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TL;DR Point 1: Men are generally awful at telling who's wearing make-up Take my upvote
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 10:25 AM
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I don't consider dick size as high value. Value is determined by depth of skill, not superficial assets. What you've described is a fuck boi, not a true alpha. Alphas may have those 3 basic qualities (though not all), but to have a better understand of the definition of high value, we need just that, more definition. You can have plenty of fun without fucking eachothers brains out you know. I'll ignore your condesention and air manufactured superiority, and direct you to this part of my previous…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 04:53 PM
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No it doesn't. They are completely fine with waiting. I would say some are, but most have better shit to do if they're truly high value. I suppose it would depend on what they are aiming for. Most are I search for a high value woman, and sex is definitely part of that equation. If you're trying to gain a feel for someone, you need o experience them fully and without bars, but if someone doesn't allow you into their inner self, then you either haven't earned it (which is your first directive), or…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 02:30 PM
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Intuition is incredibly powerful, and not a lot of people, even those with the ability, access it in all situations. It's difficult to know when you're over thinking things, and when you're being smart about your Interactions, but practice makes better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 02:10 PM
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Total noob here. FDS? Also, where can I find a list of the acronyms?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 02:07 PM
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I don't believe the right term is hard to get, but low and slow. Give up just enough to keep him/her interested, but not so much that they feel entitled/haven't earned it. This is how kids learn everything and I firmly believe that this simply continues into adulthood. You need to work with other people to find the right carrot at the right distance ahead of them, but once you can dial that in, training your partner is easy, as well as it becomes easier to be trained. Positive reinforcement, des…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 04:24 PM
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Exactly my point. 100% agree with you. I've got Instagram, Twitter (the biggest soul sucker ATM), and of course Reddit. I don't believe anyone here is above any of these "games". While some of us may talk a lot about not buying in, or not playing one verses the other, none body us are better than the social media game if we are all here. ~ Enjoy Yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 11:43 AM
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And here we are folks, on Reddit shitting on Instagram. Not saying you're wrong, but just doing the same thing on a different platform. We confuse "helping the community", "being entertained", and "learning" that Reddit provides with the addiction that comes with the random chance that upvotes will appear on our posts. Misreading a repost that get gold as a genuine goal to strive for and a trophy to achieve. Furthhermore, the bottom tier is the predominant holder of this gold. Those who are spen…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 10:43 AM
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Eating vegetables and doing squats this a highly underrated daily boost in your SMV
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:46 PM
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This is a biased based on your own personal experience. Find a man who actually wants to make you cum
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:36 PM
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This is exactly it, although, like what you said in your post. OG RPs say, "just, you know, talk to them" and omegas go WTF. Whatever your childhood situation is, no matter how many days in a row you were beat up in highschool, no matter if you've been a janitor all your life, if you can hold a normal conversation and a regularly attractive, you can fuck the majority of women. Being self aware enough to understand whether or not you're hot, average, or ugly looks, and paired with being seductive…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 03:53 AM
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Hey, all I'm saying is that if you really were a master disaster, that would be the plan that would put you on the map. I don't see how raising the quality of men is only done by having 30-40% of men impregnate women, that seems like both a made up number, and a made up statement. I'm assuming you mean that there are slightly less than 1/2 the men in the world that equate to the level of a Chad, for lack of a better term. Wouldn't it not be more prosperous to have Chad's teach, considering being…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 07:43 PM
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Yes, it's about the compassion within a healthy relationship, not falling in love with your soul mate. We are wired like this. Love is our way of social connection; it's the positive side of interacting with someone. We've designated this to be love when it comes to romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:29 PM
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This is like saying, let's rip out over half of the meaning in our current world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:27 PM
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Genetic pool is very weak, thats why so many men are single. You can only change that by raising genetic pool quality, which is impossible if you wont kill at least 50% of male population. Umm.... Or we could raise the quality of men? Or is killing off 1.5billion people part of your plan u/M4asterDis4ster?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:26 PM
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While on the aggressive side of this argument, your bases are grounded in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:22 PM
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I think this comes into a question of "what is the purpose of life?". For me, my understanding is that the purpose of life is meaning. Meaning is the value of your life, what you work toward to become a valuable person. Meaning, and acting upon it, is the antidote to being aimless, useless, and the feeling of low self esteem. With that perspective, let's look at love. Love is finding meaning through emotional connection and competency. Love is the tool in this case, and meaning is the desired re…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 04:53 PM
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Please don't think that he holds this against you. The idea of waiting until marriage is a very childish thing these days. Yes it is traditional, and not something to be cast aside if it happens, but it not so much a "requirement" as it once was.
