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Red Pill TheoryTheOboeMan/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 01:24 AM
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Red Pill TheoryTheOboeMan/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 03:06 PM
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If a fetus is nothing more than bunch of cells, then neither are you. You don't get to switch between a mechanistic and non-mechanistic view of the universe whenever it suits you.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 11:08 PM
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No, you don't kill a child to get revenge on his parents.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 10:04 PM
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She's still a human being with the ability to think, and I do fault her as an individual for seeing generosity as a weakness. That's complete bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 03:02 AM
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That's some bullshit. She thought less of you because you were charitable? I don't use this word often, but what a cunt.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 01:41 AM
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This actually makes a lot of sense, especially when you consider, le you said, that the societies that rose up afterwards surpassed those that came before.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 08:49 PM
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Yeah, some people just see what they want. You're the first person I've seen correcting this false assumption with that line from the OP.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 07:06 PM
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Sounds like what's going on between RPs and MRAs.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 01:29 PM
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I've never understood hating or being disgusted by beta men. If you're truly an "alpha", then why feel such strong emotions towards people that really shouldn't matter much to you, especially negative feelings?
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 09:51 PM
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I'd rather be with only one woman living in a time of hardship as long as I'm the only man she's ever known sexually. I would gladly trade all of our modern comforts for the assurance that my family would never be destroyed by some childish woman.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 08:25 PM
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Ok... But music as a whole, even just playing guitar, is by no means a "meaningless" hobby. I've been playing music since I was 5 years old, and it has never been "to pick up women."
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 11:37 PM
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Since when is music a meaningless hobby?
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 05:51 PM
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If sexbots were "indistinguishable from humans", then nothing would make female sexbots any better than actual wonen... Except that they don't age.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 01:08 AM
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Funny little thing. The first time this all happened, the time I'm referencing, I did go no contact. That's always been my natural reaction. But we wound up at a mutual friend's place at the same time (maybe she planned it, maybe not). That's when she begged me to take her back. Looking back, I realize that was my biggest break in frame (this is before I knew anything RP). The next time she left, I was so hooked on her coming back. It all spiralled out of control. That will never happen again.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 07:34 PM
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If she "can't take birth control" then don't plate her. That's just asking for trouble.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 07:14 PM
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My biggest regret when it comes to my ex is that I didn't go no contact immediately after the very first time she left. When she came crawling back the very first time, I should have stuck to what I always said I'd do in such a situation. That is, look her straight in the eyes, remind her "you chose this", and walk away. Instead, I rationalized that "we'd only been broken up for a weekend" and "I still loved her". If I could go back and change one thing I did, it would be this.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 07:09 PM
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With an airtight surrogacy contract, I would imagine very few courts, even activist courts, could rationalize just "throwing it out". Honestly, if you have a decent laywer, you'll probably win that suit. Even if you don't, I find it very hard to believe an appeals court wouldn't take one look at the contract and give you back full custody and parental rights.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 04:42 PM
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He should face a penalty, but it should be from school administrators, not a court of law. We have rules in this nation about the punishment fitting the crime.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 11:21 AM
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My younger brother used to get suspended in middle school for beating the shit out of dudes who were bullying other kids. That always pissed me off.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 11:16 AM
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We're talking about this happening within the duration of a single relationship.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 10:51 AM
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Well, to be honest, he shouldn't have lied about being ok with her count in the first place. Of course, that doesn't make him abusive or a "piece of shit" as one commenter put it. If it does, then so is every woman who has ever lied about her count.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 08:24 PM
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I can't believe these idiots stood around and did nothing after you told them to call 911 twice. Morons.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 06:57 PM
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What do you mean by "relationship person?"
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 04:50 PM
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Never believe the "I was raped" when it comes out much later, and especially if it's "I didn't tell you because you would have left me." Dafuq you want to be with a guy who you think would leave you for actually being raped for, stupid, irrational woman? You're clearly making this shit up to garner sympathy. Maybe believe "I was raped" if it's told to you straight up. Maybe.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 07:25 PM
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Yeah, really sounds like he "lost"
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 12:16 AM
