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MY friend. All of the recommendations in the sidebar are just tools. With those tools you are free to build a church or a bomb. Those are decisions for you to work out for yourself. Nobody else can tell you what is right for you. But you have the tools to go whichever way you want. What you will find in this space is that many men have let themselves be walked on their whole lives. WISNIFG is an attempt to have these guys be able to stand up for what is right for themselves. Wouldn't it be a win…
/r/askMRP29/07/26 11:08 AM
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I am inclined to think divorce is the right option. You can always reconnect later if you want. alternately you could ask her what she is going to do to restore trust. Then it is up to you as to whether those steps are enough
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/26 02:19 AM
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Confidence def helps. but the fact of the matter is, that being short is a handicap. It doesn't mean that you can't get girls, but you're gonna have to have some other skills to compensate. BTW I'm short too and going out with my tall friends was not that fun. But I did fine on my own and got plenty of girls
/r/seduction27/07/26 02:13 AM
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Dude, it's epidemic. I know so many married incels, who are that way for various reasons
/r/MensRights16/07/26 02:42 AM
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Oh dear lord. There are PLENTY of married incels. Go visit the deadbedroom sub
/r/MensRights16/07/26 12:33 AM
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How tall are you?
/r/seduction13/07/26 09:55 PM
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Why even care? Why would you NOT care if all of your dates are getting false info about you?
/r/seduction13/07/26 09:43 PM
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Yep. Women love to flex their power
/r/seduction12/07/26 02:18 AM
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I never ever see women with men who are shorter than them. Never.
/r/seduction07/07/26 11:11 AM
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Great answer!
/r/seduction05/07/26 03:09 AM
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Yes you def lose a decent chunk of potential partners by pitching coming to your place first. I like the 2 date strategy for sex anyway. 1st date is at a bar and lasts for only an hour and only 1 drink. 2nd date you invite them to your place. Doing it this way makes her feel less icky about coming to your place because you did go out in public and have a drink, and it cuts your public exposure time down quite a lot because you are only in the bar for an hour.
/r/seduction05/07/26 03:01 AM
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quite possibly so mate
/r/seduction05/07/26 02:45 AM
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You think he's hallucinating? I don't. I have lived in liberal places. People are fucking nuts. They think they have to protect the poor innocent 25 y/o woman on a date with a 40 y/o man
/r/seduction05/07/26 02:19 AM
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The solution is to not take the young women out on dates. If they are really into you, you can invite them directly to your place and nobody can give you shit about dating a young woman.
/r/seduction05/07/26 02:17 AM
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Getting consent for a kiss is very polarizing. Lots of women are turned off by it. I get why you would want to do it though, so I am not criticizing. Personally I was always pretty good at sussing out how they felt without explicitly asking
/r/MensRights04/07/26 02:25 AM
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Bingo! I was listening to a male couples counselor talk on a youtube video. He said that he HAD to start with the woman's complaints about the man and not the other way around. If he started with asking the man what his issues were with the woman, she would invariably walk out and never come back. Whereas the men were grown up about it and would sit through her issues first, patiently waiting for his turn to address what he thought was going on. Often times when it was finally his turn, the woma…
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 10:31 PM
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That's the problem with marital counseling. It's always your wife and the counselor vs the man
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 02:01 AM
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That's great advice for someone famous like Morgan Freeman. but for normal guys? Probably not applicable
/r/seduction03/07/26 01:46 AM
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Gotcha. Good advice mate
/r/seduction03/07/26 12:21 AM
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FTC is good technique, we agree on that. But FTC will not stop a crazy woman from changing her mind about your date and wanting to file a false rape allegation
/r/seduction02/07/26 11:14 PM
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Those are only the accusations that were proven to be false in court. It doesn't count damaging your reputation with a false accusation that is never proven to be false. Or the accusation that gets withdrawn after you have lost your job and friends. She can allege anything she wants, and then just change her mind and withdraw it, with no consequences at all
/r/seduction02/07/26 02:15 AM
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Your wife has declared that you are the enemy. You must behave as such
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/26 01:32 AM
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My personal philosophy for things like this is, she's either going to cheat or she's not and other than being the best man I can be, there's not a whole lot I can do about it. If she really wants to cheat she will find a way to do it. Any kind of confrontation I might have with her, just makes me look weak in her eyes. Be the man you should be and let the rest take care of itself. Sure, keep your eyes open for how she uses her phone, is she hiding it or being secretive, but other than that just …
/r/askMRP19/06/26 02:28 AM
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Moderately attractive is carrying a lot of weight here
/r/seduction19/06/26 12:09 AM
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She's going to find out that she's going to owe you money and no woman ever thinks she should ever pay a man. Oh good lord do they get mad when they owe
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/26 10:51 PM
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Now you're talking. Good point mate
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/26 11:12 AM
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I am not acting like I know anything. You keep telling me that it is easy to avoid alimony and I keep asking you to show us how to avoid it. I keep telling you that I read your post where you claim to explain it, but there are very few actionable items in that post. So where is it that you are explaining how easy it is to avoid alimony?
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/26 12:08 AM
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She is selfish and only out for herself. You can't build a life with someone like that. She probably got her PHD to avoid any kind of accountability in the work world
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/26 11:52 PM
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I am happily married and never been divorced. I have yet to see much advice from you how alimony is almost always avoidable.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/26 11:09 PM
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I read your linked post. I didn't see in that post a foolproof way of avoiding alimony. If your wife is a SAHM and you've been married for any length of time, you will be paying
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/26 02:25 AM
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Interesting. I didn't know that. A court order would be pretty good incentive
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/26 02:21 AM
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Her money problems are not your concern anymore. Maybe she should have been nicer to you during the marriage. But as it stands now, you should not give a fuck what her money problems are. I realize I am preaching to the choir. I am just amazed at the gall of her to be wanting more money
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/26 01:40 AM
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Sure, lots of men make unforced errors. but to lay this all at the feet of men? Come on man
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/26 01:37 AM
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What incentive would there be for the ex become self supporting?
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/26 01:36 AM
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Good luck treating a woman as an equal. Go ahead and expect her to invite you on dates. Go ahead and split the bill 50-50. Go ahead and expect her to lead the interactions with you. Go ahead and expect women to initiate sex with you. Please do let her suggest where you should go to get the drinks and let her pay for it. Let me know how that works out for you
/r/seduction16/06/26 12:51 AM
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Many women are not running around fucking every man that they see. There are still lots of women who have had few sex partners and are still demure. Focus your efforts on these women. They are less flashy and outgoing than the experienced women, but in the end will be better for you
/r/MensRights14/06/26 01:27 AM
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Are you out of your mind? Why would you pay her or the hospital?
/r/seduction14/06/26 01:09 AM
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You got hosed. Cases like this are why I tell all men to never get married
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/26 01:44 AM
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With who's money? Every bit of legal wrangling costs money, which I'm assuming he doesn't have
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/26 01:42 AM
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It's the apex fallacy. Women look at powerful men like Gates, Bezos, Zuckerburg, etc and declare that men have it easy and live opulent lives. But those women don't even see the homeless men, the disfigured men, the ones that get killed on the job, the incels, the men in prison, etc. Women don't see them so to them, these men don't even exist. Since women only see the rich/powerful men, they think that ALL men have it easy
/r/seduction12/06/26 02:32 AM
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The holy grail for sure
/r/seduction10/06/26 01:47 AM
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The problem is, that a bangin body doesn't always have staying power and will in fact change substantially over time. But a pretty face is almost always going to stay a pretty face even as she ages
/r/seduction09/06/26 09:20 PM
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When the lower earning spouse can earn cash and prizes for breaking the contract, marriage is untenable unless you are the lower earner
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/26 12:58 AM
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Women almost always go out in pairs. Hell they won't even go to the bathroom alone. What are you even talking about? And getting dressed up is something strange? Women invest thousands and thousands of dollars in cosmetics and clothing. Men invest fractions of that. Women are the ones with more tattoos than men. That's not peacocking, that's just being current
/r/seduction21/05/26 01:01 AM
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Men don't do that either. A handful of men did that. I have never ever seen a peacocker in public
/r/seduction20/05/26 09:54 PM
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High quality response right there
/r/seduction14/05/26 01:26 AM
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Some women do it for manipulation purposes and some just aren't ready to have sex with that person. It also depends on the length of the wait
/r/seduction13/05/26 11:17 PM
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It's your house too. Take the cameras down
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/26 01:28 AM
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Get divorced but fuck exclusively??? She's got some balls on her
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/26 12:36 AM
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What a bitch
/r/MensRights04/05/26 12:02 AM
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Who gives a shit what she says at this point. She is now your enemy. Don't make nice nice with the enemy
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 02:04 AM
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I saw a study the other day, that for 3 years after divorce women are happier than men, but past 3 years, men tend to be happier than women
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/26 11:19 PM
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Maybe you meant to post this in a woman's forum somewhere?
/r/askMRP21/04/26 10:17 PM
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Girls complain about guys not making moves, not approaching IRL, not getting hints, etc. They can't have it both ways. They can't very visibly #metoo a bunch of high profile men and then turn around and tell men to be more persistent and "take hints". I never had time for that kind of bullshit anyway
/r/seduction21/04/26 10:09 PM
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This is funny. What women mean in all these instances is almost always contra to what they are saying. And yet they say that men are the ones who cannot communicate
/r/seduction21/04/26 10:04 PM
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It's what older women say to men when they are mad that the man is not choosing them and is instead choosing the younger woman. These women used to be plenty happy that older men were hitting them up, but now that they are older are plenty mad that they are not the belle of the ball anymore
/r/seduction16/04/26 02:34 AM
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Dude, at age 74, women outnumber men by a good amount. Just shower, get a haircut and brush your teeth
/r/seduction31/03/26 01:18 AM
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I Disagree. Lift with your woman so she doesn't get fat and flabby. The more she lifts the more she's going to want to lose the weight and keep it off so that she can actually see the results of her lifting
/r/askMRP21/02/26 11:34 PM
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What are your experiences with advising / interacting with other women's relationship drama? How should one go about it? It's not something you should do. You can be the shoulder for her to cry on and give her advice all you want, but at the end of it all, she's gonna do what her pussy tells her to do, regardless of what you say. By all means listen to her spiel if you want, but don't expect her to take any advice to heart. Women gonna women
/r/askMRP25/10/25 09:36 PM
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She’ll come back or she won’t Spot on. No use worrying about it. Just get to work
/r/askMRP15/10/25 10:43 PM
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Isn't maintaining status what he's supposed to do? If he came to this board with the exact same problem but didn't have such status from the pageants, everyone would be telling him that he's a nobody and he needs to instill some dread in his wife
/r/askMRP12/10/25 09:34 PM
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Yes, usually after the wife has cheated on the man.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/25 11:02 PM
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The thing that women always leave out is... you want to be safe and cherished, from a man who you are wildly attracted to already. There are literally millions of men who would make you feel safe and cherished
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/25 09:55 PM
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You on hinge and you only heart the chicks with the nicest racks who have the least crazy eyes? No. Most men swipe on everything, hoping for even one of them to return the favor of a swipe
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/25 09:54 PM
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Maybe show your date some pics of your EX
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/25 02:23 AM
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And people wonder why men might want to go abroad and skip the whole mess back home
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/25 10:05 PM
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Your wife letting herself go is a major problem. She has use the bait and switch technique. You owe her an explanation of how you are feeling and that this is a serious issue for you. Stand up for your interests. You deserve to be happy as anyone else does. There is no reason for you to be ashamed of what you want
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/25 11:25 PM
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She can go to hell. What does she not understand about equal rights? Men don't owe her anything
/r/MensRights08/08/25 02:36 AM
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This is so common. People are just wack
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/25 02:21 AM
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it did make me wonder what is fair for a man to expect of his wife in the exchange for being the provider (or primary). Are we entitled to anything anymore? Or is it just based on the goodness of their heart? Even asking that question these days is enough to get you labeled as a misogynistic abuser. It's really ridiculous. I'll never understand why men keep signing up for the terrible deal that marriage is. I'm actually quite happily married for 36 years, but I'd never do it again. Way too risky
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/25 01:49 AM
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Nice
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/25 01:56 AM
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In one year. What about in 2025 when another 10% get divorced?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 11:02 PM
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You just encapsulated everything the red pill is all about in your first 2 paragraphs. You ARE the red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 10:58 PM
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Here's what google tells me: "Lesbian couples experience higher divorce rates compared to gay male couples. Studies indicate that lesbian couples are more likely to initiate divorce proceedings and are more likely to divorce overall. While specific US statistics vary, trends show lesbian couples are divorcing more often than gay men and even heterosexual couples." I have seen the 2x rate mentioned in other places
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 10:54 AM
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well we know that lesbians divorce at twice the rate of gay males. Thus it would seem that women aren't particularly good at holding marriages together
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 01:08 AM
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A failure rate of 30% is a lousy sales pitch. But it gets worse with college educated women. They account for 90% of divorces. (within the group of divorces initiated by women, 90% of those are from college-educated women) Those are some terrible odds
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 01:05 AM
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Well women are the only parties involved in female same sex marriages, so apparently they are the problem. You can't blame it on men as they are not involved in lesbian marriages
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 12:59 AM
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If women are asking you out, AT ALL, you are WAY above average. Women think most men are unattractive, and will thus only go after the ones that are significantly above average. I don't care if you are not 6' tall. You have something going for you that is above average
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 12:57 AM
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More and more men aren't approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 12:55 AM
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Obviously. But what is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:44 PM
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Sugar dating is not that expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:42 PM
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If you are making 300K / year, you can easily afford sugar dating and hook up with hot girls beyond your wildest dreams, which will in turn give you confidence to eventually get a real GF
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:41 PM
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What bullshit. ""I found that these women designed their affairs with military precision: strict rules, clear boundaries, and zero risk of anyone catching feelings."" Yeah sorry about that but women catch the feels all the time. If they didn't they would/could end the affair on a dime, but they don't. They mourn the ending of an affair
/r/MensRights03/07/25 02:03 AM
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Women are coddled on every measure there is, less punishment for crime, or other bad behavior, more leeway in parenting and divorce situations. They can assault people and get no jail time, they can insult and assault people and get no consequences.
/r/MensRights02/07/25 01:55 AM
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She's being deliberately obtuse mate. You'd have more success arguing with a 2 by 4
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:50 AM
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Depends. I've been on both sides of it. Some women I was happy to have a no strings good time with and others broke my heart with no strings. It just depends on who the woman is and if I really liked her or not. Both sexes suffer from it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:00 AM
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romantic communication? Like initiating dates and asking out? Or some other kind of communication. Or are you referring to the daily texts just to check up?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 12:45 AM
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Men don't need you to manage their emotions. There are tons of things that women do in relationships that are "for the man" but in reality are for the women themselves, managing a man's emotions and relationships is exhibit A
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 10:14 PM
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If you go looking for hate that's probably what you will find
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 10:01 PM
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OH my god it's her. I saw one viral video of her bitching about her husband for 30 minutes. I feel so bad for him
/r/MensRights19/06/25 02:08 AM
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Solid comment. Stacy really does get superior treatment. Men will break the bank just to impress her
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 07:52 PM
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. Higher dominance men are more likely to be ok with pushing boundaries, which coincidentally also makes them ok with assaulting women. Which makes the woman like him even more
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:30 AM
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Any woman can get sex if she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:29 AM
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Yep. Women love their assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:28 AM
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Now that's an answer
/r/askMRP06/06/25 01:08 AM
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Feminists actively work against men supporting their own interests
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 02:18 AM
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No it's not. It is a female superiority project. Feminism would take away men's rights if they could
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 02:17 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 02:02 AM
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If a woman had to choose between two twins that look like a 10/10 but only one of them is treating them with respect, most women would take the obvious choice. No way. Women crap all over men that treat them with respect. Respect is boring and women detest being bored. In most women's eyes if there is no drama that means he doesn't care. The respectful man would be advised to create drama on purpose so that she doesn't get bored. You can do nearly anything to a woman, just don't bore her
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:04 PM
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Everything starts out as a one night stand
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:11 PM
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IDK about you, but I actually liked most of the women I hooked up with, short term or longer term. I got something out of each and every encounter, except one in particular who was not a match but we did it anyway. They were lovely women in many ways. Relationships are what you make them out to be, whether they last 10 minutes or 10 years. I somehow never got to the point of thinking any of them were just a number
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:08 PM
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Men are great problems solvers. I never said everyone sucks. That's something you came up with
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:41 AM
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That is a female communication style. men communicate overtly, women covertly. If women are so good at communicating, then they should be able to flex and communicate the way men do. But women mostly don't. So they aren't really any good at communicating either
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:08 AM
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Depends on the marriage and the man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:15 AM
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I'm not treating anybody like a slave and I don't do apps. My wife volunteers to treat me well. I bring a lot to the table
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:46 PM
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I never had women friends, but I have been happily married for 36 years. There is some overlap with friends vs relationship, but I don't have to have women friends to have a successful heterosexual relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:43 PM
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Pretty easy. One night stand turns into another night stand into another night stand. After a few of those iterations a connection starts to develop. You find out whether you like them for anything besides sex or not. Chances are if you've been balls deep in her she likes you at least a little bit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:30 PM
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Correct. It is often easier to get laid as a single man than as a married man. It's on the man to choose wisely
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:27 PM
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I did pretty well in my teens and 20's. I rather enjoyed the connection I had with my partners. It's up to you to make the most of your connections. If you weren't getting what you needed from any of those relationships, you needed to reflect on why and work on getting what you wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:14 PM
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Until they get married. Women's drive often plummets after marriage. Then the man is stuck with her and can't get it from anywhere else. Better to be single as man if he wants sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:11 PM
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Men need to solve it by no longer getting married. Why men continue to willfully walk into the meat grinder of "family court" is a mystery to me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:57 AM
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Yes sir. And BTW, you got dealt a shitty deal. I'm sorry for what you are having to go though
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/25 02:31 AM
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Men need to stop getting married. Simple as that. Until that happens nothing will change
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/25 02:23 AM
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She is basically wanting you to divorce her. She doesn't want to be the bad guy by asking for it. She thinks that if she treats you bad enough that you will file and then you can be the bad guy
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/25 12:03 AM
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I never said that men would go for the hottest, but if he's got a choice between several or two that are roughly equal, then he will pick the more attractive one. It is literally retarded to make hotness your #1 priority, although people do it. But we cannot ignore that attractiveness is a major factor
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 11:56 PM
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If a man has a choice between two women who are roughly equal in all ways besides beauty, he will always and forever pick the prettier one
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 11:20 PM
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He left his glass by the dishwasher instead of putting into the dishwasher. The horror
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/25 11:07 PM
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Lots of women play that game though. "I told him no, but he left. Why didn't he fight for me?"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 10:35 PM
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I agree that would work the best. But lets be real about that. That kind of introduction might happen once or twice in a lifetime. How many different scenarios are a couple of friend groups going to interact. An additional hurdle is that men have to be really careful about introducing romantic ideas to these group settings because group dynamics can get weird when one member becomes interested in another. Men will get thrown out of social groups for approaching women within friend groups. Women …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 10:17 PM
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Yes but women have also declared that they don't want to interact with men in public. Thus online is the only avenue open for meeting people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:08 PM
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implicit sexism What in the world of made up BS is this term?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:11 PM
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That's what women say. Watch what they do and it's not what you are saying
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:02 AM
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Yep. Nothing kills attraction quicker than being kind and friendly to women. Their reasoning is that if you have to be nice to them, then you must not have any other options. If you have no options, she doesn't want you. If you can afford to be an asshole to her, then in her mind, you can afford to lose her, because you must have options. Kind and friendly men are boring to women. Women would rather eat glass than be bored
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:00 AM
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LOL no they don't. For many women it's a badge of honor to reject a man as cruelly as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:27 AM
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She allowed herself to secretly become less and less interested in a life with you over many years. How can you win against that? Yep. That's always how it goes. They let themselves slowly get less and less interested in the marriage without telling the husband about it
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/25 02:01 AM
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Yes. Inflicting pain on men is considered humorous. We would never laugh at kicking a woman in the breast or vulva
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:07 PM
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That's super smart. Good work man
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/25 06:45 PM
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No. It is well documented that girls are much more verbally adept at a much younger age than most boys. We're talking averages here of course. There are always outliers. But you'll often see young girls carrying on fluent conversations with adults, while boys the same age are playing with trucks and are unable to match what the girls can do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 06:43 PM
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Look at any physical comedy show. A swift kick in the nuts is classic staple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 06:41 PM
2

What kind of job did you have that allowed this flexibility?
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/25 04:13 PM
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100%. The things that she benefits from are mandated by law. What men benefit from is only if she feels like it. Never getting married again
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/25 04:11 PM
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Can't date co-workers, so where else are you going to meet and approach potential partners? Can't do it at a grocery store, can't do it on the street, not at the gym. What's left?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:01 PM
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Violence is absolutely condoned as long as it's directed towards men. Men getting kicked in the nuts is often used as humor even
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:59 PM
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Nice collection of posts there
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:53 PM
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When boys are in school they are not usually socially adept enough to take advantage of the opportunity given. By the time the men are good enough socially to even think about approaching, it's too late, and the men are shamed for doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:43 PM
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Then the infamous Gillette ad happened and our Orientation teachers had the stunning idea of having a few lessons on those. That commercial was horrible. I still refuse to buy a Gillette product to this day. They took a big hit to profits in the aftermath. Not sure if they have recovered yet. Men are their main customers. It's baffling that they would put out an ad shitting on their main customer
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:41 PM
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Yes it does. See "two tier Keir"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:15 PM
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Very few men are actually in the position to protect women. Men who usually protect women have an occupation in ensuring GENERAL SAFETY (meaning men, women, young, old, etc). And yet every time some woman gets into trouble she starts whinging about "where are all the men"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:28 PM
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Oh sure, when I need a logical specialist my go to thought is to get a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:26 PM
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3 Also, statistically the happiest women on planet Earth are single with no children. However, single mothers are the unhappiest women on Earth. I’m sure many of you can guess the reasons why. (not counting trafficking or abuse victims) I'm interested in seeing what your sources for these stats are
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/25 11:58 PM
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If she is divorcing because she is unhappy, and nothing serious is wrong in the relationship, I would wonder why she is divorcing so frivolously. The man she married is basically the same man today. If she can so easily change her mind on a perfectly good man, I would wonder if she would easily change her mind about me after we were married. And if she changes her mind about me, then I would lose 1/2 of my shit. Not a good situation
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 02:41 AM
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I've red the "fetish" complaint from some women before, and I have to say, I just don't get it. If someone has a type, and you are the type they like, what's the issue? I would be perfectly fine with it. To me it seems like "fetish" is another attempt to pathologize something that is perfectly harmless in most cases
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:10 PM
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Marriage counseling just blamed me for all the problems and said I had to work harder. This is exactly why I will never do marriage counseling. It's the therapist and wife ganging up on the man
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/25 02:22 AM
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Correct. That's a lot of false paternity
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 01:47 AM
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According to the General Social Survey of 2022, married women with children are the happiest. Married women without kids are happier than single women as well. https://x.com/BradWilcoxIFS/status/1886482228542108142/photo/2
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:42 PM
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easy for you to say. In one study, of the men that had paternity testing done, 30% found out they were not the father. Countless other fathers are paying hundreds of thousands of dollars for kids that were never theirs. As a woman, you never have to have that situation played out for you. You hopefully fully know who the father is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:47 PM
1

