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My pleasure. I think you'd be surprised. I can tell you first hand art related hobbies will likely have a lot of women involved in those.
/r/seduction22/04/26 05:09 PM
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Oil Painting/Live Drawing, hiking groups, beach cleanup, things which show you either have a deeper side or care about others.
/r/seduction22/04/26 04:06 PM
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Just be careful of not coming across as a f-boy. Be genuine, be confident, develop interesting hobbies, especially those where you meet other people. Talk to several people each day to build up your social intelligence without putting pressure on the outcome.
/r/seduction21/04/26 05:51 PM
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Yep. It's the irony of a girl you're not into you can act a lot more cool and nonchalant, where a girl you do like it's hard to hide your eagerness.
/r/seduction01/04/26 07:05 PM
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Communication. Talk to them, be open an honest without being mean about it. Be understanding, be kind in saying that you're not in a spot where you're looking for something serious, that you would love to continue spending time with them in a more casual relationship but that you totally understand they might not be looking for the same thing as you are, and then be totally cool if they say that doesn't work for them. Being confusing and just adding distance ends up being more of a jerk move, wh…
/r/seduction09/03/26 05:47 PM
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Half +7 rule. So for you, as long as they're above 41, it would be fine. For 32 it would be 23. There's definitely a power imbalance with a 32 vs 20 year old, but as long as OP knows what they're getting into and doesn't marry them or something, it's probably fine.
/r/seduction18/07/25 05:38 PM
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It is all relative and trying to compare yourself to others is a bad mindset. However, your focus should be on if you are better than you were yesterday. If you can improve 1% consistently, then you will be miles ahead of where you were and honestly probably miles ahead of 80% of men after a while because most people in general don't focus on self improvement.
/r/seduction16/06/24 06:39 PM
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Her - "How'd you do that?" Me - "With style petite... with style." (Ok that's Gambit from X-Men but still)
/r/seduction10/06/24 10:34 PM
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Part of it isn't exactly what you're saying, but how you're saying it. If you can making a random line like "You know carrots are good for your eyes right?" and make it cool and flirty, then boom, you have an opening line.
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:53 AM
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Looking good just opens the door easier, but you need a good/fun personality to keep them interested.
/r/seduction04/04/22 04:56 PM
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It's why it's good to warmup by starting conversations with a few random people you don't know. No worries, it happens to the best of us.
/r/seduction25/04/18 03:11 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction02/04/18 08:04 PM
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Don't buy a woman a drink with the expectation she will like you, buy a person a drink because you're having a good time and want to share it. But if you're buying it so they like you, then you're half a step from treating her like a prostitute. "I'm giving you money or a commodity so you will sleep with me" is the essential long term connotation with that action most of the time. If you are interesting and they like you, they won't care about you buying a drink. No woman refuses George Clooney …
/r/seduction09/02/17 06:17 AM
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Specifically don't be nice in order to gain someone's affection.
/r/seduction09/02/17 06:14 AM
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Just to add, an important part is understanding Why women are attracted to certain features more than just trying to brute force trick them into believing you have those. Women want a man who is a leader, protector, emotionally intelligent and confident. As OP was saying, being a better version of yourself. Understand how to demonstrate those aspects of yourself, and simply going out and talking with 6 women a day (while keeping track of how they respond to your conversation) and you will go far
/r/seduction09/02/17 06:12 AM
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I found The Natural to not be quite as good as a book as say Mystery Method for learning methodology, but I think his live talks and examples are amazing.
/r/seduction05/12/16 10:12 PM
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Could be any combination of the above honestly. Depends how serious your relationship was with her and how long she's potentially been seeing another guy. Could just be a family weekend, she could've spent it with her boyfriend, maybe she was just busy with black Friday.