/r/RedPillWives15/04/20 02:20 AM
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This isn't a big deal because the fact of the matter is, that this shows men's vulnerability. True, men are conditioned to not look vulnerable, but the reality is that no one likes to look vulnerable. Men or women. If this was the other way around, it would look the same. Comparing it to the Cosby thing is the wrong way to look at it. You really need to put a man in place of Cardi, isn't easy of trying to find a similar incident. Otherwise we are playing the child's game of "but she did it! Why …
/r/PussyPassDenied14/04/20 02:13 PM
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This isn't really a PPD, just being shitty.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/03/20 02:17 PM
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Bravo 👏👏👏👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 02:37 AM
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Now I know I’m ugly but.... Either low self-esteem, or high self awareness. I only applaud the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 03:41 PM
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Oof, shots fired
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 03:23 PM
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Welcome to the internet, would you like fries with that?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/20 12:10 AM
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There is no “one” woman for you. Either buy in to the strategy of spinning plates and reap those benefits, or buy into monogamy and reap those benefits. This. So many people think that there's only one way of being, but it's simply whatever way feels the most comfortable to you. If monogamy is you thing, double down on this woman and prepare to be the man of her dreams, AND NOTHING LESS THAN THE MAN OF HER DREAMS. If that's just not you, find another woman and be the man of her dreams, and again…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/19 09:44 PM
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YOU fail because you didn’t vet properly YOU fail because you didn’t eject sooner u/redranger207 It's sounds pretty basic, but do go on. What constitutes proper vetting, and what determines time of ejection. These are 2 concepts I've never really heard a week presented definition of, and it's something I'm struggling with right now. I feel like I fuuuuuucked up with the first one, and cowardly on the second, but I simply can't.... Define it, understand it enough to properly answer these question…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/19 12:26 AM
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To elaborate, I forgot to mention this has stopped, and things have changed. The violence is over, but the anger and resentment is still present.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/19 09:08 AM
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Considering the fact you didn't bother to finish, I won't take your advice so seriously.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/19 09:06 AM
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Addiction at any age is a problem. Luckily for most of us, we realize just as OP has, that too much of a good thing isn't necessarily good for you. When something consumes your life, it must be dealt with; either you accept your obsession, or move beyond it. Sometimes obsession comes in the for of passion towards your life's work, other times, it comes in the from of self destructive forces that are some of the most pure, animalistic desires gone awry.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/19 02:48 AM
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I second the audio. As a guy who has had damn near exactly the same path through as you ( started at 9, jerked off at 11, got to the point of masturbation to 7 times a day), I had to change how convenient it was to masturbate. Audio helped a lot as it created a story line of description which is hard to just " jump to the good parts" it really gave me a sense of empathy towards the women in the audios, and made me truly feel sexual again. Visual porn is like channel surfing for me, but I simply …
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/19 07:16 PM
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What the duck did I just read? Oh, and please continue. What happened with you and your wife? Did you bang some girls in the Netherlands, get divorced, what? It seems like you forgot to finish the story.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/19 03:38 AM
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Found the Brooklynite!
