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Sounds like you should probably add weed to that list man
/r/TheRedPill03/11/18 06:43 PM
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That's so goddamn funny tho
/r/TheRedPill03/11/18 01:08 AM
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This is why it's so important for you to lead the interaction. As you said, lead her around, initiate kino, be in charge of where you go and what you do. When you're just starting to get your game figured out, and you're waiting for an overt admission of attraction, you're going to be disappointed. Whether or not she complies is what you're looking for. Compliance doesn't necessarily mean yes, but it doesn't mean no. It allows you to keep building rapport and keep spitting that flame game.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/18 10:27 PM
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lmao "no negativity" ​
/r/TheRedPill24/10/18 10:23 PM
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Unless she's the fat friend (joke, but not really tho)
/r/TheRedPill24/10/18 04:24 AM
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Worrying about validating a girl is a waste of time. These days, she's getting validation from thirsty betas and social media likes like you wouldn't believe. Not to mention that you let your fear of validating her give you an excuse to not approach. That being said, you should come from a frame of testing her to see if you like her, instead of the other way around.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/18 11:43 PM
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Trial and error I guess. I got kind of lucky, my high school made me go see one when I got in trouble with drugs, and she specialized in drug addiction. I saw her for as long as was required then stopped. A year later I saw a different one, and liked him, but wasn't really feeling it, then I saw another, wasn't really feeling it. So I went back to the original woman I saw and I've been seeing her for years now. She changed my life. I still talk to her even though I moved, maybe once a month or s…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/18 11:08 PM
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Stoicism isn't about action, it's about mental toughness. It would be foolish to never change your behavior when certain situations require it. Stoicism is about staying afloat when waves are rocking your ship; maybe you have to change course, maybe you have to abort your plan, but you know that you can persevere, and that these waves aren't going to beat you. You can compare stoicism to frame to get a grasp on the concept.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/18 04:45 AM
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I used to be totally content just sitting there and feeling sorry for myself. Of course I hated it, but I thought it made me unique.. "No one else understands me, and how much I'm suffering." Fuck that. You should be able to pick yourself up by the bootstraps and carry on and allow your pain to make you stronger. It's ok to feel pain, in fact it's necessary to feel pain. Pain is one of the things that makes life worth living. Use your pain to drive your progress. The more you learn to work throu…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/18 06:40 PM
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Well said. It's good for newbies to read these posts covering basic shit tests and responses to them, but often times they become a circlejerk of "how clever can I be." Which isn't necessarily a bad thing, but in the real world, you want to reply to a shit test with AMUSED MASTERY. You know what she's doing, and you think it's so cute, don't you? She's so cute, trying to get under your skin like that. You know she doesn't stand a chance; the verbal response you give becomes merely a formality. H…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 10:46 PM
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Do you talk to girls the same way you talk to guyts? Do you treat them the same?
/r/TheRedPill08/10/18 10:24 PM
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Who gives a fuck. She's not your problem anymore and she doesn't have anything that she can hamster over you.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/18 10:22 PM
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$15 is well worth a clean break. Getting into a battle of wills over something small like this isn't worth your time nor energy, especially with a plate you're dropping.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/18 04:16 AM
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I said in a comment recently, this place is valuable to me because of the members with whom you can actually share ideas. The rest just get in the way; people looking for identity through a community that stands out. The loser who sits next to the cool kids at lunch and doesn't say a word.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 04:05 AM
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All of what you said is so bad that I'm actually unsure if you're trolling or not. If you're reading TRP you're here for self-improvement, either directly or indirectly. We preach weightlifting, we preach improving your style, your social life, etc. Your anecdotal evidence claiming the contrary may have worked for you.. But imagine how many more women you'd have slept with if you gave a fuck about your appearance, or had friends, or went to the gym. ​ Readers, this is a good example of cherry pi…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/18 10:14 PM
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As I said... Don't hate the player, hate the game
/r/TheRedPill01/10/18 09:51 PM
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Look out for the doves next time <sup>You heard it here first</sup>
/r/TheRedPill30/09/18 10:03 PM
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Please do. I like your stuff too
/r/TheRedPill30/09/18 05:35 AM
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Coming from someone in a similar boat as you, every day I'm still learning something new. I'm proud of the man I've become since I found this sub, and helping others unplug is its own reward. But the best part of this sub, and the thing that keeps bringing me back, is just having the space to have these conversations.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/18 02:18 AM
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"Sup" from my bassist, not an actual musician
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 04:48 AM
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I agree that discipline is the most important thing a man can learn throughout life,, but in game, calibration is the most important.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 04:43 AM
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"The Lebron James's from the James Harden's." You nitpicky prick ;)
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 09:38 AM
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You learn more from your losses than you do from your victories. I bet you haven't made the same mistake since.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 08:21 PM
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I play guitar, but it's something I let them discover naturally. Sometimes I'll take her hands at the end of the date, if it's going well, and say "You have pretty hands. Elegant hands." Naturally she'll look at mine and I say, I have ugly ass hands, between working with my hands, baseball, and playing guitar." The rest pretty much takes care of itself, and I take her home to play for her.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 09:50 AM
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Women are awesome, but women are women and men are men. This is the lie that is third wave feminism; un-feminine blue-haired women-acting-like-men-but-really-just-want-the-attention-that-other-women-get women are trying to assert themselves in a badass way since they can't do it in the traditional way. Alpha men with traditional values (ie Benevolent Sexism^TM) pull the highest quality girls, because this is what biologically feels right to the ladies.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 08:58 AM
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This kind of stuff is for asktrp man. If you post over there rn I'll give you an answer
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 08:51 AM
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Chances are, I was already thinking about SpaceFace
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 09:26 AM
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This is gonna sound like strange advice, but I heard it from someone in the media and tried it and holy shit does it work. When you think you're going to cum, picture the giant, floating head of Kevin Spacey at the edge of the bed. Buys you at least two more minutes.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 06:40 PM
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No prob bud. See a counselor, I went to one for years. Knowing yourself will do incredible things for your confidence.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 01:36 AM
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Sounds like you do it as more of a self-protective instinct. You don't place enough value in yourself to have intimate conversations.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 11:29 PM
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It means you do a set of at least 10, and not more than 12, 3 times. If you can't do 10 reps, use lighter weight, if you can bust out more than 12 easily, use heavier weight.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 05:08 PM
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Nice post. This works into the bigger picture of CALIBRATING. Calibration is the most important asset a guy can use to up the level of his game. You should know what the girl is feeling, and adjust your actions accordingly. You need to be able to read if a girl is uncomfortable with your physical advances, and take a step back and vibe some more. Conversely, you should be able to see if a girl is ready to jump your bones and isolate her, because your window of opportunity will eventually close. …
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 11:12 PM
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Cut it off. If she wants to come visit you and hav sum fuk, then indulge her. But don't make the trip to her.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 09:56 PM
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Sounds like you never left your beta ways bud. I'm not trying to be mean here, this is just what you need to do. Get out of a committed LDR with a girl you haven't even met yet Approach every woman you see for a month Don't even think about being in a committed relationship for a year, or until you've fucked 10 new chicks See number 1
/r/askTRP08/05/18 09:29 PM
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You said in another comment you haven't even met yet? Bro..
/r/askTRP08/05/18 09:22 PM
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When I was in my BP days, I loved it when I had girls texting me, or around me, and never could have possibly thought they'd be annoying. A few weeks ago, I'm working on an estimate on the computer, and I get a text message appear in the upper corner of the screen, followed by another, and another, and another, from the same girl. "Goddammit, shut the fuck up! Leave me alone to get my shit done." Same deal when I was working on something else after fucking a plate, she came up behind me and was …
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 07:29 PM
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You're missing the point here bud
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 07:21 AM
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I think the point here should be that rather than treat all life with reverence, a RP man should be self-sustainable. The moment you rely on someone for something, is the moment you give power to that someone. A man keeps his own power. There's good info in this post, and everyone should know where our food comes from, regardless of whether or not you eat it. But this can be treated anecdotally, too. You can grow or source your own healthy food, you have choices other than the slaughterhouse cor…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/18 07:47 PM
