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| 5 | For those of you who used to give off a dull, boring vibe, and just had a boring personality in general, how did you fix it?Confidence is such a foreign concept to me that I have no idea what it means, what if feels like, and how can it be achieved... Height matters little when you lack the proper self esteem to supplement it | /r/askTRP | 26/04/20 03:21 AM |
| 4 | For those of you who used to give off a dull, boring vibe, and just had a boring personality in general, how did you fix it?How’d you fix it? | /r/askTRP | 26/04/20 03:19 AM |
| 1 | For those of you who used to give off a dull, boring vibe, and just had a boring personality in general, how did you fix it?How does one gain power over himself? | /r/askTRP | 26/04/20 03:18 AM |
| 7 | For those of you who used to give off a dull, boring vibe, and just had a boring personality in general, how did you fix it?And we won’t for a long time. My guess we’ll reach herd immunity way before a vaccine is made. We sure as fuck can’t reopen the economy until a vaccine is made. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/20 03:12 AM |
| 5 | For those of you who used to give off a dull, boring vibe, and just had a boring personality in general, how did you fix it?Here in Texas we’re opening up soon.... whether it’s good or not remains to be seen. Gonna assume the latter. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/20 02:22 AM |
| 6 | For those of you who used to give off a dull, boring vibe, and just had a boring personality in general, how did you fix it?I don’t masturbate. At least not as often as used to. And cut out porn entirely. I don’t even see how that helps anyways. I once didn’t masturbate for 2-3 months and saw no effects whatsoever. Other than craving pussy more. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/20 10:37 PM |
| 3 | For those of you who used to give off a dull, boring vibe, and just had a boring personality in general, how did you fix it?Both? Again I haven’t lived an exciting life so far. Spent it playing video games and TV shows during school. And college takes a lot of my time right now, majoring in accounting and need one more semester. Most of my hobbies include guitar playing, gym, games, collecting vinyl records, and watching films. As for presenting myself boring.... maybe? Can I banter? Hell yeah. Talk shit with friends? Fuck yeah. Tease girls? No problem. I’ve even told I’m very funny. Some people don’t like my sense o… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/20 09:06 PM |
| 1 | I fucked up and reverted back to a very blue pilled mindset these past few months. Are some of us just not made to emotionally invest in someone without turning into a mess?Thanks for the advice! I assume you got attached easily at my age, is that what you’re referring to? And if so, how did you stop? | /r/askTRP | 24/04/20 02:49 AM |
| 2 | I made out with this girl for the first time (first between us), and it was awful. I was her first kiss. Can this be improved upon or is it possibility of physical incompatibility?You’re right. I’ll be honest I’ve been romanticizing sex with this girl. Whether or not you believe me, my n-count is 13. But all of it has been kind of meaningless. Well it hasn’t been meaningful that’s for sure besides one girl. In a way I’ve even romanticizing sex with this girl cause it’s the first time a very long where I actually like the girl and enjoy my time with her rather than just wanting pussy and only that. So I see this as an opportunity to have emotional and meaningful sex. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/20 12:14 AM |
| 2 | I made out with this girl for the first time (first between us), and it was awful. I was her first kiss. Can this be improved upon or is it possibility of physical incompatibility?Thanks. What’s your opinion on me waiting to bang her though? Seeing as how she hasn’t kiss a guy before, I’m gonna assume she’s a virgin. This one is gonna require work and patience: I don’t know what the TRP stance is on waiting it out when it comes to inexperienced, shy virgin girls. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 06:14 PM |
| -3 | I made out with this girl for the first time (first between us), and it was awful. I was her first kiss. Can this be improved upon or is it possibility of physical incompatibility?Wrong. I didn’t wait to kiss on the 4th date. I attempted to kiss her before, but got rejected. But she didn’t on the 4th date. I mention that in my post. No I’m not asking for kissing tips to improve on my behalf. I know I’m a decent kisser cause I’ve kissed plenty of girls and never had a problem...until now. What I’m asking is if this going to be issue that can improved upon, or a sign of physical incompatibly between us. Because again this has never happened before. Playboy? Based on 13 n-co… | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever slept with someone you really wanted to and would’ve like to have plated them, only for you to ruin any chance of round two by busting a nut in like 45 seconds?Thanks! So I guess let’s say this convo between me and W O M B A T happened in real life and criticizes me about flipping my shit and what not, how do I respond appropriately? | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 02:53 AM |
| 0 | Have you ever slept with someone you really wanted to and would’ve like to have plated them, only for you to ruin any chance of round two by busting a nut in like 45 seconds?Can you clarify? I’m being downvoted and I’m not sure what I’ve done wrong. Need clarification so it’s not something I do in the future, especially in real life | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever slept with someone you really wanted to and would’ve like to have plated them, only for you to ruin any chance of round two by busting a nut in like 45 seconds?Well I’m like 5’5 in length. I think large vagina. She was thick and I remember be amazing at its size tbh. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 12:02 AM |
| 3 | Have you ever slept with someone you really wanted to and would’ve like to have plated them, only for you to ruin any chance of round two by busting a nut in like 45 seconds?Any essential tips to improve? You’re right I need to improve. Body count is 12 and only 6 have come back for more and turned into plates. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 10:37 PM |
| -14 | Have you ever slept with someone you really wanted to and would’ve like to have plated them, only for you to ruin any chance of round two by busting a nut in like 45 seconds?What are you talking about? I didn’t even describe my actions after I had sex in the OP. I came, I wanted to go home and sleep. So I told the chick that it’s time to go. After cuddling for maybe 5 minutes. I didn’t freak out or “flip my shit”. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 09:15 PM |
| 1 | How much truth is there when people on here say that if you get decent results on Tinder, you’ll get even better results approaching in real life?But I am fat sadly. I’m at 210. Gotta reach at least 190 before I start to think about bulking. I mean I’m not FAT, but I have some belly fat to lose | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 11:29 AM |
| 0 | How much truth is there when people on here say that if you get decent results on Tinder, you’ll get even better results approaching in real life?But I’m actually 210 Ib at 6’4, and have a good amount of fat to lose | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 11:28 AM |
| 1 | How much truth is there when people on here say that if you get decent results on Tinder, you’ll get even better results approaching in real life?Yeah I know, still got long ways to go. What does “decent shape” even look like though? | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 04:47 PM |
| 0 | An old FWB of mine just texted me she hasn’t had her period since last time we were together. How do I proceed from here?What do you mean don’t say shit? What is that I shouldn’t be say? | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 04:22 AM |
| 11 | An old FWB of mine just texted me she hasn’t had her period since last time we were together. How do I proceed from here?Update: she texted me saying she doesn’t want to take the test because she doesn’t want to and doesn’t think she’s pregnant. And mentioned that she’s never been one to have consistent periods and at one point in her life she didn’t have one for 6 months a couple years ago. I’m going to be taken on a roller coaster ride aren’t I? | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 07:28 PM |
| 1 | What type of music do you listen to?Morbid Angel, Death, Iron Maiden, Bolt Thrower, Immortal, Blood Incantation, Slayer, etc. Basically black/death/thrash metal music. And jazzy hip hop. Madvillain, A Tribe Called Quest, Kendrick Lamar, OutKast, etc. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Journey would be much easier if I can have 8 hours of uninterrupted sleep. But seems impossible to attain. Do you all have any tips?I should probably mention that my childhood or even my life is completely toxic. I mean yes My parents aren’t perfect but I sure as fuck don’t feel like I’m in hostile environment or that I being abused. I don’t deal with them barging in much. Nor do they have my passwords. My dad is a business owner and makes good money for sure. We’re upper class living in the north side of town with a two story house. But yes, I agree I need to move. But how? I work with my parents. I’m the accountant of the … | /r/askTRP | 01/01/20 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill Journey would be much easier if I can have 8 hours of uninterrupted sleep. But seems impossible to attain. Do you all have any tips?Oh I did. Was constantly put down and bullied by my classmates. Especially in regards to being ugly. And I’m 6’4. So I’ve always felt like a huge ugly stupid ogre my whole life, still do despite 10 or 11 lags. My mom is the stereotypical narcissistic Hispanic mother, who has my extremely beta dad under her thumb the poor guy. And has always been very controlling and manipulating with me and pretty much everybody around me. So as a result like you said I’m an anxious guys. Always overthinking and… | /r/askTRP | 01/01/20 05:08 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill Journey would be much easier if I can have 8 hours of uninterrupted sleep. But seems impossible to attain. Do you all have any tips?I mean I don’t know. I’ve never been a depressed person... at least I don’t think. I’ve had trouble with negative thoughts, low self esteem and confidence. But I don’t know if I consider myself to be depressed. I have my happy moments and definitely enjoy life and never felt suicidal or anything. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Journey would be much easier if I can have 8 hours of uninterrupted sleep. But seems impossible to attain. Do you all have any tips?The technique sounds interesting. Will try out a blackout curtain, maybe even a mask too. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill Journey would be much easier if I can have 8 hours of uninterrupted sleep. But seems impossible to attain. Do you all have any tips?Yeah it’s quiet enough. Definitely dark enough. What’s the correct temperature. My mom also sleeps upstairs and being the narcissistic control freak she is doesn’t allow the temperature go below 73. Maybe is invest in a good fan? I always take a piss before sleeping. But it’s 100% guaranteed I’ll wake up in the middle of the night to piss no matter what | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 07:13 PM |
| 4 | Last night I may have been the first man to have a girl completely naked and wet and not have fucked her.... what could’ve I done in this situation?That’s your opinion. I enjoy eating pussy and I sure as fuck not gonna let a stranger on the internet convince me otherwise. I’d be in her frame if I didn’t enjoy. And if she told me or any girl told me that they don’t like getting their pussy ate (HA!) I’d drop them. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 05:54 PM |
| 3 | Last night I may have been the first man to have a girl completely naked and wet and not have fucked her.... what could’ve I done in this situation?Nah she told me she’s a virgin and she doesn’t want to do this and she’s not ready. That’s how she stopped me. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 05:50 PM |
| 8 | Last night I may have been the first man to have a girl completely naked and wet and not have fucked her.... what could’ve I done in this situation?Yeah that’s what I’m going to do. If she hits me up I’ll be down to take her out again and see where it goes. But for now I’m going to be passive and not really care whether she hits me up or not. There are other sluts out there that are in strong need of dick and will fuck on the first date. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 05:48 PM |
| 3 | Last night I may have been the first man to have a girl completely naked and wet and not have fucked her.... what could’ve I done in this situation?Depending on the girl, it’s delicious. And eating pussy makes me feel primal and more animalistic, leading to better performance. I don’t watch porn. I don’t even like masturbating anymore to be honest. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 05:47 PM |
| 4 | I have a date tonight with a higher SMV girl than I’m used to. More than likely will fail, so what are some “exercises” I can apply to this date so that I can develop a stronger frame in future dates?Update: Just came back from the date and I indeed did fail. Oh well, hope these next 2 dates I have set up go better. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 03:54 AM |
| 1 | I have a date tonight with a higher SMV girl than I’m used to. More than likely will fail, so what are some “exercises” I can apply to this date so that I can develop a stronger frame in future dates?Oh how cool! I heard McCallen is filled with sexy ass woman. I’m in Laredo. Cousin lived there for a few months and told the women are sluttier there than here. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 01:05 AM |
