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9

Like twice in my life. Women usually shoot their shot in more indirect ways. Which I’ve had happen and handful of times but not very common at all.
/r/seduction03/07/26 12:41 AM
1

Yeah and the average person is broke as fuck and stupid so if you wanna be average go follow the trends
/r/seduction21/06/26 12:12 AM
1

Don’t respond, you owe them nothing
/r/seduction17/05/26 10:30 PM
10

40% is fucking insane. Meanwhile Reddit will tell you that you deserve to be divorced if you ask for a paternity test.
/r/MensRights14/05/26 01:38 PM
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Females are the ones who set female beauty standards, not men. They’re always so fast to tell you they don’t dress that way for anyone but themselves. And most guys I talk to prefer a much more natural looking woman than whatever most of them are doing to themselves now. Also they’re quick to take advantage of their looks when they’re young and hot but then hate it when they get older. Same story as every generation.
/r/MensRights09/05/26 09:48 PM
3

If they’re punching up they’re the ones who are saying they aren’t equals 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/MensRights07/05/26 09:24 PM
5

Nothing will happen.. same as now
/r/MensRights02/05/26 05:05 PM
52

I mean I feel like most guys kinda know this. You’re just not allowed to say it out loud.
/r/MensRights30/04/26 12:45 AM
30

And still didn’t get a single date btw
/r/seduction10/04/26 06:07 PM
10

I know this is anecdotal, but most of the women I work with are doing jobs that seem to be entirely replaceable or even just able to be eliminated entirely. I hate this for them and don’t support it, but there is a clear difference in the type of work they are doing and how necessary it is for the business compared to the average man I work with. Most of the women I work with are all non-technical, but still in “power” positions somehow. I don’t really get what value they offer, it certainly nev…
/r/MensRights22/03/26 12:06 AM
0

Because society is misandrist, what women want matters. What men want does not.
/r/seduction15/03/26 07:56 PM
6

That sums up pretty much everything in society not just murder
/r/MensRights15/03/26 12:06 AM
6

My company has a lot more women in middle management/director positions than men for sure.
/r/MensRights08/03/26 12:01 AM
18

There’s usually a reason they’re single.
/r/MensRights05/03/26 11:56 PM
6

I agree but the hard part is finding a girl that I actually like and is on that same vibe as me. So many girls are just so basic or wanna play mind games or they’re just boring tbh.
/r/seduction18/02/26 07:39 PM
2

Because women do the vast majority of consumer spending so advertisers all cater to them which means all of pop culture revolves around them. Really that simple.
/r/MensRights06/02/26 01:48 PM
18

And yet I bet Reddit would ban you for saying she deserves a similar level of cruelty for herself that she is wishing upon others.
/r/MensRights29/01/26 10:32 PM
6

She politely set a boundary about touching her, and you responded to that by trying to kiss her shortly after. Not sure what needs to be analyzed beyond that, seems pretty obvious how you blew it. Maybe pay attention next time? She was probably interested until she realized you’re pushy and don’t listen well.
/r/seduction26/01/26 10:23 PM
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Asking her to watch a movie that same night the second time you spoke to her is weird. I see the top comment says something about if the man she fantasizes about asked her, but that’s just not how women work. Attraction isn’t like a binary thing for most girls. A guy who looks like Henry Cavill could ask 100 women this and most, if not all, would say no. And not every girl wants some spontaneous plans like that. Planning a date in advance feels more intentional. In her mind she’s probably thinki…
/r/seduction26/01/26 01:14 AM
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There’s no such thing as good ones. If she was more into you she would have responded positively to it. Girls are sexual too. On to the next one brother. You can’t expect to build something without taking some risk. It happens to every guy at some point. Hell, I’ve had some girls bait it out of me and then pretend to be offended once they got what they were asking for. It’s a shit test. The key is to not let it bother you or act insecure about it afterwards. Act confident and like she’s the weir…
/r/seduction06/12/25 06:28 AM
1

Sometimes saying nothing is the best thing you can do. Even if it’s not the right moment for a kiss, being comfortable in silence is a very powerful thing. Especially if you can keep eye contact.
/r/seduction30/11/25 05:32 AM
2

My man stop overthinking it. One day is not too soon if yall got along well in person. You already got her out on one date, that’s the hardest part. She obviously has some level of interest already. If yall are still talking after that, then you have to assume there’s still some mutual interest right? So are you looking for pen pals or are you looking for someone to actually date? Guys who wait around not taking any action are not the ones who get the girl they want. And if she says no, then you…
/r/seduction12/11/25 03:49 AM
3

Yeah it’s something as simple as “I’d definitely like to see you again.” or “We should get together again soon.” Or if you’ve talked about something specific you’re both interested in you could even plan something together right there. In my experience it’s not about what you say it’s just about how you say it. If the date is already flowing well and you both seem to be on the same page about things, then there’s no reason to not be direct and confident about it. They usually appreciate it if th…
/r/seduction12/11/25 02:51 AM
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If I’m enjoying the first date and I think it’s going well, then I’m bringing up wanting to see them again during the date. I think it’s good to make your intentions clear, especially if you’re looking for something serious. And if they’re into you, they’ll respond positively to that. The last girl I was dating also brought up wanting to see me again herself. Then we made actual plans over text a day or two later.
/r/seduction12/11/25 01:49 AM
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Dummy I went on 4 dates with a girl and then after the 5th we fucked like 9 times. And the dates were all inexpensive/free. Like going for a walk in a park with coffee, walking a trail to the beach, bowling, shit like that. You don’t need to spend $200 to make it more special than having her come over to “hang out” on the first date. And if you invest a little effort it might pay off.
/r/seduction08/10/25 01:17 AM
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I just do it anyway if it’s normal stress or anxiety about the date itself. If you always wait for the perfect moment then you’re never gonna find it. You gotta make your own experiences and connections. And plus if you enjoy it then it could end up being a great distraction from that other stuff, which I have had happen before. If you connect, then you’re not thinking about that other bullshit while spending time together. And besides, isn’t that kinda the goal anyway? To find someone exactly l…
/r/seduction02/10/25 12:50 AM
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Maybe not least focused on it, but when I least expect it.
/r/seduction01/10/25 10:53 PM
1

Honestly think it’s the opposite of what you said. Less attractive women are more insecure and need more validation from men they perceive as higher status than them. Attractive women are both more confident and better at socializing, which just naturally leads to more and better connections.
/r/seduction26/09/25 01:44 AM
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This is how I view it, although it’s rare I even connect with someone and I have yet to hit the jackpot. Did meet the craziest person I’ve ever met before recently though! Things were really good for a little bit and I thought it was something special, but it became clear she still has a ton of unresolved traumas and unhealthy coping mechanisms. Which led to her sabotaging things and pushing me away unfortunately. I’m really disappointed because we connected in a special way, and she ended up re…
/r/seduction22/09/25 03:24 PM
2

Just look at suicide stats. Many more men commit suicide than women.
/r/MensRights30/07/25 05:51 PM
9

But women wonder why men prefer younger women 😂 Sometimes you get Tom Brady in the 6th round, but there’s literally only ever been one of those.
/r/seduction19/07/25 04:07 AM
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This is all 100% true, but it’s just really sad that if you’re a person who is dating for genuine connection and not “what can you offer me?” and “are you my type?” (aka tall, rich, and handsome) that you’re basically shit out of luck. Genuinely think this will be one of society’s biggest problems moving forward. Especially because a vast majority of men don’t fit that criteria, but every single woman seems to think they deserve someone who does and they’re entitled to it. There aren’t enough me…
/r/seduction19/07/25 04:01 AM
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Just start uploading shit even if they’re old pics. Nobody is thinking about you that much I promise. People delete and make new accounts all the time too.
/r/seduction14/07/25 12:41 AM
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Yeah you’re basically retirement age. Nah jk, why would it be? I’m 28 and everyone my age has one pretty much.
/r/seduction13/07/25 08:12 PM
0

