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ThePretendDoctor/r/seduction06/11/14 03:28 PM
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You seem pretty hung up on having to wine and dine over text. It's a lot more work and there's a lot more of a chance that you get thrown into orbit. But something that's worked for me is "setting hooks". Basically you want to create genuine emotional stimulation through your conversation, turn them into inside jokes of sorts, and use that as a way of making them feel closer to you. Here's an example: You get onto the topic of sports, maybe they have a favourite team, maybe they play and think t…
/r/seduction06/02/18 10:35 PM
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Your answer makes me realise that I wasn't actually looking for guidelines. I'll do some critical thinking on this quotes, and see where it takes me, thanks.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 01:19 AM
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Do you have any reading going over closing fundamentals as a general guideline?
/r/askTRP23/02/17 01:05 AM
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I gave my options. if you aren't going to give one, and shoot mine down you can pick something else, or you can sit down and watch with me.
/r/seduction18/08/16 02:47 PM
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-Challenge their opinions -Eye Contact -Less words -More touching And you have the easiest way I create sexual tension
/r/seduction03/07/16 01:21 AM
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You're looking at the mind games poorly. As great as it would be to just say " I like you, do you like me?" that doesn't work. You've given the girl an option where she HAS to pick. And you know what she'll do? She won't. She'll string you along giving you little bursts of what seem to be signs of attraction. And you're going to keep telling yourself "one more sign and I'll do it" but you don't, and you keep living this over and over again until you get frustrated, act out, and at this point you…
/r/seduction18/01/16 02:23 AM
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You're seeing what she's doing (shit test) so you answer in a way that shows you know what she's trying to do, and you're amused by it. (amused mastery) "are you seeing other girls?" "usually I smell them, but on occasion I give them a look"
/r/askTRP04/01/16 07:19 PM
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Make a move. Literally a move. Like... Anything. She's in your room. Hit that.
/r/seduction18/10/15 03:11 AM
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Being said out of the context of anger it's not as different as you would think to most people.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 05:28 PM
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You don't need to have a discernible skill to have friends. You're coming from a position where you're trying to add to a group as opposed to integrating yourself into it. Not saying what you're doing won't work, but as you've seen it's temporary. From my perspective it seems like you're lacking in forms of communication, and assertability. For me if I were to see people I'm familiar with, and especially if I would've considered us friends at one point (assuming no falling out) My first instinct…
/r/askTRP19/06/15 10:44 AM
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Practice. The more you associate yourself with them the more you realize how normal they are
/r/askTRP12/12/14 07:14 PM
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Oh good.
/r/seduction11/11/14 07:57 PM
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Except the only way that you're going to get laid with zero effort is if they come onto you, and the only way that they'll come onto you is by being good looking.
/r/seduction09/11/14 05:04 PM
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He said with little interaction. You're working for that shit if you're ugly and want a hot girl. Girls aren't shallow? Everyone is shallow. Especially when it comes to hooking up with someone that you haven't really talked to. I could be wrong of course. I'm shallow as fuck so maybe someone else can tell me otherwise.
/r/seduction09/11/14 04:29 PM
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Be good looking. Srs.
/r/seduction09/11/14 03:58 PM
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I don't care enough to actually filter myself. I'm a pretty self absorbed guy, I can honestly say I don't care about most people, or their thoughts about me. I mean obviously I care enough to say something, but not enough to stop myself from saying it. I don't know. It's just how I am. Take it as it is.
/r/seduction07/11/14 04:16 AM
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Honestly they're one in the same thing from what I've found. The awkwardness can be taken as awkward or sexual depending on how confident/okay you are with it. If you act like it's nothing they'll act like it's nothing, and in turn it is taken as sexual tension subconsciously. I think. I just kind of rambled out my reasoning here I don't really know specifically.
/r/seduction07/11/14 03:45 AM
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Right. Because everything I've said here is wrong because I go to a certain sub
/r/seduction07/11/14 03:39 AM
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My downvotes say otherwise. Apparently confidence is shunned upon. In this sub.
/r/seduction07/11/14 03:38 AM
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Always be crushing. The poonanny
/r/seduction07/11/14 01:39 AM
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I've already explained this
/r/seduction07/11/14 01:39 AM
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Pre planned openers.
/r/seduction07/11/14 01:39 AM
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Good points, but not worth it. People will always be against it.
/r/seduction06/11/14 11:54 PM
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Say nothing. You made the effort. Now it's her turn.
/r/seduction06/11/14 11:52 PM
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I've been on that sub for the better part of a year, and the quality of the posts have gone down significantly along with the people. It sounds like a lot of the comments I've been reading lately have been posted by people with no actual experience. That being said I haven't really been on the sub in the last month and a half.
/r/seduction06/11/14 10:09 PM
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If she's open with you that's perfect. That means there's a connection. If there's a connection you should be escalating, and if you're escalating you should get laid. It's just actually pulling the trigger
/r/seduction06/11/14 09:37 PM
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As nice as this might seem I suggest that you make your own. This is written to help me, I just figured I'd share. I definitely suggest making your own. It was not even 10 minutes of work, and helped tremendously.
/r/seduction06/11/14 09:36 PM
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I'm like a fine wine. I only get better with age.
/r/seduction06/11/14 09:34 PM
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Pretty much my life story.
