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Building PowerTheMensRealm/r/TheRedPill20/02/19 03:12 PM
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Too true. To achieve this, achieve your biggest dreams. Be the ultimate version of yourself and live life on your terms.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 09:41 PM
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She's pulling you by your nose. Withdraw all contact from her. Seriously, do this. From then one, use her only for whatever it is that you want out of her. And yeah, you probably shouldn't be dating the girl from work, but that's topic for another time.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 09:17 PM
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What do you do for living? What are your hobbies?
/r/askTRP14/06/17 09:10 PM
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Fear is a natural response to unfamiliar situations. You're not special because you are afraid of sexual situations with women. My advice to you is simple: Keep going. Keep putting yourself in new, uncomfortable situations. There's plenty of threads and advice on the sidebars about how to act in such situations. Use that information and experience and eventually you will surpass your fears.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 09:08 PM
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Keep her in check. Do notify her if you find her behavior too slutty or provoking. But just remember and be prepared that she can cheat at any moment, you will breathe much easier in your life.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 09:40 PM
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You can still eat clean and gain some weight, when you're able, get back to training. Anyway, what's your injury?
/r/askTRP13/06/17 09:33 PM
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You need some mass brother.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 09:31 PM
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It's mostly bad BUT, It can be a powerful social tool. If you're using it properly and not compulsively it's pretty okay and not time consuming. And besides, you will have a photo album that you can look back on.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 09:29 PM
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I understand what you are saying, the author was in his 40s and it seemed to work for him. As for your original post, i would suggest taking your hobbies as a side job and maybe one day you can turn it into a living, either way, more power to you mate.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 09:35 PM
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But there is no pressure, what is more valuable then living a life that you want?
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 09:25 PM
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The only way you will cure instant gratification is by abstaining from sources that bring IG. It is one of the biggest enemies to self-improvement and discipline and you need to cut it out of your life. It will help with your gym problem too.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 09:21 PM
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I'll be willing to help you if you want ^
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 09:14 PM
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She's always gonna be fed some new crazy ideas by the mainstream media such as that Ted Talk. Just ignore her and do what you feel like. Don't commit just because she wants you to commit, it's dumb.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 09:08 PM
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I believe that the only way you can find a "real calling" is to try out many different things. Even those you might not like on the first sight. When you do find something that you genuinely enjoy, it will be hard to turn it into a lifestyle, no doubt about that. But at least you will have that passion in your heart while working towards it. I just think it's silly to expect a 20-year old to pick a major in college, and to expect to know what he wants to do in life. This is so very true. There i…
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 08:59 PM
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You are exactly that, a BETA, in that relationship. She probably got used to you over the years and seeks new challenges. Dump her (before she dumps you), you can't have a girl who lost attraction to you, but at the same time you need to work on yourself as you clearly became too complacent when it comes to that relationship. If you do decide to stay, stop trying to keep the conversations going or going for kisses, just play it cold and let her TRY to entertain you into being with her.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 08:49 PM
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You simply need a mission and purpose in your life. If you had a higher purpose, a goal of sorts, you wouldn't be acting like a bitch over this girl. Set your goals, as high as you want them, then go ahead and set some more, meet some new people, see some new places. If you build a healthy life with purpose, you will not be laying on your bed crying over a girl.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 08:42 PM
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You shouldn't be afraid of how you feel. Feel free to always say no if you don't like the idea.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 08:34 PM
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She does all of that with fer friends anyway. She doesn't need someone to tell stories to. She wants a man who has a story of his own and who is willing to lead her into something that he finds fun and interesting. This does not necessarily mean you keep talking to her about yourself 24/7, quite the opposite, that actual backfires. But instead, engage in activities that you find thrilling. Take her to a shooting range (if that's your thing) rather into some boring cafe for a snack because that's…
/r/askTRP08/06/17 07:20 PM