| 2 | I have a date tonight with a higher SMV girl than I’m used to. More than likely will fail, so what are some “exercises” I can apply to this date so that I can develop a stronger frame in future dates?So I should visualize dominating this chick before I go on the date? | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 11:13 PM |
| 0 | I have a date tonight with a higher SMV girl than I’m used to. More than likely will fail, so what are some “exercises” I can apply to this date so that I can develop a stronger frame in future dates?Yes, that chess analogy I can relate to 100%, but it seems most TRPers can’t and were socially skilled before they found TRP on some level. Whereas my socials skills are a 1 on a scale from 1-10. Yeah I guess being present, and erasing expectations, is something I’m going to have to work on. I just wish there was a step by step guide to this bullshit, cause I can’t do it by myself | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 11:12 PM |
| -1 | I have a date tonight with a higher SMV girl than I’m used to. More than likely will fail, so what are some “exercises” I can apply to this date so that I can develop a stronger frame in future dates?Even after reading the sidebars, all the TRP books, I’ve still yet to figure out how to be a confident man. It just seems like a foreign concept to me. Like my brain isn’t allowing me to apply it or something. How does be a confident man exactly? | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 07:22 PM |
| -1 | I have a date tonight with a higher SMV girl than I’m used to. More than likely will fail, so what are some “exercises” I can apply to this date so that I can develop a stronger frame in future dates?How can one believe in himself when he fails most of the time? | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 07:16 PM |
| 2 | I have a date tonight with a higher SMV girl than I’m used to. More than likely will fail, so what are some “exercises” I can apply to this date so that I can develop a stronger frame in future dates?How did you fix it? Would like some strong advise on this cause I’m beginning to annoy myself with it | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 05:39 PM |
| 5 | I have a date tonight with a higher SMV girl than I’m used to. More than likely will fail, so what are some “exercises” I can apply to this date so that I can develop a stronger frame in future dates?Look I’ve gone into dates being fully confident (especially in the beginning when I started getting laid), and have failed spectacularly. And I’ve gone expecting to fail and ended up taking a girl’s virginity. Yeah you can say “might as well not go if you’re going to fail”, but that’ll be a huge waste of an lesson learning experience. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 04:53 PM |
| 12 | I have a date tonight with a higher SMV girl than I’m used to. More than likely will fail, so what are some “exercises” I can apply to this date so that I can develop a stronger frame in future dates?That’s the problem, the way I’ve treated any other girl so far has resulted in mostly no 2nd dates and getting ghosted. I need a different game plan cause clearly it ain’t working. Again, 10 lays, 25 first dates this past year. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 04:48 PM |
| 2 | “Wow... so uh.... you’re a lot more dominant than I was expecting.” This is a bad a thing right?My gym is 24/7. Hmm. Gonna try maybe 6 o clock myself. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 03:58 AM |
| 1 | “Wow... so uh.... you’re a lot more dominant than I was expecting.” This is a bad a thing right?Man I’ve been thinking this. What hour is a good one you think? | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 03:48 AM |
| 1 | “Wow... so uh.... you’re a lot more dominant than I was expecting.” This is a bad a thing right?Man I’ve ready everything. Book of spook, Models, How to be 3% Man, Rational Male, Day Bang, Game, The Manual and a couple other PUA books. But every time I got on a date with the mindset of “ok so I’m going to fix this behavior and stop saying this and that and behaving like this” my brain malfunctions and revert back to its beta self. Like I’ve gone on maybe 20-25 dates first dates this past year, and I feel like I’ve made absolutely no progress cause my brain isn’t allowing me too. It’s very … | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 11:54 PM |
| 2 | “Wow... so uh.... you’re a lot more dominant than I was expecting.” This is a bad a thing right?What’s horseshit? I’m curious who you’re replying to cause I value your opinion a lot vandaalen. Haha | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 11:39 PM |
| 1 | “Wow... so uh.... you’re a lot more dominant than I was expecting.” This is a bad a thing right?Man I just think I’m not skilled on speaking smoothly, and suck at continuing a conversation. And I don’t think I’m fun. I usually stick the safe topics, like work, what school you went to, hobbies and shit. I’m constantly feel like I’m putting up a performance in a social interaction I’m in. Whether it’s with a guy or a woman. Constantly worried if I’m being boring not not entertaining them. Basically I’m dull, and very self conscious of my personality and poor socials skills, which hinders me … | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 11:36 PM |
| 6 | “Wow... so uh.... you’re a lot more dominant than I was expecting.” This is a bad a thing right?Why not? I love eating pussy. Gives me pleasure hearing a girl uncontrollably moan and screaming out my name | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 11:20 PM |
| 1 | “Wow... so uh.... you’re a lot more dominant than I was expecting.” This is a bad a thing right?But why would she fuck me then if I was being a fag? | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 09:26 PM |
| -1 | “Wow... so uh.... you’re a lot more dominant than I was expecting.” This is a bad a thing right?And why should that be any concern? Over 80% of the population ends of getting oral heroes by the end of their lives. If you get it you get it, you’re not a special case as opposite to getting HIV. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 09:03 PM |
| -19 | “Wow... so uh.... you’re a lot more dominant than I was expecting.” This is a bad a thing right?Can, but more than likely won’t. You’re more than likely to get herpes from protected sex (males are kind of fucked over on this) rather than through oral sex. There are no known cases of HIV passing through oral sex. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 08:59 PM |
| -15 | “Wow... so uh.... you’re a lot more dominant than I was expecting.” This is a bad a thing right?Yeah but even then, oral sex is not even close as infectious to regular sex. There no known cases of HIV or even Herpes being passed on through oral sex. It’s a low risk activity. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 08:41 PM |
| 4 | “Wow... so uh.... you’re a lot more dominant than I was expecting.” This is a bad a thing right?Is that why you all don’t like pussy eating? Cause by the logic why would you kiss another girl ever again? | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 08:30 PM |
| 1 | “Wow... so uh.... you’re a lot more dominant than I was expecting.” This is a bad a thing right?Do you still bang the fatties? Like others have said it really helps with that abundance feeling but that’s because in my journey so far my SMV hasn’t been risen enough to regularly bang even 7s: | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 08:12 PM |
| 1 | “Wow... so uh.... you’re a lot more dominant than I was expecting.” This is a bad a thing right?6’4 ft tall. I dress casually. Mostly either long sleeve or short sleeved Polos that have one solid color, non-collar most of the time. But I’ll wear collar as well. Most of my jeans are Levi’s. Not tight or too lose. Just fine. Last I wore black ones with a nice Slayer sweatshirt. I guess my tinder pics are average. I’m sitting on 45 matches so far since Sunday when I downloaded. Admittedly I do not life, which would solve my problem. I lifted consistently PPL 6x a week during summer and lost s… | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 07:47 PM |
| 3 | “Wow... so uh.... you’re a lot more dominant than I was expecting.” This is a bad a thing right?Well it’s not texting too much for sure. I’ve gotten comments from girls I matched with saying “I’m not going with you, we don’t know each other and you don’t even bother to text me to get to know me, I’ll go out with you if we talk more before”. In cases like that I usually move on. Even when I do go out with girls some of them say “I’m surprised you wanted to go out and meet. Most guys just keep texting and never ask me out.” Or “wow you actually use tinder to meet?”. Yeah more than likely it’… | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 06:55 PM |
| 2 | “Wow... so uh.... you’re a lot more dominant than I was expecting.” This is a bad a thing right?Only 2.... or if I’m being honest with myself just 1. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 06:21 PM |
| 3 | “Wow... so uh.... you’re a lot more dominant than I was expecting.” This is a bad a thing right?No why would it? Look out of the 10 body counts I’ve had, only 1 girl had bad hygiene. It’s not all that common, at least for me so far it isn’t. I’ll never ask out a dirty looking girl. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 06:10 PM |
| 5 | “Wow... so uh.... you’re a lot more dominant than I was expecting.” This is a bad a thing right?Thanks dude! Really appreciate helping me out like this. Honestly I’ve focused too much on Game articles and books and not enough onto the frame. Cause I got a lot more to read cause this will be my biggest challenge yet. Even bigger than eating right or lifting. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 05:58 PM |
| 9 | “Wow... so uh.... you’re a lot more dominant than I was expecting.” This is a bad a thing right?I don’t know about feminine. I’m a 6’4 Mexican with a naturally deep voice. Wimpy? Maybe. I would say I’m good at eye contact. Bad posture I try be aware of. I’m always constantly fixing it in public. I don’t really apologize but unsure sounds about right to be honest. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 04:37 PM |
| 5 | “Wow... so uh.... you’re a lot more dominant than I was expecting.” This is a bad a thing right?So what you’re saying in a nutshell is: Lifting and Fitness is the best Game there is? | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 04:35 PM |
| 16 | “Wow... so uh.... you’re a lot more dominant than I was expecting.” This is a bad a thing right?Can’t help it. Makes me feel primal and as a result leads me to perform better. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 04:34 PM |
| 10 | “Wow... so uh.... you’re a lot more dominant than I was expecting.” This is a bad a thing right?How do I focus on frame and presentation? Also, can you expand on my marketing is confusing girls? | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Just finished a date tonight and I messed up bad. What do you do when the girl begins to talk about relationships and such?Thanks for the advice! Everyone here is just repeating what I said to me. “Yeah you fucked up” as if I didn’t say that a handful of times in the post. Comedy answers to these types of questions. Will take that to heart and try to remember next time this happens. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Just finished a date tonight and I messed up bad. What do you do when the girl begins to talk about relationships and such?What does frame have to do with being rejected when doing kino? | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Just finished a date tonight and I messed up bad. What do you do when the girl begins to talk about relationships and such?What do you mean by overthinking everything? And what can I do to stop it? | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Just finished a date tonight and I messed up bad. What do you do when the girl begins to talk about relationships and such?Yeah I know. You’d think after 20-25 dates I’d learn and be good at this shit but truth be told I’m not getting better. Just lucky from time to time. Even after reading many books on game. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Why do I go through cycles of abundance?Im having this too. I just assume it’s a sign of my SMV improving (seeing as how I wasn’t getting anything before The Red Pill) but that still have a loooooooonnnggg road ahead of me in my journey of self improvement. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 05:53 AM |
| 2 | I’m not sure if a plate of mine didn’t want to fuck anymore or if it was just a shit test. Advice for future reference?Eh but that would’ve been a lie. Haha. Didn’t want to risk going out and not getting some and just ended up on a regular date that didn’t end with sex. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 01:37 AM |
| 1 | My only motivation is sex, how can I stop being obsessed with it?Yeah I’m the same. I’m 21 year old I don’t know about you. But if you around that age, maybe it’s because we’re young and at the horniest age? But hey, it’s better to do these things even with the wrong motivation rather than not doing it at all right? | /r/askTRP | 12/10/19 06:24 PM |
| 3 | On the first date, we didn’t have sex, but did receive a BJ. How do I proceed from here?Oh yeah haha forgot about this. Yes I smashed the next date. Actually go on a third tonight. No idea if she was a virgin or not as she didn’t bleed but she did come off as inexperienced. It was good sex despite it though. I like this one and out of the 9 body counts I have I think this is the one I’ve only liked as a person. Plus I smashed another chick who I’ve fucked 3 times already in the past two weeks. Now THAT one is a freak. No feelings, just pure nastiness. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Let's Talk Pillow TalkIt’s funny cause I was think about this just 9 hours ago after fucking a new possible plate for the second time. I was laying there and she kept rambling on and on about how dramatic and stupid her friends are, while she herself kept saying “I’m not a girl who likes negative vibes” and that typical bullshit. I just kept laying there with her resting her head in my chest. Saying shit like “oh shit that’s a crazy story” or “haha that’s pretty funny.” Not because I didn’t want to talk, but when I’m… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/19 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Slut TellsAnd what have you done to become good enough? Just seeking for advice. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 07:38 PM |
