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Wouldn't this end up mostly being used in established relationships to try to detect cheating? What is 'slept with'? PiV? Oral? Handjobs? (Female/female?) Because if such a thing was invented and if men cared enough to use it with new relationships (which I doubt many would rather than take her word for it, plus let's say he did and found she was honest about it - but she found out? It's like a keylogger, once you've done it and been found out there's a good chance she won't forgive you) the lim…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 11:14 PM
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There are grown up children of both sexes. I've heard stories of these ridiculous guys who like to make up pseudoscientific theories about women to feel like they're superior for having a dick. Redpill phrases are so elastic, it's amazing. NAWALT = the vast majority of women aren't like that, there's just a tiny minority of immature women who refuse to accept that they can't have everything want from the person they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 09:10 PM
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Just to clarify, all the prostitutes the man used were over 18 and none were trafficked. This is a game-changer because the only way he could know this for sure is if he had psychic powers, in which case I forgive him immediately and suggest we go to a casino.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 07:33 PM
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My point is that "threesomes, always with the same two people" and "fucked 250 women and became a pornstar" aren't even in the same league. It's not really clear just how dishonest the OP was: she says she deliberately didn't tell him about the threesomes because she knew he wouldn't like it but she didn't mention, as far as I saw, if they disclosed all the other sex acts they'd performed with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 05:17 PM
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I love the exchange rate you've got going on here: hypothetical husband can't just have some undisclosed threesomes in his past like the woman, he has to have fucked 250 girls and been a pornstar. I guess threesomes are just a man's sacred birthright, not something to judge him for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 01:57 PM
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Personally I wouldn't stay in a relationship where I was unhappy to begin with only to throw a tantrum when I find out someone else got what I wanted out of my incompatible partner. Or in this scenario, do I only want it because I know someone else had it? Because I actually grew out of that once I turned five.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 01:49 PM
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If you're not getting what you want from a relationship, you shouldn't stay in it. Accepting a situation you're unhappy with of your own free will and then feeling 'betrayed' when you find out that someone else got what you wanted is simply pathetic. This does not apply to a situation where the partner of the one who wants more implies they'll give more sex or affection if the other earns it. The woman in these outlandish scenarios where she fucked the football team but won't give her husband a …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 07:00 AM
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I guess a post about TRP being the most hateful subreddit is as good a place to ask this as any - are you an actual Neonazi or do you just think the username "HITLER88" is super edgy and anti PC? I guess I could believe the latter, but on the other hand... The Natives in America provided us nothing of value in terms of art, writing, philosophy, or of any technological significance. Good riddance to those archaic savage tribes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 11:50 AM
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You're talking to a guy whose username is "HITLER" backwards then 88. Probably lots of things are controversial to him that aren't to most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/15 06:06 PM
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We also have plenty of stories about the rampant spousal and child abuse of those times.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/15 02:01 PM
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It can be healthy if both want it, of course. I think if only one person wants it and then their partner just accepts it, it's better if the one who actually wants it is the submissive one, whatever the gender configuration of the relationship is (there are also men who want a woman to lead the relationship, plus same sex relationships). I do think it's more common for a healthy...-ish relationship for a woman who wants to be submissive or thinks she and all other women are obligated to be submi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/15 01:32 PM
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Yeah, there have been clear-cut examples of abuse from the RPW (IIRC, a woman posted in there about leaving her husband who verbally and possibly physically abused her, some depressing shit about how some of their husbands expected them to perform sexually no matter how often wanted it, even multiple times a day even if it hurt them) but I think a lot of them are probably women who are married to men who are happy to have whatever kind of relationship she prefers. I mean, I've seen guys IRL who …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/15 12:29 PM
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Tag: Question for Bluepill Commenters: 70% Redpill A fair percentage are equally horrible pieces of shit as RP men, most of the rest are okay women with zero self esteem who are bullied whenever they complain about how their husbands treat them by the horrible pieces of shit, and a tiny minority are regular women who prefer to be submissive in relationships and whose husbands I hope are more mature than the men in MarriedRedPill who are usually adult children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/15 09:23 AM
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A compound question asks two or more questions simultaneously: this one just adds conditions. It isn't difficult to understand that for the answer to be 'yes', the victim was unwilling and incapable of resisting, because it's plainly stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 03:21 PM
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Do you have any proof that black men are more likely to commit rape? The number of men sampled was 1882, 6.4% of which admitted to rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 03:14 PM
