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| 7 | This is an important, straight-forward explanation that anyone who may be new here needs to listen to. It may be a hard pill to swallow at first, but really you should recognize this realization as your own freedom from a system designed to oppress you.I am so sorry that you experienced that. He was so wrong for treating you like less than a human being. You deserve so much more than that NVM. He is far below the LVM threshold. I wish you all of the healing and self-love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 06:51 PM |
| 3 | “I don’t even like banana laffy taffys”LLLMMAAAOOO damn she gorgeous AND funny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 05:56 AM |
| 14 | FDS will be increasing the amount of low quality memes/videos we remove at our discretionAgreed. Posting their content here just gives them a platform they don't deserve. There are plenty of other spaces where incels can post their nonsensical garble -- this isn't one of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Had no idea how common this wasOne rule I have had for myself ever since I first became an adult and started dating for real is that I ONLY cook for a man if he does ALL of the dishes and clean the kitchen afterward in exchange. I am great at cooking and I make complicated dishes from scratch. If you want that effort, then you need to put in some effort too. Men still tell me they want to marry me after they eat my meals regardless of this 50/50 arrangement. As they should. So glad I maintained that rule all along, even befor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 04:13 AM |
| 22 | I mean...isn’t it obvious?! Grandpa is gna show up.There was a post where some guy asked a woman out and said he knows of a nice field he can take her to (and if I remember correctly, the reason he was posting about it is because he was confused why she ghosted him). Not only is it a low effort date in the first place, it's also terrifying. What kind of woman is comfortable going out to a field with a stranger? Sure, let me take the gamble that you're not an axe murderer or a violent rapist. Since that post, field dates have become kind of an in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 06:33 PM |
| 24 | Women only have to worry about potentially ending up in a situation like numerous previous women who were beaten, raped and killed by the men they were dating, but yeah, men must have it worse... 🙄Yeah, I live in a city that is a world destination and is one of the main capitals of sex trafficking abductions. I often think about how it'd be a lot less cruel if a man just killed me instead of drugging me and selling me into sex slavery for the foreseeable future. Like, murder is one of the better scenarios if something goes wrong. But men are nervous about paying for a plate of fucking pasta. What a disgrace to the other 50% of the population. Who raised those men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 01:43 PM |
| 54 | Women only have to worry about potentially ending up in a situation like numerous previous women who were beaten, raped and killed by the men they were dating, but yeah, men must have it worse... 🙄lmao rightttt? Broke ass bitch afraid to spend $50 on a meal. This is why you're single, dumbass. Thanks for tweeting it to the world so every woman knows to avoid you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 08:01 AM |
| 240 | Women only have to worry about potentially ending up in a situation like numerous previous women who were beaten, raped and killed by the men they were dating, but yeah, men must have it worse... 🙄This guy must be training for the fucking Olympics with the mental gymnastics he just performed to blame women for the abuse we experience: http://imgur.com/a/bWiHHT6 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 05:46 AM |
| 403 | Women only have to worry about potentially ending up in a situation like numerous previous women who were beaten, raped and killed by the men they were dating, but yeah, men must have it worse... 🙄If you want to be disgusted, take a look at the rest of the thread with dozens of dense, shallow responses from NVM: https://twitter.com/OfficialFBMA/status/1309687201148669954?s=19 And yet people still wonder why FDS is so rapidly growing... This is what we're up against. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 05:22 AM |
| 6 | Prime example of the type we don't give our valuable presence to. A date with a woman is worth far more than $18.75. He had the audacity to call himself a "gentleman" after all that! 😂No. I was curious too so before I posted it to FDS I already went to her page searching to high heaven for any type of part 2, even just her talking about it. Nothing yet. At first that made me wonder if it was someone else's video that she reposted, but no, she has plenty of other videos of her talking straight to the camera (selfie-style) and the voice 100% matches. She hasn't responded to any comments so it kind of looks like she hasn't been online since it blew up. It now has over 9,000 comm… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 04:58 PM |