| 16 | Sleep is important, here are some great tips on getting sleepMan my problem is, I’ll sleep like at 12 right? Wake up at 6. That’s only 6 hours of sleep. Not enough for me. I could try going back to sleep, but can’t. Not until another 2 hours minimum pass by. So I’ll sleep at 8 or something and wake up 10. This sucks, cause I work with my parents and can clock in at any time. I prefer to go early as possible and put many hours as I can. Can’t do that if I’m going back to sleep. So my choice is either yet up and operate suboptimal with 6 hours of sleep, or … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/19 02:00 PM |
| 3 | Goodbye TRP, -Braincels userNo offense... but you all kind of deserve it. But I’m a huge defender of freedom of speech. Banning you all isn’t right. I just hope that now you don’t have sub that you use to “cope”, you actually do something with your life outside of a phone. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/19 07:45 PM |
| 16 | Why WOULDN'T you want a girl to feel clingy and insecure?Been thinking about this as well. And I agree... But then again.... Doesn’t it say a lot about you that you want an insecure girlfriend? I can only assume an insecure man would highly desire an insecure women to feel better about to himself. Not attacking you personally. Because I’m applying this scenario to myself. I sometimes fantasize about having a girl he totally insecure and clingy to me. Until I meditate on the thought and “observe the thinker” and realize these types of fantasies stem fr… | /r/askTRP | 01/10/19 03:29 AM |
| 2 | On the first date, we didn’t have sex, but did receive a BJ. How do I proceed from here?Thanks for you advice. I was looking at history of TRP. Couldn’t find a post that clearly defines LARPing. What’s that? All I could find on google were weird cosplays. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/19 10:59 PM |
| 3 | On the first date, we didn’t have sex, but did receive a BJ. How do I proceed from here?Even if true, thank god I live in the great state of Texas. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/19 06:16 PM |
| 1 | On the first date, we didn’t have sex, but did receive a BJ. How do I proceed from here?It’s in the last sentence. Should I pursue a girl that didn’t want to fuck on the first date? A rule here on TRP is that women will make rules for betas, and break them for alphas. In this case she made a rule for me not to sleep with me on first date. In her eyes I’m more of a beta than alpha currently. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/19 06:08 PM |
| 2 | On the first date, we didn’t have sex, but did receive a BJ. How do I proceed from here?You’re right. Let me correct myself. My SMV is good enough to date 6s and 7s, but not good enough to be that guy that women will fuck on the first date. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/19 06:05 PM |
| 2 | On the first date, we didn’t have sex, but did receive a BJ. How do I proceed from here?No. My body count is only 7. Nowhere did I claim it was “tons of women”. With only 2 maybe 3 of them being something to be proud of. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/19 06:04 PM |
| 55 | Finally Kissed a Girl at 19Don’t worry dude I can relate. I too am 6’4. TRP thinks being 6’4 will automatically put you into Slayer category but no, you still need to deal with low confidence and self esteem caused by years of bullying haha. Not to mention you still need to take care of your face. I didn’t see results until I changed my glasses, lost weight, and began shaving often and went to the dermatologist. Only difference between you and I is that I’m cutting and you’re bulking. I’m jealous. I was rocking a dad bod … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/19 07:55 PM |
| 2 | This past using Tinder I’ve gotten lots of numbers and planned lots of dates, but I’ve gotten the variations of “I’d like to get to know you better before we go out”. How to handle this suit test?I like your point. But I wasn’t asking “why are they playing games”. I was asking “how to deal with these games” so that I can IMPROVE my frame. I don’t think you read the post, but... if she wants to fuck you, she won’t make it hard Really solid advice and something I often forget. Thanks for the reminder | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Your experience with plates fucking other dudes?I remember my first fuck buddy I lost my virginity to was fucking other dudes on the side. She kept shit talking her ex the times we riding in the car to my place or hers. Turns out, she was fucking her ex and got chlamydia a few days before I fucked her as well. So I was at risk of getting as well. At least she had the grace to tell straight up the situation. Thankfully I tested negative when I found out. Point is, wrap it up. It’s not even funny how common STDs are. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 02:30 PM |
| 1 | If it was free would any of you get plastic surgery?No. I don’t like the idea of making those type of unnatural permanent changes to my body. Which why I don’t like piercing or tattoos either. Not judging anybody here who has them but they’re just not my thing. Would rather continue lifting and doing stretches that fix my posture. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/19 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Girl subtweets about me after our first dateDo you actually tell girls “I’m going to kiss you now”? Feel like that ruins that tension and seems ... unnecessary. I literally go for the kiss without saying anything. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 08:53 PM |
| 2 | I have multiple opportunities to get laid tonight. But I feel morally conflicted as to whether I should or not. What should I do?It was my first time doing so, and acknowledge it was 100% a mistake and I regret it so much. But no the real post here is wondering if I should abstain from sex for now, or am I being paranoid? | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 11:50 PM |
| 1 | I’ve had Tinder for over a week, and have gotten matches with girls I’ve always thought to be out my league. Gotten numbers, but I don’t feel like I’m “enough” to go out on dates with girls. Any advice?Gonna look into it right now. Not sure if you read my other comment. I don’t have my own place. But I do have a warehouse with an apartment. Any advice for that? | /r/askTRP | 13/08/19 03:07 AM |
| 1 | I’ve had Tinder for over a week, and have gotten matches with girls I’ve always thought to be out my league. Gotten numbers, but I don’t feel like I’m “enough” to go out on dates with girls. Any advice?Ok so you’re saying it should be just a light kiss. This is probably where I’m fucking up cause I legit start making out with them once I my lips touch theirs. French kissing and grabbing them by the waist and such. Didn’t think it was a big deal. My I’m just desensitized by the amount of making out I’ve done haha | /r/askTRP | 13/08/19 03:00 AM |
| 1 | I’ve had Tinder for over a week, and have gotten matches with girls I’ve always thought to be out my league. Gotten numbers, but I don’t feel like I’m “enough” to go out on dates with girls. Any advice?I don’t have my own place. I’m 21 years old and don’t plan on getting one till I get a good job on the accounting field. And that’s AFTER I finish college in a year or so. The only place I have is my parents office. My parents own a business and it’s in a warehouse. I work for them. However the warehouse has a two story office. But for some reason only the first floor is designed to be an office, while the second is designed to be an apartment. I’ve taken my past fuck buddies there. Thing is the… | /r/askTRP | 13/08/19 02:57 AM |
| 1 | I’ve had Tinder for over a week, and have gotten matches with girls I’ve always thought to be out my league. Gotten numbers, but I don’t feel like I’m “enough” to go out on dates with girls. Any advice?How does the dance go? Usually, I take them out for something cheap and casual like ice cream. Then take to them the park. Start escalating like hand holding or arm around shoulder. Then I’ll go in for the kiss. Most of the time they’re down to make out. But beyond that they never want to go further. Gotten laid with 6 different girls so far, but it should be at least 10-12 girls. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/19 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Home alone for a whole week. Going to download Tinder and try to go out on some dates. But I need a new game plan for my first dates. Can you all help me out on what I should do?Good advice! Yes I’ve notice that all the times I’ve gotten laid, it was bound to happen whether or not I took them out on a date. Girls I’ve had sex with we’re DTF from the start. I fail with girls who aren’t DTF and require decent game to bang. No sadly I’m not attractive. Would say I’m a 3 maybe 4. The only thing that saves me from be a 1 is that I’m 6’4 ft tall. Yes I’ve been lifting but I’m LOOOOOONGGG ways before I ever get a banging physique. Us tall guys need much more muscles before we … | /r/askTRP | 03/08/19 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Home alone for a whole week. Going to download Tinder and try to go out on some dates. But I need a new game plan for my first dates. Can you all help me out on what I should do?A great idea. Only hard to do when going to college taking 4 classes. On average I’d make $250 a week. Unless I want to live in a shithole in the south side of my city it’s not really doable. I’m majoring in accounting and will be done in a year. After that I can worry about getting my own place. But now unless I want to sacrifice the gym or some grades at college getting my own place would be very hard to do. Plus getting all the furniture and food and stuff. But the thought has crossed my mind… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/19 05:42 PM |
| 1 | How do I get over my hatred for tall men?I’m 6’4. And I have sex a few months. I’m not a “Slayer”. I’ve gone out with 15-20 different girls on a date and only 5 have wanted a second date with me. Height means VERY little when you have no game and a great personality. Right now I’m just working on myself by lifting 5-6 times a week and playing guitar. Been consist at the gym for 5 weeks now and feel great. College starts soon. Don’t believe the hype. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/19 01:40 PM |
| 13 | Gaylubeoil's 3 Iron Rules Of IronWhat do you recommend for hip mobility? Saying because at 6’4 ft tall and poor mobility, I’m currently doing a squat less and no deadlift PPL routine. Due to poor form on both those exercises. Well at least up until today. I began doing sumo deadlift today on Pull Day which has been some help. Will post a form check soon but still need that mobility. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/19 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Came across a reddit post meant for me by my ex and I'm feeling crushed. Advice getting over this BP moment?Isn’t that the number that’s expected by the time you finish StrongLifts 5x5? Seems possible if he’s bulking up correctly and lifting consistently on a strength program. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/19 03:08 PM |
| 9 | Will go on 7th date, No kiss etc so far, advice plsLmfao! This seems like a very similar posts I’ve made before back in 2017, when I was talking to this girl who was the first girl I’ve ever been on a date with. I was 19 and she 18. Both of us inexperienced in dating and more than likely virgins. I was extremely beta back then. Well still am now but I’ve done some work and at least I’ve gotten laid on first dates and stuff. Anyways, yes I remember I was in the same shoes as you. Back then I was still posting on dating and dating advice sub Reddi… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 08:54 PM |
| 1 | “You’re not expecting sex from me right?”Haha it is pretty funny 😂 But what do YOU think I should do with a Tinder girl? Take her out to Olive Garden or something? I don’t think so. You’re right I could do better, like take over to my house and make her food or something. But I’m 21 still living with my parents. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 03:09 PM |
| 1 | What red pill facts surprised you the most?Any particularly philosophy that you recommend? | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 02:15 PM |
| 1 | After using and having more success with Tinder than usual this week, I learned the hard way why it’s extremely important to have abundance. (And why building a frame is essential).Yes you’re right the muscles themselves won’t help you get girls. But the confidence they give should give you some help no? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/19 05:50 PM |
| 3 | Do any recovering Beta Males come to despise your past self?I’ve still have a lot of work to do. A LOT of fucking work. As my past 2-3 posts have suggested. So I’m still beta keep that in mind. I’m away, yes I despise past myself to an extent. But think about.... If we weren’t losers at the beginning of our lives, would we have found all this useful eye opening concepts and knowledge? So many men who are natural alphas in high school or in there 20s will end up marrying some chick and become beta as hell. They’ll be the ones who ask if they can go out wi… | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 03:23 AM |
| 1 | After using and having more success with Tinder than usual this week, I learned the hard way why it’s extremely important to have abundance. (And why building a frame is essential).Haha fair enough. When does it stop though? And for now what can I do to minimize my emotional unstableness? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/19 10:53 PM |
