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Knowing Stefon Diggs, it was actually surprising that he was found not guilty. The evidence was clear in this case though. Even with Diggs’ reputation, everyone still took his side if they just looked at the evidence.
/r/MensRights25/07/26 08:48 PM
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I don’t know about that, but at my old job, I practically had to work on every project by myself. However my attractive female coworker had everyone tripping over themselves offering to give her help with similar projects. I had to budget my time around it and spend about 90% of my work week in our test lab. She usually didn’t start projects right away like I did, but she had more hands on deck to get it done quickly.
/r/MensRights05/07/26 11:54 AM
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I once got abused by my ex-girlfriend because I didn’t want to have sex at 3:00 AM after she kept me up until 1:00 AM and I get up for work at 5:00 AM. Another time she called me every gay slur under the sun for hours because I couldn’t keep it up after 3 rounds of sex before having a single bite of breakfast and hardly any water to drink. Women like that feel entitled to other people’s bodies, and it’s just wrong.
/r/MensRights29/06/26 09:27 PM
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Oh she pulled the same tricks again except this time it didn’t work and I had already gone to the hospital to have my wounds and experience documented should she try to pin any allegations on me with an UNO reverse card. I only remained in contact with her to pick up the last of my stuff in one trip where she still tried to delay my progress of taking my stuff and get me to stay. She withheld some of my stuff as a ploy to get me to come back. I said to hell with that and kept my sanity over abou…
/r/MensRights27/06/26 09:48 PM
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Probably the reason I didn’t leave my ex until I couldn’t take it anymore. She would punch herself, pretend to faint and not care where her head landed, and then she would threaten to call the cops and say I was the abusive one. She also threatened to murder my family or ruin their lives. She would make enough fake promises to change that I figured I could just put up with it and formulate some kind of amicable escape plan to keep my parents and siblings safe and only sacrifice some of my own li…
/r/MensRights27/06/26 09:07 PM
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The worst part of the BBC is that they use their citizens’ taxes and still propagandize. They are paying to be lied to, and not willingly
/r/MensRights21/06/26 12:45 PM
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The UK is becoming a third world country before our very eyes
/r/MensRights21/06/26 12:44 PM
20

Athletes generally aren’t shredded like Batman. An NFL defensive lineman is 150 pounds heavier than me and most look less healthy than me based on the naked eye. Yet almost of them run faster than I do. All of them lift more than I do. All of them have better endurance than I do. Half the time all those guys lose a ton of weight after they retire because they don’t need to eat as much or work out as much. Maurkice Pouncey looks like a normal guy now that he has been out of the NFL for 5 years.
/r/MensRights06/06/26 11:02 PM
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He’s like a brown belt in Brazilian Jiujitsu. He can absolutely fuck a lot of people up. Also as a BJJ practitioner, a blue belt can often be just as good or more talented than black belts. There are less belt levels in BJJ, and they really make you grind and work towards advancing your belt level. At least in the gyms I’ve been to
/r/MensRights06/06/26 10:58 PM
1

It’s occurred to me that part of the problem with women nowadays is that they have been coddled and infantilized their entire lives. When you look at what most single women are looking for from a partner nowadays, they don’t have any basis in reality. They’re looking for a second father more than a partner
/r/MensRights14/05/26 09:25 AM
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My ex once called me the f-slur because I didn’t like being groped or having my butt slapped while I was in the middle of washing dishes. She then made herself the victim saying that my actions were calling her “hideous.” Again just flip the genders. Imagine if I was groping a woman who didn’t want to be groped, called her a lesbian slur, and then threw a fit over not having 24/7 access to someone else’s body and act like I was the one who was wronged. She made herself the victim the moment I im…
/r/MensRights12/05/26 10:42 AM
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The scary thing in life is that when my parents eventually pass on, there is no one there to pick me up if something bad happens. When I was being horribly abused by my ex-girlfriend with no money and hardly any clothes on my back, they were the only ones there to help me get back on my feet. I called the shelters, and they didn’t help me. Getting a protection order wasn’t easy. To a lesser extent, at every job I’ve worked, I’ve had to work on most projects by myself and they always took longer …
/r/MensRights08/05/26 11:16 PM
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Because our empathy isn’t just performative
/r/MensRights29/04/26 11:21 AM
28

I try to eat healthy and mostly cut out chips. I was technically already boycotting
/r/MensRights29/04/26 12:17 AM
2

Notice how something like Joker got called an incel movie but nobody is calling The Drama a femcel movie…
/r/MensRights12/04/26 12:13 PM
1