Little harsh but low key you’re 100% right. Social media is a modern form of social proof. If you don’t have anything, they can’t look you up and get an idea of who you are as a person or that you have any friends. As much as social media has its downsides, it’s kinda necessary to an extent for socializing in 2025. Unless you just have a huge friend group that keeps in touch with you offline regularly, which I have to imagine is really rare now.
/r/seduction13/07/25 06:14 PM
1

I used to think number was better but nowadays I think instagram is best. If you exchange numbers half the time you text them they don’t remember you, or can’t put your face to the number, or whatever. Instagram allows you to build your social circle more naturally and opens more opportunities, while still allowing you to message them directly. And if things don’t work out it’s not just a complete dead end, you may still be able to be friendly with them and who knows what happens down the line t…
/r/seduction13/07/25 06:11 PM
0

Meanwhile according to women on Reddit “women are nice to everyone by default.” Lol what a joke that is.
/r/seduction13/07/25 01:42 AM
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Females get rewarded for manipulative behavior rather than just being nice without a reward.
/r/MensRights30/06/25 05:31 AM
13

I only respect respectable people. That goes for both men and women. Respecting someone simply for being a woman even when they’re not a respectable person is stupid as hell. Just imagine someone said “you should respect all men no matter what.” Literally the exact same idea, but I’m sure you disagree with that.
/r/seduction27/06/25 11:49 PM
1

Alright I’ve got the nice part down I’m ready for step 2 now?
/r/seduction22/06/25 08:02 PM
5

Going out clubbing with her friends alone is the most obvious one
/r/seduction11/06/25 04:27 PM
8

It’s not about not allowing it’s about what you’re willing to tolerate and communicating that. Whether they respect those boundaries or not is up to them ultimately.
/r/seduction11/06/25 10:06 AM
60

Any reasonable man knows this. Women are the ones who need to hear this, they act like women are infallible unless their man gave them a reason to. They don’t take accountability for their actions, even when they cheat it’s the man’s fault. Saw it with my own parents. That’s why pretty much every man has the instinct to not let their partner go do hoe-like activities all the time with their hoe friends who encourage bad behavior. But again, women will gaslight you and say you’re being controllin…
/r/seduction11/06/25 02:01 AM
1

True but sometimes coming in too hot too fast can ruin any interest a girl might have had and kill that spark too. Especially if they’re the type who just enjoys attention.
/r/seduction10/06/25 06:53 PM
3

Yeah in the past I would have said shoot your shot, she’s giving clear signals that she’s into you. But lately I’ve had girls give clear signals like this and then pull back and play it off like you’re crazy for thinking they were into you. So who knows, it might just be all about attention and ego.
/r/seduction10/06/25 06:52 PM
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I don’t know. Most women I meet would add literally nothing to my life, and probably just add stress and difficulty to it. The bar really is that low, and most women fail to meet it tbh. I’m doing just fine being single, other than it being lonely sometimes. They really just don’t seem interested in putting any effort in at all.
/r/MensRights10/06/25 05:11 PM
2

Don’t be so naive, women don’t go to jail for pushing their husband and taking the child away. He’s lucky he wasn’t put in cuffs himself.
/r/MensRights08/06/25 09:44 PM
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People genuinely just don’t give a shit about men’s feelings. Like if you deny this, I assume you don’t really live in reality and don’t trust your judgement on much of anything at all. There’s just an inherent difference simply based on gender and nothing more.
/r/MensRights08/06/25 05:46 PM
2

Anytime you’re gonna finish start eating her out instead. Go back and forth as long as it takes. She won’t mind.
/r/seduction08/06/25 09:17 AM
1

I’m gonna call them females more often now
/r/seduction01/06/25 03:11 AM
1

Literally don’t know any girls who have been attacked, but I’ve gotten randomly punched in the back of the head by a stranger before! When all I was doing was walking back to my car after playing golf. Acting like women need to live in fear more than men is just silly and offensive.
/r/seduction01/06/25 03:07 AM
2

Wait you’re telling me looks aren’t everything? Can’t believe I’ve never heard this before.
/r/seduction01/06/25 02:49 AM
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Anyone who denies this doesn’t live in reality.
/r/MensRights30/05/25 04:04 PM
4

He’s saying he prefers this though because they have better personalities. I think anyone would pick a hot girl with a good personality over a hot one with a shitty attitude.
/r/seduction27/05/25 12:50 AM
1

Yeah pretty privilege is real. When you grow up without privilege it forms more character.
/r/seduction27/05/25 12:49 AM
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Yeah that’s what women don’t typically understand. We get men better than they do, and can sense it a mile away when a dude is just friend zoned permanently. That’s an imbalanced relationship and isn’t really a healthy dynamic imo. Also many women are just difficult to be friends with in my experience. Like, I’m friendly with anyone and everyone. But I’ve regularly experienced women who are just way more fake and insincere, which is something that makes me not trust or like you. They’ll pretend …
/r/seduction26/05/25 02:36 AM
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I’ll talk to anyone tbh but lots of women are not friendly or kind in response. I don’t think men are the limiting factor here at all.
/r/seduction26/05/25 02:33 AM
7

That’s wild and blatant discrimination
/r/MensRights25/05/25 01:42 AM
22

The fact that they don’t give them the same protections is literally what makes them vulnerable
/r/MensRights24/05/25 08:19 PM
1

Meanwhile if you ask a girl to get dinner half of them will think that’s weird.
/r/seduction24/05/25 08:04 PM
60

This is really it. 99.99% of the time you’re not gonna convince her to be interested with one single text. She’s either into you or not and will respond accordingly. Talking to a girl who has interest in you is like a million times easier, things feel natural simply because she is making an effort.
/r/seduction23/05/25 02:55 AM
5

You literally don’t even need to be a good dancer. If you’re having fun and look confident it just works, I’ve had multiple groups of girls literally run up to me to dance with me. Helps if you’re into the kind of music being played.
/r/seduction18/05/25 05:46 PM
12

Lmk when you meet a mature 24 year old woman
/r/seduction18/05/25 05:23 PM
2

I feel like OP just described a very slightly different version of the “fantasy” he was saying most people have lol
/r/seduction16/05/25 01:44 AM
1

I mean if I’m not in a relationship with her I don’t really give a shit. But I would immediately write her off as not serious relationship material and adjust my expectations. I went on a date with a girl who didn’t tell me she was “still technically married” until we were out. I didn’t really get any details of what that actually meant. The date went really well, we were out late, we were making out, she was moaning like crazy and even pulled back and let out a good “what the fuck”, told me I w…
/r/seduction16/05/25 01:22 AM
3

He didn’t really have to the girl was already into me on her own and he was her friend. I wasn’t really interested in her though she wasn’t my type, and I was mostly trying to get away without being rude.
/r/seduction13/05/25 07:28 PM
71

Lol yeah I was gonna say that. I had a gay dude who did this shit on purpose and then asked me if he could watch if anything happened.
/r/seduction13/05/25 07:13 PM
5

Exactly what I was thinking. Not that they owe you anything, but women will totally justify this in their own mind even though blowing off the date they agreed to is incredibly rude and selfish.
/r/seduction07/05/25 03:51 AM
2

What I really meant was “Those who can’t play, coach”
/r/seduction04/05/25 08:23 AM
1

Lots of great coaches never played.
/r/seduction04/05/25 07:14 AM
5

Women love attention and validation for their looks.
/r/seduction26/04/25 02:28 AM
1

Honestly just don’t. You gotta do some pursuing as the guy, but if she’s showing me literally zero interest in anything about me after a while I stop bothering.
/r/seduction26/04/25 02:28 AM
101

It means some women care more about perceived status than what you can actually offer them
/r/seduction19/04/25 08:38 PM
4

