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YSK, men can be 100% satisfied/happy in their relationships and still fantasize about things like threesomes etc. Dudes will have sex in the morning and masturbate in the afternoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:16 PM
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Can we stop doing this thing where, anytime something negative is said about pregnancy, it's something the man "did to her"? Their example wasn't good, but their point is still clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:51 PM
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I have to be abused to desire change? Is that it? You can only speak on an issue if it affects you directly? How very conservative republican of you.
/r/MensRights24/02/24 06:03 PM
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I have a wife, and I would like Google to fix this obvious double standard in their results.
/r/MensRights24/02/24 06:00 PM
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You're removing the woman's agency. If she's serious about finding an LTR, she will. If you're getting ghosted on guy 5 in as many months, the problem is you. Take a step back, slow down, and reassess. We can pretend reputation isn't important all we want. It is. People give a shit about your past. Our experiences and actions define who we are. Expect what you do to have an impact, because it will. It's not on others to neglect your past. If you find someone who does, good for you, but don't exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:59 PM
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I guess that was implied, but yes. The idea is that they can do it, but now they don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:14 AM
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In an attempt to steelman OP, what I believe they're trying to say is "If the 5 guys all just want to PnD they're going to do it regardless, but if guy 6 was serious, making him wait may make him resentful." It's not an easy thing to explain, but it is true, a lot of guys will feel resentful if you treat them differently (in a negative way) from your past flings. I.E. lets say dude's GF refuses oral and claims she doesn't like it, but then dude finds out she double blew some other dude during so…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:38 AM
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Hi, I'm a man with primary custody who receives child support. I also work two jobs, ~60 hours a week. You're a moron if you think it's a privilege only for women and an even bigger moron if you think the system isn't necessary.
/r/MensRights08/07/20 03:22 PM
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Stop. This is Stefan. Intelligence isn't allowed.
/r/MensRights16/06/20 06:53 AM
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Chris Brown and R. Kelly have been out there too despite their garbage history. It's sad how famous people just get away with horrible shit.
/r/MensRights02/04/19 01:42 PM
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Even though men still ask for the boss They ask for the boss because they don't know who the boss is, not because you're a woman. Get off the cross. ​ I've managed restaurants for a decade and been asked to "speak with the manager" on plenty of occasions. It's not always obvious who's in charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 09:31 PM
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If the men around you at work are getting more respect it's because they're working harder than you. Pick up the pace and you'll get respect too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 01:08 PM
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Men have a right to be treated with dignity and respect, same as women.
/r/MensRights31/01/19 04:00 PM
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FLAK MASTER
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 11:17 PM
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I went based on the top results of Google. I don't have the time to dig deep and get the exact numbers down to the decimal, but at this point it's splitting hairs. The only reason divorce rate has dropped is because people simply aren't getting married anymore like they used to. I think we can agree on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 01:44 PM
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Marriage is not a requirement for sex, and even the ugliest people pair up. I've seen 400+lb people with kids. Not sure what you're really trying to say. Yes, women are known for chasing men way out of their league and end up getting used for sex, but to say they never venture below that 20% threshold is demonstrably false.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 01:40 PM
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Your reply is filled with assumptions and lacks any sense of an argument. You're not here for discussion. That much is clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 01:34 PM
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50% of marriages end in divorce, 80% of those are initiated by women, and men pay alimony and child support the vast majority of the time. Plenty of marriages end after twenty years. The odds are stacked against men. It's a fact. Men not wanting to get married anymore has hardly anything to do with trust and everything to do with a system based on antiquated ideas of marriage in which men were the sole providers and women did not work. Times have changed but the system has not kept up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 01:04 PM
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talented lel
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 03:49 AM
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This is correct. Expenses are not factored because it is up to each parent to budget their own living expenses. Child support is based on a statutory formula and will not be increased to make up a parent's gap in income or to otherwise support a previous lifestyle. That would be alimony which you are not entitled to because you were not married. Thanks. That part was confusing to me, but it makes sense now. Don't be so confident. This was only a temporary summer time agreement and can easily cha…
/r/MensRights09/06/18 01:40 AM
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I've got a journal and a calendar. Everything will be documented (as it has been so far)! We were told straight up, that if either of us fails to cooperate during this time, kiss primary goodbye. I'll be on my best behavior!..and I'm going to work with my boss to get my hours fixed in such a way that I can get Monday(pm)-Friday(am) secured as time for my daughter. I do tons of hours between saturday and sunday, so it's just a matter of cleaning up those other days, which he already agreed to wor…
/r/MensRights08/06/18 02:22 AM
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Thank you!
