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Red Pill TheoryTheOneWhoWokeUp/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 10:18 PM
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Rant/VentingTheOneWhoWokeUp/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 06:18 PM
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Red Pill ExampleTheOneWhoWokeUp/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 05:23 AM
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Red Pill TheoryTheOneWhoWokeUp/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 12:53 AM
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Yup! Easily. "World's Healthiest Sport" and at least in the US only really played by the society's Elite. (Wall Street and Ivy League types). Fantastic networking and lots of fun.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 12:47 AM
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Glad to see more squash players on this sub haha!
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 03:59 PM
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Economists for the most part agree that all economic transactions rely on trust. We as social creatures have evolved to tust those in the tribe. Read Debt: the first 5000 years by David Graeber, Kropotkin's Mutual Aid and The Company of strangers by seabright. These will challenge your current views and maybe not displace them but help you understand a side other than the one our corporate overlords try to indoctrinate us with (aka social darwinism). I would link more works but academic pay wall…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 03:38 PM
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That was the ultimate hamster. edit: Hamster not hampster...
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 05:09 PM
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From all my research (reading other people's testimonies online) really the best stack I have heard for long term us is simply L Theanine and Caffeine. The Caffeine gives you energy and focus but the L Theanine also takes away the "jitteryness" of the Caffeine. What that means is that you are cool as a cucumber while still ready to get shit done. Anything else I hear is not sustainable for longer periods of time and addiction becomes a real problem.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 06:45 PM
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One thing I wanna say is that if you are feeling existential depression I think the best method is to break the problem into two categories. The first is the existential part, the second the depressed part. First off your existentialism isn't unwarranted. This is the ultimate question, what is it to exist? We all at some point in our lives have an understanding of self in the world around us and question what our purpose is in existing. It is your responsibility to answer this question. That is …
/r/askTRP09/01/15 07:47 PM
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Don't freak out when you can't respond immediately, any alpha takes his time to say the shit he wants to say AND PEOPLE LISTEN. Don't freak out when you can't think of something in .0000002 seconds, it doesn't matter what you sputter out that fast, what you want to do is take a nice deep breath and 3-4 seconds to say what ever it is you want to say.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 12:30 AM
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Even it were TRP...It's still reddit. It would still be a reddit meet up. Some people forget that.
/r/askTRP04/01/15 05:13 AM
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I like this idea. Personally I set a "Vice Price." Meaning that my vices come at a cost. It is pretty much your system in reverse, If I say watch an episode of TV one night, I have to make up for it by say reading 50 pages of a book the next day. This also helps me prepare my next day by procrastinating. Yes, procrastinating actually becomes helpful in this case because you have no excuses the next day until you are already done with everything you have to do from the day before. But I like your…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 12:16 PM
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Stop procrastinating. JUST READ IT. It will take 5 minutes to download and read the intro and the author will tell you what the book will cover.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 10:31 AM
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You are probably thinking about this the wrong way. To be honest you can meet RP mentality people just about anywhere, but friends should be friendly before you worry about their mindset. The way I think most people SHOULD meet friends is over a shared interest (NOT TRP) but something like having a hobby in common. You like hunting, try and find some hunting buddies. You like sports, join a sports club. You can get to know each other over this interest and worse case scenario, you are still havi…
/r/askTRP03/01/15 10:22 AM
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THIS IS AN ABSOLUTE MUST. If you came to this thread looking to learn anything this is is all you need to know.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 03:44 AM
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This is not faggy, different girls will have different spots on their bodies that they are really sensitive to and that can be used sexually. The Lower back on the spine is a common one along with on the inside of the thighs and on the side of the breasts. I had a girl once who I could lay on her stomach and kiss along the lower back and it drove her MAD. Got her wetter than anything I have ever seen.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 03:43 AM
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First, BUY A WATCH. Yes, even in the 21st century when we all have phones in our pockets a watch is still a valuable tool. Having the exact time in your field of vision at almost all times is crucial when it comes to timing. It wasn't until I started wearing a watch and keeping track of my time that I realized I was always in a hurry when I had no need to be. I always like to arrive early to places (if you are on time, you are late) and I always felt in a hurry, but I started to actually use tim…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 06:59 PM
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What you need is A LOT OF WORK. Seriously, this post alone shows how off you are from a real red pill mind set. First, it isn't enough to want it, you have to go get it. You have to earn it. Those stacked dudes you see getting all the ladies? Yeah, they have easily spent thousands of hours in the gym. That's what you gotta do. Those guys who masterfully control social situations with charm and wit and get both men to admire them and women to adore them? Yeah, most aren't naturals, they just have…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 02:23 AM
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I think the easiest way to build new social circles is finding a new hobby/doing a hobby you already have with new people. Doesn't really matter what it is, it is just a lot easier to get to know people already sharing a common interest.
