ThePats Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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48	Why is the guy I'm seeing lately too tired or too busy playing video games to come over, yet still texts me daily?? This. We don't want to be around our gf all the time. We need space for ourselves and friends. Especially after a long day of work, video games is the perfect way to be lazy and destress. Also, our friends play video games, it's a way that guys interact with each other.	/r/seduction	05/06/17 04:49 PM
2	Is there any place on reddit where seduction/dating is discussed in regards to specific places or cultures? Exactly. Humans are social animals, we love interacting with others and making new connections. I don't know anywhere where you don't have to talk to a girl and make a connection in order to get her.	/r/seduction	01/06/17 12:47 PM
–	Hit it while the iron is still hot my friends It's all a learning experience. As long as you learned from your mistakes and you know what to do in the future, and act on fixing those mistakes, then you're good.	/r/seduction	31/05/17 10:03 PM
9	When its the right time to ask girl out on tinder? Right now. Attraction has an expiration date. If you take too long then some other guy will come and steal her from you. This expiration date is usually a week or 2. So ask her out now, and make sure you are the only guy who has her attention.	/r/seduction	31/05/17 09:58 PM
2	How often do you start seeing women you've just slept with? It's a great system to have. I could tell if she was a girl I had a future with within 3 weeks of talking to her. None of them I saw a future with. That didn't mean we didn't get along, or didn't connect, far from it. But they were all missing that special something. That's why I did it. No reason to be tied down to one person who you know you don't have a future with, when the one who you could have a future with is out there. It payed off for me big time. Whatever happens for me now - good or …	/r/seduction	31/05/17 09:53 PM
1	About how important is being into fashion? That's more of an exception rather than the rule. Most people dress similarly and the biker outfit is a very distinct look that is worn by a small minority of people. Very few people dress like that. I'd put the biker look in the category of peacocking rather than fashion. Unless of course you are a biker and that is your look. But that ties with your identity and personality. Most people wear normal clothes.	/r/seduction	31/05/17 04:44 PM
1	About how important is being into fashion? You mean a dress shirt? Yes, full button down, long sleeves. A shirt you would wear with a full suit.	/r/seduction	31/05/17 12:17 PM
1	How often do you start seeing women you've just slept with? Thank you!	/r/seduction	31/05/17 12:17 PM
–	How often do you start seeing women you've just slept with? Before I started dating my girlfriend. I was seeing multiple girls at a time as "girlfriends" but without the title. I was never a fan of random sex. I am the type who likes to get to know someone and make sure I connect with them before I get physical. Side note: I find sex with someone you care about is infinitely better than sex with a stranger. When I would first meet a girl and talk to them for a bit, before anything got physical (even kiss) I would be honest with them what I wanted. I woul…	/r/seduction	31/05/17 02:49 AM
–	About how important is being into fashion? The way you dress is a reflection of you. Dress nice? You probably have your shit together. It shows you care about the way people perceive you and dressing nice also makes people notice you. Dress casual? It's hit or miss. You blend in with the crown. Nothing stands out about you in a good or bad way. Dress sloppy? You probably don't care about anything so why should she care about you? Whenever I go out, I always dress nice. It doesn't matter if I'm with my girlfriend or just out with the boys…	/r/seduction	31/05/17 02:32 AM
2	F.O.R.D. is a method that helps to know someone better, but is there a method that helps to have fun with a person? Family, occupation, recreational activities, dreams. It's an acronym for stuff to talk to someone about that is safe and encourages an engaging meaningful conversation.	/r/seduction	31/05/17 02:24 AM
1	Where to end it? You said she was interested in you so why leave it? It just means you need to put a little more effort into talking than usual. If she is interested then why give up on what could potentially be a good thing? I say keep talking to her but switch your focus to meeting in person and talking on the phone.	/r/seduction	03/11/15 03:12 PM
3	Where to end it? Ohh she's one of the girls who is interested but has no clue how to hold a conversation. When dealing with those I typically text as little as possible and focus on calling her or talking in person. While you will hate to take charge of the conversation and constantly direct it, you can typically get more to work with when dealing with voice rather than text.	/r/seduction	03/11/15 03:03 PM
1	Need help asking for number?!? You would be surprised how far a "hey how's it going?" can take you. Just talk about her and show some interest. If she is interested then she will reciprocate and the conversation will just flow.	/r/seduction	03/11/15 02:50 PM
3	Where to end it? Could you please provide an example? When discussing conversations it's hard to determine from trying to explain it.	/r/seduction	03/11/15 02:47 PM