/r/seduction27/11/16 01:29 AM
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Don't over think it. If you want, text her saying you're heading out and for her to join you otherwise you'll chat tomorrow. Basically do what you want to do, if she wants to be a part of that cool, if not, no biggie. This goes for the entire relationship. The thing you should challenge yourself to do is to go do interesting things, both to better yourself, and because women will naturally be more interested
/r/seduction27/11/16 01:17 AM
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Why didn't she get back to you before today, two days later? Probably because she was out doing stuff with family or friends(or boyfriend in this case), same thing with you if you wait a day. If you're over eager to get back to her, it shows you're desperate and she has no ramifications for ignoring you. And it's not like you're punishing her or being rude, you just have your own life. You want to be chased, not chase after her. You don't have to wait till class, but you can easily wait a day an…
/r/seduction27/11/16 01:05 AM
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Rule of thumb is wait about as long as she took to get back to you otherwise you're the one tring to get her attention instead of the reverse, so unless she was asking you out, wait till tomorrow at least. In the meantime try to go out tonight(a bookstore if not a bar) and start some conversations with new girls.
/r/seduction27/11/16 12:36 AM
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Women rarely choose to be single, it's better for them to be in a long term relationship, casually seeing one or more people, or looking to exit her current relationship when she finds someone who she can leave him for. Socially it's a bit of a detriment to just be single. I'd try to figure out, by talking to her if you want by saying you'd heard she had a boyfriend and was curious what the situation was without being accusatory, and if it's the first situation say there's no judgements but it's…
/r/seduction26/11/16 11:34 PM
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To paraphrase La Ruina, being up with trends is a good way to show that you're social, and likely hangout with other people up with trends. People who are behind on trends or unfashionable likely have weaker social links and don't get out often.
/r/seduction16/11/16 12:22 AM
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Because most other people don't put in the effort to make a post like this. Even if one disagrees with elements or even most of this, its still good to consider the aspects that are being affected and make sure you have a consideration in your own life and approach.
/r/seduction16/11/16 12:19 AM
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Regarding hair, I'd recommend maybe trying out new haircuts at really good salons, take photos and figure out what you want, then only use barbers to have it done. The more important thing imo is to learn how to style your hair on your own.
/r/seduction16/11/16 12:16 AM
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Rule of thumb, if this is at a bar or club and a girl is by herself she is likely waiting for someone. She most likely is either waiting on friends or a date to meet her. Better to wait a few minutes and then open the group then be interrupted. If no one has come by about 10 minutes, then go ahead and start a conversation. You can always just start a cool conversation without it coming across as hitting on them, while still building attraction.
/r/seduction13/10/16 01:18 AM
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I personally after opening and chatting for a minute I like to tease her about something like "I bet you drag your boyfriend to all the shoe stores don't you?" And she can respond with enough info to figure out if she has a boyfriend or not.
/r/seduction13/10/16 01:15 AM
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The rule of thumb is when you walk in, talk to the first person/group to your left. Start a conversation about anything but it sets you up to talk to anyone else there. Other groups won't just assume you're by yourself and it warms you up
/r/seduction21/05/16 07:44 AM
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Its the type of thing you need to practice saying in very different ways to be able to see how you can elicit a good emotional response. It has to be sweet, honest, and inviting. But its not the sort of thing you can just send without knowing how to properly emote when saying it.
/r/seduction22/04/16 01:20 AM
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Thank you! This is the kind of stuff I wish was on here more than it is.
/r/seduction22/04/16 01:09 AM
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For those curious
/r/seduction11/02/16 04:51 AM
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When its a birthday or whatnot and you need a card: Take a piece of paper, fold it in half, write something sweet, pick up something off the ground, like a leaf or flower or whatever, and have what you write mention it in a romantic way "You're the leaf that keeps me riding the winds", and I guarantee you that she will be in complete lust for you. Zero other guys will have ever done that, and its one of the easiest things in the world. Credit to Nick Offerman for this.