/r/askTRP14/12/14 10:27 PM
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Humor. Being able to find humor in most situations is a very powerful tool. It is easy to find all the bleak things and get trapped under them, but through all that, find something that you can laugh at instead. I don't care how warped a sense of humor it takes, but being able to laugh is CRUCIAL.
/r/askTRP14/12/14 10:26 PM
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When you are that rich there is only really one answer. You have to marry another MEGA RICH person. That is how you financially secure your dynasty. Also prenups would be huge.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 01:24 AM
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Meditation is huge as what it does is resets your consciousness. When you meditate (the simplest form of which really just is breathing) you are slowing down your mind. This is good for many reasons. First if any of you know of Flow (look up Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi) focusing your mind and slowing your consciousness is what a Flow state is. Being able to block out the things you don't want and being able to focus on the task at hand is the only way you can achieve being fully immersed in what eve…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 10:32 PM
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The biggest difference in red meats like beef is they contain creatine. Seeing most people supplement it though, chicken is still fine.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 02:47 PM
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There is a whole sidebar post on the language used in TRP. I recommend checking it out.
/r/askTRP03/11/14 11:22 PM
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JUST CALL 9-11. Either way you are doing her a huge favor. I was in a similar situation but with my friend and his gf. After threatening my friend she was taking a bunch of pain killers I called the police and an ambulance to her house. It is certainly the right thing to do...Then run away.
/r/askTRP03/11/14 11:11 PM
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Leading is done through example. Following is done by simply doing the same. You must learn to do as you want to do. Find how others do it, and implement it. If it works for them it can probably work for you if you do it right. People are surprisingly ready to teach you what it is they know and love if you just ask.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 11:03 PM
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This is all socially constructed, it is not true, it is not real. You are biting into what the media is feeding you, they want you to feel that way so that it holds you back. Everyone else wants you to feel this way and that is why it is so easy. Don't. It doesn't accomplish anything and isn't what TRP is about. The idea you are talking about is privilege, but do not confuse this with power. In the end women are attracted to power, and anybody can become powerful. With SMV power trumps all. Forg…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 06:42 PM
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This is part of the parenting dynamic. When there is both a father and mother, they both play a different role in raising children. The mother is a nurturer and warns you of dangers. She would rather you not get hurt at all. Fathers are different. They push the children to challenge their comfort zones and learn by example in life. Sometimes this is where a child get hurts, and then they probably return to their mother. I think of it like this, mothers will tell you not to touch the stove becaus…
/r/askTRP27/10/14 02:39 AM
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You are the 5 people you are around the most. Seriously, make them ALL people you want to be.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 08:04 PM
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Agreed. Thanks for sharing this!
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 10:09 PM
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Don't worry about the things you have no control over. The reality isn't all that bad, you just have to recognize it. Yes, life isn't like you were raised to believe, you have been dealing with that same realization every single day since you were born. As you learn more about everything you really start to find out that the world isn't necessarily the best place all around. BUT THAT IS HOW IT IS. You can use the circumstances you are given and build yourself the life you want or you can act lik…
/r/askTRP22/10/14 06:35 PM
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I don't know the work environment, but depending on the context this is very unprofessional and could be dealt with as office harassment. I would address the behavior head on though, just simply tell them that you don't like them saying those things about you and it is unprofessional and they should grow up.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 04:03 AM
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No. This is completely unlikely. You have dug yourself such a hole with them and they have made up their mind that you are an orbiter. They won't even give you the chance to prove you are alpha. There are 3.5 Billion + other women, don't worry about any of the old ones. (The only way I can see this working is if in 5 years time you just happen to drive by one of these old girls in your lamborghini)
/r/askTRP22/10/14 02:05 AM
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If you are 25, think back in your life on EVERYTHING YOU HAVE DONE and what you really enjoyed and want to do more. You should be able to come up with something... Here's the thing, no matter what it is YOU MAKE THE CHOICE of how good you are. The more you put in, the more you get out. That might mean waking up at 4:30 every morning and being sleep deprived and making MAJOR sacrifices in other facets of your life, but that is the cost of success.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 02:02 AM
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Yup, this is just them shit testing you. If they are getting mad, it means they are trying to get you to slip up and lose frame. Don't try and think about this logically, because that isn't how she is approaching it. Her emotions aren't crafted to display her intentions or current mood but to discover YOURS.
