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4

Dumb, almost all actively dating women as well as their friends are in these groups. More mature women may take them less seriously but it's still going to influence them.
/r/MensRights03/07/26 03:44 PM
1

You probably got posted on are we dating the same guy or the tea app
/r/seduction31/01/26 04:50 AM
12

I don't know what that means. If someone wants to go to therapy, I always recommend that they choose a clinical psychologist, i.e. somebody who actually has a PhD. Also, the older the better, usually.
/r/MensRights20/11/25 07:18 PM
36

What the fuck. What are this person's qualifications? Social worker or actual clinical psychologist? Or something else?
/r/MensRights20/11/25 07:11 PM
27

It isn't available for download but it's still useable last I heard. They put a section on their website about protecting minors from harm and a takedown request form - both indicate to me that Apple has communicated to them they will give them another opportunity if they improve moderation. I'm sure the Tea app will be back, there is simply too much money to be made.
/r/MensRights07/11/25 10:35 PM
27

A psychiatrist is not a psychologist. In America, visits are brief and usually once a month max. There is a very small amount of psychotherapy involved, if any. She barely knew me.
/r/MensRights02/11/25 05:16 PM
19

lol no, she was quite older
/r/MensRights02/11/25 05:12 PM
75

Thankfully, have not seen her in about five years.
/r/MensRights02/11/25 04:56 PM
4

I don't think so, I think it was always intended as a gossip platform. The "AWDTSG?" name is only a half-hearted attempt at legitimacy which they don't even bother with anymore. See the "Tea" "sAFEtyY" app whose name is literally slang for gossip. This stuff is basically a societal-level shit test - if you ever believed that these groups were "intended" for good then you failed the test and you don't understand what's going on. Your reputation is being harvested for entertainment, extortion and …
/r/MensRights01/10/25 02:19 AM
0

I hate to break it to you but every woman you know under the age of 45 or so is probably on those platforms. I only mention this because you seem surprised, like it's a rare thing that only a certain type of woman partakes in. They're ALL on there. Look up the groups and look at the member counts. Then look up the Tea app number of downloads. Then realize there's hidden FB groups and probably other websites and platforms men don't know about at all. It's a million times worse than you could ever…
/r/MensRights01/10/25 02:15 AM
5

I don't think it was ever useful. The very idea of anonymous crowdsourced human reviews is detestable. Any truly moral and thinking person will instantly be nauseated by even the suggestion that this could ever be net beneficial for humanity as a whole.
/r/MensRights01/10/25 02:12 AM
4

They will interpret this as a red flag and post him asking for Tea, commenting on how distant he's been, speculating that he might have a secret life, etc etc etc etc You can't not have red flags and it's a private kangaroo court with anonymous judge, jury and reputation executioner.
/r/MensRights01/10/25 02:10 AM
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/r/AWDTSGIsToxic
/r/MensRights29/09/25 08:09 PM
1

What are you talking about? The Tea app profiles literally say "FirstName LastInitial."
/r/MensRights24/09/25 12:16 AM
1

"If I can't have him, nobody can."
/r/MensRights24/09/25 12:09 AM
0

Almost everything you see on the internet is the top 5% most extreme opinions and worldviews.
/r/MensRights12/09/25 09:14 PM
1

What does being a player or not have to do with this?
/r/MensRights10/09/25 02:03 AM
1

Not sure what your point is here...
/r/MensRights10/09/25 01:24 AM
1

Depressing that this dude with his prideful obsession with his PhD and academic achievements and weird conspiracy theories is the de facto face of the anti-AWDTSG movement.
/r/MensRights09/09/25 08:47 PM
1

One redpill here is that men are angry about this app largely because women are the choosier sex, and this is a tool that enables and encourages them to be even choosier. Some men (mostly average to upper-average) will be rendered permanently unf*ckable because of this app and the FB groups. As always, the top men will benefit because it's free publicity. I say this agnostically with regard to the question of whether the app should exist. It is a simple statement of fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 03:38 AM
1

