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Social IssuesTheRealSquirrelGirl/r/MensRights10/10/18 12:44 PM
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Social IssuesTheRealSquirrelGirl/r/MensRights04/05/16 05:02 PM
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HumourTheRealSquirrelGirl/r/MensRights17/05/18 09:02 PM
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Edu./Occu.TheRealSquirrelGirl/r/MensRights11/04/18 01:39 PM
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TheRealSquirrelGirl/r/MensRights25/05/16 12:56 PM
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TheRealSquirrelGirl/r/MensRights08/05/16 01:13 PM
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Marriage/ChildrenTheRealSquirrelGirl/r/MensRights03/10/17 06:54 PM
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That’s pretty cool! My husband and I both have degrees which have resulted in normal Monday-Friday jobs, which is nice, but there isn’t a whole lot of flexibility.
/r/MensRights26/09/19 09:36 PM
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Works well if traditional school is what you want. Kinda hard to homeschool while both parents work (and we know traditional school is failing boys)
/r/MensRights26/09/19 08:52 PM
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Alternatively, a guy living with his gf who is on the dole as a single mom is being abused
/r/MensRights26/09/19 01:52 PM
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But men need the seat down when they poop
/r/MensRights22/09/19 01:47 PM
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It’s more likely Friday-Sunday, which, assuming the kid is in school, works out somewhat equitably. Her complaining is still BS though.
/r/MensRights21/09/19 11:03 AM
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Regardless of what that is, brain scans seem to indicate that people are pretty good at knowing if they’re men
/r/MensRights01/08/19 10:52 PM
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No, because trans men are not the same as cis women. Trans male brains have a lot in common with cis male brains. https://www.the-scientist.com/features/are-the-brains-of-transgender-people-different-from-those-of-cisgender-people-30027
/r/MensRights01/08/19 10:48 PM
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Nobody can fully transition, they wouldn’t be a fertile member of the sex they identify with, but that is no one else’s business. If a person looks like a man and lives as a man, he’s going to experience any men’s issues that are based on how society perceives him.
/r/MensRights01/08/19 10:39 PM
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Sure, and many of those differences are seen between cisgendered women and transgendered men.
/r/MensRights01/08/19 10:30 PM
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The first add was bullshit, but the writer kind of lost me at the last point. I know feminists tend to refuse to accept trans women, but I’d hope MRAs don’t treat trans men the same way. Trans men are men, they shave, someone shaving with their dad shouldn’t be controversial.
/r/MensRights01/08/19 10:25 PM
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And feminists still don’t support him. But feminism is for everyone.
/r/MensRights31/05/19 02:41 PM
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Likewise
/r/MensRights19/05/19 04:08 PM
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Dignity: Avoid sensationalising language, invasive or graphic details that compromise the dignity of the dead woman or her surviving family members.
/r/MensRights09/05/19 03:34 PM
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We can’t say for sure since his claims aren’t proven true in court yet. Oh! Is this the standard, now?
/r/MensRights26/03/19 12:37 AM
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It’s also really confusing. Rape is about power, not sex, but also, you can accidentally rape someone.
/r/MensRights07/03/19 03:27 PM
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As if Hillary Clinton, Serena Williams, and many others haven’t been unfavorably compared to men.
/r/MensRights07/03/19 11:41 AM
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Last week, my husband came on to me, and I was kind of tired, but we ended up having sex. I can’t believe I married a rapist.
/r/MensRights06/03/19 11:23 PM
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Is their a rubric? Do you have another page or are you missing 4 letters? Was your design supposed to be unique?
/r/MensRights19/02/19 02:16 PM
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When you’re looking at things like homelessness for instance, it’s not just an outcome, because not only are there more homeless men, there are fewer homeless shelters for men.
/r/MensRights05/01/19 04:43 AM
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The article said 95% who received it were women, so, men are eligible and are taking advantage of the grant. While 20:1 isn’t exactly egalitarian, depending on the number of men applying, they might actually be providing the grant equitably.
/r/MensRights25/11/18 02:09 AM
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TERFS aren’t willing to accept trans women into their space, which, IMO, seems like it’s often an extension of their internalized misandry, since anyone with a Y chromosome is considered a violent rapist.
/r/MensRights23/10/18 04:11 PM
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They actually recently changed their stance on it, requiring only that trans individuals be 1 year post HRT to compete.
/r/MensRights23/10/18 02:19 PM
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It seemed ridiculous to me that women who had born with all of the advantages of testosterone should compete in professional sports with women who had not, but my understanding from speaking to some trans women is that rapid muscle loss tends to result from HRT
/r/MensRights23/10/18 12:47 PM
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Where I live, shooting the man would’ve been OK, but the warning shots are illegal, because you have no way of knowing where that bullet is going.
/r/PussyPass21/10/18 02:33 AM
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The prison thing is ridiculous. I’ve heard more outrage for female prisoners not getting unlimited tampons than for male prisoners getting raped.
/r/MensRights11/10/18 12:00 AM
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I fully believe in supporting trauma victims immediately. If someone comes into the ER with a head wound, no one has to go to court to have that person treated for their head injury. A person who says they’ve been raped doesn’t need to be questioned about the circumstances, especially by people who aren’t the police. We can support this man and there is no reason to accuse him of fabricating a story, since he hasn’t set us against anyone. However, if he said “Mrs. Jones raped me”, we need to pro…
/r/MensRights10/10/18 04:28 PM
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Can you imagine if female veterans were dismissed with ‘but almost no veterans are women...’?
/r/MensRights10/10/18 04:12 PM
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This website is their private property. You aren’t being arrested for being an MRA, they can allow what speech they prefer.
/r/MensRights06/10/18 07:53 PM
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It’s not like the post has net upvotes. Looks like an idiot said a thing and people disagreed.
/r/MensRights25/09/18 01:13 AM
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I forgot to charge it overnight, but luckily I don’t have to go anywhere for a couple hours.
/r/MensRights23/09/18 01:45 PM
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I got expelled because I left my purse in the classroom and it had an antique Leatherman Multitool in it. What am I going to do, fix the crappy desks?
/r/MensRights14/09/18 06:55 PM