/r/askTRP22/10/14 01:43 AM
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You should start going out and finding more friends. You don't want to stay lonely as real friendship can really help you with a lot and help you grow as a person. I suggest trying to meet people with similar hobbies as you. It is hard making new friends, but that is all part of the cycle.
/r/askTRP22/10/14 12:48 AM
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If she finds you pretty attractive she will laugh automatically, if she finds you creepy in any way there is 0 chance. I don't care how funny you think you are, this pretty much comes down to whether or not she is getting the tingles.
/r/askTRP22/10/14 12:44 AM
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Luckily for me, I don't have hairloss nor do I think I will, but if it is at all noticeable, you might want to just go with a completely shaved head. This worked for a lot of the guys I knew with the same problem and if you are pretty decently jacked you look like a tank. It is also a good way to highlight any facial hair you have going on.
/r/askTRP22/10/14 12:43 AM
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Here is what you want to do. Address the situation (ie music being loud) as calmly as you can. "Hey, would you mind if you turned down your music for the rest of us here?" They will either say fuck off to which you smile and go on about your business, or they comply to which you thank them. This is all common courtesy really, nothing about being big or bad, just try and bring more pleasantness to the unpleasant situation.
/r/askTRP22/10/14 12:41 AM
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First off, practice. Maybe have a friend who you can tell what you learned every day and you work on explaining the best you can what you learned. Something that personally helped a lot of my friends and I was just slowing down when we talk. There is no need to rush through information, just take some deep breathes sand if you need to stop for a a minute to think, that is alright.
/r/becomeaman22/10/14 12:38 AM
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Preworkout helps a lot (or any source of caffeine) And I would keep reading TRP to answer your other question. Absorb everything about relationship dynamics and SMV and see how it is possible to pull the kind of girls you are looking for.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 10:56 PM
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Just go out and see what happens. The only way to really learn TRP is to go out and apply it. You will learn through your mistakes and experiences.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 10:52 PM
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You have to have realistic enough standards to be able to get as much action as you want, but setting standards is a good thing to do. You are the prize so you don't want any piece of trash coming home with you. Some standards are simply unrealistic so make sure you aren't getting into a hunt for a unicorn.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 01:17 AM
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I think you are over thinking things... In COMPLETELY RANDOM PUBLIC just avoid eye contact. Maaaaybe look at some cute girls for your viewing pleasure and to see how many glances come your way, but don't start staring at random people, that is weird. If you are in a familiar environment, one you frequent, or one that is made for introducing new people, start making eye contact and feel free to approach people who look friendly to you.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 12:46 AM
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Well, first off you really need to not be aggressive towards others. If there is some other outlet for your emotions, use it. Shitting on other people's days makes you no happier. And if you are depressed and could care less what anyone things, that is exhibiting at least SOME alpha traits. KEEP YOUR COMPOSURE. Even on your worst day, don't let people know you are angry, just show them you are not able to talk.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 12:08 AM
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If you are so well learned in language, why not travel? I recommend competitive sport for a lot of people. Are you artistic at all? I am not sure where you live, but you might want to just look around the area for what is popular in the region.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 11:57 PM
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There are a lot of different things you can do, but what I know worked well for me was actually utilizing the I DON'T GIVE A FUCK attitude that came with my bad days. It actually helped me get outside my comfort zone and say things I might normally not or do things I wouldn't normally do, you know because in the end nothing matters. For acquiring day to day goals depression is a major hindrance (if you let it be) but if used right it can make you the most alpha in the room. You could literally n…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 11:53 PM
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Don't be so hard on yourself. It was a simple mistake. It is great to have a rigid schedule for your sake but sometimes you will have to sacrifice some of your time in order to help others, which requires you being flexible. This means you have to be able to plan ahead, which is what you didn't do. You are young and these are all things that you learn over your life by making mistakes.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 11:13 PM
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Something that works for me is just laugh at her shit tests. This works well for me. Even though my LTR will appear to be mad at first, it always ends up well for me (sexy times.)