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Here is the question that dealt with intoxication: Have you ever had sexual intercourse with someone, even though they did not want to, because they were too intoxicated (on alcohol or drugs) to resist your sexual advances (e.g. removing their clothes) Aside from being legally rape regardless, this is the exact question those men answered, and it isn't "did you have consensual enthusiastic sex with a woman who was legally over the limit", it's "did you take advantage of someone's drug- or alcoho…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 02:55 PM
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They didn't find any significant differences in answers between races. Thanks for your pointless bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 02:45 PM
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We are very clearly discussing crimes that are not reported to the authorities. The study itself is discussing perpetrators that are not reported or caught but regardless will admit that they acted against the victim's will.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 02:10 PM
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The numbers from perpetrators aren't that much different, as long as you allow them the ability to keep their delusion that they aren't rapists. In this study they found that just over 6% of men in a large, diverse (in ages and races) college would admit in a questionnaire to committing rape as long as the word wasn't used ("Have you ever had sexual intercourse with an adult when they didn't want to because you used or threatened to use physical force (twisting their arm; holding them down, etc.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 09:03 AM
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The whole point of actual scientific studies is that no, opinions don't mean anything. People have had the opinion that homeopathy worked great for them - turns out it has no effect. People have had the opinion that antidepressants worked wonders and cured their depression - turns out that placebos work almost as well (roughly 20% less than antidepressants) for mild to moderate depression and even the most favourable studies have found that antidepressants make a quarter of people worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/15 08:55 PM
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You would need a double-blind experiment to make any statements about the emotional and mental effects of HRT. A trans person taking hormones and then finding that their emotions are stronger/weaker or that they're more logical proves literally nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/15 08:29 PM
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Actors don't say "here's how you get women, look like me" This level of lack of understanding that physical attractiveness makes you more attractive could literally only happen to someone who was already obsessed with the delusion that money and status is the only way to get women to like you in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/15 07:17 PM
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Yeah, TRP would never say dumb shit like that only men can love unconditionally or only men have honour.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/15 05:52 AM
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Axe body spray ads: as prevalent as physically attractive actors being appealing to women, apparently. I'm confident that men can make the connection between a guy being desirable and having some muscle definition and not wearing stained t-shirts and jorts. Maybe I just think more highly of men than you do. Also, does this mean in your opinion women are smarter than men? Because women are pretty capable of seeing that what makes a person physically attractive are their fitness level/lack of exce…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/15 05:50 AM
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How does that tell me what women find desirable and not just what they want to sell me? If every picture of a desirable guy has the same elements (at least some level of fitness and good clothing that suits his body) it's pretty safe to assume that women like that if only by cultural conditioning. Also, I included popular male actors that women are generally very attracted to. OK, if we're getting told this everywhere, why does this problem even exist? Why are we even talking about it? This prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 09:03 PM
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The pictures they have up at every menswear store, every gym, the appearance of every highly desired male actor, the attractive men in TV ads, these things are hard to find? That's what tells men to be physically desirable. Boys and girls are both told from an early age that honesty is a positive character trait, and this is highly reinforced by media aimed at any age group. Intelligence is a lauded trait in all but, in certain situations, the lowest socioeconomic groups, again reinforced by med…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 08:51 PM
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Every menswear store and most places that sell both men's and women's clothing have pictures of well-dressed, fit male models up, plus most male stars are well dressed and fit, so it's not a mystery that men are more attractive when they're toned and well dressed even if you never explicitly hear - women get the message of what the preferred physique and style level is from this so I see no reason to doubt that men seeing the equivalent will fail to. Most women will also say that they like a ton…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 08:35 PM
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I'm talking about physical attractiveness, not "LMS". The 'real importance' of money and status is debatable, and there's evidence suggesting that physical attractiveness is the most important component - and again, you can find advice on that in many places. me soggy knees Could you be any more childish?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 07:37 PM
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I must have misread the parent comment, apparently she secretly meant that her husband was honest (but only about select things while being dishonest about others) and intelligent (but only about things that TRP believes women find appealing). Sure there are and TRP often redirects people to those resources, but what is different about TRP is they don't spout this "keep waiting" "be a nice guy" "there's someone for everyone" crap and states the real importance of LMS. The 'real importance' of mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 06:44 PM