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Sorry, typo, I meant murdered.
/r/MensRights13/09/18 11:41 PM
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In 2015, there were 2,247 murders recorded https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Crime_in_Peru Men are 9x more likely to be murderer
/r/MensRights13/09/18 11:31 PM
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I know a guy who was able to get 50/50, and secure it by agreeing neither could live more than 15 miles from the other.
/r/MensRights23/08/18 12:47 AM
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Seems like she wouldn’t have mentioned ‘high school’ if she was concerned about age of consent.
/r/MensRights19/08/18 05:56 PM
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It says high school. This actually seems like something you should call the police about.
/r/MensRights19/08/18 05:48 PM
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DUIs look really bad, especially DUIs with kids in the car. Keep in mind that, while women statistically get custody of children, that’s mostly because men don’t tend to take children from their mothers without a good reason. When men actually try to get custody, it’s usually for a good reason, and they’re more likely to get it.
/r/MensRights13/08/18 11:00 PM
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Interestingly, neglect is longterm worse than abuse. Think about the standards we have for discipline nowadays, while what people did in the past would certainly qualify as abuse, the kids at least have the idea that that their parents love them.
/r/MensRights25/06/18 10:18 PM
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I believe it. My father never hit me, my mother (who claimed to leave because my dad used a belt on my brother) hit my brother and I frequently.
/r/MensRights25/06/18 07:35 PM
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That’s true, as far as he knows right now, they’re still a couple, and their family will be together again. Just pointing out the OPs men’s rights connection.
/r/MensRights22/06/18 09:37 PM
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Sanchez and her daughter had left Puerto Cortes, a major Honduran port north of the capital city, Tegucigalpa, without telling Valera or the couple’s three other children, he said
/r/MensRights22/06/18 09:19 PM
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Mom kidnapped the kid?
/r/MensRights22/06/18 08:49 PM
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It’s for him. He’s going to go off with his volleyball, and I’m going to take another kid (not my kid, but a kid I manage visitation for) to see his dad. Popeyes and steak it is!
/r/MensRights16/06/18 12:09 PM
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I’m a woman, but I feel similarly. I’m leftist, but the deceit in the Democratic Party drives me up a wall.
/r/MensRights16/06/18 01:27 AM
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Trying to decide if I should get my husband food from his favorite restaurant, Popeyes, or make him a steak dinner. Maybe both. I bought him a volleyball so he can spend the morning playing without the kids in his hair.
/r/MensRights16/06/18 01:26 AM
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I’m tired of Home Depot victim blaming by selling locking doors. Teach people not to steal.
/r/MensRights15/06/18 06:23 PM
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Where does the ‘one is too many’ thing stop? 180 people a day are dying of heart attacks and she’s worried about a dozen cyclists in a year?
/r/MensRights15/06/18 02:43 AM
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I would be interested in a study on what percentage of men were previously undiagnosed with mental health issues commit suicide. Men aren’t great at seeking mental health, and are often dissuaded from it (I’ve heard a 1SG accuse soldiers who sought mental health services of malingering). To me, it seems likely that instances of diagnoses are much smaller than instances of development.
/r/MensRights14/06/18 09:03 PM
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I just meant in that it does depict the school yard stereotype that boys fight, or threaten one another, or say their brothers or fathers will beat up another boy or that boys’ brother or father, and of course that role that many take on of feeling like they have to defend women. It also depicts a more egalitarian idea that he doesn’t see it as necessary to defend his sister because he knows she’s capable of defending herself.
/r/MensRights14/06/18 12:11 AM
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My son (5) just warned his classmate (5) that if he messed with my daughter(3), she’d kick his ass. I feel like that applies.
/r/MensRights13/06/18 11:50 PM
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They must have really done some damage before 16 as well. Can’t a 16 year old in the UK live on their own?
/r/MensRights09/06/18 12:29 PM
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Summer bridge doesn’t actually require failing, now. Kids at grade level in my district can use it for enrichment.
/r/MensRights03/06/18 01:53 PM
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When I worked at Circuit City I often worked 16 hours a week, and Home Depot told me they wouldn’t assign more than 35. Payroll seems to be a popular place to cut costs, especially if they’re trying to avoid paying for benefits.
/r/MensRights02/06/18 07:51 PM
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Petty side: pick up day is arts and crafts/science project day. If she complains, give her a brochure to a financial planning class. Otherwise, ignore her. If your kids hear these complaints, maybe explain why you pay child support, (because you love them, and it’s important to you that you’re taken care of when you’re not together) and that the judge helped figure out how much help their mom needs.
/r/MensRights31/05/18 03:14 PM
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Would a job application every other week keep him on unemployment in the UK? We have to send about 5 a week in the US.
/r/MensRights31/05/18 03:51 AM
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https://bearingarms.com/montana-c/2016/03/11/four-charities-better-than-wounded-warriors-veterans/ These would probably serve 99% men, since women are less likely to be veterans, and way less likely to be disabled combat veterans.
/r/MensRights31/05/18 03:30 AM
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There have been a bunch of times when seniors in my unit have gone in, talked to the dudes at night, worked stuff out, and made plans for the next day, and then me and any other female who are crammed in with the HQ women show up in the wrong uniform with the wrong equipment, because no one said a thing to us, and then the people in charge start calling us out. It’s a pain in the ass, and an event I could predict every time I heard the phrase ‘women’s quarters.’
/r/MensRights28/05/18 11:54 AM
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Been in the Army(mechanic), quartered with men from my crew sometimes, sometimes stuck with a group of stray women from headquarters. It sucks being apart from your unit, and separating me always felt like it was buying into the idea that they are hiring rapists, and I always trusted the men I worked with.
/r/MensRights28/05/18 11:50 AM
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Bill Cosby was found guilty of sharing party drugs with women and hooking up with them.
/r/MensRights27/05/18 03:06 PM
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Black men get the extremes of the anti-male ideology. If men are guilty by default, black men are doubly so.
/r/MensRights27/05/18 03:04 PM
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Woman here, raised by a violent mom, grew up into an angry, violent teenager. Had a super awesome teenage boyfriend, who, rather than just leaving this fucking psycho who kept punching him, taught me not to hit boyfriends (I know, what the fuck was wrong with me) I think the only thing I had going for me there was that he had a jacked up home too, and while he didn’t like being hit, he equated abuse with giving a damn. I did stop, and never hit another boyfriend after that.