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Something subtle you can do is reply with "Why would I?" She'll think to herself "because I left you for your brother, and that was a really bitch move," which she obviously won't admit to you. She'll probably reply with "idk" or something equally responsibility-diffusing. But, it would make her have to admit to herself what her actions were.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 08:32 AM
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Ya thanks for the lesson in literature there bud
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 05:58 AM
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Well I can't say that I've got any experience in that demographic, but it would make sense that older women don't play as many games as younger girls.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 02:54 AM
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I think you missed the point here bud
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 02:52 AM
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You definitely have to be all in to say something like that. You need to back your statements with confidence, and with a playful frame. If your frame is strong enough to back your teases up you can say damn near anything.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 12:48 AM
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I've been there before, sometimes condoms make me go soft during sex, especially if I'm not 100% into it. I started using the ultra slims, total game changer. Great job holding frame during that. She's getting her cues from you, if you acted awkward and embarrassed about it, that's how she's gonna feel. You laughed it off and said it's no big deal, so that's the cue she took from you instead.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 09:55 PM
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This is a peacocking PUA type gimmick for guys who aren't strong enough to reel a girl in on their own.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 07:48 PM
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I'm not mixing anything up. Empathy is the exact opposite of solipsism. Women sympathize, but they are unable to empathize.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 05:31 PM
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Speaking from an evolutionary perspective, women don't need to put themselves in someone else's shoes. They need to do whatever they think is best for their children, and that's it. Men, however, are dealing with so many other facets of life that they need to think about things logically, and deal with them in the most effective manner possible. Which means they occasionally need to change perspectives.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 04:36 PM
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There's a difference between male and female solipsism. As a man, it's not solipsistic as much as it is putting yourself first, because men are the ones that need to get shit fucking done while following their path. Female solipsism is the inability to put yourself in someone else's shoes, and try to think from their perspective.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 04:29 PM
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It doesn't matter what you say, as long as you're communicating in the frame of Amused Mastery. You want your message to convey "lol, you're so silly sometimes, and I find you adorable."
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 04:24 PM
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I think you're the one with the anecdotal evidence here bud
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 10:43 AM
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"Emotional rollercoaster" or "full spectrum of emotions" can be tricky to understand, I get it. You don't want to just give them a barrage of insults, you want to pepper them in to your interaction along with some positive things. A favorite of mine: When she does something defiant, call her a bitch (playfully, of course). Usually I get a reaction mixed between shock and a laugh.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 10:42 AM
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The point of the "do you hate me" is that the girl realizes how much trouble you're in if your partner feels indifference. That should be a big sign to you.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 10:16 AM
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if she's just a dumb girl to you, why bother beating his ass?
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 11:32 PM
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IME, women won't sleep with you because you're a musician, but if you take them back to your place and they see a guitar on your wall, they're going to ask you to play it, and the fact that you're skilled in an instrument adds to your level of competence, which is a big thing for women.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 11:31 PM
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I've never seen a girl with hairy knuckles before
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 11:25 PM
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I refuse to *cough* name names
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 11:24 PM
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In this case, "honesty" = "self-agency"... not exactly a woman's strong point.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/18 11:07 PM
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They're good for you if you don't care about your bf% either
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 07:57 PM
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Sounds like they're using you for social proof bud. If they really wanted to fuck you they would have by now, girls that want you will make it easy for you. They commented on your social media not for you, but for everyone else to look at it. If you want to hook up, escalate with them, don't just "leave them and fuck around elsewhere."
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 07:21 PM
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The whole point of lifting and getting fit is to enjoy your life more, you have to allow yourself some leeway when you go out. But instead of eating a burger and 20 wings, eat half and a salad or something like that. Just because everyone else around you is drinking in excess doesn't mean you have to. As for stoicism, stoicism isn't a front that you display. It's a mindset, almost relatable to frame; you know nothing will shake you, everything will work out, etc. You can (and should) still exude…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 07:15 PM
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Sounds like you're struggling with some self-shame, feeling like you're not worthy of good things. Talk to a therapist
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 07:11 PM
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If other people were already buying the brownies, he won't make a profit by giving her a free one. He was just selling those four more quickly than he would have. But +1 for the business expansion into macro
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 06:03 PM
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I'm phrasing it this way to illustrate how truly easy it is to be top 20%, and that there's no excuse not to be.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 06:51 AM
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20% is the bare minimum.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 06:49 AM
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This is why you hear all around TRP about being a top 20\% man. Honestly, it takes minimal effort. If you've got an average build, maybe skinny fat with little muscle, you can put in moderate work in the gym for 4-6 months and you're probably in the top 20% of physiques. Learn to hold your frame reasonably well, learn some game, you're in the top 20% of PUA (for lack of better term) abilities. There's no excuse at all for a RP aware man not to be a 20% man. Men in the world today are making it s…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 07:14 PM
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TRP certainly isn't for everyone. But stick around for a bit, absorb the core ideas, sift out the good ideas from the hate. TRP has significantly changed my life in more ways than i probably even realize. Feel free to message me if you want to talk about it.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 06:01 AM
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First of all, don't respond to her with reason, rationality. Don't implicitly tell her she should value your time, you should value your time and if you feel she doesn't, withdraw from her. That's what she's going to respond to. It sounds like you want to keep seeing her, but not exclusively, which is your hang up. You should be willing to let her walk away. Next time she demands security, play it off like you do the others.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 06:31 AM
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This is true, but I think people use this as a weak excuse more than an actual reason for not wanting to lift. People will say "oh, I don't wanna look like Arnold, that's gross." Well, guy, Arnold spent his entire life in the gym, and he was on gear, and he had absolutely perfect genetics. Even if you wanted to, you would never look like him. You are, however, fully capable of being respectably fit.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 05:55 AM
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Exactly. If you emphatically explain that "Nothing happened! Nothing happened! Nothing happened!" then you're treating it like it's a big deal, which is what we want to avoid in the first place. A simple "oh, nah nothing happened, we just went to sleep," is perfect.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 05:47 AM
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I agree that it is a bit of a weird one. In, say, a business context, where people need to know their given task and you get all vague and Law 4 their ass, that's wrong. But what I think Greene is trying to say is to let people build up their image of you in their imagination. I'm reminded of something Mark Twain said, "Better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak and to remove all doubt." Obviously, the goal is to not be thought a fool at all, but you feel me.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 05:43 AM
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That was legit the greatest moment of my life
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 05:34 AM
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Nice. I don't even go that far, I just keep my mouth shut, play it off like it isn't a big deal. With guys, they'll just forget about it in a minute and move on, but with girls.. Their hamster will spin a fuckin marathon.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 05:34 AM
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Thanks b. I do meditate, but it doesn't really give direct benefits to any one situation, if that makes sense. Meditation helps me free the clutter from my mind, though sometimes it helps me keep my frame by continuing to stay present in tough situations. Meditating might help you settle the crave for validation, but mostly you'll realize you don't need validation when you're proud of yourself for your accomplishments. Pride in yourself is very important.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 05:32 AM
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Good point. I'd agree with that, but I'd say abundance comes first, and when you come from a place of abundance, you don't feel the need to brag about it.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 09:03 PM