Condoms make sex feel like nothing. They are far from optimal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 06:53 PM
2

Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 06:46 PM
2

vasectomies are not as reversable or painless as the conventional wisdom likes to imply. It's not a contraceptive. It a complete sterilization
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:28 AM
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If you are handsome enough, all the other standards go out the window. As witnessed by the experiment someone did where they created a dating profile of a very handsome man, but in his bio, he noted that he had been arrested for pedophilia or some such other horrific act. Didn't stop him from getting lots of offers for on the spot sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:09 PM
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Lots of women are perfectly fine being approached at utilitarian places. Just politely decline and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:25 AM
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And beware of the silver bullet tactics. I hadn't heard that term before. It's horrible
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/25 12:58 AM
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Right? I wonder how many decorative pillows their couch and bed would have it came from their own money. My friend's wife spends all the money she makes on cosmetics and beauty supplies for herself. He pays all the bills
/r/MensRights29/03/25 12:13 AM
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How exactly is the system rigged against men? Many women get on the stand and lie through their teeth. Even when those lies are proven to be lies, there are no consequences for her. Judges just act like lying is standard operating procedure for women, don't seem surprised at all, and never punish them for it at all. It's almost like the system is....wait for it....rigged against men
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/25 11:05 PM
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Also, perjury is illegal. Don't even think about lying to a judge. It's not worth it It never seems to hurt the woman. They are always free to lie about anything and everything, yet no consequences whatsoever
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/25 11:01 PM
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Wait, what? How does she get a free lawyer and money?
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/25 11:00 PM
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Let's not forget that women initiate divorce at a 2:1 rate compared to men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:58 PM
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Alot of men like to throw women under the bus when theyve had like 4 kids and gained weight from it. OK now let's talk about what women do when their man loses his job and status. Let's not forget that women initiate divorce at a 2:1 rate compared to men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 11:24 PM
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Oh but feminism isn't toxic?
/r/MensRights16/03/25 11:06 PM
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Men on average are more fat, Women are equally as fat. It's a race to the bottom
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 11:01 PM
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Your experience is not mine. In my world, women detest with a flaming passion, the man who is well put together, has a steady job and is, for lack of a better word, normal. You can do anything you want to a woman, just don't bore her. Women must have adventure and periodic crisis or they get very bored very quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:59 PM
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What the critics always forget is that it takes two to tango. The women are often the ones who are the most enthusiastic about dating an older man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:18 PM
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If you designate 80% of the male population undesirable via some stupid 80/20 rule, that's effectively a self-own when it comes It's not men doing this. Men are just observing reality of what women are doing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:23 AM
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And there's no reason why lesbian women would know what makes them cum more than straight women, we are biologically identical But you are not mentally identical. Lesbians are more sexually open and exploratory than heteros
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:52 PM
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The part that women always leave out is that they want to be attracted to the guy. For instance. She says, "I just want a nice guy who is kind and likes to cuddle with puppies". What she is leaving out is that she wants all of those things, but she wants them with a man that she is attracted to. So in addition to being nice, kind and cuddling with puppies, he should be tall, dark and handsome. If he is tall dark and handsome, then yes, she wants him to be nice and kind and like puppies. If he is…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:50 PM
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Lesbians have the same equipment. It's a lot easier to pleasure someone else (who is difficult to pleasure to begin with) if you have the same genitalia. I have been with several women who had never masturbated and had absolutely no idea what would make themselves cum. If they can't figure it out, I have virtually no chance
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 10:53 PM
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Oh man. This is the best part right there. They always act like making money is effortless when someone else is paying. Cold hard reality when they have to make their own money
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/25 01:38 AM
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The manospherians don't want to fuck men. So they don't concern themselves with what deadbeat dads do. The manospherians want to fuck women so they focus on women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:53 PM
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google is your friend
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:13 PM
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They stay because they can’t easily date or replace a partner, not out of loyalty. That and loyalty and they don't want lose 1/2 of their assets through divorce court
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:12 PM
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That's a Sharp comment and there is something to it. I don't believe that explains all of it. I do think men are more prone to stick it out, because that's what you should do when you get married. Men are faithful to their commitments. Women are faithful to their feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:08 PM
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Daniel Penny
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:03 PM
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I know a guy who's wife got cancer and she was given 6 to 12 months max to live and of course she was to sick to have sex and he couldn't even wait a few months Until she died... OK now look at the stats for how often women divorce a man who loses his job
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:02 PM
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Many women lose interest the moment the man loses his job
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:01 PM
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Nobody is perfect but women divorce men at a 2:1 rate. So clearly, men are more apt to stick around than women. Another stat is that Women Lesbians divorce at twice the rate of Gay men. There is something about women that makes them more sensitive to bad feelings than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:01 PM
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100%
/r/seduction10/03/25 01:26 AM
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So if you’re still doubting whether this is possible, trust me - it is. You are a good looking man. Not all of us are so fortunate. I can assume that you are also over 6ft tall
/r/seduction10/03/25 01:26 AM
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nobody criticizes such men. Women are attracted to those men. but not the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:15 AM
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That's because she is never going to admit the truth, that she was married to her job and her man had no place in her life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:57 AM
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Men instinctively know that a woman who earns more than her husband is going to be an unhappy woman and he wants no part of that. Women already divorce men 2:1. Why make your odds even worse. And yes there are exceptions. Your friend Donna who earns 3X her husband has been married for decades. But that exception doesn't make the rule any less true
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:55 AM
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It's not worth it. Kids or not. Marriage is just not worth it
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/25 12:56 AM
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To a woman who really loves her man, he can do no wrong, no matter how little he does. To the woman that isn't that excited about her man, he can do no right, no matter how much he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 11:05 PM
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I see a lot of women teachers in the news these days
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 03:34 AM
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Meanwhile women writing articles about "kill all men", "I'd rather date the bear" and "men are pigs" is just fine and is not cause for concern in the slightest
/r/MensRights07/03/25 03:27 AM
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The fact is that over 90% of linemen are men. Most of the electrical industry is men. It would not take long before the whole thing shut down without men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:58 PM
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It has happened to every single man that I have asked
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:57 PM
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I did notice some red flags that suggested he might be looking at manosphere content, I would sometimes catch him saying things like 'If I cry in front of you, you won't respect me anymore', 'women don't respect men if they make money than them' This isn't some manosphere bullshit. Every single man knows that you don't open up to a woman, because she will get the ICK. Men figure this out early in life. And blaming the manosphere for your dysfunctional personal relationship failure is not serving…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:59 PM
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Like women don't say "kill all men" or "I'd rather date the bear" or "men are pigs" or "the bar is in hell" or any other of the misandrists sayings they have
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:55 PM
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You are not going to fight for your kids as a man when you are the one who is paying her lawyer bills as well as your own, and you are already facing ruinous amounts of child support and alimony. The more you fight the poorer you get THe fact is that the world would fall apart in less than 1 day if men went on strike. No power, no plumbing, no auto repair, no maintenance people. You and your fellow women would be squabbling to exist around a campfire, if you could figure out how to make one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:54 PM
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Gender quotas are when upper management decides (based on government "suggestion") that first line and middle line management must be 1/2 female, even though the field is super majority male. It's med schools giving women entry even though they test less well than men. Giving special helps to women is discrimination based on gender
/r/MensRights04/03/25 01:36 AM
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Bullshit. Women in STEM conferences. Women only networking events in the corporate world. Direct hiring and promoting quotas for women in the corporate and government world. Special grants set aside for women run businesses. The favoritism to women is endless
/r/MensRights04/03/25 12:34 AM
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did you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:59 PM
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I don't know about your family and close social circle but in mine, we support each other and are close. Maybe that's not common in your life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:16 AM
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I don't have a single woman in my life who has had any of that happen to them. Nearest thing of that caliber in my family's life is that my wife's mother's sister got raped by a Russian soldier in WWII
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:54 AM
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Nobody is shocked that hollywood has fucked up morals and that women let rich and famous men have sex with them for roles in movies
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 03:18 PM
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Oh but that's different see
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 03:16 PM
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Oh lookie here. Another out of touch elitist female telling men how to be men.
/r/MensRights02/03/25 12:40 AM
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Being too forward about sex The problem with this bullet point is that the definition of too forward is different for every woman. With one woman you are too forward if you escalate to a kiss before you've dated for 3 months. With another woman you get friend zoned if you don't escalate within the first hour. Best policy is to be as forward as you are comfortable with. No matter what you do, you are assured to alienate a good portion of potential mates
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:13 PM
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Fair point Lillth
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:03 PM
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Of course there are countries like that. OP is talking about the west
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:55 PM
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In my gut I know you are right my friend. But I tell ya, we can only hear about women wanting to date the bear, or women not wanting to be approached in public so many times before it gets you thinking that the whole thing isn't worth it
/r/MensRights01/03/25 01:14 AM
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Husband material is a huge insult. It means she's going to marry him, fuck him well for 3 years, get pregnant and then never want to have sex again. He will join the millions of men in sexless marriages. No thanks. If you want to complement me, tell me I'm fuckworthy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 01:10 AM
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Your way is actually better. You are more likely to end up with a hottie if you shoot your shot whenever you see her. I'm not that ballsy
/r/MensRights01/03/25 01:00 AM
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This led me to ask so you’d only approach a guy if you were sure he wouldn’t reject you? This makes sense to me. Nobody likes rejection. I only ever approached women who at least gave me some kind of signal that she was interested
/r/MensRights01/03/25 12:50 AM
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Why are you laying all the blame for this stereotype on the feet of men? Is it inconceivable to you that women might have some part in this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 01:48 AM
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It depends on the energy that it is being said with. My friends and I make little dick jokes and other "insults" all the time. That's how a lot men bust on each other but It is said in the spirit of fun. It's easy to tell when someone means it as an insult vs as a jest
/r/MensRights28/02/25 12:33 AM
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It's always women who are making these videos too, videos explaining how men want things to be
/r/MensRights27/02/25 02:24 AM
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Many men get married because their girl says she is going to break up with him if he doesn't marry her. Many women still use the ultimatum to get what they want. I don't see that changing much
/r/MensRights27/02/25 01:03 AM
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I can't argue with any of what you wrote. All I'm saying is that I have no sympathy for the women that complain about "why won't men just be honest. If he just wanted sex why didn't he tell me so"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:32 AM
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My impression of marriage counseling is that the wife and the counselor gang up on the man to make him out to be the bad guy. Counselors know that the women are the real customer that they have to please. As well, there are lots of stories from men that every time they found a counselor that held her to some level of accountability, his wife would demand that they go to a different one
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/25 11:40 PM
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So it's not necessarily "women" but society. Not really. Women are the selectors. Men do what it takes to be selected. Society would look a lot different if women rewarded men's honesty, instead of rewarding the men who are slick players
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 11:18 PM
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You really don't want men and women to meet each other do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:06 AM
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Trying to get very subtle physical contact in as soon as possible to break that barrier. That's just physical attraction and is completely normal behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:00 AM
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If what you say is true and judges followed the formulas, we wouldn't be seeing so many horror stories of men who get assigned so much child support and alimony that they can't afford to live
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/25 12:52 PM
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For sure. One other unexpected place that having my wife with is beneficial is for medical appointments. I **ALWAYS** get treated with more respect and have my medical situation taken with more seriousness when she is with
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:41 AM
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Technically you are correct, but she could always mention the inheritance in court, which might influence some judges to fudge his alimony and child support payments to make her better off. It would be reckless to tell her
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/25 12:48 AM
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News alert: They all say they were abused
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/25 12:17 AM
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You are right. Nobody should be approaching anyone. In fact there should be no conversation with anyone. And while we are at it can we outlaw smiling too? The country just isn't grumpy enough. And laughter. We need to do something about laughter. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:10 AM
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I could say the same thing if I think I deserve to date super models and ignore the women who are my dating market peers. "the bar for women is in hell" They are just so classless.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:53 PM
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They may legitimately find it impossible to attract a man with a modicum of class, and therefore, the statement feels true to their experience. Sure, because the women saying this think Ryan Gosling and Timothy Chalamet are mid, and the men they are really attracted to are even more handsome than that. By golly none of the men they are attracted to treat them like the princesses that they think they really are. What a shocker
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:52 PM
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I have seen the female orgasm up close and personal many times. Pretty sure it's the real deal
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:01 AM
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Def not. For all of my 36 year marriage, I insisted that my wife work. I was not going to be supporting someone who is probably smarter than me and perfectly capable of achieving good things in the world. To be fair, she always said she wanted to work too, so it's not like I was forcing her to do something she didn't want to do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 01:11 AM
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"trap a woman"? What century do you think we are living in. Women have all the rights of men. There is no trapping them. Every state has no fault divorce. Women can divorce any man at any time for any reason and do so at a rate of 2:1, whereupon they get cash and prizes for breaking the marriage contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 11:33 PM
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Yes my friend. It's going to suck for both of them. I don't know how people do it these days. Kids are impossibly expensive even without divorce
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/25 01:06 PM
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but your wife is right, you need a new job. IF she wants to live like a queen she can get a job. It's easy to tell someone else to make more money. If it's so easy to make good money, let's see her step up and bring in some money. He can stay home with the kids. Making money is easy right? She should be able to make $100K no problem
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/25 11:51 PM
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She's the one that cheated. You should not go easy on her
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/25 10:00 PM
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There is also a huge problem with a lot of people thinking complete stealth trans men have male privilege What male privilege? Is it the one that constrains men to a tiny sliver of acceptable behavior, where dressing even a little different ends up being a big problem? Or is there some other male privilege I am not aware of?
/r/MensRights20/02/25 03:18 AM
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What you originally said makes perfect sense In the dating context. Spot on. You're killing it today.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 11:56 AM
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Men, on the other hand, will continue to be the sight-driven creatures they are, and arguably his attraction to her will be more fickle, both because her body might change a bit with aging and because younger women will always exist out in the world to draw his eye - even if she is as attractive as the woman in the first scenario. Great comment overall but I disagree with this part. Women, by far divorce men more than the other way around. Women are much quicker to get the ick. Men on the other …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:11 AM
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Oh look. Another woman telling men how to be good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:35 PM
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I’m sure sex was more evenly impacted prior to viagra and similar treatments for age related ED. I can't argue with that. Good point actually
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:49 AM
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My stats are from my social circle and various readings I've picked up over time. Bettina Arendt is an example of that. She is a researcher who started a project looking at sex in older married couples. She asked a number of couples to write diaries about their sex lives. She was shocked at the number of the men who were left high and dry by their wives, who's have quit having sex. Their attitudes were mostly like "well I don't care about sex anymore. That phase of life is done. So our sex life …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:20 AM
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A lot of times people get older and more out of shape so they aren’t as attractive anymore, or they stop doing the things their partner enjoys that builds the feelings of intimacy, or they have kids and are feeling exhausted, or things start to feel stale and boring as nothing new is introduced, or the relationship isn’t doing well and they aren’t getting along well, or there are hormone changes in one or both of the people due to age, pregnancy, or medications. Yes that happens. But it always s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:44 AM
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If this is true, why are there so many men who never get enough sex after they get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:14 AM
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This clearly happens all the time. I personally know way too many married men who's wives no longer deem it important to fuck him on any kind of regular basis. OP, your fears are well founded. Your best result is to never ever get married if you like sex at all
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:12 AM
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Solid comment. I agree. I would also add that the men who are successful with women actually make an effort to talk to women. They use every opportunity to chat them up, whenever and wherever they are. They talk to young women, old woman and everyone in between. Out of all of those conversations, eventually something good will happen. You can be the best looking, perfect height man with great income. But if you never talk to women, nothing good will ever happen
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:16 AM
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No man. Conversation between my wife and I flows effortlessly. The love and the laughter is always right there. We talk about everything. I don't know if you can get there with your wife, but there are women out there who are compatible with you at this level.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/25 01:30 AM
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I'm betting that none of what you brought to the table was important to her when you were married. Lots of women seem to thing that bringing in $100K is easy and is the "bare minimum"
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/25 01:14 AM
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They could start by adding men to the people they serve.....https://democrats.org/who-we-are/who-we-serve/
/r/MensRights10/02/25 12:51 AM
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She would have got 50% of my pension but now only gets half. Uh, isn't 1/2 the same thing as 50%? What am I missing?
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/25 03:40 AM
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I would much rather be born a woman than a man these days. There is nothing stopping a woman from becoming a high value person, like CEO or whatnot. In addition, they have a much easier time getting hired into most industries these days. And lastly it is socially acceptable for a woman to not work at all, just be a stay at home. That career choice is not available to most men
/r/MensRights08/02/25 02:27 AM
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I'm married now, but when I was single I did approach women and had good enough results. But this was back when intersexual relations were not as toxic. IDK what I would do if I were single these days
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:21 AM
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Men are told not to approach women. Countless Reddit posts have been written by women declaring that men should never approach women unless in certain circumstances, such as a dating event or a bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:22 AM
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I mean caring enough to base continuing the relationship on it. If it was something that those men cared about in that context, like many men in this thread are claiming, then I don’t think that they would get married or make serious commitments to them Agreed. The men who are bothered a lot by a woman's past wouldn't get to the point of making serious commitments to them. Whether they asked directly about her past or not, the men would gather the background info and decide if her past is a deal…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:13 PM
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If a man is overly interested in your romantic or sexual history, leave him. Overall this is a well written post. It gets at the motivations that drive 80-90% of people. There are always outliers that operate outside of the bell curve that defy the norms, but this captures most people pretty well. I'll just quibble about the highlighted item. It seems strange to me that you would consider a potential mate's interest in your sexual past to be some kind of red flag. Like, somehow it's perfectly re…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:44 PM
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Oh they care. They have just found the information they needed without asking directly about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:27 PM
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TRP is definitively not an evo-psych theory; What are you talking about. The whole RP is based on evo psych. I have read a good amount of red pill stuff and have never heard/read Freud being mentioned not even once, but I have seen lots of references to evo psych, David Buss and others in the evo psych field.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:24 PM
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You're gonna need 6 index fingers to measure me though. So now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:15 PM
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Simple fix. Don't make your fiance your wife. Just keep dating
/r/askMRP01/02/25 11:13 PM
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Without the money incentive there would be many fewer divorces. The money is why women don't want to talk about prenups. If money weren't the incentive they would have no problem signing one
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:15 PM
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Exactly. Most people open up a porn site, have a wank and go about their day. A select few have no impulse control over porn and it can be detrimental to their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:13 AM
2

explain
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:40 AM
0

Yes but while married, she has to live with the man. With divorce she can get the loot and not have to deal with him
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:21 AM
0

I’m also curious as to why guys insecurities caused by porn/women’s smut isn’t addressed pretty much at all compared to women being insecure due to porn. Because according to society anything women do is fine. Anything men do is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:13 AM
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Most porn stars are no more attractive than the better than average girl at the local gym. Many of the porn performers are weird looking even
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:09 AM
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Sure it's not the only thing you want, but I would think that attractiveness is a prerequisite. Is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:04 AM
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Exactly. Women always leave off the items that they are attracted to and list stuff like.... sense of humor, kindness to puppies
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 12:13 AM
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You wouldn't get into a romantic relationship with someone who you are not sexually attracted to. So if I ask you, what things do you want in a partner it is almost the same question as what are you sexually attracted to, because you would want to be sexually attracted to your partner (I would certainly hope)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 12:11 AM
6

That's the problem. Women are incentivized to get a divorce. They get cash and prizes for breaking the contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:40 PM
4

It's crazy. Women will burn the house down, while they are still in it, just to somehow spite the ex husband
/r/MensRights31/01/25 11:36 PM
5

Who's paying her legal fees? he's already in debt and seems to want to pile more on
/r/MensRights31/01/25 11:16 PM
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The Democrat party. You know. The slave holders of the civil war and the party of the KKK and Senator Robert Byrd
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:09 AM
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It's as old as the Democrat party. Everyone knows that identity politics started with them and is perpetuated by them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:50 AM
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Trump is a reaction to the identity politics of the left. Get your chicken and egg sequence figured out
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 12:28 AM
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This is the dumbest, most nonsensical post I have ever seen. The manosphere is not connected to Trump. It is not political
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 12:27 AM
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Men are being too picky if they are complaining about not getting laid and being lonely while simultaneously not wanting to date fat women, single moms and sexually experienced women. In those cases they deserve to be incels and lonely. Lots of people are delusional and yes this is not limited to women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:57 PM
2

well then women aren't leaving the dating market, they are just being too picky for their own good
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:16 PM
1

Are you a 4B woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:15 PM
4

I would never get married to someone who I wasn't thrilled about. So much can go wrong. She would have to be the best I thought I could ever get if I were going to consider marriage
/r/askMRP28/01/25 11:12 PM
3