Many feminists typically don’t actually care about the LGBT community or those issues. They’re just props that they use to feel self-righteous
/r/MensRights11/04/26 01:21 PM
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Part of what makes this so damaging is that society just expects constant sacrifices from men. It is very easy for a man to be gaslit into thinking the way his female partner controls him is normal, and especially if he doesn’t have any healthy relationships to compare it to; and isolation from friends and family is a common tactic of female narcissists.
/r/MensRights11/04/26 01:07 PM
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It’s just “stress” but given a performative nickname. We just suck it up and either fix what is stressing us or we just deal with it.
/r/MensRights08/04/26 10:56 AM
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Yeah pretty much. It’s also acting like your partner explaining how they are feeling is a laborious for you and not for your partner. It’s the age old hypocrisy of females handling men’s feelings. They talk all about ending toxic masculinity and wanting men to be more emotional. They ask their partners to open up and vent and yet they say they are putting emotional labor on them the moment they do as if just caring about someone you love and listening to them is some kind of chore.
/r/MensRights08/04/26 08:50 AM
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Mental/emotional labor is the most BS term I’ve ever heard and it is used by so many women to just describe adult responsibilities. Yes, they suck, but you have to do them. They unironically need to suck it up and just do the work.
/r/MensRights08/04/26 07:07 AM
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It’s arguably not even necessary. There was a study done where a group of boys and a group of girls were given Batman action figures to play with. The boys got into the head of Batman and had the figure act like a canonical Batman. The girls made their Batman act like themselves
/r/MensRights08/04/26 06:30 AM
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I’m pretty sure a man would have to register as a sex offender over this. I highly doubt she’s on the list despite meeting the qualifications in many cases where that was applied
/r/MensRights07/04/26 10:30 PM
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“It was a different time!” She makes it sound like this happened in the 70’s or 80’s when underage children like Brooke Shields were being sexualized. She’s 37, this would have happened in like 2006 or 2007 when this was still wildly inappropriate.
/r/MensRights07/04/26 10:27 PM
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I think the main difference is that people don’t think of deadbeat mothers as deadbeats because they typically stay in the child’s life; mainly just to use them as a prop to get child support and validation for doing the bare minimum requirements of parenting. Deadbeat mothers will take half a man’s salary and spend it on frivolous things she doesn’t need like salon appointments and expensive clothes. They’ll get $100 of takeout every night instead of just making an affordable and simple meal at…
/r/MensRights04/04/26 03:39 PM
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I think it’s one the dumbest insults I’ve ever heard. I feel like I lose brain cells every time I hear it
/r/MensRights03/04/26 01:47 PM
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I agree. I just meant that I could understand the reasoning behind that thought
/r/MensRights22/03/26 09:31 PM
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I could understand if they were calling men in their 50’s that, but they are calling men in their late 20’s that. Not even a decade of age difference and both are fully grown adults
/r/MensRights22/03/26 08:12 PM
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I don’t really have a comment on that. I’m just more disturbed by women labeling men as PDF files when they like adult women in their early 20’s. I just get really annoyed when definitions just get changed so flippantly and especially one with such a strong reaction and connotation.
/r/MensRights22/03/26 07:28 PM
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This is something that doesn’t get talked about near enough. Men who get abused by women are put in a terrible position. Psychotic mentally ill women are vicious. Men cannot adequately defend themselves. They can try to de-escalate but it often doesn’t work on people who don’t want to de-escalate. So they either just take the abuse or they risk getting accused of the abuse if they try to defend themselves. Taking it and documenting it is still a difficult position because abusive women are very …
/r/MensRights20/03/26 10:46 PM
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You never see people say this when the gender is flipped. It’s only when men are attacked by women, and the more stuff like that gets said, then more victims like myself gaslight themselves into thinking they are the problem and if they just change one behavior, then maybe you won’t get a black eye from your girlfriend in the future. That doesn’t happen, the beatings and the manipulation just get worse and I am lucky to be alive.
/r/MensRights20/03/26 10:40 PM
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It’s like that old joke about when you go fishing with your buddies and your wife keeps asking how their mother or sister is doing, and the husband just keeps saying I don’t know to all these social questions. “Well what did you talk about then?” “We talked about fishing”
/r/MensRights20/03/26 10:47 AM
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She’s just another spoiled Disney kid that grew up to be an entitled narcissistic overly sexual adult
/r/MensRights17/03/26 10:28 PM
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Just look at him in that interview. He looks scared and like he has to walk on eggshells. I’ve seen him on Barstool stuff where he is relaxed and joking around about sports. This is not ok. I’m preaching to the choir in this subreddit though. Rebecca Romijn will probably face zero repercussions. She will probably get to go on the next Avengers press tour and nobody will grill her on that.
/r/MensRights17/03/26 10:53 AM
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I would say no. My last relationship was so dehumanizing. It was as if I only existed to be someone’s wallet and sex toy with no agency of my own. I would prefer more men learn what controlling and abusive relationships look like before they learn the hard way and end up in one like I did.
/r/MensRights15/03/26 04:24 PM
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Same
/r/MensRights15/03/26 04:22 PM
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No. I didn’t skip over them for RE2 or RE3
/r/MensRights09/03/26 09:22 PM
1

