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TheNewHP/r/seduction20/10/12 06:16 AM
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Field ReportTheNewHP/r/seduction31/10/12 10:33 PM
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Field ReportTheNewHP/r/seduction19/10/12 02:10 AM
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Become a good story teller. Think about stand up comedians, they take a simple anecdote like "I went to the store and bought shoes" and they make it interesting and funny. I'm not saying you have to make it funny, but notice how they branch off stuff.
/r/seduction25/04/14 04:02 PM
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I like this. A lot. Oftentimes it seems like we get too busy convincing ourselves of all the "reasons" why we shouldn't do something, and don't focus enough on why we should. This is like fighting fire with fire, giving negative arguments a taste of their own medicine, beating it at its own game, etc etc. The usual advice I seem to hear is along the lines of "don't think, just do". I'm not saying its bad advice, it really isn't, but I feel like OPs method can bridge the gap to reaching that poin…
/r/seduction20/03/14 05:35 AM
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I like this. I pretty much had my suspicions that negging was more like playful teasing and flirting (even if it wasn't, that's how I'd do it). I basically just gotta balls up and do it when I talk to people instead of worrying about their feelings so much. Not saying that I should be an ass and ignore people's feelings, just..not be overly careful and too much of a nice guy loser that bends over backwards.
/r/seduction06/11/12 08:11 PM
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Oh yeah I'm definitely aware of avoiding one-itis, I'm not really that caught up on this girl at all.
/r/seduction24/10/12 07:50 PM
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This helped a lot, thanks man!
/r/seduction24/10/12 03:30 PM
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TofuTofu to the rescue yet again! Thanks for clearing that up for me, I guess I'll glance over at the sidebar but I feel pretty capable so I'll use it more like a general guide than memorizing it word for word.
/r/seduction24/10/12 03:24 PM
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(Ideas presented in this post come from a small sample size) I'm not arguing against your point, I'm sure it can be done but... I busted through one hell of a deep friend zone to date her and it didn't go so well but I'm sure there's millions of factors. Personally I'd think twice if I were just going off experience. Your methodology is correct though, highly ramping up the attraction, flirting, and kino is what got me out of the zone. Just make sure you're actually friendzoned, not just kindly …
/r/seduction24/10/12 03:19 PM
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I'll help out a little bit though I don't really know whether to throw these into yellow or red flag categories. -says that you're [one of a few/the only] guy(s) that she trusts. -has cried to you about guys that are assholes/cruel/etc and has a distrust for men -is quick to end a relationship and delete all evidence Basically I'm just describing my ex who somehow basically got it into her head that I was cheating on her even though I very clearly wasn't. It was just a bad bad bad relationship f…
/r/seduction24/10/12 08:01 AM
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So I understand the whole being direct with your intentions and feelings thing, and also get that you should be active instead of passive but... What do you do after you get the phone number and go about your day. I know that seddit seems to be more against non-essential phone communication and I can understand why. So after I get a girl's number and it was clear that I was into her on the first encounter, do I push things forward and try to set stuff up, or do I wait for a response to see if th…
/r/seduction24/10/12 07:50 AM
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This idea is what has basically changed my life. For a while I just had nothing to talk about and be interesting with. I'm funny, but unless I had something to reply to, I was out of luck. I pretty much unknowingly went about my life and very recently I just realized, I have a lot of interesting things to share now. Now I'm just wrapping up working on the confidence to bring those out.
/r/seduction23/10/12 04:41 AM
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Where do you strike the balance between not getting caught up on one girl, but not being entirely detached emotionally? Just a sort of hypothetical question I've been kickin around my head.
/r/seduction23/10/12 04:34 AM
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Be interesting and talkative? Works for me, but then again I'm a nurse aide and almost all of my coworkers are ladies...
/r/seduction23/10/12 04:31 AM
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I like it, I feel like I could easily say that without having to think too much about it. That way I'm asking for her number, not for permission to have her number.
/r/seduction20/10/12 04:14 PM
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Such a small change from "can I have" to "give me" but I can definitely see how much stronger it is. I'll keep that in mind so I don't unravel everything I've built up about myself with a few words at the end.
/r/seduction20/10/12 03:34 PM
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.....what in the fuck WAS I thinking?! Thanks for the reality check dude, I appreciate it. I shouldn't be trusted with a computer and Internet past midnight, especially if I'm crashing off my medications. The fuuuuucccckkkkk, I over think stuff still. Fuck it, I'll go talk to her next time I see her, it's not that hard. That way I'll know what's actually going down, instead of trying to analyze her feelings based on sitting habits. /endthreadfacepalm.