Come to the deep south. There are virgins running around here at age 22 and up. The religion factor is strong here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:03 AM
5

100%. There are lots of stories out there of men who were alcoholics and/or drug dealers who got laid effortlessly. But as soon as they clean up their acts and get go sober, they can't even get a hello, let alone a date or a sexual encounter
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:25 PM
1

So obviously, I asked her if her mom was single. This is so good
/r/seduction27/01/25 12:47 AM
5

The man isn't married to the woman cheater. She is the one involved in the contract, not him. Yes it is questionable morals, but at the end of the day, she is the one that is married not him
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/25 12:06 AM
4

All 18-22 y/o people aren't' stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 01:53 AM
1

By silly claim, you mean the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:18 PM
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Men don't bother contesting it. Judges overwhelmingly give custody to women. It is financial suicide to try to get legal representation to go against what judges do customarily. Men are routinely told to not bother fighting for custody because lawyers know that is is a losing proposition to do so. Only wealthy men are able to afford the legal battle. If money was no object you'd see more men fight for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:44 PM
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These are not typically male comments. Most men are not this obtuse. If you have lots of interactions with men who say these things, that's on you. Pick better. You are going for men who are out of your league and don't need to be nice. Instead of going for the man that all the other women want, try going for one that is in your league
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 10:13 PM
2

when you act mad and pout for not getting your way, what is the reason? in my experience, we act mad and pout as a manipulation tactic. I think it's more dishonest and manipulative to feel an emotion but try to act like you are not feeling it. What benefit is it to feel angry but then act like you are not angry? How is it helpful to cover up what you really think and feel? The only way to address the root cause of your emotions is to do something about it. "Yes I'm angry. You always say you want…
/r/askMRP21/01/25 08:16 PM
4

Don't fuck the man until you are sure he's commitment worthy. It's not that difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:07 PM
1

Make some small talk and if you like her tell her "hey I'd like to get to know you better. I want to take you out for a drink on Friday. Is your schedule open?"
/r/seduction21/01/25 12:43 AM
3

Yes it is 90% wrong. 90% of those women want you to make a move. Maybe 10% are just being friendly
/r/seduction20/01/25 12:41 PM
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If a woman approaches you and compliments you in any way she is almost certainly interested in getting to know you. Make some small talk and if you like her tell her "hey I'd like to get to know you better. I want to take you out for a drink on Friday. Is your schedule open?"
/r/seduction20/01/25 03:04 AM
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Because they want to fuck them
/r/MensRights20/01/25 01:45 AM
6

I would be happy if men were treated as well as women and had equal protections under the law
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:36 AM
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Women sit around and talk. That's not how men socialize. We do things together, build things together, get shit done. That is socializing to us
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:35 AM
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Yes ma'am, That's a good attitude and all you can do. We all should be good stewards of the environment. It's the only one we get. I actually have pretty small carbon footprint. Not because of some duty to combat climate change. I don't believe that people are the primary contributors to the issue. I just don't like spending more money than I have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 03:41 AM
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Tell it to Al Gore, Greta Thunburg all the other green idiots living in mansions and flying around the world collecting awards for being green. While you eat bugs they feast on steak. While you pedal to work they have limo drivers haul them around everywhere. While you live in your crappy 2 room apartment, they live in luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 03:34 AM
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which later was exposed to be climate change deniers. Oh the horrors
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 03:26 AM
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Testosterone levels are similarly down by around 40-50% since 1980's. Various studies have come up with differing numbers, but the trend is down. Lots of men walking around feeling like crap because of it too
/r/MensRights19/01/25 03:00 AM
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Yes, women face unique disadvantages compared to men but they also have unique advantages. For example, I know a girl who got roofied at a bar. I know another girl who bought a car with simp money from streaming Fortnite on Twitch. These are edge cases. More common is that there are "women in STEM" networking symposiums for women only. Women in tech education conferences (which end up being networking opportunities) for women only. There are hiring quotas for women only. Women are vastly outperf…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:51 AM
1

OMG! She's got big balls to be asking for that. But sorry, she's not your problem anymore!
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/25 02:44 AM
3

She now wants me to support her AP Support in what way?
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/25 02:33 AM
1

It sucks doesn't it? Thank you for that. It was my GF at the time. I've been happily married for 36 years now. Even so, I'll never let the raw unfiltered truth out again. As shitty as it was to hear that I'm useless from my GF, that's not really the reason I keep certain things to myself. I've come to view sharing deep dark secrets as not very helpful. It just doesn't help me to have someone else understand what I am feeling. Once I am done sharing, I am still in the same situation as before, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:49 AM
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I once confessed to being depressed. Later during an argument she trotted out "well of course you wouldn't be able to understand. You are depressed. you are useless to me". That was the last time I ever let anybody in on my mental state
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:25 AM
1

The red pill is simply a toolbox to help men get laid. It has nothing to do with meta questions about "the system"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:22 AM
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If you aren't married to this woman, why the fuck are you even talking to her after she treats you like this? Any woman who isn't excited to go on the date that you proposed is not worth your time. If you ARE married to her, you have your work cut out for you
/r/askMRP18/01/25 01:40 AM
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That wasn't a robot scamming the woman. It was a person using AI as a tool. Robots are not autonomous
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:20 PM
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I stand corrected. In 1 in 1 million cases it happens
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:18 PM
1

You don't know jack
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:10 PM
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Yep. Women always think men's success just gets handed to them by the patriarchy committee. They can't imagine that even handsome men have to work hard to be good at things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:10 PM
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The man comes home, why is dinner not ready or why does it take you so long to get ready to go out or you need to gain weight You need to gain weight? This clearly doesn't happen
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:07 PM
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No kidding. There will be multiple multiple men in this situation to every one woman who is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:49 AM
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The AFD in Germany would disagree. They are the 2nd most popular party and would be right at home with Trump's policies
/r/MensRights17/01/25 12:42 AM
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Women are not going to spend money for a sex robot. No way. No how. Women have a 300 point list of things that any potential sex partner needs to fulfil in order to be attracted/aroused. 99.9% of women will think the whole idea is creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:44 PM
1

No way. Women use "little dick energy" or "he must be compensating for something" all the time and even to men they don't even know
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 03:15 AM
1

It is TRP that's calling old single women cat ladies. That is something that normal people do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 03:13 AM
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Yeah that's a BS argument. What 0.0055% of men might think this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 03:03 AM
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Thank you for your concern about this. I agree that it isn't good for society and all its lonely people to have it so difficult for people to meet up
/r/seduction15/01/25 01:27 AM
3

To be fair, most of the time people cannot even tell if you have abs or lots of muscle under your clothes or not. I would estimate that all but the top 5% of men are not muscular enough or wear tight enough clothes that anyone can even tell if they work out or not. It's easy to see if they are fat or not. But beyond that it's not always evident. Even top level athletes like swimmers just look like they are fit not overly muscular
/r/seduction15/01/25 01:26 AM
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Yeah, there’s plenty of things that can put the breaks on and make a guy an immediate HELL NO, but getting to yes, if you will - that takes some building to achieve. Thank you. That makes a lot of sense
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:18 AM
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Surely you can tell if a man is unfuckable within 30 seconds can't you? I agree that deciding if he IS fuckable in 30 secs might be challenging. But I would think that it would be easy to rule out many men withing seconds
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:54 AM
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My wife and I fuck nearly every day. There is no way your method of having sex once every blue moon (that time we had the cabin in the woods) would work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 01:17 PM
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I of course refer to DNA tests. Virtually all women, I’ve had this conversation with a lot of them, despise the concept of a paternity test done by their long term partner. The women who are the most vocal about this are clearly the ones that want to keep their options open while being able to keep it a secret. Most normal women aren't devastated by the test. They are upset about the implications of asking for one...that you don't trust her. I completely understand that feeling. But I also under…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 01:15 PM
2

It's a losing game to be a higher earner getting married to a lower earner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:59 AM
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Wow. I guess it is a thing. I wasn't trolling. I haven't even heard of these women. They don't seem to get the national attention that the males do. There aren't many female mass murderers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:04 AM
1

What does that have to do with what I wrote?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:49 AM
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Interesting. We don't hear so much about that. We hear all about how Charles Manson, Drew Peterson and other prominent criminals get boatloads of love letters. Do you have any examples of where the women criminals are sought after?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:37 AM
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And yet many women send killers in prison love letters
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 12:45 AM
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Women have the power of the law behind them. Women are often not violent, but they can manipulate the law into doing their dirty work. False accusations are no joke
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:14 AM
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I would never want to be the safe choice. Safe choices don't get laid. Women only fuck men that they are attracted to and they are never attracted to safety
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:29 AM
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That's great!
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/25 02:28 AM
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Good point. With clothes on a decently muscular man will just look fit and trim. It's not until the shirt comes off that you can really see the muscle definition. If you are able to tell that someone is really muscular when they are clothed, they are in fact very very muscular
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:27 PM
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You can express it all you want. but it is controlling
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:23 PM
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Normal fit men are muscular. Muscular doesn't mean roided out body builder. A swimmer is muscular
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:14 PM
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Fair statement. In fact a $75,000 chad in the trades is probably more attractive than a $125,000 chad in software engineering
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:32 AM
3

What's astounding to me is how many men ARE NOT turning against feminism. WTF are they thinking?
/r/MensRights06/01/25 01:23 AM
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Wrong. You will never make a 5' 5", average looking man into a chad. By looking at your other comments I can tell that you will tell me that I am a black pilled lazy incel. I can assure you that I am not. But my comment is still true
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:11 AM
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Dating is easy for Chad. But unless he backs it up with real world accomplishments, people start to dismiss him as a pretty but stupid man. "why isn't he more successful?". Being good looking doesn't solve all problems
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:08 AM
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I admittedly have a boneheaded idea every so often. It would be nice to have option 2 to help me be aware of when those ideas happen. I would hope that the woman I am in a LTR with would have some wits about her
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:50 AM
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Any man who puts up with this level of disrespect kinda owns what's coming to him. I would never tolerate that kind of behavior.
/r/MensRights05/01/25 03:48 AM
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OP is a lost cause. He hasn't looked into any of the pills enough to know the diff
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:23 AM
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That's completely red pill. You have no idea what you are talking about. Blue pill is "happy wife happy life".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:21 AM
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You should do what you do. But there are 4 billion women out there. I'm going to find one that wants to fuck me. Life is too short to live with an incompatible partner
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/25 12:49 PM
1

Yes this is good strategy
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/25 12:48 PM
2

I withhold sex if they die down, What?
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/25 03:47 AM
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No sex is also the end of the relationship so what have you got to lose?
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/25 03:46 AM
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You must be being deliberately obtuse. The stories of women not wanting sex after marriage commences are legion if you aren't deliberately trying to ignore them. Further it is well known that female libido drops off more than men when in a monogamous relationship for extended periods
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/25 03:45 AM
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Just like a woman. If you can't win the argument, you resort to insults
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:57 PM
2

If the industry really took men seriously they wouldn't drive all the potential male therapists away. But the industry is captured by the feminists and as such repel most of the men who might be interested in becoming a therapist. The industry publishes materials stating that masculinity is bad for men's health. You cannot get any more anti-male than that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:26 AM
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This technical distinction makes little difference to a man who has heard that men are the root of all evil from the official leaders of the psychiatry industry. Men have heard loud and clear that we are not wanted and our masculinity is the cause of our problems. I would rather poke a needle in my eye than pay money to get "treatment" for these idealogues
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:01 AM
1

Correct. And the injustice of it deserves to be pointed out and changed
/r/MensRights02/01/25 01:20 AM
0

Whenever there's some kind of noise in the middle of the night, you can be damn sure the woman isn't going to check it out. It's always on the man to do so. And you can't tell me you've not seen the posts of women complaining because "3 grown men walked right on by me and did absolutely nothing". Men are still expected to brave danger to save women from whatever dangerous situations they find themselves in
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:17 AM
2

You would think differently if you were on the hook for tens of thousands of dollars in child support to a kid that is not yours, you never wanted, and you have no control or authority over. You are just a donation wallet
/r/MensRights02/01/25 12:46 AM
1

It says nothing about the donor. It only specifies the husband and wife requesting the procedure
/r/MensRights02/01/25 12:43 AM
2

Thank you for your post and your support. This is precisely why I refuse to help any woman in public anymore. I refuse to put myself in any kind of legal danger. I just won't. This girl's friends should have been correcting her behavior. But they never do
/r/MensRights01/01/25 03:00 AM
1

Men often face physical abuse or murder That happens. But often? Hell no
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:51 AM
4

Because men get absolutely fucked over in "family court".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:20 AM
10

so it's OK to hate men for the right reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:44 AM
8

women do not become violent or develop a deep-rooted hatred for men if that desire is not met. There are boatloads of women who hate men. Just look on the female oriented subs on Reddit and you will see it in all its glory
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:35 PM
4

These liars get what is coming to them in the end, in the form of conflict and drama. Their lives are a huge up and down rollercoaster. You couldn't pay me enough money to deal with the fallout that they get
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:50 AM
0

People of faith are more satisfied and happier in life than non believers. This has been well studied. Nihilism will get you nowhere. Believing in something bigger than you will give you mental freedom
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:49 AM
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I am not a red piller and even I know that this is not what the red pill says. As I understand it the red pill is just a tool box that contains two pillers. #1, things you have been told about the dating market are not necessarily true. #2, It contains a number of ideas to make you as attractive as possible to maximize your success. Nowhere does it say that if you are ugly you are permanently fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 11:40 PM
4

Roy F. Baumeister is a national treasure. It's hard to believe that he has a career in academia knowing how he thinks about men and women. He is def a rebel.
/r/MensRights25/12/24 12:42 PM
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Yes it's a 100% true. Women have goals for relationships. They want a lifestyle, kids and family. As such men are judged on whether or not they can deliver on those things that help her achieve her goals. But it's not as bleak as you are making it out to be. If you can help her get her goals met and are any more attractive than a troll, she will ride and die with you all the way. You simply have to be her best option Source: Married for 36 years. My wife would literally walk barefoot through bro…
/r/MensRights25/12/24 12:40 PM
0

Maybe those women already thought you were attractive. Entirely possible for sure. But I somehow doubt it. I'm 5-8 and at the time weighed 150.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:16 AM
1

Well I gotta tell ya mate. The bowling thing got me laid twice and other interest as well that I was unable to follow up on for various reasons. And it certainly wasn't my looks. I'm basically a glorified troll. Women value men on more than looks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 01:31 AM
2

Yes, If you are looking for commitment then a woman's career is an item. For initial attraction is not a factor for most men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 01:20 AM
1

Do you know many women with those values? If you go to the gym and do actual strength and hypertrophy training instead of the typical TikTok influencer bullshit, you are already in the top 1%. Not if she's fat
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:48 AM
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They haven’t tanked at all, if the woman has a career Career is not a selling point for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:46 AM
4

Sure. Most couples are matched in looks. But that doesn't negate what I wrote in the slightest BTW, if your argument is so weak that you resort to insults, then you have lost the argument
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:45 PM
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Women think hot men are average and the rest of men are unattractive. So your comment isn't really saying much
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:25 PM
0

Most will never have status so I dont get why that gets brought up here a lot Lots of men have status. The dungeon master of your local Dungeons and Dragons get together has status. The best bowler of your little bowling league has status. The president of the home owners association can have status. The guy at the gym that everyone says hi to and seems to know everyone has status. It really doesn't take that much to be "the man" in a small arena. Women are keenly attuned to who is high status i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:00 PM
3

Status and money are still quite attractive to women. Not because of the money per se, rather it makes you look like you have your shit together. Having your shit together is very attractive to women
/r/seduction23/12/24 01:57 AM
6

she is never affectionate and we haven’t had sex in 3 years. There is no reason to stick around then
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/24 11:55 PM
4

And yet the whole world emulates the USA
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:42 PM
72

I would never donate sperm in the US either. There is no way I would open myself to changing legislation to where I could be on the hook for child support
/r/MensRights22/12/24 02:35 AM
3

Very nice. I admire your attitude my friend
/r/seduction22/12/24 12:39 AM
1

Dinner? Meh. You can keep that
/r/seduction22/12/24 12:29 AM
2

Have you ever been catfished and then you end up having to spend hours with someone you are not interested in?
/r/seduction22/12/24 12:27 AM
3

First off, let’s talk about the basics of capitalism and the working class: Capitalism is a system where the wealthy elite (the "capitalist class") exploit the labor of the working class in order to accumulate wealth. If socialism is so great why don't you move to Russia
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 11:51 PM
-1

So a 50 year old woman looks better than she did when she was 20? Not very often
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 04:08 AM
2

Good for you mate. Great story
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/24 01:52 AM
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100% spot on. Men should have the ability to financially abort the kid if it is not wanted and not have to pay child support. As it is men have no rights whatsoever in this matter. If the woman wants a kid then by default he has to be a dad. If she wants an abortion, then by default he doesn't get to be a dad. This is unequal treatment under the law
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:24 PM
2

Oh duh. I misread you. We are saying the same thing
/r/MensRights20/12/24 09:18 PM
11

Her interesting theory was that libido with a man lasts the same time it takes to nurse and raise a baby to safety (4-5 years). Most men in most marriages do not lose their libido. The women do
/r/MensRights19/12/24 11:40 PM
1

Marriage (or more accurately, divorce) is a shit deal for men. I have no idea why men keep doing it. Sure it's great for society. But society has set up rules for the institution such that it's a shit deal for men. This is not some sour grapes either. I've been happily married for 36 years. I got really lucky. I would never in a million years attempt this again
/r/MensRights19/12/24 11:37 PM
2

The money she makes should make it easier to tolerate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 05:45 PM
1

Those people say inflammatory shit to get clicks and listens. Conservatives do not want to go back to at fault divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:37 AM
17

He is dating a good girl. The crafty ones weaponize that stuff to lock you down
/r/seduction18/12/24 01:41 AM
1

ARen't you saying the same thing as what you said you disagree with?
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/24 07:48 PM
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The fear that someone better looking, better endowed or better skilled will come along and steal your girl away. And if she’s experienced other cock, she’d be tempted much easier This is a well studied issue. It has been shown that the more sexual partners a woman has had in their past, the more likely they are to divorce. We can argue about why that particular stat is true, but it is true. The men's fears about committing a resources and energy to an unfaithful partner is born out by actual dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:14 PM
2

Disagree. I was a computer science major. It was a total sausage fest. But there were attractive women all around me. All I had to do was start a conversation. It's not that hard
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:29 AM
0

That is your fellow feminist ripping you a new orifice. Why you are a feminist after getting repeatedly treated like this I will never know
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:26 AM
12

She should have gotten the bear to help her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:26 AM
1

How do you know they are conservative?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:58 AM
0

sex workers were happy that Trump won? What with him taking all of women's rights away and everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:04 AM
3

A lot of porn stars are conservative. Conservative porn star is an oxymoron. Like conservative trans man is an oxymoron
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:59 AM
14

Yes. She is exploiting the men for their material resources
/r/MensRights16/12/24 04:37 AM
14

Conservative as evidenced by what? Their political opinion? Whether they go to church or not? My personal opinion is that women who are in better physical condition are more likely to wear fitted and/or revealing clothing. I've not noticed a liberal/conservative slant to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:11 AM
256

It's ridiculous. Lily Phillips organized the whole thing. And she is exploited?
/r/MensRights16/12/24 03:59 AM
4

It's rich that you think that only men are being mean on the internet. I challenge you to look at any of the women focused sub Reddits and see some bullying
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:17 AM
4

to get women with little other choices to sleep with you That's funny. The women have no choice but to sleep with him. No choice at all. They simply cannot so no. He just has to walk right up to the woman and tell her that she will fuck him, and just like that, she does it. Amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:57 PM
5

They do seem to get really worked up about those things don't they
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:54 PM
1

There are hotties from all walks of life. I don't believe that any one group as a whole is more or less attractive than any other group
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:07 AM
1

What do you think you're doing differently that's produced different results from people who are struggling to get a relationship? I was willing to put myself out there and be social even when I didn't particularly feel like it. That allowed me to meet more people and widen my dating pool
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:04 AM
2

You sound very jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 01:08 AM
0

There are so many little things that add up to make a person more interesting, it's not like it's just one big thing, it's dozens of small details that carve out a less generic person and a less generic life overall. Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:14 PM
8

You don't have to get married to live with someone. I will never get married again.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/24 03:55 AM
1

just now in India with the bangalore techy case. What's the story here?
/r/MensRights12/12/24 03:53 AM
3

For sure. The left was all in on big drug and big govt, wanting everyone to lock down and get vaxxed, censoring anyone who wanted to investigate vax injuries
/r/MensRights12/12/24 03:33 AM
3

Yep. They talk about all the disadvantages men face, but then will state that it's basically men's fault. If only they wouldn't watch so much porn and play so many video games, they would all be normal and productive members of society that would be able to live up to women's modern standards of what a man should be. Because by golly, women aren't able to find suitable partners with these reject males
/r/MensRights12/12/24 03:30 AM
3

Identity politics is the left's entire policy and program. They are the ones droning on and on about how this group or that group is disadvantaged / disaffected relative to some other group
/r/MensRights12/12/24 03:19 AM
0

I have to agree. Most guys to could get a girl friend if they would make the effort to put themselves out there. Dress up a little. Go out in public more. Say hi to more people
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:01 AM
1

No. But it would be nice to go back to the time before cell phones, maybe the year 2005.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:45 AM
8

Women are under no such obligation. Of course not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:17 AM
3

They seem to willingly accept their subservient role. That's the thing isn't it. I would never tolerate that kind of abuse. I'd rather be single than sign up for that
/r/MensRights11/12/24 01:46 AM
2

Great summary
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:10 PM
5

Most of them are like this
/r/MensRights10/12/24 01:32 AM
3

I am a father of two kids in their 20's and have been married for 36 years Red pill has nothing to do with motherhood and family in the slightest. It's about understanding inter-sexual dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:09 AM
0

Yessir. Sadly your case is not unusual
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/24 01:08 AM
3