I just finished the main game of GOW Ragnarok, and it hit me harder emotionally than just about any movie or show I’ve seen in the last 5 years. I’ve been playing Ghost of Sparta on my Vita too. I still need to start the Valhalla DLC. Then I’ll probably catch up on Resident Evil before I play Requiem I tend to watch hockey any time I don’t feel like playing something.
/r/MensRights08/03/26 05:38 PM
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I used to watch TV and streaming all the time. I’ve almost entirely replaced it with sports and video games
/r/MensRights08/03/26 05:23 PM
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The discourse between men and women has been thrown completely out of wack. Do they see it as creepy if you talk to them and your anxiety shows? Do they see it as creepy if you don’t talk to them and just stick to yourself? Do they see it as creepy if you make eye contact and smile at them as they walk in the room? Do they find it creepy if you try to avoid looking at them altogether?
/r/MensRights02/03/26 12:36 AM
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There’s also the factor that when a woman attacks a man, he probably isn’t doing everything he can to defend himself because he’s afraid that he could be the one in handcuffs if he fights back. From personal experience, getting thrown into a wall or thrown on the ground hurts no matter who is doing it. My ex also broke my eyeglasses the one time she hit me. It was crazy how she twisted everything. Somehow she justified that I was the bad guy because she had bruises on her hand from hitting my fa…
/r/MensRights01/03/26 12:56 PM
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35+ year olds that still talk like they’re in 9th grade
/r/MensRights28/02/26 01:13 AM
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And they’re bloody boring too. You try to talk to them and they have zero hobbies beyond doom scrolling and liking travel. They have zero ambitions in life beyond pipe dreams with no realistic plans to accomplish their goals. They don’t understand the reality of money, budgeting, or economics. They just live for attention on dating apps and free meals. Obviously it’s not all women, but it is most of them on dating apps.
/r/MensRights28/02/26 12:40 AM
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Typical of them to think it’s all about sex and dating when the reality is that deep in person friendships are rare now too.
/r/MensRights21/02/26 12:39 PM
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I don’t know if I would consider myself part of a movement. I just enjoy doing stuff by myself and not having to worry about what other people think or if they’re too busy. I can go to that car show I want to see and stop at that restaurant I want to check out. I’m an early bird so when I go on trips, I like to get an early start on the day and get coffee/breakfast before it gets busy. I like not having to wait for other people to wake up to get cleaned up and before you know it, half the mornin…
/r/MensRights10/02/26 12:25 AM
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I used to play Modern Warfare 2 multiplayer back in the day and yet the worst homophobic insults I’ve ever heard was from a self proclaimed bisexual woman because I didn’t feel like having sex with her right that moment. She used the f slur and also pretty much robbed me of all my autonomy in one fell swoop.
/r/MensRights08/02/26 03:50 PM
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The 49ers had a female assistant coach at one point. She was a lesbian, but still
/r/MensRights25/01/26 06:28 PM
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Seriously there are hundreds of songs about women killing their husband. You never see a male musician sing about killing their wife or girlfriend.
/r/MensRights24/12/25 11:14 AM
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Men masturbating Society: “You gross disgusting sicko pigs, and that stuff warps your sick mind even though it’s clearly a fantasy.” Women masturbating Society: “It’s ok girl you have needs. Why isn’t real life like the smut we consume?”
/r/MensRights21/12/25 06:19 PM
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Evan Peters was beaten by Emma Roberts, and it's seemingly swept under the rug
/r/MensRights28/11/25 10:39 PM
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That's the thing. I want kids. I want a family. I can't find any women that I'd want to start a family with.
/r/MensRights19/10/25 01:28 PM
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My ex-girlfriend constantly tried to justify her abuse by calling it reactive abuse to what I was doing. What did I do? I tried to have boundaries. She would invent new ways to make a villain out of me. One time she called me screaming at me that I was following some Instagram slut that I must be jerking off over and keeping as a backup girlfriend. I asked her who it was, and she would not tell me, so she threw hot coffee on me and threw me into a book shelf. The girl in question was my lesbian …
/r/MensRights14/10/25 12:17 AM
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The new cope is that they were both abusive. This is the reason female on male abuse doesn't get reported. It is hard get people to understand why someone smaller than you attacked you. It's hard to get people to understand why you stayed. Often times the female abuser will falsely accuse the male victim of abuse whether he reacts to the abuse or not because it is all about control and punishment. Johnny has no prior history of violence. His previous relationships never affected his work before.…
/r/MensRights14/10/25 12:12 AM
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I cried watching that. I went through something so similar. That was only 6 months of my life that will leave scars forever. This guy was going through it for decades.
/r/MensRights11/10/25 06:50 PM
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I had the same reaction. Emma Watson is deservedly getting a lot of criticism for being a bit two-faced and not using the correct language in this case, but I can actually relate to the point she was trying to make. It feels like the expectation of marriage and kids just weighs on you whether it's something you actually want or not. I personally want to have a wife and kids. The current dating market is not really in line with what I'm looking for though, and I definitely get depressed anytime I…
/r/MensRights08/10/25 05:41 PM
7

