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It's because you see he handled it maturely, still treated her with respect, but moved on.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 04:44 AM
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Most women do this to a certain degree. I have, however, run into several in school / work situations that use this as their go-to, default way of getting things done. In college I ended up having a class with a woman who was an acquaintance of a friend of mine. She used this connection to start asking me to "share" notes for classes she'd miss. When it quickly became a one-sided deal I politely lessened my help. I was soon hearing through our mutual friend that she was telling people I was weir…
/r/askTRP17/01/17 11:53 PM
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They just slowly reach the end of their undergrad years with 50lbs extra, a drinking problem, and a group of equally superficial women they call 'friends' And then look for someone about to get a well-paying degree to marry. They went to college for their M.R.S. Degree.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 12:56 AM
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Right now I'm listening to the audiobook of The Charisma Myth. The premise is that charisma is something you can learn and the author goes through some concrete steps to achieve. There is one section on practicing maintaining eye contact. It might be a good starting off point for someone like yourself who is very logical and procedural. It has helped me formalize and fine tune some of the things I've been teaching myself the last few years through trial and error.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 04:29 AM
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Thanks for the stories. Similar experience for me. I went from 300+ to 160 last year. I had times when I was younger that I'd been around 200 so this was new for me. For the first time I have women openly flirting with me and honestly it took me awhile to get used to it. I was always shy, apologetic and deflected any praise. Whereas last year's goal was to improve my health, this year I have been focused on improving my self attitude. Accepting praise graciously, stating my own value and worth w…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 10:39 PM
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Yeah, I was amplifying what you were saying, not correcting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 02:07 PM
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Yep, the term "dread" is over dramatizes the core concept, but does so effectively. I think it's an excellent term, just needs to be understood in terms of RP. To spell it all out the concept is "The realization that you have a good thing and if you don't work to keep it you might lose it."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 03:04 AM
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Her hamster is spinning so fast it could power the Eastern Seaboard.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 12:48 PM
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Befriend everyone in the office to solidify your position Make sure to befriend those who were his "group of close followers." They've already demonstrated they're followers so bring them into your orbit before someone else does.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 12:10 AM
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Mostly, I feel like a pussy for having not done it sooner. But now she knows I have the arsenal ready. The question is: did you have the arsenal ready earlier? If not, having done it before you had prepared yourself would have likely backfired. I had a similar confrontation with my wife a year ago, wasn't fully prepared, and only made partial progress.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 11:56 PM
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A motivation technique I read about that works for me: when self motivating speak out loud to yourself in third person by name and tell yourself what you're going to do. I do it when driving home from work to tell myself what I need to do and what to avoid.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 08:57 PM
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I remember reading about that study about telling someone your goal makes it less likely to be achieved. If I remember correctly the theory is the act of telling someone rewards the brain the same as doing it.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 08:51 PM
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There are some who have that epiphany and truly become mindful but they are the exceptions that proves the rule.
/r/askTRP25/11/16 04:18 AM
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Sounds like we had similar experiences. I was always apologizing for everything when I was younger. If I got a compliment I'd always try to explain why it wasn't THAT great. I recently took off a ton of weight (over 100 lbs in a year) and made a conscious effort not to downplay any compliments I got. An honest thank you and maybe a comment on how much effort went into it.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/16 12:08 AM
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I've only just began to realize how self-deprecating I've been most of my life. It's been my go to mode for humor or when I don't know how to handle a compliment. Since I've begun to actively avoid the habit I've noticed a huge difference in the way people treat me at work in particular.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/16 09:25 PM
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That's an excellent plan. Spend the coming months preparing to hit the ground running once you move into the dorms. It will be a whole new world.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 03:11 AM
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Great story. Your linked article was an excellent summary of a lot of basics. You touched on 16/8 Intermittent Fasting. That was my key to kickstarting a 100+ lb weight loss. I'm getting ready to make the transition to real strength training; I was using a simple machine routine during my weight loss. Definitely going to check out some of your links. Thanks for the great story and info!
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 05:36 AM
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The conversation this question produces can help you determine something essential: Is she actively pursuing her life goals, or does she merely hope her dreams "happen" to her? If it's the latter it's a sign that her goal in any LTR is to find someone to make this happen.