/r/MensRights08/06/18 02:19 AM
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Definitely. We're taking co-parenting classes for now, and she said she was going to therapy, but I'm going to ask her if it actually began a few days before we go and if she says no, I'm getting it ordered. I will submit myself as well, as a show of good faith.
/r/MensRights08/06/18 02:18 AM
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We use texts. Not exactly 'e-mail' but the court does accept them.
/r/MensRights08/06/18 02:17 AM
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This is actually what I've learned while studying up on it. My aunt is a high school teacher and she asked the students in her class who had 50/50 households to write letters of their experience and they were extremely heartbreaking. The kids were not okay with it.
/r/MensRights16/05/18 03:22 PM
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It's not happening and not going to work because she does not have the time, nor does she make the time. It's not that I'm unwilling to share time with her. Please don't make these kinds of assumptions. I even stated that support is secondary. If I don't get it, it will make life difficult for me and my daughter, but it is not anywhere as important as winning custody itself. She will get her visitation time regardless. She was great for the first 3 years. She changed drastically when she started…
/r/MensRights16/05/18 01:00 PM
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I'm going to be refining my evidence over the next month before our hearing and the fact that I've been primary and had my daughter more during this separation time will be at the forefront. I counted up on the calendar, and during the last 8 weeks, not counting the days we each had her for half, I've had my daughter 34 days compared to my ex's 15. She wants 50/50, but that's obviously not happening and not going to work.
/r/MensRights16/05/18 02:06 AM
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I like this idea. Thank you for it. This will be good for her when she's an adult, regardless of what happens.
/r/MensRights16/05/18 01:44 AM
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I looked the law up before I did it and it said only one party had to be aware.
/r/MensRights15/05/18 10:35 PM
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I will go for all of that, thank you! And I will definitely be posting a follow up when this is finally over in a few months.
/r/MensRights15/05/18 04:26 PM
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Okay thanks. I'm definitely going to try having him there with me. He's a great lawyer. 20 years experience and a former state cop. I know him through family so he will give me a good deal, but it won't be free and I'm currently broke because of how this played out.
/r/MensRights15/05/18 04:25 PM
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I have a lawyer. We were never married, so I don't believe I can go after alimony..? The empty bottle was a week old. The point of bringing up the alcohol and cigarettes is she's creating an unsafe environment for my daughter. I understand those are weak bits, but I'm bringing forward everything I have.
/r/MensRights15/05/18 03:28 PM
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Thank you!
/r/MensRights15/05/18 03:18 PM
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"Give me a fat slut who cooks and does dishes." - Marshall Mathers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 04:39 PM
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It would be vastly more cost effective to just hire a maid service to help them out for a weekend.
/r/MensRights06/01/18 06:33 PM
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Someone's who's good at trolling doesn't get called out on the first reply.
/r/MensRights03/11/17 04:37 PM
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Which is extra dumb because people could be posting arguments that favor their position. Not everyone who posts in a thread is subscribed to the sub and not everyone who is subscribed necessarily agrees with the subject. Hell, some people just wander in from r/all and aren't even aware what sub they're in sometimes. Case in point - I'm not subscribed to this sub, yet here I am thanks to r/all.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/08/17 01:47 AM
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as a form of insult? She didn't. You just took it as an insult. Your post is clear-cut male worship so it's a pretty logical conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 03:30 PM
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I am right on the border between Gen X and Millennial It wasn't like this for previous generations, so there is quick tendency to dismiss the issues with harmful and ignorant phrases like, "you're too lazy" or "kids don't work hard enough."
/r/MensRights02/07/17 04:58 PM
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Who said anything about oppression? I thought it was funny and mildly indicative of how much society shows interest in women over men.