Saw 7 opens with a trap where a woman who was leading 2 guys on at the same time is in a trap with them. She tries to save herself by pitting them against each other again, and then they actually decide to work together and let her die in the trap. It's a very extreme example with very unrealistic and extreme consequences, but it's the only one that comes to mind right now given that it's horror movie season.
/r/MensRights08/10/25 12:04 AM
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I think Cobra Kai counts
/r/MensRights02/10/25 01:31 PM
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That's the only way. If a man as famous, wealthy, and beloved as Johnny Depp can't wake people up with what he went through (there are still people who believe he was the sole abuser), then we just need to work our ways into positions that can make a difference and cause the change we want.
/r/MensRights01/10/25 04:38 PM
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Yeah. It's a major topic in this space. It's a huge reason for a lot of the double standards and inequalities we face. It's how a lot of us get woken up that these things are real problems or bigger problems than we initially expected.
/r/MensRights29/09/25 03:20 PM
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It really should be. I get a little bit frustrated when I see a new true crime series on streaming services, and every time it's always about a woman who unknowingly married a psychopath. You never see episodes that go the other way that show the male getting into a relationship with a violent crazy person that abuses them like I unfortunately did. Other than a recent documentary that hit Netflix about a single case, I can't think of many other examples except for Dear Zachary (one of the most d…
/r/MensRights24/09/25 05:52 PM
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That's a bit like All The Boys Who Love Mandy Lane where the killer is the attractive girl who manipulates men into killing people and pretends to be a victim at the end to save herself before she preys on another unsuspecting group of people believing her to be innocent.
/r/MensRights24/09/25 05:43 PM
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There are many subjects you could use for that. Trevor Bauer is still not on an MLB team even though he is innocent of the accusations thrown against him. Not even in a sport where a bunch of cheap owners like my Pittsburgh Pirates would love to spend as little as possible on good players. Nobody has called him
/r/MensRights24/09/25 05:38 PM
2

That would be a great Twilight Zone episode
/r/MensRights24/09/25 05:35 PM
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We really need to push back on the stereotype that men are just animals that can be blinded by sex. Part of the reason that men are leaving the dating market is that men want genuine connections, and they're not getting it from most single women who are just sex crazed or after the money that he spends all week working hard for.
/r/MensRights24/09/25 05:09 PM
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Travis Hunter's girlfriend is trying the same thing, and he's been in the NFL for like 5 months and married not much longer than that. Although he also got paid in NIL prior to the NFL.
/r/MensRights17/09/25 03:47 PM
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My mom constantly badgers me about when my best friend and his longtime girlfriend of 10 years are getting married. My brother married his girlfriend after a year of dating. Frankly, I'm siding with my best friend on this one. My brother has changed so much ever since getting married, and while both have jobs, he is the breadwinner in the house. Speaking of which he just bought a house with her. They don't really have much in common seeing as how he likes the outdoors and she likes to stay indoo…
/r/MensRights17/09/25 03:46 PM
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She probably had a dream about it and delusionally thinks she is clairvoyant like my ex. Or maybe he had female friends that he grew up with on his social media, and it doesn't matter one bit if he has even talked to them in years or that they live hundreds of miles away. My ex considered that cheating. It's pretty much any kind of thing they can pull out of their ass to justify hurting men.
/r/MensRights15/09/25 12:18 PM
2

So much so that a self-described Communist is running for mayor of NYC and gaining traction.
/r/MensRights13/09/25 05:07 AM
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It's not surprising though. They think they can win arguments simply by being louder than the other person.
/r/MensRights13/09/25 05:06 AM
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I'd go even further than that. I say report them. It's not OK to say someone deserved to die over words.
/r/MensRights13/09/25 05:04 AM
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She drowns her sorrows in wine she can't afford and cats
/r/MensRights12/09/25 02:42 PM
0

I agree. The more I've educated myself on this stuff, the more I see the same tactics employed. It's hard not to notice.
/r/MensRights11/09/25 01:55 PM
2