| 9 | Prime example of the type we don't give our valuable presence to. A date with a woman is worth far more than $18.75. He had the audacity to call himself a "gentleman" after all that! 😂The mutual male friend sounds like a whiny child. This misconception that women who only date men who treat them must be nothing but useless leeches is so laughable to me. Baby, I have my own money. Why? Because I'm a high value woman. I'm a successful businesswoman and entrepreneur. I'm skilled and knowledgeable and yet constantly educating myself. I work in the public eye and my work is respected by many. I have a full social life. I can hold a stimulating conversation on a very wide variety o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 10:07 AM |
| 13 | Prime example of the type we don't give our valuable presence to. A date with a woman is worth far more than $18.75. He had the audacity to call himself a "gentleman" after all that! 😂Omg, I was wondering how long it would take for someone to point out the nails. I could already tell he's selfish in the bedroom by those unkempt claws. She dodged a bullet on multiple levels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 05:08 AM |
| 17 | Prime example of the type we don't give our valuable presence to. A date with a woman is worth far more than $18.75. He had the audacity to call himself a "gentleman" after all that! 😂I agree and I do the same. Frankly it doesn't even pique my interest in the first place if he's not asking in a way that clearly indicates he wants to impress me. I'm a busy woman and I'm not trying to go out unless it's worth my time. However, judging by the mental gymnastics he's doing in this video to convince himself and his date that his behavior is normal and "gentleman," I wouldn't be surprised if he's manipulating about how he asked her out as well. I don't trust him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 04:50 AM |
| 30 | Prime example of the type we don't give our valuable presence to. A date with a woman is worth far more than $18.75. He had the audacity to call himself a "gentleman" after all that! 😂Yeah, that's part of the reason I decided I should post this here in FDS. I've never been in that position yet, but watching this video made me imagine having to spend even one more moment with that scrote while I wait for my card to be charged... I'm bringing extra cash from now on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:40 AM |
| 72 | Prime example of the type we don't give our valuable presence to. A date with a woman is worth far more than $18.75. He had the audacity to call himself a "gentleman" after all that! 😂Even if you didn't feel threatened, sticking around to argue is not worth your valuable time. I'd let him know I'm not interested in being friends with him either and tell him to have a nice day. It's more than he deserves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:32 AM |
| 253 | Prime example of the type we don't give our valuable presence to. A date with a woman is worth far more than $18.75. He had the audacity to call himself a "gentleman" after all that! 😂Found this gem on TikTok. The comments are somewhat split, but every comment made by a woman saying she "never assumes and always pays half," has a ton of replies telling her that's PickMeisha behavior and telling her she deserves better than that. After scrolling through hundreds of the comments, it's looking like our FDS mindset is the majority. More women are catching on all the time. We love to see it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:22 AM |
| 3 | Don’t be Bob the Builder for a man.Oh okay, duh, I totally recognize that title now. Pretty sure it's suggested in the recommended reading section of the FDS handbook and already on my Goodreads "want to read" list for that reason. Thanks for clarifying that for me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 05:32 AM |
| 3 | Don’t be Bob the Builder for a man.Who/what is Bancroft? I just googled but all of the results on the first few pages are about a TV series or something. Could you please point me in the correct direction? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 04:15 AM |
| 35 | And I'd rather shit in my hands and then clap than be in the same room as a dude like this.For real, somebody send Courtney the link to FDS real quick. She belongs with us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 04:12 AM |
| 3 | In MemoriamI think it's a great idea, but my second thought is, how much would it increase the amount of rape? Men already do not respect our sexual boundaries. It's so scary to think about how grim our situation is as women. We can't let fear stop us from fighting, though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:32 PM |
| 40 | Broke: financially, spiritually and mentallyEmotionally, too. This is such an important distinction. Tons of men who have their own money are still mentally underdeveloped, and that is equally as draining as a man who is financially broke. We don't allow men in our lives who empty our own full cups -- only men who add to the cup and overflow it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:04 PM |