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Every woman is like that to a certain extent. That's the whole point. Not to mention that the whole AWALT thing is a framework; a lens through which to interpret behavior. It just happens to be a particularly good and accurate one.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 12:11 AM
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I agree. There's so mich bad advice out there for guys who have been rejected over and over again that you can hardly blame them for being confused when seeking out the problem.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 12:01 AM
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I love how her entire post-literally the entire thing-was basically telling any guy reading it not to be nice. And then she realizes what she's saying and tries to back-peddle: To be clear, I was using Nice Guy sarcastically. As a trope. I mean the type who feels entitled to a relationship/sex/whatever just because he was "nice." It's creepy and disingenuous. I know there are legitimate nice guys out there. I think we are all thankful for those guys. To the authentic nice guys out there, keep on…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 10:33 PM
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I mean, can you really blame them in a culture where there's no one around to teach them about social cues?
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 10:16 PM
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You mean his biological sister?
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 09:55 PM
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Wow. That's some scary stuff. Interesting, though.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 04:08 PM
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EDIT: Programming would be good too since women don't even want to go into that field. There seem to be more and more women going into this field However, as a person in college for this field, who has also worked in this field on paid internships, I can tell you that the best coders are men. With the exception of one woman at that office that I worked with, who is much older and just has me beat experience-wise, none of the women there were very good at programming. Sure, they were good enough …
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 02:18 PM
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Yeah, I don't think it's anger phase. I mean, they're doing this to themselves. We're doing what we can here to warn people; it isn't our fault if they refuse to listen. And it would be foolish of us to waste our time and resources helping out fools who find themselves in a bad place because they just didn't listen to us.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 02:14 PM
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I like this. It's helpful to remember that there are exceptions to every rule. Life can't be broken down into a one-size-fits-all system of rules. Legalism is for the weak-minded.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 02:11 PM
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Remember, we hold to the radical idea that women are people too. Unlike feminism, which essentially purports that neither men nor women are human.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 02:00 PM
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There's nothing healthy about it. It just is.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 01:45 PM
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You miss-spelled billionaire.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 01:37 PM
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Yeah, I agree with this. And if someone had shown me proof that my ex was cheating on me, I would have left her. I just wish one of the dude's roomates (who were "friends" of mine) had given enough of a shit to tell me.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 01:26 PM
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Empowered womyn don't marry!
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 10:24 AM
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See, if you told me there's a possible 95,000 dollar bonus after 12-18 months, I'd ask to see your records on this and try to find the actual probability of that. I'd also ask you how often this happens. Is it every 12-18 months? See, most college students come out of here with crazy debt. I'm,coming out witg money already invested in the stick market. But that's what happens when you buat your ass in high school and earn a scholarship from your school that completely pays tuition, housing, and …
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 10:22 AM
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Have diversified skills This is probably the most important thing said on here.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 10:11 AM
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God damn. India sounds like a utopia compared to the rest of the world.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 10:07 AM
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I've been preparing for this. Now that we're starting school again, I just know she's gonna be trying to contact me. It might be a month or two before she starts feeling bad with the dude she's with now, but I can feel it coming like a change in the atmoshpere. In the meantime, I'm focusing on me. I'm planning on using this to gauge just how much I've changed since the last time I've spoken to her. How far I get = how much I've improved.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 03:48 AM
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I find it quite easy to forgive the woman. As you've said, this behavior is part of her nature. Forgiving a "man" for stealing a woman from his friend, though, especially if they are close friends... I'm not sure I can do that. I've tried, and I go back and forth between thinking I have and knowing I haven't. Although, it ultimately led me here, so there's some good.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 03:05 AM
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When I was younger I did many stupid things. These things could have gotten someone killed and it is a miracle they didn't. It has been 40 years and I like to think that I am a better man than I was at 16 & 17. This girl was obviously eaten up by guilt for the TERRIBLE thing she did, and while I believe she deserves punishment I don't think the rest of her life should be dictated by a moment of youthful callousness and stupidity. If the man who took his life was the man the poster described, I d…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 10:32 PM
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He said in the first post that she said him asking to talk about it in the morning was proof that he didn't care. That's the comment that sent him over the edge, and the comment that would have pushed me there, too, pre-trp. I think my response now would be something more like "think whatever you want." rollover, and go to sleep. And yeah, I'd have brought her olives the next day. On a side note, the commenter who thinks she's acting out because he doesn't spend time with her is just being silly…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 09:42 PM