/r/MensRights24/05/18 11:32 AM
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I was just thinking about this and the Parkland shooting. Also a weird, isolated dude. Accusations that they were bullying him by not hanging out with a dude who cuts up animals. But now that it’s dating it’s that boys can’t take no for an answer. Are weirdos who cut up animals entitled to friends?
/r/MensRights22/05/18 07:45 PM
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At least she doesn’t have the kids. I wouldn’t be surprised if there was a case plan, though.
/r/MensRights22/05/18 06:04 PM
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Teach girls not to murder babies!
/r/MensRights21/05/18 01:30 AM
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That’s what this reminded me of. The better a person thinks they are at it, the worse they are. Prioritize, and do one thing at a time.
/r/MensRights20/05/18 09:06 PM
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Yeah, but how come you couldn’t build the cities infrastructure while mowing the grass and fixing the car?
/r/MensRights20/05/18 09:05 PM
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Rape would be the most obvious, since a woman raping a man is often legally committing ‘sexual assault’. Selective service, is only a law for men, so only men get punished for it. The rest are just uneven application.
/r/MensRights20/05/18 08:56 PM
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That’s called grammar. Back in the day, proper grammar was to default to the male pronoun (man, not human; he, not (s)he or he/she/singular they) So it’d be right to say this, and also, “If I go to a doctor, he might give me a shot”, because I don’t know if the doctor is a man or a woman. The singular they, less cumbersome then he/she, less loaded than the ‘he’ default, has recently become acceptable.
/r/MensRights19/05/18 03:02 PM
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I’m pretty left wing about a lot of things, but I hate the idea of saying a dude has to cater a gay wedding, bake a cake with two dude dolls, or in this case see or touch a penis/testicles.
/r/MensRights19/05/18 01:32 PM
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I agree completely. I have one of each, and I also have a brother. Finding a way to balance the bias my son gets from everyone as being older, a boy, and not our bio kid without spoiling him so much he turns into a mama’s boy is a challenge.
/r/MensRights18/05/18 07:30 PM
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Black men are portrayed as hyper masculine. How people feel about black men is just a way of amplifying how people feel about men in general, IMO.
/r/MensRights17/05/18 09:41 PM
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That’s what the title says, but it’s also nice to see that someone is acknowledging that many of these offenses against women are imaginary
/r/MensRights17/05/18 09:22 PM
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My mistake, I misread the story and thought the bank manager had given her a letter.
/r/MensRights17/05/18 07:56 PM
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leaving a final judgment of $2.3 million against Shannon, a stay-at-home mother of three teenagers. He’s obviously not going to see that money, but the blogger has no incentive to work the rest of her life, sounds like baby daddy is going to have a rough few years, even if he divorces her (who wants to risk being accused of marital rape?).
/r/MensRights17/05/18 07:36 PM
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That bank manager needs to be fired Edit: bank manager didn’t do anything. BF May want to invest in a safe though.
/r/MensRights17/05/18 07:27 PM
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Yeah, if you live near me, I’m probably one of those. I can’t not compliment a guy with gorgeous eyelashes. Luckily my husband is chill and doesn’t care if I say nice things to dudes.
/r/MensRights17/05/18 11:13 AM
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This city also has a fairly high LGBT+ population. Some kid who knew I wasn’t my FS’s mom asked if I was his dad.
/r/MensRights17/05/18 10:52 AM
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This is in the Administration building. I didn’t get a babysitter to pick up my transcripts yesterday, I expect many others haven’t as well.
/r/MensRights17/05/18 10:48 AM
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It’s not a federal building, so it seems like they chose to do it on their own.
/r/MensRights17/05/18 01:59 AM
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The embryo will go to the parent who “provides the best chance" of successfully making the embryo into a human. So, if the woman has her ovaries intact and can probably carry it, it’s pretty much going to her. After that, I guess, whoever could afford to hire a surrogate?
/r/MensRights14/05/18 11:23 PM
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You’re right. She sounds pretty controlling, she probably just doesn’t let her kids snack.
/r/MensRights14/05/18 01:24 PM
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How dare you make your kid sleep! Honestly though, you can’t do anything to please high schoolers. My friend was mad when we were kids because his mom never punished him, so she obviously didn’t care.
/r/MensRights14/05/18 12:14 AM
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Exactly. So men being assholes, or men being closed off, shouldn’t be considered ‘toxic masculinity’, it should just be some dudes being assholes.
/r/MensRights13/05/18 05:29 PM
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Yes, I mentioned this in another response, but no one calls this behavior ‘toxic femininity’, as though it were a default female trait.
/r/MensRights13/05/18 05:27 PM
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Some men have not been conditioned not to talk about their feelings, and that’s a huge problem. Associating that with masculinity seems like it increases the whole ‘men don’t talk about their feelings’ idea, it’s just adding ‘because there’s something wrong with being a man’.
/r/MensRights13/05/18 04:37 PM
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Negative social interactions which disproportionately impact women and the way they interact. I suppose that would be women being more judgmental of one another, not supporting one another in the workplace, and gossip?
/r/MensRights13/05/18 04:34 PM
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Ever notice no one ever calls something toxically feminine?
/r/MensRights13/05/18 04:16 PM
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I was pretty proud of my son yesterday, he put the tablet away and went to bed around 10 on his own! But he’s only 5. I’m guessing yours are older?
/r/MensRights13/05/18 03:15 PM
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Yeah, my son is pretty into STEM too, so I’m sure he’ll be involved. I guess the lesson for him would be ‘Don’t buy into the BS but don’t ever argue about it with anyone who knows your name or where you work.’ I’m still holding out hope that he’s gay so he can check out of all that nonsense.
/r/MensRights13/05/18 02:59 PM
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That’s my rule too. They can pretty much eat whenever they want, until I start cooking. I think she means they have to eat at that time because of bedtime, though. My kids do best when they’re in bed by 8 or so.
/r/MensRights13/05/18 02:53 PM