I’d assume she doesn’t want that if she’s laid up with me talking about it lmfao. And then I’d stop thinking about it. It excludes her from being a serious partner with me, but she doesn’t need to know that if that’s how she’s doing things anyway.
/r/seduction17/04/25 09:41 PM
5

Honestly great counter point lol. Just because you have the option doesn’t mean it’s desirable.
/r/seduction08/04/25 04:25 AM
1

The second she lies I’m checked out personally. No sense wasting time on people who show you how they move right away. Also wtf could be so freaky while making out that doesn’t involve sex? lol
/r/seduction06/04/25 04:55 PM
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There’s a reason there is a stereotype of pretty girls being stupid. They have a kind of privilege where everything they say is smart, funny, interesting, etc. no matter what. They always get positive feedback, so they never really have to work on their personality or being a decent person beyond just their looks.
/r/seduction05/04/25 01:04 AM
6

It works yeah. Sometimes the girl(s) will just straight up ignore you, sometimes they’ll be legitimately mean, but sometimes they just fuck with your vibe and want to hang out. And obviously the better looking you are the more often you’ll get good results, but still. I’m fat and most likely autistic and it still works sometimes. Like I used to be the dude that just hovered around, waited all night for the perfect opportunity, and obviously never got it 99% of the time. Now? I’ll do shit like ju…
/r/seduction30/03/25 02:55 AM
3

I think the idea is to get used to being unapologetically yourself and stop worrying about looking stupid, for people who struggle to get out of their own head like myself. Obviously going out and just intentionally being an ass isn’t good advice haha.
/r/seduction30/03/25 02:48 AM
1

Honestly this is the best advice anyone could get. This is essentially what I’ve been doing and it works. And helps you build a social circle too, for anyone who feels like it’s hard to make any friends at all. I used to think I was fat and ugly and nobody would want to be friends with me. I’m still fat and ugly, but I realized that that’s not what was holding me back. It was myself. When people say “be yourself” that is genuinely what you have to do, but you also gotta do it frequently so you g…
/r/seduction30/03/25 02:46 AM
7

Because they’re mentally ill (if that’s what they’re like. Not saying every feminist is mentally ill.)
/r/MensRights29/03/25 03:50 AM
1

Eh it never hurts to be safe and ask quickly in the moment. I was kissing a girl and had my hand on her neck, but wasn’t actually choking. She was moaning like crazy and clearly was into it from all her body language, but I still paused for a split second to ask if it was okay and she liked that even more.
/r/seduction26/03/25 02:56 AM
4

Maybe she was “on a break” with her ex and got back with him after? Either way sounds like someone you don’t wanna deal with. I had something very similar happen and it confused the hell out of me, she even said I was a really good kisser and was moaning like crazy lmfao. Which felt really good because my ex always told me I wasn’t and never enjoyed kissing me. But you really don’t know a person well enough after one date to understand why they’d act like that. Could be a million different reaso…
/r/seduction26/03/25 02:44 AM
3

Yeah my ex told a bunch of people I was abusive when she broke up with me. Never once laid my hands on her or did anything that came close to that. I’m still mad about it.
/r/MensRights26/03/25 01:54 AM
80

I think lots of girls just enjoy meeting people and getting the attention without the intention of anything serious happening. They probably see it as much more casual than you do, with the option of something more happening in the future if you win her over. Online dating is hard, you gotta be able to separate yourself from a sea of other desperate dudes, which is nearly impossible.
/r/seduction23/03/25 06:38 AM
25

Oh yeah obviously not interested in settling down with anyone this works on lol
/r/seduction16/03/25 07:15 PM
35

This is so crazy that I actually believe it works
/r/seduction16/03/25 06:17 PM
15

They’re arguably MORE violent than men, as some statistics show. They just don’t do as much damage. I feel the same way about pitbulls vs chihuahas. Pitbulls can be very sweet in general but they have to be well trained because they can really hurt or kill people or other animals. Chihuahas can’t do much damage, but they’re usually nasty.
/r/MensRights15/03/25 11:11 PM
6

Move on and don’t be needy and drive her away. The best thing you can do is keep making connections and leave doors open. Sometimes they will hit you back up later on, sometimes they won’t. But the more you meet the more opportunities you will have.
/r/seduction12/03/25 08:04 PM
4

“Yes I am Squidward”
/r/seduction12/03/25 07:53 PM
12

Just like guys are way over reported lol
/r/seduction12/03/25 07:47 PM
1

Yes my ex got her current job just because she just happened to meet a (male) recruiter who liked her and fast tracked her through the interview process. Even though she didn’t pass the technical assessment. I applied to the same company and was ghosted after a phone interview with a (female) recruiter that I earned with my actual resume.
/r/MensRights11/03/25 06:51 PM
11

Yeah just lie and say your friend is talking to someone or they had to leave or something. Sometimes they like when you own it confidently, sometimes they get weirded out, and sometimes they’re wondering if you’d be a fun group for her and her friends to hang out with.
/r/seduction08/03/25 05:15 AM
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Wage gap is a myth Also it’s not just pedophilia charges, it’s everything that women get lesser sentences for and are also less likely to be charged with crimes in the first place.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/03/25 09:31 PM
10

Yeah it goes both ways obviously. But lots of women don’t seem to give that any acknowledgement.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/03/25 08:14 PM
35

But women will still gaslight you about systemic sexism against women.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/03/25 07:29 PM
9

Never thought about it that way because I always just see women who are way more open and willing to be friends with gay men. But your perspective makes sense. I guess it’s just more of a mens issue in general that women treat men this way.
/r/MensRights04/03/25 08:54 AM
10

Yeah most of the time girls aren’t immediately interested in hooking up or whatever. It’s more like they’re interested in potentially seeing where things go and getting to know you, so they’ll give you an opportunity to connect with them. Unless you’re really hot and she’s pretty slutty, they’re not thinking “I wanna fuck this dude” when they meet you the way guys think about girls.
/r/seduction04/03/25 06:29 AM
3

Respectfully who ever told you that gave you terrible advice in my opinion. First, girls rarely ever do the chasing unless they’re already really really into you. Especially early on. You have to chase them and give them reasons to like you typically unless you’re just really hot. But most people aren’t really hot. She was receptive enough that you had an opening, but she also wasn’t showing any signs of pursuing you. Second, that’s just playing immature mind games without actually building any …
/r/seduction04/03/25 06:26 AM
4

Lol who told you that? Girls don’t wanna be called buddy. It’s condescending at worst and frames the relationship as friends only at best.
/r/seduction04/03/25 06:07 AM
4

I’m a dude and seeing “sure buddy” made me cringe on her behalf
/r/seduction04/03/25 05:49 AM
11

They’re just hoes lying to themselves about being a hoe
/r/seduction02/03/25 12:30 AM
2

Yeah for sure, some will take it further though. Especially older ones it seems like
/r/seduction01/03/25 11:54 PM
11

Honestly it’s scary out there.
/r/seduction01/03/25 10:25 AM
42

A good chunk don’t care that they’re married though
/r/seduction01/03/25 03:54 AM
7

Maybe a little but he’s right about everything. If the vibe isn’t there she just isn’t feeling a connection and there’s no point wasting time with someone like that who you already know isn’t what you’re looking for. If she was into it everything he did would have been fine.
/r/seduction28/02/25 11:55 PM
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You said you were insecure and settled, meaning you kinda lead them on despite not being fully into them. Mediocre men can definitely still be used and manipulated, it sounds like you just don’t consider them worth anything lol. They could say you wasted their youth as well, couldn’t they?
/r/seduction28/02/25 11:37 PM
-3

What does that say about you that you effectively used your exes and feel nothing for them now?
/r/seduction28/02/25 11:19 PM
6

