TheRealBobaFettt Archive

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2	The “don’t approach women IRL” is a zoomer thing…right? We grew up with the beginning of the internet and the paranoia that brought when people dived deep into the early internet. With conservative poor parents I didn’t have that many chances to socialize. Add in that I was a quiet nerdy kid with ADHD who loved to read books and watch old movies and it was a perfect recipe for disaster. I fell into online forums that were very specific to my interests of paintball, cars, cycling etc and was able to talk to people easier than I’d be able to in real li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/23 03:11 PM
1	Women of Reddit, what is your actual body count vs. the body count you tell the men you're with when they ask? Been asked before and after getting a negative reaction about my real number, somewhere around 160-180, I now say 40. People get really self conscious even at that number and it’s a good gauge to their judgement of others. I don’t think it’s a bad thing to have a high libido. It’s a bad thing to be unsafe about it. I’ve only not worn protection a handful of times of those 160+ and literally have never gotten an STD. Had one partner say 90 the first time the question was brought up and 50 the nex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/23 08:48 PM
1	Do you like the opposite gender? I think this may be true for a lot of people! And that is why I dislike men. I’m a man myself but I get along better with women in general. I work at a hospital and most of my coworkers are wonderful. The few that are bad are 80% men. Mostly because of their attitudes and vocal opinions on a lot of things ranging to politics, religion and their view on women. The rest because they just suck at their jobs. I don’t get along well with most guys probably because I’m not a traditional manly man and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/23 11:59 PM
1	RP men what is your age and what is the age range of women you’d be willing to seriously date? I’m 28. I’d seriously date in the age ranges 22-45.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/23 01:40 AM
3	If you want to marry someone, what n-count would you tell them you have? I’m somewhere between 180 and 200 as a 28 year old male. I tend to omit these numbers when telling people because it seems so shocking for some reason. I usually don’t tell partners that and say around 40 so I don’t sound too promiscuous. I’ve never had an STD and only had one pregnancy scare so I’d like to think I was very safe. Either way this number shocks some and turns off others so I say 40.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 11:17 PM
4	What was your experience dating a girl with a high body count? Slut shaming is way too huge in our society for some reason. A high body count isn’t a red flag. Liking sex isn’t a red flag. Previous cheating, acceptance of cheating and other things are red flags. My current partner has a body count near mine which is quite high. It has been the healthiest relationship where I feel validated, desired and cared for. We also have the best sex of my life.	/r/seduction	02/10/22 08:02 PM
10	If you are walking a straight line and the girl os the only clear bumping into you, does that mean she likes you? It possible they just can’t walk in a straight line. I have duck feet so I never walk in a straight line and bump into people whether I like them or not.	/r/seduction	19/09/22 05:49 PM
4	Do all men wish their current girlfriend was a virgin before him? Hell no! I want her to know what she wants and likes!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 06:28 PM
1	How important are lingerie and sexy clothes I absolutely love lingerie on a partner! That being said it’s not the most important thing. Some people aren’t comfortable in those types of clothes, I don’t mind however, everyone is beautiful naked.	/r/seduction	15/08/22 11:33 PM
2	Womens body count There is no wrong number to have for anyone. It’s completely arbitrary. You can be a great lover having only had one partner if you communicate well. The ideal number depends on who you’re asking. A conservative person might not want some who’s had more than 3 sexual partners, an even crazier ideal might be to want a virgin partner. On the other end of the spectrum one might want a partner who is experienced or won’t want to keep playing the field and in these cases a higher number may be ideal.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/22 12:25 AM
1	CMV: "Make lots of platonic friends with women" is generally terrible as dating advice It’s not terrible dating advise per se. You can’t bank on getting with your female friends’ friends but what you can bet is that women outside of her friends will see you with women. That is a signal that you are potentially not a creep and aren’t there alone to pick up chicks. I think it makes you more approachable for sure. Whenever I’m in a group dancing with friends it’s a lot easier for people to come up and start asking questions. This is far better than trying to muddy the waters by hooki…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/22 08:27 PM
1	Gentlemen: how self-conscious of your face? And do you prefer to have "work done"? I’m classically handsome but at 27 have begun to show some age. I still don’t think I’d ever consider surgeries unless I was disfigured. I have a scar by my eye from a motorcycle accident that I don’t even want be fixed. I’ve developed a slight ptosis as a result but even that doesn’t bother me too much, I already had a crooked smile anyways. I’ll end up like Forest Whittaker in a decade or so. I would love a good friend to tell me if I looked bad. I gained close to 45 pounds a few years back an…	/r/seduction	15/12/21 08:03 PM
6	What's the psychology behind women who are into rough play, bdsm, slutty behaviour? I’m a Dom switch and I’ve spent time time discussing and wondering how it is I became how I am. In my job I’m told what to do everyday with little to no input on my part of what to do. So in the bedroom I like to be in control and dominating my partner. Inherently I’m very giving and love to ensure my partner is as satisfied as possible. I can also be a pretty damn good sub! I think stemming from my history of abuse I’ve come to love pain. Nothing ridiculous but hard slapping, choking, hair pull…	/r/seduction	15/12/21 07:11 PM
2	Fuck the game I find that if I put too much time and effort into it, you get diminishing returns and it stops being fun or even worth it. Find a happy medium and stay around there. There are many other worthy passions aside from sleeping with copious amounts of women.	/r/seduction	09/12/21 12:02 AM
1	[deleted by user] You have to see value in yourself to have someone see value in you. You should think of yourself as a catch and if you don’t, make changes until you do. If it’s truly something like past trauma, definitely see a therapist to help get through it and get to positive self worth.	/r/seduction	18/10/21 09:16 PM
4	Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret? While it wasn’t as fulfilling as I thought, it sure felt good, boosted my confidence and let me know I was able to select an ideal partner as well. I was never super successful with women until I adopted my own style. My rule of thumb is “it’s always okay to be overdressed but not underdressed”. For years I played it safe with the common trends and looked like everyone else. After 21 I decided to change my style and stopped dressing like a child. This has been the single most important aspect of…	/r/seduction	18/10/21 08:39 PM
2	I already scheduled a date for the weekend but the girl still initiates conversations on text. Definitely continue conversations that are initiated. Maybe hold off on the good morning/night texts and you should be good.	/r/seduction	07/10/21 01:01 AM
18	Do small women even like small guys? Can confirm that even short girls often times want tall guys for no other reason than to feel small. 4’9 ex wouldn’t date anyone under 5’10 even though she’s small to practically anyone	/r/seduction	20/09/21 04:58 PM
2	Posture SYMMETRY!	/r/seduction	08/06/21 04:01 PM