2	No problem approaching (and kissing) girls in a nightclub, but need advice about getting numbers & dates Go for the number. Send her a text the next day. If she is interested she will talk back and if she isn't then there's not much you can do about it. Some girls are there to hook up and have fun while others want to find a guy to date. The only way to know is to talk to them. If they are making out with you then you should have no problem getting a number. Go for it.	/r/seduction	03/11/15 02:44 PM
30	Cheer me up, first pickup attempt bombed royally The fact that you approached her is progress. Getting rejected is better than not approaching her at all. Think of rejection as a learning experience, not as a failure.	/r/seduction	11/04/15 03:57 AM
1	How to talk to everyone in college? Its a download link to a .pdf book	/r/seduction	21/01/15 04:21 AM
1	Friend zoned coz I didn't make a move I really want a change in my life,i want to improve,i want to be healthy,exercise,get a better job,want to meet new people. You have set out right there what you want to do now all you have to do is just do it. Change your diet, join a gym. I would highly recommend that you take up a martial arts. It allows you to get fit and you meet great people there while you train. And since ranking up in martial arts takes years you develop relationships with these people. (I am biased towards martial arts…	/r/seduction	18/01/15 06:27 PM
2	Have you ever used a cliche pick up line just for fun and have it actually work? Not me but my friend did. He went up to this girl and said something like "If beauty was time you would be eternal". She blushed and then he started talking to her. They ended up dating a little while later.	/r/seduction	18/01/15 06:51 AM
4	Friend zoned coz I didn't make a move There are 2 answers you will receive: what you want to hear and the truth. A lot of people will say "fuck her you can do better" or "fuck her friend zoning you" or something along those lines siding with you and saying you did the right thing. However I do not see it that way. In my opinion from your story (and I had a little difficulty following it) she told you straight up that she did not want you. Sure that hurt your feelings but she could have led you on and instead of doing that she gave y…	/r/seduction	18/01/15 06:30 AM
1	How do you gents handle parents? TLDR: Don't Parents are tricky because there is no way of knowing what their stance on their daughter talking to guys is until you meet them. I have met parents (of friends) who will not let their daughter talk to random guys, will encourage their daughter to talk to guys; and everything in between. Typically it is best to not approach when they are with their parents. Even if the parent is okay with it there is a good change that either the daughter or the parent will be put in an awkward conve…	/r/seduction	17/01/15 09:19 PM
8	Have a semester to get a girl. I'll try to help since nobody else has so far. First, learn body language. This can help you incredibly when trying to figure out when is going on inside her head. There are several videos on Youtube showing what to look for and how to react to it. You should also start being more aware of when a girl is trying to flirt with you and again research this there are tons of videos and blogs/posts about this. Second, be a confident version of yourself. You do not mention how you are with girls but be…	/r/seduction	17/01/15 06:24 AM
1	18/M never kissed a girl, had sex or had a girlfriend. More social at university but left out of group's dating life. Honestly what Delmight said, they do not need a wingman because they don't need one. I read through most of the comments here and the general consensus is the same: Do not worry about it too much and do what you can to keep yourself in shape and well groomed. Get a wingman/woman and try approaching other girls who you do not know at parties. Any experience is beneficial if you can learn from it and apply your new knowledge to the situation. Since you say that you can easily talk to girls and mak…	/r/seduction	04/01/15 12:44 AM
2	18/M never kissed a girl, had sex or had a girlfriend. More social at university but left out of group's dating life. Having a wingman can improve your game a lot. They can help beef you up and make you more attractive to the other person without making you come off as cocky. Find yourself a good wingman and that will help you out tremendously. Personally, having a wingman has made a huge difference on my game in a completely positive way.	/r/seduction	03/01/15 10:32 PM
1	Messed up with twins, did not know how to seal the deal. What could I have done different? That is exactly what happened. Next time I will for sure, thank you.	/r/seduction	15/07/14 05:03 PM
1	Messed up with twins, did not know how to seal the deal. What could I have done different? His username is seduce my anus... I just played on his name	/r/seduction	15/07/14 04:56 PM
2	Messed up with twins, did not know how to seal the deal. What could I have done different? Basically I should have gone for it. Thank you Sir or Ma'am. May you get your anus seduced multiple times to your liking tonight.	/r/seduction	15/07/14 06:45 AM
1	Messed up with twins, did not know how to seal the deal. What could I have done different? Let me try my best to answer your questions. I got her number but that's it, not even a kiss from her. I believe that I made my intentions clear. They were looking for a one night thing so talking to them is not really an option. As far as the night we spent most of the time walking on the beach then we went back to our place and sat outside and talked. We had our arms around each other the whole time while we were talking. That was the night and at around 6am both twins went back to their cotta…	/r/seduction	15/07/14 06:29 AM