/r/MensRights04/06/17 03:32 PM
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Sounds like a problem with you and not him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 07:01 PM
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they were ever that desperate Desperation is an assumption. Men do not need to be desperate to visit a brothel. Example: He's really busy with work and doesn't want to devote time to a relationship right now, but has plenty of disposable income. It's a case of "I can do it, so why not?"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 06:51 PM
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The question wasn't about legality, though. The assumption in OP's premise is that it's both safe and legal. Regardless, a person can visit a brothel for many reasons beyond being lazy, cheating, or insatiable. It could be simply to fulfill a fetish desire, a relief between relationships, or a checkbox on a bucket list.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 06:44 PM
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I'm well aware my dude, but thanks for looking out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/17 04:49 PM
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A couple nights ago my GF was on top and she bounced a bit too high and it slipped out and she landed on it and it bent a little. That was pretty rough, but we made it through.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/17 04:16 PM
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until men grew up What does that even mean? Until men stop playing video games? Until men get a real job? Until men own their own car or house? Or is it about emotional stability? Willingness to commit? Is that it? You have to be willing to commit to one woman to be considered a "grown up?" Have to want kids? I keep seeing all these comments about "non-men" and how men "need to grow up" and I don't think I've ever rolled my eyes harder. Are there also women who are "non-women" and "need to grow …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 07:20 PM
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Unfortunately we have a lot of reactionaries here who can't deal with it. The hate is so strong for them that someone saying "I used to like Amy Schumer" is cause for alarm.
/r/MensRights07/05/17 03:32 PM
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Ah, so you came here to add nothing to the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 03:56 PM
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Okay, keep arguing in the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 03:46 PM
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You don't understand how it works. If there's 10 people in a room and 8 of them say "She's a 10" and 2 of them say "She's a 4" it means she's a 10. The scale is ultimately decided by the majority. There are a LOT of 10's out there. Would every guy agree that each is a 10? No. That isn't the point. That was never the point. You're making up an argument that isn't there. No one is having it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 03:40 PM
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I replied to this: Send me a picture of a few 10s to settle the matter. And in addition, I'm saying your argument that "10's don't exist cuz objectivity" is a shitty premise to begin with. No one on this planet uses the 10/10 scale and says it's objective. Even the other guy you were replying to wasn't making that argument. I know looks are subjective. But where I live there's loads of women that men would deemed 10's. You're the only one talking about the scale being objective.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 03:12 PM
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The 10/10 scale isn't about complete objectivity. Who told you it was? Did you not read my reply at all? Here it is again with the main points highlighted: Obviously not 100% of the world would agree. That's a ridiculous notion to have. The point of the scale is that the vast majority would agree, and I guarantee they would. Believe what you want though because clearly that's all you're willing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 02:58 PM
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This is a retarded topic then. You're just going to say no to make me wrong. You have nothing to back it up. I'm just wrong because some dude in Africa hates white women or something. Obviously not 100% of the world would agree. That's a ridiculous notion to have. The point of the scale is that the vast majority would agree, and I guarantee they would. Believe what you want though because clearly that's all you're willing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 02:49 PM
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Youre a woman. You don't get a say here. We're talking about men's perceptions of women, are we not?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 02:38 PM
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I'm not the guy you asked, but the woman in this gif is a 10/10: https://www.reddit.com/r/UNBGBBIIVCHIDCTIICBG/comments/68ma1x/zooooooom/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 02:24 PM
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TIL I'm low class for being in a committed relationship that didn't involve paperwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 05:01 PM
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I'm a man and I second this. In fact, I have a reverse situation going. A few years ago I was making around $50k/yr salary and had a baby on the way. I offered (wanted) her to be a stay-at-home mom so I could focus and expand my career without having to do the shuffle and worry about our daughter, but she insisted on working to the point that she was at her job up until about 2 weeks before labor and returned about 2 weeks after. Cut to 3 years later and I'm a stay-at-home dad and she's pulling …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 06:30 PM
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Wow. That's a lot of bitter, lonely men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 06:04 PM
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Don't be dishonest. You know damn well that's not what my comment was for. Stealing people's money isn't justifiable, even if the money is used to help women that got pregnant by a lowlife man. Grow up u/nuesuh.
/r/MensRights15/02/17 06:56 PM
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Fuck kids, amirite? They're only the future.
/r/MensRights15/02/17 06:03 PM
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That's one hell of a strawman OP built up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 03:41 PM
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Steve Harvey welcomes one of the most notorious newsmakers of the '90s — Lorena Bobbitt! She shares her hilarious and harrowing story of abuse that led her do the unthinkable to her husband. Incredible.