I'm not suggesting that all women are going to have a problem with splitting the bill. I am suggesting that most men already have trouble getting dates, much harder than most women. On top of that at least 1/2 of the women will not be willing to split the bill. Add that up and it equals a dismal experience
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:58 PM
5

IDK but all the feminists tell me that men never have to fight for their kids. They are just lazy POS's if they don't get 50/50 they say
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/24 11:23 PM
1

He's going to have a bad time if he's suggesting splitting the bill on the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:22 PM
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Askwomen
/r/MensRights09/12/24 12:49 PM
1

I'm not trying to dunk on you, but you are an example of a situation I see quite often that I am curious about. You have not been getting along well with your wife for a while, yet you have a 1 year old. Why would you have a kid with your wife when you know full well that things are not going well? I would be so turned off if I were arguing with my wife all the time. Having a kid would be the furthest thing from my mind
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/24 02:43 AM
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I am assuming that she doesn't care what I think about her. So my opinion should have no bearing on how she conducts her life. Aside from your example though, virginity was not very high on my list of things I wanted in a mate. High quality women have sex and have had past relationships. Having sex does not make her a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:21 AM
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woman is a virgin, but is not interested in being feminine in looks and behavior, doesn't respect men, is still attracted to players, has absolutely no self esteem except pride in "masculine" pursuits such as career, doesn't enjoy sex I am not going to be interested in a woman who is not interested in being feminine and doesn't respect men, regardless of her being a virgin. She wasn't valuable to me in the first place, why would her being a virgin make any difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:06 AM
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Prenups don't help in this case. The judge will see to it that the woman gets 1/2 of what was accumulated during the marriage. If the prenup doesn't allow that, the judge will simply declare the prenup to be unfair and void it
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/24 12:14 AM
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It's not about the chores, or "emotional labor" The emotional labor argument as used by unhappy women is completely ridiculous. Overwhelmingly men are the ones that have to do emotional labor. Men are the ones that have to listen to their wives talk about their feelings, while the women simultaneously want to ignore any and all good advice for a solution to those problems. Men are the ones expected to lead the family. Men are the ones expected to earn more money and be good at stewarding that mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 01:29 PM
2

Do you sincerely think feminists were the only people who wanted looser divorce laws? In the same way you can make unfounded generalizations about boomers, I can make up whatever I want about feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 01:22 PM
3

Women are overwhelmingly the ones divorcing men, not the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:23 AM
2

but that just wasn’t enough for boomer You mean it wasn't enough for feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:23 AM
2

Yes mate. Most college educated women want to be with similar men. That is going to become increasingly impossible for a growing subset of women. Nearly 60% of college grads are women. Meaning that only 40% are men. That is a massive gulf that will leave women with a big dilemma
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:19 AM
3

I'm not going to work my way into being 6ft tall
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:15 AM
1

if I gain a shit ton of weight would my partner leave me? This is why many men look for women who enjoy working out. Gaining a shit ton of weight is a definite problem
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:47 PM
2

You don't need an education to advance in life. I know some very rich blue collar dudes. One guy owns a boating marina. Another guy runs an electrician company. Neither man has a college education
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:46 PM
1

Commitment is easy to get for me. If I were single again, I would want to get laid by as many diff partners as I could
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:44 PM
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You clearly have no idea what the average male dating experience is like
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:05 PM
2

Really? Chat GPT is going to tell you to be cocky funny? I don't think so
/r/seduction07/12/24 12:43 PM
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He genuinely cares more about my own pleasure than his own, and I genuinely care about his pleasure more than my own- and I think that’s what makes us great lovers. This is coincidently the very same thing that will make your marriage last for a long time....give as much as you get
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 11:59 PM
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Long before Tate the left abandoned men. For sure. Most men don't even know who TF Tate is
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 09:21 PM
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It was “Believe Women” not “all women” It's the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 09:17 PM
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So what is he supposed to do with himself if not this?
/r/MensRights06/12/24 01:38 AM
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Exactly my point. It's allegedly gender neutral. But since women only marry men that make more then them (generally speaking), it ends up being defacto gendered against men. 97% is an overwhelmingly asymmetric figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:17 AM
1

It's not gender neutral when 97% of alimony goes to women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:41 PM
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It is about conformity, you misinformed woman of suspicious gloves. THe men in the red pill do not conform to an agreed upon set of beliefs. The red pill has a description for how the world works. Each man interprets that the way he sees fit. Thus you have diff men giving diff answers about it and those answers will be dependent upon each persons interpretation and how that interacts with his life experience
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:24 AM
1

They want a spouse that they can control with their money No they don't. They want a spouse who loves them for who they are, not for the money they bring in
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:17 AM
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That's the problem. Government mandates that the man continue his obligation of resource provider after the marriage. Govt. does not demand that women continue their role as sex provider after the marriage. It's a shitty deal for men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:15 AM
1

What does your business do?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:12 AM
1

my advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them I'm not going to be wifing up someone who has dating the bad boys, the cool boys, the crazy boys and all the rest of them. Like, what, she dates all of them and then comes to me thinking I will appreciate her experience? I don't think so
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:11 AM
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After a while, I have found I just leave them alone. There is no converting someone who is so deeply entrenched in the darkness of their own negativity that they have lost sight of the important things in life Yes. Walk away. Life is too short to spend energy on these people. They will get the karma the deserve in the end
/r/MensRights04/12/24 04:07 AM
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among them “feminist men” who “claim they are feminist but do not pitch in, pay, or help out, all in the name of gender equality”; “Peter Pans,” who are prolonging adolescence “sometimes well into their forties and beyond, with no immediate plans for marriage”; and “younger men” who “no longer believe in dating and don’t know how to do it.” Those descriptions of men tell us exactly what they think of men. It is no wonder that these women are single. IF you think that most of your dating pool is …
/r/MensRights04/12/24 03:48 AM
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You are a typical woman who values conformity. Men do not value conformity. There will never be a message from above that explicates what all red pillers should believe. It is not a prescriptive movement. Hell even blue pill men don't value conformity
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:41 AM
2

OK. What is it then if not improvement?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:36 AM
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Lack of attraction is "Oh I'm sorry. I'm just not feeling it with you". Hatred is "Eww gross. I'd rather date the bear than you". And don't forget the old reliable "kill all men"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:27 AM
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I've seen it a lot. But it's not like I keep an updated list of links to such things to present on demand. You must not know very many women to believe that women are not cruel in rejecting men who have the temerity to be ugly in their presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:29 PM
1

Yes, but what is that "hard" thing you do with your wife. what does that even mean? How rough you are?
/r/askMRP03/12/24 11:26 PM
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they think women despise men not within her standards. This happens all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:17 PM
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Typically movies are made to present some kind of drama and do not reflect real life. Reality is much more boring than would be permitted in a movie
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:14 PM
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Reality: Men will waste your time taking you on a date just to validate themselves or to keep you as a backup for their 1st option. Tell me you have no idea what men are like without telling me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:26 AM
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I've been married for 36 years. The key is that both parties have to keep trying hard to be the best person they can be. You can't quit giving it your best effort just because you are married and don't have to compete anymore. Too many people think that once you are married you can relax and finally be yourself. No can do. You need to treat each other like you are still dating. This of course only works when both people in the marriage are willing to give this kind of effort
/r/seduction03/12/24 04:18 AM
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You don't think that happens to men? Men get screamed at all the time because they have the temerity to actually recommend a solution to a problem instead of just letting the woman carry on about her problems. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg&t=8s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:35 AM
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Another bad take by Lillith
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:33 AM
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Single women have standards that they are not willing to lower
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:42 PM
1

My wife's friend introduced me to my wife. The friend actually was the one that had a crush on me, but I wasn't feeling it. The friend ended up introducing me to the girl that would become my wife
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 03:20 AM
0

Then you are a hypocrit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 03:03 AM
1

Right. So being honest is not in the slightest bit sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:47 PM
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I didn't say they were. You asked for an example. I was kind enough to provide one
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:46 PM
1

Will you give up social media, a very addictive app that gives women unrealistic expectations within a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:28 PM
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So if I came up to you and said that I really want to have sex with you right now, you would reward my honesty with sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:21 PM
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I saw a video of an unattractive woman who declared that she was going to do everything possible in terms of how she dressed to make sure that conservative men would see her has unattractive due to the election results because she didn't want anything to do with men now. The comments were not kind to her
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:21 PM
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If I lived in an area that had these kind of events, I would go just for the practice, but I certainly wouldn't be expecting anything to come from it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 11:11 PM
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That works great if you are hot enough for others to show interest in you. WE have already seen from the online dating stats that women find 80% of men unattractive. So they are not showing much interest in most men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 11:09 PM
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"if lack of oxygen is such an issue, why not just get better at dealing with the oxygen shortage"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 11:06 PM
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Be attractive. Don't be unattractive
/r/TheRedPill24/11/24 03:13 AM
1

Lifetime alimony?
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/24 02:54 AM
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BTW, if you end up shipping it, use a website called PIRATESHIP dot COM. It's much cheaper than UPS and ends up using UPS most of the time anyway. Most of the time it is 1/2 the cost PS. I am not affiliated w/ them and make no money from them if you use them. just a happy customer
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/24 11:56 PM
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It doesn't happen..... https://retractionwatch.com/2015/07/21/to-our-horror-widely-reported-study-suggesting-divorce-is-more-likely-when-wives-fall-ill-gets-axed/ Furthermore, Some people get divorced so that the medical debt of the cancer victim doesn't bring down the couple's finances. They get divorced but are still together. None of those studies examined who file for divorce or why they filed. People are just assuming that "men bad" therefore he must have left the wife to go fuck other wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 01:01 AM
3

Essentially, correlation does not mean causation, as is often the case when looking at single data points. And yet you were perfectly willing to shit all over men for leaving their wives when the wives get cancer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:38 AM
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Can't argue w/ that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:12 PM
2

watch the video. It is all explained quite logically
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:12 PM
1

Calling your wife a 9 is bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 03:06 AM
1

Solid analysis. I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 03:04 AM
2

Being a man is great if you are amongst the top 5-10%. Otherwise it's way better to be a young woman. Being an older woman is not as easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 03:04 AM
2

There are so many luxuries I enjoy, as a man, that I couldn’t envision ever being a woman. Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 03:03 AM
1

Women have higher floor men have higher ceilings . What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 03:00 AM
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I cared a tremendous amount about my future wife's earning potential. I'll be damned if I was going to get married to someone who could potentially require a ton of alimony in case we got divorced. Fortunately as of being married 36 years it hasn't come to that. I will never understand how a man can say he doesn't care how much money his GF/wife makes. There are a lot of characteristics that tag along with someone who is able to make good money and conversely someone who cannot make good money
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 01:24 AM
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Your response tells me that you don't have the kind of money that OP has. For high earners, conventional dating is a huge money loser. Psychacks did a 3 part series on why high earning men would use escorts. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Z62YOHP1uc It's enlightening. You should check it out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 01:20 AM
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You are only partly right. Everyone has gotten pickier these days. Men, women, gays, lesbians, everyone is demanding more. Nobody wants to settle even the slightest bit for anyone less than perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:20 AM
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Lmao, what? I have 4 chicks in my DMs right now. If you were really good, you'd have them in your bed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:18 AM
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A woman's only bathroom is pretty standard operating procedure isn't it?
/r/MensRights21/11/24 12:15 AM
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They see their average fathers with their mothers, the mothers often go to work and on top of that take on the role of mother with cooking, cleaning and housework while the father just "goes to work". This is because the man almost always makes more money. Making more money is not easy. There is always a price to be paid for it. Why does a person make more money? It's because they produce more at their work. If the woman would make more money then she should do it and the man can fart around in …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:13 AM
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I can find something attractive about damn near any woman. The trick is to focus on those attributes that you find attractive and try to ignore the rest. If you want to make her your GF, then this trick won't work very long. After a while you start noticing all the things you were trying to ignore. but for short term fun, just focus on her good points
/r/seduction20/11/24 02:58 AM
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I'm offended by her comment. She's implying that any man of your age who wants to get with a woman of child bearing age (younger than you) is a creep for wanting such a thing. It's a kneejerk response that women have whenever an older man dates a younger woman. But even a professional who you have a good relationship with can't help herself. She has to side with the hypothetical woman who she doesn't even know, over the man in front of her who she does know and is being paid to help. It is quite…
/r/MensRights20/11/24 02:46 AM
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You haven't a clue
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:27 PM
1

And what's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:45 PM
9

H100?
/r/MensRights19/11/24 09:43 PM
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They were/are attracted to those women. They couldn't maintain erections if they weren't. You don't know the first thing about men and their erections. Men can get an erection from the wind blowing. Having one doesn't mean that he is attracted to her in the least
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:42 PM
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what it says to me is that the woman would never voluntarily message or make a move on the 80%, but is willing to be convinced that her initial impression of the man as unattractive is wrong. It puts the man in an unfavorable position. I do not believe that the idea that women will message men who they think are unattractive is a win for men, like you are suggesting. Men do a similar thing where they will date a woman who they think is unattractive, just to get her in bed. So I'm not suggesting …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:01 PM
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Ok but women still message men they found unattractive But only after the man messaged first. Women generally do not make the first move. They want the man to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:41 PM
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IDK how effective it is. I have two kids who are in their 20's. One is trans, who thinks Bernie is too far right. The other loves Trump. This movement has clearly missed the target w/ one of my kids
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:10 PM
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Well put. That's been my experience too. One of the best managers I ever had was a woman. But I also suffered through so many bad ones. The bad men managers were never incompetent like the women. Instead, they thought they were going places and tried too hard, making everyone jump through unnecessary hoops all the time, so that he could show how great he was to upper management.
/r/MensRights19/11/24 02:36 AM
2

Gamers are literal evil that's destroying democracy? How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:26 AM
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Yep. Feminists came for all of those male only spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:24 AM
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My guess..... All of these women were giving you subtle signals that they wanted you to approach them and make a move. You didn't make a move and they end up getting butt hurt because of it.
/r/MensRights18/11/24 02:06 AM
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The concept of "the wall" is ridiculous. We all know scads of women over 35 who are drop dead gorgeous and could get damn near any man she wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:56 AM
3

exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:44 PM
1

Did being in a frat cause the men to have better mental health or are people with better mental health more frequently enrolled in frats? What came first, the chicken or the egg?
/r/MensRights17/11/24 10:41 PM
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men do not value a woman's old age and experience. That's what women value.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:37 PM
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A woman who keeps herself in good condition can always find a man. That she has money makes it even easier for her. My friend's 47 y/o wife does bikini competitions. She looks amazing and could get nearly any man she wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:26 PM
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You don't just stop someone doing whatever and expect them to talk to you. Would you do that to a man or a child? I start up conversations with men out in public all of the time. They mostly tend to like enjoy it. As for children, as a man I'm not going anywhere near a kid let alone speak to one. And to be fully transparent, in my experience most women are receptive to random conversations with me out in public as well. I wasn't trying to pick anyone up though. Maybe my results would be differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:39 PM
2

Depends on the topic. You have to do a lot of work to suss out different sources and make a judgement
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:12 AM
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Virtually no commercial news orgs are fair and accurate. They all have massive bias. The best you can do is to cobble together independent voices on each topic that you are interested in
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:01 AM
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Because they know that the MSM has agendas that are not the same as the news consumer. The MSM is concerned about impressions and profits, not fairness and accuracy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:36 AM
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What I mean is, If a man is not attractive to you, would you really waste your time trying to connect? Maybe I'm wrong, but it just seems unlikely to me. Like the man would have to pass some base level of attraction before you would even consider wanting to get to know him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 11:39 PM
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Imagine thinking any mainstream media source is credible. According to the associated press (they have to be accurate, it's mainstream media, right?) over 1/2 of the people in the USA believe that news orgs deliberately lie to them. Media cred it at an all time low, for good reason
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 11:27 PM
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Nah. Attraction comes first, connection comes later. If you can't attract a mate, you won't be able to connect with a mate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 11:16 PM
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Honestly if I were your wife and you were buying your mom a house, I'd be pissed. The basic equation in male/female relationships is that men trade resources for sex and women trade sex for resources. You are giving resources to your mother, which means you are throwing off the equation. Unless of course you are fantastically wealthy and already live in a mansion with your wife, then you get a pass on this. Otherwise I hate your idea Your wife is giving you shit because now, she doesn't feel lik…
/r/askMRP16/11/24 12:19 PM
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I'm with you on the warm approach. If she's seen you multiple times before, it makes things go much better. Sure you might get blown out anyway, but she's likely to be nicer about it in that context. And if you handle the rejection properly it doesn't have to be awkward afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 06:08 PM
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I've seen many many women flat out say they don't want to be approached in public at all. So while there are also many women who are OK with it, men do not know which category any given woman belongs to
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:53 PM
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. I've been on dates with guys who insisted (in a very rude way) to pay. I don't know if they thought it was some point of masculine pride or whatever Lots of women make token gestures of paying, but get the ick if the man doesn't insist that he pays. Different women respond to different tactics.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:41 AM
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And yet the left can't even make themselves talk about it, let alone do something about it. The right has its own set of issues but at least they don't actively shit on men. The left likes to use toxic masculinity as the scapegoat for all of their problems
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:27 PM
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I recommend that you read the original post to help you decipher what the topic of conversation is. We are not discussing men vs women here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:24 PM
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Yes that is true. I'm not trying to imply men are somehow better. We were trying to explain women here. Men have their own set of quirks, but pining for a LTR but instead only getting laid a lot is not a frequent complaint amongst men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:27 AM
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They are picking wrong. They are picking the same men that every other woman also picks. These men have lots of options and getting dates and sex is easy for them. Remember the online dating survey that said that women find 80% of men unattractive. Thus these women are all piling onto the same 20% of men, who get most of the attention from women. These men are having the time of their lives getting laid and sleeping around. Why on earth would they commit to any one woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:10 PM
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What's so galling about this is that when women trailed men in education and business, the government mandated that education and business change, and to create special programs and funds to meet the female sensibilities. Now when men are further behind in education than women were back when title IX started, the story is that men just can't adapt. No changes are being made on men's behalf
/r/MensRights13/11/24 03:35 AM
2

Most lawyers and therefore most judges are liberal. The law profession is overwhelmingly liberal
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/24 12:02 AM
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It's no different than women using men as financial objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:58 PM
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Republicans tend not to play identity politics. They haven't segregated people into discrete buckets. It's the dems that support everyone but men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:32 PM
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This must be particular to the people you know. I personally am on the boomer/millennial line. I would have no problem finding another mate should I end up divorced. I know lots of other married men who are quite active and vibrant in their lives who would be able to pick up and move on after divorce. Your father got fat and lazy and that is hard to get out of even if there were no divorce involved
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:30 PM
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I don't think women are naturally just better at this. They probably are better at it, just because they want those social connections more than men. Similar to how men seem to mostly be the ones to fix things around the house. Men don't come out of the womb knowing how to do plumbing and electrical, but we do tend to be more interested in it than women, and thus end up being the default handyman. Women end up being the default social calendar maker
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:23 PM
1

That's a fair point actually. Mothers def deserve some compensation for the toll it takes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:46 AM
1

https://democrats.org/who-we-are/who-we-serve/ The Democrats plank mentions every special interest group except men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:15 AM
0

Women like to file false domestic violence claims as a tactic to gain advantage in divorce cases.
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/24 01:04 AM
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he orders that both parties are restrained and prohibited from involving law enforcement in any way to gain an advantage in the divorce action The judge is acknowledging that some people are prone to filing false DV claims as a tactic in divorce cases
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/24 01:03 AM
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Pre-nups are hard to maintain with children though, mainly because the court tries to preserve a child's "state of life" through the divorce. Also correct. they have done away with most alimony and replaced it with child support
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:23 AM
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The pay gap has been shown over and over and over again to come down to career choices, men working more hours, having more experience and taking more dangerous jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:21 AM
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Correct. Marriage comes with a set of terms dictated by the state. A prenup cannot overcome those terms. That's why the only reasonable response is to not get married if you do not like those terms. And for men (or the higher earning spouse, which is usually men) those terms suck
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:19 PM
1

What exactly does she think is going to happen?
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/24 12:36 PM
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Yes. If you don't follow a solid process they can get thrown out. That's fair. I am talking about the horror stories where all of the industry best practices are followed and some judge with a stick up his butt arbitrarily decides that the agreement isn't fair and rips it up. It happens all the time. The only solution is to not get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:36 PM
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Honestly I'd be disappointed if it were my wife in this situation. And I would be sure she knew about it. You can't make anyone do anything, but I would be pulling back support from her priorities
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/24 03:34 AM
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What exactly does she think is going to happen if she sets foot in the USA?
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/24 03:23 AM
1

Orion Taraban of Psychacks is amazing. He's not a men's rights guy, but he has amazing advice for men's life
/r/MensRights11/11/24 03:00 AM
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Any judge having a bad day can declare that your prenup is unfair and he/she can shred it on the spot. Just don't get married. It's not worth it anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:56 AM
12

Oh yeah. Men never lied to women before the manosphere came along /s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:19 AM
3

"hundreds of men dead. Women most affected"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/24 01:38 PM
2

How tall are you?
/r/seduction10/11/24 04:09 AM
16

There is a recent trend going on reddit blaming men for the recent elections. Guilty as charged
/r/MensRights10/11/24 12:01 AM
1

He's not looking at the camera in any of these pics. I am assuming that's on purpose. I have heard other dating "advisors" say that you should have at least one pic looking into the camera. Your experience says different?
/r/seduction09/11/24 11:58 PM
9