/r/seduction22/05/15 07:54 PM
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For scenario 2, have her stop inside your place first before heading to the nearby bar. That way she can see your place is nice, clean, and cool to be in, and then after the bar she isn't intimidated about going back to your place since she's already been in there.
/r/seduction08/05/15 04:52 PM
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And bots, don't forget the bots.
/r/seduction09/02/15 08:05 PM
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Questions about jobs, or where someone's from aren't good because they're generic surface questions. Its better to do a cold read and let the person respond. "You look like an artist. I bet there's a side to you that seeks to express that but is a bit trapped because of what you have to do for a living." This sort of line technically could apply to anyone but is much deeper and unique than "What do you do for a living?"
/r/seduction05/08/14 03:34 PM
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First: Good on you for not paying, it not only keeps you from putting her on a pedestal and be confident in yourself, but also helps keep the guy from thinking that the girl "owes" him after the date. Advice: Don't do a first date where either party "pays". Some fantastic first dates are taking her to the museum, an art show, poetry reading etc. All are interesting dates where you can have great conversations and should all be free. So there's no issue with who's gonna pay. Also good to avoid th…
/r/seduction04/06/14 07:49 PM
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Better to create a sense of mystery. In truth they don't care about your name(at least before they meet you), but more about the vibe you give off. And as swordfsh says, if they ask, it means they're invested.
/r/seduction28/04/14 07:37 AM
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For your place have her come pick you up and go someplace by you(you can say it makes more sense instead of going back and forth to pick her up). Invite her in for a sec while you grab your coat or something then head out. By her being in your home, even for a minute or two, it places far less tension for at the end of the date since shes already seen it and knows you have a cool friendly place to be. At the end just invite her back to watch a movie or something and take it from there.
/r/seduction06/02/14 07:51 PM
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Rule of thumb: don't take a date to a bar. A) Drinking can inhibit your game B) Its a place where other guys specifically go to pick up women. As you saw here, you were vulnerable and they outplayed you. If you do go, go with a group or go to a place where single guys don't go.
/r/seduction05/02/14 04:31 AM
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This is however a good exercise for breaking out of your shell and realizing that even in a scenario where you'd likely be rejected, it likely won't be too bad(unless you're a jerk or come off as creepy).
/r/seduction05/12/13 02:52 AM
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Spanky. You can always tease that you just mean the "Little Rascal". Or just go into finding out that they like being spanked.
/r/seduction20/08/13 06:30 AM
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"If he's dressed like Lincoln and says he has an Erection Proclamation, he may be a womanizer."
/r/seduction03/08/13 09:03 PM
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I recommend going to a free acting or improv group in your area. it's good practice and they'll probably do some exercises for voice control.
/r/seduction20/06/13 07:02 PM
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Definitely agree with rondeline as well. Only exception is if you can make it extremely playful in a Craig Ferguson type way.
/r/seduction08/06/13 10:59 PM
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Eh, at that point he was shut out, you have to ride the line pretty carefully at that point as you might seem too aggressive. Especially if you're saying you want to hit on her and she already internally rejected you, then she might have to put on the "bitch" mask to force you away from her.
/r/seduction08/06/13 10:53 PM
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Hmm, Mystery did focus on a lot of those aspects as well, things like the bodyrock, or smoothing your speech, etc.
/r/seduction06/06/13 04:26 PM
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Part of the idea of mystery method is "fake it till you make it". If you don't realize your own potential, acting as a character helps break that mental barrier, helping you realize that you can absolutely be that person in a real sense. The pretending is a crutch for the beginning stages, not meant for the long term.
/r/seduction06/06/13 04:23 PM
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Too much? Sure. Too soon? Not really. If you wanna appear as just another average guy, call two days later. If you want to show you're confident and don't care, call her up that day, call her a dork and tell her you gotta go. You want her to become familiar to you calling or texting her so that when you contact her again a day or two later to actually go out, its not something foreign and therefore suspicious without the emotional excitement you originally created.