Because of the data leak
/r/EverydayMisandry07/09/25 03:28 AM
1

And, a month and a half later, crickets. Have any of these tech companies axed their relationship with Tea?
/r/MensRights07/09/25 03:16 AM
6

A local (and beloved) public figure in my medium-sized city got posted on Tea and women were talking about the intimate details of his sex life with his wife prior to marriage. Of course hearsay/rumors but It's absolutely disgusting regardless.
/r/seduction27/08/25 07:30 PM
2

This is impossible in the era of "dating advice"/doxxing/"safety" apps/groups like AWDTSG and Tea. Consider EVERYTHING you do and say public and conduct yourself accordingly and realize that even then you'll probably get gossiped about. Your "social circle" is now 5-10 million women on the internet sharing screenshots and the intimate details of every date you've ever been on.
/r/seduction27/08/25 07:29 PM
2

It's too charitable to attribute this to silliness or anxiety. Some women do this intentionally or even schedule multiple dates at the same time and pick one last minute. It's sociopathic, just call it what it is.
/r/seduction25/08/25 11:37 PM
13

There was just an article about how someone was charged with rape for doing this.
/r/MensRights24/08/25 05:55 PM
98

Did you explicitly ask them why the Tea and AWDTSG apps are allowed on the App Store when they violate all of those same guidelines? Keep pestering them, in writing, until they give you an answer.
/r/MensRights21/08/25 12:09 AM
8

Completely volcel for years? How did you deal with that?
/r/seduction17/08/25 03:26 PM
18

I have no individual obligation to contribute to the survival of the human species as a whole. It's a contract that I never signed.
/r/MensRights16/08/25 03:08 PM
1

You will care once it starts affecting your life and everyone is ghosting you.
/r/seduction14/08/25 06:07 PM
1

You could be, but chances are slim if it was just one person. Now imagine you've been dating IRL and online for a decade plus, then what does it look like? That's where millions of men are now. All it takes is one bad actor to post your photo and then dozens or even hundreds of anonymous women can say whatever they want, and you may never know.
/r/seduction14/08/25 03:43 PM
1

What do you think?
/r/seduction14/08/25 03:38 PM
2

Almost every major streamer has covered the Tea data leak at this point, it was even on Fox News and has been in the news cycle for weeks now. They currently have a backlog of 2.5 million users to verify. Please explain in detail how this is not a significant issue for both single men and women, regardless of your opinion on the app.
/r/seduction14/08/25 12:34 AM
2

What do you think is inaccurate about the video?
/r/seduction14/08/25 12:20 AM
1

https://youtu.be/B58pVlGLaR0?si=FjRPUyRx4fMkt55G It's time to wake up.
/r/seduction14/08/25 12:15 AM
11

Almost all of women you are talking to/dating are on the AWDTSG app and Facebook groups and the Tea app which has had millions of downloads. They've read other women's (likely negative, likely false) opinions/stories about you just by looking up your first name and location or phone number and this has likely happened before you've even had the chance to get to know them all that well. Welcome to dating in 2025. Regardless, "You seem like a player." is a classic shit test and the proper response…
/r/seduction13/08/25 02:45 PM
28

Eloquently put but also let's not pretend like the men's versions of these platforms will induce even 1/10th the damage that the women's versions do. You can easily discern this through - the member counts of men's vs women's AWDTSG groups on Facebook, the "believe all women"/"women are wonderful" phenomena, the fact that western society defaults to always seeing the woman as the victim, and the fact that women are much more socially savvy than men and naturally excel in reputation destruction. …
/r/MensRights13/08/25 02:37 AM
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Reddit will - doxxing is 100% against the rules and enforced. These women aren't using Reddit though. Some men have had success being removed from the apps/FB pages but it's hit or miss and you could just be instantly posted again. Women are posting screenshots of dating profiles before they've even swiped or matched asking for Tea or red flags. They'll even take photos of men in public or sleeping in their bed after a hookup asking if anyone knows about them. This is a perpetual risk - even not…
/r/seduction09/08/25 04:49 PM
4