| 1 | After using and having more success with Tinder than usual this week, I learned the hard way why it’s extremely important to have abundance. (And why building a frame is essential).Body Recomp is where I eat at maintenance right? What type of diet should I have? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/19 10:51 PM |
| 1 | After using and having more success with Tinder than usual this week, I learned the hard way why it’s extremely important to have abundance. (And why building a frame is essential).I mean... were anything like me at my age? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/19 10:50 PM |
| 1 | After using and having more success with Tinder than usual this week, I learned the hard way why it’s extremely important to have abundance. (And why building a frame is essential).Yes! Exactly! You’re right, absolutely. That’s what causes the pain. You’re correct when you say that the 37 matches aren’t a success, and more of a picture. At the end of the day, only got laid once, and the girl ignored me at the end of the day. But it’s nice knowing that I’m attractive enough to get 37 matches. I’ve always had body dysmorphia. Hate the way I look. My insecurities root from it. But now that I have slight more confidence it my looks, I know how to worry about my shitty personal… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/19 05:02 PM |
| 1 | After using and having more success with Tinder than usual this week, I learned the hard way why it’s extremely important to have abundance. (And why building a frame is essential).Yea I know. I don’t believe I’m skinny as shit. Lol. Still got that belly a bit. After I get to about 200 or so, I’ll probably start bulking. At 200 I can’t imagine how easy it will be to intake my necessary calorie intake now that my TDEE will much lower. However I’m not sure if I’ll get my squat or deadlift that high. Those two have been extremely hard for me at 6’5. Especially the squat. I’ve been able to fix up the deadlift a bit. But the squat form for me has been one of the hardest things … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/19 02:47 PM |
| 1 | After using and having more success with Tinder than usual this week, I learned the hard way why it’s extremely important to have abundance. (And why building a frame is essential).Nah what I meant by destruction is getting laid a lot by countless of women.... on account of being 6’5. I’m sure I’d demolish the dating scene if I were to build a badass. Thanks again for advice. And yes that last part kills me. It’s not so much that I lost a potential plate, rather I envy men who were much more masculine than me who girls gravitate towards compared to introverts like me. I see all these men who are assholes, get high and get drunk a lot, have tattoos that make them look sexy … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/19 03:55 AM |
| 1 | After using and having more success with Tinder than usual this week, I learned the hard way why it’s extremely important to have abundance. (And why building a frame is essential).Thanks for the advice.... Although however I don’t think I mentioned anywhere that I’m going to the gym for oneitus? I’m going so I can look good naked, and because it was mental benefits. Plus I want to get laid more.... but I’m certainly not doing it for one specific girl I can promise you that. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/19 03:21 AM |
| 3 | After using and having more success with Tinder than usual this week, I learned the hard way why it’s extremely important to have abundance. (And why building a frame is essential).Wood working has always caught my eye but I have no space for it. What about model building? Like building planes and boats. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/19 02:07 AM |
| 6 | After using and having more success with Tinder than usual this week, I learned the hard way why it’s extremely important to have abundance. (And why building a frame is essential).And other than lifting, what other hard work must I do at first 21? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/19 01:36 AM |
| 3 | After using and having more success with Tinder than usual this week, I learned the hard way why it’s extremely important to have abundance. (And why building a frame is essential).I guess I misspoke. You’re right! They don’t equate to good sex. But this was a typical slutty goth GF. With a body count no doubt above 20-30. So I’m sure she’s has the experience and it showed. Some of the sexiest doggy style I’ve seen. That and well she enjoyed being chocked, slapped, and having her tits bitten hard. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/19 01:02 AM |
| 2 | After using and having more success with Tinder than usual this week, I learned the hard way why it’s extremely important to have abundance. (And why building a frame is essential).Damn that’s an amazing description of how I am. I’ve always been an anxious and neurotic person. I don’t always show it. In fact I doubt anybody who knows me will call me neurotic. But my parents have always noticed this about me. Any idea how to control it? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/19 11:01 PM |
| 4 | After using and having more success with Tinder than usual this week, I learned the hard way why it’s extremely important to have abundance. (And why building a frame is essential).Nah. That’s truly the sad part. I’ve already read both side bars of the Red Pill and AskTrp. Plus most of the Red Pill recommend books such Book of Pook, No More Mr Nice Guy, Rational Male. What’s sad is despite knowledge I let myself hit rock bottom emotionally and mentally. It’s truly pathetic. Oh well, guess I have to re-read Book of Pook, re-watch Fight Club, and start reading this book on Stoicism called How to be a Stoic. Haha. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/19 10:39 PM |
| 7 | After using and having more success with Tinder than usual this week, I learned the hard way why it’s extremely important to have abundance. (And why building a frame is essential).Yeah! The son of bitch likes to snoop around he’s only 6 months old. But he used that nose of his to turn on the knobs. I don’t know how but the little prick managed to turn the knob at the highest setting. Pretty crazy. Love the guy despite being a cunt sometimes. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/19 09:45 PM |
| 1 | The vast majority of my dates end with making out, but then I get ghosted right afterwards. Almost all of them. What can I improve?What if they’re under 21? Saying cause the chick last night was 20. And have with 19 year olds too. I’m 21 myself | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 02:11 AM |
| 1 | The vast majority of my dates end with making out, but then I get ghosted right afterwards. Almost all of them. What can I improve?What do I say? Like to bring them over to my house without triggering ASD? | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 02:03 AM |
| 1 | The vast majority of my dates end with making out, but then I get ghosted right afterwards. Almost all of them. What can I improve?Yeah you’re right think I should’ve done better. There weren’t that many people around but I could see how this a problem. Thing is that it’s so easy making a move at the park. Is there any other place I can go to where doing kino is easy? And not have many people around or at all? | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 09:49 PM |
| 6 | Last night I had sex with my first above average girl (HB7 I'd say). But I don't sense a second round. Which is okay, but I'd like to get feedback on what I could've done better.Yes you’re right. I get you don’t worry. I’m still operating under lack of abundance. But hopefully that fixes soon. Just need to up my SMV more. Think 6 months in the gym while bulk will do. Sadly that will have to wait since I’m 213 ib at 6’4. Still slightly overweight. Plan is to get to at least 200, then bulk. But yeah I’ve improved a bit at least. I was 252 a while back now I’m 213. When I first download Tinder back in 2017, I got 5 crappy matches. Couple months ago I only got 12 when I mad… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/19 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Finally, I banged my first above average (HB7 I’d say) chick last night, but I don’t sense a second round coming. It’s okay, but can you all give me feed back on what I can do better next time?Cool. Thanks.... hopefully she’s down, or I bang a chick as hot as her.... cause I’m going to be honest.... I don’t think I can go back to low SMV girls after last night. That was a whole new different experience. It was like I had sex for the first time ever haha | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Finally, I banged my first above average (HB7 I’d say) chick last night, but I don’t sense a second round coming. It’s okay, but can you all give me feed back on what I can do better next time?Good to know. Just wondering is all. Well I’ll text her tomorrow night. Something along the lines of “hey just wanted to say I had fun the other night. Hope to do it again soon”. And leave it at that. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Finally, I banged my first above average (HB7 I’d say) chick last night, but I don’t sense a second round coming. It’s okay, but can you all give me feed back on what I can do better next time?Thanks for the encouragement dude. Appreciate it. Just curious how did you learn to fuck good? Like fuck a girls brains out I mean? Also, have you ever been ghosted by a girl after having sex with her? Just curious. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Finally, I banged my first above average (HB7 I’d say) chick last night, but I don’t sense a second round coming. It’s okay, but can you all give me feed back on what I can do better next time?Thank you for the kind words sir! I’ll keep all of that in mind. Appreciate the advice. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Finally, I banged my first above average (HB7 I’d say) chick last night, but I don’t sense a second round coming. It’s okay, but can you all give me feed back on what I can do better next time?Whoops. Not sure if you saw my reply but I think it was removed since I linked. Basically I didn’t post this in the main sub because this post is me asking for advice and tips, and this is asktrp. Feel like posting this in the main sub would have the post removed shortly or even have me banned. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 06:19 PM |
| 5 | I get girls I don't want and don't get the girls I wantSame... except they are actually kind of ugly and fat haha. Truth be told I think it’s also my confidence. I have huge body dysmorphia. I hate the way I look. I’m 100% convinced I’m ugly despite the fact that I was able to match with a HB7-8 once on Tinder and actually go on a date with her.... only to ruin it by being very socially awkward haha. The best we can do is raise our SMV. Someone here said that you should focus on raising your SMV instead of focusing on girls. And I feel that’s the be… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 06:14 PM |
| 2 | What are some feminine traits/behaviors that men should strongly avoid?Reactivity... can you expand on that one? | /r/askTRP | 07/06/19 03:10 AM |
| 4 | So basically most women spend their lives fucking muscular assholes and when they become old they want to settle down with some poor schmuck? That’s female nature in a nutshell, correct?What if you want to become muscular and confident, but don’t want to be an asshole? | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Finally getting serious about teaching myself how to cook. Bought some cast iron cookware and I’ve been loving it.I have zero knowledge about how to cook. You have any idea where to start for a complete beginner? | /r/MGTOW | 09/05/19 08:51 PM |
| 1 | How to cope with having nothing to do all summer?Yeah I’m having a lot free time this summer too. Going to use the time to improve myself. First will be the gym, which I’ve already started. Other than that, I have a few idea. Pick back up the electric guitar. Take the next motorcycle class available at my local driving school, and save up to buy one for myself. And I want to learn how to bake. And of course reading but I’ve been doing that for a while now. Right now I’m reading Sapiens and Lord of the Rings. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 07:47 PM |
| 0 | What would you do in my situation?I lost 30 pounds from August to November. All I did eat much less, and rode my bike around my block for 45 minutes a day. Bike riding makes cardio fun. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 05:53 PM |
| 1 | I decided to go out last night. Nothing eventful happen. But that’s on me of course. What can I do to improve?Yeah that’s exactly what I was thinking the whole time I was there. “Shit If I knew how to dance I wouldn’t be so worried about socializing or looking creepy”. But I don’t know how to dance. At all. Don’t know how to bust the moves. My bad dancing will look even worse because I’m 6’5. Being 6’5 is pretty tall on average, and even taller when you’re Hispanic in an Hispanic community so you’re really giant in the room. Not sure how to learn to dance. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Do you all think it’s a good idea to have 2 jobs at 21 or is it too much time wasted?Not sure. 15-16? I’m currently taking 4 classes right now. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 04:08 PM |
| 4 | Music suggestions?Bolt Thrower. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Girl from high school (now a single mother) hits me up after my MGTOW lifestyle has been put in motion.Nice! Got any specific exercises for your workout days? | /r/MGTOW | 22/01/19 05:33 PM |
| 9 | Girl from high school (now a single mother) hits me up after my MGTOW lifestyle has been put in motion.Damn you are kind of hot though What’s your workout routine buddy? | /r/MGTOW | 22/01/19 05:03 PM |