/r/askTRP20/10/14 11:06 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/17xmry/acronym_and_glossary_thread/ This is on the sidebar
/r/askTRP20/10/14 11:01 PM
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First, yes you should not have brought someone along with much higher SMV than you...Second, he sounds like a shitty friend if that just happened. But I think key here for you, is you care way to much. You are trying way too hard. After all the planning that goes into setting up dates most people go in with high expectations and something like this happens and they don't know what to do. You should have got there and been able to not let things get to you. If you would have not cared (or at leas…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 02:38 PM
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Avoid her. She is poison to your life, you are the prize and deserve better, but you will have to go find it.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 02:32 PM
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It is important for there to be a strong father figure to encourage the kids to challenge their comfort zones and play more on the dangerous side. If you look at the interactions parents have with their kids just the way fathers play with their kids is greatly different from mothers. This type of play that fathers have with their kids is much more "adventurous" and expands what the child knows. The mother is there more to nurture and part of that is preventing you from getting hurt in the first …
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 02:30 PM
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This is the hamster. Women will run the hamster until it dies on the stupid little wheel in its cage. It is that simple. They aren't using logic only the shortcuts they can to get the results THEY WANT RIGHT THEN AND THERE.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 02:24 PM
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Once the red pill is swallowed, you will look back at your beta self, and beta mindset and all the other people still asleep dreaming of disney fantasies and laugh. Everyone else looks like children from this side of the glass, all so ignorant. Don't be angry at the world, for you are one of the few who is able to see it for what it actually is.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 02:15 PM
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In my opinion it is best to tell them as they will find out anyways, some are ok with it, some aren't. But better than to have them FREAK THE FUCK OUT when they think you are going behind their back with other girls.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 02:10 PM
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I'd find a mentor if you can. Somebody already in a teaching position over you. Often they are good for dealing with what ever it is in your life that you are having a problem with.
/r/TRPOffTopic20/10/14 02:03 PM
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So # 1 here is definitely that you are going to have to stand up for yourself. You are going to start to have to take charge in a situation like having that girl just rip into you. DO NOT ESCALATE. Just tell her very firmly that she is being a child and that you don't have time for behavior like that and walk out. You should not care at all about how you just walking the fuck out on her ass will make her feel. That is irrelevant, just do this anytime her or anyone else is either wasting your tim…
/r/askTRP20/10/14 11:24 AM
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I noticed your food cooking schedule revolved around football... what do you do when there is no football?
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 11:08 AM
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Money. Power. Women will love those 2 things more than they ever will love you. That is the cold hard truth. Your height is COMPLETELY IRRELEVANT if you have those 2 things... ...Obviously these are not things that come easy, but they trump all else when it comes to attracting women.
/r/askTRP18/10/14 11:58 PM
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You need to start finding joy in the little things. You should enjoy your ENTIRE LIFE, not just what is supposed to be fun. (Cooking, cleaning, even the stuff that might seem scary our painful, find a way to get something out of every single action.) Do what you love. Become disciplined and do what ever it is you enjoy doing every single day. Drawing? Draw something, every single day. It doesn't matter what it is. If you enjoy doing it, start doing it, no excuses.
/r/becomeaman15/10/14 01:34 PM
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You should learn to embrace who you are. The point where he says everyone is an addict but no one admits it is too true. YOU MUST TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR ACTIONS. This is a huge part of being a man. Don't hate who you are, embrace it.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 01:24 PM
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Motivation is a lie. What you need is discipline and to get into the habit of getting to the gym. For anyone who starts lifting you just have to keep going everyday (or how ever often your workout demands) whether you feel like it or not. Then after about a month, it will just be part of your routine. A couple things that help... Workout partners, heavy lifting music, pre workout, setting goals for yourself, doing exercises YOU want to do, and actually seeing results all make it a lot easier to …
/r/askTRP15/10/14 11:10 AM
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Tell her you don't put up with that kind of behavior? In all honesty it depends on the frame you have already established with her. (That will require you to do a little thinking on your own.)