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There are actually pretty filthy short stories on Amazon now (it was a big thing shortly after 50SOG became popular) but women don't talk in public about how hot it was when the tentacle monster in some shitty erotica penetrated all the heroine's orifices simultaneously, which would be a better comparison for a porn star. 50SOG is more along the lines of Penthouse or Playboy, and those are so socially accepted there are cliched jokes about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 05:06 PM
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Honesty is taught to people literally as children, as is working hard in school and developing intelligence - social skills/intelligence isn't necessarily (if someone doesn't learn it with other children for various reasons, from bullying to simply being naturally withdrawn) but there are plenty of books on developing social skills that cover small talk/body language/developing confidence, as well as therapy for social anxiety if the problem is more severe. There are also many resources for men …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 04:59 PM
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The equivalent of some weak shit (have you even read it? it's creepy as fuck but it's not that explicit) like 50SOG is something like Playboy, which has about equal social standing - not a woman who's licked a toilet on camera (and by the way, has also claimed she was coerced into the sex industry by her boyfriend, so that's a really classy comparison!)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 04:56 PM
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I think there's a loophole in the question here...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 12:17 PM
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Does the "walking version of foreveralone/niceguys" include the misogyny a lot of them have? I've seen /r/ForeverAlone discuss hypergamy so it's quite possible. You seem to be setting them up as opposites to this mythical respectful and humble redpill guy so I'm pretty sure that's what you're going for. To be honest, I'd rather switch entirely to women than date or fuck either. This situation could knock a bisexual off the fence. If, as you've said, there's a gun to my head, probably the Redpill…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 08:32 AM
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Advice to be honest, intelligent, and desirable can be found EVERYWHERE. I'm sorry you imprinted like a baby bird on a shitty philosophy, but it's the height of dishonesty to pretend that TRP is the only place you can get this advice or that they don't advocate a hell of a lot more fucked up stuff than common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 08:25 AM
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I'd probably rather fuck you, if there was literally a man with a gun demanding it. I think this is the only subreddit where we can start off with "who would you rather go out with?" and end up with "rape by a third party". On a more serious note - if we're discussing a ONS, and I have to pick one for reasons other than a guy with a gun, then yeah, probably the RPer because a lot of FA are huge misogynists too and at least TRP emphasises fitness. A relatively regular guy who is still a virgin at…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 04:23 AM
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You value respect so much, but you'd be fine with a girlfriend writing disrespectful shit - and believing the same - towards a large category of people that includes you? Or is it just women who should have no self respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 03:40 AM
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I've searched with various keywords and the percentages and had no luck. A couple more points: I've seen many, many links to big, well done studies given by feminists on various sites. It's a ridiculous strawman to imply that feminists only go by feelings rather than facts. Also: But these indicators may not give us an accurate picture of what is going on. To begin with, the leading sexual-harassment researchers are feminist ideologues who are mainly concerned with finding evidence of patriarcha…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 03:08 PM
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There's a lot more parity in sentencing with a female judge rather than male from all the studies I've seen. (yes, I said it - which gender can earn money just by filming themselves masturbating?) That's because men are more likely to pay to see a member of their preferred sex masturbating. Gay-for-pay guys do just fine for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 02:52 PM
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Why would they want this? Do men want to do 'masculine' things solely to get attention from the opposite sex? Rejecting femininity is usually about getting respect not lust. Men insult other men by comparing them to women (pussy, bitch, you [x] like a girl) - they might like feminine women but do they respect them? Even TRP says they like/want/maybe respect feminine women but you only have to look as far as their opinions on SAHMs and child support/alimony to see how false that is. There are thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 02:50 PM
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I can find no primary source for this, and even he admits he can't find it but just found it copied on a forum. Sorry dude, this assertion is 100% worthless without a primary source that isn't "this one dude's blog".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 02:41 PM
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Who wouldn't prefer to come home to someone hot and pleasant but dumb rather than an unattractive asshole? There isn't exactly a gender divide here. Most of the schools of thought in feminism that discourage taking on feminine traits like doing 100% of the cleaning/cooking also discourage the feminine trait of dependence - you should be able to make your own money, work hard, take out your own garbage, kill your own spiders, lift your own heavy shit. You don't have to actually do it if that's th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 12:34 PM