| 1 | I usually text for logistics not only because TRP recommends it, but because I really have a hard time making good conversations through text. Should I leave like that or work on text game?How do I make her talk about herself? I have a date with a girl in two hours. Plan is to go to get ice cream. Then then the park. Try to establish kino. But during the talking stage, how do I get her to talk about herself? Always suffered with this in past dates. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 11:57 PM |
| 1 | I usually text for logistics not only because TRP recommends it, but because I really have a hard time making good conversations through text. Should I leave like that or work on text game?But what do you talk about though through text? I just don’t get it. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 04:25 PM |
| 4 | Which movies have redpill content?The Sopranos. The show was just so blunt in its themes and messages. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 04:17 PM |
| 5 | Here in the Red Pill people say to improve your career and get your finances in order. As a 21 year old, how do I do that?Hmm. Thank you for this comment. Just saw it. Doing a bit of googling, it seems like a degree with Business Administration is pretty much useless because it’s too broad. I hope it’s not too late to change it. I’m pretty good at math. Decent at least. Got As in Algebra and Pre Cal in high school. Accounting seems like a good major don’t you think? | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 04:32 PM |
| 6 | Here in the Red Pill people say to improve your career and get your finances in order. As a 21 year old, how do I do that?How do most people go on about learning another language? I’m Hispanic so I naturally already know English and Spanish since my parents speak both. But how do most people learn a new one? Classes? Online? Books? What’s the easiest one? | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 04:06 PM |
| 6 | Here in the Red Pill people say to improve your career and get your finances in order. As a 21 year old, how do I do that?Yeah that’s the thing I haven’t found out what I love. I majored in business because my dad owns an import export business that he’s going to leave me behind. So I thought 2 years ago that it’ll be best to major in business to have some knowledge. But nowadays I imagine being a lot of thing that interests me. Sometimes I want to be a book writer of fiction, sometimes I imagine being a history professor, being a movie director. I’ve been playing guitar lately and vision myself being a musician. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 03:16 PM |
| 5 | How do I stop feeling jealous when I see girls I’m attracted to talking to other guys?Lifting I’ve already started. Personal hygiene I’ve always had. (Assuming mean taking showers, brushing your teeth, wearing deodorant etc.) I still need to make a habit of meditating. I’ll get there. But how else do you improve “emotional hygiene”? I feel like that’s where I really lack. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 02:33 PM |
| 5 | How do I stop feeling jealous when I see girls I’m attracted to talking to other guys?Just curious, what basics do you think are the most important to apply in beginning? | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 01:34 PM |
| 1 | On Tinder, do you all NEXT girls who don’t like to go out with guys until they “get to know them” through texting?Exactly. It’s the way I feel. I usually try 3 times because I like giving the benefit of the doubt. Maybe there are busy? But after 3 times is when it’s like yeah she obviously not interested and I’m just wasting my time. You’re right I don’t want to devolve to that mentality ever again. I remember this one girl, a little before I started taking the Red Pill seriously, I asked maybe like 10-15 times in the span of 2-3 months. Never a yes. Jesus I was real pathetic then. Haha. Thanks for the answ… | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 05:05 PM |
| 1 | On Tinder, do you all NEXT girls who don’t like to go out with guys until they “get to know them” through texting?Hmm. So you think it’s best to just next after the first rejection? I usually ask the girl out 3 times, wait a couple days in between. After the 3rd rejection I NEXT completely and move on. I never text. Just logistics. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Do you live for good memories? What do you live for?Right now? I’m living for becoming muscular at the gym, becoming a decent kick ass guitar player, and continuing reading badass fantasy books. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/18 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it’s pathetic to hire a personal trainer to help your with form and such?Well thanks man. Appreciate the comment. By the way, I saw your post history. One your post is one i saw a while back. The one about physically printing the Red Pill Handbook for paperback. Did you ever end of succeeding in publishing a paperback version of it? Would sure like one. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it’s pathetic to hire a personal trainer to help your with form and such?Fire my trainer? I just paid $500 out of my own pocket. I’m most certainly am not going to fire the guy and start quitting. Not to mention I signed a one year contract for the gym so there’s no way I’m quitting. I just feel bad because this is the first time at the gym. I’m the skinniest person there, everyone else is buff as fuck. Got me wondering, these guys probably do it on their own with a “gymdaddy” as you put it. As for you last sentence, exactly! I feel bad because I am that type of pers… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Should I set up a second date for tomorrow tonight or tomorrow morning?Keep getting contradictory answers. Other in the other posts said to set up in a few days. Like today tomorrow. To strike why the iron is hot, one said. Not to mention it’s fucking Tinder, she can easily find another dick to ride on if I don’t act soon. Assuming she hasn’t already. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/18 11:23 PM |
| 2 | I got laid last night on my Tinder date. How do I proceed with this girl?22, I’m 20. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/18 01:06 PM |
| 1 | I got laid last night on my Tinder date. How do I proceed with this girl?Yeah I gotta do game other women. Just don’t know how to. Barely lost virginity this May at the age at 20 and to be honest I’ve only gotten laid through online dating. Or really gotten any dates through online dating. I would cold approach but I’ve gotten this mentality of “ I won’t approach in person into I get this muscular”. I’m not very attractive. In fact I’m ugly and I’m even sure how I’ve gotten matches on Tinder. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 08:42 PM |
| 2 | I got laid last night on my Tinder date. How do I proceed with this girl?Yup. I think that’s what ruined things with my first fuck buddy. Sadly. What do I do? | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 07:43 PM |
| 1 | I got laid last night on my Tinder date. How do I proceed with this girl?Within the next week? So maybe wait a few days? | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 04:51 PM |
| 1 | I got laid last night on my Tinder date. How do I proceed with this girl?Sorry, I meant cumming inside her ass, not her vagina haha | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 04:37 PM |
| 0 | I got laid last night on my Tinder date. How do I proceed with this girl?How much of a risk is there in getting a girl pregnant if you straight up fuck her raw and cum inside her ass? She actually wanted me to fuck her raw in her pussy but I don’t think I have the.... mental power to pull out. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 04:18 PM |
| 1 | I went on a coffee date last night. It was boring. Not sure if it was my fault or if she herself was boring. Advice?So basically you can talk about anything as long as you’re passionate about it and speak about it passionately? | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 03:12 PM |
| 1 | I went on a coffee date last night. It was boring. Not sure if it was my fault or if she herself was boring. Advice?Yeah read my post before this one. I had a date before this date. Kino isn’t much of a problem for me. It just his girl. Caught me off guard. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 09:53 PM |
| 1 | I went on a coffee date last night. It was boring. Not sure if it was my fault or if she herself was boring. Advice?All of it. I’m good with speaking English and Spanish but when it comes to writing Spanish is very difficult for me. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 07:09 PM |
| 1 | I went on a coffee date last night. It was boring. Not sure if it was my fault or if she herself was boring. Advice?But I don’t even get how the works though. For example a lot of the things I like to do are nerdy stuff. Reading comic books, playing video games, building LEGO’s, watching films, and reading books I would LIKE to talk about those things, but guess what? Most girls find that boring and uninteresting. I would love to talk about films like The Godfather, A Clockwork Orange; Fight Club, but most girls haven’t heard of those films, and would rather talk about pitch perfect or some shit. See what I’m… | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 06:29 PM |
| 3 | I went on a coffee date last night. It was boring. Not sure if it was my fault or if she herself was boring. Advice?It was coffee at night. 8:00 PM. Also this were I get confused. A lot TRP says not assume the role of entertainer or clown, yet here someone is telling me that a bad/boring date is always a man’s fault. So I never know what to do. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 04:43 PM |
| 1 | I went on a coffee date last night. It was boring. Not sure if it was my fault or if she herself was boring. Advice?Yeah I think it was just her. I mean the day before I had just gone on date with another girl and I managed to suck on that girls tits and rub her pussy. Guess it was just simple lack of chemistry? Which in turn made nervous. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 04:32 PM |
| 1 | I went on a coffee date last night. It was boring. Not sure if it was my fault or if she herself was boring. Advice?No seas mamon wey. Pero si tienes rason wei | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 03:04 PM |
| 1 | I went on a coffee date last night. It was boring. Not sure if it was my fault or if she herself was boring. Advice?I’m already good at English. I’m better at it than Spanish and I use 80% of the time. Just saying, teasing and joking comes easier to me when the other person can speak “Spanglish” like I do. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 02:07 PM |
| 2 | I went on a coffee date last night. It was boring. Not sure if it was my fault or if she herself was boring. Advice?Wasn’t afraid to offend. More like I just didn’t know how. I’m usually good at teasing. But only with certain girls. Girls who speak my language I guess? | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Finished my date tonight. What could I have said to ended with a lay?Nah here’s the thing. This girl is kind of chubby, so she has fat underneath there. Add that to the fact that she was wearing some really tight pants, and it made everything harder. I wasn’t really finger her really. More like rubbing the roof the vagina. Had she worn something more lose I think I could’ve gotten farther. I don’t think she was expecting me to get sexual on the first date. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Finished my date tonight. What could I have said to ended with a lay?Thanks! But I’ve wondering, when do I text her? Now or in a few days? Don’t want be needy. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Finished my date tonight. What could I have said to ended with a lay?When? Now or maybe wait a few days? | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Finished my date tonight. What could I have said to ended with a lay?Thanks man! I was wondering, when should I text her? Later on today or wait a few days? There was no talk of a second date, and she didn’t text me afterwards. So I’m wondering if that’s a bad sign. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 11:26 AM |
| 3 | Finished my date tonight. What could I have said to ended with a lay?Yeah hopefully she doesn’t next me. Her pussy felt warm as fuck and she had nice titties. Haha. I just hope it’s not a bad sign that she didn’t mention a second date. Or that she didn’t text me afterwards. I should wait a few days to text her again right? | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 11:16 AM |
| 1 | How do your turn off the “desperation stink” on a first date?So you’re saying that as live goes on and I begin going more and more dates with women, eventually outcome indifference will naturally start coming to me? | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Somehow, I even managed to fuck up with a low SMV girl on a date. How do I know whether to chalk it up as bad chemistry and just a fuck up on part?I mean didn’t really go on a date with this chick to show her “I’m more interested than sex”. I went just to build comfort. I wasn’t just going to message and say “hi my name The Man Who Slays, I’m so and so friends. Do you want to fuck?”. I’m not attractive enough to pull that shit off. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Somehow, I even managed to fuck up with a low SMV girl on a date. How do I know whether to chalk it up as bad chemistry and just a fuck up on part?You see I wanted to do all that. The last chick I went on a date with I actually did do that. Went on some swings and we sat down on some slides and such. Plus I was making her laugh a lot and we made lots of inside jokes despite only known her for like an hour. With chick though I just couldn’t. I don’t know if it was lack of chemistry, or just wasn’t in the zone or something. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Somehow, I even managed to fuck up with a low SMV girl on a date. How do I know whether to chalk it up as bad chemistry and just a fuck up on part?You’re right. Right now my only hobbies are guitar playing, reading books, and bike riding. I’m lifting but because I’m cutting I’m not gaining any muscle at all. That comes later I guess when I’m 190 Ib. Currently at 225. Soon I’ll be starting to ride a motorcycle. I’m saving up for one, and taking these upcoming classes that will be available in a few weeks. Thanks for the link by the way! First one sadly doesn’t work but that second looks real helpful. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Somehow, I even managed to fuck up with a low SMV girl on a date. How do I know whether to chalk it up as bad chemistry and just a fuck up on part?What sucks is that I’ve read the sidebar a lot, including Book of Pook and Rational Male. That’s the problems. I worry to much about the stuff I read on here that it overwhelms and so I have a difficult time applying. Already exercising. I’ve lost 23 pounds already since I starting cutting in late July/early August. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 11:02 AM |