She's just not that into you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 11:56 PM
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If she is honest as to why she is rejecting him, he may get angry, defensive, insecure, or even violent This is not gendered. Women typically don't take it well when rejected either, yes including violence
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 10:30 PM
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Cheaters don't deserve shit. She boned you and everything you stand for. I know what I would do
/r/askMRP09/11/24 09:23 PM
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I'm not making a move on anybody I work with directly or who is even in the same company. No way
/r/seduction09/11/24 01:44 AM
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That's rich. Under Trump we were signing middle east peace pacts and fighting no wars. Under Biden we are shipping billions to Ukraine in a proxy war with Russia and the middle east is blowing up in his face in advance of WWIII
/r/MensRights09/11/24 01:41 AM
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Focus on issues impacting the working class Frank Lunz made the observation that Trump won with those voters who are living paycheck to paycheck. Whatever their demographic, the people who mostly voted for Trump were those living paycheck to paycheck. The Democrats appealed to the wealthy college educated demographic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:35 AM
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We’ve had only male presidents, still the vast majority of CEO’s are male. Where is the discrimination? This is the apex fallacy. The experience of the top 0.05% of men doesn't reflect the experience of the rest of the 99.95% of men. Nor does it negate that men die earlier than women, commit more suicide, are the vast majority of homeless, are victims of crime far more often, are discriminated against in education and industry, are punished more harshly for the same offense as women, attend coll…
/r/MensRights08/11/24 11:10 PM
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Yeah well if you bury your head in the sand you probably won't see any hate against men
/r/MensRights08/11/24 10:51 PM
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There is a certain type of vulnerability that is always a hit with the ladies, You're entirely correct about this of course. The trouble is, most guys are very uncalibrated about this and instead of demonstrating attractive vulnerability will slip into letting that weak kind ooze out. Better to keep it mostly bottled up until you know what you are doing
/r/seduction08/11/24 02:54 AM
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You have a misguided idea of what real feminism is. It was always a superiority movement. Equality was never the goal. You personally have the right idea, but you are in the minority. The majority of feminism agrees with "kill all men" and "all men are evil"
/r/MensRights08/11/24 02:44 AM
0

that's a very shiny tin foil hat you have there
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:41 AM
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That's a ridiculous statement. MAGA'ts marry people they shouldn't and want divorce just as much as anybody else. They're not going to try to eliminate no fault
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:39 AM
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Most women already avoid most men. 4B will make no difference whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:34 AM
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Porn is like alcohol. Some people can use it responsibly and some can't. if you can't use it responsibly then you probably shouldn't
/r/seduction08/11/24 12:02 AM
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Most women are not big fans of their man having a vastly higher body count than they themselves have ... with civilian women. If he's used prostitutes then it's even more unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:28 AM
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This is some insane shit.
/r/MensRights06/11/24 01:49 AM
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Most men are more than willing to take care of their kids. They are not happy to be buying the EX new shoes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:43 AM
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I have a 3rd grade education, why do you ask
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:22 AM
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RP men do not hate child support that is related to the cost of raising their own children. They hate it because child support payments are only tangentially related to the cost of raising a kid and there is no requirement that the mother spend the money on the kids instead of Prada handbags
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:21 AM
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So "kill all men" is OK by you then?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:05 AM
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Divorce is not a sin in RP. Maybe in religion, but not RP. RP is more likely to say not to get married in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:04 AM
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Men killing their wives didn't happen 30 years ago? You are wrong. Crime rates have actually gone down dramatically since 1990
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:01 AM
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Yes, women judge men more harshly BUT they are more likely to still give those men a chance. Why would I want to date a woman who finds me unattractive, but is willing to give me a chance? What so I can work to earn her affection despite that she finds me unattractive? No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 11:46 PM
1

Do you have any friends that you could ask. There's got to be some thing that you are not seeing that others are to explain this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:42 PM
2

Dude, I'm a 5'8" troll and I got dates. You are literally 6'. Just suck it up and go ask some women on dates
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 04:02 AM
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That's exactly what they say right before they get taken to the cleaners by their cheating ex. Then it's all boo hoo, why didn't anybody tell me this could happen
/r/TheRedPill05/11/24 03:50 AM
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If you are good at cold approaching, you are probably good at all the other dating methods. So if you read content that helps you get good at cold approach, then you are getting advice on other dating methods, say social circle, for instance. At the end of the day, no matter what method you use, you still have to learn how to socialize and escalate a situation towards a sexual encounter
/r/seduction05/11/24 03:27 AM
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It matters a lot. If you go to get a job and a woman is your competition. She will get the job. If you get convicted of a crime, you will do more time than a woman. If you get divorced your EX will get the house and live in it with her boyfriend, while you get thrown out on the street and have to pay her "child support" and alimony. If you and her get into a domestic fight, she will call the cops and you will go to jail. It matters a lot
/r/TheRedPill05/11/24 02:41 AM
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, I agree that “toxic masculinity” is a real thing. I'll agree to this if you agree that toxic femininity is a thing
/r/TheRedPill05/11/24 02:26 AM
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Equal rights under the law would be a good start. Men are discriminated against in the draft, on campus courts, in divorce courts and in law courts. Men are discriminated against in employment and in schools. I can't tell you how many women only events and opportunities I was denied in the corporate and educational worlds because I am a man. Men are still assumed to be the aggressor in many domestic situations, because, how could a 200lb man be afraid of a little 125lb woman? He must be guilty, …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:06 AM
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I don’t see very modest, religious women, with sweet personalities being chased, Although religion is not my thing, I am married to a religious woman who is attractive, sweet yet very street smart and capable. What I saw in my own circle of friends was that the fake extroverted attention seekers got lots of attention, but didn't get commitment. The cute, sweet and modest girls got commitment and marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:58 PM
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I guess we all have our struggles. I was making good money at your age and was social enough, but certainly never had women offering themselves up to me. If I wanted a date I had to work for it and risk rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:58 AM
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Garbage in garbage out
/r/MensRights04/11/24 02:27 AM
2

Yep. The wife and I are fucking more than we did when we first met
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:24 AM
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is that I'm 6'3 Oh yeah you're nothing special. You are only the 97th percentile for the top most requested characteristic of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:23 AM
1

What is auth right, auth left, lib right and lib left?
/r/MensRights04/11/24 01:09 AM
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We need to organize and get gender-neutral draft legislation, and custody court reform, and making the protections on genital mutilation protect men, too... etc. Amen to that brother
/r/MensRights04/11/24 12:53 AM
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Ok good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:28 AM
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How did they lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:49 PM
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That's ridiculous. Just because some whack job on the right said something doesn't mean that it is official policy. There are some crazy people on the left as well, so should we believe that Harris is going to do everything that George Soros wants her to do?
/r/MensRights03/11/24 11:48 PM
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Yes those standards are not egregious. But you left of the standards where he also has to be good looking, taller than you and charismatic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:44 PM
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Things must change fast. In 2019 Pew Research reported that 30% of men did not have sex in the prior year
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:42 PM
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The RP is written by men who couldn't get relationships or experiences with women without playing games, lies, etc. Single men being sluts. In other words, they used games that women responded to thus the red pill men and the women got the relationships and sex they both wanted and and then the red pill guys wrote about how they did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:37 PM
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Media literacy would be a better thing to teach today's 20-somethings and younger. People are well aware of the media and what they are up to. That's why trust in the media is at an all time low. Everyone now understands how corrupt and biased they are. I am old enough to remember when being a journalist was a prestigious occupation. Now that job is looked at in disdain
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:05 PM
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Every special interest group is given a special mention in democrats "who we serve" plank https://democrats.org/who-we-are/who-we-serve/Do you see men mentioned here? I see women mentioned. So are men not important to the democrats?
/r/MensRights03/11/24 10:51 PM
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did he say he wasn't going to deport women? I heard he wanted to do deportations but hadn't heard women getting an exemption
/r/MensRights03/11/24 10:45 PM
0

HR departments have fired all the men who sleep with the secretary
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:40 PM
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Most women who go out w/ their friends for a night out of dancing and drinking are not looking to fuck someone besides their mate. HOWEVER, if a woman were to want to hook up with another man, a night out of drinking and dancing would be a great cover story. It happens enough that it is a cliche for a reason. You would have to be willfully oblivious to have not heard the stories of this happening This phenomenon has been studied very well in the sociology literature. Women who are ovulating dres…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:23 AM
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Horrible choices. But if these were the only 2 women in the world left I would choose #1. At least I know she probably likes sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:28 AM
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How is liking/obsessing about celebs insecure? She could be very self assured but also have a celeb kink
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:26 AM
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The best thing you can do is stop paying her much attention. then go on a date with someone else. She will realize that she's not special and that you can replace her. It will sober her right up. As it is with you at her beck and call, she is using you to make herself feel better at your expense. Don't let her use you. You want to grow old with someone and she has told you that she is not it
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/24 10:36 PM
1

The pregnancy TikTok is weird, very weird
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:22 AM
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Yes she should have checked. I have found that when I am at other people;s house, they frown on me throwing orange peels on the floor, so I usually do use the garbage can
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:02 AM
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The perfect woman for me wouldn't be making such ridiculous statements like that. It's hella weird leaving a pic where I can find it and then claiming that I am snooping. That's game playing right there and I'm not down with that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:55 AM
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At the margins they might get some traction, the same way that porn competes with actual women today. But I believe that the kind of men who would settle for an AI are not the kind of men women want anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:50 AM
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I'd be curious. Finding the pic would be a good opportunity to dig into why they broke up and how she feels about it. I have learned a lot about the women I am dating just by asking them things. This situation doesn't have to be weird unless I make it weird
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:21 AM
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I hear that men feel uncomfortable being with a woman with more power/a higher salary, There are *SOME* men who feel uncomfortable with this but I think that number is blown way out of proportion. In addition, as you state, it is *WOMEN* who feel most uncomfortable with a man who earns less. Do you know when women are most likely to leave a man? When he loses his job
/r/MensRights01/11/24 09:39 PM
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Based on fantasies shared here, it seems the goal is to marry and cheat. No no no. If a man gets married he gets divorce raped when the inevitable happens. A red pill man would "spin plates", never marrying
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:35 PM
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This isn't red pill. Red pill would say don't get married in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:32 PM
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Oh I see. You were able to guide the men into the right poses to make them look good. That makes sense. Forgive my ignorance, I've not used a professional photog before. You're entirely correct about sitting on your hands doing nothing. The men who really want it badly enough will take action to make things happen. We can always improve on our situation with some effort
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:34 PM
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why would a man want to be with a woman who thinks that he is unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 12:42 PM
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That's correct advice of course, but is akin to telling an every day accountant that in order to get good at basketball they should play more like Kobe Bryant or Michael Jordan. Most men can't even take pics to be attractive to the male gaze let alone the female gaze
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 12:42 PM
2

Take medication to destroy a perfectly natural and healthy process? You are out of your mind
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 12:38 PM
3

Duration is not the same thing as intensity. Your comparison is apples to oranges and invalid
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:58 PM
1

Right. And god help you if you wifed her up because now you owe alimony and are on the hook for support for a bad decision
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:53 PM
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It astounds me the number of men who will shit on other men for bringing up men's issues and men's rights. They think it will help them get laid with women who see them dunking on men and defending women. White knight syndrome
/r/MensRights30/10/24 01:42 AM
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Depends on how old I am in this scenario. But generally I'd be game for her. Sometimes there's a good reason why people are single. They are messed up people. But sometimes good people get overlooked and end up single at 35. You have to be careful about older single people. The people who are good at and value relationships get into them younger and stay in them, because they are good at relationships. Sometimes the people that aren't good at them end up single
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:13 AM
2

DInner dates? absolutely not
/r/seduction29/10/24 11:48 PM
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How shitty of a deal divorce is for most men. I never hear horror stories about divorce court from women. Only men
/r/MensRights29/10/24 08:08 PM
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I saw that clause. Problem is, the ideal partner today can turn into somebody else tomorrow and i would have no recourse. For men, marriage is a shit deal. The main benefit that women get from marriage, provisioning and protection are mandated by the state and I can be ordered to continue my end of the bargain after marriage. But the main benefit I get, sex, goes away after marriage. Aside from that, if she was guaranteed to never divorce me and will always be the ideal partner then yes I would …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:10 AM
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I wouldn't mind being the provider in normal times, but with today's marriage laws that are stacked against men, there is no way in god's green earth I would be the provider. She could divorce me for any reason or no reason whatsoever and I would have to support her into the future and get no benefit at all. I've seen way too many horror stories from other men to get sucked into that trap. I'm happily married for many years now. My wife has always made nearly as much money as me. I'm more comfor…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:41 AM
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Most of the issues are focused around her commentary and a lack of respect That would be hard to swallow. I'll tolerate a lot, but disrespect isn't one of them. Have you specifically mentioned this to her?
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/24 11:39 PM
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we can quibble about the exact numbers but suffice it to say that your chances of being in a happy marriage are not good
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 10:50 PM
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I have always been 110% for abortion at damn near any point in the process, including immediately after the baby is born. My wife? She is 110% against abortion. She doesn't even like Plan B like products. There are plenty of couples like my wife and I. So it is clearly not just a "men are taking away women's rights" issue
/r/MensRights28/10/24 10:46 PM
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Did you actually go to high school or college? Have you ever been to a club on a weekend? Or a music festival. My youngest just graduated HS. Most kids are not partying and constantly going to music fests. They are mostly online. Fewer and fewer young people are having sex these days. In fact all sorts of risk behaviors are down from prior generations, Drinking, smoking, drugs, sex even getting drivers licenses is down
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:03 PM
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IDK about you, but I would make my wife take the MF dog back to wherever she got it from. Nobody is sneaking a dog into my house. I'd lay odds that within a year she'll be having you walk the thing every day cuz she's too lazy to do it herself
/r/askMRP27/10/24 12:48 AM
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Smart. She sees what she wants and takes steps to get it. Smart
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:10 PM
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women are more emotionally intelligent I'd like to see your evidence on this one. I've seen plenty of stunted individuals of either gender
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:35 PM
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. I think when men say they want a submissive woman they mean they want an agreeable kind woman who is cares about them and is eager to please I would agree with this. What submission looks like to me is just her being friendly, feminine and giving me peace not drama
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:54 PM
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Yes my friend. And I bet if they got rid of the chip, their results would be even better. I do think some women can kind sense that they have that saltiness about them
/r/seduction24/10/24 11:40 AM
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I think for a lot of those PUA guys, if they didn't have that chip on their shoulder, they wouldn't have had the motivation to push through all of the discomfort that comes with the game. Getting good at pick up can be a very painful process. Without that chip, most of them wouldn't have stuck it out and they never would have succeeded in the first place.
/r/seduction24/10/24 02:39 AM
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You are right of course. But the urge to tell them to go fuck themselves, while I eject from society is very strong. I can only hear "the future is female", "kill all men" or "I'd rather date the bear" so many times before I conclude that I don't want any part of that shit
/r/MensRights24/10/24 02:28 AM
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Oof. If he were my son I would just tell him that that is something that married people do and you 2 are not married anymore. I wouldn't want to do it either. Surely he has had a GF before in his life. Ask him if he would want to baby sit his EX like he is asking you to do
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/24 02:21 AM
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What exactly is your son asking you to do?
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/24 02:03 AM
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Those guys just don't want to do what it takes to get the girls they want. They could if they wanted to. They just don't want it bad enough. But I don't believe they are emblematic of most men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:52 AM
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this weird point of view that all human relationships are purely transactional. All relationships are transactional. You won't have a relationship with someone who can give you no value. Would you continue to love your wife or GF who refused to speak with you, interact with you or acknowledge your existence?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:47 PM
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TL/DR: Women are attracted to things like confidence, masculinity and humor. Show her those behaviors and she is more likely to think you look good, no matter what you look like
/r/seduction23/10/24 10:32 PM
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Option 2: Male self-improvement and community support - Men work together to either grow into the kinds of partners that women want or build connections that support single men. OK I will bite on this one. What do women want?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:13 PM
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You are only noticing the downsides of masculinity. Virtually all of the creature comforts we have are because of men. Most women simply do not have the competitive drive to single-mindedly focus on solving a given particular problem. Men have more of a tendency to be either complete morons or brilliant geniuses. Women cluster towards the middle. Those genius men are the ones that give us the breakthroughs for a better life. Men also due to their makeup are the ones that commit more crimes. It's…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:09 PM
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yes, you are the unicorn. Generally speaking men are hornier than women. I can say that men are taller than women as well. Of course there are taller women than some men. But the general rule is that men are taller than women. And the statement that men are taller than women is true. Just like men are hornier than women is true
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:07 PM
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RIght you are horny on selected parts of your cycle. but not if you are tired or stressed or it's tuesday or his name ends with an N or if he gives you the ick or etc etc. men are horny 24/7/365 full stop
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:56 AM
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Yep. I love women. I don't like the laws surrounding marriage. I'm actually happily married for 36 years, but I feel lucky, while my friends get taken to the cleaners in bitter divorces. I would never marry again in a million years
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/24 02:38 AM
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Yep. I love women. I don't like the laws surrounding marriage. I'm actually happily married for 36 years, but I feel lucky, while my friends get taken to the cleaners in bitter divorces. I would never marry again in a million years
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/24 02:37 AM
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It has outlived its usefulness and has now morphed into a "kill all men" movement that wants to take away the rights of men. See title IX legislation where men do not get due process rights
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:17 AM
1

That's a very smart idea. If I were a woman, that's what I would be trying
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:19 PM
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Correct. Much of it is due to occupational segregation where women are not welcomed into typically men’s work spaces Gonna disagree with you there. The government and HR departments have gone to insane lengths to integrate women into men's work. There are job fair for women only. Networking for women only. Women in STEM seminars, for women only. etc etc. There is nothing of the sort for me of course
/r/MensRights22/10/24 02:54 AM
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How many of those men just wanted them for sex and didn't actually respect them? Better to be wanted for sex than not wanted at all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:44 AM
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Why do they call out all the other ethnic groups, except whites?
/r/MensRights22/10/24 01:34 AM
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This is beyond wrong. There have been scads of social experiments where the largest, most obese woman can set up a profile and get hundreds of responses, while an average to above average man will get 2 or 3. Clearly women, ugly and fat, or not, have it easier than men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:33 AM
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I guess they don't appreciate white people either. All the other races are supported, but no mention of white people.
/r/MensRights22/10/24 12:22 AM
1

Well give up the goods. What were your truth or dare statements?
/r/seduction22/10/24 12:12 AM
3

That may be true in age ranges greater than 25. But for ages 15-25 men are vastly more horny than women. As well women are better than men at regulating their urges. They won't go to the lengths that men will to get sex, which is why prostitution is primarily aimed at men and porn at men. You won't see women using men for sex nearly as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:25 PM
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it appears that a lot of guys just want something physical and nothing more. Many (most?) men go on a date hoping for sex. If the date really clicks and they actually like the woman and feel like there is long term potential, they keep coming back for more dates. One date at a time is how short term ends up long term. The thing is, there are very few people who are candidates for a LTR. Nobody, including you, is compatible with most people. In fact you are incompatible with most people for a LTR…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:23 PM
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Duh. Men are compelled towards sex. Go into some of the FtM trans pages where they talk about the unrelenting sex drive associated with male levels of testosterone for more clarity on this issue. Women have no idea what it feels like to be a man until they live as one. Then a lightbulb goes off in their heads and they begin to understand what it feels like to have their body's pushing them to get sex 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:17 PM
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Men who are in constant need of a free therapist. This is all on you and the women. Most men would gladly bottle up every ounce of emotion they ever had, but that doesn't last long in a relationship because women always want him to "open up". "I feel so distant from you. What are you thinking about? I need more intimacy." is a common refrain men hear. So now that you have men opening up to you, you want to weaponize it and complain about being a free therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:59 PM
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I certainly see Harris as being pro-women, I don’t think that means they are anti men. She is of the same party and from the same executive office as Biden. It is reasonable to expect that many of the key players from Biden's admin will carry over into her admin. Those very same people are the ones that fucked men over in all of the title IX regulations in school. My taxes went up as I live in a blue state and the tariffs raised prices on things for my business I remember that happening. It limi…
/r/MensRights21/10/24 02:45 AM
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OK I see what you mean. Trump did not have the full support of the Republican party. Many didn't want him to win. Like I said, just being not anti-man is a good start.
/r/MensRights21/10/24 02:22 AM
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You aren't understanding the separation of powers. Only congress can pass laws. All Trump, or any president can do is enact executive orders, which can be overturned by the next administration. And in this case Biden overturned all of Trumps EO's regarding men's rights in education
/r/MensRights21/10/24 02:14 AM
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Most students can't afford an attorney to file suit against a university with it's billions in endowment money. So the men just get kicked out with no chance of a fair hearing or any chance of recompense
/r/MensRights21/10/24 01:55 AM
2

At least Trump isn't anti-man, like Harris and the Democrats
/r/MensRights21/10/24 01:54 AM
4

Good luck on surgery mate. I hope they give you better mobility and no more pain
/r/MensRights21/10/24 12:59 AM
2

Being in shape with a hair cut isn't going to fix 5' 8", with an ugly face
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:59 PM
4

