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| 1 | LosingThe Passion Trap: How to Right an Unbalanced Relationship https://www.amazon.com/dp/1587361086/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_Cd8GDbC7ZSRNC Check it out! There is loads of advice in there. I really don't get anything out of sharing this. It helped me get insight into relationship dynamics that were playing out in my relationship and I really recommend it if you see the same thing happening to you. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/19 05:56 PM |
| 2 | LosingTry to channel your own frustration and anger into change. I'm betting a large part of you feels angery and frustrated. You're own needs aren't being met, you're feeling terrible, you're ashamed of your clingliness, and you've got to be sick of feeling like a loser in the situation. Take that energy and harness it. Don't direct it at her, it can easily come off as a pathetic tantrum or as abusive. Harness it towards changing yourself instead, towards becoming an independent person who has self c… | /r/askTRP | 19/09/19 01:57 PM |
| 2 | LosingA lot of people on here see things through this blue pill/red pill lense, but this my first time on here and I'm not really convinced of that particular worldview. I think there are things you guys get right and a lot of things you get wrong. So here's a dynamic I'm familiar with and I see playing out in your relationship: The passion trap (there's a book by this title that's worth checking out) The basics of this dynamic: "passion" starts with (1) being open to finding someone (2) being physica… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 08:28 PM |
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