Hard disagree. It's about degrees of separation. Even if a woman is 2-3 degrees of separation away from someone using these groups she'll still hear about the gossip. And they're only gaining popularity with the recent Tea debacle. Women don't mention it to men because it's an open secret and its original intention was to keep women safe from actual dangerous men, which is a noble cause. Obviously, that's not what it's actually used for in most cases. You won't know that you've been posted, you'…
/r/seduction09/08/25 03:07 PM
4

lol why don't you infiltrate these groups and decide for yourself instead of speculating. It's obvious you haven't - 95% of posts are just gossip and speculation or trash-talking dick size.
/r/seduction09/08/25 02:38 PM
6

Have you looked up these groups? I live in a medium sized college town and there's more than 10K members. And that's just the FB group, not the two apps (AWDTSG and Tea.)
/r/seduction09/08/25 02:37 PM
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I don't think you realize the full ramifications of this phenomenon. Your girl doesn't have to be in the groups/apps herself. She just has to have one nosy friend who does. Some women hate to see their friends succeed. It's Mean Girls on steroids. Imagine every woman you've ever matched/chatted with from a dating app dogpiling on you in private and sharing screenshots, imagine your every faux pas and mistake and cringe moment being amplified a hundred fold for thousands of women to see, your fam…
/r/seduction09/08/25 02:36 PM
13

Probably like 3000:1.
/r/seduction29/07/25 09:09 PM
2

This is just probability, the number of people (especially women) who work in HC is gargantuan.
/r/MensRights29/07/25 12:58 AM
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You/your profile may have been posted on your local "are we dating the same guy" Facebook group or the Tea/AWDTSG apps. Women use these forums for defamation/lies/slander/reputation destruction and general shit-talking as well as mate-guarding (your ex may have posted and slandered you because, well, if she can't have you then nobody should.) These groups are advertised as being for women's safety and they occasionally fulfill that function but 90% of the content is just browbeating men. One way…
/r/seduction26/07/25 05:19 PM
1

This app is more than a year old and it's associated with Facebook groups that have been viral for multiple years with at least hundreds of thousands of members. The tea app also does a ton of marketing on Insta and TikTok. Of course there are relatively powerful people involved but I don't think it's any deeper than anything else that went viral. This wasn't an overnight success for Tea.
/r/MensRights25/07/25 08:59 PM
15

You don't have to date somebody to be posted on these apps. Women are posting men before they have even matched.
/r/MensRights25/07/25 03:45 AM
8

This is currently one of the number one apps in the Apple App Store. At least 200,000 people downloaded it in the past few weeks.
/r/MensRights25/07/25 02:03 AM
3

Yes, we do. The more awareness the better.
/r/MensRights25/07/25 01:24 AM
27

It's bidirectional. You need some confidence to become successful.
/r/seduction05/07/25 09:07 PM
9

Who cares. Women who do that are not worth your time.
/r/seduction28/03/25 08:20 PM
0

See Hoe Math's "not people" concept - the population sample that women are referring to in their heads when they say "all men" is really the top 10-20% of men.
/r/seduction19/08/24 05:50 PM
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If this ever happens to you, you must be extremely physically attractive. Sounds like a cool experience but the takeaway is really just follow rule #1, show up, act normal and hope for the best. Doesn't really help average or below average dudes at all.
/r/seduction04/08/24 06:59 AM
11

2013-2018 Tinder was like shooting fish in a barrel. Easily 1-2 hookups or new casual partners per month. Since then (Match.com acquisition) online dating has been more or less dead for me. Exact same profile, even tried age-frauding to control for that. They want you desperate and lonely so you'll pay for "boosts" (useless) and unlimited likes (less useless.) I have some success on Hinge and actually get a lot of enthusiasm and opening messages from decent women but it seems like the app intent…
/r/seduction26/07/24 04:59 AM
36