I vacationed in the White Mountains there once. Beautiful place if you love the outdoors. I went hiking and rented a side by side. Lots of nice people. The gas was way cheaper than my home state of Pennsylvania.
/r/MensRights11/09/25 12:44 PM
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I didn't watch him a lot even though I am conservative/Libertarian and Christian, but I appreciate what he did. An innocent father and husband was murdered in front of the world just because he had an opinion and not even radical one seeing as how half the country would agree with his views. We really need to stop normalizing the idea that words are harmful, so the speaker needs his/her life taken away. I'm tired of people thinking I am racist just because there is an R on my voter registration …
/r/MensRights11/09/25 03:42 AM
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I agree with them in a perfect world. I liked what Charlie was doing even though he was out of touch when it came to some topics like a recent interview he gave about the state of dating where he clearly doesn't understand how ungrateful and narcissistic the dating landscape has become.
/r/MensRights11/09/25 03:34 AM
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They don't want young men to have hope. They don't like that young men are waking up and realizing they are cogs in a machine they get worn down by and tossed aside with no care and no reward. The MSM is supposed to calm the public down and educate them; not instill fear and incite/justify violence
/r/MensRights11/09/25 03:32 AM
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It's abuse plain and simple. It's another thing that narcissistic and irresponsible women do to control and exploit good, responsible men. It keeps their ex-boyfriends and ex-husbands in their lives when they might not want anything to do with the woman otherwise. They sit on their asses and collect half of their man's paycheck. Child support can be so expensive that many men will work two jobs just to pay for it or to have that extra spending money. And if a woman is using her children to get f…
/r/MensRights10/09/25 02:01 PM
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We definitely need to penalize a lack of responsibility and accountability and incentivize responsibility and family values.
/r/MensRights10/09/25 01:54 PM
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I keep hearing from people: "oh you don't want people that shallow anyway." I agree with that on the surface, but this stuff is still a numbers game. Let's say it's not that important to some women but it's still their preference. They would still probably filter me out of the equation in search of that perfect guy even if I meet everything else they are looking for. I think it is so dumb that there is a filter for guys' height, but nothing for weight and nothing to filter out trans people becau…
/r/MensRights10/09/25 12:08 PM
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The thing that really gets me about the height thing is that the vast majority of women are shorter than an average 5'9" man. Then they bring up the high heels argument, and I honestly can't think of many times where a woman I would date would be wearing high heels. Maybe once a year for the annual office Christmas party, but that would be about it.
/r/MensRights10/09/25 11:55 AM
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I won't be the first or last person to point this out, but it's absolute BS because weight is something that can be changed. Height can't be. It's the least important characteristic of all. "We just want a man we know can physically protect us" they say. Girl you live in a rural area with extremely low violent crime rates, and I have a concealed carry permit. 9mm rounds do the same thing to 6 foot tall muggers as they do to any other size of mugger. So what if I'm only 5'8"?
/r/MensRights10/09/25 11:49 AM
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Absolutely. It should go into some separate account where that spending can be tracked. It's not cigarette or hair and nail salon support. It's child support. Too many mothers spend that money on themselves and the bare minimum on their children or they don't spend any of it on their children and expect their spouse to pay for them even more outside of the mandated support like for school clothes and supplies and other necessities.
/r/MensRights09/09/25 07:35 PM
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I actually don't remember. I just know it wasn't something I was actually passionate about compared to my speech class where I got to do speeches about my favorite vacation destination, my favorite hockey player, and a news article about a major archeological discovery
/r/MensRights07/09/25 02:57 PM
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Exactly. Women wanted independence and the ability to have a career. Now they want the life that their grandmothers had when it's not economically feasible but also scoff at the idea of doing housework like their grandmothers did. So many women these days overwork their husbands and boyfiends too much. He's gotta work 40 hours a week, come home and serve her every whim, and support that crappy crafts business she wants to start instead of finding more stable employment. Meanwhile she's not doing…
/r/MensRights07/09/25 12:45 PM
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I remember trying to write a paper on the gender pay gap. I selected that topic independently. Even with university resources and statistics, I came away finding out the opposite was true so I went to my professor (who was a woman) and said I have to change the topic of my essay, and she agreed.
/r/MensRights07/09/25 12:39 PM
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I don't think my Christian and mostly Libertarian beliefs are very popular in most of the entertainment industry. I'm also in a Men's Rights subreddit mainly because I am a former victim of female on male domestic abuse. I don't toe a lot of their party lines even though I can honestly get along with just about anybody since I'm pretty chill and nonconfrontational.
/r/MensRights03/09/25 07:33 PM
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Some days I look at the state of modern media and wish I had actually committed to being a writer like I always wanted to be. On the other hand, I also probably would never make it in that industry because of my personal beliefs and they'd probably just try to corrupt what I'd try to write. Like I always had an idea about how I would make a sitcom inspired by my life because there are very few pieces of media that really capture what my rural upbringing was like. If I pitched it to Hollywood, th…
/r/MensRights03/09/25 07:24 PM
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I definitely don't understand the narrative that coffee dates are cheap. It's cheaper than spending like $50+ on drinks and meals for two, but I ate at a nice cafe by myself where I just got a latte and a breakfast sandwich, and that alone cost me $15.
/r/MensRights02/09/25 01:31 PM
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I've come to find that this is not only not true, but in my experience, it has been women who are completely obsessed with sex and physical appearance.
/r/MensRights02/09/25 01:29 PM
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In every commercial
/r/MensRights02/09/25 01:27 PM
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I'd also like to point out that there's a common misandrist line that usually gets thrown around when a man and a woman start dating. People will always say "oh you finally found a woman to keep you in line." Why does a man need to be kept in line? If he is in a serious relationship, then he probably already was keeping himself in line with rigid routines and healthy behaviors. It pretty much just reinforces the idea that men don't have autonomy and exist as wage slaves to make women happy. Peop…
/r/MensRights02/09/25 12:18 PM
1