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So, I don't really lift. However, after discovering TRP, I realized how important exercise was. I started getting up super early so I could run. Started doing pushups and situps. It was hard at first, but then I started to miss it if I went a day without doing my routine. Eventually, I got bored and stopped for a couple weeks, and still feel crappy when not doing it. Now that I'm back at my university for the schoolyear, I'm going to start using the lap pool in the school gym to replace running …
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 12:12 PM
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Don't lie. You liked it when he tapped your gooey hole.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 11:55 AM
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I'm all for not imprisoning her or fining her. Just make her wear a big fat red letter A for the rest of her life for all the world to see.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 11:42 AM
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Yeah, that's the one excuse that really makes my blood boil. All the rest I can just shrug and say "next". But that one. Bitch, you're about to hear it.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 11:38 AM
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I think he does feel like a failed father. It's sad, because he doesn't seem like all that bad of a guy; I mean, she could have Charlie Sheen as a father, for example. But I don't think there's anything a man in his position could feel except like a failed father.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 11:57 AM
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What is true and what makes you happy do not always overlap. You need to determine whether or not you think redpill beliefs are true (as well as which ones you believe are true and which ones you believe are untrue). Your happiness is irrelevant. Something out there is true, be it redpill or something else, or some combination of truths discovered using various tools (my personal belief). Your opinion doesn't really matter much. In the end, only the truth matters (Proverb stolen from a friend/co…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 11:45 AM
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We already have such a word: it.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 11:41 AM
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"social construct"
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 11:40 AM
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Using "they" in a singular form is technically incorrect, although it has been widely accepted. Like I've already said, if someone wants to be referred to using singular gender-neutral pronouns, those already exist. It.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 11:38 AM
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You want to be addressed using gender-neutral singular pronouns? Very well. You are now it. It, it, its.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 11:36 AM
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Yeah, you are missing something. There were two signs. The second one was basically calling your dick short. That's the one OP edited, and the one that got his feminist coworker suspended.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 02:59 AM
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Really? You've never seen these signs? I see these all over the place in restaurants. Hell, they're in family restaurants.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 02:56 AM
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I think he means when she crosses your boundries as it relates to her time spent with other men.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 02:00 AM
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I've experienced this firsthand, although had I known she was cheating, I would have left her ass. It wasn't until maybe two days before she left me that I even suspected. Then she ends up dating the other guy less than two weeks after leaving me. This after we spent a year and a half together. Of course, the reason it took me so long to suspect is that the three of us were very close, and I was good friends with the guy a year before either of us even met her. I'll never fall for that one again…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 01:57 AM
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Compromise isn't very bad in my mind as long as it's fair (ie each party loses something of similar value and gains something of similar value). But I'm like, hardwired for fairness, loyalty (until you betray me), and honesty.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 03:35 PM
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Your number 2 point is probably the most important thing for me. I have a very strong sense of right and wrong. Anyone who doesn't will ultimately act in very selfish ways, which utterly destroys LTRs. It doesn't matter quite as much that all of her morals align exactly with mine (of course they need to be similar). Having a strong set of morals in the first place will cause her to be more likely to not pull some stupid cheating shit.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 03:29 PM
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Since when? Last I heard it was perfectly legal? Not saying you're wrong, of course. EDIT: Here we go.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 03:09 PM
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As a Christian, I would promptly kill that wolf and bring it home for dinner.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 02:13 PM
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This situation is hopeless. It can't be paradoctered.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 02:06 PM
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To not charge somebody who is disseminating child pornography is disgusting when the person who is the victim is the only one being charged. It's disgusting if the victim is charged at all.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 02:04 PM
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You have revenge porn laws? When will the U.S. catch up with basic human decency?
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 02:03 PM
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No. I know of a guy (I was once close with his ex, and my best friend went to college with him; never actually met the guy) who received a photo, along with numerous others from his highschool, of an underage girl from his highschool. He deleted the photo immediately; she was just one of his friend's exes pulling a stupid stunt for attention. It was 100% unsolicited. When she didn't get the attention she wanted, she cried to mommy, who then decided she would charge all the adults invovled (most …
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 02:00 PM