Tldr be tall
/r/seduction24/05/24 10:50 PM
1

Check your testosterone. Regardless, it's ok to not want to date or have sex. What's the issue? I would absolutely love to be completely indifferent towards women, it would save me so much effort and time and stress.
/r/seduction13/05/24 01:24 AM
1

lol nobody is claiming this. The red pill claim is that those men are able to have sex with young women if they have wealth, status etc., NOT that the young women are physically attracted to them. The claim is that those men can pay for the sex that they want, either with soft prostitution or high-dollar escorts.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 02:53 AM
2

Bro join a church
/r/seduction29/10/22 04:33 PM
-1

lol this is absurd unless your goal is betabux, men age like milk just as much as women do
/r/seduction25/10/22 04:44 PM
0

Look up the statistics on the rapidly increasing numbers of sexless men over the past few years.
/r/seduction23/10/22 10:53 PM
107

This is honestly rapidly becoming the average male experience - don’t let anyone here invalidate it. It’s your life and I totally understand where you’re coming from. The only thing I’d question is whether you’ve tried meeting women in person as opposed to online? Online dating is absolutely fucked and I have a suspicion that it selects for women who are hyper-picky. It also severely distorts your perception of your attractiveness because you’re competing with literally millions of other men.
/r/seduction23/10/22 07:32 PM
2

Yes this is “normal” unfortunately. As men we’re extremely replaceable. I still haven’t really found a way to cope. Something similar just happened to me and I feel like I’m headed for a tailspin. This is why it’s important to meet ASAP so you don’t get overinvested in something that may just not work out.
/r/seduction21/10/22 04:37 PM
2

No, made no difference for me.
/r/seduction18/10/22 12:38 AM
8

Look dude this is cool but given that you’re a self described 8 who used to be a male stripper I seriously doubt the whole dog schtick is what’s really getting you laid. You could probably be much more direct and still have sex (“Wanna come back to my place?”) My point is that the dog routine won’t work for an ugly dude. Maybe this is obvious though. I honestly feel like this sort of post is the equivalent of male models telling incels to just be themselves and that women like them for their hob…
/r/seduction28/09/22 08:28 PM
1

We got a genius on our hands
/r/seduction28/09/22 01:28 AM
1

lol
/r/seduction20/09/22 04:08 PM
1

“bold”, interesting euphemism for “desperate” but ok
/r/seduction19/09/22 02:15 PM
14

Yeah I’m fine waiting a few weeks but my anxiety is gonna skyrocket thinking that she’s getting railed by another guy while she’s “taking it slow” with me. If you don’t make a move another dude will.
/r/seduction19/09/22 02:12 PM
6

After reading this, as a dude myself: Are dudes ok?
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:41 AM
1

Really depends on the context and delivery. Some women know that it can irk some men and they will say shit like that to get into your head. But those women should be avoided anyway.
/r/seduction11/09/22 06:11 PM
1

Proof short kings can slay, good on you man.
/r/seduction09/09/22 02:57 AM
2

what do you look like tho
/r/seduction08/09/22 04:33 PM
1

Tl;dr follow rule #1 and then provide endless post-hoc justification when really 99% of your success is just being hot
/r/seduction28/08/22 08:16 PM
2

Just means your SMV is low. They’re gonna go for the dudes they think they can get because THEIR SMV is low. The world is a mirror. As always, the answer is either acceptance or self-improvement.
/r/seduction09/08/22 12:46 AM
2

No, height is literally the most important physical trait in a man as far as attracting women.
/r/seduction06/08/22 04:09 PM
1

You know why
/r/seduction04/08/22 10:05 PM
0

It does help, you just don’t realize it because you’re used to it. If you were shorter then it would be much more difficult for you, all other things being equal.
/r/seduction04/08/22 07:06 PM
1

being tall
/r/seduction04/08/22 06:30 AM
1

No shit, their SMV is rapidly decreasing so the power dynamic is less severely slanted in their favor.
/r/seduction03/08/22 10:31 PM
1

