| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 23 | Can't differentiate attention-seeking vs actual interest | TheNightIsCalling | /r/seduction | 18/11/16 05:20 PM | |
| 6 | Does getting knocked out make me look bad? | TheNightIsCalling | /r/askTRP | 28/04/15 04:18 AM | |
| 5 | Massive trust issues | TheNightIsCalling | /r/seduction | 13/12/16 02:38 AM | |
| 3 | No drive to go out on weekends | TheNightIsCalling | /r/seduction | 14/01/17 02:01 AM | |
| 3 | FWB slapping me | TheNightIsCalling | /r/askTRP | 28/04/15 03:18 AM | |
| 2 | Being too pushy? is my game lacking? | TheNightIsCalling | /r/seduction | 07/07/15 02:22 PM | |
| 2 | No desire to isolate until it's too late | TheNightIsCalling | /r/seduction | 04/02/17 05:50 PM | |
| 2 | "date" in 3 hours, and i think I might have HPV. Please, advice? | TheNightIsCalling | /r/seduction | 14/06/16 06:04 PM | |
| 2 | Follow up text after ONS? | TheNightIsCalling | /r/seduction | 06/09/16 07:35 AM | |
| 1 | College formal, how do I find a suitable date? | TheNightIsCalling | /r/seduction | 08/04/17 08:51 AM | |
| 0 | Did she cheat? Ltr making me neurotic | TheNightIsCalling | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 05:31 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Did she cheat? Ltr making me neuroticNo, 6am the day after she's like "sorry I took something so I could sleep" | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Did she cheat? Ltr making me neuroticAssuming she did, is it worth an instant next if it was only a week after exclusivity with no hiccups since? The four months of relationship development since is making it hard to think clearly. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 06:02 PM |
| 4 | Did she cheat? Ltr making me neuroticAgreed. It was four months ago though, my memory doesn't go back that far as to her behavioral changes. I'm torn because if she did in fact cheat, which it's looking like she did, it was a week after exclusivity. Now the relationships developed for four months without any fidelity issues(AFAIK) so I don't know what to do. If I knew back then I'd instant next the bitch, but its been four months so I'm lost. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Is it reasonable to not date a girl because of promiscuity?You're absolutely right. I was in such a bad funk that I forgot this. That to have anything good in life, you must be willing to accept the suffering too. Like yin and yang. It's crazy how much our emotions can blind us when left unchecked. Thank you for this post, it was exactly what I needed to hear. There's a book I read a while ago that does a great job at explaining that whole idea of duality. It's called "wisdom of insecurity" by Alan watts. It helped me get through some really bad times b… | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 09:14 PM |
| 0 | Is it reasonable to not date a girl because of promiscuity?Tell me about it man. What's funny too is I'm fairly charismatic, like I don't have a reason to be this insecure. I had an manipulative ex in high school that would always play mental tricks on me, lying and saying she's at a guy's house to make me mad, flirting with other guys in my face, gaslighting, the whole nine yards. She'd break up with me then get mad that I wouldn't "fight for her" and would get back together. One time she literally broke up with me while I was inside her. After that, i… | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 05:08 PM |
| 0 | Is it reasonable to not date a girl because of promiscuity?I'll stop replying after this. I know I have trust issues. Because of this and past bad experiences, I've lost sense of what is trustworthy behavior and what is not. Also knowing that it stems from paranoia, I try to ignore it and trust openly. But I literally can't tell anymore when someone is using me as a doormat until it's too late. This is what I'm trying to work on, and why I posted here. | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 06:31 AM |
| 0 | Is it reasonable to not date a girl because of promiscuity?Id be ok if it's the same as my number, not if it's double it | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 06:17 AM |
| 0 | Is it reasonable to not date a girl because of promiscuity?I really should've added more details. By maturing, I mean my ideals have shifted to be a bit more responsible. Hers do not seem to have shifted. There are other, current, red flags I haven't mentioned about this specific girl. I mainly asked to see others viewpoints on the issue itself. I know one red flag isn't a deal breaker. | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Is it reasonable to not date a girl because of promiscuity?I believe so too. The fact that this post is downvoted shows how much the sub has gone to shit. It's literally a studied, non-biased fact, yet it's downvoted. | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Is it reasonable to not date a girl because of promiscuity?Not wrong. | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 05:35 AM |
| -2 | Is it reasonable to not date a girl because of promiscuity?If someone's views conflict with mine, I get a feel for the person. If you are not the type of person I aspire to become, I have no reason to heed your advice. It got cringingly hilarious after the fourth one, so I kept scrolling. | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 05:28 AM |