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I don't think minors should be charged at all with manufacturing/distributing child pornography. I mean, that's just so stupid. Next, we'll be charging both male and female 14 year olds who consented with one another with statutory rape, which is ludicrous since statutory implies one is above the other in society (I guess only the female can be charged this way, then).
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 01:54 PM
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You aren't making sense. What specifically do you say to her when she says "I like Chad"?
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 02:04 AM
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First, your dates are wrong. You're right. I don't know why I thought the fall of Rome occurred in 354 ad. Something important and Roman happened that year, but the fall was apparently in 476. As for the Holy Roman Empire in Byzantium, they were kinda their own thing. I know they came from Rome; I realuze they were part of Rome until the capital in the West fell to the Germans, but they're really not the "Roman Empire" in the way that the nation governed by Rome itself was. They were culturally …
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 12:17 AM
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Oh, and there are plenty of scientific studies that back this shit up. Those don't count, obviously, because reasons. Those are clearly anecdotal scientific studies. Duh!
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 10:49 PM
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It's funny, for all the good in the relationship, she was one of the worst women I ever dated. The worst women are often the best at making you feel secure and making the relationship seem good when it's not.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 10:41 PM
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And, going one step further, both she and her husband are miserable for the entirety of their marriage,
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 10:35 PM
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The Roman Empire fell only 3 1/2 centuries after it became an empire. Many, many scholars blame the fall of Rome on a decay of morals, tradition, and families. Women may not necessarily be to blame, but I can tell you about quite a few whores of Rome who may hold records to this day. The moral decadency for which they are responsible, along with the many non-famous whores of Rome, surely holds a sizable portion of the blame for the collapse of a once great nation.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 10:33 PM
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"Nihil sub soli novum." "Nothing is new under the sun." Whatever things exist that you think are new, I promise you they are just different versions of the same things that have existed for millennia.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 10:28 PM
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That's a ridiculous statement that takes no,more than one lasting, good LTR to disprove.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 10:47 AM
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Then leave and stop wasting your own time and ours.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 10:46 AM
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Not really. Check out the actual definitionof a sociopath. Contrary to that, OP is being very social (controlling the social dynamic) and non-criminal (freedom of speech is a legal thing).
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 10:44 AM
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I use the term "sociopathic" to describe characters like Light Yagami and Frank Underwood. Those words have definitions and therefore hold meaning for me. OP is most certainly not sociopathic.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 10:41 AM
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Yes. Stick to insults that will be downplayed by a woman's hamster as light friendly banter or affe tionate humor. It will get the job done while also keeping you safe from being the next feminist sacrifice.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 10:21 AM
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I'm very happy to see some in depth posts about LTRs here. It doesn't get addressed often enough. I plan to add to it as I gain experience myself. Very helpful.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 01:23 AM
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I know adopting infants takes a long time. I'm talking about adopting 3, 4, or 5 year olds.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 12:08 AM
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I've thought about that. I don't know if it will make it any easier, but I'm going to have a lot of money by the time I decide to do that. It will be at least 12 years from now.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 11:35 PM
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Exactly. People on here don't seem to realize that your woman will fight for you if she respects you. Even in your weak moments, she'll be on your side if you've already gained and actively maintain enough of her respect.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 09:11 PM
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No, women are naturally like cats while men are naturally like dogs. Unfortunately, nowadays the dogs have let the cats run free and have to change their behaviour or lose everything.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 02:51 PM
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Fake or not, it sounds more believable than the "I got so much pussy last night, you guys" stories.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 02:47 PM
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Time. Just keep it shaved and try growing it again in a year or so. If it still looks that way, repeat.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 02:40 PM
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Yes. You're completely right.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 02:39 PM
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But which one gets it for free(ish)?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 03:47 AM
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My ex used to do this backseat driving crap to me. I just did whatever she was complaining about in an even more drastic way. Never anything dangerous, mind you. It really got under her skin, though.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 03:39 AM
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My plan is just adopt orphans. More good gets done that way, and instead of bringing more people into this shitty world, you're helping some people that got the worst of it. Of course, the trade off is that they're not your own.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 03:37 AM
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As far as facial hair goes, a lot of people seem to be going with a chin strap. I had a full beard for a while and then trimmed it down to a chin strap, and it looks great. It's a pain to keep up with, though. Your shaving has to be exact; I combine electric and hand razors to get the job done right. And I'm still trying to come up with a hairstyle that matches it.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 03:31 AM