It’s only creepy if you’re ugly tbh
/r/seduction03/08/22 08:12 PM
2

Opposite for me.
/r/seduction31/07/22 01:10 AM
2

Pretty much the same
/r/seduction25/07/22 02:06 AM
3

In my experience there’s usually no way to maintain attraction if the date is that far away, because there’s no challenge left for her. It’s preferable to wait until she’s back in town and then set up the date.
/r/seduction10/07/22 04:07 PM
3

King
/r/seduction09/07/22 02:56 AM
2

wipe your ass
/r/seduction03/07/22 04:08 AM
3

Awful, so low effort and placating.
/r/seduction01/07/22 07:40 AM
3

I don’t understand the feminization part. Is the point that he’s so hot that even with a feminized face he got matches?
/r/seduction30/06/22 03:33 AM
1

Yep The algorithms changed in 2018 when Match bought all the major apps.
/r/seduction30/06/22 03:30 AM
0

Honestly the best advice is to leave the US. Sadly, Asian and Indian men are the bottom of the heap when it comes to American dating. You’ll have to work your ass off and become an 8/10 just to have a chance at getting what a 4/10 white guy can get.
/r/seduction28/06/22 02:29 AM
3

Who cares, get on dating apps and you’ll succeed.
/r/seduction26/06/22 04:10 AM
7

Based on your photos, you are 100% full of shit or just baiting for attention/validation.
/r/seduction26/06/22 04:06 AM
13

I guarantee you could find a reasonably attractive man to sleep with or even date you. The subtext behind all of this is “Chad won’t date me therefore everyone is racist.” Lower your standards, not every beautiful woman can hold down a top-10% man.
/r/seduction26/06/22 04:00 AM
2

Move on, it’s only gonna get worse. Probably borderline or something. Even the best pussy is not worth that immature bullshit.
/r/seduction24/06/22 03:28 AM
5

What do you look like? I know plenty of dudes who tried this and got nothing but endless rejection.
/r/seduction20/06/22 07:34 PM
28

This is largely a cope for the fact that such dudes tend to just be extremely good looking. Halo effect is real.
/r/seduction11/06/22 03:38 AM
22

I guarantee that you are much better looking than you let on. Your depression probably keeps you from admitting or seeing this. No other way this makes sense. Or maybe you’re a white dude in a predominantly non-white area? How tall are you?
/r/seduction23/05/22 12:57 AM
1

Tinder but this was in 2017. It’s just not the same anymore
/r/seduction19/05/22 04:28 AM
2

5 months
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:34 PM
34

They will if you are good-looking, high-status or wealthy enough.
/r/seduction09/05/22 10:41 PM
4

Just now figured this out? They’ll do this for a few years and then settle for betabux once they hit 28. Dual mating strategy. This is female psychology 101.
/r/seduction26/04/22 05:26 PM
23

I swear to god this sub reads like gay erotica sometimes
/r/seduction27/03/22 05:36 PM
1

What do you look like?
/r/seduction06/03/22 05:13 PM
87

Insane cringe
/r/seduction04/03/22 10:55 PM
1

WOW
/r/seduction24/02/22 05:03 PM
4

Yes he’s kind of funny-looking in the face, but, aside from being a celebrity, he’s a tall white dude who apparently has a huge dick. There’s nothing to learn except that looks and status matter.
/r/seduction18/02/22 12:04 AM
-1

Are you fucking daft? He’s not talking about body fat %, he’s talking about having an ugly race. You can’t really change that, for better or for worse.
/r/seduction16/02/22 11:17 PM
1

What do you look like?
/r/seduction16/02/22 01:59 PM
1

Fake alpha lol
/r/ExRedPill15/02/22 04:15 PM
41

Insane cope. Imagine getting endless attention/propositions from the opposite sex and still thinking that you’re not good enough. Keep coping OP
/r/seduction14/02/22 03:52 PM
3