/r/seduction09/05/13 01:50 AM
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Only warning would be, do your research, don't be cheap. If you do this sort of thing you'll want to be safe and know it'll be a decent experience. You'll want whoever you see to be worthwhile, especially if you're a cash starved college student.
/r/seduction08/05/13 08:41 PM
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How quickly is your friend contacting them? I suspect with this type of thing you'd need to call them within an hour or two to keep the chemistry going. Even if its just a quick five second phone call to tease them.
/r/seduction08/05/13 08:37 PM
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To quote Bill & Ted's Excellent Adventure: "Be excellent to each other."
/r/seduction09/03/13 09:36 AM
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Museum. Its free, hours of getting to know each other, you can be deep, you can be funny, but its likely something not done by most guys.
/r/seduction11/02/13 10:15 AM
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Perfection is a path, not a destination.
/r/seduction17/09/12 05:19 PM
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Hell, in addition to what everyone else has said, there's always a good alley way. Just depends if you're bar hopping or going on a date.
/r/seduction12/08/12 12:21 AM
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I originally heard it from Brad P. years ago. A pro PUA. I recommended downloading his audio stuff.
/r/seduction12/08/12 12:17 AM
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There's tons of material you can use with this. I'm mexican american and I play up the spanish romantic figure. As asian you could totally use eastern spiritualism to seem like the wisest and most thought provoking man she's met in years.
/r/seduction03/08/12 11:05 PM
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If you don't let go of attachment, the chakras will lock, and you'll never be able to achieve the Avatar State!!
/r/seduction24/07/12 10:30 PM
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My guess is she may've been raped in the past, and while she doesn't want to still be in that place, she finds it very hard to have sex because she'll have an anxiety attack, resulting in her freaking out.
/r/seduction31/03/12 06:21 PM
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FYI if you just type /r/nootropics, reddit should automatically create a link. for any subreddit.
/r/seduction27/03/12 09:25 PM
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This is a great example that typically the worst that happens is a woman will politely excuse herself. Approaching almost never happens in a way that deserves the fear most guys have of it.
/r/seduction26/03/12 05:21 AM
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But now I can't directly emulate someone else!!! Damn you Nietzsche!!
/r/seduction15/02/12 12:25 AM
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Its weird, they can get a lot of small stuff right, but big stuff wrong.
/r/seduction12/01/12 11:50 PM
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A good number of Barney's routines are too desperate imo. Most PUA material is about openers being casual. Unless you established yourself as an alpha male and the "cool guy" in that environment, your standing out with this routine could get you laughed at for being different.
/r/seduction23/12/11 09:22 PM
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I find the Reductio ad absurdum fallacy to be great for playing off of girls and this is a good example of it.
/r/seduction22/11/11 05:01 PM
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Gay guys can be cool wingmen, but they can also cock block when it comes to guys they don't know and girls they do. Not that it can't be handled like any other group. My recommendation like any other situation is if you're going to a gay bar, go there intending to enjoy yourself whether or not there's hot girls there. Then obviously if there are, go ahead and pick them up.
/r/seduction07/10/11 11:52 PM
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Ok, after 3 years of knowing someone, sure go ahead and buy them a drink every once in a while. But if its the first night, buying a drink is either a crutch or you're essentially trying to purchase affection.
/r/seduction24/09/11 07:51 AM
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I suspect you replied to the wrong post.
/r/seduction16/04/11 06:42 PM
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Negging usually only applies to girls who are hit on 5 times a day, since it makes you standout and shows you're not just some guy trying to sleep with her. If she's only average looking and doesn't get that sort of attention, you probably don't need to neg(or atleast do it subtley). In that case as long as you show confidence, you'll be fine.