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I don't think you've been doing it right. I don't have a problem with it but others do, even going slow, using lube etc. Like I said, a lot of people find anal very different to vaginal. I don't believe that women do it as often as men. That's the case in my experience. I disagree. But there's no actual evidence for either of us. No, my point is that it's different for someone who is open to and has experienced penetration in some form, and enjoys it, than it is for someone who has no interested…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 10:52 AM
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Whatever your opinion of SRS, racism is one of the things they point out the most. There are also things like "Reddit or Stormfront" making fun of the racism on Reddit. None of the racism communities are as big as TRP, try to recruit like TRP, or tend to have long cringeworthy pseudoscientific screeds all over their subs so there's less for a satire community to go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 10:41 AM
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So that's why I, despite having reservations about TRP initially, went Red. This... isn't a thing a normal person does. Also, TRP's hero Heartiste is a white supremacist and he's in the fucking sidebar, so nice logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 10:37 AM
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Anal is far from enjoyable for many women, and can range from uncomfortable and pleasureless to actively painful regardless of lube. It's already been pointed out to you that there's a big difference in vaginal and anal penetration. Even then, most women don't orgasm from PIV alone, and in fact many women in same sex relationships (including bisexuals) forego penetration altogether, because for a lot of women it's just not that great but they do it anyway when in straight relationships because m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 05:21 PM
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Here's my counter question: who gives a fuck? If you love anal or oral or whatever and the woman you're with hates them (even if she used to do them willingly) and you can't be fulfilled sexually without it, you should break up because you're incompatible. Why do you need to rationalise it with "well she did it before and she won't do it with me, therefore the bitch is just AFBBing me"? Also, here are some reasons women might decide to no longer do sex acts they did with previous partners: She i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 08:06 AM
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This is such a frustrating attitude. Does the dude even show up on the priorities list, or is it 100% about the woman? Shouldn't it be a priority to do things that he likes, if she loves him? No, it's all about how comfortable she is, and how much she is enjoying the sex. . Yep, but to be fair, that's a pretty rare occurrence. I'd be willing to try most things, if my girlfriend was interested. . Nope, because I don't like being penetrated Hmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 07:50 AM
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There's /r/Coontown, /r/GreatApes, /r/RapingWomen, /r/PicsOfDeadKids, etc... I think Coontown is biggish. He's talking shit though because those subs are in fact widely hated. Plus TBP discusses TRP's racism pretty often too (there's a lot of it).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 05:38 AM
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Both his post and yours are from about an hour ago. I'm gonna give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you just haven't gotten sick of all the BS on /r/relationships yet... Assuming that post isn't 100% bullshit anyway, no one has ever claimed there aren't some crazy people, including women, who feel the need to constantly be engaged in mind games. Some people obviously find something appealing in unstable relationships, hence all those people in relationships where they both constantly chea…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 05:15 PM
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I also think the size 16 model is the most attractive, and definitely better looking than the 8s or 10s. Some women do wear some extra weight really well, especially if they have some muscle underneath the fat. I have to admit, with your preferences you really are pretty fucked. Girls that thin are a very small minority in my experience. It isn't even really an issue of the national average weight being high - women are supposed to have a higher percentage of body fat so once out of adolescence …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 08:27 PM
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So, who would you call if you...: had problems with your computer. Google, probably. I don't know anyone heavily into IT. wanted to buy a new bike, camera or any other expensive gear and needed someone who really knows their stuff and has a good overview of the market. Someone who has a subscription to relevant magazines and enthusiastically reads them. For a camera: a woman I know who's really into photography/cameras. needed to repair something I rent so I can't repair household stuff anyway. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 07:04 PM
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I'd say 8 and up is "hot" territory. What do you consider an 8, versus a 6? (If you can't describe it, do you have any pics of girls you would consider 8s or 6s?)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 08:14 AM
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It's not illegal to have sex when underage with another underage person. If you don't mind having sex with an ugly woman, go on Tindr and find one. You think there are no desperate, unattractive and socially impaired women who are as willing as their male counterparts to fuck any random stranger?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 04:30 PM
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Thanks for inserting racist shit into this for literally no reason. I would have been all for a drunk as shit guy going off with a sober woman if only she was the greatest of all races, white! I would do my best to stop him from going with her, get someone else closer to him to help me convince him to come back, point out to the woman that he was past the point of legal consent, threaten to call the cops, etc. Even if he'd be happy about losing his virginity, for one thing that doesn't change th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 07:57 AM
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He hates his job that pays better than anything else he would get, and I encourage him to start looking at job ads at least so he can do what he wants, and we'll handle the pay cut if it happens. I've offered to be the sole breadwinner while he goes back to school to do something else that would help him get the type of job he wants. This is what she said, everything else is you applying your own bullshit to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 12:58 AM