/r/askTRP15/10/14 01:11 AM
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In my experience, gym game is really bad unless you are in an exercise class together or something like that. I find day game at college to be a little harder than people might think...but at the end of the day, there is never a "right time" you just gotta go for it. I can tell you all the girls will at least respect you walking up to a table to ask for one of their numbers. Even if she rejects you in front of her friends, the fact you had the confidence to ask is more than most men have.
/r/askTRP15/10/14 01:10 AM
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This is probably a shit test. She is trying to gauge your frame, just as long as you don't break frame, you can try a couple different things towards this shit test.
/r/askTRP15/10/14 12:51 AM
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I agree with your point, however I feel it depends on who the audience is, because a lot of full blow beta males coming across the red pill will need somewhere to start, so instead of throwing everything on them at once, telling them to start with self improvement is good...I know we already have A TON of readings on game and the side bar covers almost all things TRP, assuming people have read those, they should already know about game and have an end goal in mind, but completely changing yourse…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 12:21 AM
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Personally, I am in college so I have picked up an extra job and when I am home I work hard manually labor to earn money. After graduating I plan on getting a job but starting a business on the side as it is really hard to make any real money working for someone else, and it will probably not be doing what you love. So that is what it comes down to, find what you love doing, something you would be doing anyway and try to start a business making money from it on the side. DO NOT QUIT YOUR JOB UNT…
/r/askTRP14/10/14 11:43 PM
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Smile, thank them for the comment, and the continue on about your business. If you know she is fishing for compliments, don't give her what she wants. It will be a breach of frame.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 08:44 PM
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I think that you should try it. If there is something going on chemically in your brain that medication could fix than there is no harm in giving it a go. READ ALL YOU CAN ABOUT THE DRUG AND SERIOUSLY TALK WITH YOUR DOCTOR ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL ON IT. These drugs can get addictive and do what you suggest by taking away from your goals and self improvement. Drugs are tools not toys when it comes to self improving yourself, and if used responsibly, they can help build you into a better, more focused …
/r/askTRP14/10/14 05:52 PM
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The first thing about a friend in my opinion is you have to be able to do something together. Work out buddies for instance! Just make sure you both really enjoy what you are doing together before you can be loyal friends. Next, make sure they are good people. They have your best interest in mind and will stick up for you DEFINITELY OVER WOMEN. That part is key, and why having beta/bluepill friends is difficult. Then only time can build a true allegiance.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 04:51 PM
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You have to make a decision in your mind and tell yourself you are over her. You will still think about her from time to time, and when you realize you are SHUT THE DOOR. Just kick the thought out of your head and think of something else. What I recommend is if you are thinking of her just get up and go do something else, whatever it is for maybe 5 minutes and then come back. The only real way to move on is to get another woman in your life IMO, so if I were you I would start working on talking …
/r/askTRP14/10/14 03:27 PM
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This is actually really hard for most people, as we identify a lot with say being a runner or being an athlete or someone who lifts. Taking even one week off can cause people to feel depressed and that is normal. I think it is OK to an extent, but like you said you can't let it affect other parts of your day to day, and you have to make sure you are focused on your recovery so that it is quick and you don't get re-injured.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 02:57 PM
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I think what most people don't realize is just how lonely it is at the top. Not only that, but the climb means you leave people behind. No matter what it is, no matter your goals, it is a long and lonely climb. You don't owe anyone anything, don't be friends with someone because you are both "friendly" and around each other regularly (whether for work, school ect.) I personally only have a few really close friends who I can trust and are loyal to me and I could care less about anyone else, but w…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 02:51 PM
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Just a couple things I'd add... When you brush your teeth FLOSS. Flossing is beyond underrated add it to your teeth brushing routine immediately. Next, for shaving please, please, please don't buy those disposable razors or something with 1000000 blades. Buy yourself a safety razor and 100~ razor blades, it is so much cheaper, you get a better shave, and you feel like twice the man. For deoderant, I recommend everyone goes out and buy their own cologne. Use it every day, and no you don't want ev…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 02:46 PM
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It seems to me you held frame telling her to take down the post, and now you should ignore her and work on other women, she is a bitch and would only be good for a pump and dump nothing more
/r/askTRP14/10/14 02:34 PM