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This has always been my problem. I have my teaching certification and I also have two children. My husband has a job in STEM, which is cool, but I was more interested in teaching. So first, I’m wrong because I didn’t pursue a job in STEM. Women should be trying to work in STEM. If my husband and I decide that it’s better for our kids to homeschool, while I work part time, I’m contributing to the wage gap, so now I’m wrong for not trying to make money. Likewise if I remain a teacher who chills wi…
/r/MensRights13/05/18 02:43 PM
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When I took my armed security class, we were warned that knives are more dangerous to us than guns at close range.
/r/MensRights12/05/18 04:08 PM
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I got Implanon when I was in. 5 years baby free. It should be mandatory for anyone with ovaries who is deploying.
/r/MensRights12/05/18 04:01 PM
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Wow, they’re doubling down. Not long ago it was 1 in 6 women are sexually assaulted, based on self reports(considering sexual assault can include someone smacking you on the butt, this number makes more sense.)
/r/MensRights11/05/18 02:43 AM
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So you missed the entire Bill Cosby partying with women who decided to try to get their self esteem back 20 years later thing?
/r/MensRights07/05/18 04:14 PM
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No, women in the men’s rights movement aren’t evidence any more than male feminists are evidence of female oppression. Typically unbalanced laws and the way the laws are applied are the evidence.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 11:50 AM
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Tenants and roommates sign leases. This makes a lot of sense. I stayed with a guy for a couple weeks after he split up with his girlfriend because she wouldn’t leave and he was terrified that a fight would result in the cops being called.
/r/MensRights18/04/18 05:20 PM
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I didn’t add anything. I was in someone else’s class to observe, and that’s what I did.
/r/MensRights18/04/18 09:19 AM
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I had made the same connection as you did with regard to child support. My foster son gets $240 a month(when I’m replacing two parents), why is my friend paying $650? (For only one)?
/r/MensRights17/04/18 04:46 PM
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If you’re pretty secure in your grade, you could ask her why she thinks that women are so ineffective at teaching boys.
/r/MensRights17/04/18 03:09 PM
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I don’t, but I guess I don’t post here a whole lot. I get downvotes not because I post here, but often when I say MRA kind of things.
/r/MensRights15/04/18 09:05 PM
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In one episode, dad basically begs Leonard not to give up on her because he’s the best guy she’s ever dated, and he’s worried she’ll go back to the meat heads she was dating.
/r/MensRights14/04/18 12:31 AM
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Those aren’t things teachers are allowed to grade, though.
/r/MensRights11/04/18 05:02 PM
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What made you think they were blaming the boys? It didn’t seem like they were saying the good boys were being rewarded, but that the boys who complied more were rewarded. It seems like it’s faulting the schools for grading students based on their compliance rather than their performance.
/r/MensRights11/04/18 04:52 PM
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http://ideas.time.com/2013/02/06/do-teachers-really-discriminate-against-boys/ Thank you for that, I thought the issue was primarily a problem of schools not being made for boys, or female teachers not communicating well with male students. I wonder what the impact would be if I graded all students without knowing who they were.
/r/MensRights11/04/18 02:01 PM
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Hey, might as well cut your hours when your kid is there, then when you’re making what she makes, get your child support fixed.
/r/MensRights11/04/18 04:06 AM
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So, what if you work $300 less a month?
/r/MensRights11/04/18 03:17 AM
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I’m not surprised by a lot of these issues. I was always taped in the Army, which sucked, but I could pass male standards, no issues rucking, and could easily carry a dude larger than me in body armor wherever he needs to go. It’s these 100 pound women who see no indication they’re lacking physically because they can do all the body weight exercises so well that have problems. Miss 300 PT score is now crying in the back of the ruck while a DS helps her with her bag.
/r/MensRights11/04/18 03:14 AM
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I feel like Labor Day should be hijacked to acknowledge the men who die for food and infrastructure in our country. Military, police, and firemen get a lot of gratitude, the city workers who risk their lives for safe roads, electricity, and a functioning sewer systems deserve it, too.
/r/MensRights11/04/18 03:00 AM
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Step 1: Explain its a myth Step 2: Show evidence Step 3:”Well, women shouldn’t be punished for having families/those jobs are undervalued”
/r/MensRights06/04/18 06:49 PM
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I was very disappointed when the only man working at my preschool left. While he was frustrated and offended by the fact that he wasn’t allowed to be alone with female students, (which caused issues when a teacher had to stop teaching because the aid couldn’t take the student to the bathroom), financial motivation was significant. Teaching younger children doesn’t pay well, and I believe professional men tend to want money, which is why they tend to make choices which result in higher income tha…
/r/MensRights06/04/18 04:25 PM
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Lived in a DV shelter with my mother and brother. In lieu of any custody order, they were essentially facilitating kidnapping.
/r/MensRights06/04/18 01:15 PM
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how women and men tend to pursue different career paths They’ll want to touch on that after the drop date. They don’t want to accidentally teach the students that their class is useless and they should have pursued a real economics course.
/r/MensRights30/03/18 02:28 AM
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Mostly with regard to having physical traits which imply we may not have always been recognized as women, like ‘man-hands’, having an Adam’s apple, thick eyebrows, broad shoulders, or toned arms. Most notable examples I can think of are the way people talked about the former First Lady, as well as Serena Williams, because they are muscular. Maybe parenting, for instance ‘Did dad dress her?’
/r/MensRights26/03/18 12:42 PM
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That makes a lot more sense. Many of the boys in my VPK class who go against the gender norm (despite their fathers best efforts) are youngest boys.
/r/MensRights17/02/18 04:36 PM
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What, did boys prefer a boob with a truck on them to a boob with a doll? how are they testing the toys a boy likes on day one?
/r/MensRights17/02/18 03:42 PM
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https://youtu.be/nWu44AqF0iI This is an experiment that was intended to demonstrate the differences imposed on children based on how they look.
/r/MensRights17/02/18 01:55 PM
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I don’t think the study could be done with children young enough to remove the influence of being pre primed from birth unless they did some sort of double blind study that started at birth, where no one who had changed the baby’s diaper has played with the baby, you can’t make the kind of control group that would make this a scientifically rigorous study.
/r/MensRights17/02/18 01:42 PM
0