/r/askTRP21/11/16 03:41 AM
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Do I need to step it up and go for actual good looking girls? That right there. Compare it to having played a game on casual or normal mode. Now you're ready for the real challenge.
/r/askTRP19/11/16 09:03 PM
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The key to success is getting as many rolls of the dice as possible while minimizing the consequences of missed rolls.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 04:27 AM
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I used t be the same way. Full 12 inch sub and my brain was telling me I need more. Now 115lbs down and halfway through a 6 inch sub and I'm almost full. What gave me the push was doing a 16/8 intermittent fasting regimen. That helped me get used to be hungry and realizing it is not a bad thing.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 01:01 PM
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That's why it's referred to as "The exception that proves the rule."
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 12:39 PM
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This is good advice. You mentioned you're a virgin. Don't completely fall for you first. Doesn't mean you can't appreciate that first time / first gal. But move on and keep experiencing.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 04:13 AM
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There's a distinction here between "playing matchmaker" and just being introduced or recommended.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 03:29 AM
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Or put another way, it should be applied in situations where the cost of failure is low.
/r/seduction09/10/16 10:56 PM
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I have had the same knee-jerk reaction. What I came to learn, and remind myself all the time, is it is ILLOGICAL to try and force something as naturally emotional as sex and relationships into a totally logical frame. There should be logical boundaries to remain safe and respectful; but within those boundaries it's an emotional experience and this is what women want.
/r/seduction04/10/16 11:29 PM
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And you know what? If this date doesn't go well? Fuck it. Find someone else, rinse and repeat.
/r/seduction30/09/16 01:51 AM
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In this example, don't pretend to like Drake if you don't. For example, I don't like country music. If someone tells me they're into country I will honestly say "I never did like country music. I had a roommate in college who always got drunk and sang along to Garth Brooks and it was super annoying so that probably didn't help. Who should I listen to to get to know the good stuff?" That way, you don't have to pretend to know anything about it, but you can still get her talking about it enthusias…
/r/seduction29/09/16 03:01 AM
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I choose to interpret that as "Be the best version of yourself." Take the parts you like about yourself, amplify them, and throw out the stuff you hate.
/r/seduction29/09/16 02:55 AM
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Make a goal to have short casual conversation with women at work with no goal other than to talk and get comfortable. If she's making lunch in the breakroom, make a positive comment about what she's eating. If you're getting junk food from the vending machine, make a joke about how you're eating healthy. If you're at the store and the cashier is a woman, make a remark about the weather, how busy the store is, etc. Do it with guys too if you generally withdrawn anyway just to get used to the back…
/r/seduction29/09/16 02:53 AM
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The kicker is, this is the way all of life is. The successfully invariably fail tons of time before "Making It Big." The same applies here.
/r/seduction28/09/16 04:51 AM
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For not speaking English you're doing a pretty darn good job. Great job putting yourself out there. Keep it up!
/r/seduction28/09/16 04:49 AM
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Some years ago there were studies that got publicized that claimed old age begins at 27. They mostly discussed mental decline but I wouldn't be surprised if that's the magic average age our bodies start declining. Long before that came out, some friends and I had noticed it was right around 27 that many of the women who bragged about being able to eat anything and stay thin suddenly gained 50 lbs in a year. Hell, I was in my late 20s when my weight really got out of control. I went through a wui…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 11:36 PM
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That's actually a good comparison. "Mindfulness" could be described as a situational awareness of your own mental state.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 01:46 AM
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You are 26 years old. I'm 43 and I will tell you this: you are at a good point in your life to turn it around. Don't look back at this as wasted time, but as a lesson learned hard. This will not have been for naught. It will be one of those moments in your life that will help you become the stronger man you will be.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 04:19 AM
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If she's a complete slob and her floor is littered with shit for her it was not noticeable.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 04:14 AM
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The jacked older guys are, in my experience, the most helpful and friendly.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 04:26 AM
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True. My gym is mediocre. But it's exactly halfway between home and work. I like working out over lunch but if I miss it I can hit it after work or before. Gives me fewer excuses for skipping.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 04:22 AM
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Meeting for coffee or tea is a lighter upsell. For many women going for drinks may feel too much like a date.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 02:01 PM
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