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I used to have an attitude of "give everyone a chance, everyone deserves respect." But after seeing the hard work my dad did to lose 50 pounds, and how much work I put into my own diet, I straight up have no respect for fat people. If you can't stop stuffing your face with McDonald's or fucking twinkies I don't have time to spare on you.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 08:30 PM
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My favorite suit is navy blue, fit is absolutely perfect. Match it with navy/pink tie, the ladies don't stand a chance.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 07:19 PM
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Lmao, someone asked her if she thought he'd be married to her if she wasn't hot, she said "would I be with him if he wasn't rich?"
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 05:04 PM
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Baby steps are fine. If you've never started a convo with anyone in public, and then you try to go out and game 3 girls for 20 mins each, you'e setting yourself up for failure. Plus, the women will sense how uncomfortable you are, and this will make them uncomfortable. But if you start to build some social confidence little by little by chatting with a dude waiting in line at the store, or at a bar, baseball game, etc. you'll start to develop better social skills and you'll feel more comfortable…
/r/askTRP10/04/18 08:59 PM
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It's not your walk, but the way you carry yourself. Confident strides, head up, shoulders back, an air of confidence around you. People can pick up on this. Think about Peter Parker, a nerdy kid timidly walking around campus with hunched shoulders, vs Spiderman, superhero, freely swinging around, confident in his abilities, casually chatting with people in the streets.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 08:45 PM
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This can be compared to the light switch effect. For women, multiple things cannot be true at once. They see life in black and white, and are incapable of seeing the grey in between. A man can't be her unicorn and go through his own struggles at the same time. Her "success object" is nothing more than that in her eyes, as you said men get dehumanized and become her avenue to her own success. "I want you to open up to me!" Ya, right, I used to fall for that one. My new response to this is "Ok, I'…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 07:34 PM
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Money affords you the opportunity to increase your social proof. You don't need money to have social proof, but it can certainly help when you buy yourself a backstage pass to Kanye and kick it with him and his groupies after the show.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 06:28 PM
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Nice transformation, way to keep frame around your former oneitis. Girls that you knew in your beta days, after seeing you turn more alpha, will try to shame you back to "beta status." They're either angry at you for trying to work your way up to "deserving" them , or angry that you now have status that they missed out on. Either way, you snooze you lose, you can ride this dick or fuck off. I bet she'd be down for a three way
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 06:25 AM
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Yup. I retain water pretty hard, but carbs usually balance me out. On Thursdays or Fridays, I eat practically 0 carbs and really limit my water intake so I get some extra leanness for the weekend.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 12:43 AM
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Wrong. A woman doesn't give a fuck if you're a powerlifter that can squat 500lbs if you have too much fat covering your definition. Girls don't care about your strength, they want to see your definition.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 12:40 AM
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She says that because she's captivated by you in that moment, and a girl's reality revolves around what she's feeling at the time. She truly believes your the best fuck she's ever had... in the moment
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 09:25 PM
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Sarms are way less powerful than steroids, and they're more of an entry way into the "unnatty" world. Some sarms are more suppressive than others, but there are AIs you can run on/after cycle, which I would.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 09:09 PM
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I know the risks involved with both, but they're way lesser with sarms. I already know the cycle I'd run, and have my pct figured out. The thing is I don't want any dramatic results, just an 8-12 week cycle to improve my aesthetics in a shorter time.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 09:19 AM
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Yup. A lot of people (ignorant people) think that you can shove a needle in your ass a couple times a week and you'll look like Arnold, but the reality is that you still need to work hard and eat right to get the results you want. I respect the natty tho
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 07:59 AM
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If you're a moron and don't do your research, and you have bad genetics. If you know what you're doing, side effects are easily controlled.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 07:44 AM
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Did you try SARMs before your cycle? I don't want to do an anabolic cycle until later in life, but I'm thinking about hopping on the SARM train.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 07:40 AM
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If you're coming on a bit too strong with your physical escalation (i.e. "too close for comfort"), you'll be able to tell with a girl. Literally take a step away from her, open up the conversation to something non sexual. She'll both appreciate that you have the social intelligence to read her, and she'll be more comfortable because you aren't all up in her space. Go with a two steps forward, one step back approach.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 09:59 AM
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Great post. I've been seeing a counselor for years on and off, since before I was a teenager. My emotional intelligence is leagues above other men and even women my age, I would argue it's above most men, period. When you're able to separate your rational brain from your emotional brain, it's like a little cheat code in life. But when, as a rational man, you can put yourself in the shoes of other people emotionally, without getting attached, women won't be able to help but fall in love with you.…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 09:41 PM
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I hope your SMV is high, or you at least act like it, for your sake. But you're going to be in your element, surrounded by people you know and are close with, which should help you feel confident, and should show her the social proof she wants to see. Just be relaxed, have a few drinks (which I'm sure everyone will), remember not to put her on a pedestal just because she's hot.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 03:27 AM
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Think of it as both ASD and a comfort test wrapped up into one
/r/askTRP05/04/18 06:08 PM
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"Only sluts do anal" -> "I did anal, so I must be a slut" A girl's worst reality is for others to think she's a slut.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 06:04 PM
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As a young guy, you don't need to do a crazy number of sets for each muscle group to see noticeable strength/aesthetic gains. The longer you lift (in terms of years), the more sets you'll have to do per week to see gains. Right now you could get away with 8-12 sets/week for each muscle group and you'd be fine. Read this to see the minimum/optimal/maximum number of sets you should do for each muscle group
/r/askTRP05/04/18 12:31 AM
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A blatantly rude or disrespectful personality, number one red flag. But you should think about and define your own non-negotiables. Your boundaries may be different from mine, mine different from another's, etc.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 12:20 AM
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Well written. It's been said here before that you won't rule in every social situation. However, this doesn't mean that you have to turn into some nervous, quivering bitch. An alpha (read: a RP man) feels comfortable in his own skin, knows what his strengths and weaknesses are, and is ok with those weaknesses. The rich alpha at the beach shouldn't be butthurt that some other guy can jet ski better than him, he's impressed with his skill and decides he wants to improve at jet skiing too, or not. …
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 12:12 AM
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"Yes, let's practice at my place." "Yes, let's have our hands on each other at my place with no one else around." Escalate, but be confident about it, because you'll be seeing more of her at class.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 08:03 AM
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If people knew how/when to powertalk, they wouldn't be here
/r/askTRP03/04/18 07:01 AM
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One small thing I used to do. It's kinda silly, but it helped me. When you're out walking around, and you're approaching someone walking the opposite direction, look them in the eye, and don't look away until they do. Don't knock it til you try it.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 06:59 AM
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Check out bodybuilding, specifically the Men's Physique class. There are cut and dry standards (well, there are supposed to be) about what kind of proportions look best in an aesthetic physique, that'd be the best place to start.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 03:48 AM
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Good post. I'll be out with some friends and this exact thing comes up. "I don't know what to say, if I just go up and talk to her it will be weird." The problem isn't that they don't know what to say, it's that they're afraid of walking up to her and being rejected, and that others will see them being rejected. This is the biggest hurdle in getting over approach anxiety imo, not the fear of rejection but the fear of people seeing you be rejected. The more you start these innocuous conversations…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 10:20 PM
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This isn't useful to the community, sharing a field report about flirting with a 16 year old girl isn't going to help anyone here and it won't help you. Go out and game some legal women so you can get out of the area of "In theory I would isolate and escalate here," and into "I tried to isolate and escalate, here's what worked/what went wrong."
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 06:57 PM
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Not a scientist, but I assume it's for hypertrophy. When your muscles are already fatigued, and then you bump out another set of 20, you have to recruit more muscle fibers to complete them. I always finish my biceps with a really light set of 20, for this exact reason.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 10:04 PM
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The biggest reason women got married before was for security for herself and her children. Now, they can get the security without having to stick around with their beta husbands. Their lack of foresight coupled with the newfound feminine entitlement leads them to believe they can dick around and someone else is going to reward them with another marriage later on.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 09:59 PM
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The point is, would you rather have a super car or a civic?
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 09:48 PM
1