| 2 | I’ve been reading The Red Pill for a year and I’m still having an extremely difficult time internalizing it and I’ve “going out and experience”.Sounds like some incel shit. No offense. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/18 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Why the fuck would she want to go on a 2nd date with you?Are you attractive as fuck? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/18 11:59 PM |
| 16 | Why You Need To Get HugeWhat program are you doing? I’m curious because I’m also cutting. Been doing StrongLifts 5x5 and bike riding 5-6 times a week for the past 2 months. Plus eating less. I’ve lose 22 pounds so far! | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/18 12:42 AM |
| 1 | What time do you all wake up?Thanks! Another quick question, do you happen to take vitamins? If so, which ones are important to take? | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 01:33 AM |
| 1 | What time do you all wake up?Any other advice on making this a habit. I’m actually going to follow your schedule. Today I slept at 1:30 in the morning. Woke up at 5 using my phone alarm. Been awake since. I’m hoping I’ll sleep at 10 today. 11 max. Do you any advice for me? | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Isn’t it much more difficult to attract women when you have a conventionally boring/non-conforming life?But what’s considered boring though? | /r/askTRP | 02/09/18 07:35 PM |
| 1 | I went on 2 dates with a girl over the weekend. I fucking suck at this shit. Can you all critique me and give me advice for future dates?Thanks. I’ll probably go on one more date on the weekend, assuming she’s down. Escalate best I can and if no success, I’ll just tell her she’s not what I’m looking for and move the fuck on. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 05:45 PM |
| 2 | I went on 2 dates with a girl over the weekend. I fucking suck at this shit. Can you all critique me and give me advice for future dates?Thanks for the advice. Sorry. Thing is I read a lot of success stories here on the Red Pill. So I imagine that a lot you are these alpha guys with amazing frame and high end social skills that successfully fuck girls on the first date with ease and 100% success rate. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 05:11 PM |
| 1 | I went on 2 dates with a girl over the weekend. I fucking suck at this shit. Can you all critique me and give me advice for future dates?There’s 1000* other girls in university :) Also, when I said I made her laugh, it was really just teasing her. We have our own inside jokes already. Of course I tease her. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 04:39 PM |
| 2 | I went on 2 dates with a girl over the weekend. I fucking suck at this shit. Can you all critique me and give me advice for future dates?“She’s sexual open, just not with you”. That’s what bothers me a lot. I’m not so much pissed that I fucked up with this girl because I liked her or anything. I’m pissed of because this experienced was a huge moment of clarity. I’m not the guy girls want to fuck on the first date. Granted, that’s how I lost virginity a couple months ago but that girl was a fucking slut haha. What I’m trying to say is if I had been alpha I would’ve gotten laid. But sadly, I’m still 100% beta. I need all this advic… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 04:36 PM |
| 1 | I went on 2 dates with a girl over the weekend. I fucking suck at this shit. Can you all critique me and give me advice for future dates?I have to beat myself over this. Otherwise I won’t learn. And we have to debate what I should’ve said or shouldn’t, because again, I won’t fucking learn. I don’t want to be that guy that girls decide not fuck on the first date. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 04:15 PM |
| 1 | I went on 2 dates with a girl over the weekend. I fucking suck at this shit. Can you all critique me and give me advice for future dates?Thanks for the advice! I’m wondering, what should I do with this girl? Told myself I wasn’t going to text her first and see if she would first. She did so during my writing of my original post. An hour after our date ended. Just today I’m waking up and she already sent me a good morning text. I’m thinking making a date for the weekend, keeping texting at a minimum, and if it leads to nowhere, hard fucking next. I’m starting university tomorrow so there will be lots of girls to choose from right?… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 02:50 PM |
| 3 | I went on 2 dates with a girl over the weekend. I fucking suck at this shit. Can you all critique me and give me advice for future dates?Actually, I focused on having fun on the first half of both dates. Notice how everything is going good during coffee and mini golfing. It’s when I go to the park is where I fuck things up. She wasn’t on her phone at all during mini golfing and when we drank coffee in the beginning. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 02:44 PM |
| 1 | I went on 2 dates with a girl over the weekend. I fucking suck at this shit. Can you all critique me and give me advice for future dates?How do physically be sexually dominant? I’m afraid of being accused of rape in these situations. She refused my kiss. What else is there to do? Grab her face and force ya tongue to hers? | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 02:40 PM |
| 2 | I went on 2 dates with a girl over the weekend. I fucking suck at this shit. Can you all critique me and give me advice for future dates?How do you be “fuck boy material” instead of BF material? Also, I don’t plan on being her boyfriend. I mean I like her and she’s cool. Very similar senses of humor to mine. But I all I really is to be FWB. Not boyfriend. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 02:36 PM |
| 14 | I went on 2 dates with a girl over the weekend. I fucking suck at this shit. Can you all critique me and give me advice for future dates?Didn’t I mention that I was escalating in my room? We were cuddling. I even grabbed her ass. Went for the kiss a few times. She just didn’t want to. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 05:42 AM |
| 3 | Going on a first date with a girl I matched on Bumble. Do you all have any advice?A lot of the Red Pill advice I read on here recommends that you have more than one place planned for a date. Of courses I’m going to vet her during the coffee place. Which why I said if things go well and there’s chemistry I’ll take her to the park to escalate. If not, accept the loss and go on our separate ways. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Did I make the right choice by choosing to cut rather than bulk?My TDEE is 3500. Which means to lose weight I need to eat 3000 or less. On average I eat around 2500. Add a lifting program plus an hour of bike riding every other day, it’s no wonder I’m losing weight easily. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Did I make the right choice by choosing to cut rather than bulk?I’ll pass by my local pharmacy today and measure it for sure! Thanks. I just called them and they said measuring your body fat is free over there. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Did I make the right choice by choosing to cut rather than bulk?No I’m not riding on lifting days I’m not sure if I’m my form is right. I work out at home so I have no one to tell me. No one in the family works out. I mean I don’t think my form is bad. I retract the scapula, make sure the bar is parallel to my eyes, bring down to lower nipple, put back above my eyes. I place my pinkies on those rings that are on the barbell. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 05:29 PM |
| 3 | Did I make the right choice by choosing to cut rather than bulk?What’s fuckarounditis?? For the last question, both? I want look like a guy who’s thighs can strike fear in the hearts of men. And be strong too. However if I had to choose, I’m leaning more for aesthetics? I just want to look better than I do now that’s for sure. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Being not socially skilled, unattractive, bad with girls, and overall beta, how do I deal with family members who are the complete opposite?Obviously I’m not choosing the first option. If I did, I wouldn’t be lifting weights, trying new hobbies like riding a bike, reading books, meditating, etc. It’s just shitty that to this, even as an adult as 20 years old, I still feel like the middle school kid who got picked on for many things. I have no idea how to deal with it. Mentally I’m still 15 years old. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 12:32 AM |
| -11 | Being not socially skilled, unattractive, bad with girls, and overall beta, how do I deal with family members who are the complete opposite?What’s “right” about them is the fact that they were born attractive, and didn’t get picked on through out their whole school years and probably had good masculine role models in there lives. They didn’t need “the Red Pill”. They didn’t need to read How to Win Friends and Influence People, No. More Mr Nice Guy, or the Rational Male or anything like that to improve their lives. They’re naturals. I on the other hand have to read the Red Pill everyday and try to improve myself more and more while a… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Should I lift now that I’m cutting? I found it hard to do so.But biking seems like a fun hobby to do anyway and will keep active on rest days. And yeah I know they’re low. I have no idea why I couldn’t increase them. Do you think it’s because I did 3x8? | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 09:46 PM |
| 1 | I’ve been hitting the gym since March and I’ve seen very minimal results. What do I do?Do you think I should start doing 5x5 instead of 3x8 | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever gone on such a shitty date that afterwards the girl posted on her social media how shitty her date was? Because I just did, and it was 100% my fault for not handling it well.Honestly, I did notice all of that and i knew her being on the phone was a sign of disinterest. To be honest, I just decided to do a Hail Mary despite the fact that I was 90% sure she going to reject me. Just took my chance. Wasn’t worth it. Thanks for the advice. This is an embarrassing moment of my life and I have no idea how bad it’s going to affect me. I’m not worried about her and what she thinks of me. The only thing I’m worried about is that she maybe posted details of the date online and… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever gone on such a shitty date that afterwards the girl posted on her social media how shitty her date was? Because I just did, and it was 100% my fault for not handling it well.Sad part is, I’ve read lots of TRP material. I read it every single day. Top Posts, side bar, Book of Pook, Rational Male etc. it’s just so hard applying all this stuff. So many rules. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 03:39 PM |
| 1 | I deleted all my social media 2 months ago. It’s been better this way, but sadly social media was the only way I can talk to girls. What do I do?So far my hobbies include reading, meditating, lifting, collecting vinyl, and LEGO building. Plus I go to work and soon will be going back to college. Not sure what other hobbies I can add... | /r/askTRP | 01/07/18 04:50 AM |
| 2 | I deleted all my social media 2 months ago. It’s been better this way, but sadly social media was the only way I can talk to girls. What do I do?How do you increase social circle? Note: I haven’t made friends since 6th grade.... I’m 20 years old now. I’ve been alone for a while. I do hang out with my older cousin and his friends a lot, but I only hang out with them when I’m with my cousin. Point in trying to make, I don’t really have friends/social circle. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/18 01:58 AM |
| 5 | I deleted all my social media 2 months ago. It’s been better this way, but sadly social media was the only way I can talk to girls. What do I do?How do I become an orbiter again? What makes you think I want to become that? I think you missed the point of my post. I deleted my social media because I was being orbiter and validating women online. I literally said in my post that social media is out of the question. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/18 11:50 PM |
| 14 | Nice Guy Theory: Nice Men and Great MenReading books like No More Mr. Nice Guy, The Rational Male, Book of Pook, Models, have helped get rid of my nice guy syndrome. However... I also don’t want to be those douchebag frat boys that you mention. It’s just not in me and it’s not my thing. So if i can’t be a nice guy, and I can’t be the jerk/douchebag, what type of man can I become? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/18 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Would it be fine to lean bulk instead of cutting if I’m skinny fat?Yeah like I said cutting was tough for me! But shouldn’t I gain strength. My lifting numbers a still very weak, having only been lifting 8 weeks. Couldn’t the same be said for cutting? Like shouldn’t you cut with AFTER BUILDING a good muscle foundation from bulking first? | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 11:44 PM |