Healthiest take here
/r/seduction28/02/25 11:18 PM
15

The only people who oppress muslim women in America are their own families. I dated a muslim girl for 7 years and have seen it very clearly with her and the other women in her family. Violence, abuse, oppression, and cheating are normalized and accepted even in more agnostic and educated families. It affected her and our relationship a lot. I never even met her dad, he refused to acknowledge our relationship and even literally left her college graduation early and made up an excuse in order to a…
/r/PussyPassDenied28/02/25 05:43 AM
2

Bro really said just become hot and famous and thought he was giving great advice…
/r/seduction26/02/25 09:12 PM
1

So when does the part where they do something for young men come?
/r/MensRights24/02/25 08:44 PM
3

Yeah nailed it. They’re not gonna magically be interested in you because their ugly friend was first. They know what’s up, they’re not dumb. I feel like guys give advice here based on what worked 30 years ago lol. Or maybe just not in city environments. Girls nowadays are 100% aware of the game you’re playing 95% of the time.
/r/seduction23/02/25 10:12 AM
5

Lol yeah it doesn’t work like that anymore. Sounds like a guy who hasn’t been to a bar in 15 years. 9/10 times the dudes aren’t welcoming you into their group and the girls are just following the guys lead.
/r/seduction23/02/25 10:08 AM
2

Groups are always tough no matter what. If you talk to the guys first 99/100 times they know what’s up, they’re not dumb even if they may be pussies orbiting the hot girl. Just be direct or don’t bother at all imo. Dudes get territorial even when it’s not their girl, because 90% of the time if she’s hot they wish it was their girl. That’s just reality.
/r/seduction23/02/25 10:06 AM
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It’s a scam because women aren’t half committed as men are nowadays. Every man out there has been burned by a woman who he put more effort and commitment into than she did, and was gaslit about it. If you could find an actual ride or die out there then what you’re describing is just a relationship without the commitment part pretty much.
/r/MensRights21/02/25 10:07 PM
1

I’ve never been called a creep either but it’s not like you can just go into any social setting, try to hit on every woman there, and expect not to be seen as one. They’re not comfortable with that rightfully so.
/r/seduction20/02/25 11:58 PM
3

Yeah you’re right that’s valid, the best thing you can do is to work on yourself. More opportunities will follow then for sure if you keep putting yourself out there and growing consistently.
/r/seduction20/02/25 04:35 AM
10

I don’t meant to be rude, but this is coming from a very out of touch and privileged perspective. Sure, having a hobby where you can potentially meet someone with similar interests sounds great! That’s the fairy tale we all want right? But for arguably most men it’s just not realistic, women have a privilege that we don’t. And if you start hitting on the girls on your co-ed soccer team or whatever you’re doing, you’re gonna be rightfully seen as a creep after 1 or 2. So you gotta hope the right …
/r/seduction20/02/25 04:14 AM
2

No just if you try hitting on every single one of them they will talk and you’ll be known as the dude that hits on anyone with a pulse in your class/school.
/r/seduction19/02/25 07:45 PM
2

Only if you don’t care about your reputation at all.
/r/seduction19/02/25 05:36 AM
2

All the guys I know want a serious relationship with a woman who will take it seriously and doesn’t have a ton of baggage. But it’s basically impossible to find anymore unless you date younger (stigmatized) or find a diamond in the rough. I was speaking with some girls the other night and they were talking on and on about how they don’t do “situationships”. Like it was a weirdly important point for them. Later that night they both left with dudes they met at the bar lol. It’s crazy how they will…
/r/MensRights17/02/25 10:36 PM
1

There’s plenty of guys who can be the right one, but they choose not to pick them. Finding the right one is as much an active decision to actually be committed as it is luck. But yeah, by the time they’ve fucked around so much and realized that fairy tales don’t exist, they’ve been run through and are older and less desirable. Then they settle for someone they don’t really respect, because that’s the type of person who would marry a single mom and support them. And then they cheat. Such is life.
/r/MensRights17/02/25 08:17 PM
4

I find it infuriating how so many women deny this obvious reality and will gaslight you about it
/r/MensRights14/02/25 02:37 PM
3

Def gonna try this but yeah women respond best to confidence. It’s like when you act like it’s normal and you expect them to respond well to it then they pick up on that and actually do.
/r/seduction14/02/25 03:59 AM
14

Honestly this is so true. When I was younger I used to think “why bother” because I wasn’t perfectly in shape or whatever, why would a girl ever find interest in me right? But nah that’s just rejecting yourself before they even have a chance to. When I go in with an attitude of just assuming they’ll be down to talk to me and flirt, I have way more success. When you’re completely nervous and frozen and just stand there in the corner waiting for someone to fall into your lap you come off as a cree…
/r/seduction13/02/25 03:38 AM
12

A specific tip that works for me for getting their number: I’ll just take my phone out mid convo, open up the keypad to type a number in, and hand it to them while we’re still talking about whatever. If I’ve already gotten this far then I swear they just type their number in close to 100% of the time. Usually I don’t even have to say anything, they just do it. Maybe I’ll add a “I need your number” or something like that as I hand it to them. And they seem to like that confidence that you have by…
/r/seduction13/02/25 03:32 AM
0

There is no such thing as good girls. The trick is to not put them on a pedestal like they’re something special. Trust me, they’re probably a lot more flawed than you realize when you first develop an interest/crush on them.
/r/seduction31/01/25 07:23 AM
1

I stop trying because they’re either not interested or have a self centered personality and either way I don’t want that.
/r/seduction30/01/25 08:05 PM
1

Crazy how true this is
/r/seduction29/01/25 04:19 AM
31

Nailed it. Learn from the L’s and celebrate the W’s. They will come more frequently the more you learn. But also, understand that not every L is personally about you. Women could not be interested for countless different reasons, you don’t always meet people at the right time. I’d argue most of the time it has nothing to do with you necessarily.
/r/seduction28/01/25 01:04 AM
39

100% this comes down to men and women just being different. Men can logically assess good and bad qualities quickly and judge if she’s worth pursuing. Women need to let their emotions develop over time, otherwise they’re scared of commitment seemingly. They’re not nearly as logical when it comes to deciding if they like someone or not. It’s ironic too because in pop culture men are the ones who are scared of commitment, but I think that’s really the opposite of the truth. Men pretty much always …
/r/seduction26/01/25 08:54 PM
3

Lol good luck finding a normal girl with less than 200 followers unless it’s a finsta. Most girls love and need validation to some extent.
/r/seduction26/01/25 04:25 PM
6

It’s a waste of my time, I’m not looking for pen pals. I think only unserious women do this. My ex had us do this for months before we actually met, and the pattern of me having to jump through hoops for her never ended. I disrespected myself putting up with it frankly. If she wants to text for a couple days before setting up a date that’s one thing and totally fine. I get wanting to build a rapport so you feel safe and create a little more interest. But if she’s just looking to text for weeks o…
/r/seduction25/01/25 08:07 PM
1

In my experience you need to be slowly but steadily escalating the whole time you’re talking to them basically. Start with moving closer, light touching, strong eye contact, hold her hand if she lets you, and then eventually you go in for the kiss. If she’s reciprocating or not rejecting you along the way at any of these steps it’s a pretty clear sign that she’s comfortable with you enough to keep going. But if you’re just sitting around talking/flirting all night without escalating she’s gonna …
/r/seduction20/01/25 12:08 AM
4

It sounds dumb, but you gotta dance with them. Be confident about it otherwise they’ll immediately be turned off and uninterested. If their back is to you then get in front of them. 9/10 girls, especially good ones, won’t like being grinded up on from behind randomly even if she was looking for attention. The ones who do will make it clear by “bumping into you” or straight up rubbing their ass on you entirely. If she seems receptive then reach your hand out and let her take it and maintain eye c…
/r/seduction27/12/24 07:43 AM
3

Yeah but only to an extent. You can start with something simple like “hey what’s your name?” or “your eyes are so damn pretty” and feel from there whether it’s a dead end or not.
/r/seduction25/12/24 10:46 PM
1

