't try to act like you're 21.
/r/seduction03/07/20 07:56 AM
73

If i see a photo of an ex of my gf, and the dude is ripped with 6 pack and blue eyes, i dont need to spy on her zoom sesions to know that that dude is physically more atractive than me lol. What kind of stupid fantasy he created on his head? Straight facts lol. That's the thing about bp mindset though... BPers think that girls are turned on by a nice guy who doesn't lift because muh personality. The entire BP worldview is a fantasy in denial of reality
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 08:53 PM
116

Classic BB. I bet lifting never once crossed OPs mind
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 05:30 PM
1

Read the sidebar
/r/seduction30/06/20 05:55 AM
1

Take zinc and get the scoliosis fixed as much as possible. Take HGH as well under medical supervision
/r/seduction28/06/20 05:25 PM
2

Good insights based on real life grinding and experience!
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 04:12 AM
1

Nice to see an 'older' guy giving his perspectives. Agree completely that you can get burned out on approaches. Better to shift to social circle game so your reward to effort ratio improves
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 04:12 AM
1

The high quality literature overwhelmingly says otherwise
/r/TheRedPill25/06/20 10:28 PM
1

What's your definition of 'fine'? Trans fats are found in animal products not just processed food
/r/TheRedPill25/06/20 05:46 PM
3

Keto does work for fat loss but you might want to check your blood lipids if you're eating unlimited saturated and trans fat everyday
/r/TheRedPill25/06/20 03:43 PM
4

Agreed... depends where u start and how well you practice
/r/seduction22/06/20 09:23 PM
1

Head to gym, start lifting, and take some zma
/r/seduction20/06/20 08:16 PM
82

Even scottie pippen got cheated on... hypergamy is a bitch
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 11:53 PM
5

Good advice but just remember that you could still get rejected 7 out of 10 times. Keep going
/r/seduction19/06/20 05:36 AM
5

Dating as we knew it is dead. Now it's all about sex and giving a girl tingles, fucking her and moving on.
/r/seduction18/06/20 04:06 AM
3

Fucking love it... more FRs!
/r/seduction16/06/20 11:26 PM
1

If you're high energy, fun, and outgoing without alcohol then no one will or should care.
/r/seduction16/06/20 08:50 PM
5

Yes Now go lift
/r/seduction15/06/20 06:34 AM
2

Have you read any of the sidebar material? A lot of basic questions are answered in there.
/r/seduction15/06/20 03:59 AM
1

Approach more women with a friendly vibe...just ask for the time or for directions somewhere.
/r/seduction12/06/20 10:38 PM
1

Sprezzatura It's what all women want in their men
/r/TheRedPill12/06/20 03:51 PM
1

Professional help is key
/r/seduction09/06/20 02:34 PM
1

Have you tried reading the sidebar?
/r/seduction08/06/20 04:39 PM
5

100%. Make the important things easy and they'll happen more consistently
/r/TheRedPill07/06/20 05:41 PM
74

Stop relying solely on discipline and change your environment. EXTREMELY underrated advice. So much of our behavior and thoughts are influenced, if not controlled, by external environment and circumstances.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/20 09:02 PM
52

Yep real life game is still better for most guys
/r/seduction05/06/20 04:33 PM
0

Tinder happened
/r/seduction05/06/20 07:15 AM
1

As social animals we definitely need validation and acceptance from others.
/r/seduction05/06/20 02:06 AM
21

This is what I was trying to say but got downvoted. Either shoot for the big strong look or the lean muscular look
/r/TheRedPill04/06/20 09:14 PM
1

Dude women are attracted to big strong dudes who might be carrying extra fat. Makes em feel safe. My point is that you should either shoot for a lean muscular look, or a big strong look, but not be in the middle aka skinny fat
/r/TheRedPill04/06/20 09:13 PM
-10

Fat is acceptable if you're going for the bear mode look and bench over 3 plates
/r/TheRedPill04/06/20 07:12 PM
2

Especially if there are guys in the group it's better to engage them first
/r/seduction04/06/20 06:40 AM
8

Ive seen and tried both approaches: just talking to the girl directly, and engaging the group first. Both can work you just have to see which one works better for you
/r/seduction04/06/20 06:40 AM
1

LOL fucking gold
/r/TheRedPill03/06/20 05:42 PM
108

Get them to 'forgiveness fuck' you
/r/TheRedPill03/06/20 05:41 PM
38

So nihilistic and opportunistic - I love it
/r/TheRedPill03/06/20 05:41 PM
1

Nice list!
/r/seduction03/06/20 05:22 AM
3

From back in the day: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hlmra/dicarlo_escalation_ladder_concise_and_emphasized/ It takes some trial and error to become natural at this... accept that and realize there may be some awkward moments along the way. The key is to start physical contact from the beginning with a hug, quick cheek kiss, upper arm touch etc. Basically low sensitivity zones to start with.
/r/seduction03/06/20 05:20 AM
3

