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I like the way you think.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/17 09:27 PM
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Thank you! I hope they do as well.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/17 09:26 PM
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Yes... Interesting you touch upon this because she has been in many manipulative/abusive relationships before. The last time we spoke about my relationship she tried to convince me that my fiancé was emotionally abusing me! Projection much?
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/17 09:25 PM
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Yes, you are right. I have already emotionally severed the connection. My main concern was how this would affect my relationship with my other siblings.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/17 09:23 PM
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Yes, the first question’s answer is quite apparent. It is the other familial ties that complicate the issue for me. Thanks for the link, I will definitely give it a thorough read.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/17 03:15 AM
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I completely understand your perspective. My answer to you is that in general, I respect one sibling as a person, and two I do not. The one I do respect has the most positive opinion of my fiancé. The other two have the most negative. I also respect my parents as people in general (more than anyone else I know), and to them my fiancé is the son they never had. I mean this truly. So to me, I don’t perceive any issue with the relationship’s survival. Ultimately I am most invested in my parents opi…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/17 03:12 AM
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I’m glad you said this because this was actually going to be my game plan. You are exactly right. They will feel like they influenced the decision without knowing it had been decided prior. This way their voices can feel heard. Going to them for advice in a vulnerable space should make them feel more open about it.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/17 03:07 AM
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The worst part is I’m not exaggerating so she does appear to fit the stereotype... sheepish laugh Yeah, I feel I should at least have the decency to tell her where I stand on the issue. She can decide to do with that information as she wishes.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/17 03:03 AM
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I have talked to her on the subject before. Unfortunately, there's a lot of context to her personality/things she has done that would be way too much to explain here. In short, she has lied to, stolen from, and cheated my parents multiple times. The last time we spoke about my fiancé she was convinced that he is emotionally abusive and is trying to keep me away from my family. I tried my best to explain how that's not even remotely the case, but she was not convinced. Ever since, she has gotten …
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/17 07:42 PM
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I don't really think this is something to really worry about right now. If there's someone you like that comes along, feel free to date him. The first guy I dated in high school I actually rejected twice before I finally said yes the third time! I ended up being with him for 18 months, of course I didn't think at the beginning it would be that serious. I also knew pretty early on I wouldn't be with him forever. We just had fun together and got along. No need to take things too seriously right no…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/17 11:34 PM
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For my book reports in a high school class we were allowed to choose what we read from a long list. This was one of the titles I decided to read, and I remember how captivated I was from beginning to end. It has definitely left an impression on me although I have long since forgotten much of the content. Definitely need to put that on my re-read list.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 08:52 PM
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Here goes! Frustration: When I am working on a task and I get frustrated, I have a tendency to just drop everything and walk away the moment that happens. I very recently started working on this and have already seen improvement, but I'm nowhere near where I need to be on it. Keeping up with Hobbies: I have quite a few hobbies. Crochet, drawing, playing ukulele, learning french. I typically get very excited about them all at once, start practicing them all for about a week. Then I get overwhelme…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 09:32 PM
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Well, I'm a bit biased because making all-natural body care products is my business! Anyway, I make my own skin care regimen that works really well for myself (a combination skin type) but I actually designed it for a friend who was an oily/sensitive skin type. It consists of a raw honey face mask, alcohol-free toner with flower hydrosols, and a whipped body butter type mixture for my face. I've noticed it really keeps my skin from producing excess oil like it used to.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 11:12 PM
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Not really. He's 25 and the sister closest in age to him is 31 going on 32. Although I definitely feel competition in the area of career, just for one of them though. She tells me she is happy for me and supportive of my progress, but her actions tell the opposite.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 10:14 AM
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Thank you! I at least take comfort in the fact that I do have a great support system outside of them :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 09:22 PM
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You see the things you tell yourself you are going to see. If you trick yourself into believing you are hideous and hate qualities x, y, and z, all you are going to see in the mirror are the qualities you hate and that you are hideous. In reality, you probably really aren't as unattractive as you lead on. Same thing with saying everyone on your campus looks stunning. Due to your perception that everyone on your campus is stunning, you ONLY see people that are in your eyes stunning. Thus you simp…
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 09:17 PM
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Message received, loud and clear.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 03:41 PM
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Yes, exactly. It was around that time I found this sub. I finally realized why I found him repulsive despite being a "nice guy". I took the time to really analyze myself and what I was looking for and here I am today!