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I got to the word "college" and stopped reading.... The answer is yes. Trust me, you need to end it now, there is almost no way it can work. One of you will find someone else, it is bound to happen. Save both of yourselves time and just end it. Edit: College is a time where you will meet more people than anytime in your life, and it is really a shame to hold yourself back from future relationships because of your highschool girlfriend. Unless you guys are really super well off, it just isn't wor…
/r/askTRP14/10/14 05:10 AM
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You have realized men and women are different, now instead of being mad about this, try and use it to your advantage. You can strengthen both your bonds with men and women by playing different cards with each. Learn the system and learn how to game it to your advantage. There is no point in being mad about this as there is no point in being mad about the parents you were born to, it is just the way the world is.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 05:08 AM
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There is a problem here. You aren't being smooth if you are trying to be smooth. Simple as that. Women can sniff it out from a mile away, what you really need to do is be confident and hold frame. That will gain you WAY more points than any amount of smooth.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 05:04 AM
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IT CAN BE THE SINGLE GREATEST PURSUIT IN A MAN'S LIFE. I am not just saying this, lifting will teach you discipline, how to challenge yourself, goal setting, make you feel better about yourself physically and emotionally, make you physically and mentally better at everything you do, give you confidence, make you better at sex, make you more attractive not just to women, but to men as well. IT IS CRUCIAL.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 05:02 AM
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You kind of address the problem in what you wrote. You were raised in a society that pushed all this lovely dovey disney movie propaganda on you, and it isn't real. You need to find self worth in yourself first, before you can get women. I know that not being able to get women makes you feel bad about yourself, but don't worry, after focusing on more important aspects of your life (health/profession/education) women will come.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 04:59 AM
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One of the cardinal rules of TRP...NO WOMEN WITH KIDS. You will never be anything other than the beta provider. EVER.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 04:56 AM
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If you spend all those years learning to love yourself and be happy with who you are and developing life long loyal friendships with men you will not be lonely.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 04:55 AM
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Just start getting in the habit of spending your days doing what it is you want. Literally make yourself too busy grinding to even worry about women, and when you have no time of day for women and they see this, they will come. They will be attracted to your mission.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 04:51 AM
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I don't think it is anything to worry about...
/r/askTRP14/10/14 04:49 AM
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You have to hold frame. No matter what others might think because you will be called out and you will be tested. Practice working on handling this not just in 1 on 1 relationship settings, but also in larger groups and in public because women will confront you usually under the assumption you will revert to beta and not stand up for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 01:26 AM
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You have to realize that although you think she is special, she is not. There are 3.5+ BILLION other women on the planet, you aren't stuck feeling this way, it will just take time and the decision that you will get over to get over her. Stop masturbating to her pictures and go talk to other girls.
/r/becomeaman14/10/14 01:24 AM
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The red pill is fully voluntary. You only find it when you need it, and you only accept it if you want. You swallow what you wanna swallow. Some of TRP you will disregard while others you will shape the man you become.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 01:21 AM
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Dude...she sounds really messed up in all sorts of ways and you putting up with all this is a huge mistake and is holding you back. This is one of the biggest train wrecks of a relationships I have read about hands down. What do you do? RUN, don't walk, RUN.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 12:18 AM
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Start talking to other girls. Take one on a date, either way she will move on because you have or realize she is making a mistake and at that point you have the choice between the two.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 12:09 AM
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Tell her you miss fucking her. Or don't reply at all. Either way, you are stressing your sexual intentions or dread gaming her, both should work for you.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 11:30 PM
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I think this fits in with women being nurturers. Look at women working with the red cross and in health care in general. They are mainly the ones who take care of you whether they be nurses taking temps or feeding patients. Men tend to be the surgeons or the ones working in more specific fields of medicine.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 11:18 PM
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Here is the advice I can give you... Make a list or what ever of what it is you want the most out of life. Now, you are going to figure out what it is you must do to achieve these. Start small, and form habits. Workout everyday whether you want to or not, start reading books to better yourself and read TRP everyday whether you want to or not. You must learn discipline...it is HUGE in changing who you want to be. If I were you, I would spend the next week SERIOUSLY thinking of what is the most im…