No it works in the club too almost any situation
/r/seduction03/06/20 04:52 AM
6

This is one of the most important, and underrated, rules in seduction, and more broadly in life.
/r/seduction03/06/20 12:16 AM
8

Read up on escalation ladder
/r/seduction03/06/20 12:10 AM
1

Lol you're not older I know people who lost the v in their late 20s
/r/seduction02/06/20 09:53 PM
-3

I do believe that Ariana Grande or whoever super rich and famous and beautiful girl is attainable for guys like you and me but I also know that I won't be willing to do what it takes Lol sure bro... do you have any idea who you're competing against? Confidence is one thing but this is just ridiculous
/r/seduction01/06/20 09:15 PM
14

Opening other dudes is a great way to get in state Check this out https://youtu.be/qu-wFuDqZws
/r/seduction01/06/20 08:51 PM
3

Tyler's old stuff was great - hardcore no nonsense shit to teach you how to get laid. Slowly RSD morphed into only inner game / self help stuff. Then Julien blew shit up
/r/seduction01/06/20 01:07 AM
1

Yeah it does but you still need some social skills
/r/seduction31/05/20 07:08 AM
2

Read the fucking sidebar
/r/seduction31/05/20 05:36 AM
11

Then be happy with fucking land whales chief
/r/seduction31/05/20 05:13 AM
10

Totally agree - one of the few situations in life where persistence doesn't really get you results
/r/TheRedPill31/05/20 04:59 AM
3

Women will quickly slot you into ONS or bf/ husband category. If you're trying to fuck that night it helps to have a more edgy, less refined persona precisely for the reasons you mentioned. You'll become her "omg Becky you won't believe what happened last night story"
/r/seduction31/05/20 03:45 AM
225

In my experience there are 3 basic situations: 1) you meet a girl and she's instantly attracted, throwing off IOIs, flirting etc. All you have to do is not fuck up and she'll fuck u. 2) you meet a girl and she's relatively neutral. THIS IS WHERE GAME IS MOST IMPORTANT- she may be considering fucking you but you have a very short window to quickly elevate yourself and give her tingles. 3) girl absolutely not interested, actively blows you off, low energy, gives monosyllabic answers, doesn't try t…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/20 03:25 AM
1

For girls? No very little
/r/seduction28/05/20 12:41 PM
1

They work if you do
/r/seduction28/05/20 12:40 PM
6

This is the cure for oneitis as well
/r/seduction28/05/20 01:34 AM
1

Outcome independence says yes. Don't expect her to cheat with you though
/r/seduction27/05/20 12:11 AM
2

Amog works dude... especially if you're 6'3 you could pull it off
/r/seduction25/05/20 10:34 PM
2

There's no one rule you have to see what works for you in each situation. Since you're 6'3 you could go with AMOG since you have the physical presence to intimidate other guys assuming you're not 140 lbs. Putting your arms around other guys like they're your younger brother could work.
/r/seduction25/05/20 10:33 PM
1

Excellent advice and works well with meditation as well
/r/TheRedPill24/05/20 08:56 PM
5

Game sets you free. The process of getting better with women helps you in being more confident in all other aspects of life. It's one of the best investments you can make in yourself
/r/seduction24/05/20 07:02 AM
2

Someone at RSD said it best: game sets you free
/r/seduction21/05/20 04:52 AM
3

This is feel good theory, not reality. Being successful in life is great but it doesn't automatically get you laid. It's still helpful to learn game as a skill to improve your odds. I've seen plenty of highly educated and professionally successful guys who have zero success with women because they never learned how to connect with their own masculine essence.
/r/seduction20/05/20 02:42 PM
2

I agree it's too vague to be useful to guys that have no experience with girls
/r/seduction20/05/20 02:38 PM
2

Actually I think even canned routines are useful to get beginners out of their heads and talking to girls without over thinking. Remember concepts like a false time constraint, and 3 second rule? That shit by itself won't get you laid, but it will force you to take action in a more socially acceptable way.
/r/seduction20/05/20 02:36 PM
28

Good shit! Honestly what most guys need is a little bit of theory and a lot of going out and experimenting and finding what works for them
/r/seduction20/05/20 04:00 AM
2

Pure outer game works. Particularly in a club setting where they were developed in the 2000s. Techniques, canned lines, etc. WILL absolutely get you laid if you're willing to open enough sets and not obese and a total hard case newbie. You don't have to be Bruce fucking Wayne to get laid. Girls are not magical mind reading demigods that can deconstruct your psyche. They are human beings who want you to succeed and turn them on and frankly, it's not that hard to flip the right switches. The best …
/r/seduction20/05/20 03:36 AM
1