This is where I’m at right now too. I find that spending my time getting off the screens has a bigger positive impact on my mental health and allows me to do other things like hitting the gym and going out more. Half the people on apps are just looking for attention and don’t actually want to date anyway, so you end up wasting time pursuing people who aren’t even actually interested in a relationship.
/r/seduction25/12/24 10:41 PM
8

In my experience (not a ton, but some) it doesn’t really matter much what you say, it can be pretty basic small talk to start and you just navigate from there. You’ll know pretty early on in the conversation whether you’re talking to a dead end or not based on how she responds. If it is you can literally just walk away and nobody will care. If she’s responding well, then conversations will just flow way more easily usually because she’s actually putting effort in and not shutting it down.
/r/seduction25/12/24 06:55 AM
0

Bar/club is objectively the best in terms of volume and the amount of women being there looking for that specifically or at least open to it.
/r/seduction24/12/24 07:36 AM
7

“If you never had a girl flirt with you before then it suddenly happens you don’t know wtf to do.” Literally me. But yeah you summed it up really well. In the past few months I’ve had several different girls actually flirt with me which never really used to happen before, mainly because I’m putting myself out there more. I’m sure it’s happened in the past and I just didn’t really pick up on it, but now I’ve been more proactive about it trying to find a good girl that I actually like. Problem is …
/r/seduction21/12/24 07:36 PM
11

Spot on. To sum it up, women don’t like communication the way men do. If you start trying to be clear about things and talk about them logically you’re most likely gonna turn them off.
/r/seduction20/12/24 12:51 AM
5

Pretty much all dating preferences. Height, weight, age, race, etc. Height or weight standards? Body shaming, misogynist. Younger girl? You’re a groomer/pedo. Older? You have mommy issues. Race? Racist obviously.
/r/MensRights16/12/24 10:45 PM
1

The thing about women is that they don’t have to grow or change their behavior for the better. There will always be some fool willing to take a chance on her no matter how shitty she is. Society reinforces their terrible attitude by repeatedly showing things will still work out for them. You basically just need to set higher standards for the women you date yourself. They’ll also respect you more for that.
/r/seduction15/12/24 06:25 PM
0

As a somewhat overweight fella it helps but it’s not everything. Lots of girls are intimidated or even turned off by guys who are “too fit”. Lots of girls prefer somewhat slightly chubby so they don’t feel pressure to keep up themselves. There’s also lots of girls who do want someone super fit. Everyone has different preferences. Bottom line is it will open more opportunities for you, but it’s not the only thing that matters or even a deal breaker for many women. Besides, I want a woman who like…
/r/seduction29/11/24 04:48 AM
10

Man that sucks I’m sorry that happened. I’ve been a victim of bullying like that plenty of times I know how demoralizing it feels. I can 10000% empathize with you. But honestly the key is to just play into it even more, people (not just women) sense weakness and they prey on it. I had a couple of girls do something similar while I was dancing just the other night, they started recording me on their snapchat. Instead of shutting down all embarrassed like I typically would I just kept rapping alon…
/r/seduction28/11/24 09:45 AM
6

You don’t need to be good, most women are terrible dancers tbh if you actually watch them try to dance lol. It’s more about energy than dance skills.
/r/seduction28/11/24 09:35 AM
1

Literally just stop giving a fuck and move to the beat. It doesn’t matter if you’re good or not, confidence is what attracts other people not dance skills. I’ve seen try hards on the dance floor and they’re either just way too bombastic and intimidating or girls can’t really keep up with them. They can scare the hoes away for lack of a better term. Like you can actually do stupid shit on the dance floor and people will fuck with it if you’re smiling and having a good time. Good music helps too. …
/r/seduction28/11/24 09:24 AM
22

Funny as fuck but what a great way to sum it up. Gamers are great at doing cost benefit analysis of where they should spend their time, and most realize that investing in women is pointless because you don’t get enough in return lmfao.
/r/MensRights22/11/24 07:43 PM
40

Supporting a woman offers basically nothing in return now unless she’s a really rare one who hasn’t bought into modern feminism BS. Apparently expecting equal effort in a relationship is misogynistic. You should just accept a woman who doesn’t offer anything emotionally, doesn’t work, doesn’t do housework, doesn’t do childcare, and doesn’t put out I guess and just be happy that a woman graced you with her presence at all.
/r/MensRights22/11/24 07:41 PM
39

I’m American and kinda feel the same. So few women have something to actually offer me that makes my life better in any way. They’re really fucking entitled nowadays. Many of them are lowkey like actual crazy people who cannot handle any sort of confrontation or accountability. Logic doesn’t seem to work with them. It’s hard to even get one to care enough to ask you some basic questions about yourself tbh. I make decent money, support myself, workout, have my own little hobbies, etc. Dating is j…
/r/MensRights22/11/24 07:33 PM
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I’m not sure the US will ever need a draft again in the foreseeable future. They have the power to enact their will from the other side of the planet anywhere they want without putting boots on the ground. I mean they literally killed a dude with fucking swords on a rocket from space in order to prevent collateral damage. In a moving car btw.
/r/MensRights07/11/24 03:16 AM
7

Such a simple question but it can’t even be answered for some reason.
/r/MensRights05/11/24 09:19 PM
9

You already agreed to a date with him that he asked you out on, do you not realize you don’t need to seduce him…?
/r/seduction05/11/24 06:30 AM
6

I mean I’ve never had a girl want to be an actual friend with me since like middle school, so idk why I would put any effort in to that. If it happens naturally that’d be different. Girls are weird. It’s not like they make any effort, but sometimes they expect you to anyway.
/r/seduction04/11/24 07:41 PM
8

I’m sorry that happened to you, I can sorta relate. I was attacked randomly a few months back, punched in the back of the head by a stranger who just happened to be walking by, and not a single person helped me despite me asking them to call the cops and seeing what happened. Literally everyone just ignored me and went about their business while I was stumbling concussed, complete bystander effect. But we all know what it would be like if a woman was the one who got attacked. Then when I posted …
/r/MensRights03/11/24 07:59 PM
9

Oh I feel you, it’s unfortunate that there are such blatant and inherent double standards in pretty much every aspect of society, many of which go completely unacknowledged.
/r/MensRights03/11/24 07:46 PM
23

Some guys are just looking for reasons to fight someone or beat someone up because of their own issues honestly and this sounds like one of those guys. Obviously you did nothing wrong especially if the people you were taking pictures of didn’t care themselves.
/r/MensRights03/11/24 07:27 PM
6

It’s a really stupid and obviously incorrect argument. I tried to point out that if all men should be blamed for “setting that system up”, then all men should receive credit for building most of society as well. And the women literally just couldn’t wrap their mind around that concept. They thought I was just saying that and genuinely believed I deserve credit for creating society personally, rather than recognizing that it’s just the inverse of what they’re saying.
/r/MensRights31/10/24 07:32 PM
6

Facts.
/r/seduction30/10/24 12:36 PM
4

Neither candidate supports men’s rights. It’s not a platform they run on. All of media is catered to women and therefore campaigns are too.
/r/MensRights27/10/24 03:32 AM
14

No it’s not just you. Women who are told they need to correct their behavior simply find someone else who will endure their abuse. They just don’t need to work on themselves, they get away without it. If you ever imply they might be the problem, they’d rather take the easy route and ignore it or gaslight you about it. They just literally are never the problem. I made the mistake of commenting on a tik tok my toxic ex sent me because this woman was talking about how, and this is an exact quote, “…
/r/MensRights23/10/24 06:38 PM
33

We also saw that when schools went to remote learning during the pandemic the discrepancies went down between women and men’s grades. They benefit from implicit biases in so many unseen ways.
/r/MensRights23/10/24 03:30 AM
14

Dude middle schoolers use truth or dare to get laid this is not news lol. Girls who aren’t dumb know right away that it’s used to turn things flirty/sexual.
/r/seduction21/10/24 06:16 PM
2