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This is such a perfect example of how TRP twists situations based on gender. If you were talking about a man suggesting that his girlfriend look for a different job than the one she complains about, you'd say that clearly his logical male mind naturally searched for solutions while she just wanted to vent her feelz. Other way around? You nagging harpy!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 05:27 PM
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(Assuming your referring to the promiscuity thing) Right, feminists usually seem to have a similar number of partners as any other women with the exception of highly religious women. But a lot of TRPers seem to think that feminists are highly promiscuous, based on no evidence I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 04:12 PM
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I feel like I've seen nods to the idea in media that a guy who manages to impregnate a woman out of his league 'winning'. The Simpsons has been making jokes about it for what, fifteen years? More? It's at least a concept that exists in the general consciousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 03:36 PM
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Both parents self identify as feminists. My father has many classic blue pill traits. Not sure what these are in this specific situation, please clarify? To this day, my mother makes most of the decisions in the household. Relationships where one partner is naturally more 'dominant' aren't necessarily bad, but they require that the partner with more power highly prioritise the opinions and best interests of the partner with less and have the utmost respect for them. My father would never attempt…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 02:13 PM
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It's normal for pretty much everyone to have one or two symptoms of various personality disorders, as these traits are present in many people. For example, one of the symptoms of schizoid personality disorder (not schizophrenia, it's an attachment/avoidance disorder) is "consistent preference for solitary activities" - obviously if this is the only schizoid trait that person has it's just introversion, but if they also have indifference towards praise or criticism, have a limited capacity to com…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 04:29 AM
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I love how a FullRedvolution post is right under a post suggesting that women value feelings over rationality. It's like this sub has its own internal comedic timing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 12:37 PM
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However much you might want to twist definitions so that everything you perceive matches your feelings on how the world works, "a shitty DJ" would not be attractive to anyone with the goal of moving up by getting a superior partner. They're not widely socially respected, necessarily particularly skilled, or wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/15 04:20 PM
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So are these your religious views or what? Because you have zero proof for this: Women's main purpose on this earth is to give birth to the children of genetically superior men. Men are the product women are the prodcutuon facility. So yes, it will lead to the decline of the West because women aren't pixking up the slack that men are abandoning due to the current climate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/15 04:09 PM
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Isn't women being hypergamous kind of the entire basis of TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/15 04:05 PM
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after the shelter movement the ratio went from 50/50 to 1m/4f. Why? because the shelter movement gave women a way out of abusive relationships. If you're trying to say that men kill their spouses more than women do because they see no other way out of an abusive relationship... I guess when a woman runs away from the relationship the man is terrified she's going to her supervillain lair to blow up his city or something, because a woman's risk of murder by her partner skyrockets just after leavin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/15 02:04 AM
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No one actually disagreed with you in the first place. You don't need to make a new post every time your feelings are hurt on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/15 04:59 PM
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No one in those comments was going to assemble a SWAT team dedicated to stopping you from being needy and shallow, which is the only way you can be "not allowed" to feel a certain way, so I guess this CMV was a complete waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/15 04:47 PM
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Hmmmm, could there be... context for the comments you linked? That's untrue. I give a shit about her desire to be a good wife. I care about her hope to sexually please me every day. I encourage her dreams of becoming the best possible wife/gf possible. Anything else though isn't actively supported. There it is! Anyway, you can want whatever, but that doesn't mean that what you want isn't pretty pathetic, and literally only caring about how much your partner wants to please you and not their ambi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/15 03:39 PM
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What are you even trying to discuss here? You're careening from "prearranged BDSM scene" to "literally rape but it's okay because she secretly liked it". Who gives a shit what people fantasise about? Some men might fantasise about being war heroes but if you open fire on them with a machine gun you're going to jail. Consent doesn't have to be verbally stated for regular/vanilla sex provided that nonverbal cues are present (actual nonverbal cues, not "well she was lying there motionlessly because…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/15 07:07 PM
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This is what you said: See, if a woman says "no, stop, I don't want this" etc as a part of her ravishment fantasy in which she resists but an attractive male who she knows has his way with her, she might be consenting to the encounter on the inside, but, in a legal sense, since she never gave explicit verbal consent, she was raped. In a BDSM rape play encounter, there would be explicit verbal consent. It would be worked out that he would do things agreed upon in advance, adhering to her limits (…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/15 03:04 AM