Try Blue Ox natural test booster from enhanced athlete. It's meant to be used as a PCT for people on gear, but a lot of people use it to temporarily up their natural levels for sex or better sleep or whatever. It's got a short half life. Don't abuse it or it could permanently surpress your T production
/r/askTRP28/03/18 09:23 PM
1

You've always gotta be escalating. In the wise words on RSD Jeffy, "If you don't take your dick out, you're not going to get laid."
/r/askTRP28/03/18 06:23 AM
1

What are your purposes? Workout, sex drive?
/r/askTRP28/03/18 06:20 AM
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My first question is how old are you, high school? The library? Sounds like you haven't been physical enough. She's enjoyed the game you two were playing, instead of inviting her to coffee or the library, invite her to something where your intentions (which are to put your penis in her vagina) are more implied.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 06:16 AM
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As long as you know what you're doing, and your lifts aren't laughable, it could be a way to display value to a woman. Use kino; spot her for squats, squeeze her muscles etc.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 06:10 AM
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If you're in the same program, approach her at school instead of messaging her on facebook. Social media messages come across as lower value than anything else, and should only be used as a last resort. And you've been invited to events together twice in a short period, odds are that you'll see her again.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 06:06 AM
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Unless you've had some mega change in behavior that lowered your value in her eyes, I'd just go with the attitude that you're going to hook up anyway. If she says she really wants to just be friends, you tell her that you have enough friends, and then it's a next.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 06:01 AM
3

"Your sister said I'm not good looking!" "That's probably why she wasn't the one that asked you out."
/r/askTRP28/03/18 05:58 AM
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It's good that she wants to go with you. And if you know what you're doing, and have at least a respectable amount of strength, it'll only boost her attraction for you.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 12:26 AM
3

I don't know what your diet is, but one thing I love is this chicken marinade. Throw two pounds of chicken in a bag with this stuff, let it marinate in the fridge over night, great flavor. And experiment with different sauces and spices to mix things up.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 12:21 AM
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Agreed. MGTOW is designed to be an endgame after you've put in the work and decided it's not worth it, not a rationalization of your unwillingness to even try.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 10:31 PM
3

Because the people in the 'prisoner' roles were emotionally traumatized from it. One guy had a nervous breakdown on the second day of the experiment. The whole thing was supposed to last 3 weeks, it only lasted 6 days. The fact that it was unethical doesn't mean it's a less accurate representation of the human condition, but it does take away some of it's validity.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 10:23 PM
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Yes, there is a difference. The context in which she says them is the difference. Almost everyone here knows the difference between playful "no (but I want you to keep trying and I will sleep with you eventually)," and an actual, hard "no."
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 01:11 AM
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Direct communication is NOT the way to go. Covert contracts are worse, absolutely, but to overtly state your intentions with a girl strips her of plausible deniability. Covertly communicate your intentions through kino, verbal escalation and with your general game over all, like the other commenter said. Girls are the masters of sub communication, she'll pick up on your intentions, and your covert desire for her will turn her on. Overt communication is not to be used until after you've slept wit…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 10:22 PM
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Sure, you should be free to do so. But every action has consequences, and you must be prepared to deal with them.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 09:00 PM
7

The Milgram experiment. That was a pretty interesting one. All of the "teachers" in the experiment expressed concern that they were hurting the "learners", but they all let it go when they were told that they wouldn't be held responsible for it.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 08:55 PM
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The Zimbardo study has never been repeated because it's unethical as fuck
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 08:53 PM
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Not even a confirmation as much as a "see you at 8 cutie" or something like that
/r/askTRP20/03/18 05:44 PM
2