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 03:40 PM
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Believe it or not, the married one is the one with cats and has been making some of the more insulting remarks! I think her angle with it is more related to the fact that we both have businesses in a similar field. I think she is jealous that he has helped me so much and I appear to be doing better than her when she's been at it much longer than me.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 11:12 AM
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Oh god, that's terrible! I'm sorry you had to go through that, but I'm glad things are better. It does feel isolating. Everyone else in our circle is deliriously happy about us getting engaged, so it is so painful to know your own siblings don't support you. I certainly hope that things will die down! I'm sure that will happen, but it will take a very long time. I will eventually forgive them, but I will never forget the things they've said. I will probably always have cause to be careful around…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/17 11:22 PM
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Why thank you! I have to say, anyone who gets to know me at some point will mention they are shocked by how mature I am. :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/17 11:18 PM
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Yeah, I dated one once. I still cringe thinking about it.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/17 08:37 PM
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There's a few different things you can do. I used to live in a very small town and the dating pool was nonexistent to say the least. So I turned to online dating and it was a success! I don't know what you do for work, but I waitress part time and I have my own business so I'm meeting new people every day through that. It has also made me far more social, I used to be far more introverted. I would also recommend trying Meetup. There's a lot of groups on there for singles, dancing, anything you'd…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/17 08:34 PM
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LOL one of them does have 3 cats! Spot on. I plan to do so. Any information I give is used against me, so it's best not to give them any more fodder.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/17 07:20 PM
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As difficult as that is to hear, it's true. I definitely plan not to allow discussion about it. The more information the have the more ammunition they have to use against me.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/17 07:19 PM
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Yes. Your last point actually made me think of something. He is a great captain. They actually said to my mother they liked my previous boyfriends better and they were awful captain material!
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/17 07:17 PM
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Yes, I completely agree. I will speak with him about this tonight, that way we are on the same page. It's going to be tough for me to speak up, but I know I can do it! There haven't been many instances of that though, mostly they say these things to each other or my mom, and I hear about it later on.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/17 07:15 PM
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The oldest is married to another woman, the other two are single. One of them is okay with being single, the other I can tell is pretty bitter about it although she will not admit that. I suspected that this is, at its root, jealousy for one of them. Of course that is not how she makes it appear, making it seem like she's looking out for her baby sister. Yes! That is what my fiancé said exactly. Projection. This is the one that's married who said this. I do not understand her motives at all for …
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/17 04:59 PM
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Yes, they are! I actually had meant to make a note of this but I suppose I had forgotten. The oldest is married to another woman, the other two are single. One is okay with being single, but I can tell the other is very bitter over it. I suspected there is a deep-seated jealousy there, but she would not dare admit that. She's actually a marriage counselor, ironic isn't it? She claims that she's happy in her life, but I don't think so. I think she is lonely. She dates many many men, none of which…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/17 04:52 PM
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Love that first line! Too true. At this point, I feel that is how I will approach it. That I'm not interested in discussing it, and move on. My only concern is that one of them is very aggressive and does not relent until her questions are answered. She's a piece of work and everyone in the family except myself have had a falling out with her at some point. She does have a reputation of wanting to be in control, so that makes sense.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/17 04:44 PM
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Yeah, you're right. It's just difficult for me as the "baby of the family" since I'm expected to just be submissive. Especially one of them who can be very nasty and does not relent until her questions are sufficiently answered. I'll just have to grow a thicker skin, it is something I've been working on but I'm definitely not where I need to be yet!
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/17 04:42 PM
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Hey all! I've been a lurker for quite a while now. When I joined this sub I finally understood why my parents are so great together (they've been married 36 years) and how to emulate that in my own life to find a partner. Due to the self-awareness this sub allowed me to have, I found a wonderful man I am going to spend the rest of my life with! So thank you all for that :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/17 03:14 PM
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I think it's more about the ratio between your hips and shoulders. My fiancé has a small waist/hip measurement, but his upper body is well-built so his shoulders appear even broader than they would ordinarily. You could indeed have broad shoulders but if your waist/hips are about the same size it won't go as noticed.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 02:14 AM
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I used to go for the lanky, tall, nerdy types back in high school. Now that I'm more self-aware, I've noticed I'm more gravitated to traditional masculine traits. I can appreciate attractiveness in all races but I've only dated, and prefer, Caucasians. I find broad shoulders, well-groomed facial hair and head hair, a defined jaw, fit/muscular build, good posture, and green/hazel colored eyes most attractive.Lucky for me, that fits my fiancé to a T!
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 01:54 AM
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