Lol this is the truest thing I’ve ever read, as well as the opposite.
/r/seduction18/10/24 02:33 AM
41

You should mansplain how she should pay equal rent if she wants to be such an feminist about things
/r/MensRights12/10/24 06:19 AM
0

Lot of people say this, but I don’t think it’s entirely true. Humans are social creatures. Not being loved or supported can be very difficult to deal with, and that’s okay. You shouldn’t be shamed for feeling down or lonely. Being around someone who loves you for you and lifts you up in a quality relationship can absolutely make you more happy. The same exact way having good friends can be helpful. And it can help you grow.
/r/seduction07/10/24 11:15 PM
14

“spare a pretty girl a drink?” should’ve said “sure! do you know any?”
/r/MensRights04/10/24 08:12 AM
4

It’s just trained off of real data. It’s not explicitly programmed that way I don’t think. It’s just a reflection of our society and proof that it is inherently misandrist.
/r/MensRights29/09/24 11:23 PM
1

I think way more women fall for this than men. Women also sabotage other women.
/r/seduction29/09/24 11:14 PM
2

And then you get downvoted to the shadow realm if you point out the reverse genders hypocrisy on any of these posts. “Imagine women just shut the fuck up and did what they’re told.”
/r/MensRights23/09/24 07:35 PM
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Women just aren’t used to being called out as much and take it as personal offense.
/r/MensRights12/09/24 01:42 AM
1

You shouldn’t involve yourself unless she needs someone to step in for whatever reason. Otherwise she should be rejecting guys on her own. It’s not her fault she gets hit on, but it is up to her to respect you and enforce boundaries.
/r/seduction03/09/24 01:50 AM
10

Lol true. And I’ve seen this narrative before of “I told him what I was doing, so that means I’m absolved of any blame or wrong doing!” It just makes no sense and comes across as super entitled.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 11:25 PM
7

Don’t think the word specifically is toxic feminism. It’s gender neutral, women can be weird too. It’s just another weapon that women use to be misandrist is all.
/r/MensRights03/08/24 01:54 AM
3

Lol the comments prove exactly why the women should be handing out flowers and they don’t realize it.
/r/MensRights02/08/24 10:48 PM
1

What you did is creepy as hell and she probably felt uncomfortable at best and scared at worst. She already told you she sees you as a friend, you refused to accept that answer, then you took her to an abandoned lot where I assume there are no witnesses and cornered her in your car. You said she was wedged in the corner and closed off, can you not read body language at all? She was most likely nervous at this point about having no escape possible. And then you still tried to kiss her lol. Dude s…
/r/seduction19/07/24 10:27 PM
37

Pretty fucking based, and there’s definitely at least some truth to it. Crazy how just talking about consequences in a non-critical way gets you labeled as a misogynist while they simultaneously gaslight you about women’s roles in society and tell you it’s still controlled by men.
/r/MensRights10/07/24 11:44 PM
27

Even blue collar jobs jump at the opportunity to hire women nowadays despite having no skills. I’ve seen it with someone I know.
/r/MensRights10/07/24 08:48 PM
24

Yeah and it’s not just white collar. I worked at a restaurant when I was younger and they wouldn’t hire male waiters. Lots of places where being a young cute girl is essentially a requirement for the owner. At my current job as a Software Engineer there was a girl hired at the same time as me who was smart tbf, but literally had no programming experience. My interview consisted of multiple rounds of technical questions and coding tests, so I didn’t understand it. I like her as a coworker, but sh…
/r/MensRights10/07/24 08:46 PM
5

No you aren’t. Even other men will hate on you in my experience.
/r/MensRights08/07/24 02:08 PM
15

Western society and culture has swung too far in the opposite direction and become misandrist while still acting like it’s a patriarchy (it’s not). In my experience having those sort of expectations in relationships is not really acceptable. You’re supposed to do half or more of all the work while also being a breadwinner, be happy with what you get, and meet all the woman’s expectations while not having any yourself and just accepting the woman for who they are. But to me everything you said ma…
/r/MensRights06/07/24 08:16 PM
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I mean I want AC too so I don’t blame em. But the whole pushing for equity in the work force thing is just hilarious since it really only focuses on cushy, well paying, corporate jobs. And the fact that it’s really just a way for companies to increase labor supply to drive down wages.
/r/MensRights26/06/24 04:18 PM
6

I think it’s obvious to anyone who is actually a critical thinker that women and girls have things so much easier in many ways. For example my ex got her job in the same industry as me literally without even applying for jobs, and got significantly better pay and benefits. A male recruiter hunted her down at an event and basically skipped her through the interview process. She literally never had to go through a job hunt experience in her life. Her two internships were also given to her out of n…
/r/MensRights20/06/24 06:24 PM
52

It’s ironic because testosterone is so impactful when it comes to increasing and maintaining muscle mass and bone density, which are some of the biggest predictors of living a long healthy life.
/r/MensRights19/06/24 07:10 PM
1

Well when you make it about white people in general that is racist.
/r/MensRights19/06/24 04:01 PM
1

I had loads of people telling me on another post that it was racist to mention their skin color. Literally just a description of the people who did it so the community was aware, since they haven’t been caught. Then the post ended up getting locked because it was too controversial I guess. Also some people didn’t believe me simply because I said they were black and assumed I was a racist republican, despite me being quite liberal and typically voting democrat.
/r/MensRights19/06/24 12:47 AM
1

calling me out for blaming you which i never did.
/r/MensRights18/06/24 12:58 PM
1

you don’t have to be nice to me just don’t keep being mean. i don’t deserve that either. and i don’t see it.
/r/MensRights18/06/24 12:56 PM
1

why can’t you just be nice
/r/MensRights18/06/24 12:49 PM
1

no i don’t?
/r/MensRights18/06/24 12:44 PM
1

Why would I blame strangers or my ex?
/r/MensRights18/06/24 12:42 PM
1

To them it’s a game unfortunately.
/r/MensRights17/06/24 06:14 PM
5

Thank you so much. I do feel like I’m still in shock and processing everything, but also trying to keep myself distracted too. It’s crazy that acknowledging the racial differences makes some people call me racist when you and I know that it at least plays somewhat of a part. I said in another post that “it might have been a hate crime” and I got flamed for just suggesting it was possible.
/r/MensRights17/06/24 12:52 AM
4

Thank you very much. Ironically it was the most beautiful day of the year so far yesterday and I was enjoying it a ton until then. Went to the gym, relaxed by the pool, then went to play some golf. Not the way I Imagined the night ending haha. I called the cops right away after gathering myself. Statistics made me think this would never happen to me, but shit happens I guess. An ambulance came and checked me out and basically said if I start feeling worse to call 911 or drive myself to the hospi…
/r/MensRights17/06/24 12:49 AM
2

Jesus christ I can’t even imagine. Amazing that you were able to get yourself there and probably save your own life, but it’s really just sad that shit like this happens. I’m glad that you handled yourself and are still here.
/r/MensRights17/06/24 12:46 AM
10

They were black kids. But apparently that’s racist to say according to Reddit.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 10:34 PM
3

Thank you. Also one of them went in front of me while the others went behind me, so I had my back to at least one of them no matter what I did at that point. I was actually trying to make space between us and they went out of their way to get closer in hindsight.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 09:12 PM
0

I mean they squeezed past me really. I just tried to avoid bumping into them once I saw them. But yeah I get it everyone on the internet is a tough guy who always has their head on a swivel and never for a second lets their guard down.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 08:55 PM
2

I mean some parts at worse than others. This wasn’t exactly a great area being near the train and all, but still it was a golf park. Long Island you can drive ten minutes and go from being surrounded by mansions to worrying about getting robbed in another neighborhood.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 08:51 PM
3

I didn’t put myself in a vulnerable position. I parked my car close to the exit so I could leave quickly. I walked about ten feet, got nearly bumped into, and then got hit. The time between me swinging my last golf swing and getting to my car was less than a minute, including the time I took to pack up.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 08:17 PM
5