/r/askTRP13/10/14 11:12 PM
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I think you are just scared of being rejected. You should start just approaching and finding out what works and what doesn't. At first, you will be rejected A LOT. That is ok, in order to succeed at anything you must fail first.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 10:47 PM
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I just posted this exact quote on a few recent comments. There are 2 different kinds of confidence, the first being your self confidence, the other being the confidence you show others. YOU CANNOT EVER LET THE CONFIDENCE YOU SHOW OTHERS SLIDE. No matter what you feel in your head, YOU MUST HOLD FRAME. You are the prize, start believing it.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 10:45 PM
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Yes, this is a common feeling among men... You have to remember that the way men and women rationalize relationships is completely different. When you are looking for someone to wake up to every morning, remember the chance of that happening after marriage are ~40% so even if you do fall in love and a girl tells you she loves you and will stay with you, it isn't really up to her or what she says, it is up to her hypergamous nature and the fact that she at any time can find a million reasons to d…
/r/askTRP13/10/14 10:43 PM
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There are 2 different kinds of confidence... The first is the confidence you have for yourself inside your head, the other is the confidence that you show the world. NO MATTER WHAT YOU HAVE TO SHOW THE WORLD YOU ARE CONFIDENT. It does not matter how you feel about yourself, you must carry yourself as if you have all the confidence in the world. For women, the less you care, the more they are interested. Let them try and figure you out instead of you throwing yourself at them, and even when you m…
/r/askTRP13/10/14 10:40 PM
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First off, GET ANY JOB YOU CAN. Poor grades as a philosophy major is really not going to help you in the job market, although having a degree does put you ahead of a lot of people. Start working and if you are financially responsible you will start saving money. The main problem I see is you don't have any real goals. You need to work on finding out what it is you want to do, and how to get there. I don't know what it is you really want, but you need to find it out, not just with a job but in li…
/r/askTRP13/10/14 10:37 PM
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2 things... While you are in high school DISREGARD WOMEN. Seriously, this worked for my friends who did it, and the ones who didn't (me) it ended up poorly for and looking back I wish I would have focused on other things. Motivation is a lie. What you need is discipline. Seriously, it isn't about FEELING like you want to do things, being a man is about doing them anyway independent of your mood. What I would do if I were you is think about the things you want, and think about how you go about ge…
/r/askTRP13/10/14 10:29 PM
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There are 2 kinds of confidence, the self confidence you have towards yourself, and the confidence you show to others. No matter what you can't let the confidence you show to others slip. YOU MUST MAINTAIN THIS NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS. As for building real self confidence and not feeling that you are faking it, I like to think of building momentum. In order to do this you have to change your mind set and only think of the positives. Failures are what lead to success. Don't see a failure as someth…
/r/askTRP13/10/14 10:24 PM
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Depends, if they in any way had an emotional connection this violates bro code... If it was just a hook up, it is perfectly fine.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 10:13 PM
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http://freakonomics.com/2014/01/30/reasons-to-not-be-ugly-a-new-freakonomics-radio-podcast/ This podcast talks about all the costs of being ugly today. Very relevant.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 11:19 PM
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Having a PhD puts you in a high social status, so anything you do that gives that away helps. Girls KNOW the difference between real style and not. If you are making the money investing in expensive nice clothing can go a long way. When women recognize the money you had to put into a good look it signals your status right away. If you are in any way a car person, getting a nice car does this too.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 05:10 PM
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I think this whole segment is eye opening. No one bothered to look at the effect fathers have on raising children because people were so worried about the mothers.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 01:48 AM
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What is it you do with your GF? I find that if you aren't constantly physically taking your relationship places, seeing new things, doing new stuff, that your relationship starts to dull for both of you. Sadly, it is sort of hard to do this, it takes REAL effort. Make sure the other things in your life aren't interfering with your goals for your relationship.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 10:14 PM
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READ READ READ. Seriously, you can only help yourself. The beautiful thing about the red pill is it is what you make it. Everyone has their own thoughts/feelings/experiences, we can only do a little by sharing ours with everyone else but the burden of growth is on you. You have to take what it is you read and turn it into something useful. This takes a lot of time, so my advice is keep reading all the info you can. You will be able to answer all your own questions in time.