OP - ignore the advice of women in this thread. They inevitably confuse what they think they want in a man with what they actually respond to in a man. They do not have your best interest in mind. Honestly, if you’re that hideous, the answer is money/social status.
/r/seduction13/02/22 05:34 AM
0

How many of those matches did you actually meet?
/r/seduction10/02/22 11:08 PM
0

What’s your ethnicity/height?
/r/seduction04/02/22 03:20 AM
-2

Being on a dating app
/r/seduction03/02/22 12:37 AM
1

Just curious, how tall are you and what’s your ethnicity?
/r/seduction23/01/22 03:11 PM
33

Honestly never made a difference for me as far as getting laid. I’ve moved out and moved back in. I feel the same either way and have the same success or lack thereof.
/r/seduction16/01/22 07:29 AM
6

Why would a man in his early 20s want to date a woman in her late 20s?
/r/seduction06/01/22 03:59 AM
20

How is there less competition?
/r/seduction03/01/22 03:14 AM
227

Look man that sounds fun but what makes you think she isn’t saying the exact same thing to half a dozen other guys?
/r/seduction19/12/21 03:56 PM
1

No.
/r/seduction11/12/21 03:28 AM
1

Curious about your race, height, physical fitness and location.
/r/seduction03/12/21 12:37 AM
2

Repost from a few years back.
/r/seduction01/12/21 05:00 AM
0

You aren’t hot enough
/r/seduction27/11/21 06:53 PM
1

This leads to the exact same conclusion lol
/r/seduction21/11/21 05:33 PM
11

Entire post could have been replaced with “looks are everything.”
/r/seduction21/11/21 04:14 AM
3

10-20%
/r/seduction30/10/21 05:30 AM
21

astronomical cope
/r/seduction20/10/21 12:45 AM
24

Yeah, why do you think there’s no female seduction subreddit? Well there might be, and I know that women post here sometimes, but generally women don’t get together and analyze dating strategies and try to figure out how they can change their behavior/radically improve themselves to attract men lol. Like yeah some of them do that (or try to attract better and better men,) but there isn’t a “womanosphere.” Why? Because they get laid as long as they exist.
/r/seduction18/03/21 10:56 PM
49

No. There’s a huge body of research showing this. Also, I know online dating is different than IRL, but OkCupid analyzed their data and basically found that men rated women on a normal distribution and women rated men on a bimodal distribution - meaning that, they found about 80% of men completely unattractive and the rest attractive. 80/20 rule.
/r/seduction18/03/21 10:39 PM
0

Cold approaching was always an awful idea. No matter how hot you are, it’s gimmicky and makes you look like a clown. Women aren’t dumb. If I was a woman who got “cold approached” I’d just assume someone was filming from across the street for a dumb pickup video or YouTube skit. I’ve always gotten the best results with “warm approaching” - I.e., there’s some context to the interaction because you’re at the same event/place, whether a cafe or whatever. You have to establish yourself with other peo…
/r/seduction18/03/21 05:41 PM
1

r/whoosh
/r/seduction15/03/21 04:19 PM
1

Have you tried ECT? Ketamine? Check out /r/depressionregimens (if you’ve already been there, apologies.)
/r/seduction13/03/21 05:33 AM
1

Less anxiety probably
/r/seduction08/03/21 05:01 AM
-5

This is meaningless because you could get all the attention/dates you want from dating apps. Hardly anyone approaches anymore. Also, what you actually mean is “I’d welcome it... if he’s physically attractive enough.”
/r/seduction04/03/21 05:38 PM
1

Yeah lol just leave them on read every once in a while and the ones who are really interested will text again. Or at least wait a day or two to respond and see if that changes their behavior (hint: it probably will make them more enthusiastic, if there was any actual interest to begin with.)
/r/seduction24/02/21 03:19 AM
8

Why would you want to be with someone who isn’t enthusiastic about you? In my experience, women who act like that with me are never worth it. Most of them just want attention/validation.
/r/seduction24/02/21 02:00 AM
10

Move on.
/r/seduction24/02/21 01:46 AM
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