| 1 | When did you notice that lifting increased you SMV?How many months in was that? | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 07:33 PM |
| 2 | When did you notice that lifting increased you SMV?How many months/years in? | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Lifting 101 : Basics of Hypertrophy ProgrammingThanks the post man! I have a question however and hope you can help me. I workout at home and only have access to dumbbells and a barbell, with a power cage of course with a bench. Can you help me replace the exercise on your post that require machines with ones I can do with either a barbell or dumbbell? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/18 03:42 PM |
| 2 | When did you notice that lifting increased you SMV?Dirty bulk? So you ate fast foods and such and still got results? | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 03:36 PM |
| 5 | When did you notice that lifting increased you SMV?Well, I’m skinny fat, which looks bad at 6’5. So I decided to bulk, well more like lean bulk, instead of cutting. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 03:09 PM |
| 1 | I experimented with a fat girl, and I regret it a lot. This whole thing was a huge slap in the face. I am truly lost.So what positive things can I saw to better my mind? What are some positive thoughts? Also, the book you’re referring to, is it called New Earth or the Power of Now? Looked it up ok Amazon and all I got was Power of snow by that same author you mentioned. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 04:55 AM |
| 2 | I experimented with a fat girl, and I regret it a lot. This whole thing was a huge slap in the face. I am truly lost.I’m actually 6’5! :) People here say it’s an advantage, but I don’t see it. What’s the point of being tall if you’re ugly? But thanks anyways. Right now I’m deadlifting 240, 3x5. I guess for now I should work up to 300, then 400. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 04:16 AM |
| 2 | I experimented with a fat girl, and I regret it a lot. This whole thing was a huge slap in the face. I am truly lost.How do I stop it? Negative thoughts have been with for a long, long time. They’re normal at this point, and honestly at this point I feel like they’re what I deserve. What positive things can I say, when I don’t exactly have things to be positive about. Like I said, I have no friends, I haven’t accomplished much in my life, I suck with woman, etc. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 03:58 AM |
| 3 | I experimented with a fat girl, and I regret it a lot. This whole thing was a huge slap in the face. I am truly lost.What recurring issues are you referring to? | /r/askTRP | 22/04/18 10:33 PM |
| 2 | I’ve been relying on Planter Peanuts for calorie/protein filled snack. Are there any other snack that can help me increase my calorie/protein intake?I do that already. With a cup of oats however. But this is 1000 calories already! I would consider this a meal than a snack. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 05:18 PM |
| 1 | How do I “put myself out there” or expose myself to women in order to begin dating?Yeah I don’t have a workout body yet though. It’s only been 5 weeks. Also, how the hell do I go to parties? I don’t have friends. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 07:13 PM |
| 1 | How do I “put myself out there” or expose myself to women in order to begin dating?How do I improve my game though? I have literally no idea what even means to be honest with you. I’ve look at the Red Pill sidebar and I can’t find the one that refers to improving you game... | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 01:15 AM |
| 1 | How do you know when to trust your gut when it comes to knowing when a girl is interested or not?To deposit my check? Ok got it. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 12:14 AM |
| 5 | “Women can smell desperation a mile away”. How the hell do you not be desperate when you’re doing NoFap and given up porn?Thanks for understanding. It’s for easy for people to tell you that women aren’t that important, and don’t matter much. But it’s hard to know that when you really haven’t sex. It’s hard to understand that. People who tell me women/sex doesn’t matter much can easily get them easily. I really can’t. So maybe that’s why this is a huge deal for me. It’s kind of like us Texans who say Whataburger isn’t that big of a deal, but it’s probably a big deal for people in the north who don’t have any.... hor… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 06:21 PM |
| 4 | “Women can smell desperation a mile away”. How the hell do you not be desperate when you’re doing NoFap and given up porn?Yeah thanks man. What do you think I should do though? Should I give up on women for now, or should at least attempt to connect with them? Attempt to go on dates and such. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 06:02 PM |
| 1 | “Women can smell desperation a mile away”. How the hell do you not be desperate when you’re doing NoFap and given up porn?I know. Yes I am focusing on myself. I am discovering myself more and more. I’ve started to lift. Meditate. I’m reading multiple books. I’ve been putting more hours at work. I’ve began building LEGO sets as a way to escape, and calms my mind down. Even doing these things, I still crave sex. Not sure what to do. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 05:58 PM |
| -6 | “Women can smell desperation a mile away”. How the hell do you not be desperate when you’re doing NoFap and given up porn?I meant monk mode in the sense that I’ve hardly ever been in contact with women. Haha. Not referring to lifting. So you’re saying not to talk to women in years?? | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 03:06 PM |
| 6 | “Women can smell desperation a mile away”. How the hell do you not be desperate when you’re doing NoFap and given up porn?Haha. I’ve been in monk mode since I was born. But thanks anyways. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 02:38 PM |
| 1 | I’m in dire need of help in getting over my ex/oneitis. How do you get over it when you have no dating options?You’re right. Quick question: can you attract women if you don’t have status at all, nor care to? I mean for now I’m lifting, reading, meditating, and a few other indoor hobbies. I don’t really care much about having status or being popular with the community. Is that bad? | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 03:18 AM |
| 2 | I’m in dire need of help in getting over my ex/oneitis. How do you get over it when you have no dating options?The point I’m trying to make is this: he’s fat, he a romantic, constantly tagging in her in romantic posts, he’s everything Red Pill would say is “beta”, and yet he gets the girl. What I’m trying to say is, this guy seems Blue Pill, and yet he managed to attract her. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 02:46 AM |
| 2 | I’m in dire need of help in getting over my ex/oneitis. How do you get over it when you have no dating options?Yeah you’re right. Thing that makes me question my worth though is that one of the guys she’s with is a fat guy whose possibly a soundcloud rapper I think. And tags her in real romantic posts. I guess some girls do like that romantic shit... | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 11:06 PM |
| 1 | I can’t get over being really ugly, making me too damn nervous to approach.Fix what? The ugliness? | /r/askTRP | 22/03/18 02:43 AM |
| 2 | I’m confused when it comes to whether or not you should be chasing women.And how do I do that exactly if I’m ugly? Serious question. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 07:12 PM |
| 1 | I don't think this is working for meDoes it have to be powerlifting? Or just lifting in general? | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 03:16 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about a 20 year old man building legos as a hobby?What do you mean? That I don’t self improve? | /r/askTRP | 16/03/18 03:23 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about a 20 year old man building legos as a hobby?Haha of course not I don’t skip work. No no I actually did this hobby for self improvement. I’ve began reading, meditating 10 minutes a day, and like I said working out. Plus I work a lot more too, and make more money. Been saving these past several weeks and I just bought myself a LG OLED TV. Coming this Monday :) I consider this my relaxation hobby. Something to make me calm and happy. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/18 03:18 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about a 20 year old man building legos as a hobby?Business administration! | /r/askTRP | 16/03/18 02:57 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about a 20 year old man building legos as a hobby?How do I look too masculine then? Other than lifting of course, which I’ve started | /r/askTRP | 16/03/18 02:44 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about a 20 year old man building legos as a hobby?Of course not! I don’t even do the whole set in one day or a few days. Just divide by sections. It’s not my whole life of course. I work, go to school, like I said I recently started working out, and I read a lot too! | /r/askTRP | 16/03/18 02:37 AM |
| 2 | What do you think about a 20 year old man building legos as a hobby?So you’re saying I should tell no one of my LEGOS? | /r/askTRP | 16/03/18 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Anyone here read No More Mr Nice Guy? Does it work?What is the Book of Pook about? Game? Self improvement? | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 05:37 PM |
| 1 | How bad is it if you don’t really do typical masculine activities or hobbies in your life?They’re not very high. I got as far as. Squats - 165 Bench - 115 Military - 90 (this one was a bitch to progress). Row - 95 Deadlifts -215. I think the problem was I wasn’t eating enough. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/18 03:57 PM |
| 1 | How bad is it if you don’t really do typical masculine activities or hobbies in your life?I’ve already done StrongLifts. I did it the first two months of working out. I got good strength gains. But the program became very boring. And too long. I like this one because it’s 3x8 instead of 5x5. Allowing me less rest times, making the workouts shorter. Yes, Mark Rippletoe videos helped me correct my deadlift form. I’ll probably need to watch his squat one too. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/18 03:54 PM |
| 2 | How bad is it if you don’t really do typical masculine activities or hobbies in your life?Wish that I could, but college and works make having multiple hobbies difficult. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/18 03:51 AM |
| 1 | How bad is it if you don’t really do typical masculine activities or hobbies in your life?I’ve heard Mystery Method is outdated. What’s your opinion on that? | /r/askTRP | 07/03/18 02:10 AM |
| 3 | How bad is it if you don’t really do typical masculine activities or hobbies in your life?Yes, I’m going to start lifting today. Full body workout 3x times a week. It’s AWorkoutRoutine’s Beginner Workout Version 2. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/18 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Does The Red Pill mean saying goodbye to emotional sex?Well I said, I’m not very confident. Always been socially awkward thought high school. I’m 20. Always timid around women. I had my first dating experience last year, which helped me a lot with women. But not too much. Me and the girl didn’t have sex. Like I said I only got as far as making out, titty sucking and some fingering. In all honestly right now I have trouble with women because I feel too fucking ugly. I’ve always been called ugly and I know I am. I feel like approaching women is pointl… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Does The Red Pill mean saying goodbye to emotional sex?Ok. Have a good day Mr. Chad. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Does The Red Pill mean saying goodbye to emotional sex?You may be right, about committing to me. However, she didn’t just get out of a LTR. She’s never been in one, like me. Also, at the point I never did ask to be her boyfriend. I was just enjoying the ride and enjoying her company and tits. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 01:48 PM |
| 0 | Should I start with the r/asktrp or r/TheRedPill sidebar?Yeah that’s what I need to focus on, putting in practice. I’ve ready multiple pick up books and I still find a hard time flirting with girls. I’m about to ready Day Bang but I think this will be the last PUA book I read. If not I’ll be just reading books only while being a virgin. And yes, sometime I wonder, how would’ve I ever been aware of my nice Guy Syndrome or what attracts women if I have lived in the 80s where Red Pill or Seduction Reddit Forums hadn’t exist, along with all these great bo… | /r/askTRP | 19/02/18 06:46 PM |
| 0 | Should I start with the r/asktrp or r/TheRedPill sidebar?Already read the Rational Male. Quite a handful. But I loved it nonetheless. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/18 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Any recommendations for a full body workout that I can do 3x a week?I just said that StrongLifts didn’t give me size. You know that StrongLifts has been taken off the r/gainit and r/fitness subs for those reasons a more. And Jesus, I just love how many men love to talk to tough here on this subreddit. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/18 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Any recommendations for a full body workout that I can do 3x a week?I stand by with what I said. Doing the big 5 compound lifts over and over and no accessories is fucking boring. Yes, I was getting stronger. But strength wasn’t my goal, size was. Sure my thighs exploded, but my arms didn’t get bigger at all. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/18 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Tinder girls smell like fish, learn to approach girls irl and not through tinder/Snapchat it’ll pay off trust meWhat if you’re ugly as hell though? | /r/seduction | 19/02/18 03:26 AM |