/r/PussyPassDenied10/11/19 03:06 PM
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That's bitchy clap back is an instant red flag. People (women) should stop taking themselves off the market so easily.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/11/19 09:32 PM
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Just going to church won't fix your shit dude. I have a friend similar to you. I see your sentence structure and I definitely understand that your a science major, but I see lack of articulation, which for me meant that I needed to understand reality more deeply and without filters. Church is simply another filter. God won't show you the way, and Jesus will only be the guy one upping you the whole way through life. The Holy Spirit, the essence, is what need to become the core of you which is for…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/19 11:46 AM
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Be civil, move on, use your HR rep when you need them. Work place romances are never good (as I'm sure you now understand), but seeing as your already in the apocalypse of the atom bomb, it's simply about managing your emotional connection and moving on.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/19 03:21 PM
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Bump. I'm confused as well. Mistakes happen! You seem to be doing far better than most women in this day and age of flousing around and bitching at their man.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/19 03:09 AM
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While these other incapable chodes can't handle a real relationship, obviously you feel up to he task OP. So let me give you some practical and useful advice. There was another comment on here that seemed pretty useful, they suggested don't act like the pre-teen's father, and that is half the battle. They don't trust you that way and it will take a lot for them to do so. Trust is going to be the core of your relationship with both this woman, and her kids. If you don't build trust you might as w…
/r/RedPillParenting25/10/19 11:42 PM
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I can't really confirm or deny op personally, but as soon as you said troll, this post seems to have it written all over it. This lady does all of that? Like... Really? Edit: and that name though? Really? It seems like someone trying to find real responses and have ammo for some shit talking, either to girlfriends, or to her own husband to which she only dreams of doing all of this for. If she did, then she would have an excuse to bitch him out for something. Idk, but op sounds fraudulent for "r…
/r/RedPillWives22/10/19 02:21 AM
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You as a man would be me. And I'll tell you one thing, I took full responsibility for my lack of knowledge. Sure, my mom could have taught me better, and then I would know how to do all this stuff, but at the end of the day, I'm an adult, and it's my job to know, so that I can teach my son. I totally get the narc mom situation. To a T, 100%, that over controlling, never helpful parent is a disaster, and she is still a disaster. My mom was a single mom essentially since she was 17. Her sister die…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 10:51 PM
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Robert Greene
/r/RedPillWives07/10/19 04:23 PM
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Man here, discount my advice at your leisure. I see a lot of people (probably similarly fearful women) talking about injection, moisturizers and other skin care routines that will help your appearance. These are all valuable, but there is another route. You mentioned Laura Doyle's intimacy skills, and that bring up a different Avenue to reaching the same destination. Skills are your number one resource here. While I'm sure you'll maintain a level of quality and refinement in your beauty routine,…
/r/RedPillWives06/10/19 01:33 PM
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Saved this post to see the results later on.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/19 03:05 AM
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If I followed my own rules, I'd be divorced, and living in Germany studying architecture. I know now something I didn't before I married. I was way too young to make that decision. Marriage is a very serious thing, and although I can handle that part, I didn't really know how to choose a good partner to do it with. I'm now in the process of getting my act together in certain respects. Learning German, going to school in the new year for architecture online so I can keep working, and continuing t…
/r/RedPillWives05/09/19 04:26 PM
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Man here: this hits very close to home for me. I've never been head over heels for my wife, swooning at her presence. I've always been very passionate and romantic with the women I've been with but her.... There's a lot of stale romance. Love I know is there, bit not worth acting on. I've forced myself to love her over the years, and now I'm realizing why. In the physical sense, you man sounds awesome, but mentally is where it counts primarily. If he is not hunting, adventuring, facing adversity…
/r/RedPillWives03/09/19 01:50 PM
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If I were to truly let my primal instincts take over, I would cave some guys face in with a rock and rape his tinder date in the bushes. Only if you were a psychopath. The reality is, and you seem like the kind of guy who wouldn't like this, but our closest animal ancestors, apes (specifically chimpanzees), don't act like that at all. If you need more insight into the matter, look at how their social structures are developed, and how they behave. I suggest "rise of the warrior apes" as its least…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 11:22 PM
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So.... That was unexpected. Especially since 90% of what you told me to do is in my repertoire already. Still working on the 20" biceps though, I'll give you that. I gave you a very surface overview of what I'm going through, and then you made a lot of assumptions. Also, if you call this flirting, I can't imagine how stale your relationship with your husband is. I suppose that's why he fucks anything with a hole. -evaluate how “irrational” she is while you’re married, she’s pregnant 🤰 Her irrati…
/r/RedPillWives24/08/19 02:49 AM
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Wow! I'll be honest, I think I'm falling in love. Hahaha in all seriousness, I'll have to read this several times over, but everything you've mentioned are all things I've come to learn within the last few years about manhood and life in general. You sound like a very high valued woman, and I hope you end up doing very well for yourself. Personally, I am leaning a lot of the seemingly new RP attitudes. Good deeds, being functional, stoic, calm but firm, and knowing how to choose your words rathe…
/r/RedPillWives24/08/19 12:12 AM
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As a man, I follow this sub, and certain posts (like this one) hot home, coming from the other side. Though my wife doesn't spin plates, or swing into the open arms of any willing man, she is a terrible first mate. I would be lucky to have a wife as caring and consideration as you seem. Keep your chin up, and keep up the amazing wifing, bit only to right man of course.