They accounted for age, but accounting for past experience would be tough when gendered toys are given to children from birth.
/r/MensRights17/02/18 12:53 PM
1

If you could please copy and paste the text into a comment I or someone else would be happy to help. I would recommend waiting until November, as ‘breast cancer awareness month’ is just really overpowered, and I don’t think your message would be well received.
/r/MensRights15/10/17 03:29 AM
8

In case you don't want to do the math, women are 6% of inmates and 6% of people released. https://i.imgur.com/o9PgWVs.jpg
/r/MensRights05/10/17 11:21 PM
1

I was in the military, its mostly men, what do you mean?
/r/MensRights04/10/17 02:42 PM
2

Thank you. Consciously ensuring equity between the children really is at the front of my mind. Having a youngest bio daughter is definitely very different from an oldest adopted son are very different roles, and I definitely don't want either feeling resentful. Siblings are so important.
/r/MensRights04/10/17 02:40 PM
2

We definitely need more male teachers. I wish I could afford to send two kids to the military academy, they have men working there.
/r/MensRights04/10/17 03:23 AM
11

Women are bullied into accepting feminism. If a woman conducted the poll, women might say they are to not have a fight.
/r/MensRights04/10/17 02:56 AM
2

What sort of role models do you think would be beneficial? More sports and clubs?
/r/MensRights04/10/17 12:00 AM
2

Was it strictly gender or birth order too?
/r/MensRights03/10/17 09:42 PM
1

That poor little boy. No, we have no plans to take a healthy little boy and have him mauled.
/r/MensRights03/10/17 09:20 PM
1

I don't see him being rude about it, just that he's more likely to encourage things like football or computers, not baking and dance. If it seems like he might become disrespectful about his interests I'll address it.
/r/MensRights03/10/17 09:07 PM
5

It's possible she's sexualizing something that doesn't need to be sexualized. I slap my daughter on the butt when we roughhouse so she slaps me on the butt when she's being cheeky.
/r/MensRights03/10/17 08:39 PM
1

Do you think, outside acceptance, boys need more prompting to talk through things? Or do you think boys put it out there and just get shot down?
/r/MensRights03/10/17 08:29 PM
1

I really hope there aren't people who would do that to a child! Doing it to a baby is bad enough.
/r/MensRights03/10/17 08:27 PM
101

Drag queen is separate from trans. Drag queens like to dress up and pretend to be women. A trans person would say that they already are a woman.
/r/MensRights03/10/17 07:00 PM
5

You can mitigate your risks by only being willing to work with children in areas with CCTV. I work in a daycare where many people have been accused of abuse (because we work with at risk children who require physical interventions to prevent injury) and CCTV has kept us safe.
/r/MensRights03/10/17 06:36 PM
3

That's not much of a safety net. Haven't you read stories from women who say they were dating men who raped them repeatedly?
/r/MensRights07/07/17 11:39 AM
10

Ever hear a liberal badmouth a man for suggesting an abortion might be the right choice? It's ridiculous. You're right, people feel like potential dads don't even belong in the conversation.
/r/MensRights05/07/17 12:08 AM
38