| 1 | How to practice kissing if I never kissed?Trust me, I had my first kiss just a couple weeks ago. You naturally just get good at it. It’ll come naturally trust me. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/18 04:44 AM |
| 1 | What’s your opinion on “staying in your league” or “lane”?Yeah that’s the reason I’m asking this question. I’m currently reading the Rational Male. Currently on page 250 something. But he does says a few chapters prior or after (I forgot) how looks do matter. “Myth of looks”. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 04:40 PM |
| 1 | On Tinder, should you bother with women who have “just interested in meeting people” on their bio?So what should I say? I don’t have said game, let alone on text. Should I just ask them out and escalate from there? | /r/askTRP | 10/02/18 05:53 PM |
| 1 | On Tinder, should you bother with women who have “just interested in meeting people” on their bio?Well no, just saying, why the hell would anybody download an app famous for dates and hookups just to meet new people. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/18 05:06 PM |
| 2 | On Tinder, should you bother with women who have “just interested in meeting people” on their bio?I thought here in TRP it’s said that losing your virginity isn’t supposed to be this special emotional thing... | /r/askTRP | 10/02/18 05:04 PM |
| 4 | Two nights ago I met with a girl I used to talk to romantically a couple months ago, and I got her back through full on KINO.Excuse me? I live in Texas... | /r/seduction | 05/01/18 10:14 PM |
| 1 | How bad of an idea would it be to go for a close friend of an ex?Nah not really. We went to elementary and middle school together (same with my “ex”). So she’s not a complete stranger. I simply think she’s attractive and want to see if she’s interesting as well. | /r/seduction | 08/12/17 05:42 AM |
| 1 | I’m 19, and I envy other guys my age who have greats lives and are happy. What can I do to fix this?Wait you’re telling me that after 2 months of just going to the gym and getting a good job you got laid? Also, other than going to the gym (which I’ve already started, doing PPL), what are some other things you recommend? | /r/askTRP | 05/12/17 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Stole A BluePill's GirlJust wondering but how do you know you’re meditating? Been doing so for a week and I’m not sure if I’m doing it right? Tips? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/17 07:05 PM |
| 1 | I am a 20 year old male, and I'm a virgin, never had a gf, never kissed, and have been rejected by many girls i've asked out, and I don't how how to ask out some girls I like :( Any advice please?How does meditating help by the way? I’ve been trying to self improve for a while now. Started reading and lifting, and mediation is also recommend but I’m wondering what it even does? | /r/seduction | 14/11/17 04:37 PM |
| 1 | How you know if you’re a boring individual?Skinny fat, yes I wear clothes that fit, and I’m maybe a little nervous but overall I’m not afraid to say what I need to say. I have a date on Wednesday with a new girl. I’m not even sure if it’s a date, but I hope it goes well. I may be “nervous” but I’m not going to let it get to me. Yes, Metal is very personal in my opinion by the way! I don’t talk about it much because I can’t ever explain how bands like “Death” make me feel so much emotion through their riffs. To people it’s just “noise”. | /r/seduction | 12/11/17 10:14 PM |
| 1 | How you know if you’re a boring individual?So what’s not considered boring?? | /r/seduction | 12/11/17 08:34 PM |
| 1 | I find seduction immoral ?How do you know if you’re a boring person? | /r/seduction | 12/11/17 05:05 PM |
| 2 | [Help] How do I make my intentions clear?ASD? What’s that? | /r/seduction | 12/11/17 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Any books on reclaiming you masculinity and being more confident with girls?Models and No More Mr. Nice Guy I’ve read already. I already ordered How to be 3% Man on Amazon and it’s coming on Monday. Ordered the Hobbit while I was at it haha. Way of the Superior Man I’ll read later. Yeah cool thing about these books is that if you try hard enough, you can definitely finish them in a day. But college and work, plus trying to get a workout everyday, and reading other books makes it hard. | /r/seduction | 12/11/17 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Any books on reclaiming you masculinity and being more confident with girls?Damn.... that’s a lot of times. Especially since I’m reading all the Dark fantasy and political books at the same time.. I’m on my second run on Models though..... so theres a start. | /r/seduction | 12/11/17 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Any books on reclaiming you masculinity and being more confident with girls?Is “How to be a 3% Man” good? | /r/seduction | 11/11/17 06:12 PM |
| -6 | Guide for TinderNot fake :) I know my username doesn’t check out by the way haha. | /r/seduction | 07/11/17 09:45 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over a girl when you don’t have any other girls in line for you?By the way she reacted to me dumping her, I would say there was an equal investment even at the end.... Or maybe she just faked her reaction to make it seem like I’m the bad guy who broke her heart. | /r/seduction | 02/11/17 09:58 PM |
| 1 | I got into a big argument with this girl I've been talking to for the first time, I possibly ruined things by being needy. Any advice?Well we haven't had sex because we're both virgins. I'm sure you know that virgin girls care about losing their virginity to that special person. Not just someone who they've gone on dates with. In fact, this is both our first dating experience. Also, all of that is impossible for me. I'm not an attractive or confident guy. I've never talked to a girl before like I have with this girl. I'm not the type of guy to have hot girls in line for me because I'm very ugly. Haha. But I am thinking I just … | /r/seduction | 09/10/17 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to build attraction through physical touching between you too even if you all haven't talked about "making a move"?Well I'll let you know. We went on a date last night. It. Was. Amazing. Different than most. But let me start off by disappointing you. I didn't kiss her. But! We went around town going to different stores. One of them was a Halloween store. She said I'm scared to go in a joking way. Then, as I reach for her hand, I said I'll hold your hand so you get get scared, in a joking way of course. She smiled and she held on. And man, we were holding hands the whole time. As pathetic as this sounds, it w… | /r/seduction | 24/09/17 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible to build attraction through physical touching between you too even if you all haven't talked about "making a move"?Thank you sir! I really liked your comment. Sometimes I hesitate to post on here because I've realized that people on here are people who have friends with benefits and are into women who have sex on the first date. And as gay as this sounds , I'm not into that. And I don't think she's into that either. I care more about emotionally connecting with a girl and making love rather than banging the hottest girl out there that I won't ever see again. I'd rather date a girl who waits to have sex with … | /r/seduction | 22/09/17 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to build attraction through physical touching between you too even if you all haven't talked about "making a move"?Pretty amazing huh? You would think, that with all the feminist post you see on social media, that they would actually be offended if you did try to fuck them. I guess eventually reality does kick in. Maybe I worried to much about being a gentlemen. Anyways, I just hope that I haven't completely ruined. We're going on date 7 this weekend. I'm definitely doing a lot of touching. I can't screw this up. | /r/seduction | 22/09/17 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to build attraction through physical touching between you too even if you all haven't talked about "making a move"?Did you really make this mistakes? Like in the beginning, how bad were you? | /r/seduction | 22/09/17 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to build attraction through physical touching between you too even if you all haven't talked about "making a move"?Haha I don't watch pornography. And I really doubt it. I strongly fantasize about women and never men, unless they're crossdressers ;) | /r/seduction | 22/09/17 03:14 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible to build attraction through physical touching between you too even if you all haven't talked about "making a move"?Yes of course! I'm obviously going to start touching on our next date. The next date we're going on will be at a place perfect for having my arm around her or holding her hand. It's a place with a very romantic vibe. :) And yeah you're right, 6 dates without touching is horrible but I didn't know that. I didnt understand how dating works and still don't. This is my first dating experience ever. So I guess I was waaaay to careful. But I'm glad she understands. Thanks for all the advice. | /r/seduction | 22/09/17 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to build attraction through physical touching between you too even if you all haven't talked about "making a move"?Sorry sir. I didn't mean to give you lip haha. But the way I see it on phone I did put 19. And no. Look we've only gone on dates. Movies, ice cream, pizza, etc. we haven't gone to each other's houses or anything. Like I said, I haven't made a move besides fun little touching. I did touch her hair a bit and complimented it. She smiled when I did it haha. And I mean I'm sure she probably thinks of sex and probably does want to have sex with me. What I'm saying is, she'll probably want to take thin… | /r/seduction | 22/09/17 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to build attraction through physical touching between you too even if you all haven't talked about "making a move"?Um..... 19? I just said it... | /r/seduction | 22/09/17 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to build attraction through physical touching between you too even if you all haven't talked about "making a move"?Same age. | /r/seduction | 21/09/17 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to build attraction through physical touching between you too even if you all haven't talked about "making a move"?The thing is though, she hasn't had sex. Neither have I. I don't think she's the type of person to have sex with a guy that's not even her boyfriend. And as of now we're not official yet. I think by "make a move" she meant hold her hand or kiss her. | /r/seduction | 21/09/17 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to build attraction through physical touching between you too even if you all haven't talked about "making a move"?Touching. Like holding hands or yeah maybe even kiss her. | /r/seduction | 21/09/17 10:29 PM |
| 1 | She asked me why I haven't made a move. I didn't know what to do other than be honest with her. Is this a bad thing?I suffer form low self esteem and confidence. Plus inexperience with girls. she's the first girl I've ever had a good conversation with. | /r/seduction | 11/09/17 12:58 AM |
| 1 | She asked me why I haven't made a move. I didn't know what to do other than be honest with her. Is this a bad thing?So I messed up huh? | /r/seduction | 10/09/17 05:08 AM |
| 1 | She asked me why I haven't made a move. I didn't know what to do other than be honest with her. Is this a bad thing?But is the damage bad? The fact that she even had to mention I feel like I've ruined things. | /r/seduction | 10/09/17 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Building up Kissing Confidence - The Cheek BrushHey thanks! Maybe you saw my post? Sadly I didn't kiss the girl. But I did do a lot of touching. Had my arm around her, tickled her, caressed her hair. It was fun. We were both physically flirting a lot. | /r/seduction | 07/09/17 10:50 PM |
| 1 | I need some help building up some confidence to finally kiss this girl.Sorry to say that I didn't do it. But we did lots of physical contact this date. Had my arm around her. Tickled her bit. Touched her hair and complimented it. Now that there's been more touching, I feel like I'm close to really kissing her | /r/seduction | 07/09/17 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Do women really care about high social status?This may sound lame as hell but do you think making puzzles, cooking, and building legos count as a hobby? I've been wanting to do those things, especially lego building. | /r/seduction | 04/09/17 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Do women really care about high social status?How do I do that? Going out and building a cool life? | /r/seduction | 04/09/17 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Do women really care about high social status?Any other books you recommend? | /r/seduction | 03/09/17 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Do women really care about high social status?What type of stuff do you? I'm interested because I want to develop hobbies myself. | /r/seduction | 03/09/17 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Do women really care about high social status?I mean.... not really a matter of confidence if you ask me. How does someone with no friends not have low social status? | /r/seduction | 03/09/17 10:48 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I'm going to be beta male forever. There's no hope, is there?I will. I need something to take my mind off these horrible self loathing and self pity thoughts I have everyday. I'm going to start playing more guitar as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/17 01:39 AM |
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