/r/RedPillWives23/08/19 08:50 PM
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Super jaded post Sooner or later, as she gets older, she realises this and decides a new plan is needed so she goes and finds herself a beta who she is now ready for. He falls in love, marries her and hands over the strongest hand possible, and she then divorces him and cashes in. She may have been cheating the entire time, or post divorce she goes back to her alphas and fucking around whilst living it up on alimony payments in her new apartment that her ex beta mostly paid for. Sorry you got bu…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/19 02:55 AM
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These are absolutely amazing. Keep them coming!
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/19 12:14 AM
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You'll understand it soon enough my man. Keep at it.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/19 12:49 PM
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This sounds less of a score and more of a coercion. Lots of refusal, and she sounds (keep in mind that I can't tell through your subjective account of things) like she liked you, but needed maybe another date to warm up fully and feel more safe. You got her, so that's good, but if you have her another date, you probably could have banged her on the regular for a while then when she would get whiny, peace out. Good first steps though dude!
/r/TheRedPill22/07/19 11:58 AM
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A little over the top. There's better way to solve than one.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/07/19 10:43 PM
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I enjoyed it 3 days ago
/r/MensRights22/06/19 06:59 PM
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Just because you can be a NPC, doesn't mean you should.
/r/MensRights22/06/19 12:56 PM
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Repoooooooost
/r/MensRights20/06/19 09:09 PM
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But she's not paying. even if I don't take the hit, she won't buy dinner
/r/MensRights12/06/19 10:01 PM
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The real problem, is that we are far more capable than women physically. It's not an unfairness to us, but to them. I wish I could rely my wife like I could rely on my best friend, but that's just it, I get to rely on my friend instead. Your acting like you want a "one person does all" partner, and it sounds very self centered. I want my wife to fuck, and take care of me, and my kid. She wants someone to do the heavy lifting, and care for her family. I want my friend to help me work hard, becaus…
/r/MensRights12/06/19 09:43 PM
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I would say in a life or death scenario, if they didn't help, then they would be exercising there female privilege. In this case, I would have told the women to stay out of it. They would get in the way.i would rather struggle with not enough competent men, than succeed (whenever they would decide to get their shit together and listen, as well as act at the same time) with women. It's not that they don't have to, it's that, for the most part, they haven't lived life doing this kind of work. And …
/r/MensRights12/06/19 08:37 PM
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Stay the fuck away from that trailer park
/r/MensRights05/06/19 09:41 PM
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Can this stop please? This is a lipstick on a pig repost I've seen countless times in the last little bit. We're the men, we understand this. You won't change anyone's mind by posting this. Your not even being productive by repeating everyone else. This is the longest bandwagon I've ever seen.
/r/MensRights04/06/19 08:27 PM
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To be fair, women get raped on busses there. It's clearly a trap.
/r/MensRights02/06/19 04:46 PM
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Philosophy. You need to have a strong framework of how the world works, and try your damnedest to make it honest and truthful. Be as objective as possible with the problems infront of you and reflect that in your way of being. I'm not a father (yet, my wife's due in November) but I was raised without one, and I was exactly what the leftist wanted me to be. In organized, no logical framework of being, wasteful, hyper reactive, the list goes on. Once I started putting hard rules in place for mysel…
/r/MensRights02/06/19 01:16 PM
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If I had to pull out and she swallowed, that would be a suitable solution.
/r/MensRights26/05/19 05:29 PM
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My logic applies to both sides. Women need to take responsibility and trust their partner. It's not par for the course, but it's the way it's supposed to be done. The problem is, most people don't understand that there requires a level of competency in this. They think in the moment only, pursuing pleasure, and not thinking in the bigger picture which is that a man does inject fertilizer into an egg pouch, just as much as a woman opens her egg pouch to receive fertilizer. Long story short, most …
/r/MensRights18/05/19 01:45 PM
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Because it's your responsibility to wear the concraception, just as much as it is for her to take contraception. It's about trust and responsibility. Sex can lead to babies, if you don't want babies with that person, don't have sex with them. Yes, we are one of few species that has leisurely sex verses simply reproductive sex, but that doesn't mean you get to be careless about it. Understand the risk, discuss contraception with your partner, and know that when you do get a girl pregnant, you can…
/r/MensRights18/05/19 01:39 PM
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Isn't this EXACTLY what they want from this law?
