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Insane. I have an actively managed, debilitating anxiety disorder. I got therapy, got meds, and powered through. This whole "he's too shy! Take pity" is such BS. If you can't navigate the basics of dating because of mental illness, you shouldn't be dating. I say this as a person with mental illness. Your GF isn't your mom, your maid, or your therapist. It's AMAZING that they don't get this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/22 07:25 PM
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You're not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/22 09:18 PM
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Big incel energy. Hope the poor girl runs and runs soon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/22 08:26 PM
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Don't engage with him, he's a troll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/22 07:07 PM
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No one respond to this person, they are a troll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/22 07:07 PM
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Incel troll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/22 07:06 PM
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Incel troll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/22 07:06 PM
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Incel troll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/22 07:05 PM
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Yes. But ultimately that has nothing to do with the risk posed to women when it comes to male birth control and trusting men to reliably use it. Not only do they risk disability or death by giving birth, but it can trap them in sometimes lethally abusive relationships, which the legal system is unable to effectively rescue or protect women from. The legal system is also still terrible at holding men accountable for their child support obligations, leaving many women destitute as they raise the c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/22 07:01 PM
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I gift that's for them was never for you and therefore isn't a gift. I fucking hate shit like that and the older I get the louder I am about calling it out. Cue my exes' shocked Pikachu faces
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 07:24 PM
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Girl....that is some queen level OSINT badassery
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 03:27 AM
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I managed to kick my kink fixation as well. One observation I had to add to yours was it was amazing how many men in BDSM claim consent is everything but seem to believe that for THEM consent is some confusing boundary that they can't nail down and have no interest in reeeeeeally honoring
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 10:36 AM
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Agreed. I earn just over 6 figures and I refuse to date a man who earns less than me any more. Why? Because I'm tried of being the sugar momma and taking on projects who expect me to pay for their lifestyle. I've been the primary earner for the last decade and I'm done with it. I am not looking to downgrade the quality of my life voluntarily. And nearly 6 figures is required to be even remotely comfortable in my area They're more than happy to dig the gold of the woman who out-earns them, but th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 03:02 AM
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Ngl...I would have blocked the second he made me do the labor of finding a place. It's 2022....he knows how to do a google search. And if he can't be fucked, then neither can i
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 01:10 PM
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Agreed. Flipping the script was critical for me as well. A bad guy who is a bad fit can absolutely put on a good guy mask and make you feel good about yourself. That doesn't mean he's a HVM. It means he can flatter you away from noticing the flaws he has that ultimately make a relationship a no-go. Yes, a partner should build you up. But....what else does he bring to the table? Does he meet YOUR standards? Does he embody values that you believe are critical? Did he impress you? Did you feel like…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 12:43 PM
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IUD gang rise up! For real tho. I could die from pregnancy and his biggest consequence is facing a social structure that will never meaningfully hold him accountable for his choice to have sex. If I get pregnant and die from a scrote who was deceptive about his birth control, I demand he be buried with me like a fucking Pharoah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 04:47 PM
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Until stealthing stops being a part of male culture, I won't trust any man to reliably take a pill form of birth control. Them: "I swear I'm on birth control! I took it this morning, I promise!" Me: (zips up vagina and flies away on broomstick so I don't have to hear these lies)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 09:43 AM
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Hack? You mean just saying yes to every dude you encounter on there? I regularly tell dudes no on Tinder. And for good reason! A lot of them are trash. Having 15 dates with (probably) terrible men isn't something to be proud of
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 09:11 PM
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I looked at your post history and....girl....you need a therapist. Not a boyfriend. You're having meltdowns over every phase of your relationship and he clearly doesn't make you happy. Why are you doing this to yourself? I say this as a person who has been in therapy for a decade and has had to work hard to overcome some severe anxiety issues. You are not emotionally healthy enough to be in a relationship. Period. Please leave, find a therapist you click with, and stay single for a while
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 09:03 PM
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Grown ass adults who "boundary test" never gave a shit about your consent, no matter what they may have said. They're just trying to wear you down until you stop defending yourself. That way when they do something truly violating they'll claim "you consented." But you didn't. Coercion isn't consent. Boundary pushing is just a subtle way of violating your consent. Anyone who does this not only has no respect for you but they are not a safe partner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 07:37 PM
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Every time a man has claimed to me that the house was already clean, it most definitely was not by any objective measure. Makes me wonder if she's banging around because she spent 20 yrs coming home to a dirty house
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 08:08 PM
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I would have loved to ask that judge, "which love language is assaulting your partner and nearly strangling them to death?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 02:05 AM
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My ex fake proposed more times than I can even count. It's 100% a manipulation tactic. It's a way to future fake and force intimacy with a person. It also had nothing to do with me. HE wanted to feel wanted. It was his self-loathing, lack of self-control, and non-existent self-esteem that drove him to do it. My dumb ass had never encountered something like it before. Initially I said yes....then I would tell him no....then I would tell him I wouldn't even listen to anything that wasn't a proper …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 01:20 PM
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One I just introduced into my vernacular today: I'm done with this conversation. Have a good day (turn and walk away)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 03:28 AM
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I couldn't even read all of this. It was just a novel's worth of reasons as to why you should stop seeing this person who clearly doesn't make you happy. The first sign that you need to leave is you feeling the need to draft a manifesto about the person's failings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 07:59 PM
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I am so proud of you for recognizing the bad deal you were being sold. I married and divorced a man like that. It was years and years of stress that was so terrible I started experiencing chronic pain. You and your time and energy are worth more than this. I promise. It will feel like a mistake, it will feel painful, it will be hard. Then....in a few months...you'll realize you don't miss him anymore. You'll realize you've dodged a bullet. You'll thank past-you for being a bad ass, smart woman a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 03:15 AM
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These are straight facts. My 30s have been my best decade. I love my body more (despite it being softer), I'm smarter, I'm happier, I got rid of dead-weight toxic men, I'm making a good living, I have my own home, I'm debt-free, my sex-life is more satisfying, and my bar is now so high that most men don't even get a second date 30s are where it's at. Don't let any scrote tell you otherwise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 03:43 PM
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That's the kind of MIL I wish I had. When I told mine that her son had assaulted me she told me not to talk to her ever again because she loved her son. And? How is Ioving your child incompatible with telling them that they can't assault ppl? I even had messages that I showed her of him admitting to the behavior. Thank fuck she had one of the good ones. The reason shit men exist is because of shit parents. Not always, but far too frequently. I'm just glad this MIL is taking care of the victim
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 03:09 AM
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Male, nearly 40 but with the emotional intelligence of a 4 yr old. I fully believe my bomb dick and bedroom prowess is totally a replacement for a personality or integrity. Addicted to alcohol, being a victim, and gaslighting. I probably have a personailty disorder, but I'm in therapy (sometimes) and I take my meds (when I feel like it). I'll apologize for abusing you, while while claiming I never abused you, before insisting that you pointing out my abusive behavior is actually abusive to ME. Q…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 03:42 AM
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