| -3 | Is it reasonable to not date a girl because of promiscuity?God you're thick headed. Just because you have no standards for yourself doesn't mean everyone feels that way. For anyone reading, this guy has more than 50 posts on r/shower_beer craving validation. Talk about insecure. Be careful who you take advice from folks. | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 05:19 AM |
| -4 | Is it reasonable to not date a girl because of promiscuity?You must be new here. This sub isn't only about picking up women, it's about bettering yourself as a person along the way and giving yourself value as a person. Just because my ideals may be different than what you're used too doesn't illegitimize them. Would you date an obese girl? How about one addicted to hard drugs? Or non ambitious? We all got standards man, all I wanted is a second opinion | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 04:58 AM |
| 5 | This is my first time saying "no" after a girl acted like a bitch to me two weeks earlier and then reached out - old me would have gone for it anyway, I'm proud of my progressIt's a messenging service that you can send pics and video. It doesn't connect to Facebook or phone number or anything so has anonymity. I guess why it's popular with craigslist girls and hookers | /r/seduction | 08/06/18 06:55 PM |
| 3 | This is my first time saying "no" after a girl acted like a bitch to me two weeks earlier and then reached out - old me would have gone for it anyway, I'm proud of my progressSounds more like a craigslist girl. Kik in the background confirms it | /r/seduction | 08/06/18 05:37 PM |
| 6 | Make Her Drip --- Indomitable Eye Contact --- Installed In YouQuality post man, applicable exercises and well written. Keep it up. I'm well versed in eye contact but have the opposite problem, now people say I stare too much lol or that it's creepy. Any suggestions? | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 08:03 PM |
| 3 | I don't know whats wrong with meYou gotta believe in yourself. If you don't believe in yourself, it will show to women. Whether you do it subconsciously or not, it will become a self-fulfilling prophecy. You think something is wrong with you, and that it needs fixing. By thinking this, you are effectively making it true even if nothing is wrong. It's OK to feel emotions, you're a human being. Stay away from the alpha-beta bullshit, it's toxic to your mind. If you have self respect, confidence, and have clear personal boundarie… | /r/seduction | 08/12/17 08:42 AM |
| 1 | No desire to isolate until it's too lateI think it could be the comfort zone, but oddly enough it's like I enjoy the banter more than the deep conversations. And if I get into a deep conversation with someone I get kinda bored and want to move on, even if they're really cute! I think my sex drive could be very low as well | /r/seduction | 05/02/17 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Massive trust issuesI mean, it's like opposite of benefit of the doubt. I just assume the worst at any slight sign | /r/seduction | 17/12/16 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Massive trust issuesBut how do I trust again? Just give it automatically unless theres a reason otherwise? | /r/seduction | 16/12/16 08:03 AM |
| 1 | To add on snapchat or not?Add her on snapchat, most definitely. Even in the unlikely event that she is weirded out, mention that you were just adding all your contacts at once. Snapchat is good for building rapport easily too since it's a lot less commitment, and also lets her see you which will make her way more comfortable than if you hit her up through text or something. | /r/seduction | 06/12/16 06:52 PM |
| 2 | I think I've really seduced this time boysWhat are the signs of the clinginess? I didn't notice any so I'm thinking I may be giving off that vibe without realizing | /r/seduction | 21/11/16 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Follow up text after ONS?Thanks man, I appreciate it. A lot of amateur questions like this get shot down. So yeah, thanks. | /r/seduction | 06/09/16 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Follow up text after ONS?Yeah, you just reaffirmed my thoughts, so you're prolly right. Any way I can salvage? I kinda like this girl.. | /r/seduction | 06/09/16 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Being too pushy? is my game lacking?i second guessed myself about rescheduling for the day after, thought itd come off as needy. If someone flakes and doesnt give you another time, they usually dont want to hang out. So I just tried to get her to offer another time. Was thinking of sending a followup text because its been a day without reply, something cheeky | /r/seduction | 07/07/15 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Does getting knocked out make me look bad?that's what I've been doing actually, thanks, was just checking. And this was first night in a long while that I didnt remember | /r/askTRP | 28/04/15 11:01 PM |
| 2 | FWB slapping mei thought that, but this is when we're not having sex. old gf did that during and I fucked her silly. This one i'm already rough with, choking, spanking, pinning her down etc. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/15 05:01 AM |
| – | Does getting knocked out make me look bad?thanks for an actual answer, was blacked out so wasn't my normal self | /r/askTRP |
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