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Seriously. Where does the thought "you're doing too many push-ups" come from? You're too healthy. Stop it.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 09:39 AM
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In my experience here, the non-anger phase participants don't make any moral judgements about the way women are. They simply seek the truth.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 06:38 PM
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I disagree with this. Cooking is a hobby for me; why wouldn't I cook?
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 09:46 PM
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Keep in mind there is a female version of this sub, though oddly enough it doesn't have as many subscribes. That's because feminism has tricked the large majority of women into believing that a more matriarchal society is good for them. The women's red pill sub recognizes the truth that it's damaging to both women and men to live in such a society, and that makes those women less able to think for themselves uncomfortable. Basically, what I'm saying is that Bruno Mars is either a sociopath or th…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 12:16 PM
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I've been doing this for years with family and friends alike. Someonene asks "Where are we going to eat?" I reply "I don't care." No one wants to make a decision, so I inevitably step up. I hate indecisiveness, even in a woman. It's a waste of time and, quite frankly, displays a person's stupidity and dependence on others for survival.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 12:02 PM
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I will never understand guys who actually prefer that their women were fucked by other men before them. If you want a woman with experience, give her that experience yourself. You don't need to have a bunch of Chad to do that for you, just shows how much of a blue pill one guy can be imo Exactly. We always talk about getting "high-quality women," but lots of guys on here seem to think that only means looks. They seem to think riding the cc in the past is acceptable behavior from a potential LTR.…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 10:47 AM
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If I only go through a few girls, but get the opportunity to shape them from a blank slate myself, well, that sounds like a mich more worthwhile use of my time. Different desires/values for us, I guess.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 10:42 AM
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That's because your premise is just flawed. It's completely plaisible to have even an average-ish Western woman who by 20 years old has only had 1, 2, or 3 partners, especially if she's naturally quite feminine and waits for a satisfactory amount of commitment to give it up. It's also quite possible to have a non-isolated virgin if she's religious, or simply has that moral upbringing and believes strongly in waiting, though I know that doesn't work for most of you here.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 10:41 AM
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Well, the first thing I'd do differently from your friend is hang around drunk women, for two reasons. I don't really want anything to do with a woman who disrespects herself by getting wasted all the time, sexual or otherwise. Once or twice, okay, but all the time, like these crazy, violent drunks, no. Having sex with a drunk woman can lead to rape charges, even though we all know that's a bunch of bull, the courts semm to be more and more apt to side with feminists on this. The other thing is,…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 10:26 AM
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If you think that's "being pussified," then you don't understand what being a man is. Deflect and dodging blows humiliates her much more than hitting her ever would. And, you gain social points because you both didn't hit her and also didn't take her shit. But you do you, bro.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 10:14 AM
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No, I wouldn't. But doing something similar to this and humiliating her shows her that she actually is inferior to you.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 10:12 AM
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I wouldn't fight anyone, only use defensive techniques I learned from martial arts in my youth. Getting in a fight ain't worth going to jail because you got wrongly accussed of assault. But that seems to be an unpopular opinion here, which we can apparantly disregard because some people don't know how to use their legs to protect their nut sack.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 10:10 AM
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Ok, well when you're charged and convicted because our legal system favors women and will believe she's the victim and not the aggressor, don't say I didn't warn you. Showing your "strength" by hitting back ain't worth jail time.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 10:05 AM
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What are you gonna do if she kicks at you? Block it with your legs. It's really quite simple. Are you gonna play your mind games while she openly disrespects you? You cannot command respect without neutralizing her agression in this situation.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 03:28 AM
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Situations like these are easy to control. She has two hands. So do you. As she attempts to slap you, catch her wrist in your hand. She goes to use the other hand? Catch it, too. Stare her down and do not look away. She will calm down; then you release her. You did not hit her. No one can accuse you of any wrongdoing, and here you have witnesses. If you're dating her, leave her on the spot after she calms down. She'd have you thrown in jail if the shoe were on the other foot. Edit: if you can, h…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 02:30 AM
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As a good and rational person, you probably like being around people who you respect, who also respect you. Unfortunately, you probably wont find many others with that fraternal attitude. I may know two other guys, out of all the people I know, who I could say share this fraternal belief. As for the unwashed, unenlightened masses, how do you balance gaining their respect with the respect you have for them? 3rd wave feminism has encroached so aggressively upon Western Culture that even many Weste…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 02:24 AM
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I have to believe it's just ignorance.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 03:17 AM
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Will do.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 10:01 AM
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Yep. N=1 is highest I'm willing to go.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 07:13 PM
1