/r/seduction16/04/11 03:31 PM
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This is partly why its recommended to just flirt with as many women as humanly possible, and set goals for yourself, some which might get you burned, but forces you out of your comfort zone. One might be first night meeting a girl at bar or club, you must kiss close her before she leaves. If you day game, you must kiss close her by halfway in the date, not at the end. You might get rejected early on, but you start learning how to escalate to that point properly, and work on getting that goal eve…
/r/seduction16/04/11 01:19 AM
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Tonight! Right Now! You want her to be used to you contacting her. It can be simple, it can be easy. Something like "Hey Candy lips, drive safe and sleep well". If she replies back then you're set. But don't send any more texts after that. Then you can contact her tomorrow or the day after for the date. If you wait a day or two without contacting her at all, she could meet someone else and not care about you anymore. You need to keep the excitement going for her. Likewise if every other guy foll…
/r/seduction09/04/11 08:57 AM
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There was one episode where they actually said some legit game tips, like be confident, isolate and subtly put her down(neg). But in general he is basically just a character and is fictional. He will also have horrible approaches making it obvious he just wants to sleep with her in a non alpha way, like joking about his devil halloween costume being "horny", pointing to the horns. I will say I now want to experiment with suiting up and use the "Have you met (name)" line.
/r/seduction07/04/11 08:56 PM
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To steal the quote Strauss uses alot, "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take" - Wayne Gretzky.
/r/seduction06/04/11 10:50 PM
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Aha! I was 21! Suck it nerds!! But seriously, don't let it worry you rationalthinker, if you dedicate yourself to becoming a better man, and be confident in everything you do, it'll happen pretty easily. Most important thing is to go out there, be social, and take risks believing you'll be an awesome success.
/r/seduction06/04/11 10:49 PM
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Yeah don't use magic tricks. Don't go to the bar looking to pick up chicks if you're still at a stage where you're nervous about it, go to the bar and get used to talking with strangers and meeting new people. All you need are question openers. Go really early that way you can start up conversations with people and when new people arrive, they'll just assume you're with another group. Later on when you're able to establish strong conversations and have girls already interested in you, then maybe…
/r/seduction24/03/11 01:40 AM
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No less kinky than your golden shower thing, eh?
/r/seduction20/03/11 09:33 PM
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I would suggest turning your body 45 degrees away from the person you're talking to so its not so intimidating while looking into their eyes. Its one of those evolutionary psychology things where if you face someone directly on and stare at them they'll feel like you're about to attack them.
/r/seduction20/03/11 09:32 PM
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Funky chicken does drop panties
/r/seduction11/03/11 02:36 AM
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That's why I don't like club game and dancing. Yeah a woman can be sexually excited for the moment, but as soon as the dance ends, she moves on. There's very little permanent or strong value created while dancing with a girl outside of physical attraction.
/r/seduction10/03/11 10:55 PM
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Not really true. Women can enjoy casual sex but evolutionary psychology suggests that since a woman can only get pregnant once every 9 months, she will be careful in who she chooses to be the father, especially if she's not already in a relationship, since in nature no father to protect mother and child means she could likely die. On the other hand men can impregnate a different woman multiple times a day with no negative effects to their genetic success. Hence why men tend to want to have more …
/r/seduction10/03/11 08:56 PM
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Totally! If you want a mathematician PUA, you look for Ian Malcolm!
/r/seduction09/03/11 11:17 PM
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Thanks :)
/r/seduction09/03/11 11:05 PM
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Either can be applied depending on your communication skills. You just have to be able to talk about it on a personal level. Philosophy and languages can be easier to apply though, such as talking to her about wants and dreams and is this reality, or do we just imagine its reality, stuff like that. Existentialism always tends to work well. The key is to make it personal. So with economics, focus on people's choices in life. You can talk about how hard it is for a single mother to find a job, and…
/r/seduction09/03/11 11:04 PM
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No bar dates! Either A) she could be hit on by another guy, or b) there's no value added by you by just taking her to another bar and it becomes repetitious. You want her to have varied experiences with you in order to trick her brain into thinking you've been seeing each other longer than you actually have, and for her to think you're exciting. It has to depend on the person, but I'd prefer a wine tasting to bar if you want alcohol, or you can do something like take her to a book store(if she's…
/r/seduction09/03/11 09:41 PM
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All women love intelligence, but you need to frame it from an emotional perspective. Men tend to be logical focused in brain psychology, women tend to be emotionally focused. Its why they enjoy a nice bath while men focus on the size of a tv(or other things). So the question becomes, how do you make your intelligence make her feel good? One thing I personally love is describing the stars and their movement over time, and how the zodiac has shifted a space due to that. I'll ask her questions aski…
/r/seduction09/03/11 04:52 AM
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Just be careful to try and have female friends who can be your pivots for the long term. Having a hot girl pivot for you makes immense difference and you don't want to burn that bridge by sleeping with them for later sarging.