IDK about that. I see a lot of complaints on Reddit about how "he used me for 4 years but doesn't want to commit. I don't get it".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:55 PM
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Yes he was able to approach OP. But I"m still laying money down that he finds it challenging to make friends with new people
/r/seduction20/10/24 09:43 PM
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His problem is that he is unable to talk to anyone very well, let alone women. He's just not used to making insta friends at all
/r/seduction20/10/24 08:20 PM
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Yeah but women view a loving relationship as the reward. Yes mate, that's what they say, but fuck boys are likely not the ones to give them a loving relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:55 AM
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Sure. It's tricky to isolate it down to just one person. There is always interplay between partners. But IIRC it was not a subtle difference
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:37 AM
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I believe if a woman is wealthy enough to pay a lawyer to leave a bad and abusive marriage I think she will do so. If I am not referring to abusive situations. In any given marriage, women who out earn their partner is more likely to leave said partner than average, regardless of abuse or not I would obligue him to help in domestic duties and childcare As well you should. Earning money is a difficult business. The more of it you make, typically the more demands are put upon you in return. It is …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:32 AM
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Women leave men more often when said women earn more money than their male partner. This is why men instinctually find it uncomfortable to not earn more than the wife
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 01:06 AM
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Oh yes clearly they do. It's the same response you'd see on any given Reddit post about men's issues.
/r/MensRights20/10/24 12:54 AM
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I know lots of married decent men. The trick is that they have to hide the decent side of them else the women get repulsed by it. Lots of women think that if you treat them well that you must be weak and desperate. Their little hamster brain wonders why else would you be nice to them if you weren't desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 11:40 PM
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I didn't see 50 shades. But I do have my own eyes and ears. And women absolutely love the bad boys and hate the nice guys
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 11:21 PM
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I don't know who keeps pushing this advice, my guess is out of touched boomers, The youngest boomer is 60 years old. You think young men are listening to 65 year old men? That's a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:11 AM
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Fair enough. I'm actually sorry to hear that, for your sake, and because I would have hoped that normal men wouldn't be so quick to dismiss you for being a virgin. Especially when you have so many men complaining that they can't find someone to date I actually ended up marrying a virgin. It didn't bother me in the slightest. It was interesting to me, but not in an OMFG kind of way. She didn't make it a big deal and neither did I. She was very sexual, from the first date, she just hadn't fucked a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:55 AM
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I heard guys in my university talking about how it as annoying or inconvenient to be with an inexperienced woman since that means they’ll have to teach her everything they already knew and that’s “boring”. I don't get it. These are the men who just want to fuck and presumably the men who you'd be happy to not have to deal with. Instead of being happy that they showed themselves to be fuck boys, you seem to be upset that the fuckboys want nothing to do with you. The men who don't care whether the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:32 PM
2

that's so compassionate of you /s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:25 PM
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Being a virgin isn't amongst the top factors involved with finding a woman attractive or unattractive. If a man is into her aside from considering her sexual status, he's still going to be into her after finding out she's a virgin. If he just wanted to fuck, then yes, he might deduct a point or two because getting a virgin in bed might be more effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:24 PM
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Federal outlays as a % of GDP has been going up since the 50's and thus the government has been getting more powerful since that time, not weaker. A govt that spent 0% of GDP would be weak. A govt that spends 100% of GDP is the most powerful. https://fred.stlouisfed.org/series/FYONGDA188S
/r/MensRights18/10/24 02:02 AM
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I mean yes sure all those are important. But in the initial attracting phase when you first meet, none of those qualities are apparent. All you have to go on is looks and status
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 12:08 PM
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The woman in question would have a bad feeling about the whole thing and would associate the rescuer with that bad feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:09 AM
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and who knows what may follow I would rescue even my worst enemy in this situation. This is a basic humanity thing. And not that I would be expecting anything in return for helping, there is no way in hell that you'd get a date from rescuing someone like that. The energy would be off
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:22 AM
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Feminine and pleasant have a lot of overlap IMO. She is sweet, caring, unpretentious, happy/positive and giving
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 11:59 PM
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LOL She's got some. But they don't happen very often. Nobody's perfect. I'm probably more grumpy than she is actually
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 08:26 PM
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I want a woman who is fit, feminine and friendly, but can speak her mind. This is exactly what my wife is and I married her because of it. Being feminine and pleasant does not mean that she cannot communicate directly and speak clearly about what she wants or doesn't want. She just happens to have a sunny outlook on life, so she doesn't have a lot of negative emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:15 PM
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I've been happily married for 37 years. So I get it. But the odds are so shitty, that despite having great success in my marriage, there is no way on god's green earth that I would ever do it again. The horror stories are legion. Marriage is a contract with the state and it's a terrible contract for men
/r/MensRights16/10/24 05:09 PM
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Sadly all too often men will even attack other men who are trying to advocate for Men's rights. "Just suck it up bro"
/r/MensRights16/10/24 12:32 PM
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Well I'm sure the bear can help her out then
/r/MensRights16/10/24 12:23 PM
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Why the fuck do men keep walking into the legal buzzsaw of marriage?
/r/MensRights16/10/24 03:09 AM
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Thing is, even if you use a warm approach method, you still have to approach. The skills for cold approach are nearly the same as warm approach. You have to learn social skills and make yourself into the caliber of person that a woman would want to be with. So there's very little distinction between these things. A man who is good at being a solid man with solid social skills will do well in any setting
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:57 AM
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Sure this happens all the time when you are dating. What you do is you dump users like this and move on. Eventually you will find a woman who values what you bring and appreciates you without bringing unreasonable demands. These are the women you continue to see and perhaps even marry. But there is no reason to tolerate being treated poorly
/r/seduction16/10/24 12:46 AM
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I seriously doubt that she told the man that she was in it purely for the money
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:39 AM
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What is the current divorce percentage these days for first marriages? I'm aware that for subsequent marriages the divorce rate is horrendous
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 10:43 PM
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Any time a man disagrees with a left leaning woman he gets called an incel/misogynist
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 10:41 PM
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In liberal/left leaning spaces, the word incel/virgin is used as an insult usually when a man has shown to be a mysoginist In those spaces the word incel is used towards men in general, because they think that all men are misogynists
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:44 PM
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With a 50% divorce rate, the benefit of being married is pretty conditional
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:42 PM
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Yeah I have no idea what my wife sees in me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:43 AM
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OK well Reddit tells me that women don't go after men because of their looks. Now you are telling me it's not because of status or money. Those big 3 things are out. So tell me then, what is it that they go for. Cuzz there is not much left.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:02 AM
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watch out for false domestic violence charges. It's a standard tactic lawyers use in divorce cases. Record your conversations.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/24 11:53 PM
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Of course women will be more nasty with a man they think is hotter than with a normal man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:53 PM
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Let me get this straight. This was a MAN who was running these FB groups? What a disgrace
/r/MensRights14/10/24 10:26 PM
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to lie that I had no education and that I had worked as a pipe fitter who had been fired or simply in construction. Damn things changed fast for me, a lot fewer tests and a lot fewer games I just simply started getting laid a lot more. Wait, if you said you were in college, the girls would shit test you, but if you said you were a blue collar guy they would fuck you?
/r/TheRedPill14/10/24 02:00 AM
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The men will be fine. Don't you worry about that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:46 AM
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You really really need to slow your roll. Live with her for a few years so that you get to see the real person. You are still on your honeymoon with her and the new relationship energy has not worn off yet. You are only seeing the best side of her. Go on a few vacations with her. Live with her a while and experience hardship with her. You will see the real person then
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/24 12:51 AM
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Yes exactly. Hoe_math wants to fix civilization and maybe just complain a little bit. other men just want to get a laid/get a GF and call it a day. The advice for each man will be different
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 12:04 AM
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Even the hottest of men will not have a 100% success rate doing that. That's why prostitution is such a big biz
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 11:46 PM
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As if every single man who might believe in red pill concepts is exactly the same and believes exactly the same things. There isn't a red pill factory where they spit out men who think exactly the same. Some men care about societal issues. Some just want to get laid. Each of these groups would take different messages from the red pill and act on it differently. From what I understand there are messages in the red pill that address each groups concerns. But most people are sophisticated enough to…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 11:42 PM
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Marriage comes with default distribution terms that are written by the state. A prenup is distribution terms that are agreed upon by the two people involved. Prenup doesn't necessarily disadvantage the woman. Instead it stipulates what the agreed upon terms will be instead of leaving it up to the state and a capricious judge
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 10:25 PM
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..hence why women now take good manners as an insult LOL good one
/r/seduction13/10/24 09:58 PM
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Not really. We work out together 6 days a week and like to go walking in the woods together when the weather cooperates. But we don't do many typical dinner dates
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 09:21 PM
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IDK mate. My wife is a gem. Treats me like a king. Is kind and respectful to me, is attractive and in good shape. We've been married for 36 years. The unicorns (men and women) are out there. You just have to weed through the ones who are not unicorns to get to the ones that are. Once you get with the unicorn you have to give as much as you get. Good people do not tolerate bad treatment. They have options and do not need to tolerate being treated poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:52 AM
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women need to learn to ask men out on dates (and they should pay). You have a pretty good handle on the situation, except women asking men out is never going to be a widespread practice. Women's default position is to want to feel desired. Most women will never go against this default stance. They feel like they are being "too easy". They SHOULD ask men out though. They would have much better results doing so. FWIW I am older than you
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/24 02:00 AM
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Hardly. I'm pretty sure my truck driving neighbor on one side and the retired couple on the other side of me have never heard of such a thing. I'm pretty well read and have never heard of it. Buddhism, Confucianism, Jainism? Sure. Taoism? Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:57 PM
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The woman I ended up marrying was perfectly fine not going out to eat and was happy with a modest night of home cooking and hanging out doing free things. Her affinity for doing inexpensive things was one of her charms. Some of the other women I had dated wanted to be entertained. They didn't last long with me
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/24 07:50 PM
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. But the second or third date is often a dinner. Yeah that's not necessary. If she wants dinner she can ask you out for dinner and pay for it
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/24 02:39 AM
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The rule is this: whoever asks out the person, pays for the date. It’s that simple. AKA the man always pays then. Women almost exclusively don't ask men out, at least in the early going. Women universally want a man to organize, plan and ask for the date.
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/24 02:37 AM
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You are a unique case. Most women have a visceral disgust of sexless men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:32 PM
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Yes but he wouldn't have gotten the wife without what he learned from pickup.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:07 AM
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And how does learning how to seduce women help with that? Strauss was a massive dork. He couldn't talk to a woman if his life depended on it. Now he's happily married (at least I think he is. He at least got married). So there is at least one woman who is made better because he learned how to talk to women. PUA is just a tool. It can be used to get a relationship or a hookup. But the tool is just a tool. It's the user of the tool that determines what happens after using the tool. Just like nucle…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:36 AM
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mysogynistic tactics like bringing blacklights to dates so you can make elaborate insults to women's clothing (yeah this is real) This is so far off the beaten path that we might as well be talking about unicorns here. Nobody is bringing black lights on dates because they read about it in a book. What game was at its core is just putting your best foot forward. Lot's of women complain about the dearth of eligible candidates. By getting men to improve their package, we are helping women out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:30 PM
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Most men love sluts. Women are the ones who hate sluts. Slutty women lower the price of sex for other women and the slut hate is a response to that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:23 PM
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Agreed. I think they are screwed no matter what they do. People just aren't going out and doing things anymore. Regular bowling leagues are going extinct. Malls are dead. Organizations like the Moose, the Elks, Shriners, Rotary and what have you are barely hanging on. Churches are just part of that overall trend
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:44 AM
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You did fine. You didn't justify yourself to her and you kept your commitment to yourself without letting her sway you. You are setting a good precedent for when this happens in the future. Too many men are afraid to disappoint their women. Don't be afraid to. It is actually important to disappoint her early so that she doesn't get an inaccurate idea of how much energy you can devote to her at any given time. The thing you have to understand is that you aren't married. You have the ability to wa…
/r/askMRP07/10/24 11:31 PM
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My bad. I misunderstood your point. It will take a while before churches are majority populated by men though. For whatever reason, men just do not feel the need for church as much as women. I doubt the GenZ trend will last
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:48 PM
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Every church I have ever been to has about 3 women to every 2 men. So yes young women might be leaving the church but most churches are still majority women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:35 PM
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What country are you from? None of your observations meet up with what I see in the Southeastern United States
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:10 PM
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No. Organized religions are increasingly populated by women. Men have been leaving religion for years now, leaving primarily women behind
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:04 PM
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Well nobody likes to think that they've been settled on. But we all kind of know it. I mean, why would my wife be with me if she could have had Brad Pitt? She tells me she wouldn't want Brad Pitt, but come on. Who wouldn't want him. Hell I might even want him if he was interested. Point is, that most people figure out who their possible mates are, and are pretty smart about getting with people who are close to them in mate value
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:11 AM
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Most of us settle for the ones that pick us. We take the best option we can get that is available to us at the time we want to get married or get into a LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:03 AM
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Dude, I'm 62 years old, a former office worker, non athlete. I can run 2 miles and I hardly ever run. I just did 2 miles last week to see if I could still do it. If I can run 2 miles you can run 5km. Besides, the point isn't to destroy everyone else in the running club with you athletic prowess. The point is to get to know people while improving your fitness
/r/seduction06/10/24 11:20 PM
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I came across this tiktok were this woman mentioned that men will pit women against each other to compete for men Maybe the top 1% of men can do this. The rest of them are happy with whatever scraps they can get. I actually see the reverse happen more often. A woman goes into a bar with her BF. She starts stirring up trouble with other men and then expects her BF to bail her out of the situation. IE, why don't you and him fight over me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 10:10 PM
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Yeah but men aren't typically getting married to felons serving lifelong sentences like women do. And the number of groupies that women murderers have is likely substantially less than the groupies that men murderers have
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 10:05 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:20 PM
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You can tell who you are subservient to by observing who you can and who you cannot criticize. I would say that it is much easier to get away with criticizing men than it is women. Thus men are subservient to women. Thus we live in a matriarchy. Many of the items you listed in your post point to this fact
/r/MensRights06/10/24 03:54 AM
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The women who think this are just afraid of competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:49 AM
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I agree with you. Men are being denied any gendered specific spaces while women's are encouraged. Even in professional settings this discrimination persists. There are boatloads of "networking for women" groups in corporate America. Any company that had a men's only group would be crucified
/r/MensRights06/10/24 03:42 AM
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Well you shouldn't talk in absolutes either. Women did not lose the right to an abortion. Some women lost the right to an abortion. In CA, NY or many other states, women can get an abortion almost anytime she wants.
/r/MensRights06/10/24 03:40 AM
1

The parent generation holds a contest to see who can come up with the silliest name for their kids' generation
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:15 AM
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OK fair enough mate. FWIW, my 90 year old dad left the house as soon as he was able to so. He came from the generation before boomers. IDK what they are called. So I'm not so sure this is a boomer thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:27 AM
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Where you live matters a lot. Some areas of the country are a lot easier to form relationships than others. I OK spit it out. Which areas of the country are better than others?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:21 AM
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Point 2 is such a Western boomer thing. Are you seriously alleging that the women that this man is talking about dating are boomers? Do you know how old boomers are?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:18 AM
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It's pretty stupid, but honestly you are not missing anything
/r/MensRights06/10/24 12:19 AM
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. It was like my ex wife just always had to be planning something to look forward to. This kind of wife is maddening (and bankrupting) to be with
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/24 11:59 PM
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She's just a shitty human being. Cheaters don't need a reason to cheat. She was looking for the next shiny object. You don't have to compete against other men. Having said that, over time as you gain career experience, you will naturally be in a better spot financially as you age.
/r/MensRights04/10/24 11:46 PM
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It's putting it on the same field as water, shelter etc. that doesn't make sense to me Understandable. Another way of looking at it is how this "need" relates to our species as opposed to one person. Sex isn't technically a need (like how you were thinking of it) for an individual, but it is definitely a need if the human species is to continue to exist. Somebody has to be making babies somewhere or we will all die out. So on a species wide scope, we could say that sex is a need, but individuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:15 PM
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Sex is the same. You won't die without it. But reproduction is a very strong innate drive, as is the drive for human contact. Some people would consider both to be a "need". Just boils down to how you define a need
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:19 PM
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Not a need, just highly sought after and increases quality of life Is contact with other humans a "need" in your paradigm?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:07 PM
18

Sexual frustration can be easily alleviated by masturbation. What is not so easy to resolve are feelings of disconnection and romantic loneliness. I am not so sure that men are any different from women in that regard. Yes you can be loved by friends and family, but not having romantic love leaves a decent sized hole in your heart
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:23 PM
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IDK about everyone else, but it has always been easy for me to differentiate between the two. Sexual frustration can be easily alleviated by masturbation. What is not so easy to resolve are feelings of disconnection and romantic loneliness. I am not so sure that men are any different from women in that regard. Yes you can be loved by friends and family, but not having romantic love leaves a decent sized hole in your heart
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:01 PM
1

The problem with the advice of RP is that its by definition only achievable by a small minority. Because it involves climbing to the top of the social ladder, by definition, becoming part of a small minority. 6 foot, 6 figures, 6 pack = less than 5% of men. OK I misunderstood your argument. I am not redpill, but to my understanding that is not what redpill espouses. Redpill says be attractive. Don't be unattractive. Thus you should improve what you can improve upon and stop doing those things th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:58 AM
70

I'll never understand why anyone would give Hollywood even one penny of their money and even one second of their time. Hollywood hates men and hates straight white men the most
/r/MensRights04/10/24 01:53 AM
8

Solid point my friend. Although honestly I think a lot (not all of course) of the men who struggle with women, don't have many, if any, male friends either. It's not that they struggle with women particularly. They struggle making human connection. So they don't really have a niche with anyone. The loneliness and the sexlessness epidemics are passengers in the same car
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:50 AM
1

if only a small % of men can actually self improve to the point of becoming "high value" than the overall advice is useless to most men. You are making a specious argument. If what you say is true then all advice on anything is useless, because adopting advice means you actually have to do something and most people never do anything to improve. The secret to wealth is to invest money in something and let the investment compound over time. This is a well proven way to get wealthy. Just because mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:43 AM
6

It's a solid idea, but it's harder to identify you niche than you'd think it would be
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:12 AM
2

""Maternal mortality is calculated using the maternal mortality rate which is the number of maternal deaths per 100,000 live births in a given time period"". Where do you see that it is lifetime risk? Seems like if that were true the mortality rate would be highly dependent on how many kids a given woman would have.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:56 AM
3

Can't argue against that. What I can say is that nobody has a 30 year career as a pregnant woman. Lots of law enforcement have multi-decade careers where they are in harms way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:26 AM
2

Gotcha. Good luck mate
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 12:50 AM
2

Lawyer said she has 2 years to change her mind about the deal She has 2 years after you have both finalized the agreement and gone through court and all?
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 12:32 AM
7

Wear whatever TF you want. Just don't complain when people look at you. If you wear something that is arguably more immodest than everyone else in the gym, don't be surprised if people stare. Similarly, If I wear a tutu with clown makeup to the gym, I shouldn't be surprised if people stare.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 11:42 PM
5

For better of for worse, men are naturally more violent and more risk taking than women. There are negatives associated with that but there are far more positives associated with it. Men do most of the dangerous work of the world and do most of the building and inventing in the world. Most men harness those natural proclivities for good. There are a minority of men who are committing the crimes. This seems to be a sad side effect of men's natural biochemistry
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 10:28 PM
2

I'm sure the bear will take good care of you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:19 PM
1

I do. Most Indians and Chinese that I have known, who immigrate here vote Democratic
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 11:24 PM
10

Of course. Men are told over and over not to approach women in public
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 10:41 PM
0

they were actually a Democratic socialist but a moderate in terms of global politics. Dude. Take that shit down, American women know it’s usually code for Trump supporter. I think you misunderstood them. A democrat socialist and a global moderate is not going to support trump. Globally most people are more liberal than an average American. Thus, a pretty far left US Democrat is likely middle of the road in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 10:26 PM
3

Bingo. He's probably not picking up on women who are giving him approach invitations. Understandable because they are excruciatingly subtle. But he is most likely getting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:59 AM
1

maybe he made the mistake most men make of never dating their wife .. doing romantic things etc That's bullshit. Most men are good men who are faithful and loving.
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/24 01:30 AM
2

If indirect communication really worked, we wouldn't have so many colleges as well as the nation of Australia, enacting explicit consent rules. Turns out that what one person uses to non verbally indicate yes isn't the same as what the next one uses to indicate yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 11:19 PM
1

Yes. Many social science studies are based on what people *say* they like or do, not what they *actually* do. PUA gets at what people really respond to in the real world. Social science would tell you that women respond to kind men. PUA says they respond to men who are attractive (in certain ways) and kind
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:20 AM
2

If they were successful they wouldn't need any advice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:17 AM
2

Whichever way you decide. Good luck mate
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/24 02:26 AM
5

She is probably saying that because she knows she has some money at stake. It's generally good if you can avoid getting lawyers involved, but don't cheat yourself just to be a good guy. This is not about love anymore. It's business
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/24 02:12 AM
2

No you are not overreacting. However you set a precedent by paying for stuff in the early days of the relationship. So she is not out of line in expecting that you will continue to be doing this going forward. If this is not what you want, then it is a simple matter to sit her down and layout your expectations on how you think you two should be splitting the bills. You can make it clear that she's not been doing anything wrong up to now, it's just that you want her to be contributing financially…
/r/askMRP30/09/24 01:04 AM
2

Don't cheat yourself out of what you deserve. If you were the one making more money she would be lawyering up for everything that she could get out of you
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/24 12:47 AM
9

Taking domestic violence against men seriously would be a good start. Treating men fairly in divorce court would help as well. Also making men's and women's punishment for crimes would be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:28 AM
9

If you hang around educated people this would make sense. Higher educated people do tend to get divorced less often
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/24 08:14 PM
2

Fair point mate. What you listed is what I naturally do. I would assume that most men aren't perpetually complaining and whining and enacting no improvements. Most men I know would rather poke their own eyes out than wallow in misery and not do anything about it. Why do you believe that other men who get dumped are just complaining and whining and not taking any action? I've met very few men like that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 11:32 PM
0

ut if a guy is going to come home and bitch about his job, bitch about how he has no friends, bitch about how hard everything is, and basically trauma dump on his woman, yes, she's going to leave him. If that's what's in his head, then opening up is letting that out. This is exactly what happens. He gets dumped. And it's not about lying or putting on act. That won't get you very far into a relationship. Most people put their best foot forward, even women aren't busting out all the skeletons unti…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 10:16 PM
2

Show me a single relationship of more than 5 years where a man was vulnerable once and it caused a woman to completely lose interest and leave him, that wasn't littered with red flags the entire time. Nearly every man has a story about how opening up proved to be a bad decision. For Reddit's version of this, go to r/AskMen and search on vulnerable just read through any of those posts and you see that men, overwhelmingly have bad things happen to relationships when they open up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:54 PM
3

Of course. But it doesn't cost $10,000/month to raise a kid, which is where some of the child support awards get to
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:18 PM
2

IIRC alimony is a factor in less than 10% of cases. But yes it is still a big problem
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:16 PM
1

really wonder what this dynamic is where men claim they can't be vulnerable but stay in relationships where they feel they can't be vulnerable. Because nearly all women are like this. Where will you find a woman who doesn't get the ick from a man showing feels? it's akin to a woman who wants a man who doesn't jerk off. That's fine, but where TF is she going to find a man who doesn't jerk off?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 08:10 PM
6

Exactly. Alimony has been replaced by excess child support, whether the child needs that much money or not. he still has to pay based on his income
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 08:06 PM
2

