TheOtherAshaller Archive

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18	East Asian guys who get laid in Europe, how? I have a friend who’s East Asian and very successful with women in France. 1. He’s dressed way better than most men (0 fashion errors, stylish, old money, suit etc) 2. His game is basically having good sense of humour and fucking around with Asian stereotypes (he often uses a baby dick routine to sexualise)	/r/seduction	08/11/24 08:54 AM
12	Not everyone can be a “high value” or top 10%. As more men improve competition does as well Exactly this, Mystery recently summarised seduction/attraction as high value BEHAVIOR. Even though you do not have the different value cursors to the max, you behaving as a successful person will actually create attraction and make you successful in seduction. You are not supposed to BE in the top 10% in every cursor to actually attract women. We all have that not so successful, wealthy or not so good looking guy but successful with women. It’s a skill and communication tailoring.	/r/seduction	17/06/24 11:54 AM
8	Groundbreaking Discovery To Do Your First Cold Approach Groundbreaking discoveries are always weird at first.	/r/seduction	30/12/21 07:45 AM
1	Do you guys still get "butterflies" when with women? Took a girl on a date, got street food, surely got the butterflies that time. I bet she did too.	/r/seduction	27/06/20 04:35 PM
–	Insecure dancing Don't do drugs kids.	/r/seduction	05/03/20 10:48 AM
2	I feel as though my friend is coming on to me, how to proceed from here? You can casually ask her if everything's fine with the unofficial BF, if she's unhappy with him, and interested in you she'll probably tell you it's not serious or it's gonna end soon. Then if you are interested, you can show your interest to her and clarify that you are uncomfortable with her being with the unofficial BF to proceed further, it's against your values, she needs to figure out the situation aka break up with the unofficial BF. Some people aren't comfortable being single and prefer …	/r/seduction	09/02/20 10:37 AM
1	How can I learn to be funny and quick witted? Practice in friendly territory (friends, family), when you have a joke say it without question(if it's funny to you it's pbbly funny for someone else), if it's not funny, the audience isn't receptive or with bad timing it's okay, laugh at your fail, don't make it serious (ppl with laugh with you), with practice it'll become more spontaneous and hopefully you'll become a sniper, making ppl piss themselves. Don't think too much, jokes are more about timing and the energy you put into it (delivery)…	/r/seduction	25/12/19 06:36 PM
–	In a split second, clothes makes a person more competent in the eyes of others, suggests new study. Faces were judged as significantly more competent when the clothing was perceived as “richer.” This judgment was made almost instantaneously. When explicitly asked to ignore, the bias still remained. In the context of the first impression, fake or not, you will put the guy in the expensive box, and give him credit..	/r/seduction	11/12/19 03:29 PM
1	In a split second, clothes makes a person more competent in the eyes of others, suggests new study. Faces were judged as significantly more competent when the clothing was perceived as “richer.” This judgment was made almost instantaneously. When explicitly asked to ignore, the bias still remained. Not sure about that, needs to be field tested ! ;)	/r/seduction	11/12/19 03:26 PM
–	In a split second, clothes makes a person more competent in the eyes of others, suggests new study. Faces were judged as significantly more competent when the clothing was perceived as “richer.” This judgment was made almost instantaneously. When explicitly asked to ignore, the bias still remained. As Ridica said, I'm talking about the study and the first impression. I'm not saying you're supposed to have expensive clothes to be good at game. I agree, looks(or any material things) cannot compensate for a shitty person	/r/seduction	11/12/19 03:24 PM
–	In a split second, clothes makes a person more competent in the eyes of others, suggests new study. Faces were judged as significantly more competent when the clothing was perceived as “richer.” This judgment was made almost instantaneously. When explicitly asked to ignore, the bias still remained. I don't fully agree, because wealth is often a result of success. So if you have expensive clothes, car, whatever, that indirectly means that you had success doing what you do, so you are competent or even the best at it. Usually what brings you money is your job, so if you have expensive clothes you'll appear more competent than a guy looking good with normal clothes. I think Edit: my point is specific about the study, and the first impression of someone, I'm not saying you need expensive cloth…	/r/seduction	11/12/19 10:40 AM
–	Secrets of seduction : written by an actual woman. Great post. As a woman, why do you follow this sub ? It's primarily male oriented content and I'm really interested to know your point of view	/r/seduction	09/12/19 05:01 PM
–	Saw the texts my friend gets opened my eyes Rule #5: don't not be not unattractive	/r/seduction	29/10/19 08:47 AM
1	Worthwhile to approach without IOIs? That's the all point of seduction to me, a girl may not be interested in you at first not giving any IOI's, but you open, try to have a funny conversation, demonstrate value, THEN if you still don't see any IOIs, you can still try a close but knowing there's few chances you'll pull it out. No girl will give you IOIs without you demonstrating value, unless your value in look/attitude is way beyond average.	/r/seduction	12/01/19 05:02 PM
1	I will be approaching 100 hot girls to find the answer to an age old question about attraction and report the results to you guys. If opposits attracts, i shall score such a dime !	/r/seduction	06/11/18 05:54 PM