Traditional men never left. Modern women want all the luxuries that their grandmothers had without putting in any of the work that grandma did. They want to be equal to men in personal wealth but they don't want to actually put in the work to do that. I wish we had more stay at home parents, but things are so expensive nowadays that this is not feasible in 90% of cases. This is the world feminism fought for, and they don't like the results.
/r/MensRights01/09/25 07:56 PM
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It's pretty easy to have confidence when the worst thing she can do is politely decline. We have been shown that there are much worse fears than her simply saying "no" though. There are a multitude of other reasons too. Another reason is indifference. The potential hassle is not worth the disruption to our peace. Then there is also the fact that the majority of single women are not worth chasing as they will not reciprocate an ounce of effort. Most of them want to be treated the way their grandp…
/r/MensRights31/08/25 07:04 PM
15

She was so obsessed with her appearance too and it just wasn't that important to me. Like she'd get upset if I said "I love you" if I didn't call her "beautiful" every single time. Like I could not forget that last part even once even if I just woke up. Looks matter to an extent, but I'd rather have someone nice who cares about me, appreciates what I do, and brings me peace instead of intentionally sabotaging it.
/r/MensRights31/08/25 06:17 PM
43

I dated down in my last relationship as a guy and she thought she was the one dating down since I'm just an average guy who is decently good looking but underpaid for my profession. She was like a 5/10 on a good day, but she was nice at first before she turned into a demon. It's tough to say these days.
/r/MensRights31/08/25 05:59 PM
2

Obama has seriously damaged this country from a social standpoint.
/r/MensRights25/08/25 05:25 PM
14

I shared this story before but I once got grinded on by a drunk woman at a Christmas party. Luckily a female friend of mine noticed that I was uncomfortable and jumped in to dance with me instead. We all laughed it off afterwards, but I thought about it more afterwards and it now seems hypocritical. If it had been a man doing that, it would have been taken seriously; as it should be. Then there was my last relationship. My ex-girlfriend was constantly groping me against my wishes when I was just…
/r/MensRights22/08/25 05:10 PM
15

Bob Iger should donate his wealth because any idiot that would spend 8 billion dollars to buy the rights to Star Wars, Indiana Jones, and Marvel and then try to turn them into girl brands doesn't deserve to be a billionaire. Millions of people have been calling from the mountaintops that their ideas were stupid, and they refused to listen, and worse yet, they insulted and isolated people who have been loyal and lifelong fans of these properties. They chased a demographic that wasn't interested a…
/r/MensRights22/08/25 04:58 PM
3

He was a pedo, and that shouldn't be sugarcoated.
/r/MensRights12/08/25 07:46 PM
68

When a woman is struggling, everyone falls over themselves to help her and accomodate. When a man is struggling, he is almost entirely on his own and has to seek out help if he needs it
/r/MensRights08/08/25 12:48 PM
12

I dated a narcissistic, mentally deranged, and entitled girlfriend who emotionally, financially, and physically abused me. She bought into all the online feminist talking points, and I had never seen such hypocrisy, such ungratefulness, such gaslighting, and such cruelty before.
/r/MensRights06/08/25 12:46 PM
9

We really need to do better in giving men places to go for safety. I couldn't get an official PFA order against my abusive ex (they were able to send a warning notice letter though). I didn't have anywhere to stay locally. At first I got referred to the courthouse for help and then they referred me back to the shelter. In fairness they were limited in what they could do since I had moved over the border to the next county, but still worked in the same county I was working in before. I'm just gla…
/r/MensRights01/08/25 03:11 PM
5

That's the most scandalous part to me. I never liked Coldplay
/r/MensRights20/07/25 05:25 PM
10

More like 2 days and acting like it's week and a half.
/r/MensRights19/07/25 02:07 PM
8

Porn aimed at men is usually pretty straightforward. There is sex and maybe a small storyline that isn't that serious. Smut aimed at women is really weird. I read a handful of excerpts from my ex-girlfriend's favorite books, and nearly all of them started with some kind of abuse and a lot of really icky power dynamics.
/r/MensRights18/07/25 06:42 PM
7

I always hear women complain about guys hanging up sexy women calendars at work but then these very same women have a bunch of posters of guys they find hot and talk about it openly in public. I remember in high school how my one friend would get offended when I said Scarlett Johansson is hot but no guy ever said anything when she said she was hoping to see Leo's penis when we all went to see Wolf of Wall Street.
/r/MensRights18/07/25 06:35 PM
3

There's nothing wrong with that. If anything, I actually regret giving up my virginity to my ex-girlfriend since she just used it to abuse me and belittle me, and I could never turn down sex ever. I want to wait until marriage with my next partner.
/r/MensRights15/07/25 01:53 PM
29