Nah Long Island always votes republican lol. And I didn’t choose to be born here?
/r/MensRights16/06/24 08:15 PM
1

Yeah I didn’t really think so either but I guess you never know.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 08:14 PM
1

Just because that’s what the social media trend calls it. And it describes the intent which was to knock me out cold, which luckily didn’t happen.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 08:14 PM
6

I’m not afraid of saying they were black and I’m white, or that I probably wouldn’t have been chosen if I was black. But it also was a wrong place at the wrong time kinda thing. If I had left even just a few seconds earlier or later we wouldn’t have crossed paths like that.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 06:01 PM
9

Again if they’re out of your line of sight you can’t pay attention to something you don’t know exists.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 05:49 PM
2

What kind of situational awareness exactly would prevent you from getting sucker punched in the back of the head? They were out of my line of sight until we were basically face to face and it’s not like I could’ve jumped out of their way. I was in between two cars holding my golf bag to not scratch the cars. I walked 10 feet from the exit to my car, it was a really short distance. They just happened to be strolling through the parking lot at the exact same time in the exact same place.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 05:49 PM
2

New York so can’t carry here unfortunately. Plus I didn’t actually see which one did it specifically, so it’s probably for the best that I didn’t start shooting at multiple of them. But I was definitely thinking damn I wish I had a gun right now at least to protect myself if they had kept going.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 05:45 PM
5

That’s basically how I felt. It made me feel stupid for feeling like I needed help. I even debated calling because of that, but then I thought fuck that I’d hate if this happened to someone else.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 05:44 PM
3

People really don’t do themselves any favors in that regard.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 05:43 PM
2

The police have already checked and there were no cameras facing that part of the lot unfortunately.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 05:42 PM
2

Sorry, how does any of what you said stop me from getting sucker punched from behind? I basically rounded the corner and they were in my face. They were out of my line of sight until then, and I had my golf bag slung over my shoulder in an awkward position from squeezing past them. The best I could have done was immediately start backpedalling while in between two cars when I saw them 3 feet in front of me, but they played it off like they were getting into the car next to mine. So I really thou…
/r/MensRights16/06/24 05:41 PM
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I’ll be honest I’m pretty liberal and never thought something like this would happen to me, but I never thought it was a myth either. Seems like it’s a lot more popular among one specific race for some reason.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 02:21 PM
9

It’s mostly men, but there were lots of women there too. The place was at capacity on the driving range with maybe 100 stalls.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 01:31 PM
2

I’m in New York so unfortunately you can’t carry without jumping through a ton of hoops for a very long time. I may have gotten myself in trouble if I was carrying though since I didn’t fully go out but I was very confused. The situational awareness thing I keep hearing, but it was at a golf club where I was walking to my car for maybe 15 seconds, and they were out of my line of sight until the last second basically. I never had a reason to be on alert, the walk to my car was literally maybe 15 …
/r/MensRights16/06/24 01:07 PM
2

I know. I think I’m also lucky in that I have a big ass head so it probably protected me a bit, and also extremely lucky that he didn’t hit me more directly in the center of the back of my head. But the whole time I kept thinking jesus christ if this happened to my dad or someone like that they would not be okay at all. I learned that I can take a hell of a sucker punch though and stay on my feet somehow.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 12:44 PM
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Oh I know they do. And I’m a pretty big proponent of the idea that everyone can be racist no matter how they look. It’s similar to the mens’ rights issue. But still, being on the other side of it in such a violent way is eye opening.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 12:42 PM
28

The fact that your coach sat idly by like that is such a failure to act that it’s unbelievable. He should never be in charge of any children. It’s shocking and eye opening the lack of regard people have for others and it’s so different from how I was raised. I can’t ever imagine not helping someone in need like that. I was already kinda antisocial before this, so who knows how I’m gonna feel now. I really don’t want to let it affect me like that or change things because I know it was just random…
/r/MensRights16/06/24 12:30 PM
7

That’s horrifying. I feel so lucky they didn’t have a weapon or want anything more from me. My first instinct was that something much worse was about to happen and I was about to get jumped by the whole group. But I was dumbfounded when two of the girls just stood there and watched while all the boys ran away. I’m sorry that you have a relatable story.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 12:26 PM
12

I know. You’re right and I’ve always thought the double standard was ridiculous. But still being a victim on the other side of it is eye opening.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 12:24 PM
7

It was a thing before Tik Tok but I’m sure it’s on there too. I think it’s more popular among young black kids, but I’m trying not to be racially biased. But I couldn’t help feel like I was at least partially chosen because I’m white.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 12:23 PM
5

That’s crazy. I really cannot believe the lack of regard people have for others simply just depending on how they look or what gender they are. I was raised so differently from that and so many people just lack basic human empathy. I’m very sorry that happened to you. The randomness is hard to deal with honestly.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 12:21 PM
6

No cameras pointed at that part of the parking lot.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 12:18 PM
20

Teenagers who think it’s fun to record themselves (or not, I don’t think they were recording this time) running up to unsuspecting strangers and sucker punching them and trying to knock them out. Usually in the back of the head where they don’t even see it coming. I’m lucky that I didn’t get knocked out cold.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 12:17 PM
39

I’m white so typically you don’t think of hate crimes happening to white people. But I guess they do.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 12:13 PM
4

Suffolk.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 12:12 PM
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Yeah I’m usually hyper aware of my surroundings but this was outside of a golf club where this type of thing doesn’t typically happen, and they were out of my line of sight behind other cars until we were basically face to face. There were lots of other people around too, I just happened to cross their path at the wrong time. If I left 20 seconds earlier or later we wouldn’t have met.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 06:34 AM
44

Because no amount of training stops you from getting sucker punched unprovoked in the back of the head when you can’t see it coming… that’s why.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 06:30 AM
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I got sucker punched in the back of the head… and you think boxing would have helped me? They were out of my line of sight until right before we squeeze past each other. It was just completely wrong place at the wrong time and I happened to be the one they chose. I was also carrying a bag of golf clubs so it’s not like I was nimble. You’re kind of an asshole. I didn’t “fold and whimper” I had a concussion after nearly being knocked out cold. It was also like ten feet from a golf club where there…
/r/MensRights16/06/24 06:25 AM
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Well I can’t say if it was racially motivated or not, but I’d bet if I was black they wouldn’t have chosen me as their target. Kinda crazy to think I was the victim of a hate crime realistically.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 06:23 AM
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I didn’t even consider that a possibility honestly. Maybe I should when I’m feeling better.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 06:22 AM
14

I live in New York but not the city
/r/MensRights16/06/24 06:21 AM
13

The entire world is misandrist, and Reddit even more so. It’s just a reflection of that…
/r/MensRights14/06/24 09:36 PM
39

Women’s evolutionary advantage has always been manipulating men to get what they want. Modern “equality” just allows for this to happen even more than ever before.
/r/MensRights04/06/24 02:59 PM
1

Well the way you approached her was kinda creepy, she might’ve thought you were following her or just didn’t like that you know her stop. From her perspective this random dude decides to get off at the same stop and then speed walks after her. Good chance you freaked her out…
/r/seduction20/05/24 12:25 AM
165

When classes went remote didn’t grades even out between men and women? As in women got worse grades once things became unbiased.
/r/MensRights19/05/24 02:35 PM
17

This really is so true. When I graduated college my ex and I were looking to join the same industry. She literally was approached by a recruiter in person and basically shoved through the interview process despite not passing all the stages. This was after not even looking for a job for months after graduating. Meanwhile I couldn’t even get an interview at the same company. I had to grind my ass off studying and interviewing and dealing with rejection for months before I found an even worse payi…
/r/MensRights10/05/24 04:07 PM
41

One of the best pieces of advice I’ve heard is that marriage is the single riskiest financial decision you will ever make as a man.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 03:45 PM
7