/r/MensRights22/01/17 07:30 PM
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It reads like "The Onion."
/r/MensRights03/12/16 04:11 PM
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It's not satire? It has to be satire. They're serious? Jesus Christ
/r/MensRights03/12/16 03:38 PM
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Except there were women with careers 50 years ago. Also, alimony can go both ways. Alimony exists because one spouse can sacrifice their work life for the other. I'm a stay at home dad because we have a young daughter and my wife has a really good career that requires her to work a lot of hours at odd times of the day. If she decided to drop me after 15 years of this I'd be screwed. I'd have a massive gap in my resume and all because I set my own career aside to support hers. Alimony makes sense…
/r/MensRights29/10/16 04:20 PM
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I was accepting it. Okay. BTW, I think the Bible is shit too, but it was written by men. Just, you know, FYI.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 05:08 PM
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Sorry, but what? Sensitive is wimpy therefore harsh is masculine? You don't even make sense. These things don't correlate. Nice try though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 05:06 PM
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Where did I say you said it? It's your attitude. Brushing off my comment, and the ones before, as if you know better, despite claiming you can't possibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 04:48 PM
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I like how you get all snarky like you know masculinity better while simultaneously saying you can't define it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 04:43 PM
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Being strong is masculine. Being harsh is douchey. Source: Am man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 04:38 PM
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Every time Amy Schumer talks about her vagina I lose my f*cking mind.
/r/MensRights30/09/16 08:37 PM
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Could you please explain the difference between objectification and "expressing attraction" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 04:05 PM
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So no one should care about anyone? Okay then. I think that wraps it up. I need to sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 08:38 AM
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I didn't expect efukt.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 08:30 AM
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Sex is part of the relationship. Yes. But if you are hoping for the relationship to last the rest of your life, why are you in such a hurry to have sex? Why aren't you? Don't you like the build up and anticipation? Sure, if it's the first date and I literally just met you - otherwise, no. I wouldn't ask a girl out on a date if I wasn't attracted to her. Waiting is just waiting. You are never going to get to experience that again for the rest of your life. You are never going to have a chance to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 08:23 AM
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She can very well believe she is relationship material. ..and I can believe I'm an ink jet printer. We are the sum of our experience. If my experience is banging a bunch of strangers then that's who I am. We are no one to judge if it's not our relationship, but the conversation is based on our personal perspective. I am the judge because I have to be to participate in debate. I have to pick a side at some point, and I'm on the side of "be who you want to be, but don't expect anyone to respect th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 07:49 AM
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A guy who truly wants this won't look at other guys and think, "lucky bastards got sex without a relationship", he will think "poor bastards lost their chance to have a relationship with this women and now she's all mine". I disagree with this, but agree with the rest. Sex is not the reward, it's a part of the relationship. If you're young and sexually active, purposely not having sex to "try someone out" when you just banged 3 Chads last month is completely broken. If you're going to engage in …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 07:45 AM
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No, I don't. That's like my entire point. They aren't which is why they should not pretend to be. You cannot logically be both, and certainly not within a short period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 07:37 AM
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I really did not think I would be on efukt today. Jesus Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 07:32 AM
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No, but we're talking about one night stands, which are equatable. Intentions don't change the outcome. If you're willing to have sex with 'A' but not 'B' then what reason does 'B' have to trust you won't go right back to 'A' when you get a little bored. It's such a shaky ground to start a relationship on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 07:27 AM
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I am looking for guys who also want to take things slow This is not the context of the conversation. We're talking about a woman who sleeps around on the regular, only stopping when she finds someone she "cares about." If a guy tried to have sex with me on the first date, I'd simply never see him again. ...but you'd still have sex? A guy who tries to have sex with you without knowing you is pretty much a sleeze. What you're telling me, if I'm understanding this right, is a sleeze gets "it" with …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 07:02 AM
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Women can have sex with 100 people and then change the next day and say they want to take things slow. Sure, they can. Good luck finding someone to take you seriously. Some men might say they can't - and those men don't matter. Again, good luck to anyone with finding a man who's going to take that seriously. I cannot fathom any guy saying "Yeah, she banged 100 dudes last year, buuuuuut this year's gonna be different."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 06:59 AM