| 9 | Saw this video and was immediately reminded of my ex-LVM’s childish temper tantrums... can anyone else relate? 😂😂Bruhhhh. The slightest inconvenience and my ex would walk around the house doing EVERYTHING like this. Most of the time it was some super inconsequential shit that didn't even affect his life at all, yet there he was practically destroying the entire fucking city single-handed because some petty thing put him "in a bad mood." He used to storm off to the bathroom and sit on the toilet playing on his phone for an hour when he was "mad" too. I'd love to know how he would wipe his ass in those moods… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:49 AM |
| 14 | Count the red flags in his profile ugh...Count the red flags? Ahem, I'd like to add an eloquent quote from Mean Girls here: "The limit does not exist." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:40 AM |
| 18 | I know he fuckin’ lyin’ 😂😂😂😂LMAAAAOOO as soon as that video started playing I was cracking TF UPPPPP Why is his head so big but his face so small? His bobbleheaded ass had a bad dream and had the audacity to upload a whole ass storytime about it to YouTube with his CashApp and PayPal in the description... STOPPPP 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:30 AM |
| 28 | I know he fuckin’ lyin’ 😂😂😂😂NOT A MILK DUD 😂😂 i'm cackling over the accuracy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:18 AM |
| 37 | I know he fuckin’ lyin’ 😂😂😂😂I grew up in an extremely devout Christian community (to the point of being almost cult-like) and dudes like this always projected a holier-than-thou image publicly but then would pressure every girl they "courted" to fuck them before marriage to make sure they're a compatible sex slave. It was such a predictable pattern every damn time but for some reason the ladies were always surprised when their boundaries were pushed, as if they were magically going to be the special one that would be respe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:16 AM |
| 20 | Lets throw FDS an all day Birthday Party when we reach 100k subscribersYessss, a champagne tasting for all the ladies to celebrate knowing their own value and maintaining high standards to match! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:11 AM |
| 11 | Lets throw FDS an all day Birthday Party when we reach 100k subscribersI have a brain like a sieve Hey girl, be nicer to yourself! No negative self-talk. If we won't allow others to put us down, we shouldn't put ourselves down either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:09 AM |
| 30 | Lets throw FDS an all day Birthday Party when we reach 100k subscribersCelebrate! It’s a community of 100,000 women who have your back. Ugh, you're so right! This comment got me so hyped! It's so nice to have a sense of community with women who have this mindset. I wish we could figure out how to have some sort of vetted Zoom party without worrying about the scrotes invading. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:06 AM |
| 12 | Don't fall for "You're the only one who understands me."It turns out, my emotional intelligence only mattered when he wanted me to pump up his ego, not when it came to resolving differences/talking about issues. God, yes. The most infuriating part about my ex is that he used to compliment my emotional intelligence and logical reasoning skills to high heaven when I was having important discussions/arguments with others, but as soon as it was time to address HIM, he'd always get super upset, overreact, avoid it, shift blame, manipulate and play the vic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:00 AM |
| 3 | Dear Reddit LibFems: Nobody died and made your self important asses the gatekeepers of feminism. We're not "fake feminists" because you don't agree with us, nor are you as inclusive and non-judgmental of women's choices as you pretend you are.That would be GLORIOUS. Maybe one day we'll get there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 04:14 AM |
| 11 | Dear Reddit LibFems: Nobody died and made your self important asses the gatekeepers of feminism. We're not "fake feminists" because you don't agree with us, nor are you as inclusive and non-judgmental of women's choices as you pretend you are.lmao seriously it sounds like something one of us would write as literal satire, to demonstrate exactly what we would NEVER settle for and the entire reason we follow FDS. It's too perfect/funny. I feel bad that there are women out there living that actual existence and thinking that's all there is for them in life. What in the entire fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:28 AM |
| 50 | Dear Reddit LibFems: Nobody died and made your self important asses the gatekeepers of feminism. We're not "fake feminists" because you don't agree with us, nor are you as inclusive and non-judgmental of women's choices as you pretend you are.Right there with you, girl. I also recently found a doctor who agreed to sterilize me even though I'm young and childless. I've been to four other OB/GYNs and have been eye rolled and laughed at for even asking. Then recently I finally ran across a male doctor that staunchly believes it's a woman's right to be able to make their own choices about their bodies. I can't believe how firm he is in his position. No exceptions, no hoops to jump through, just -- "That's what you want? You've thought ab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:26 AM |