Yup. RP seems to be pretty split on text game but if you're a millennial, and more importantly, if the girl is a millennial, you need to be able to build rapport over text. Say I meet a girl Friday night, I usually make plans while I'm talking to her, for example drinks Wednesday. I'll text her Saturday saying whatever, and then text her Monday or Tuesday as a confirmation. Then I'll text her Wednesday before we go out as a double confirmation
/r/askTRP20/03/18 07:53 AM
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People will only walk all over you if you let them. Set some personal boundaries for yourself. This was something I've learned over a few years of counseling, I grew up with agreeable tendencies like yourself. It's by no means an easy feat for people like us. It's hard work, but you get more out of it than you put into it. Hang in there.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 07:38 AM
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High school game = small scale social circle game. However, I'm generally against running game as a high schooler, because if you try to start spitting game at every girl you pass in the halls then you're gonna get identified as a creep real quick. That being said, go to parties, utilize RP knowledge without coming off as a try hard.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 07:20 AM
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Well if you're getting 100% rejections it has nothing to do with your logistics, because you haven't even gotten that far yet. It's either your SMV, or there's a problem with your approach. As for logistics, girls that want to fuck you will make it easy for you to fuck them. I understand the issue you have with bringing girls back to your host's place, so maybe buy a cheap van and park it on the street outside the house. /s So, narrowing it down to either your SMV or your approach, do you see an…
/r/askTRP20/03/18 07:14 AM
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Yes. Avoid getting physical as your first approach, and avoid getting in fights with drunk dudes at the club (and avoid being the drunk dude at the club, but that's a different topic). But sometimes a dickhead with a thick skull doesn't get it the first time, or the second time. All I would add to this is you better commit to your actions. If you're gonna hit him, fucking hit him, because he's gonna be coming right back at you. Be prepared to suffer the consequences of your actions.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 07:09 AM
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You had me goin there for the first part, but.. The second half kinda threw me.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 10:18 PM
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I think the need to morally justify our actions, the need to be "right", is a social construct rather than an evolutionary one. Genghis Khan didn't give a flying fuck about whether his actions were justified, he committed acts of violence because he wanted everything he could see. The land of today is where we have to be concerned with whether or not others think we're in the right. Back then, if you a big bad mofo people followed you and didn't care whether you were right or wrong, because they…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 10:16 PM
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It all depends on the social setting. Girls play off a man's emotions, his vibe. Do you think a girl at a club would rather silently sit with some broody, mysterious dude or the guy who's dancing in the middle of the crowd, making everyone laugh and having a good time?
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 06:33 AM
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"Ignore TRP, get in touch with your nature." "How?" "Idk, try reading TRP." Be in touch with your emotions, but don't let your emotions get a hold of you.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 06:23 AM
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TRP becoming mainstream will be the death of it, the same as the death of feminism is being encroached upon by 3rd wave feminism. TRP will be a barrage of soy-boys preaching their "red pill" (read: watered down purple pill) ideas and spreading them through the community. The original theories will be all but lost, and this will no longer be the masculine haven we know. Real RP theories will be shot down as "misogynist," and the pathetic male hamster will be running marathons. sigh Enjoy the decl…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 06:13 AM
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I'm 21 and live with my parents. Once, I pulled a girl and brought her home, as we're stepping in the door I said "Shh, don't wake up my parents." It didn't change anything, and the fact that I truly didn't care what she thought about it was attractive to her.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 09:43 PM
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You just have to accept female nature for what it is. There's nothing you can do to change it, you can only change yourself. For example, if a guy is short and fat, it would be pointless for him to be upset about being short. But he can change the fact that he's fat.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 09:41 PM
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You're not coming from a frame of a fuckable man, just a man who gives them a few quick dopamine hits before she forgets about it. You need to covertly display your intent, while not coming off as a creep with an agenda. Pepper in some statements of intent (RSD has some good videos about this). Mix up their emotions from just laughing to laughing, pissing them off a little, disagreeing with them, checking out other girls etc. Once girls put you in the box of "I'm not gonna fuck this guy," you're…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 09:38 PM
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Your free test levels increase after a week, but the reason they decline after is because your body starts to make use of the extra T.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 12:33 AM
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It boils down to the type of guy that comes here. We have guys who have decent SMV, but are blue pill conditioned. They've had experience with girls before but they get typical Nice GuyTM results. The info is easy to digest and apply. We have guys who are low SMV, and looking to improve it. Probably rarely ever talk to girls, or have been stuck on their oneitis for far too long. Maybe they can handle the "tough shit, get yourself together" attitude expressed here, maybe they can't. Then we have …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 02:07 AM
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Actually it's more the opposite. Girls don't want to be confronted by their own hypergamy. Later in the day, she's not going to be thinking about how shitty her comment was, she's going to spin the hamster and come up with reasons why it was ok. Girls like it when they find a guy who just gets it, a guy that they feel isn't going to judge them for fulfilling their sexual imperative. I've been laying in bed with girls that laugh about guys that buy them stuff, a woman who texted her husband that …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 04:52 AM
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Take a deload week. For a whole week, cut your intensity in half on all of your exercises. It'll give you good recovery (which your body is telling you it needs), and you'll come back stronger the following week.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 07:22 PM
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Sounds like you don't need any advice on the teasing aspect, keep up the good stuff. Push/pull can be simplified down to "not agreeing with everything she says." So many guys just want to be agreeable, girls like it when you throw a little cog in the wrench, and mix up their emotions. If you deliberately try to push/pull and it comes out like you're trying to get a reaction out of her, and it doesn't flow naturally, or confidently, it wont work.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 12:19 AM
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As a student in a high school, if you're going around hitting on all the girls and girls are getting disinterested all the time, word will spread. You've got to be careful in such a closed social environment like that, I'd say try to game girls at other schools and with girls at your own school, let hookups/relationships come to you, rather than you try to make them happen.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 12:07 AM
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Nowadays, I just make the assumption that the hotter the girl is, the less interesting she is. And I follow this assumption until proven otherwise. More often than not her life is about people giving her things for free, buying cute drinks from Starbucks and going to the gym to exercise her butt and take a thousand pics in the bathroom.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 12:02 AM
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in a stranger's van parked on a public street He said it, everyone take a drink
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 06:19 AM
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I love Hunter S. Thompson. "In a closed society where everyone is guilty, the only crime is getting caught." His message, pushing his readers into following their own personal philosophies despite what's going on in the world around them, is one of the basic tenants of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 08:36 PM
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Sweet. I like your move pulling her stool over to you, great escalation while also a simple, subtle display of dominance and the ability to throw her around in the sack. Dating on tinder is getting a head start in many ways, but it still takes good game to make it happen. She was obviously attracted to your masculine frame, she was nervous and excited and you were laid back and comfortable. Good job. Now get out there and get some same day lays from approaching.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 08:28 PM
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damn twice in a week Lol But this was well handled. I've messed it up before and tried to shut it down completely, alpha style, and I've messed it up by committing too soon. If you stay relaxed and don't knock the possibility of commitment off the table, while also covertly communicating that you're not afraid of her walking away, she'll fall back into your frame. Great job handling those shit tests too, those were some amusing little responses.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 04:02 AM
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Good post. It's one thing to truly internalize that you're a man whom women would be lucky to deserve, but that's a frame that takes years to develop. The only way to quickly, and effectively, conquer approach anxiety is to suck it up and do it a thousand times. Maybe that's not what you want to hear, but then, nothing on TRP is what you want to hear.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 03:42 AM