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By ignoring her boring shit, you keep her within your frame and your topics of interest. If you find everything she says interesting then yeah there's something wrong with you because i certainly don't give a fuck about that time when she and her friends got drunk. But mainly, find out what you want to talk with her about, and keep her talking about those things. Continue conversations out of those topics, don't start something random.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 06:55 PM
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Thank you for sharing your story with us. You discovered AWALT long time ago but you only internalized it know that you know about it. Funny how women work, isn't it? x)
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 05:23 PM
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It seems to me that you have become complacent in your life. Having an overall successful life (career, relationships, love) can lead to that, especially when you bring in marriage. You get to a point where you have few interesting things in your life because it's all repetitive safe and secure in that place. I would suggest you to shake some things up in your life, it helps that you don't have any kids yet. Get some younger, crazier friends and hang out with them. If possible have a career chan…
/r/askTRP08/06/17 05:10 PM
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Enjoy her fruitfulness. It's a great opportunity with no risk.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 04:33 PM
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https://illimitablemen.com/2017/02/23/how-to-stop-feeling-tired/ I suggest you take a deep look into this article. If you have that option, do TRT, shit works like magic if you are struggling with your T.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 04:30 PM
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It honestly amazes me how screwed up today's men are. There is a serious lack of leadership in MOST males. Maybe it's lack of a strong father figure, social conditioning or media, well perhaps all of it. Men need to wake up and take leadership roles before world goes to complete shit. Wake up and own it fellas.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 03:27 PM
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And is it ever ok to say one isn't ready for that route/essentially wanting to be 'single' (desp not having that convo yet)? Of course it's okay, it's the only way to do it. She will be hurt but it's the only way. Make sure she knows and understands that you do not wish to go that route yet.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 03:23 PM
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You simply haven't convinced them that you have changed. If you are applying so called RP principles then they will be treating you differently. Simply work harder on improving yourself and having an alpha frame and you will see improvements. If possible, move to another city, perhaps temporary during a summer break. You will gain confidence in the new circle and come back to your town as a new man.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 02:16 PM
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Your parents want the best for you, they want you to succeed. However, if your version of "success" does not include being a hard-working, straight A student, then you have to explain them that you are a man with your own free will and they can not control you in that regard. You are guilty of your own conscience. To me, you clearly haven't adopted your own sense of what is right or wrong (Morals) so you are still trying to satisfy your parents even though subconsciously you want to be doing som…
/r/askTRP08/06/17 02:13 PM
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Her clock is ticking, she is almost 30 and she is looking for a long term provider already. I would never advise a man to go against his feelings and do something just for the sake of his girl. She is basically forcing you to marry her(or commit to a super serious relationship like that) and if you are not willing to go in that direction then tell her so. In the end it's your decision and you should follow your guts. If you don't feel like she's the "one" or simply don't want to go that route ye…
/r/askTRP08/06/17 02:07 PM
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As you said at the end, by working on yourself and improving, you are increasing your dread game. She will have to work harder to keep you away from other women. So your answer is yes, she will. Step your game up, not for her, but for your own sake. It will also work wonders for your relationship.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 11:54 AM
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Dump her and call police if she uses violence against you. Talk to your parents about it first, make sure they understand before she tries to control them to her advantage.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 11:47 AM
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Honestly, you're looking too much into this. You were the one who arranged the party to play Fifa, so it is obvious that a controller is needed. I don't think that he had any ill intentions of disrespecting you.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 11:32 AM
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Get busy in life, mate. If you are busy enough and have meaningful life, a girl should not be such a high priority in it. It will allow you not to get attached to her as you have other things to worry about. After all, she's just a girl and you're just dating, there is absolutely no reason you should be treating her like a snowflake.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 11:18 AM
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Yes you are, most likely. Did you even test this? You are asking us if the girls are attracted without even going into the field and testing it our yourself. Approach some girls, display some confidence that you desire and deserve them. If it doesn't work then come again and ask a different question.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 11:15 AM
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Can you elaborate some more on this? You suggested his place and he called your over but you find it commanding or what?