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Okay, the problem here is this: the blue pillers responding to you are assuming that this would be a prearranged situation, BDSM-style, while you're thinking that it's basically a bodice-ripper brought to life scenario in which they haven't worked anything out and he just goes for it but she loves it anyway. So they're trying to discuss consent in BDSM, unaware that your argument is actually 100% based on the idea that fantasy and reality are exactly the same. So, yeah she could charge him with …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/15 02:17 AM
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I really don't want kids. I've heard stories of women changing their minds but I hope I don't. I'm single so that's a pretty good start towards my goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/15 06:33 AM
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Are you aware this is literally the exact mentality rapists have? You might not be one at this time, but don't start bitching about 'false accusations' if/when your "no, no, I can tell that she secretly wants me to keep pushing after she's said no, I can read body language" beliefs catch up with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 02:01 AM
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4 He considers it a huge women-imposed injustice that he has to wipe his ass and remove excess grease from his face.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/15 12:32 AM
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Now I really want to hear a RP guy's interpretation of Life of Pi. The island is women and the meerkats are betas? The tiger represents hypergamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/15 12:11 PM
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I'm confident there's a pretty big range of appearances for TRPers. The ones who actually do exercise/lift a lot/have a healthy diet probably look all right. There are also probably quite a few who decide to just spend their time discussing how much women resemble dogs and children mentally instead of making themselves any better. I honestly don't give a shit how someone looks (unless it's hilarious like when an overweight poorly groomed guy thinks he has any right to judge fat women), the fact …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/15 11:55 AM
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Blue pill I guess, though this whole Matrix thing is frankly embarrassing. Alpha as fuck. No, seriously, I don't know. Do women even have defined ranks in this thing? INTJ according to the test.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/15 08:55 AM
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It says "Estimated Number of Victims" in both the lifetime and 12 months categories for the percentages and raw numbers. It doesn't go into how many times each individual was victimised in the same twelve month period. It isn't measuring cases, it's measuring victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/15 02:52 AM
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But I literally cited a source. What your source said: 18.3% of women are raped and 4.8% of men are forced to penetrate in their lifetimes. In the year studied, the amount of women raped and men forced to penetrate in the previous 12 months were the same. Those are the facts, and it's nowhere near enough to make your own conclusions from that. Men face way more violence across the board than women but if there's a particular demographic that women are more likely I'm assuming you're talking abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/15 12:51 AM
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Even if you take out the drugs and alcohol assisted rape part (since I'm sure you think women just love all the bullshit that comes to them from saying they were raped), the percentage of women who've been forcibly raped (not even counting attempted rapes) is still 12.3%. And I don't think anyone (haha, who am I kidding) is going to deny there are rapes deliberately committed using alcohol and drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 10:05 AM
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Yeah, she rose from the grave and works for the CDC now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 09:32 AM
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I'm pretty sure not a single living human being looks up to Lena Dunham, c'mon now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 08:11 AM
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Women also often greet each other by hugging though. Plus, it isn't just a female and male friends thing, it's also pretty common with family members. My uncle doesn't want to fuck me because he hugs me but shakes my brother's hand. I fucking hate hugs from people I don't know well though, so I hope that custom dies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 08:10 AM
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So you're saying that the same men are repeatedly victimised to the point where despite the fact that four times as many women as men are raped/forced to penetrate a roughly equal number of incidents occur? I can't say I see any evidence for this at all. You would need multiple years of data showing this to even begin to make that kind of speculation much less call it fact. Even in America 70% of people murdered by current or ex partners are women and women are also more likely to be injured. Fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 07:20 AM
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Many of the women in that study also had multiple perpetrators. Source for it being the same number of abuses? It should be noted that this study's at odds with most studies in that respect. It should also be noted that it's consistent with the reality that women are vast majority of those killed by domestic violence, 90% and more likely to be injured in any way, from bruises to fractured bones (source page 14 (of PDF) or 337 (of numbers down the bottom from the book this is from).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 04:05 AM
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Approximately 1 in 21 men (4.8%) reported that they were made to penetrate someone else during their lifetime; most men who were made to penetrate someone else reported that the perpetrator was either an intimate partner (44.8%) or an acquaintance (44.7%). Compare this to the fact that about 18% of women are raped. I screenshot'd the tables from this study for both the women's lifetime domestic abuse victimisation rate and the men's. As you can see, men commit the vast majority of severe partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 03:04 AM