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This will be a good learning experience for you. What you need to do now is cultivate an abundance mentality. All of your problems here stem from a lack of abundance. You weren't attracted to her until she showed she was attracted to you, you kissed her and it turned you beta, you dropped 2 other plates before you even slept together, etc. I agree with you that a relationship isn't what you need right now, spend some time approaching, spin plates, drop plates, spin some more plates.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 09:05 PM
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Nice post. All girls will be an absolute sex slave to the right guy. The key, as I've discovered it, is to make sure she feels that you won't judge her for being a slut. Maybe she wants you to fuck her face or tie her to your bed post, but if she thinks you're going to judge her for it she won't do it.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 02:21 AM
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Have you had any sex lately? One thing I noticed (recently) from my BP days is the complacency I had in just jerking off every night, not pursuing sex at all. Obviously I told myself I "wanted it," but when time came to make a move, even with those that were clearly attracted to me, I had no incentive to really go out and do it. Quit fapping for a few days, see how your perspective on this changes. I rarely jerk off anymore, it boosts my sex drive and when I get in the sack, chicks can see it an…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 03:05 AM
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Ask him how big it is. I bet it's huge
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 12:42 AM
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"He's a player"="He hooks up with a lot of girls, therefore many girls think he has value." Good job handling it with a joke. Should any girls come up to you and claim that so and so called you a player, take it to the extreme on either end. A response I've heard and used is "at this point I'm more of a coach," or take it the other way and say "no, I'm saving myself for my second wife" or something equally ridiculous.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 01:04 AM
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In the tribal days, women (including pregnant women) and children were looked after by the tribe as a whole. Men were just concerned with getting their seed planted. I think these days, in the red pill sense, it's shifted into a paradigm of gender battle and not settling for shitty LTRs when you have the knowledge and skills to spin plates. We all know that if we really want to ensure that our genes are passed on, we can do so pretty easily. I imagine a lot more guys here start thinking about th…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 04:16 AM
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I like the ideas presented in this post, fictional or not. What particularly struck a chord with me is being in the zone. The law of state transference- anything you're feeling, the girl will pick up on. If you're feeling yourself, and you're having a good time people will be able to tell when you interact with them. Girls' emotions are pinged responses to their environment, they crave being around a man who's in such a positive state. Super powerful. There's nothing like being in the zone; the …
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 10:36 PM
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Obviously not OP, but I can answer this. The longer you play the plate-spinning game, the more plates you drop and pick up (ideally upgrading), the higher the chances of you having a plate you dropped in the past that would jump at the chance to bang. I've got a couple slump-busters that I know will pick up the phone when I call. They're certainly less attractive than girls I'm with now, but when you're in a dry spell the most important thing is maintaining your frame of abundance. If you don't …
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 08:19 AM
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Haha I would have to agree
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 09:49 PM
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Good post. I agree that the feminine imperative is nothing new, because we've always had the equal masculine force to balance it. But the "masculine force" of today is a joke, and is letting the feminine imperative derail. However, a resurgence of masculinity would be quite a dangerous social move. Feminists have come too far just to roll over to men again, and if you think you're seeing a shitload of "toxic masculinity" bullshit now just wait until men try to retake the reins. As for MGTOW, I l…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 08:53 PM
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Actually it's quite the opposite, in the real world this is the shit that everyone cares about. This is what's shaping public policy.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 08:35 PM
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The only reason muslim/other middle eastern groups aren't higher is because they don't elicit as much sympathy in the U.S., due to all of these terrorist attacks. It sounds bigoted but image holds a lot of weight over public opinion.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 07:04 AM
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I gave a comprehensive view of what being a victim is about, and how the mentality takes form, but the whole idea behind this post is about the main, and loudest, victim groups of today. Talking about the victims in the middle east or victims from the 1900s doesn't do much good here.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 03:38 AM
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I agree. Claiming victim status is an easy way to ensure that society values your input, even if you have no qualifications whatsoever.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 03:09 AM
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There's a line between my thoughts on the transgender issue, and then there's actual hatred of trans people. This is way too far dude.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 02:57 AM
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I get what you're saying here, but the framework of this place is built around guys coming here and bettering themselves, and then they're able to give back to the community. Whether it's political, about building power, fitness etc., if guys who've come here and "made it" don't stick around and help the next influx of subscribers then this community loses it's value. It's all relevant. If you're one of the guys who's made it and you see something you disagree with, it becomes an intelligent dis…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 02:51 AM
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I'm well aware that gender identity and orientation are different things, but due to my personal opinion on what it means to be either a man or a woman, being trans complicates whether one is simply gay or straight. I've got plenty of empathy for people that are struggling, no matter the cause. I have no empathy for people who are struggling with issues they themselves created, and then blame others for them. I celebrate myself enough, no need for anyone else to do it (though that doesn't stop t…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 01:50 AM
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The hamster (in short, a girl's mental process of rationalizing her actions) is a pretty core concept around here. It's in the Glossary on the side bar.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/18 07:12 AM
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She's definitely into it. She just won't initiate because a) you're a man and that's your job, and b) it "violates her morals," and she's already entered a verbal contract, with yourself as a witness, to not violate those morals, at least on her own terms. Next time you see her, escalate, which it sounds like you have no problem doing. Expect at least a little, if not moderate amount, of token LMR to satisfy her hamster. You're golden bud.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/18 06:49 AM
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You need to absolutely go fuck yourself
/r/TheRedPill20/01/18 04:23 AM
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Thanks for sharing personal stuff like that, really good post. I'm glad everything's working for you. I used to be addicted to stimulants, but after I got off and started living well on my own terms, I relapsed a couple times and then realized that I'm happier and feel infinitely better when I'm sober. It's a really powerful feeling to realize that all of your hard work is really worth something, and not just an abysmal process of never doing drugs again. Drug addiction has taught me, and develo…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/18 03:19 AM
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Exactly, that's my point. Girls with naturally more trad-con traits that initially wouldn't be inclined to go that route are being drawn, or even pushed, to it via society.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/18 12:45 AM
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Out of the 3.5 billion women in the world, there are absolutely going to be some that have those traits (like you said). The problem with that is, in western culture, we've inflated the ego of women beyond conceivable repair. Let's call a unicorn a perfect 10. Low 3s and 4s are walking around like their puss don't stank, talkin bout "I'm literally perfect and every guy should realize that. I deserve nothing but the most tingle-inspiring of alphas." If men are orbiting that kind of woman, imagine…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 09:39 PM
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I think this is taking things a bit too far. I agree on the importance of a firm, assertive handshake, but you don't need to calibrate each and every little aspect of a handshake. Give a man a firm grip, give a girl you're trying to game a less firm but more sensual grip. Look everyone in the eye with confidence. End of thread.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 05:04 AM
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women's pragmatic side lol. Good post though, you touched on a lot of key principles for different facets of masculinity as it deals with women. Game is a pretty core concept around here but I don't think it's talked about as often as it used to be. There most certainly are different archetypes of game run by guys, especially guys that "know" game or "learned" game. However, the most effective (read: most congruent) game is developed naturally over time, playing to the strengths of your personal…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 09:21 PM
1