| 10 | Dear Reddit LibFems: Nobody died and made your self important asses the gatekeepers of feminism. We're not "fake feminists" because you don't agree with us, nor are you as inclusive and non-judgmental of women's choices as you pretend you are.If we suggest self responsibility and actionable empowerment as a solution instead of perpetual victimhood politics and pointless ineffectual thinkpieces, we hate women and blame them for all the problems in the world. This right here is exactly what sets this subreddit apart from other communities, above and beyond. Venting about oppression is important for mental health at certain times in order to be able to free those emotions and clear headspaces, but living in a perpetual circle of groveli… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:09 AM |
| 19 | They want to be seen as providers and protectors, yet seem to dislike girls who are attracted to and needful of their money. What exactly do they want?Or, if you're like me, groomed by both simultaneously! So glad I woke up when I was a teenager and secretly told myself internally that it's okay if I don't want to grow up to be a husband's obedient servant, and it's perfectly fine that I plan on growing up to be an independent bad bitch businesswoman instead. ...And that latter part is exactly what I did! :) Looking back as an adult and realizing just how immoral and heinous the abusive control and brainwashing was makes me feel sick to my sto… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 09:38 PM |
| 4 | Men not getting you is not on you.lmao. Emotionally constipated. What a beautiful analogy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 07:33 AM |
| 12 | Men not getting you is not on you.Pun intended? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 02:33 AM |
| 10 | More reasons why women need to value their ability to serve a bitch and put men in their place!Man, don't I know it. I've got stories for DAYS of how male doctors have blatantly disrespected me and disregarded me. Rolling their eyes at me, laughing at me, ignoring me, all straight to my face, and then when I call them out on their poor conduct and ask them why they're addressing a patient that way, they just nervously laugh and shrug. Disgusting. I'm still suffering from several chronic issues (that I have medical documentation for, scans and tests that show visual proof that the issues a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:53 PM |
| 8 | More reasons why women need to value their ability to serve a bitch and put men in their place!Ugh, so sorry that happened to you. It doesn't help that the levels of false arrogance and god-complex that doctors carry are off the CHARTS. Do not allow yourself to feel anything other than justified for fighting for your own truth. Advocate for yourself like you would advocate for someone you love, because you deserve that. The doctor has everything to lose in this situation and you have nothing to lose, only justice to gain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:34 PM |
| 44 | NEVER AGAINDude seriously, why are they always so yellow it looks like they pissed on them? And why do they expect ME to sleep on them? And why do they not even put pillowcases on half the time? Ugh. After a breakup, I decided that shitty bedding is absolutely a deal breaker in a man. Not sure why I didn't recognize the correlation between shitty bedding and shit value men before that. I have kept my own clean fluffy pillows with satin silk pillowcases in my car for almost a decade because even when I deci… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 09:42 AM |
| 3 | The best part is that all the women who conceive this way can only have daughters 😌LMAO I am rolling at this reply... When I was reading the comment above I was thinking, "Hmm, is that why every man I've ever dated has acted like he's suffering from Stage 4 cancer coupled with pneumonia when actually he just caught a common cold?" Dropped my eyes 2 millimeters and there your comment was. Yup, I'm not alone. Men are fucking babies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 10:18 PM |
| 9 | Whether you agree or disagree with WAP as a song, this is really an interesting analysis:Same! I love seeing media where women express themselves in ways that men obsessively try to control and convince them not to. The angry hornet's nest of men who clearly demonstrate that they're feeling powerless over us gives me a WAP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 04:15 PM |
| 5 | Whether you agree or disagree with WAP as a song, this is really an interesting analysis:The thing that you're missing is that no one is forcing you to be here or think a certain way. The entire purpose of this sub is to have a dedicated place to express and discuss a specific mindset and lifestyle. If a post is not relevant to the clearly defined topic, then it doesn't belong in this sub, it belongs in a different one that matches that thought. You wouldn't go to a cat-only subreddit, post about dogs, and then get mad and call it a cult when they remove your irrelevant posts. You w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Whether you agree or disagree with WAP as a song, this is really an interesting analysis:Who said anything about Nicki Minaj in the thread you were replying to? Let's avoid pitting women against other women unnecessarily. It's not a competition. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 04:04 PM |