/r/seduction07/03/11 11:06 PM
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Any other kiss close threads you'd recommend I check out? I only joined seddit a month or two ago.
/r/seduction07/03/11 10:27 PM
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I'm sure you can search for kiss close questions on various pua websites. Another one is simply asking "Do you want to kiss me?" If she says yes, you say "Come here", if she says maybe, you say "Lets find out" and pull her in, if she says no, you say "Good because I don't move that fast and you had this look on your face like you wanted to". The key thing more than anything else is to suggest the idea that she wants to kiss you. Be fun be loose and escalate the emotion of the situation before yo…
/r/seduction07/03/11 10:27 PM
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The problem is more subtle than simply paying for meals or not. It deals with what you're communicating about yourself and when being nice is used as a way of purchasing affection. Alpha males are nice for nice sake and don't care what other people feel about them, including women. When you're on a date and buying a meal, you're essentially purchasing affection in that she now is required to like you because you're being "nice" they now owe you. This is further backed up by experience where guys…
/r/seduction07/03/11 10:08 PM
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To Fallout's point, most girls just become intrigued rather than turned down. As long as you're strong in your emoting, you can make it be fun and interesting.
/r/seduction07/03/11 06:57 PM
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Don't let it annoy you, the goal is to just make her comfortable yet leave her wanting. You want to give then take away. Start making out passionately, then randomly get up and ask if she wants a drink while going to make yourself one. Then reengage and get up for another random reason. Her passion will and want will eventually take over and not want it to be taken away again that she'll be more forceful with wanting you. My suspicion from experience, and what I can gather by this story, would b…
/r/seduction07/03/11 06:46 PM
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Yeah that's it, thanks.
/r/seduction04/03/11 11:12 PM
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If she says she's not a great kisser, then she's not trying to impress you, implying she's not interested and doesn't want you to go in for a kiss. Which means you back up a step, do the tease as a disqualifier, then reengage her with another thread. Or if she's intrigued by the tease, you can continue that till you kiss. Its like if a girl asks a guy if he's good in bed, he'll say yes because he wants to sleep with her whether or not that's actually the case. Same with a girl and kissing. She'l…
/r/seduction04/03/11 11:11 PM
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If she's interested then she'll say 10, trust me. People naturally try to make themselves look impressive to people they want to impress. When it comes to kissing or sex, they'll be told they're really good at it at some point in their lives as a way of coaxing more out of them(positive reinforcement) so she'll have plenty of excuse to say 10. And worst case scenario if she does say 7 but is interested, then its too logical of a date, and not emotionally engaging enough, which would be the reaso…
/r/seduction04/03/11 11:03 PM
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My advice is don't try to get the kiss at the end of the date. Do it in the middle at some point that way there's not as much tension from her about whether or not you'll try to kiss her. Be spontaneous, and have a kiss close question if you need it. Naturally it depends on the girl, but I enjoy the "on a scale of 1 to 10 how good a kisser are you?" If she says 10 it means she wants to kiss you and you can respond with "Lets find out" if she says 7 then she's not interested and you can just teas…
/r/seduction04/03/11 10:33 PM
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