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| 1 | Holding eye contactWork on your confidence before even thinking about girls, get Wayne Dyer books he will help you immensely. As far as that eye contact technique it won't help you as you won't look at girls you're interested in so it's a different dynamic. Furthermore, you might do this to the wrong person who will misinterpret it as a threat or a sexual advance. | /r/seduction | 22/05/16 02:27 AM |
| 2 | What am I doing wrong on my dates?All you really need to do is focus on her and bein in a sexual mood while relaxed. That's it. She wants the same things you do and don't wait until the end of the date to go for a kiss, it should come naturally during it. The girl also was not rejecting you she just isn't attracted enough to you yet. | /r/seduction | 22/05/16 02:17 AM |
| 1 | style 30-day challengeDo you wanna be the guy who needs routines or a guy who's simply good with women? Mystery method is horrible, 90 degree turns just to talk to women, 7 hour rules, acting like you're gay, "negs"... Build up your confidence. Accept yourself for who you are and fix any flaws you can while accepting ones you can't. Stop treating other people's opinions as rules to live by. Realize that there's a double standard on sex for men and women (women are afraid of the "slut" label) and that women want sex a… | /r/seduction | 26/12/15 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Girl asked how big my dick was, did I handle this right?Forget about "looking alpha". A confident, sure of himself person doesn't worry about how he comes off, he just does what he believes in. If things got sexual, then say "you tell me" and put her hand on it. Otherwise it depends on your actual dick size, if it's big then tell her, if not then just say "it's big enough". | /r/seduction | 26/12/15 03:26 AM |
| 1 | [Question] How to you ask for sex with a girl you just messaged right off the bat?Women are afraid of looking like "sluts", because when a woman has a lot of sex it's looked down upon. Unless she is very against social norms or in a relationship with you, asking her for sex won't work. She has to be turned on and it has to happen without you actually putting it into words. Read the Gunwitch method. | /r/seduction | 26/12/15 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Avoiding akward times and not having things to sayForget all this PUA garbage, it will make you into a weirdo. Seriously Google a picture of Mystery and tell me that you want to be that guy. PUA advice is built on scams and insecurity. I'm what PUA's consider a "natural" and it's really all about the mindset. You need to build up your confidence. Accept yourself for who you are and improve what you can (lift, get better clothes etc.). Don't let other people tell you how you should be. Your opinion is more important than anyone else's when it co… | /r/seduction | 16/12/15 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Mystery Method vs Tyler's Six Steps. Which one is better/more suitable for a Green Pick Up Artist?Neither one. Most of the PUA stuff is fraud and a scam. You want to get better with girls: Build confidence: accept yourself for who you are with all of your flaws that you can't fix. Don't put other people's opinions above your own. Understand that women want sex as much as you but due to the society won't act on it. Lead the interaction and be persistent (there's a line though, if she gives youa. definitive no then she's not interested). Understand that rejection is inevitable. | /r/seduction | 16/12/15 05:41 AM |
| 1 | I think i need your adviceYour English is actually pretty good. If she gave you a picture of herself that's a very good sign. Does she touch you when you talk? Does she play with her hair or touch her clothes? Those are signals that she's attracted to you. I would just ask her on a date and make it clear that she understands that it's a date. | /r/seduction | 12/12/15 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Daygaming every week, hit a roadblock, my mind is cluttered with thoughts, need some advice!You have to talk to as many people as possible. Basically ask people the time, directions, stuff like that. You should be social in your daily life too on fact. Let's say you're in an elevator in your building and someone enters, ask them if they just moved in...you don't have to have conversations just make a rule to talk more to people. As far as talking to girls outside, it comes down to a couple things. You have to build up confidence (Wayne Dyer's self-help books are very good on that). You… | /r/seduction | 12/12/15 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Improving Body Language?Body language is overrated, in all honesty girls don't pick up on it like PUA's say they do. Just avoid looking down (look in people's eyes when talking, or ahead when walking), keep your back straight and lean on things when standing. Avoid keeping your arms crossed and smile more. | /r/seduction | 12/12/15 03:40 AM |
| 0 | I lack the sex drive to pursue a girl.It might be that you're simply not attracted to her. Don't force yourself to do anything that you don't want to, that's the main rule in life. Do what you want (only exceptions are work and school of course unless you enjoy it then even better). Some people just prefer relationships to one night stands, again nothing wrong with that. Are you able to be attracted to other girls? Do you watch porn? If you can't get tuened on by all girls then you either have a testosterone problem (see a doctor) o… | /r/seduction | 12/12/15 03:30 AM |
| 2 | 21 years old and first date ever tonight. Help!First off don't think about how she's "out of your league". For all you know she has all kinds of problems and issues that you don't know about. Also to quote "Fight Club" you are not your job or your bank account, you are you, you're not worth any less than her. Ask her about herself to get to know her, focus on that. The main thing is to relax and not be nervous. | /r/seduction | 12/12/15 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Meeting with almost gf from middle school.It's called Netflix and chill. She wants to have sex. | /r/seduction | 05/12/15 04:31 AM |
| 1 | 2 Problems with approach anxiety. Can you help me fix them?This all comes down to confidence. I recommend Wayne Dyer's books for building self-confidence. You have to accept yourself in every way. If you don't like something about yourself then change it, if you can't then accept it and move on. Question: would you stop liking a TV show or a book if someone told you that it sucks? Other people's OPINIONS of you and your life are NOT FACTS, you have opinions too. Why do you automatically accept their opinions as superior to yours? Some girl rejects Leona… | /r/seduction | 05/12/15 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Dont want PUA or terms used, just a simple situation with a girl and confidenceTake charge and move things forward. Ask her on a date, set a time and place. Don't worry about being good in conversation, you're fine. There's no skill here just get to know her like you would anyonenyou would want to know more about. | /r/seduction | 05/12/15 03:52 AM |
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