| 9 | Whether you agree or disagree with WAP as a song, this is really an interesting analysis:She doesn't even write her own lyrics for fuck's sake. I wish people would stop glorifying women in hip hop/music in general who don't write their own music and are essentially just marketing puppets. Like, not only are her lyrics awful, but she only vocalizes them because someone else tells her to. Nothing about that is empowering to a woman. The whole reason I'm a fan of Meg is because she is self-made and self-written. She was self-represented as her own agent and manager throughout going to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 03:58 PM |
| 16 | Whether you agree or disagree with WAP as a song, this is really an interesting analysis:Yeah, I couldn't get on board with that part of the post either. I enjoy media that showcases women owning their sexuality in that way because the world constantly tries to convince us to hush-hush and be nice and innocent, or at least focus on the man's pleasure. I deserve to enjoy my own arousal and I deserve to enjoy telling a man what he needs to do in order to pleasure me. Seeing other women do it publicly brings me joy because it normalizes woman-focused sexual pleasure. Especially as some… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 03:53 PM |
| 3 | Successful woman is making $200k+, her husband willingly chose to get a job in a field that would destroy his wife's entire carrier, despite she asked him not to. Now he accused her of being selfish and put money before their marriage. LOLNailed it. This is a very important distinction. It sounds like she has a lot of emotions she still needs to process and she will recognize the truest form of reality eventually. It pains me that she even felt the need to ask, "Am I the asshole?" God, I could scream from the rooftops that she's not. Glad she dumped that idiot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 04:50 PM |
| 5 | Successful woman is making $200k+, her husband willingly chose to get a job in a field that would destroy his wife's entire carrier, despite she asked him not to. Now he accused her of being selfish and put money before their marriage. LOLYup, totally agree. The whole thing sounds malicious as hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 02:50 AM |
| 6 | Successful woman is making $200k+, her husband willingly chose to get a job in a field that would destroy his wife's entire carrier, despite she asked him not to. Now he accused her of being selfish and put money before their marriage. LOLI went to her page and read other comments she made... She said what makes it his dream job is the overall outline of responsibilities/benefits/skills to be used, not the job title or the organization itself. It's the winning combination of all the factors he's been looking for. She also said the reason his path never seemed to be an issue is because they never thought he would ever be hired by that particular company (I guess it's a very direct competitor) because his skills and education are b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 02:38 AM |
| 15 | Met a guy I thought was an HVM. We really hit it off. He wasn’t really texting me after the fact but we’d already made future plans. Trusted my gut, did some digging, and found his wife and 3 kids. Last kid born in May. This was part of our communication after I found out."I can't focus if my life could be destroyed at any moment" Oh boohoo, doesn't seem like he had any trouble focusing the entire time he was cheating and manipulating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 01:04 AM |
| 15 | Successful woman is making $200k+, her husband willingly chose to get a job in a field that would destroy his wife's entire carrier, despite she asked him not to. Now he accused her of being selfish and put money before their marriage. LOLTruly the type of woman I aspire to be. The fact that she said she loves him but did not hesitate to slap him with divorce papers with the quickness is beautiful. I am so overwhelmed by that level of audacity, though. He continued the interview process behind her back, against her wishes, completely ignoring the destruction to her entire career, and then blamed HER as the "selfish" one?! After she already offered to support him as an unemployed bum by choice OR fund a second round of education? … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:45 AM |
| 2 | IckI had this epiphany that the type of guys who complain that a woman is going to be loose after being with several guys might be concerned that other guys have bigger dicks than them and it's stretching her out lol. It screams insecurity and toxic masculinity to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 10:06 PM |
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