Married males live longer You have causality backwards. Men don't live longer because they got married. It's that married men tend to be healthier (because women don't want unhealthy males) and live longer because they are healthier at baseline. Unhealthy men die earlier and tend to be single
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 07:50 PM
8

Just like every woman got "abused" by her ex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 07:47 PM
11

Alimony has been replaced by child support. Child support is not based upon how much it actually costs to raise a kid. It's based upon how much the man (yes the man, because he is almost always the victim of this) makes. If he makes more, somehow he has to pay more, because apparently it costs more for a wealthy child to be raised than middle class kid
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 07:46 PM
3

So men should just keep throwing themselves into the industrial divorce grinder to be chewed up and spit out over and over? Of course you are a woman so you get the benefits of divorce court. I can see why you would have this point of view. Lets go skydiving. I will rig up the parachutes. 1 of them will work and 1 of them will not work. Are you taking that chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 07:42 PM
5

distinction without a difference. You do care about her choices in men and she cares about yours
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:09 AM
5

No. Every man knows that if he meets a woman while out on the town, that he will have to win over her girlfriends as well or she will reject him because her friends rejected him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:27 PM
13

Oh please. You are just as susceptible to keeping up with the Jones's as anyone else is. It's a human condition
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:25 PM
1

If we lived in a patriarchy men would live longer than women. But neither of those things are true
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:42 AM
5

Thank you for that. It's a lovely thought
/r/MensRights24/09/24 11:15 PM
6

Invite him (and him only) inside for a drink. As you two are walking away, tell him loud enough that she can hear "let me give you some secrets about your new GF"
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/24 09:43 PM
162

You want a girl until you get her. Then you want to be single again
/r/TheRedPill23/09/24 10:21 PM
36

You'll get the last laugh when your parents are old and need help. You can tell them to go get F-d. Or maybe it's just your mom that's the problem
/r/MensRights23/09/24 01:34 AM
6

Yeah and they tell us that porn is what really creates unrealistic expectations, while ignoring the social media doing it
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/24 01:31 AM
1

They may be bitter, but you are naive. I predict that you'll get back in the game and get taken to the cleaners once again
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/24 12:14 AM
24

This is why men are told not to listen to women's advice on dating. Everything you have said is exactly backwards from what actually works
/r/seduction22/09/24 12:34 AM
3

If the girl is into you, everything you say will seem exciting to her. I'm a short troll and it's happened to me a dozen times.
/r/seduction21/09/24 03:05 AM
16

I wouldn't go to the wake. I'd explain to the kids that you were not treated well and there is no obligation to interact with people who do not treat you well. Drop the kids off with the EX and do something useful with your day
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/24 02:14 AM
1

So there's no real love for you out there unless you're the best and you stay the best. This is true. What you are missing is that (with a "normal" girl) once you are her best option, it is usually not that hard to remain her best option. Just don't let yourself go to shit and put forth a reasonable amount of effort in the relationship. She already fell for you once, so you have a certain cache with her. Source: have been married for 37 years to one woman
/r/TheRedPill21/09/24 01:12 AM
4

When my company decided that the managerial force had to be 50% women. I watched scads of unqualified women get promoted above me
/r/MensRights21/09/24 01:03 AM
7

Turns out money is harder to earn than they think.
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/24 12:56 AM
27

I'm surprised she didn't claim that you were abusive. That seems to be the victim badge of honor these days
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/24 12:54 AM
2

Shit. Sounds like I got ripped off. Tylenol 3 would have been amazing compared to what I got
/r/MensRights19/09/24 02:43 AM
2

He probably got local for the procedure like I did, but yes, afterwards they told me to put frozen veggies on my nuts. Gee thanks
/r/MensRights19/09/24 02:42 AM
11

Some woman was claiming that men get oxy's for a vasectomy. Uh, sorry no. I got nothing but a local for my vasectomy
/r/MensRights19/09/24 02:10 AM
5

She set you up. It's horrible
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/24 01:24 AM
1

More like a green flag mate
/r/seduction17/09/24 01:58 AM
2

A red flag of what? That she's really really really super interested in you? If you wanna call that a red flag then yes I guess she fits the bill
/r/seduction17/09/24 01:56 AM
5

The government and most women hate men. Let these men take up government benefits and let the working women pay for them. Equal rights and all that
/r/MensRights16/09/24 10:51 PM
5

everything will be used against you in the court of law. What specifically happened in this regard?
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 12:57 AM
5

Go read up on any of the relationship or marriage subs. Anytime there is the smallest of insensitivities that are alleged, the whole thread is telling OP to run for the hills. Nobody wants to compromise even the slightest bit and everyone is hyper sensitive
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 10:35 PM
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That's why it's important to disappoint the woman you are dating early and often in the courtship process. You've got to knock out the fantasy of you she has in her head and replace it with the reality of you.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 03:04 PM
4

I have heard that this is very common. What did your EX gain from the fake DV claim? How did it benefit her?
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 02:07 AM
12

Wait, so she owes the attorney $700K? And the divorce isn't even settled yet? It sounds like the attorney is an idiot if that is more money than the divorce settlement will be worth. I'm trying to see what his angle is on this. How does he come out ahead
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/24 02:46 AM
7

When she left she filed a protection order against me claiming abuse and then later admitted it was just to be able to move her stuff out without me living there and she dropped the order once her and her bf had collected her things. This is the lowest of the low. Scumbag behavior from her. I wouldn't be caught dead within a million miles of her after she pulled this bullshit
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 12:45 AM
1

Personal experience and experience of people in my connection tree. It's very common. Women will tell the man that they are on the pill, only to get pregnant. "ooops. I must have forgot"
/r/MensRights12/09/24 06:02 PM
10

Yep. If you raised your voice even one time, that's abuse (to them). Nevermind that they yelled first
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 11:59 PM
32

If they do well then the mother will take full credit, if they don’t they will blame a man who they clearly chose knowing he was not a good man or potential father. This DOESN’T excuse the man who are like that Yeah about that. A lot of men get the "oopsy. I guess I forgot to take my pill. Tee hee" from their girlfriends. But he never wanted the kid in the first place, often begging her to get an abortion. Even after all of that, she will say, "no way, this is my baby. I can't kill it", even tho…
/r/MensRights11/09/24 11:38 PM
3

Ouch.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 10:12 PM
2

we settled at 56/44. Forgive my ignorance. What does this mean?
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 09:22 PM
5

$489,000 and NO KIDS???? All the feminists tell me that alimony is a thing of the past. Not so much eh?
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 09:18 PM
4

Why would you deny money that is owed to you? I really don't understand
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 03:08 AM
10

I’m about to blow your mind - Sexual tension. Yes. Please elaborate
/r/seduction11/09/24 02:57 AM
3

My bad I missed the distinction between ranger school and the army
/r/MensRights10/09/24 11:34 PM
5

The Army has different standards based on age and gender. (e.g. a 25yo female would get 100 points for doing 50 hand release push-ups in 2 minutes; whereas a 25yo male would get 94 points for the same). How is it "the same" standards if a man gets less points for doing the same work?
/r/MensRights10/09/24 10:39 PM
1

That's actually good news that some courts will agree to change alimony if for a legitimate reason
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/24 02:59 AM
1

Men are the people that keep the world working
/r/MensRights10/09/24 02:43 AM
1

What was your experience?
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/24 02:42 AM
3

You are right. Marriage is a commitment, not an excited feeling. It doesn't feel like it, but she is doing you a favor. You will never be good enough for her or do good enough for her. You will find someone who appreciates you and you will be more happy in the end
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/24 12:51 AM
2

Toxic how?
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 09:14 PM
3

Karma strikes again
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/24 12:39 AM
49

It's way more likely that the man gets fired for any kind of harassment, real or imagined.
/r/MensRights08/09/24 12:34 AM
9

Yeah I wouldn't be too happy about that situation either
/r/MensRights07/09/24 12:37 AM
62

Or things like sleeveless shirts that women can wear in the office but men could never get away with
/r/MensRights06/09/24 11:27 PM
3

At the end of the day, women live many years longer than men do. If that isn't the ultimate discrimination I don't know what is. You can't get any more basic than men die earlier than women. If society were really all about men, it would not be so. There would be emergency presidential commissions set up to get to the bottom of the disparity. But as we can see, society DNGAF that men die
/r/MensRights05/09/24 11:54 PM
12

"I want you to communicate better" .... "not like that"
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/24 01:16 AM
19

Tell it to the bear
/r/MensRights03/09/24 01:07 AM
2

Congratulations!
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/24 10:03 PM
11

I am old like you. I have always lived my life such that I only gave effort to those who appreciated that effort. I refuse to bust my ass only to be taken for granted. This attitude extends to my family and wife's family as well. I sometimes wish I could ghost certain segments of society. I can't, but I can control what is in my span of control
/r/MensRights28/08/24 09:47 PM
1

I've heard of it happening when one half of the couple comes by to get possessions, but in that case there may have already been a pre-existing protection order. But yeah it would be interesting to know if they would do it
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/24 11:59 AM
3

Ask the police if they could have someone there when you serve her. IDK if they will do it but it is worth asking
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/24 02:41 AM
4

Worst part of it is, many (most?) of our fellow men would say that we have privilege and should stop complaining
/r/MensRights28/08/24 02:36 AM
3

u/hornsofapathy has a great writeup of how he turned his wife into a submissive slut. It was contained in a summary of his weekly OYS reports. Really solid summary of how he ended up getting better at everything in his relationship. You would find it useful. I saw it a while back and didn't save it and don't have time to look ATM. Maybe somebody else has it handy
/r/askMRP27/08/24 07:41 PM
8

I get laid all the time. So compared to me, you suck. But that's not really important is it? What's important is how do you feel about your situation? Are you getting the sex you want? Is anything else missing? There are tools here for just about everything, but you need to decide what YOU want. We can't decide that for you
/r/askMRP27/08/24 07:31 PM
9

I still ask homies for help, but I am careful not to overdo it. Same thing with work. If you are the new guy, you're gonna be asking some questions. You better learn fast though
/r/seduction27/08/24 02:58 AM
2

You can't control who is attracted to you and who isn't attracted to you, but of the people that are attracted to you and will agree to date you, you have the choice to not marry them if they are a bad bet for marriage. I dated enough to know that my GF at the time, now my wife, was an excellent candidate to marry and that all the girls I dated before her were not
/r/seduction26/08/24 02:55 AM
13

I lean right, but the ganging up on this innocent man is disgusting. He is not running for office and his emotionality has nothing whatsoever to do with anything in this race. We can debate Tim's political positions, but his family should be off limits. Gus is obviously proud of his dad. That's something we want to see. We want to see good father son relationships.
/r/MensRights24/08/24 01:11 AM
10

anything you read in the mainstream media that is controversial at all, the conclusion that they come to will be the opposite of the truth
/r/MensRights24/08/24 12:34 AM
2

if those of us who work hard and put in the hours are penalized like this, who’s going to want to work hard in our society? I hear ya. But somehow men still keep volunteering to walk right into the buzzsaw of marriage and hence "family court" to get sliced in half
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/24 02:56 AM
107

Men should be able to have a financial abortion. That is, if he doesn't want the kid, but she does, he should be able to elect out of child support payments
/r/MensRights23/08/24 02:09 AM
9

This is long overdue. But it is sad that your wife can fuck another man and defraud you into thinking it is yours. That is still A-OK
/r/MensRights23/08/24 02:01 AM
1

The privatisation of jails and governors and judges as shareholders, According to NASDAQ, there are only two publicly traded corporations who operate jails in the US. Most of them are owned by private equity groups, which are closed off by nature. You are alleging that judges own shares in them and that is their incentive for sending people to jail?
/r/MensRights23/08/24 12:19 AM
9

You need to do something about the shared accounts. Start squirrelling away money into a separate account that she has no access to. My friend's wife completely emptied their bank accounts and he had no recourse because they were joint accounts. Get yourself another credit card that she has no access to. This is not over, she will mistreat you in the future and you need to protect yourself financially so that she can't take all the money and so that you have access to credit if you need it in an…
/r/askMRP22/08/24 10:28 PM
23

Feminists look at everything as a fixed pie situation. There are only so many pieces of pie to go around. If men get any kind of support from the government, it must therefore mean that women would get less support. Thus feminists actively work against MRAs getting any kind of support or aid or even recognition really
/r/MensRights22/08/24 03:02 AM
12

They already live years longer than men
/r/MensRights21/08/24 11:12 PM
2

"I don't ask coworkers out. But if one asked me out, I would consider it"
/r/seduction20/08/24 11:00 PM
16

I didn't read the article, but male therapists who haven't been subject to feminism are worth their weight in gold. If I had money I would gladly book Orion Taraban from Psychacks on YouTube. He's like a wise older brother
/r/MensRights20/08/24 02:57 AM
2

Women are random. It's probably not even about you
/r/seduction19/08/24 11:21 PM
46

She is projecting. What she means is that no man that she ever gets involved with will ever be a stay at home, if she has any kind of say in the matter at all.
/r/MensRights19/08/24 10:10 PM
6

If they could do that they wouldn't be asking the questions
/r/seduction16/08/24 03:04 AM
3

She has always managed the finances and I'm not certain I have even LOOKED at our so-called joint account or used money directly from it myself Dude, you need to put your nose into the finances. Never ever turn a blind eye to the money
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/24 02:40 AM
1

Well done sir
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/24 12:00 AM
0

OK mate
/r/seduction14/08/24 02:20 AM
0

Give it a go. My theory is the first girl that you give the ick will report you to the leader of the group and you'll be kicked out
/r/seduction14/08/24 01:59 AM
3

Yeah but if you use running club to hit on women, you will soon get kicked out of the club
/r/seduction13/08/24 11:31 PM
7

Women are preferentially hired in corporate America
/r/MensRights13/08/24 09:34 PM
4

Exactly what I came to say. Never ever under any circumstances be married to a SAH wife. Any lawyer will tell you that they are the most litigious of all their clients
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/24 12:58 AM
5

Oh yes. I worked in corporate I.T. for a Fortune 500 company. Upper management made a deliberate push to make first line management 50% female. There were a number of quite qualified males that got passed over in favor of less experienced, less qualified females, so that they could reach the quotas
/r/MensRights13/08/24 12:41 AM
3

Why do we need online content regulation? People should be able to say whatever they want, within legal limits. I should be able to say that I will kill you or that you are a murderer, that is illegal and already against the law. But I should certainly be able to say that 9/11 was an inside job, for instance. I certainly do not trust the government to decide between what is misinformation and what is not. The government does what is best for the government, not for the governed, aka you and me T…
/r/MensRights12/08/24 12:10 AM
0

Maybe it's not your wife, but somebody will see you that way. That's what I mean when I say this. Besides if you have a GF and you are not married, then by definition, you are not part of married red pill
/r/askMRP11/08/24 12:14 PM
3

Oh good god what a load of crap
/r/MensRights11/08/24 04:27 AM
4

Man I think you are onto something. Pretty smart really
/r/seduction11/08/24 02:38 AM
1

Why did they remove the doors?
/r/MensRights11/08/24 02:20 AM
1

I rarely had that "where are we going" conversation before having sex. Let me ask you something. If the most perfectly compatible, most beautiful woman that you have ever seen wanted to be your girlfriend, would you do it?
/r/seduction10/08/24 11:36 PM
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I don't think all marriages can be saved. The way I see it, in order to have an MRP success story your wife needs to be able to view you as her best option. If she feels like she could do better than you, good luck on turning that ship around. If she never saw you as her best option ever, and settled, you will never get her to act right. But if she saw you as her best option at one time, you can likely get her to see you that way again. All of the tools in MRP and red pill are just techniques to…
/r/askMRP10/08/24 11:18 PM
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It's to be expected that she would be upset. Many women want commitment. She will not be any less upset if she finds out what your intentions are a month or two later. The longer it takes them to find out, the more upset they will be. It is preferable for her to get expectations set early rather than later. Back when I was dating, I would invite a girl out to have a drink on a first date. For date number 2 I would invite her back to my place. If I didn't intend to be committed to her I would nev…
/r/seduction10/08/24 11:06 PM
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Don't do dates. That is boyfriend stuff. You should be honest with her about your intentions of course. You should be inviting her back to your place. You can tell her that you have no intention of being committed to her, but If you take her on dates you are sending boyfriend vibes to her. Your other option is to see more than one woman at a time. When she asks if you are seeing anyone else, tell her you are. That will make it crystal clear that you are not committed to her.
/r/seduction10/08/24 08:28 PM
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I'm glad she's not cheating. Cheating makes everything so much worse. If done right, one of the benefits of MRP is that it helps reveal your own self worth and whether your wife is someone that you even want to have a relationship with. Lots of guys are so far up their wife's asshole that they can't even see how bad of a person she is. You are miles ahead of those guys and are able to objectively see your wife for who she is and not some fantasy that you have in your head. You can use your situa…
/r/askMRP10/08/24 08:24 PM
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You have to do what's right for you. And he doesn't want what you want. So yes, best to move on from him
/r/MensRights10/08/24 03:33 AM
1