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fux vagina tingles Serious question, are you twelve years old? Are we all going to end up on a watchlist for discussing sex with a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/15 11:11 PM
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The difference between men having casual sex and women having casual sex is that it's often terrible for the woman. Men wouldn't be so interested in casual sex either if it was common for the encounter to end without them even coming. In fact, I'm pretty sure there was a study done about this and women were considerably more likely to engage in casual sex if they thought it was more likely they'd enjoy it a lot physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/15 09:26 PM
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It's probably this specific sub honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/15 12:48 PM
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Ha, no worries.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/15 12:43 PM
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Huh? I'm saying that by that standards of the parent comment, women would win out a lot of the time since their reasons for divorce aren't often simple unhappiness (though what's the point of staying in a relationship that's crippled by irreconcilable differences? TRP is wedded to the idea of a lazy SAHM who ears bonbons all day then divorces her devoted beta husbands when her wacky female emotions act up and takes him for all he's got) but infidelity, substance abuse or abuse/neglect. So women …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/15 12:08 PM
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If anything, women would be better off if that was the way it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/15 02:37 AM
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There are four links there not one. Women have consistently said that catcalling/street harassment ranges from more polite demands for a stranger's time to sexually explicit and threatening language. Sorry you're incapable of actually listening when women explain their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/15 02:14 AM
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Yeah, catcalling is the most harmless thing ever and never leads to anything worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/15 01:00 AM
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Literally all this proves is that men think or would like to believe that they would choose to suffer/sacrifice for their loved one(s). No data on whether the respondents actually have or would in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 05:46 AM
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If I disliked a guy for his personality but found him physically attractive, I wouldn't have sex with him. So if a guy was a "jerk" then I wouldn't ONS/FWB him. I'd only have even casual sex with someone I hypothetically wouldn't mind dating, because I don't compartmentalise these things that well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 08:09 AM
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I wouldn't have sex with a guy I disliked outside of fucking, and I wouldn't date/marry a guy I was uninterested in sexually. Seems like a guy would be in the best position in number four: women like him for his personality but also find him attractive enough to have NSA sex with him. Of course a situation where one half of a FWB relationship wants to date the other half sounds like it'll probably explode into a glorious ball of drama. Doesn't this list kind of ignore all the women who are "play…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 11:39 PM
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The word patriarchy was specifically coined to define a system that puts males/male attributes as superior to females/female attributes that men and women could both participate in. Prior to this the concept was called male chauvinism or just sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 11:27 PM
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Sure, either (I'm bisexual). Pre op is fine, I'd rather a trans guy had had top surgery and I'd rather he hadn't had bottom surgery (just because the results don't tend to work all that well) but it wouldn't be a dealbreaker either way. Pre op or post op for trans women, doesn't matter to me. LTR with either too. I guess I just don't care that much, I'm already bi so genitals aren't a dealbreaker or whatever, and obviously I have no concern about being seen as nonstraight. Obviously they would s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 11:35 AM
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Ugh, didn't we just have almost this exact question raised? Okay, well, first of all I don't think anyone has denied that there are some differences between the majority of male brains and the majority of female brains - only that there aren't as many, and to less of a degree, than sexist beliefs would suggest. For instance, it's quite widely accepted that female children in general will develop language skills earlier and better than male children, who in turn will in general have superior spat…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 05:08 AM
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Haven't they found that there's some correlation with signs of brain feminisation or masculinisation (for men and women respectively) and being gay? It's not always present though IIRC.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 05:33 AM
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Well, it's pretty rare AFAIK for a trans person who has the choice to not at least go on hormones, and this will cause fat redistribution (towards thighs, hips, face etc for trans women and towards the stomach for trans men), facial hair growth in trans men, voice dropping in trans men, breast growth in trans women, etc.. This alone helps many trans people to feel a lot of relief of dysphoria as their outward appearance is now more like their internal sense of themselves. The reasons many of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 04:33 AM
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Well, there's also Body Integrity Identity Disorder, which is thought to be related to the same brain map, wherein people feel they shouldn't have both hands or their legs shouldn't work. But for whatever reason, physical transition tends to be quite effective at treating trans people's dysphoria which I believe it often isn't for sufferers of BIID