Ashley Madison is a dating website for married people looking to cheat. AM is short for "Ashley Madison." Lots of people will be affected.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 10:35 AM
4

No, they'll know what happened, but with they acknowledge the truth within the event itself.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 10:34 AM
35

To be fair, I'd break up with a woman who tried and failed to cheat.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 10:28 AM
16

Oh, I think you're probably wrong. There are probably a lot more guys because women don't have to try to cheat. They can just go sit in a bar.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 10:23 AM
78

obviously I shouldn't drink... No, sweetheart, you probably shouldn't, but what you shouldn't do even more than that is go to some other dude's house drunk while you have a boyfriend.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 10:42 PM
1

Only be ause of how pussified western leaders are. If they had more spine, they'd get away with it.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 01:29 PM
12

They pull that crap with every feminist issue. Never been pregnant? Don't you dare have an opinion on abortion. You're a man? You must have never been raped (though men get raped all the time). Therefore you can't have an opinion on rape. Well guess what? I never want to hear any non-jew feminist say anything bad about Hitler.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 01:28 PM
5

I know a man whose best man, and all his friends, kept telling him not to get married. He kept taling everything they said as a joke, but they were serious. His best man even recorded a video of himself on the guy's wedding day, saying "I'm telling you this again right now so you realize how right I was in the future. Don't marry this crazy bitch." Ten years later, the dude realized his mistake.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 12:27 PM
0

Does she also want to sue the ice cream companies for making her fat?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 12:02 PM
3

Trying to start a fight works if you're in highschool. Anywhere else and it makes you look childish imo.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 11:58 AM
1

What's the right way to handle her? Can you give example situations?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 11:55 AM
1

I think, perhaps, you know exactly where your father messed up. You said it yourself: he never laid down the law when she threw her tantrums. It is a legitimate concern that his power to walk was compromised, but letting her walk when she threatens is completely legit. Also, he does have the biblical right to leave if she cheats. I think the best way to handle that type of situation is the way my stepfather does when my mom gives him shit. He tells her: "No, I'm going to do x", and if she contin…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 01:25 AM
1

So to say things like "I wouldn't use PUA tactics" is in and of itself a misconception of what these things are. Watch RSD videos, it'll help you understand that PUA isn't tactics in it's evolved state, it's actually more so a mindset/philosophy that they play out. Perhaps I have a misunderstanding about PUA tactics. I was reading an online writing by a Christian red pill guy who basically implied there are spiritually good and bad parts of PUA. He recommended doing the good, spiritually healthy…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 03:46 PM
1