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Why should "men" care what "women" like, then? Honestly, what you're saying sounds very cold. What you're saying to me sounds like "Women should make men wait if they really like them, but men should just leave if women make them wait." These are very conflicting thought processes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 06:11 AM
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There's nothing wrong with waiting. We're not talking about one or the other, we're talking about both. My point is, you can't be both. It's dishonest to your partner and shady at best. If you don't want a reputation, don't make one for yourself, and if it doesn't matter then don't worry about it or make excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 06:06 AM
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"Eventually" is not an objective amount of time. If she's is ignoring his emotions then she does not value them. She does not want a relationship. Are you going to respond to anything more than snippets from what I've said?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 05:02 AM
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There are always exceptions, but guys who want to bail are going to bail. You didn't really answer any of my questions. Do women think men like getting used for free stuff and strung along? I don't speak for all men, but as a man I do not wish to be compartmentalized in such a way. To me, you're (proverbial you) either "like that" or you're not. It's your body and your right to do it, but picking and choosing who gets a freebie and who has to really earn it comes off as selfish. It's "having you…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 04:38 AM
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Do women not get dressed up and shave and wear make up when they go out and have a one night stand? Why is this process more valuable when a woman is seeking a relationship? Aren't both men ultimately getting the same thing, in regards to what you've stated, only one doesn't have to wait because he doesn't care about you or what you do and just wants to get on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 03:47 AM
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are men really unaware of how often a man bails after a woman bangs him? He was always going to bail. Why is it a-okay if you know this up front, but not if you're 'not sure' ? What separates these men in terms of sexual attraction if, as you say, sex isn't as important as a relationship? Would you not want to know right away? Why drag it out only to get pumped and dumped after a few cheap dates? Men in general base a large portion of their self worth on women's attraction to them. Sex is the ul…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 03:31 AM
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Shouldn't a relationship be determined by both parties giving each other what the other wants? Why do sex and relationship forming have to be mutually exclusive? Can a relationship not form if sex is involved initially?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 03:14 AM
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Off with her head!
/r/PussyPass18/05/16 03:24 PM
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"Feminism is about equality"
/r/MensRights22/04/16 04:33 PM
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Notorious B.I.G. started recording his first major album in 1993. It was at that point that maximum gangster had been reached. You just couldn't be any harder than that. By the time Biggie released One More Chance in 95' the rap culture had shifted greatly from robbing, looting, and raping "bitches" to dealing, poppin' bottles, and seducing "bitches" by flashing the cash you earned. He also brought down the spread of HIV with a single rhyme: "I used to get feels on a bitch. Now I throw shields o…
/r/MensRights25/03/16 07:15 PM
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No, it's not.
/r/MensRights28/02/16 06:08 PM
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Why?
/r/MensRights28/02/16 06:07 PM
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Personally, I think any attention is flattering regardless of who is giving it. If a 500 lb ogre of a woman says I look good, I smile and say thank you like any decent human being would. If anyone eyes me up and down I giggle and feel good about my appearance. It's nice to be appreciated.
/r/MensRights11/02/16 04:46 PM
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but but but you can clean it better! /s
/r/MensRights25/01/16 06:54 PM
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Or stop hooking up with sluts.
/r/MensRights12/01/16 11:04 PM
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Unfortunately, it seems he has quite a small chance of winning. He's beating Hillary more and more every day and leading in several state's polls.
/r/MensRights12/01/16 11:03 PM
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This is infuriating.
/r/MensRights22/12/15 08:51 PM
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When someone has priors, they typically receive harsher penalties than others for the same (or even lesser) crime.
/r/MensRights13/12/15 11:29 PM
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As if she and her sisters-in-arms somehow stopped men from catcalling because, you know, it's always been such an epidemic. Sorry Jessica, men just aren't interested in you. They never really were. I doubt she was ever really 'catcalled' to begin with.
/r/MensRights20/07/15 07:28 PM
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Wow NYPD. It's like they want people to go out and riot.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 05:29 AM
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Would you be my friend on Facebook? =D
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 04:16 AM
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I'm a father and am currently at home with my daughter. My wife is at work. Should I be concerned for my daughter's safety?
/r/MensRights06/05/15 02:43 PM
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