Here's a pretty good example of why this is an issue. http://m.thenational.ae/news/world/europe/mixed-race-baby-switch-mothers-sue-for-millions So this guy, for 10 years, is well aware they brought home a child who cannot be his, it ruined his marriage, but it took that long for him to get a paternity test. Had they let him, and had his wife known she had been faithful, she could've gotten a test done as well, and started working toward a solution immediately.
/r/MensRights21/06/17 12:50 PM
4

My mother physically abused my brother and I, but will bring up a mean thing my dad said 30 years ago.
/r/MensRights20/06/17 12:07 AM
2

Just like the CDC.
/r/MensRights10/03/17 01:55 AM
1

That was my main thought too, it's entirely too vague. I'm a teacher, so the education sector stood out to me, since fewer women choose to be administrators. I bet the health and safety coordinator makes more than me, but it's not sexism, I just get paid in hugs.
/r/MensRights10/03/17 01:55 AM
1

That was why it looked wrong to me as well. I know police use a pay scale, and I know most are salary. The main thing that would account for the disparity would be if women simply weren't staying in the job as long.
/r/MensRights10/03/17 01:52 AM
1

https://www.pri.org/stories/2017-01-25/trump-just-signed-executive-order-start-building-wall-border And yet, here we are.
/r/MensRights29/01/17 03:27 AM
3

Given longer prison sentences, higher conviction rate, and rape being considered by society to be an acceptable part of prison, a man who served a long prison sentence would be a logical speaker for men's rights.
/r/MensRights27/01/17 12:25 PM
2

Right? Even if we get to crash in jail, women only get to stay half as long!
/r/MensRights27/01/17 02:34 AM
7

Do they mean in jail? Are razors free in jail?
/r/MensRights26/01/17 06:04 PM
1

I'm sure that's what they do when they can, which is why almost no abortions are late term abortions.
/r/MensRights22/01/17 03:56 PM
1

The baby killing he mentioned was late term abortions. Killing babies that are trying to kill their mothers, typically.
/r/MensRights22/01/17 03:17 PM
1

I absolutely agree that none of their extreme ideas will come into fruition, but I also don't fault people for taking people at their word when they make extreme proposals.
/r/MensRights22/01/17 03:16 PM
1

He said he was going to fix it, which would've been cool, if the republicans had given him a chance.
/r/MensRights22/01/17 01:59 PM
1

He asked what women were marching about and I answered. Access to insurance is a genderless issue, but there isn't anything for men which comparable to women needing a medical procedure which people are trying to make illegal.
/r/MensRights22/01/17 01:58 PM
2

I hate the democratic platform where they claim women make .77/1.00, and way too many women and democratic men buy into that. That being said, women's health issues are a concern, as is medical care in general. The republican platform is currently physically dangerous, since life saving procedures pregnant women already jump through hoops to get have been called into question (Trump talking about late term abortion as if the mother just didn't get around to killing her child sooner.) People are …
/r/MensRights22/01/17 01:09 PM
1

Do you mean a doctor who didn't want to treat women? I think med school would require the training, I doubt whatever licensing body covers hair removal is so strict.
/r/MensRights19/01/17 11:39 PM
5

Because males have testicles which probably need to be taken into account when doing a Brazilian, wouldn't the service be different?
/r/MensRights19/01/17 07:22 PM
5

It doesn't work because of the magic words "consent can be withdrawn at any time".
/r/MensRights18/01/17 11:02 PM
4

To add to this, in cases where a mother willingly leaves her children with the father, men I know have been afraid to seek support, since doing so could encourage a woman to seek custody.
/r/MensRights05/01/17 07:03 PM
8

For most women it really doesn't take longer than that initial 6 weeks to heal up, though if we're breastfeeding we may need some extra time to build up a pump supply, too, so there is some necessity for both physical recovery and near constant physical availability. I like the model where the parents choose who gets the maternity/paternity time as well, though. If you are having children soon, immediate skin to skin is great for bonding. My daughter was born via c-section and my husband did the…
/r/MensRights27/12/16 08:44 PM
5

neither the government nor employers have tried hard enough to structure work to accommodate mothering. I wonder why someone who so obviously wants men and women to be seen as equals would be concerned about the government and employers accommodating mothering, and not parenting.
/r/MensRights30/07/16 09:46 PM
4

older brothers are both identifying as boys Brothers identifying as boys would not be trans.
/r/MensRights24/07/16 07:44 PM
1

You didn't post a link.
/r/MensRights02/07/16 02:32 PM
0

Alcohol fucks up our ability to self lubricate, so I could see a clumsy wasted partner finger banging a drunk person and causing this just out of not thinking.
/r/MensRights08/06/16 06:36 PM
1

Alcohol fucks up our ability to self lubricate, so I could see a clumsy wasted partner finger banging a drunk person and causing this just out of not thinking.
/r/MensRights08/06/16 06:33 PM
0

Alcohol fucks up our ability to self lubricate, so I could see a clumsy wasted partner finger banging a drunk person and causing this just out of not thinking.
/r/MensRights08/06/16 06:33 PM
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It also says 'raping or sexually assaulting' which is like saying '50% of women have either beaten or yelled at a puppy'. If a guy pinched my ass or put his hand against the wall behind me so I didn't have a clear egress, those guys deserve to be lumped in with a guy who has sex with incapacitated women?
/r/MensRights05/06/16 02:58 AM
1

Yes, it's bullshit when they let women pass without adhering to the same standards as men. That needs to stop. We need universal standards and if that means 90% of women get the boot, so be it. I'll still be in.
/r/MensRights31/05/16 11:08 AM
1