/r/askTRP08/06/17 11:12 AM
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It's the human psychology. You won't settle for lesser if you know you can have better. Ignore them until you feel the need to do something with them again.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 11:06 AM
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Mate, you have to be more commanding than that. Don't just "Ask" her to dance / go somewhere. Say something along the lines of "Crap it's my leg day, i need to exercise, let's go dance" in a playful tone. You have to have a frame such as "This is MY date, I will have fun." and she will be following your lead. She event suggested you that she wants a douchy you, keep note of such things and use them to your advantage.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 11:11 PM
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When texting, just play it smart and don't go overtly sexual. Keep that shit for the dates and escalate with touches/looks/pokes until you get her to kiss you.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 11:04 PM
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Are you not able to get hard or what? Can you clarify on that?
/r/askTRP07/06/17 10:29 PM
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Man up. If nothing drop everything and go in the woods for the a few months, drop the modern world and see it for what it really is. Then accept it and go beat the game that you're set up to play.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 10:24 PM
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Keep escalating, she's clearly interested just lacks your conviction. She will let you kiss her again and eventually progress onto other things.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 10:22 PM
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Keep learning, keep analyzing. It takes a few years with experience to internalize all of the RP truths, so good luck to you.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 08:29 AM
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Honestly, I'd say it's the best to give it up completely, I'm doing the same myself and it worked wonders for me.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 10:17 PM
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Go for it man, just avoid professional pornography. It's very unrealistic and you will be fucked up by it. They use all methods possible to make you crave more, fuck that.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 10:11 PM
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I should've targeted girlfriend relationships specifically because that's what i meant, my bad. Don't forget your socials and family, they are important.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 09:57 PM
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Not a relationships material, please don't do this to yourself. Unless you can totally tell yourself that nothing long term is ever gonna come out of it and you can live with that, then sure do whatever, enjoy while it lasts.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 09:52 PM
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It took a lot. You have to build all the areas of your life so that your relationships feel really small compared to the whole of it. Only then you can avoid failing into the beta mindset traps.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 09:45 PM
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During the conversation, try to remember some details about her home (Like if she has a pet or something) then when you're about to leave say something like "How about you show me that pet of yours?". Good luck.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 09:32 PM
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Best way to "save" your money is to invest in something that could bring you a passive income in the future, meaning something that gets you money with you having to take care of it. If you can manage to invest your money like that, instead of just saving it in bank or whatever, then do that. Spend on clothes & fashion as a way to bolster your public image and showcase your style, this can help you increase your social value and improve your life in the future.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 07:55 PM
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It does not matter what she thinks, mate. Treat her the way you want (as a future plate or girlfriend if so) and if you display confidence that you do think of her as just that, then she too will start to believe it. That's how you escalate on the LJBF shit test.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 07:49 PM
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And what is your higher purpose if you so criticize his?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 03:16 PM
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I know this may sound and be cold but there are plenty of girls out there for me. There is nothing cold about what you did. Find a replacement and move on, if she is any serious about your relationship, she will cease all contact with that guy. But, you need to work on your frame mate, and never stop improving yourself, it's the only way to maintain any "relationships".
/r/askTRP01/06/17 05:04 PM
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Well that's your problem and it's very simple. 10% of the top men get 90% of the women. You, my friend, need to work on your SMV. And it's a very fixable thing, but you need to work hard on yourself. You can fix your looks by lifting, getting fitter clothes, better haircut, skin etc. As for the genetic deficiencies, money may help you with some of them (Fixing teeth or whatever). You can work on your social skills just as easily. I'd suggest taking a rational approach to this and be very honest …
/r/askTRP01/06/17 08:29 AM
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What do you think is your estimate SMV? How would you rate your self from 1-10 if you judged looks, social skills & how interesting your life is?
/r/askTRP01/06/17 08:14 AM
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