Like I said, if she's the right kind of woman, she'll respect that you're being honest. Also, there might be a bit of a misunderstanding here. You shouldn't be focused on marrying the girl you're dating at first, but whether she's the kind of person you should even consider marrying. Back in my bp days, I used to say "I won't date a girl unless I'd already seriously consider marrying her." Nope, wrong approach. If your end game in a relationship is marriage, you should make it clear that, in the…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 01:05 PM
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Nice what do you mean by shoot 100% straight. I just mean don't use any of that PUA bs that gets secular women going. It's not that it wont give a Christian girl the tingles, but more that those strategies aren't a good way to start an LTR that is suppossed to head towards a marriage. Just sit her down and tell her you're looking for a godly relationship with her, and that means it'll be founded on Christ and follow traditional Christian gender roles (which is basically RP gender roles, with may…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 11:14 AM
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Well, the bible talks about not defrauding our brothers and sisters in Christ, which means I'm not gonna use PUA techniques on them. Instead, the strategy is shoot 100% straight when asking them out. After that, all normal RP LTR game applies (although I'd avoid using intense dread game because morals). Also, premarital sex is against my morals, but with a woman on fire for God (and, if you're man enough, for you) you ought to be able to avoid that for the time it takes to reach marriage if you …
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 01:56 AM
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That's just plain ignorant. There are plenty of women who divorce their husbands because they just can't handle how beta he is anymore, but who really want him involved in his kids' lives because they understand how important it is for kids to have a relationship with their father.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 06:05 PM
2

A woman (without a past that utterly ruined her) will form to the shape of a submissive and faithful wife if her husband starts as the mold for a dominant and leading husband. What I see in couples I know is that women slip after their men slip. It was when I realized this about a month ago that I realized how much Red Pill Theory aligns with the traditional view of marriage within my religion (a view modern feminism, of course, has nearly succeeded in having changed). Someone posted on here onc…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 05:58 PM
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Interesting idea. I'll be collecting more real-world examples.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 02:15 PM
2

There will come a day when I will do this, and I will get it on camera.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 02:07 PM
1

You missed 4. She says yes, you buy her a drink, and she gives you a fake number anyway.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 02:02 PM
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As a Christian (downvotes both expected and welcome, but my faith is tangential to my main point here) who is very serious about my faith, my first encounter with the red pill was jarring, but I've come to realize that a lot of it rings true. Most of it even aligns with my faith when you look at everything objectively. I do want an LTR and children. It likely will not be a legal marriage for multiple reasons (some red pill, and also because I don't want uncle Sam involved in my private life), bu…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 11:35 AM
1

I don't become anything more than "close acquaintances" (and by that I mean we only hang in groups with other guys, other girls optional) with any of the women in my life unless I'm dating them. I also make sure any kind of sexual relationship is off the table with those women as far as I'm concern.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 10:35 AM
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It's just the general hypocrisy that comes from any crowd. Simply: cheating is bad, regardless of sex. If you want multiple partners, don't commit LTR with any of them.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 10:33 AM
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Literally less than half his age. Sexual predator? Really? The girl's 5 years past the age of majority. If she can't handle some older dude coming on to her, she needs to go back to Victoria's Secret and pick out some big-girl panties.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 10:29 AM
4

Well, I mean, at least half of reddit is high school students.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 10:26 AM
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Not only that, but he only noticed the odd behavior for three weeks. Doesn't mean it didn't go on for longer.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 10:25 AM
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Unreturned affection What a bitch. On another note, this whole trend lately where feminazis berate "nice guys" and act like "nice guys" are only after sex ticks me off because it's a completely irrational viewpoint. Do they want sex? Yes. Is that all they want? I doubt it. Most of them are probably searching for an emotional connection as well as a physical one. Even if you start with the premise that all these beta orbiters are really only after sex, and that absolutely none of them are even re…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 10:17 AM
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