Feminists: Rage about toxic masculinity Also feminists: Suck it up men. Your emotional issues aren't that important.
/r/MensRights14/07/25 01:16 PM
3

I saw this at a car show yesterday on someone there. I thought there would be a car related joke on the back but there wasn't. As a survivor of female-on-male domestic violence and as a fan of comedy, I honestly don't see the humor in it. It's a big issue that gets minimized a lot, and this doesn't help at all.
/r/MensRights13/07/25 05:29 PM
4

Statistically there has to be good ones out there. My mom was a single mother with 3 kids, but she wasn't entitled or disrespectful like many of the ones I have encountered these days. I have no idea how you root through the trash these days to find the ones that legitimately did just make one bad choice in a partner before becoming single.
/r/MensRights07/07/25 01:03 PM
76

This is why men are increasingly depressed. They work 8 to 10 hours a day. Many people commute at least 30 minutes to and from work so that is another hour. They're now doing over an hour and a half or more of house work and chores every day. If you have kids, there goes the rest of your time that isn't spent sleeping. If you try to relax and enjoy a hobby, you feel guilty for it or you get berated for taking some time for yourself. Good partners will share the load like my friend and his wife. …
/r/MensRights04/07/25 01:49 PM
3

Which is ridiculous because that is an entire month's rent for most people on top of their own living expenses
/r/MensRights29/06/25 12:11 AM
5

It's a pretty good gig. Have sex and then get paid to do nothing but sit at home and you don't have to prove that any of that money that is intended to help raise the child is being used correctly
/r/MensRights29/06/25 12:10 AM
4

Honestly the conspiracy theorists may have been onto something. Before the 1960s families could afford to live on one income and children were raised by a stable family unit in most cases. After that and a multitude of political and economic factors, women entered the work force, and suddenly dual incomes became essential to raise families or to thrive in the economy and children were being left at daycares and schools and effectively being raised by The State.
/r/MensRights28/06/25 06:57 PM
2

That's the frustrating thing about modern discourse. When someone blatantly admits something and you point that out, you're somehow the bad guy?
/r/MensRights28/06/25 04:28 PM
100

It kinda makes it worse. Look at her, she could easily get almost any man her own age on looks alone. She went out of her way to do something that she knew was wrong.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 06:42 PM
1

The term pretty much now means the exact opposite of what its root words mean. Even before we get into cultural stuff, I think it is part of the destruction of the English language similar to the YouTube censorship words like "unalive." Involuntary celibacy means that you are not celibate by choice; in those two words, there is no reason given for why someone would be celibate despite their desires for companionship and intercourse. Even though it is always used to describe men, this term could …
/r/MensRights26/06/25 03:21 PM
6

I've done a lot of research on this topic lately. I certainly see a lot of signs of this.
/r/MensRights24/06/25 11:43 PM
23

In my entire life, I have never heard a man say "all women are bad" unless they were clearly making a joke that is meant to be offensive. I have heard from multiple women that they genuinely believe that all men are bad even if they have partners, and they justify it as if they found one of the only good ones out there. If you said that about a race of people, your life would be over, but they say this about men, and it is actually encouraged and supported rather than disputed or corrected.
/r/MensRights24/06/25 07:48 PM
2

As a survivor of female physical abuse, I hate the fact that we have shows like Toxic on HBO Max, and it's all stories about male domestic violence. Those stories certainly deserve to be told, but the way the show frames it, it's almost as if the reverse never happens when it happens in equal measure based on statistics and possibly more from unreported cases.
/r/MensRights24/06/25 07:43 PM
2

I see it myself. Whenever I work on a tough project that requires a lot of man hours of testing, I get zero help from anyone. When my female coworker has a similar project, everyone is tripping over themselves to assist her. Sometimes people go straight to her with a project without even trying to reach out to the rest of the team.
/r/MensRights24/06/25 07:40 PM
3

West Virginia already seemed good to me compared to Pennsylvania. Lower population. More outdoor hobbies. Much lower taxes and cost of living. About the same average salary of what I make now. West Virginia gets Steelers and Penguins games. This makes it even better.
/r/MensRights20/06/25 12:10 PM
3

I had an ex-girlfriend who loved to grope me and spank me without my consent. Often times when I was working on something else important. Every time I recoiled or indicated that I didn't like it, she would then put all the shame on me and acting like I was a terrible person who didn't find her attractive just because I didn't want to get groped all the time and I never liked spanking or ass tags. Boundaries did not exist with this woman.
/r/MensRights18/06/25 06:56 PM
15

Many modern women ask men to lower their standards, but us as men don't have many standards to begin with, and yet these same women don't want to meet them. I'm tired of it, and I have completely lost interest in dating and especially after getting abused by my last girlfriend who wasn't even that good-looking but thought she was super desirable.
/r/MensRights15/05/25 02:44 PM
9