/r/seduction06/11/14 07:59 PM
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Sounds like you have your life in order, and you know what you want. You're happy, and in what is described as a stable relationship. So from your standpoint you can say fuck those guys, and that's what you did. I'd say being an active member of TRP in it's current situation is cancerous. But you can't deny what they preach, and how well it works.
/r/seduction06/11/14 07:15 PM
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This is a great example. Also business, and pickup are surprisingly similar
/r/seduction06/11/14 07:02 PM
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My goal is to get my dick wet. Using some of those tactics I've gotten my dick wet. Do I have a lack of morals? Maybe. But I'm going somewhere in life. And getting done what I want to get done. Can you say the same?
/r/seduction06/11/14 06:55 PM
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I would disagree with this. Always approach, don't wait for people to come to you. Just don't come across like it's a love at first sight type thing. More of a you do this all the time type thing. I meant when the conversation hits a lull don't be the first to start talking again.
/r/seduction06/11/14 06:29 PM
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When the conversation hits a lull don't be the first to speak.
/r/seduction06/11/14 06:27 PM
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Discretion, my friend. Appears to be something you're lacking.
/r/seduction06/11/14 06:16 PM
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Go read into TRP game. Their shit is spot on.
/r/seduction06/11/14 05:08 PM
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Period shouldn't've been there, but this is for when you think you have nothing to say. Just listen to what they say. You just asked what they did this weekend they say "oh nothing just hung out with some friends" you could take this as nothing or ask "oh well that's lame, did you at least do something fun with your friends?" to which they say "eh, we just saw a movie" and from there you ask if they liked the movie, and then what kind of movies they like. And so on, and so on. There's ALWAYS som…
/r/seduction06/11/14 04:57 PM
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Always be closing. Basis to selling, and the basis to pick up. It essentially means that no matter where you are during the interaction you should always be doing something that gets you closer to the close.
/r/seduction06/11/14 04:51 PM
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Lead as in make the decisions. You tell the girl you're doing doing something, not ask her if she wants to. First one to talk loses is during the silence. I reference this one a lot because it was the hardest for me. I like to talk, and ramble. I was uncomfortable with silence.
/r/seduction06/11/14 04:40 PM
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Everyone is buddy
/r/askTRP04/11/14 03:21 AM
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Do whatever you want to do. Don't want to go? Don't. Want to hit on other girls? Then do that. You're your boss, not her.
/r/askTRP31/10/14 10:43 PM
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This is perfect. I'm not the most empathetic in any way, and I've naturally never been one to put up with shit. And it's sort of confused me as to why others do all the time. Self worth, gentlemen. Be worth something, and believe you're worth something because if you don't, people you associate yourself with certainly won't.
/r/askTRP31/10/14 01:23 PM
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Wait it out. If it happens, it happens.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 08:10 PM
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You make it sound so easy
/r/askTRP26/09/14 01:32 PM
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Escalation. Basically. And considering you didn't even ask for her number you lack assertiveness. She could be into you, and you'd never know.
/r/askTRP25/09/14 02:14 AM
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He knows what he likes and obviously doesn't care what others have to think. He enjoys himself, so his company does as well. Confidence really does go a long way.
/r/trpGAME24/09/14 03:46 AM
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It varies day to day, I'm not one for clubs, so it's generally day game. I would say no more than 20 minutes approaching a day. If I'm walking by, and some solid eye contact is made, talk, and get a number. Usually about 5 minutes of work. A quick approach isn't necessarily great for everyone, but it's what I prefer, and it generally works for me.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 02:07 AM
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Ltr isn't within my view until I have my practice running at a stable level, so all women for the time being are short term reward
/r/askTRP24/09/14 01:48 AM
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Laying random women when you're first starting out is one of the biggest confidence boosters out there. And then they have this look of infatuation, one that you can't get from a man. That look alone is enough drive for me to continue doing what I'm doing, and continue approaches.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 12:50 AM
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If you're going to drop contact then no, don't respond
/r/askTRP23/09/14 07:33 PM
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Then you should have little to worry about. Have some fun with it.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 07:22 PM
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So ignore her. Go fuck some girls. Get over her. If at some point in the future she texts, great. If not, who cares. You should not have anymore contact with her until she at least moves closer to you. And if she does text/call you avoid small talk, plan a meet up, and game her like you would any other girl that you've been fucking during that time
/r/askTRP23/09/14 07:21 PM
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"okay" She sounds pretty done with you. And you being all sappy certainly isn't helping. You need to give off that you're a fun, lighthearted guy who is in control of himself. Be someone that she goes to for a good time, not something serious. Also, you called her a plate, but you sound like you have some mad oneitis. If you're fucking other girls, why should it matter if she's fucking other guys. You need to figure out what you want.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 07:12 PM
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Slaps, and drinks thrown at me is the worst I've ever gotten. As long as your ego can take a beating in the process have at it, because she will bring up some things she views as faults in you.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 06:57 PM
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If you want to, you're going to. Why did you ask this question? And if for some reason you have such little faith in your decisions maybe you should consider working on that.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 06:52 PM
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It looks like you have a pretty solid base. It really just comes down to implementing all of those things.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 03:21 AM
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It's not necessarily their fault. They're just going through life doing what they need to do to get by. Men need to realize that we're capable of bringing women back to that state of femininity, and stop putting up with all their shit.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 03:19 AM
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I think this is where body language plays a huge part, along with facial expressions. They're a dick, you keep strong body language, look at them with an unimpressed look. And stand your ground. Hold frame, and you're good to go
/r/seduction23/09/14 03:02 AM
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