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/15 10:29 PM
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One theory is this: we know that in everyone's brain there's a 'map' of the body, hence why even without seeing it you know where your hand is and what it's doing, and that it might be that transgender people have the internal map of the opposite sex: this would explain why a trans woman, for instance, might feel that her penis shouldn't be there (this isn't universal but the vast majority of trans people suffer physical dysphoria). In this theory social/gender dysphoria would stem from the sens…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/15 09:29 PM
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The only thing that got me through the love triangle in THG was that Katniss usually seemed as disinterested in it as I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 06:31 PM
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Ha. Well, I'd say in a lot of cases, the 'bad boy/alpha male' archetype in fiction is the mirror image of the 'femme fatale' type (think Catwoman, etc), where a lot of their appeal comes from a sense of "they're beautiful, intelligent, successful, and ice-cold, but they have a secret softer side that you, the audience, can touch and make them adore you". It allows the audience to feel a sense of power over a seemingly unattainable figure of desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 06:12 AM
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What a fucking terrible series. I'd advise you to stop now before you've put yourself through the trilogy, but if you continue reading you might notice something: the alpha male in it is, if anything, even needier than the main character. At one point in the second book, afraid she's leaving him, he has a nervous breakdown and offers to completely invert their power dynamic rather than lose her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 06:04 AM
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Source.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 05:37 AM
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You should feel worst for the woman he does end up marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 04:49 AM
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Yes. Not if you go into a rape victim's support group and say "HEY DID ANY OF YOU LIKE IT", but do you really think that people never admit to shameful things in anonymous studies? Not everyone will but some do. Committing rape is far more shameful than being a victim of it (even if they enjoy it, which their own testimony and the widespread nature of trauma responses following it demonstrate they do not) and yet a study has found that 6% of college men will admit to having attempted or complete…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 09:44 AM
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In the story she didn't tell him; they were making out at his place and when he tried to take it further (putting his hands down her pants or up her shirt) she stopped him. Eventually she left and next time they saw each other she said she'd wanted him to just go for it, just throw her down and fuck her even though she said no. She didn't ask for it because she liked for it to feel authentic. Obviously, he did the right thing by not raping her on the off chance she'd be into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 01:18 PM
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A pretty big proportion of men in prison probably find the idea of committing a felony hot - though, actually, this isn't even necessarily true - a lot of rapists are motivated by mental compulsions or by feelings of entitlement. Who is going to say "yes, I enjoyed getting raped"? It's pretty convenient to argue, "yeah they really want it they just can't admit it, I have no evidence but I just feel like it's true you know?" Anyway, at least one decent sized study has shown that trauma symptoms f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 10:20 AM
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A pretty big proportion of men in prison, I suppose. 'Thirty-four percent (n = 11) of the deniers described their victim as unwilling, at least initially, indicating either that she had resisted or that she had said no. Despite this, and even though ('according to pre-sentence reports) a weapon had been present in 64 percent (n = 7) of these 11 cases, the rapists justified their behavior by arguing that either the victim had not resisted enough or that her "no" had really meant "yes." For exampl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 08:20 AM
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It's this one. Note how he both doesn't make a wider point about women (it's an anecdote about one screwed up woman he almost had a ONS with) and how he points out how fucked up it would be to rape her just in case that's what she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 07:33 AM
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He also pointed out how fucked up it would be to rape a woman just in case she wanted it. EDIT How do you reconcile this with very attractive men committing rape (which happens)? Partner rape? Rape where the woman would have willingly had sex with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 07:21 AM
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Sex with a woman is super gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 06:58 AM
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He literally mostly posts direct quotes, screenshots and links to posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 02:30 AM
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I guess the thing is for straight women dating a trans guy is it's kind of a one-two punch of PIV being generally impossible and infertility. Trans people in general often don't get "bottom surgery" (the operation that changes their birth genitals into the appearance of the genitals of their correct gender), and trans men in particular rarely do as their options are generally seen as poorer. There are two bottom surgery options for trans men, metoidioplasty, which IIRC involves freeing the clito…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 05:35 AM
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Funny you mention the Aurora shootings, since there was also a guy who put his kid down, ran out of the theatre and drove away leaving his girlfriend and child behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 05:16 AM
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