Not men. Your man. I'm married.
/r/MensRights10/08/24 03:29 AM
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Men do want sex, obviously. If your guy can get a date easily then you were dating a top tier man.
/r/MensRights10/08/24 03:25 AM
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I believe you. 2 reasons I could think of: 1. Men like variety Proof of this is to look at gay men. Most gay men have had hundreds of sex partners. Hetero men would like that too, but women don't want commitmentless sex that much. 2: He just wasn't that into you. Don't lose that low maintenance girl quality. Most men want peace in their lives. My wife always gave me that. It was a huge reason I married her
/r/MensRights10/08/24 03:23 AM
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Men don't have it easy like you. You can get on tinder and have a date in 10 minutes. Women are difficult to get in bed.
/r/MensRights10/08/24 03:01 AM
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For a man with money, hiring a sugar baby is WAY CHEAPER than dating a civilian girl. Take a lawyer bills his time out at $1000 / hour. Finding a girl to date, rizzing her up, taking her on a date, all of that can take hours and hours. And at the end of the date he still might not get laid, and he's like $10,000 worth of opportunity cost into the date already. For men with money it is just cheaper to pay a pro than to fuck around with normal women.
/r/MensRights10/08/24 03:00 AM
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Don't do boyfriend behaviors. Don't take her on dates. Don't take her to dinner. Don't be texting her all the time and don't be super responsive to her texts. Those are things that boyfriends do and if you do them you will confuse her and she will be rightly mad if you are not exclusive after doing those things.
/r/seduction10/08/24 02:57 AM
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I could be wrong but my impression is that MRP assumes that the husband and wife are basically functional, just not all that close, are somewhat antagonistic towards each other and def not fucking very much, that the wife low key disrespects the husband and he wants to turn the situation around. MRP assumes a certain level of functionality in the marriage. Your situation sounds like it is more dire than what I just described. Your wife sounds pretty far gone. It seems like you need to be worried…
/r/askMRP09/08/24 11:02 PM
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If you don't think you can afford a lawyer now, you really won't be able to afford anything, after you get railroaded in "family court". Lawyer up man, else you will get cleaned out. You may still get cleaned out, but you will fare better with a lawyer
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/24 09:37 PM
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The way I read this, your future wife and her family are being rather unreasonable. The reasons that they gave for being upset are bullshit. A woman who is truly interested in you would not let such trivial things dissuade her. You did a good job using assertiveness techniques to preserve your interests. It may feel like you have lost something here, but in a few months you will look back on this and realize that you would have been miserable married to a woman who is as disagreeable as this one…
/r/askMRP07/08/24 01:52 AM
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Wow that was messed up of her. She did that on purpose. Next time you should mention having a date lined up, even if you don't
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/24 11:23 PM
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The only pressure I got to have kids was from my wife. She had baby rabies really badly
/r/MensRights06/08/24 11:16 PM
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You were non defensive and focused. Good job mate. Actual conversation, one person at a time is how we educate the masses. Everyone thinks all men live like Jeff Bezos and Bill Gates or has the power of elected officials. Sure the top .1% of men live like that. But 99% of us have no special advantages or privileges. The message is more powerful coming from a real live person
/r/MensRights05/08/24 06:15 PM
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You won't find any. The left is virulently anti-male, patriarchy and all that
/r/MensRights05/08/24 12:02 AM
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Every relationship is a transaction my friend. Even your relationships with friends is a transaction. There is nothing evil about it. You just have to make sure that in your marriage, you are getting as much out of the transaction as you are giving. Never be in a relationship where you give more than you get
/r/MensRights04/08/24 03:00 AM
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I have been married for 36 years. We are very happy and I'm glad I am with her. But I would never get married again in a million years. Not because of anything wrong with my wife, but because the risks are just too damn high. It's not worth it for men to get married. All risk, no extra reward
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/24 12:43 AM
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Let me commend you for asking this question of yourself. You could be saving yourself a lot of headache down the road should you commit to her. My thinking is that if she really wanted to see you, she would. The fact that she lets minor inconveniences get in the way says a lot of bad things about your value to her. I think you are being too easy for her. You are always willing to come over and be with her. I would make myself less available to her. make her come to you more often. If she still d…
/r/askMRP03/08/24 10:14 PM
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If you attracted women at one time, you can do it again. Put in a little work on your body and your style and you will be back in business
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/24 09:51 PM
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If you want to see the American version of the bad female leader, look up Tiffany Heynard the mayor of Dolton IL. She is so incompetent and corrupt that she has landed the city in lawsuit after lawsuit. She insists on using public money for her own benefit and is always embroiled in controversy
/r/MensRights03/08/24 08:21 PM
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This wouldn't be a problem if the APA wouldn't have chased all of the potential male therapists away
/r/MensRights03/08/24 02:29 AM
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Here is how I interpret what good frame is. If you have ever had a fat girl chase after you, you had frame with her. She would try to shit test you and you would laugh it off. She would try to guilt trip you and you would laugh it off. She would stomp her fat little feet when she didn't get her way and you would laugh it off. She could do anything she wanted but she couldn't move you. That's frame
/r/askMRP03/08/24 01:32 AM
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I could forgive her for myself and our relationship. everything was going okay but she can't seem to forgive me for how angry I got after I found out She's mad at you because you got angry? WTF did she expect out of you after she cheated? This woman is gaslighting you, pulling your chain and pulling the wool over your eyes all at once. She does not deserve you and you should find someone who actually cares about you
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/24 12:28 AM
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Kamala is using Trump’s own style against him — “man up” She's not smart enough to be using this as a deliberate strategy.
/r/MensRights03/08/24 12:23 AM
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/r/MensRights02/08/24 02:39 AM
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nothing ever happened to the girl she got off Scott free Of course she did
/r/MensRights02/08/24 01:48 AM
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Your freedom is in danger mate. That one time you try to defend yourself and the cops get called, you will be going to jail with domestic violence charges on your record. It doesn't matter how great her blow jobs are the rest of the month. It only takes one time for things to get out of hand. There are other women out there my friend, good women who won't beat on you
/r/askMRP01/08/24 02:22 AM
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You know this happens every month. So if I were in your shoes, I would make a plan for what I was going to do. First I would be explaining to her that if she hits me again, I would be going to a hotel for the night. Maybe that would put some notion in her head that she cannot just whale on you. The next escalation point would be divorce. I would simply not tolerate it the violence. If you fight back she could call the cops and you would end up in jail, no matter who started it. Duluth model and …
/r/askMRP01/08/24 02:12 AM
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He has to put his foot down over this kind of behavior. I wouldn't tolerate that from anybody and he shouldn't either. I truly feel bad for guys who are so beat down that they can't/wont free themselves from abuse like this. The guy probably thinks he can't do any better. But he can and he should
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/24 12:25 AM
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Oh I see. You just wanted the torture to end. I guess he is just more comfortable being uncomfortable than you are
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/24 10:56 PM
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However, I was the one that did all the divorce paperwork Why did you do that if you didn't want the divorce?
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/24 09:47 PM
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Yeah you feel bad because she cheated on you, but she finessed you so that you can't even be mad at her. She's diabolical
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/24 02:45 AM
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Good work man
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/24 01:07 AM
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Since the laziness thing is new behavior, giving her the benefit of the doubt is a good strategy. I'd ask her what's going on and see what she says. Do it an a non accusatory way, more like you are concerned for her welfare, because this is out of character for her. The captain is always concerned when the 1st officer is struggling with something. FWIW my wife usually does way more around the house than I do but during pregnancy she was in bed and asleep by 8PM most nights in the 2nd and 3rd tri…
/r/askMRP29/07/24 09:47 PM
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Is this new behavior or has she always been like this? If this is something new, then you might have a chance to get her to get her shit together, once all the chaos dies down and she's not pregnant any more. If she has been sort of lazy from day 1, then you have a whole mess on your hands, because you have tacitly given your agreement that this is OK for your whole marriage up until now. It's like the woman that fakes orgasms during her relationship. She has encouraged her man to think that he'…
/r/askMRP29/07/24 03:35 AM
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Excellent!
/r/MensRights29/07/24 01:10 AM
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100%. You will feel so much better on a day to day basis
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 12:41 AM
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Yeah what she said is pretty evil and seemingly premeditated. Sobbing and saying that she just wanted to threaten you does not make it any better
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/24 11:08 PM
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I believe that when you get really lucky in a compatible relationship, that they can expand your life and happiness in a big way. With the right person, you won't have to go to extraordinary lengths to have a good relationship. I have been happily married for 35+ years. My wife made nearly as much money as me, so she contributed equally to finances. We had a shared goal of early retirement, so neither of us spent a lot of money. She never has neglected me sexually and I actually like spending ti…
/r/MensRights27/07/24 01:17 AM
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Spot on mate. I know I have requirements for sex in my marriage. There is no way in hell I'm sticking around in a sexless marriage. I am a valuable man who provides good things to the people close to me. If I am not getting what I want/need from marriage, what is the point of being married. Unconditional love is for your kids, and even then it's not really unconditional
/r/MensRights26/07/24 11:50 PM
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Unfettered illegal immigration does nothing to help men. Harris was a disaster on the border. it was her only job and she failed
/r/MensRights26/07/24 02:53 AM
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OK so you hate Republicans. Good for you I guess. But Republican men are still men and this sub is all about men's rights. I don't see what is to be gained by denigrating approximately 1/2 of the male US population. There are plenty of other places to do so. I don't swing Democratic, but I have lots of Democratic friends who are solid people. I have Republican friends who are solid people. These friends are all entitled to better treatment under the law and in our social customs. If you are all …
/r/MensRights26/07/24 12:18 AM
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IDk but I would avoid being in the same area code with someone who called the police on me.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 02:42 AM
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The way to pull at 10/10 is to be a 10/10 yourself
/r/seduction24/07/24 11:57 PM
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She bait and switched you. You got fucked
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/24 11:04 PM
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Excellent my friend. Always put yourself first. Nobody but you will look out for your best interest. I too have been the idiot
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/24 12:07 AM
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You used to be an idiot. From now on do your best to live life for you and your priorities. Figure out what you want and then go get that. You are worth it and you can get what you want. Be kind to yourself mate!
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/24 11:58 PM
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Dude. Really? You made your girl pregnant because she wanted a baby? Come on man
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/24 03:29 AM
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That's the thing about being a man, people will never support you. They always believe and support the women. They will bend over backwards to twist the facts around to make her look good and make you look bad. It's just the way it is. You can see this very clearly on the relationship subreddits. No matter the issue, the man is the evil one. It's just something you have to live with and get over
/r/askMRP15/07/24 11:40 AM
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He’s about 100k in debt from alimony and child support and they just took his truck. He used to work in the oil fields and they based his payments on that despite him being out of the oils fields for about 5 yrs. Reason #974 to never get married
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/24 07:53 PM
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I'd say that you don't owe her jack shit and you should goof off. Let her figure out what to do
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/24 02:53 AM
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Like what?
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/24 02:41 AM
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I was never a lazy POS, but for a while my wife was def not thrilled to be fucking me on the regular. It took some time but after reading and implementing the advice in "no more mr. nice guy" and Athol Kay's primer, she rarely turns me down and in fact will ask me what's going on if we haven't had sex in a few days. The bottom line is, be a man she'd wanna fuck and she'll fuck you
/r/askMRP13/07/24 02:35 AM
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What's the female equivalent group?
/r/MensRights12/07/24 03:20 AM
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Leaving the situation. Yes but if you do that you get accused of stonewalling
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:10 PM
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From what I understand, most lawyers are averse to going after the wife. There is some kind of bro code amongst lawyers that they all learn in law school that it's bad form to go after women on the stand. IDK if this is true or not, but I have read it from more than one source
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/24 09:13 PM
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So basically you can lie your ass off and not get any punishment for it?
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/24 03:56 AM
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The orgasm gap is horseshit. Every single woman I was with back when I was single would push my head away when I tried to go down on them. Every single woman. I would ask them what's up. They would tell me not to worry about them. They were there for my pleasure. Every single one of them
/r/MensRights09/07/24 12:51 AM
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I am going to lose my girlfriend perhaps over this but she wouldn’t want me to sign this deal. We are 2 years in she wants to get married You are not a quick learner are you
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/24 11:24 PM
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Start with these. Right after you are done having sex, do you want her to go away or do you like having her around for other things? Do you get laid enough with her? Can you tell her what you want in bed? Does she respect you? Is she good or bad with money? Is she a saver or a spender? Do her cleanliness habits drive you crazy? When you have something bad happen to you, is she there for you or does she turn your bad experience around and make it all about her, and now you end up having to cheer …
/r/askMRP07/07/24 11:54 AM
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How often do you guys experience false threats of divorce? Any strategies I can use to prevent or minimize the chance of this sort of blow out to happen again? It happened one time for me. My wife mumbled something about divorce when we were young and newly married. Being young and newly married, I of course flipped out and yelled at her that she better not ever say that word again unless she meant it and then I stormed out of the room. Had I left it there she probably would have tested me again…
/r/askMRP25/06/24 11:54 PM
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"don't let the door hit your ass on the way out"
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/24 01:11 AM
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Marriage is a business contract that sucks for men Amen to that
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/24 01:03 AM
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Feminists say it doesn't matter It's bullshit. Almost every single one of them would refuse to marry a man with lots of prior sex partners
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/24 02:03 AM
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You are playing against the natural order of things where men take the lead and the woman follows. Although, there are dominant women out there who would enjoy this kind of setup, there aren't a lot of them (10-15% of women maybe). So you are going to have to choose your woman very carefully. Most women are either submissive or somewhat egalitarian. Asking one of these women to take the dominant role will be asking a lot of them. They will be naturally inclined to lose attraction to a man who do…
/r/askMRP16/06/24 01:50 AM
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The military made it LGBTQ and female friendly, so let them pick up the slack
/r/MensRights16/06/24 12:50 AM
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I did a search and nothing came up. Just name the name already
/r/seduction15/06/24 01:51 AM
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I have no idea what I did to make the text so big. But it was unintentional
/r/askMRP06/06/24 02:13 AM
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If she's talking with a guy to get validation: its fine, don't mate guard, don't say nothing, if she fucks him, then its her loss. If she wants to go to a trip with her girlfriends: that's a no-no, then you're mate guarding, but if she fucks another guy, its her loss, okay don't mate guard and let her do what she wants, you can't control ger. If she has a crush on another guy: tease her with him fucking her, it will be fun, but then if she actually does it, its her loss. This is not that hard. 1…
/r/askMRP06/06/24 12:20 AM
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I have always been wary of divorces and have always been aware of how men can and do get screwed in family court. And yes I have seen this play out in real life with several friends. One of those friends just got horrifically screwed. His wife cheated on him in the worst way possible and yet she got the house and boatloads of money. How divorce effects men has just been something that I have always been aware of and interested in. It always seemed so unfair to me. My wife had to work really hard…
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/23 02:38 AM
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I've been happily married for over 35 years. I get a lot of love and sex. My marriage has been seriously great. But there is no way I would do it again. the odds are stacked against you no matter how careful you are. And unless you want kids, there are really no advantages to being married that you don't have just being in a committed relationship
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/23 12:43 AM
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In the USA and Canada this is likely to get you hit with a palimony lawsuit. He gave her a ring and a condo and a ceremony, they are acting as if they are married. She could easily take him to the cleaners at this point
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/23 01:01 AM
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Not who you asked. But for me, I have no interest in extensive traveling. If a potential mate is big into traveling, we're not going to be compatible.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/23 12:59 AM
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Fresh n Fit, Pearl and all the others are merely tapping into a feeling that lots of men are having. There are loads of channels like them. What it says to me is that many men are fed up and do not feel like they are getting a good value in today's dating and marriage market. You yourself are not even getting the #1 thing you signed up for in your marriage. Lots of men are apparently in your shoes
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 02:08 AM
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Yes take the money. That's what alimony is for
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/23 01:39 AM
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Don't be ridiculous. That would be like blaming left wingers for what's gone wrong with the church
/r/MensRights09/11/23 02:45 AM
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This woman betrays me and even gets alimony, That's the worst. Sorry mate
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/23 02:35 AM
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Back in my dating days I realized that any time a girl got me and her into a room so that we were alone, that good things were going to happen. That's genuine desire
/r/askMRP08/11/23 02:09 AM
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. I wasn’t even allowed to testify in court because the judge didn’t want me to upset her. I was told if she cried, I could be found in violation of my order and held in contempt! WTF!!
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/23 01:11 AM
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People seem to forget that the young woman older man thing wouldn't happen if the woman didn't want it to happen.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 01:31 AM
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This shit isn’t complicated: you just have to fucking do it. That was a very useful post. Sleeping and eating are likely my trouble
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/23 01:30 AM
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Judges overturn prenups all the damn time, for any reason that they feel like. Men do not get treated well in divorce court
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/23 12:27 AM
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It's been my experience that the fathers are ambivalent about it. But the mothers absolutely want the circumcision done, for whatever reason. I think you have to change mothers attitudes first. Because the men will follow what the mothers want to do. In all things pregnancy and birth, what the mother wants will always take top priority
/r/MensRights19/10/23 02:45 AM
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she wants to remain friends. If I were in your shoes I would not remain friends. It's extremely painful for you and you really don't want to be friends, you want to be loved by her. She is refusing to do that for you. I know it's painful, but I would just be wanting a clean break. Your healing process will go much faster if you don't have to interact with her. I would make it crystal clear to her that you want to be married still, but that you can't just be a friend. I'm sorry you are facing thi…
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/23 12:48 AM
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Sorry you got the shaft mate. No advice but I'm rooting for you
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/23 01:18 AM
2

What state did you file in?
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/23 01:00 AM
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It's over. A woman that sleeps with another man is over her current relationship. She thinks she can do better than you. And likely she thought this other man was better than you, but she found out differently. You deserve better
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/23 10:36 PM
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he most obvious is a constant attack on my manhood (im not well endowed by any stretch) and saying why would anyone want to sleep with you? Sort of confusing i must say. She also constantly tells me im a shitty father, But we always fight and when we arent fighting she withholds sex. IDK brother. This is some serious disrespect right there. You'd be best off divorcing her ASAP. In my experience, once someone has an opinion of you like that, there is no changing it, no matter what you do. So I do…
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/23 11:35 PM
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GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM HER NOW!!! She is setting you up for a false rape accusation
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/23 01:23 AM
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Notice there are no hard numbers in this article of how many men actually have AI GF's. It's just a flimsy premise to attack men. I have never heard of an AI GF before this story. There cannot be that many men avoiding women due to having an AI GF
/r/MensRights01/10/23 07:22 PM
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That guy is entertaining for sure
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/23 01:19 AM
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Same girl that went secretly on the pill so i could cum inside her and made her husband wear condoms. That's so messed up. And to be clear, I am not throwing shade your way. You didn't say any vows to the dude. She did
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/23 01:57 AM
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When did “fragile male ego” become the number 1 most used feminist insult? This particular insult has been around since the 1970's. It's old hat
/r/MensRights27/09/23 01:34 AM
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They were heavily influenced by the feminism movement. Which is a leftist movement
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/23 12:33 AM
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If your income is 100k then find a woman who makes similar amount. Make sure she works during the entire marriage This was/is my strategy. So far so good
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/23 12:30 AM
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We don't hate women. Some women do detestable things in the context of divorce. But nobody here is hating all women
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/23 12:27 AM
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My guess is that, men generally do what they think is best at all times when trying to keep a mate. This is strategy #1 and it is all that most men know. When that fails the only thing left is option #2 which is to beg and plead. The whole point of MRP is to give men a better option
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/23 11:27 PM
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Because women have goals with any relationship. Her goal with you was to be nice enough to you so that you would have kids with her. She got her goal met with the kids and from then on was perfectly fine treating you like shit. All the better if you don't like the treatment and want to divorce her. Then she can clean you out in divorce court. And people wonder why the marriage rate is plummeting
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/23 02:54 AM
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Oh man, that's horrible
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/23 12:27 PM
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Don’t marry again. It just rewards cash and prizes to women, there is no upside for men. Amen
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/23 11:41 PM
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I don't doubt your story. But how is it that someone can just lock you out of your house and take it? I would presume that your name was on the title as well as hers.
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/23 11:38 PM
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We don't want to lose friends for stupid shit like natural human response to gendered visual and audible input. If you meet a walking trigger, just say you tried and walk away. You don't need that shit at all. 🎶 I really like this stance. I have a hunch that this is the way many trans people feel. It's a shame that the walking trigger people get more air time. I bet they are a minority though
/r/MensRights14/09/23 09:37 PM
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https://www.ohrc.on.ca/en/questions-and-answers-about-gender-identity-and-pronouns
/r/MensRights14/09/23 09:29 PM
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They hate getting straightforward and clean divorce cases in their courtroom. Why is that? I would think that they would want clean cases so they could get done with them and call it a day
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/23 12:38 AM
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The only way to survive marriage is to care less than the other person. Don't care as much, don't be as in love, don't want sex as much, etc
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/23 11:13 PM
1

I gave away my sexuality to all these rando hookups. Now if you want me you're gonna have to pay up with a relationship. I don't want to do that anymore
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 01:25 AM
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I'm pretty sure it's just being said to hurt me because she feels like it gives her control and justifies pulling our family apart for what amounts to very selfish and self serving reasons Exactly this. Their ego's won't let them accept responsibility for screwing up the family and being the bad guy. They have to rewrite history in order to live with themselves. Nearly every single woman does this
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/23 12:36 AM
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the new girl, she said, "I want to take care of you. What can I do for you?" That's beautiful honestly
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/23 12:33 AM
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I am more than a little shocked that she would even admit something like that
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 11:21 PM
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'Am I going to lose a beautiful woman who is willing to be with me to my very last breath because I am afraid to say yes to a child?'" What a dumbass. He's Kevin Freakin Costner. There are plenty of other women out there for him
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/23 08:36 PM
4

While dating the man pays for everything. Traditionally, once your married she will want to control the finances and you as the man would be given an allowance. For real? That's crazy
/r/MensRights02/09/23 02:55 AM
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She then asked me if I am even a real man. She can go to hell with this "are you a real man". Dump her ass. Real men don't tolerate that kind of toxicity
/r/MensRights02/09/23 02:51 AM
5

I feel strongly that men and women need one another. I think so too. But modern laws and divorce court are making it untenable.
/r/MensRights23/08/23 10:52 PM
2

Dating has always been tougher if you weren't the top 20% of looks or social ability. I don't really think so. Me and my friend group are decidedly average at best. I in particular am not tall, nor good looking, nor jacked in the least, and I am certainly not funny. But I and my friends have all been married (some divorced of course). The caveat is that we came of age in the 1980's. At that time and before you could be average and score an average woman and have a decent life. I believe that som…
/r/MensRights23/08/23 10:51 PM
1

She agreed, dragged out the process, ran up lawyers fees, tried to do the whole song and dance about how we'll never need it LOL that should have been a warning
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 02:18 AM
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Who cares how many friends you have? Life is not a popularity contest. Be your own man. If you don't need any friends then don't have any and be proud of it. If she needs a bunch of friends, then tease her about how weak she is that she can't live on her own accord. Why should you be bothered that she is "concerned" that you don't have a lot of friends? Women have concerns all the damn time. Most of them are meaningless. They love us because we don't get all bent out of shape over every little t…
/r/askMRP18/08/23 12:09 AM
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Fuck marriage. You've just got to be honest with her and let her in on the statistics about men and divorce court. Just tell her that you won't do it. If she really loved you, she would stay with you, marriage or not. If she moves on because you won't marry her, did she really love you or was she just interested in being married to anybody, whoever that might be?
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 11:57 PM
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(going to the house of another dude to do college work is already a boundary I set). But one day I got home from work and didn't find her. I called and she said she was at her classmate's house. You are going to have better results if you give up the need to control what she does. You can't control what others do. You can only let her know what you will or will not tolerate. And if she does something you won't tolerate then let her go. Here's the thing. You should be busy doing important shit an…
/r/askMRP16/08/23 11:09 PM
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I used to work at a major insurance company in the USA in the Info Tech department. Men were hugely discriminated against in hiring and promoting for management positions due to our company making a huge push that 50% of managers should be female. Which is crazy because we had a lot fewer women who actually knew anything about the jobs they were supposed to be managing. Many more qualified men got passed over for promotion and hiring just because they were men. Many unqualified women were promot…
/r/MensRights15/08/23 01:38 AM
1

but at the same time feel that it's unfair that I'm even considering doing so to the person I am seeing at the moment. Exactly. You should expect that if you see your ex that your current GF will find out and leave you
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/23 12:01 AM
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Yes that's more like it. And IIRC it wasn't that the women actually spent that high of percent all of the time, it was that they controlled it. So for example, a man and woman buy a house, for the most part the men just go along with anything the woman wants, except for a feature or two. Realtors know that if the woman isn't sold on the transaction it won't happen. She has the decision power.
/r/MensRights14/08/23 06:56 PM
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It doesn't matter how good the profile is. Women only swipe on the top 10% of men and there are way more men than women to begin with. Social circle is the best way to find dates
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:50 AM
1

Native born divorce rates are 20%+ higher than green card holders. So I only have a 40% chance of losing all my shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:46 AM
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Women are the largest voting bloc in the USA. They also spend an estimated 75-85% of all consumer purchases. Thus, politicians and media and corporations cater to the wishes of women. It matters not whether most politicians are men. Most voters are women and the laws cater to them
/r/MensRights14/08/23 12:29 AM
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Don't forget to add at least another hour 5X/week for the gym. I would think that the thing that takes the most time is making time for friends and family. People are a time sink. A necessary one, but a time sink none the less
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/23 02:27 AM
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Is this just a misogyny he-man woman haters club? Being anti-marriage does not equal "I hate women". On the contrary, it is possible to love and date many of them, but not want to marry them
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/23 01:25 AM
2

That's admirable what you are doing. But when do you sleep?
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/23 01:21 AM
2

Go out for a drink, no food.
/r/MensRights12/08/23 11:12 PM
1

. Fun fact, in my case her inheritance wasn't considered by the judge when alimony was calculated... So even though she has hundreds of thousands of tax-free dollars in a brokerage account I still had to pay her almost 35% of my income... While I literally had to pay my lawyer, her lawyer, all her debts, and give her our home and half my 401k which she cashed out and spent. That's terrible. And of course it wasn't counted for alimony. Par for the course though
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/23 06:00 PM
2

Men are more at risk to these subliminal messaging techniques than women due to their lack of emotional maturity. Sure lady sure
/r/MensRights12/08/23 02:14 AM
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Sorry mate. I read your post too fast and missed it. I agree that you were mistreated.
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/23 09:46 PM
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She’d track our bank accounts VERY carefully and question and judge me for every purchase. Yeah but who made the money? If she made all the money then she has every right to watch the nickles and dimes
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/23 06:46 PM
2

You pay 100% of the bills and she says that's financial abuse? talk about entitled
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/23 06:43 PM
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OK you are not out of your mind. That's a pretty good answer. I cannot endorse having the maid long term. But for a short term intervention, that's a solid idea
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/23 05:47 PM
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