It feels inauthentic. As a hunter for nearly 20 years, Tim Walz hunting trip followed by a bunch of media members making a bunch of noise in the woods with plenty of daylight was one of the most comical things I have ever seen.
/r/MensRights01/05/25 05:22 PM
4

My ex would abuse me for that. I get up for work at 5 AM and she often kept me up until 1 AM. Of course I don't want to have sex at 3 AM. I need sleep in that moment more than I need sex. She called me the f slur one time even though she was bisexual and I'm straight.
/r/MensRights24/04/25 07:28 PM
16

I just want to know why can't we wear a nice pair of shorts in the office when the temperature is 90 degrees; and especially since lots of people go for walks on their lunch breaks
/r/MensRights18/04/25 05:34 PM
54

There's definitely a double standard. I remember going to my first office Christmas party, and one of the older women had way too much to drink so she was trying to get super uncomfortably close to me on the dance floor. Luckily another female coworker/friend saw that I was uncomfortable and jumped in to dance with me in a less sexual way and got me out of that situation. We all laughed about it afterwards and brushed it off, and it never got brought up again. We all knew it was wrong and awkwar…
/r/MensRights17/04/25 08:52 AM
8

Exactly. It was the same tired cliche of "women smart, men dumb."
/r/MensRights14/04/25 05:49 PM
4

It astounds me that a lot of the same people who want to raise the minimum wage also want to underpay workers that have no rights. That's just wild to me. Shouldn't they get paid a fair wage too if the job sucks that much?
/r/MensRights14/04/25 01:36 PM
39

Despite what many would argue, no one has more privilege in the world than a good looking woman and especially one with a high profile
/r/MensRights03/04/25 12:14 PM
6

I was savagely beaten by my ex girlfriend. It was insane the hoops she would jump through to justify hitting me, and I thought she would stop if I continued being understanding and empathetic.
/r/MensRights16/03/25 10:51 PM
24

I've seen it myself. When I have a project, I'm pretty much all on my own to work on it. When my female coworker has a project to work on, every guy is volunteering to help her with it even if it isn't their department
/r/MensRights11/02/25 02:14 AM
7

Yeah. Most men genuinely do not care. I personally am not a big fan of makeup. It should be subtle. If I'm noticing your makeup, it's distracting to me. I don't see the point in it. However, most women I know love doing their makeup and watching makeup channels. It's like us guys and customizing our cars. Outsiders think we're doing it to impress women. Really we're doing it because it makes us happy and impresses our guy friends.
/r/MensRights05/02/25 06:05 PM
1

I got a Katy Perry example on the flip side. There was a time where a female fan ran onstage to kiss Katy Perry, and the media was acting like this was a cute act because she was young and outwardly gay and acted shy afterwards. Imagine if a young straight guy did that though
/r/MensRights02/02/25 08:15 PM
3

I don't really need a lot of T-shirts or shorts. Like I have to dress business casual for work 5 days out of the week, so at most I can wear like 2 different T-shirts per week excluding sleepwear where I don't have to care if my shirt is faded or stretched out or has holes in it if I'm just going to go to bed in it.
/r/MensRights02/02/25 02:23 PM
1

I tend to buy clothes more as a souvenir at events or places anyway
/r/MensRights02/02/25 02:21 PM
30

My ex-girlfriend was constantly groping me as I was trying to do stuff like wash the dishes or brush my teeth and she got mad at me when I told her not to do it. Flip the genders and that dude sounds like a creep.
/r/MensRights25/01/25 04:57 PM
0

And also be realistic with expectations. The economy is terrible right now, and while I expect it to improve, it will take time. Hardly anybody makes six figures in their 20's and 30's, and often those that do will not have as much time for long term dating and families. The average income is about half of what women in the dating pool expect and even then that is difficult to start a family with unless you have dual income. There is a time and a money currency understanding that is difficult fo…
/r/MensRights05/01/25 02:01 PM
3

Songs like "Goodbye Earl" are celebrated because they're about killing an abusive husband, but there would be riots if someone wrote a song about killing an abusive woman. You could never make Thelma & Louise with flipped genders.
/r/MensRights27/12/24 09:48 PM
30

The domestic violence hotline is 50/50. The first time I contacted them, I got the information I was requesting. The second time I contacted them months later, I received no help and was redirected to a different helpline that was even less help, and my situation was more severe at that point
/r/MensRights27/12/24 09:36 PM
6

The stuff they do to you mentally can also only be described as torture
/r/MensRights24/12/24 04:42 PM
11

I am a male survivor of domestic violence. I was isolated from my friends, family, and hobbies. I was screamed at and insulted from sun up to well past sundown. She deprived me of sleep. She would yell and scream and assault me until 2:00 or 3:00 in the morning. She wouldShe wasted my money on Doordash because she was too lazy to cook. She would disturb me at work and force me to call for my entire commute. I would try to be nice but she would often respond to my kindness with hostility. If I wi…
/r/MensRights24/12/24 11:36 AM
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