Sure there are going to be better and worse combatants and on average the men are going to be better, especially if they continue to have different rules for the women. We also have 18 year olds joining the military and 35 year olds joining the military.
/r/MensRights31/05/16 11:06 AM
2

Her being an idiot wasn't related to decreased physical strength.
/r/MensRights30/05/16 08:23 PM
1

A big part of that is the whole 'disposable male' issue as well. In order to maintain a population, we just don't need as many men if we're ok with polygamy.
/r/MensRights30/05/16 06:11 PM
3

Yes, I know, but we don't fight with M 16s anymore, we have the shorter collapsible M-4s, which we shoot people with. We're wearing 60 pounds of body armor on top of that which means we now have limited mobility. Male or female, if you're swinging your M-4 around at somebody, there's a really good chance you're fucked.
/r/MensRights30/05/16 04:55 PM
4

Generally speaking we fight with rifles, which aren't gender dependent, not giant q tips.
/r/MensRights30/05/16 03:55 PM
2

Rose insists she was falsely accused. She believes her accuser complained to the college’s Title IX office — the Office of Equal Opportunity (OEO) — “because his friends were making fun of him for sleeping with me,” because, she said, “I am short and overweight.” Her defense includes her all but admitting he wouldn't have slept with her sober. I can see why she lost.
/r/MensRights28/05/16 02:30 AM
7

Some lazy POS sergeant didn't feel like preparing a presentation on human trafficking, so he called someone from the Salvation Army. If you're not aware, they're a religious organization. So trafficking gets into rape (although she did acknowledge male human trafficking victims, which tends to be forced labor) and devolves into how pornography causes rape. Because if you watch pornography you'll want weirder and weirder stuff and you won't be able to get off from normal sex anymore, so you'll ra…
/r/MensRights24/05/16 06:04 PM
0

The exception being the ones who want the right to deny responsibility for offspring their partners have the option to terminate.
/r/MensRights23/05/16 01:10 AM
3

A large portion of the movement isn't men. A man who was managing to get away with being a deadbeat probably wouldn't feel oppressed by the current system.
/r/MensRights23/05/16 01:04 AM
20

I'm pretty sure he's referring to the headline.
/r/MensRights22/05/16 09:12 PM
8

On the one hand, I see where the term comes from. I've been a mechanic for years but I'll still get no less than 10 tips on something like turning a nut in a day of work (If I humor 1 and try their idea another guy will come tell me to do it the way I was just doing it). Fuck those guys. On the other hand, I've heard women bitch about mansplaining because guys let them know they were doing something dangerous at the gym. Fuck those women. We don't need special words to describe someone being a p…
/r/MensRights22/05/16 04:07 PM
1

Nationality: American Race: White/Native Gender: Female Age:30 Relationship Status: Married One parent family, mother, lower class growing up Parents show no affiliation towards either group Democratic Socialist Straight 160 lb 5'6" Associates degree
/r/MensRights21/05/16 10:58 AM
2

Anecdotal evidence presented in my home suggests that this is not the case. In intact homes of course, everyone is familiar with the daddy's girl cliché.
/r/MensRights21/05/16 01:32 AM
3

Full disclosure, I'm a woman, so obviously this may come off as #notallwomen to you. Yeah, there are a lot of shitty women. Don't put up with shitty women. If you talk to a woman and she treats you like crap, expects you to pay for everything, or acts like you're a piece of shit for liking sex, drop her. There are women who respect their husbands and boyfriends who will treat you well if you meet them. Maybe you need to travel to find someone with a better cultural fit. Maybe feminism and man ha…
/r/MensRights20/05/16 05:36 PM
2

Some ladies rooms will have a room before the toilet area with mirrors for doing makeup. That makes them optimized for all women, even ones with penises.
/r/MensRights18/05/16 10:16 PM
8

I'm a butch woman and I've made this point, just because, while no, it's not OK to question any person's gender, if you don't value the rights of trans folks maybe at least you'll understand you're victimizing the women you think you'll protect with your silly rules.
/r/MensRights18/05/16 06:57 PM
1

Her thing was she was legitimately crazy. She would black out during fights. I'm guessing she got some bruises from hitting him in that girly style and then put together a story in her head.
/r/MensRights15/05/16 05:30 PM
1

When it comes to dating, take control of your situation early. My old boy toy had a rule, a woman could have two dates, he'd pay, after that he'd stop asking her out, wait for her to ask him out and expect her to pay. If she wasn't either paying or really providing good company after 3 dates, he'd drop her.
/r/MensRights15/05/16 02:26 PM
3

That makes this number even worse. My mother had bipolar, which was untreated and resulted in her blacking out and kicking our asses. Still got custody, despite my dad's attempts. She even made blatantly falsifiable claims of DV against him.
/r/MensRights15/05/16 02:16 PM
1

The fact that he's a home owner might be a relevant factor. I'm not a lawyer, but I'd be worried about the appearance that my assets were interconnected, since she's living like his housewife. He might be safer with a rental agreement, even if he charged her $500 and just got a receipt for $500 child support in lieu of cash every month.
/r/MensRights10/05/16 11:55 PM
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Parents doing double duty should get double respect. I see 'happy Fathers' Day to single moms' on FB before people even say it to their dads.
/r/MensRights09/05/16 12:30 AM
182

Because of all those women who don't report their suicides.
/r/MensRights07/05/16 11:02 PM
9

My state has this law, but it never made sense to me. So I can have sex, but I can't choose who I have sex with?
/r/MensRights06/05/16 01:31 AM
2

I thought that too. He had such a hard day after that, yesterday. Today was way a much better day, though.
/r/MensRights05/05/16 05:51 PM
3