And if you try calling them out then you’re “gaslighting” them.
/r/MensRights24/04/24 08:24 AM
20

Really the answer to everything. Social media, mainstream media, pop culture, everything in the public perception is dominated by women or by appealing to women. Hell, most consumer spending is done by women, which means the economy and advertising is even all based around them for the most part.
/r/MensRights23/04/24 09:17 PM
4

If the pay gap was real businesses would only hire women to do the same job for less. They always care more about maximizing profits than gender equality/inequality.
/r/MensRights22/04/24 02:57 PM
1

Good point lol. Same people who blame porn addictions for lots of issues also encourage this type of behavior. I’ve seen it first hand with my ex encouraging her friend’s OF.
/r/MensRights21/04/24 08:59 PM
5

It’s in the sense of the modern usage of the word incel. I know the original meaning is just someone who can’t get laid, but it’s been adopted as a more general term for men who hate women and blame them for all of their problems essentially. The equivalent of this exists in women for sure.
/r/MensRights21/04/24 06:03 AM
12

Maybe you’re just not the type of guy to be into hookups. Not every guy is like that, some actually need to feel a connection like most women claim they do.
/r/seduction20/04/24 06:30 PM
8

Femcels are real. These women are just unlovable and blame men for it because they can’t take accountability.
/r/MensRights20/04/24 06:05 PM
8

Great point about TV, really all of mainstream media in general. I agree with your first point too. I also think that healthy relationships involve regular sex and porn shouldn’t be necessary all the time, but many women don’t understand that those needs are just as real and valid as their own emotional needs are. But for some reason what men want and need in a relationship is never seen as important, and is often even demonized.
/r/MensRights20/04/24 08:49 AM
3

I understand why some people would be skeptical about renting to a man in certain situations, I don’t really have an issue with that even though it kinda sucks. The issue I have is in society pretending that men don’t face discrimination or hardships in any way due to their gender though, because this is a perfect example of how men do have it harder in some ways. Everyone faces unique challenges in life, it’s just so shitty that half the population gets completely invalidated and not cared abou…
/r/MensRights15/04/24 02:14 AM
28

Same thing with “abusive” relationships. Men can’t possibly ever be the victim. Anything a woman does to harm a man is the man’s fault, and anything a man does to harm a woman is also the man’s fault.
/r/MensRights12/04/24 07:33 PM
0

Lol yup! She did that a few times as well.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 04:00 PM
28

Some women seem to think their dollars count as 2-3x as much as their man’s dollars for some reason. I’ve seen this with my ex who wouldn’t even buy me dinner when she “took me out for my birthday”
/r/MensRights10/04/24 05:27 PM
34

At least Robbie is somewhat aware of reality, meanwhile Gerwig doesn’t even understand the difference between equality and misandry. Like most women.
/r/MensRights01/04/24 09:04 PM
1

It’s always daddy issues
/r/MensRights01/04/24 02:31 PM
0

I don’t think it’s about “dominating” lmfao. I think it’s about treating them no differently than other human beings and forming a real connection when most other men gawk over them, put them on a pedestal, and treat them like an object or a prize.
/r/seduction24/03/24 05:34 PM
20

It’s a lot of emotional labor to pretend to care I would say
/r/MensRights13/03/24 04:36 AM
17

No one cares about men in society, that’s why. Harm done to a man is not taken seriously or given empathy by 95% of the public.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 07:49 PM
46

Yeah there’s the actual definition of incel and then there’s what twitter people think it means. I know someone who claimed Drake was an incel, and I was like…? I don’t think they’re even aware that it’s an abbreviation of “involuntary celibate”. Like there used to be a subreddit that was all about men who can’t get laid, but now it’s all about shitting on toxic people.
/r/MensRights27/11/23 09:29 PM
8

Haven’t you heard the media tell you he’s crazy?
/r/MensRights22/11/23 06:49 PM
39

Lol I’m probably below average looking and I get way more compliments from other dudes than I ever do from women. It’s funny but also a little confusing. It’s also almost more flattering in a weird way.
/r/seduction23/05/23 01:05 AM
2

Busta Rhymes is based
/r/PussyPassDenied15/02/23 05:22 PM
2

Yeah I got banned for calling out blatant sexism against men, pointing out that if what the person said was about someone with a certain skin color it would never be acceptable. No insults, curse words, personal attacks, or rules broken. Just a perma ban days later with no response from the mods.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 05:29 PM
1

People are people. Everyone deserves respect and empathy. Your gender isn’t who you are anymore than your skin color is.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 05:24 PM
1

She’s trying to intimidate you into having sex with her… pretty sure there’s a word for that.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 11:25 PM
2

I think it’s a term used mainly by women to invalidate men for having emotional needs of their own that sometimes are in contrast to women’s. “Emotional labor” should be a part of both sides of any healthy relationship. Relationships require effort and compromise on both sides as well as learning how to love your partner specifically. Men provide emotional support for women just as much, but for some reason it gets no appreciation.
/r/MensRights27/09/22 12:57 AM
3

“White men aren’t vulnerable.” Yep that basically sums up how society sees it too. It’s blatant discrimination in my opinion and there is nobody to advocate for this group at all. It sucks not being treated as a human.
/r/MensRights23/08/22 02:01 AM
30

Yes, I was called mentally ill and told that I was not respectable by my ex’s friends and family and completely discarded after she broke into my place, refused to leave, and hit me. This among many other things. Nobody took me seriously. Shit hurts honestly, but at least I know they all have double standards now and aren’t actually good or empathetic people.
/r/MensRights07/08/22 06:21 PM
1

Lol yup.
/r/MensRights02/08/22 11:53 PM
1

Yeah this is very much true in my experience as well. My ex would treat my emotions as though they were less important and valid than hers, often saying things like “yeah but that’s not a big deal” when I tried communicating something that bothered me. She would use things I told her against me when we fought. And most often, anytime I communicated something I was upset about, she would suddenly be upset about something herself (that was never an issue before) and try making it about herself ins…
/r/MensRights02/08/22 11:51 PM
1

I never really understood the whole “girls night out” thing where boyfriends aren’t allowed if they’re going to be talking with other guys the whole night. Kinda doesn’t make sense, only expanation is they want validation/flirting with other dudes which is not being loyal imo. If it’s actually a girls night where they’re there to be with each other and dance/party whatever that’s different. There’s not many girls who would be happy if their man was going out mingling with other women all the tim…
/r/seduction30/07/22 08:32 PM
1

you’re the gilf hunter aren’t you 😂
/r/seduction27/07/22 03:25 AM
6

Am I the only one who realizes this is a shit post?
/r/seduction27/07/22 01:19 AM
3

I don’t think being offensive is what people should strive for, rather just not being afraid that your honest thoughts will be offensive. Telling that joke that might turn some people off in the wrong setting will show that you’re confident and not afraid to be yourself in a crowd, and it lightens the mood too.
/r/seduction28/06/22 06:17 PM
5

Yeah both men and women like to be treated fine, but I feel like in American culture it’s expected that the man treats the woman fine, but cannot want or expect to be treated well in return. It makes you sexist to want that equal love.
/r/MensRights23/05/22 05:40 AM
16

So do it
/r/MensRights22/05/22 07:55 PM
14

Most people are just bad listeners and don’t actually care about anyone but themselves.
/r/seduction22/05/22 06:41 PM
11

Unfortunately she’ll only read the comments that support her I assume
/r/PussyPassDenied22/03/22 03:49 PM
1

Starting to…?
/r/MensRights20/01/22 05:41 PM
1

The worrying about being kissless is pointless. Honestly, you will literally figure it out the first time you do it within a second. Is that one second of possible slight awkwardness enough to stress you out about it? Because it shouldn't be. You've had way worse experiences, and I can guarantee the girl won't even notice that it was your first.
/r/seduction03/12/13 04:55 AM
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