/r/MensRights15/05/19 10:25 AM
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It's kind of a trick post here people. I'm a guy, and I can see that plain as day. Leo has looked better and Amy has looked worse. It's about the direction of travel, not the destination. Keep it in perspective folks.
/r/MensRights30/04/19 07:21 PM
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I give these guys props. We don't need more men out there like this with extra cash lying around.
/r/MensRights29/04/19 10:24 PM
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Ummm....how is this bitch verified?
/r/PussyPassDenied05/04/19 05:26 AM
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If you choose turd sandwich over giant douche, I will actually think you're sexist, yes.
/r/MensRights20/02/19 03:01 PM
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Today tools are the mother of tomorrow's innovations
/r/PussyPassDenied15/02/19 09:56 PM
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r/humblebrag
/r/PussyPassDenied15/02/19 03:22 PM
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Today, we have the autoblow, in 20-50 years, we'll have the RoboHoe. You give a team of male engineering student at a task and they'll work for next to nothing to get it done. You tell them you want it to suck dick like the girls they see in porn? Man, they'll have porn stars in motion tracking gimp masks, blowjobs preformed during MRI scans, and AI mapping the actions. The hardest part would be designing the fine motor controls to produce the effect. This would guarantee a Nobel peace prize AND…
/r/PussyPassDenied15/02/19 03:21 PM
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It’s good. Unless you if you have a terrible ”overcoming your rejection” syndrome which lasts for at least a year. Sound like a you problem, not a everyone else problem. Maybe the reason why you fail with women is because you're sabotaging your point before you can even make it.
/r/seduction18/01/19 07:47 PM
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Don't control her life, just detach her from her anxiety. It's the biggest cause of mistrust and emotional wall building. Keep it light and fun. Make it known with a mindset that says "I want to sleep with you, but I don't have to so that we can have a good time." Really, just play intimately. You're not trying to do anything but have fun, and being physically close to her, that's not saying get grabby, but if you need to lead her around, use the small of her back to guide her through the crowd.…
/r/seduction18/01/19 12:08 AM
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Hahaha I love a game with restricted objectives!
/r/PussyPassDenied03/01/19 10:13 PM
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So, it's clearly established we don't hit women, but they can hit us. What is a reasonable repercussion? Detain until calm or what? I'm not one for going shot for shot with my wife, but that's usually what I do. Any other means of deflection or evasion when shes swinging? Note to the reader: I gladly accept every physical fight with my wife with grace, as it shows her at the end of the day who's stronger. Since I've taken the approach of this being a shit test, it is clear that this is a test of…
/r/PussyPassDenied03/01/19 10:11 PM
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It's nice to tell yourself, but male beauty is more based on his physical competency, rather than straight up sex appeal. So although being 6'2" would be nice, this 5' 10" will forgo the pumps. Take self confidence in your skills in discipline and determination as a man, not your height. One of those things might be build a bigger body.
/r/MensRights02/01/19 02:10 PM
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I agree, except for " Everything in your life is perfect and when you realize that it will reflect back to you. Why? It is simply because if you believe that you are perfect and decide that you are perfect you can actively make that decision again." ​ I would more say something like, make sure everything in your life is in order, then assume life is perfect, so that you can use the mental clarity to improve on skills to bring you closer to your personal ideal.