Yeah, I got suspended for defending myself against a bully in middle school, but I got a vacation and he got beat by his dad. It's really up to the parents whether it's a punishment, as long as you aren't expelled.
/r/MensRights05/05/16 05:49 PM
1

Yeah, we have CCTV, but we aren't allowed to film or photograph the kids. Huge no no.
/r/MensRights05/05/16 12:57 PM
4

I'm a woman, but our male teacher hugs the kids all the time, and rocks one of the girls to sleep. Outside of this teacher that came from a sub agency, most of the people here are more progressive.
/r/MensRights05/05/16 01:22 AM
4

More subtly. When the girl shredded her stuff and blamed the boy, she knew she fucked up.
/r/MensRights04/05/16 11:24 PM
14

She doesn't. She kicked me right after, hard enough my knee swelled up a bit, and I'm a grown woman.
/r/MensRights04/05/16 10:07 PM
12

Damn straight. I've told everyone at the school this boy has been goaded on by girls so they can go cry when he responds. Girl ended her game this afternoon though, by claiming boy did something everybody in the room did herself.
/r/MensRights04/05/16 10:05 PM
4

You shouldn't date women who are angered by communication style.
/r/MensRights04/05/16 05:05 PM
5

You are kinder than you are smart. I will offer a person a ride once, twice if they seem in danger (Like some guy walking from work when it's a hundred degrees out), but after that, I'm out.
/r/MensRights16/04/16 05:06 PM
1

I can see this. Every man I've ever met from the middle east has been the strange exception to the violent misogynistic muslim culture I've been told about. One was even a victim of domestic violence himself.
/r/MensRights11/04/16 02:10 AM
0

Having a potential child taken away that a man may have been ready and willing to father without his consent could probably count as a punishment as well.
/r/MensRights11/04/16 02:01 AM
2

If she didn't have any evidence (like, even a BSed police report) maybe you could get some sort of appeal based on protection against discrimination as a veteran. Have you been able to get a lawyer?
/r/MensRights09/04/16 08:07 PM
5

First off, I'm sorry you're dealing with this bullshit. On top of being black, there's a lot of assumptions that service members are violent with their partners and children. I'm guessing she threw that shit out there? Supervised visitation is usually a starting point. They'll probably work up to 5 hour visits on Sundays and then every other weekend, and then spring break and summer vacation. If you want a shot at that, you might have to keep chasing her, or try to get a judgment to keep her fro…
/r/MensRights09/04/16 05:40 PM
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Yeah, I can't see that happening either. That bizarre view of a gaming shop makes me feel like she has never actually been in a gaming shop. I guess the ridiculous accusation that a dude she knew roofied a Pepsi in the middle of the day could be satirical as well. If it is a joke, it's dangerously subtle. Maybe the writer is trying to trick feminists into linking to something sensible people will see as bullcrap, thus discrediting them, like the weird misogynist posts from new accounts that pop …
/r/MensRights04/04/16 04:10 AM
1

It would be easy to verify with her name, since she claims there was a big lawsuit, but I can't find her name. Even if the ridiculous 1 in 5 women being victims of sexual assault claim were real, her stories would still defy probability.
/r/MensRights04/04/16 01:52 AM
4

This just in: Sometimes, people are assholes.
/r/MensRights02/04/16 09:41 PM
15

My friend's baby mama was not suitable to care for a child, so he got full custody. Despite him having no criminal background or history of drug abuse, a government agency checked in on him regularly as if he had been accused of abusing his kid already. By default, the government does assume you aren't suitable parents.
/r/MensRights01/04/16 11:13 PM
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http://www.freep.com/story/news/local/michigan/2016/01/29/dennis-brewer-nude-photo-wife/79542262/ A similar crime committed by a man also did not result in being placed on the registry.
/r/MensRights29/03/16 12:37 AM
12

When I talked to my professor about the suicide rate in class, he didn't believe me, but presenting the argument piqued the interest of other students, one even researched it in class. So, if you've civilly brought up the misinformation publicly, you've at least let other kids know there's a debate, and hopefully they'll look into it on their own.
/r/MensRights22/03/16 06:22 PM
1

I liked his mention of the stress of more high pressure jobs. It's an interesting perspective on the 78 cent myth.
/r/MensRights18/03/16 12:27 AM
12

In consultation with the Commonwealth Attorney's Office, it should be noted that in Virginia, all homicides are presumed to be 2nd Degree Murders at the onset of the case. After the investigation has been completed and all forensic evidence is tested and confirmed, the initial charge(s) can be raised, lowered or dismissed
/r/MensRights13/03/16 03:06 AM
1

Do you think personal preference should be up for discussion in the context of men's rights and feminism? If I choose to be in a relationship with a man and we believe in traditional roles which result in me changing poop diapers and washing dishes and making less money because one of us has to be home, that's our choice and feminism should have nothing to say about it. Likewise, if a man wants to be in a relationship with an indecisive, mercurial woman because he finds that sort of thing exciti…
/r/MensRights08/03/16 01:52 PM
1

How does this hurt men?
/r/MensRights07/03/16 11:01 PM
1

Some people accused Big Bang Theory's Leonard of raping Penny when he accepted her drunken offer of sex, so by that standard, I could see people bitching. There are very few places with a legal standard so low that he could have been legally guilty of rape. The US military has a very high bar for consent (Almost to the point that consent could be removed after sex, in the case of the mildly intoxicated) so in that environment, if she filed a complaint, he could have faced consequences. I'm not s…
/r/MensRights07/03/16 12:54 PM
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