"I won't bake you a cake." "I won't bake you a gay cake." I see no difference. /s
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 05:50 AM
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What's hilarious/frustrating is all these people on the left don't realize how hypocritical they're being about this issue. How dare you criticize gays for their sexual preference, how dare you criticize transgender folks for their decision, how dare you reject the notion that there are more than two genders. What's that? A heterosexual man's sexual preference is someone other than you, a fellow (biological) man? SHAME ON YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. The point of this LGBT123R-E-S-P-E-C-T movement is, q…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 02:58 AM
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Congrats on the endorsement, kicking it off with a solid post. While I think the dumbing down of ideas opposes what TRP is all about, I agree that it's necessary to start to control this new-guy wildfire that's going on around here. This is a phenomenon I've actually been noticing lately. Example: I approached a girl at the gym the other day, we chatted for a bit and this tall, skinny guy comes up to us, introduces himself as her boyfriend. This girl is probably mid-ish 20s, pretty cute, definit…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 04:12 AM
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It won't be your problem in the short term, but it will be a problem for you in the long term, and it'll be an even bigger problem for your children, for your children's children, etc.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 10:28 PM
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Maybe I should have been more clear, I'm speaking purely in the reproductive sense. A man can father an infinite amount of children at the same time, however a female can only create one child every 9 months. I agree with your points, though. But let's be real, in the direction we're going women will never hurt for resources again.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 10:24 PM
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Tonality doesn't mean talking in your deepest, most ear-chocolatey seductive voice, it means that you're saying what you're saying with confidence and conviction, you're putting it out there because you have faith in it, you're not putting it out there and hoping she's liking it? See what I mean?
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 07:35 AM
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The end goal(s) of the feminine imperative is conflicting. Women want to control the means of reproduction, women want polyandry, women want only the males that best suit their Hypergamy. By that respect, 100% of women get only 25% (maaaaybe) of guys. Women cannot take multiple sexual partners, for obvious reasons. A female taking multiple alphas for herself and pretending betas don't exist looks like this: 1 female, and let's say 3 subservient males. 1 male reproduces with that female, wait 9 m…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 07:04 AM
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The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. Most men come here looking for advice on how to get women, and most men leave here with a firmer grasp on self improvement, their own masculinity, and the realization that women are not what life is all about.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 08:01 PM
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The only truly accurate way to measure bf% is with a DEXA scan. Otherwise there are too many variables to get an accurate number. But a ballpark figure is also a good thing to know, like OP said.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 01:01 AM
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An example of being flexible would be something like you having a rule about girls not staying over night, but you enjoy her company and it's 4 am etc., so you let her stay over. An example of being a people pleaser is you being a DD on a night out, or sobriety is important to you, or whatever and you get pressured into taking shots with a girl because you think it's going to help your chances, or you think people will like you more. There's a difference between your "rules" and principles/value…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 02:54 AM
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If a babe told you she'd let you smash if you jumped off a bridge, would you do it? Being flexible is good until (like another user pointed out) you compromise your own values. Then it's called being codependent, a people pleaser, a doormat. Pick one.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 02:29 AM
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Even if it's a worthless hypothesis, it's a useful model to help understand the cognitive dissonance you may be feeling about game. Raw data comes in from all kinds of places, it's up to you to extract what you can from it.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 06:52 PM
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Don't shift your ideals just to get laid, especially if sobriety is something that's important to you. And you can even take it farther by asserting your frame if you get shit tested over it, if you comfortably hold strong in your ideals then some girl won't give a fuck that you don't drink or smoke weed.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 06:40 PM
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Nah leave him on, this is giving me a good laugh
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 06:01 AM
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So don't bend your point of view. The high value man doesn't care what other people think, but he doesn't intentionally ostracize people who don't think like he does, either. Least of all a girl he's interested in (who, by the way, I suspect wasn't some multicultural-cock filled slut until she "disrespected" you). Perhaps when you're a senator you can get in a verbal jousting match with any vegan SJW you please in order to push your agenda, but out here in the real world it's only going to make …
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 05:56 AM
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Instead of getting into an argument and drying up her vagina with facts, maintain a frame of amusement, as if you find her little leftist bandwagon mindset to be cute and adorable. Law 38: Think as you like, but behave like others. As for the friend, I didn't realize it was another girl until the very end. Definitely could have stuck around, it sounds like the original girl already laid some ground work for you. Spending time with both of those girls and keeping a solid frame (which it sounds li…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 11:59 PM
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Perfect example of how important calibration is when running game. You spotted two ladies sitting by themselves, "we came here because there weren't any men at the other place." CALIBRATE. "Today's my birthday!" CALIBRATE "We're both new to the city." "I only live a mile away." "It's late, they're going to get tired so here's our gameplan." CALIBRATE, CALIBRATE, CALIBRATE. Calibration is the tool that takes you from many approaches and few high quality sets, to a high success rate in your sets. …
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 11:35 PM
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Love it. There's no statement quite like "you've got my number" that so succinctly communicates the fact that you won't be giving her any more attention. Drives women crazy, particularly women that believe they have power over you.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 03:31 AM
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That is not the red pill way. or maybe it is and I misunderstand the red pill. It is, and you misunderstand the red pill. If you don't tolerate disrespectful behavior, then there's no need to tell people. You simply won't tolerate it. Here you've spent all this time and effort improving yourself, are you now going to waste time (that could be better spent elsewhere) arguing with toxic people, people who don't share your values? Or would you rather spend it with people who are going to respect yo…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 09:40 PM
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I agree. Many people here may (and will) disagree with me, but a good LTR is about more than you being the stern top alpha dog. A girl needs to feel at least some emotional response from you for a relationship. If you're not willing to become a little flexible then perhaps an LTR isn't the right choice. I'm not saying to give up all of your RP philosophy in an LTR, far from it. But you need to have substance under your solid shell to form a connection, which is what an LTR is all about.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 09:43 AM
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I've never seen a man with this level of raging hamster.. "Me, friend zoned? No way, I friend zoned that desperate bitch! Ha ha! Hey guys check this out, it's HiLAriOuS!"
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 05:52 AM
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I'm not sure from where you're drawing this first conclusion, but women are masters of communication and can subconsciously dissect what anyone says and find the attitude behind which it's been said. It's possible that this didn't happen over text at all, but rather before, in person. It has nothing to do with him calling her a bitch, but the reason he's calling her a bitch. In that context it comes off as butthurt and needy, which is fucking unattractive. Think about it, you didn't respond to a…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 05:36 AM
5