/r/seduction26/12/18 03:33 PM
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Your so right on her communication. She says it's her biggest catch in our relationship. I have such a hard time pulling meaningful conversations out of her, of course, on her period she gets her emotions out, but it's the ebb and flow of the period, no real information comes out. On top of that, the sexual aspect is terrible hard to talk about. She want me to seduce her more and bulk up, so I have and am still. So when is it acceptable to present my half? She always has shit to work through. He…
/r/ExRedPill29/11/18 10:39 PM
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Not a climate change denialist, but fucking gaslighting? I had to look it up. That was most interactions with my family after things got hectic. This kind of stuff is the exact reason I asked the exredpill. I know I'm not nearly as right as I think I am. With zero boundaries as a kid, I'm lucky I'm not worse than this. You're comment hit hard, and I needed that. Thank you. I'm a little shit, and I have to learn my lesson.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/18 06:21 PM
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Yes! This! I entered this line of thinking through a poor of concept of sex thanks to porn (no father figure at age 7, mother became emotionally unavailable at four, and when my father fell ill, emotionally unstable) and bdsm. My sexual inlet to towards this lead to the old TiH site being an outlet. I only recently got on the site in February, but I think it's either remodelling, or straight up dead. You described thirty years of experience forming what you have now, and I'm beginning to feel li…
/r/ExRedPill29/11/18 07:11 AM
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Im sorry to hear you felt the need to delete your comment, I wish you had kept it up for reference for other people trying to follow along. What is your definition of a male led relationship? Is it a taken-in-hand style, or something ambiguous you two have more or less fallen into? How has this changed your dynamic over the years, and what benefits have you found? A male led relationship is what we both want, but we honestly haven't found a good way to incorporate it. She thinks I'm bound to tak…
/r/ExRedPill29/11/18 06:05 AM
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"we" demoralized women? Leave me out of whatever you're doing. You're generalizing that all men in history rape and pillage, so it makes your statement valid. There have been no good guys in history who toke on the responsibilities of man hood seriously with supporting wife by his side, whom he cherished and loved devotedly? Its the same as assuming that the modern man is only red pill, and your proof of that being false. I'm in this for the relationship, but if we can't progress as people, this…
/r/ExRedPill29/11/18 05:31 AM
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Define disturbing. Is it possible that living a life similar to what we lived like for centuries is disturbing? Especially considering all the good wives out there that won't necessarily lay down for her husbands enjoyment, but take an active role in their relationship, while she mainly focuses on creating a stable home life for her children, while her man actively seeks to improve himself outside of the home for the betterment of the family. Is it disturbing that he wants a little bit of contro…
/r/ExRedPill29/11/18 05:18 AM
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What kind of negative emotions? Like not being provided for, cared for? Then throwing a tantrum when they don't get what they want? Give them a piece of candy and an apology and they run off with a smile on their face. Seems to me like we heard the same lecture.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/18 05:08 AM
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Men are shafted, and when they ask their women for a little extra love, she's already worked all day and needs extra loving too. Women seem to be less strong, as far as I've seen, in this regard. I willingky come home and rub feet, my wife however, doesn't think about my sore body and my needs. I've gotten my second massage in 5 years out of her in the previous weeks. It only took enough asking, pleading, bargaining, but ultimately a demand for a good muscle rub. Why the hell am I expected to he…
/r/ExRedPill29/11/18 05:05 AM
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The vagueness of my comments are a result of years trying to understand it myself, with no luck, if there is even coherence within it. As for open sexism, I agree women get the short end of the stick, as for the closeted social norms that aren't being addressed on behalf of men, while the same issues are addressed in women, atrocious. The double standard is the issue, not the prevalence.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/18 04:11 AM
2

The things she complains about mainly revolve around an infinite level of disrespectful behaviour towards her that manages to pull out of thin air. Unless we're arguing, or she's whining because of a bad day (I say whining because everyday is bad, or only marginally good), she tells me about the best parts of me. Like, there was a taxi we got in, and as usual, I opened her door for her, let her in, and closed it behind her. She has an issue with germs from sick people and it's slightly irrationa…
/r/ExRedPill29/11/18 02:43 AM
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The difference is the appreciation attached. It seems like my duty, rather than help. I'll ask things of her and shell reject it, telling me it's not her job to look after me, wtf?