I agree with you on that one. game is all about working with what you have and improving whatever you can to get better results
/r/seduction19/05/20 09:01 PM
1

no i'm actually curious the thing is, the best advice i've seen from girls on this sub is usually from lesbians. my point is that just because you're a girl, doesn't make you an expert on seducing girls
/r/seduction19/05/20 08:22 PM
1

show me what advice you've posted that got downvoted so much
/r/seduction19/05/20 07:31 PM
1

maybe because your advice is bad?
/r/seduction19/05/20 06:48 PM
2

I've been around for years and the seddit philosophy has always been work on yourself and take action. Yep I've been around this community for a decade too and this is what i've taken away from it. All of us are getting downvoted while the generic self help advice is at the top.
/r/seduction19/05/20 06:47 PM
3

Dude is a rich beta nothing more.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/20 03:43 AM
12

Will my height be a problem ? Not as much as identifying yourself as a 'nice guy'
/r/seduction16/05/20 07:59 AM
2

I'm just realistic and seen this shit happen before.
/r/seduction16/05/20 12:06 AM
24

No it's a trap. I've Seen it happen too many times. She just wants someone to pay for her shit, take IG photos, and protect her from creepers on the street. She'll dangle sex in front of you and you may even get a kiss but she's not going to fuck u.
/r/seduction15/05/20 08:23 PM
13

Calibrate your game dude. The same approach doesn't work on all girls
/r/TheRedPill15/05/20 08:17 PM
36

Gangsta rap is the other extreme lol
/r/seduction13/05/20 11:09 PM
6

All I'm saying is there's nothing wrong with sleeping with a lot of women as long as you're not coming from a place of neediness and insecurity
/r/seduction13/05/20 03:50 AM
1

Yes I know
/r/seduction13/05/20 03:49 AM
8

True but there are plenty of non famous guys who have slept with lots of women who are perfectly happy. So I agree that f closing a tonne won't solve deeper mental issues but it definitely won't hurt either!
/r/seduction13/05/20 02:43 AM
-3

You know how if you ask a girl how many guys she slept with you need to multiply by 3 to get the true number? With older guys you need to divide by 10 lol
/r/seduction12/05/20 09:14 PM
3

Hardcore. This is pure outer game... it won't do much for your inner game and self esteem but it will get you laid. Sometimes that's all you need in the short term but I wouldn't recommend it longer term
/r/seduction12/05/20 06:37 AM
1

I strongly recommend against this. It's a very different mindset and process. There is another sub dedicated to this
/r/seduction11/05/20 02:19 AM
8

I don't believe photos matter that much. That's where you're wrong, trust me. Photos are everything. A set of high quality photos makes all the difference. I'll post a link to a tinder maxing guide in a bit.
/r/seduction08/05/20 04:52 AM
3

Have you maxed out your tinder profile? You'd be surprised how much of a difference a few tweaks can make.
/r/seduction08/05/20 04:22 AM
7

A better use of time imo is to get other girls and forget about the friend zoned one.
/r/seduction06/05/20 03:23 PM
1

The worst outcome imo Is that she complains to management about you and gets you kicked out of your gym
/r/TheRedPill05/05/20 11:47 PM
0

No
/r/seduction05/05/20 03:42 PM
6

Yep giving back to the community
/r/seduction04/05/20 04:25 PM
35

These labels are stupid and just part of the oligarchy's strategy to pit middle class folks against each other while they rape the country and create economic slavery.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/20 02:59 PM
5

Push pull is a classic... I remember reading about it 8 years ago on this sub. Some things never change!
/r/seduction04/05/20 02:04 PM
7

Looks will get you in the door, game will get you in her pussy
/r/TheRedPill29/04/20 10:10 PM
1

It's both
/r/seduction26/04/20 08:28 PM
5

This is fucking stupid... and wrong
/r/TheRedPill23/04/20 08:03 PM
2

Yeah I think it's more about finding a rhythm and then just maintaining for a while
/r/TheRedPill23/04/20 07:25 PM
1

I agree... cumming from penetration is absolutely possible if you know what you're doing. Gotta have the stamina to ram her deep and fast for a while though
/r/TheRedPill23/04/20 07:05 PM
1

Agreed. Resistance bands (the real kind from rogue fitness) have been my go to during quarantine
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 07:54 AM
52

What is this bullshit. No one is gonna get laid off this rubbish
/r/seduction19/04/20 08:37 AM
-8

Quit being a bitch and accept it
/r/seduction19/04/20 05:34 AM
2

Hey man do u have any particular posts in mind that didn't get attention but are really good? Share them!
/r/seduction14/04/20 10:09 PM
0

Start taking zinc and vitamin d 4000iu per day minimum
/r/seduction14/04/20 07:35 AM
1

Chill out man I actually agree with your advice and to stop worrying about shit you can't change. My point is that on tinder basic physical shit like height and shallow attractiveness do matter alot. Many guys would be better served by day gaming in person where they are not just judged on pics.
/r/seduction07/04/20 08:59 PM
1

6'2, 90 kg Consider myself a 6/10. Yeahhhhh I'm gonna stop you right there lol. Not saying height Is everything but especially on tinder you immediately get a big boost.
/r/seduction07/04/20 08:19 PM
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