Curious to see how you think this is dumb
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 01:22 AM
7

Interesting theory. An agility test may be what brings her home from the bar, but a strength test is what's going to keep bringing her back.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 02:34 AM
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A friend of mine follows hundreds of these girls on Instagram, no exaggeration. "Follow this chick, she's so hot" or "Check out this ass." When you've seen enough of them you can't even differentiate between them anymore, the tall brunette with big tits and the small blonde with the fat ass look the same. And honestly, for all intents and purposes, they are the same. One part of the anger phase I went through is the resentment I have for cookie-cutter bitches to be basic and glorified for it, bu…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 03:21 AM
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Good post. I read a comment somewhere on the manosphere, if not here, that said this: If you're always giving out free advice to everyone, it's worthless. People who 1) want advice and 2) value your input will ask you for it, otherwise keep to yourself.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 07:02 AM
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Don't change your behavior at all. Act as if it never happened
/r/askTRP20/12/17 03:47 AM
1

Get off your fucking ass and go do something, anything. I don't know what's worse, for your nephew to be raised solely by your mom or for you to be around and give him the impression that lounging around the house doing nothing but draw is what it takes to be a man. No one likes working retail, no one likes taking sociology 101 in order to complete a major, but tough shit. Some things just have to be done whether you like them or not, and the sooner you realize this and start gritting your teeth…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 02:29 AM
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You did a pretty good job holding frame here, apart from the lengthy paragraph text but you acknowledged that it wasn't a good move and learned from it, which is great. Some girls simply won't give it up on the first date, and it's up to you to handle it with a level head. Like you said, they were putty in your hands the next time you saw them. Also, many girls will say "stop" or put up LMR just to see if you'll actually stop, and they can build trust with you. Maintaining frame during LMR is ab…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 04:24 AM
8

Care to place a wager on that?
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 07:04 AM
5

One of my favorite openers I've ever used was at a club. I saw a girl sitting in a corner alone so I pulled up a stool and sat down, looking in her eyes and smiling. She started to say something and I put my finger to my lips, like "shh." The interaction went great for the first little bit and then went south due to some weak points in my game at the time.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 03:13 AM
4

Lifting and socializing sure. However I'm thinking of it more along these lines. An incel has been constructing this belief as his life goes on that he was just dealt a bad hand, women only like hawt guys with chiseled jaws etc. Now this new information comes along about women and their behavior and what builds attraction, and he works this new information into what he already believes. The cognitive dissonance created from learning something new that contradicts his core beliefs would be astoun…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 08:02 AM
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It takes far less effort to apply new evidence into your way of thinking than it does to change your way of thinking in the face of new evidence. People who claim the world is against them (ie incels) don't want to change their ways, because that's hard. They want to point their cheeto-dusted fingers at women and tell everyone it isn't their own fault, that there's nothing they can do.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 06:10 PM
1

The Herdsman
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 01:25 AM
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This is normal behavior for a plate that's been around for a while, it's natural for a girl to want exclusivity. If she had stood him up without a word then told him all her thoughts, that's reason for nuclear. But pushing boundaries, testing frame, etc? Totally up to the individual man how to treat her after that.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 01:17 AM
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Daytime approaches definitely have a different feel for me too. Going out at night puts both girls and guys into an at least subconscious sexually charged state of mind, but approaching at the gym or the mall or whatever feels like you're starting a step behind.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 01:12 AM
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A lot of guys here make the claim that they don't tolerate "bitches not showin me no respect." That's fine. But the difference between high value and low value guys in this situation is how they view it, and handle it. A low value guy is embarrassed, and calls the girl out on it ("How dare you not respect this handsome, chiseled Alpha?") in hopes of displaying high value to the girl verbally. In reality, it comes across as butthurt. If you have to communicate your high value to a girl verbally, …
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 05:28 AM
3

Similar to number one, if she says something to you like "I don't like guys with beards, but I really like yours," or "I hate flannel shirts but you look good in them," she didn't just suddenly develop an appreciation for something. Her hamster is telling her that since you have a beard and she likes you, she must like your beard too.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 05:17 AM
1

While She Sleeps is the band I went to see, But the headliner was this death metal band Arch Enemy, who I'd never heard before. They had the smoking hot vocalist. RSD has some great stuff, really taught me a lot about game.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 05:00 AM
1

I like that, definitely going to be borrowing that one in a few years haha
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 04:53 AM
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They were so fucking good. I mainly went to see WSS, they're one of my all time favorites, and I have listened to Trivium before and I like what I know by them. They were pretty good too. But holy shit, Arch Enemy put on a great performance
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 02:29 AM
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Personally, I'm not a big fan of the metalhead look, I prefer a more clean cut look. But the metal scene is definitely a niche crowd so no doubt the girls in it would be into that style, as long as you're still hygienic and in good shape and everything. As for going alone, don't sweat it dude. Going places by yourself seems to have this stigma behind it, which I think is bullshit. Go by yourself, enjoy the show, talk to people around you or don't. But be comfortable with yourself
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 02:26 AM
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No, Arch Enemy was the band with the chick. Though I mainly went to see While She Sleeps
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 07:15 AM
1

I like to think that I would have had the same mentality, but in reality, probably not. But you're right, I don't quite have the abundance mentality I'd like to but not caring one way or the other is a good alternative.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 07:13 AM
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I hope my mom doesn't say things like this behind my back
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 04:03 AM
19

AA means Agree and Amplify, for example "you're too short" "I know, I legally have to ride in a car seat any time I drive anywhere" I'm not sure what AM means
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 01:28 AM
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Because you should read the sidebar in its entirety regardless, not cherry pick information from it.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 03:01 PM
3

Look up the app "WingIt" as well. Similar deal, but it's not connected to Facebook.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 06:18 AM
8

Seems like she's trying to lure you back into her frame, even if subconsciously. If you just want to appear sexy and get the chance to bang (wouldn't recommend, but fuck I'm guilty of this and I'd bet most other RP are too so whatever) don't respond. You'll either a) seem like you don't miss/care about her enough to respond (attractive), and she'll eventually start building some sexual tension in her messages to get you to pay attention to her again, or b) seem like you don't miss/care enough ab…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 06:16 AM
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I'm not saying that all you have to do is stare a bitch down and you'll moisten her panties. But when you are talking to her, and you have sexy, playful eye contact, it gives a playful, sexy undertone to your interaction. And club game is far different than any other kind of game, it's by far my best because everyone is there for one reason: to let loose. Girls in a club aren't going to be attracted to you because they like the conversation you make, or because your blue shirt looks great with t…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 12:52 AM
2

Make your (intense) eye contact playful and sexy. Number one thing that helps in all of my interactions at a club, or any other sex-fueled environment.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 04:04 AM
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Thanks for posting this, I definitely learn more from my failures than I do from my successes. I suspect it's the same for a lot of guys out there.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 05:41 AM
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We'd call that guy "homosexual"
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 01:37 AM
2

Like the Captain said, speak with purpose, with emphasis. But never have nothing to say. A part of my game that I've been developing is dancing/chatting with a girl and just rapid-firing (fun/funny) questions, comments, observations, etc. I self-amuse this way, by saying literally whatever comes to my mind (which I often find funny); I maintain frame, as she's trying to keep up with what I say, and it's somewhat implied that I'm just spewing shit and don't really give a fuck how she responds; It…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 07:09 AM
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In my experience, the sporadic snapchat works. Just a pic and a short caption to remind her you're there, but not one specifically for her. Like when you send a snap to a few people, include her.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 10:43 PM
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I think the frame of mind isn't that it's an accomplishment (though to a guy it certainly feels like one), but rather an experience. No one was looking to validate themselves through the act, which I think disqualifies the "slut" tag, we were all just trying something new, venturing into exciting, uncharted territory. If I was participating in it just to please her, or her to please me, I think there would have been some resentment and the relationship would have deteriorated alot quicker.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 01:40 AM
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My ex is bi, we dated for 2 years in high school and the beginning of college. I was the first guy she had ever had any kind of involvement with, but she was fairly experienced with girls. Of course I brought up having a threesome and she always expressed interest in it, but it took me actually approaching another girl who I knew was experimenting with girls (it didn't take, she's straight now) for my ex to actually be up for it. I was neither RP nor BP at this point, I was just kind of a high s…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 01:23 AM
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probably going to have to start working on soon Take your own advice mate. Build the muscle.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 06:42 PM
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