/r/ExRedPill29/11/18 02:20 AM
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When I say submissive, I want her to give a shit about my feelings, thoughts, and ideas. She kind of does, but doesn't take them seriously. I don't know.. maybe I'm looking for a men rights activist group for better help, I feel like I'm not valued because I'm a man and will inevitably get over it, unlike her, who will shout from the rooftops to her family about all dissatisfaction she has with me, how I'm wrong, and my requests are too much for her. Her mother is a huge closet feminist, I found…
/r/ExRedPill29/11/18 02:17 AM
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I'm not refusing to ever acknowledge her, I'm moreso not concerned with her business until she makes it my business. It a valid point though, as it has been that at times, turning into a question from her "is everything alright?" She just finally seem concerned with who I am, what I think, and how she can honestly engage in my life for the better.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/18 02:03 AM
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Hey, I appreciate the reply. To your point of did she know it was only lukewarm, yes, she made it, and decided it was time to add ice, but for some reason not all at once. The childish thing extends past explanations. Like, she'll get in the shower, and 5 minutes in, like clock work, "can you get me a wash cloth?" Begrudgingly, I'll get it, for the millionth time, which is always a pull in to the bathroom, because she uses the one I got her last time to wash her face, so essentially, I'm restock…
/r/ExRedPill29/11/18 01:53 AM
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I'm not into manipulation tactics, but if it allows for less stress, at this point I'll take it. Would I like it done to me? Fuck yeah, why not? If all I had to do was fuck her good, cook, clean, and mind the impending kids, hell yeah, I'd check that box every God damn day of the week. Ali Wong said it best, "Women! What the hell are you doing?!" The way I see this whole thing on feminism and treat women right is a crock of shit manufactured by women. You don't want men to beat you? fine. You do…
/r/ExRedPill29/11/18 01:43 AM
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Hey, thanks for the advice. It looks like not all the red pill mentality will be incorporated into my life. She's had men manipulate her before, and that definitely not what I'm after. About a year ago, she said that I wasn't seductive. This blew my mind for a minute. Me? Not seductive? Fuck off I'm a stud! Well, maybe that's how I landed her, but I'm not a stud now. I grinded through the art of seduction, mastery, the 48 laws, basically Robert Greene's brain as a whole to find out why I'm not s…
/r/ExRedPill29/11/18 01:29 AM
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Thank you for the well presented distinction.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/18 01:19 AM
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I appreciate your null point. Submissive just means no bullshit from her. I don't need to hear about what I need to do for our family, because we talk about that stuff oddly frequently. I know the direction of my family, we have a clear goal, and when it comes to that goal, along with our budget, and major issues on that level, she is informed as well as consulted. Taken in hand is about the husband and wife being on the same team, with the same goals in mind, but the autonomy for the man to mak…
/r/ExRedPill29/11/18 01:16 AM
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I see your point. I'm really appreciate that reality check. Your main point about communication is hitting the nail on the head, though the more we talk, the more petty, previous non issues arise, all power games. "If you want me to this, you have to do that" talk from her end. I'm just looking to have our marriage work in both our favours. We want the same goals, but she fights me the whole way there, and thinks she doesn't need to go beyond a bit of extra house cleaning to make up for shitty b…
/r/ExRedPill29/11/18 01:05 AM
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No one is belittling, or punishing with detachment. When I sit her shit down, I mean laying out the argument on a timeline, showing her where I fucked up, then her, then explaining why a few ice cubes won't blow shit up. It's the petty arguments that she uses as a catalyst for calling me on being disrespectful at points where she's letting out her inner bitch. She's brought it up before, she projects her poor behaviour onto me. It's well documented, and gets better with every red pill move I mak…
/r/ExRedPill29/11/18 12:53 AM
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Fair points across the board. You're a good thinker, and it refreshing to see more of that. It's a life I wish to live, but I have a hard time seeing the world around me for the product of the actions I preform. Ideology is bad, but narrative is good, and more of what I'm looking for. A set of beliefs that work upwards of 80% of the time so I can see the patterns long enough to course correct. You said some things that seem to not ring true with me, and it does seem like part of the ideology, so…
/r/ExRedPill29/11/18 12:47 AM
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I'll bite, what's your solution to "I need shit to get done without the hassle of a thousand questions"? This is the childish thing I keep talking about. She tells me I'm wrong, freaks the duck out, then starts arguments about me disrespecting her all the time because I don't listen, and do what I want anyway. Why don't I listen to her suggestions all the time? Example, a recent one from this morning. "What the fuck are you doing?!" She yelled over my shoulder, "your gonna break the glass if it …
/r/ExRedPill29/11/18 12:06 AM
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While I appreciate your vote of confidence in me beating my wife..... I'll tell you a little about myself and how I've changed. I'm a very tradional, one track mind kind of guy. I can balance my life, but I find it very difficult with my wife in control of our relationship. She has no clue of what she's talking about, basing her life on romcoms and family oriented tv shows. So I've just started to tone down my overall attention and activity towards her. I'm not white knighting this woman any lon…
/r/ExRedPill28/11/18 11:50 PM
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