/r/askTRP16/07/14 10:56 PM
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Not only do these things take time, but since we are social creatures your brain will always put you where it feels you are comfortable. If you have been beta for so long, your mind will want you to stay beta. Moving up the ladder causes social anxiety, you have to do things you aren't used to doing, get out of the comfort zone. THIS IS NOT EASY. If it were we'd all be alpha. You have to keep working at it. A good way to do it is to find new social circles and try and be the person you want to b…
/r/askTRP13/07/14 04:58 PM
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That and "read the sidebar"
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 04:31 PM
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I meant of the ones who weren't. So even higher than our EXTREMELY HIGH obesity rates.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 05:57 AM
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First. Lose your friends. Sorry, but it is time to make new ones, friends for the better you. Next WORK OUT LIKE AN ANIMAL. Seriously, it helps almost every aspect of your life. Next, find Male role models and preferably a male space. ASK A LOT OF QUESTIONS. I also think it is very important you take a lot of time to think about your life. Some short, medium, and long term goals you can work on. EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. You need to know more than you did the day before and want to be a better person …
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 04:05 AM
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Two reasons I think of right away. First, people like to think that they are special. But when more and more men start simply giving up on the dating game in general it starts to say something...women aren't as desirable as they once thought. Men are choosing NO WOMEN over chancing it with dating. That says A LOT. Second, you are seeing a group of people who probably would be betabux for the most part, but there would be a few alphas too. We know women like both for different things, but that is…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 03:55 AM
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This is spot on. After swallowing the pill I remember the first DT person I met and recognized as such. Now he is someone I could have easily not gotten along with but I realized the situation. If he already feels as if he is king in his head, I would play jester to him to get what he could offer. As long as he believes you view him as royalty, he will gladly let you into his kingdom.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 10:49 PM
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Read the post this post is referring to....
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 10:43 PM
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Are you looking for her as a LTR or as a plate? A problem with TRP is you are going to be getting advice from both sides, but you can't use both strategies at the same time. So you have probably been mixing up strategies and that could be a problem. At any rate, we need more info.
/r/askTRP12/07/14 10:36 PM
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It is different reasons for different people. It helps with increasing your testosterone, makes you look better, feel better, be better both with physical and mental tasks, helps you with goal setting, helps sexual performance, gives you confidence, makes you push yourself and learn to get out of your comfort zone, it will help you live a longer healthier life. It is hard to start to better yourself and most people will feel powerless if they don't know where to start. So the key is just to star…
/r/askTRP12/07/14 10:32 PM
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I'd either... Laugh it off. or... Tell her you find it disrespectful to you and the relationship if she can't trust you. Tell her you won't hear anymore about it unless she has evidence or some solid ground for being suspicious.
/r/askTRP12/07/14 10:28 PM
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2 things. Men work MORE. They choose longer hours and are more likely to work overtime. Men work jobs that are considered undesirable, thus pay more. This is called a compensating differential. There are surely other factors, but these 2 alone bring those amounts to be about even, and most intro to econ course will dispel this myth using these two points.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 10:10 PM
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I am in the same boat. As soon as I left for college, I realized what I somehow could never see. My "friends" weren't actually friends...we were just stuck growing up together. We didn't have a choice. I always had ambition and drive, I always wanted to be at the next level, better than I was the day before, but I was surrounded by the opposite. No one wanted to try at anything, no one wanted to better themselves, no one wanted to think new thoughts. It was really depressing. After coming home f…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 03:53 PM
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I was thinking a lot today actually about TRP as a "movement." I couldn't come to see it that way. I don't see it as a counter-culture much either. Feminism is what is known as a "social lense", a way in which to view the world. That is almost it... But in the end it is different than all those things. It is more a mindset. It is a community. It is a forum. A form of entertainment. It can be a lot of things. As with life, it is what you make it...most people recognize there are a ton of differen…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 02:34 AM
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There just seems to be a next level with men when it comes to competition. You can see it. I have seen so many men want it so bad...every part of them is put into conquering a goal, or being the best. Women? They seem to be indifferent...Losing, winning? Meh.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 01:01 AM
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Most sociopaths don't realize they are until they are well on in years, and it is hard to discover you are a sociopath, but in one of my honors courses in university we did some readings on people who found out well into their adult years they were sociopaths and how it effected them/what it was like. I think it is perfectly normal for these people to talk about their "condition" (for lack of a better word) both to help other socio people understand and deal with it and for those around them to …
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 11:11 PM
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