/r/seduction20/10/12 03:30 PM
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Yeah sure thing, I don't know how alpha my suggestions are, but it's pretty direct and a lot ballsier than how I used to get numbers (long elaborate excuses involving school work, almost entirely asked via Facebook chat, I still cringe).
/r/seduction20/10/12 06:43 AM
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It's almost 1 am here, I'm crashing off my medication, I have a headache and I can still cringe at how bad that is...
/r/seduction20/10/12 06:39 AM
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I saw one that I really liked on here that went something like this (paraphrased, the original was better but I'm lazy): "hey I had fun we should hang out sometime." "yeah definitely" "well how would I go about contacting you?" *probably gives phone number It was basically saying, try and get her to give you her number. I have 100% success rate* with something like this: "hey well I gotta go, but could I get your number and we can hang out again some other time?" "sure" have only used it once (I…
/r/seduction20/10/12 06:28 AM
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That was FireF, I replied to his question...
/r/seduction20/10/12 05:46 AM
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I uh, never mentioned the word bar once. Honestly I'm just going off of experience from where students hang out commonly at my college, plaza, dining halls, lounge area in the dorms, in the halls outside of big classes, library, etc. I committed to changing yesterday and I got digits pretty quick and easy, told my buddy about it and we figured we'd wingman together today. Went to a lounge area in one of the residence halls, he called dibs on blondes, I prefer brunettes. He points out a girl and …
/r/seduction20/10/12 05:31 AM
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I just have an odd question. So like, I'm changing from being a shy passive anxious person to what I see as better. With the shyness/anxiety thing I've started consciously deciding to not give a fuck and do what I want. In situations where I can't go actively talk with someone (middle of class) should I continue sitting around lookin chill (slouched down, legs spread apart, not caring about anything, doing my own thing) or should I more actively take up my space and own it and look ready to go. …
/r/seduction20/10/12 05:19 AM
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Why thank you? I don't know about bars though, I'm 18. I was mainly referring to generalized situations.
/r/seduction20/10/12 05:07 AM
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Not that I'm dissing any teamwork or anything, but my friend is pretty much the same as me. If I'm out with a friend who is experienced and bold, then hell yeah. He'll give me shit (in a good way) and pressure me into doing something.
/r/seduction20/10/12 04:11 AM
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I don't do as good with friends around, even if we both have the same intentions. It's too easy to not want to leave your comfort zone. If I'm alone, then that's a lot of incentive to get things going because the alternative is well.. Being alone.
/r/seduction19/10/12 11:49 PM
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Well I guess technically there are pills that get you more bold, things like ecstasy or adderall, but not recommended. From personal experience being high on ecstasy is pretty distracting, and adderall is basically the little bro of meth. I take adderall for ADHD and sure it makes you bolder, but the side effects suck and having a stimulant in your system when you're nervous or anxious doesn't help. Just look at it like an opportunity to practice and learn. I know failure is scary, but you reall…
/r/seduction19/10/12 10:41 PM
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Love this post. I'd say I'm fairly introverted and also shy, but now I can safely say that one doesn't cause the other. I'm not a loner or anything, I'd rather be social than sit alone. I love being out there and social, but sometimes I just gotta relax and unwind from it. I love being out all day, even all weekend, but I can't do it every day. I like lazy me-days where I don't do anything. In moderation. Sometimes I just wanna sit at home in my PJs and watch movies or play video games or work o…
/r/seduction19/10/12 10:34 PM
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Looks like I picked a perfect time to decide to change. This really helped reinforce what I was thinking.
/r/seduction19/10/12 04:34 AM
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Ride the foreigner wave as long as you can, you're instantly more interesting. I moved here when I was 6, probably wasted some potential and missed out. From your post it seems like you're pretty damn good at English. Sure, it may have taken you longer to type it up and edit or whatever, but the base knowledge seems to be there.
/r/seduction18/10/12 05:30 PM
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You burned your own camp so you couldn't retreat from battle, mad respect. I got inspired by this. I'm thinking to myself, I've gone into classes with none of my friends and made new ones, how is this any different?
/r/seduction18/10/12 04:26 PM
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You suck and I hate you :P. just kidding, well played man. Up voted.
/r/seduction18/10/12 04:22 PM
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Damn that was simple, I was even over thinking the problem.
/r/seduction18/10/12 03:28 AM
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What if the thing that stems your negative thoughts is just negative thoughts? Like if you overthink stuff and assume that people will judge what you do?
/r/seduction18/10/12 01:20 AM
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