ThePensiveWok Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-2	Wtf is wrong with me? I'm only up voting this because of the sheer humor in typing out his entire reddit username	/r/seduction	30/08/12 08:37 PM
9	So ive been fucking a coworker of mine. I think she is catching feelings, what should i do? Ive been in the same situation, still fucking this girl, and I just let her know that it will never ever go anywhere, period. It's been going pretty well for the past year.	/r/seduction	28/04/12 06:43 PM
2	Wasn't going well with a girl, so I picked up her friend instead. Now she's more interested again. Approach? Kat sounds like a complete time sink to me. I refer to these girls as GOFAs, girl out for attention. In my opinion, if you really want to progress things with her, come out strong and direct with your intentions. If she rejects then fine she's and always will be a complete time sink, if she doesnt then kudos go for it and bag her.	/r/seduction	22/04/12 05:47 PM
2	[FR] The girl from the gym at the club. Need urgent advice..... Just relax and don't over think it. The problem that I see most people run into is they over think reply texts and in doing this their next text comes across much more "needy" than it should and that is an instant attraction killer.	/r/seduction	01/04/12 02:19 PM
1	Question: Why is it generally discouraged by Seddit to tell a girl that your into her? Very Solid Inner game. I know there are some sedditors that think its bogus or overrated but from the different material I've read, and my own personal experience, if your inner game is solid ( you're a stable individual, happy with your life, your job, you're not emotionally needy etc, you have a zest and excitement for life ) then it almost doesn't matter what you say because the woman is going to immediately pick up on your subconcious signals showing that you are a confident, happy, fulfille…	/r/seduction	20/03/12 03:06 PM
7	Question: Why is it generally discouraged by Seddit to tell a girl that your into her? The key for this to work though is to really be less invested in the girl that she is in you. You have to be in a position where you are a very stable emotionally secure person. This is something that I'm still working on, and when I'm in the zone it works like magic but when I'm not it can be a train wreck, haha.	/r/seduction	19/03/12 11:43 PM
23	Question: Why is it generally discouraged by Seddit to tell a girl that your into her? I'm one of the few that makes it a point to let a girl I know that I find her interesting and beautiful right up front. I do this though to show that I'm 1.) secure with who I am and willing to have her reject and not care ( this sub communicates my non-neediness and for most women is a big turn on ) and 2.) It polarizes the girl, this is great because with a girl that's not interested in me I don't have to waste my time and hers by playing little games to only find out an hour later that shes n…	/r/seduction	19/03/12 11:20 PM
5	Alpha response to "It was nice meeting you"? I tend to more agree with this response than the rest, screen out the girls you want to be with and the ones that want to be with you. It sounds like after talking she may be non-receptive towards you, if thats the case then why waste time on her? Instead move on to a more receptive female.	/r/seduction	28/01/12 06:16 PM
6	Yet another instance not giving a fuck paying off I like the " I was thinking the same thing, you'd make a good friend " BAM thats golden I'm hiding that one in my pocket.	/r/seduction	28/01/12 03:02 PM
2	Women on the street, at cafes check me out and stare at me a lot. How can I convert that into #'s and "dates"? Most things are	/r/seduction	25/01/12 12:01 AM
2	Women on the street, at cafes check me out and stare at me a lot. How can I convert that into #'s and "dates"? Make sure that you DO NOT come across as needy and/or insecure as this will KILL any attraction that they once had for you.	/r/seduction	24/01/12 04:29 AM
2	I'm on Chapter 4 of this and it is killer so far. Definitely recommend it. FYI you can read parts of it on amazon before you decide to buy it. After reading through a few pages I've decided to order it and cannot wait to delve into this one, it looks to be VERY promising. I'm hoping it lives up to the potential.	/r/seduction	18/01/12 04:59 AM
1	I don't think I can do this. Ok I'm done feeding the troll	/r/seduction	18/01/12 12:10 AM
1	I don't think I can do this. Ok let me reframe what I said a little differently...MOST women want a man thats going to take the initiative. There does that make you feel better?	/r/seduction	17/01/12 11:33 PM
49	I don't think I can do this. Couldnt have summed it up better. It's simply understanding that women WANT men who take the initiative. This does not mean that you will be dominating them, unless of course that's what this particular woman wants. Seduction is about undersanding the female psyche and then acting appropriately. It's also about understanding what typically holds us back from interacting and obtaining what we desire from women ( once again this isn't about tricking or manipulating a women it's about understanding…	/r/seduction	17/01/12 02:25 PM
4	Beautiful Barista definitely no to the note and flowers it could come across as creepy. I'd suggest trying your best to strike up a conversation with her, is there a time shes working where its not nuts busy? If so capitalize on this opportunity, walk up, and just ask her something random could be about work, something odd near the counter, anything will do and then take it from there. You have this friend!	/r/seduction	12/01/12 09:30 PM
2	As an experiment I have become a male friendzoner, and the results have been more amazing than I could have expected. I like the idea of having "safe bets" around you constantly. The only apprehension I would have is if the orbiters start to become clingy. I tend to become very uncomfortable in those types of situations personally, but if it works out for you then more power to you man!	/r/seduction	09/01/12 02:29 PM
1	Good response to "You're funny!" I would say " among many other things " let it hang for a second and then shoot a sly sexy smile.	/r/seduction	27/12/11 04:23 PM
2	Advice on hitting on coworkers on the contrary some of the best women I've been with have been fellow co-workers. Sure it has its potential problems and is difficult to navigate but that doesn't mean it's not worth it. You have to weigh your pros and cons and come out with a winning strategy for it. Luckily the women I have been with only worked in the same building as me, not in close proximity.	/r/seduction	14/12/11 04:41 PM
1	Expanded my comfortzone, made a first phone call to a girl! Hey man Kudos to you! that first step is always the hardest but after that it just starts to come naturally.	/r/seduction	16/11/11 07:32 PM
3	Going out tonight? Let's do it all natural! I second this thought.	/r/seduction	30/10/11 05:04 PM
4	sleepynate's guide to unlocking the achievement of confidence Well put my friend, confidence goes a longgg way to ensuring that you aren't a creepy weirdo when trying to interact with individuals. People can smell fear and intimidation from a while away.	/r/seduction	20/10/11 06:07 PM
13	Girl flirts, grinds, makes out on the dance floor, tells me to sext her as I walk her to the door, then doesn't respond to texts. What's up? I would suggest putting MINIMAL effort into this girl, relay that you have options and if you see her again give her a fleeting glance, a simple nice hello and nothing more. This will make her pine for more.	/r/seduction	20/10/11 03:19 PM
6	Tired of being alone, time for an awkward first step. The best thing you can do is to go for it. good luck!	/r/seduction	08/10/11 11:20 PM
1	Going to Neil Strauss' party tonight. Talk to him about anything OTHER than seduction. Think about it thats probably the only thing people talk to him about, show him that you're not like the rest.	/r/seduction	25/09/11 04:41 PM